Good on Jason for being positive when Emma waved him directly into the friend zone. He seems like the type of guy that you can't really get the vibe of his personality through an online profile, that's why he did so much better at the camp, in person.
Well spotted! So true about Jason. It looks like American girls appreciated him a lot more than the British girls. I thought the last girl he dated was a good match, but... I guess.. not.
Sadly online we mainly look at the pictures, which yeah we would be lying if we didn't, good looks do really help, so sadly some of us with good personalities get pushed aside for the hot skinny girl who loves to party all night!
@Sarcastically Rearranged - He fell through a glass window. And really, life and time change us all. If life's scars bother someone, then they're not who you want for a life partner.
I really love how close their families are BUT I have a feeling that those mom's might get really into their son's relationships.. And once it hits that,they will always stand by their mothers
Saint Sinner I’m not jewish but my partner is. His mother tried to get in the way initially but now she loves me and tries her best to leave me alone 😂
Jason is a real catch. He's funny charming and knows his values and won't compromise. If I was half my age and Jewish, which I'm not. I wouldn't hesitate. Good luck Jason.
Jason Golstein is recently married to Elana Cohen with a baby, The guy dating laura also ended up marrying a jewish woman in Israel and has a child. Natalie I think is still single. They are all on Facebook.
@@doug2279 thank you! I’m thrilled for Jason - I’m positive he’s a wonderful husband and father. I’m glad Jason was evidently able to find someone that didn’t lead to inner or family conflict - I hope he’s happy, too.
Anyone else heart kinda broke when Jason saw he had no responses on the Jewish dating site? He seems so so sweet. He wants to just find the one and “give her all she wants and treat her like gold .” Like aweeee I’m not even Jewish and I sort of related . I’m Wiccan which absolutely unknown by most people and if they do know then they have misconceptions and it’s hard to find anyone who really gets it and accepts it.
Natalie's impossible standards will drop as she gets older because we've all been there at that age. The guy with the dark hair really needs to get it together coz he can't keep leading Laura on when he's still keeping his options open by going along to Jewish parties. Jason seems really sincere, honest and he's not bad looking at all so I'm sure he'll find someone sooner rather than later. Nice little documentary 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@Kelly Marie It's a part of the Jewish faith to not seek converts and it's not appropriate to ask someone to convert to Judaism. In fact, a Rabbi will discourage a potential convert at least 3 times.
@@LoveAsianCulture sexual dancing is not Jewish as in religion, but nothing against the ETNICITY like what you're talking about. His mother indeed wants children of Jewish blood/etnicity, religion is not the issue.
And Natalie is chubby and some men will not want that. They want the Barbie looking woman. And absolutely. As she ages - the broad shoulders bit - LOL come on. Do you care about broad shoulders or a good man? Funny how things change as you age and you see what's important.
Aww Jason how lovely are you! My daughter is 12% Ashkenazi is that any good? Haha, You know I didn't even see your scars until your date pointed them out. I really hope you find your perfect girl and she will be lucky to have you!
Until the girl mentioned Jason’s scars, I didn’t notice. I hope that he doesn’t feel held back because of scars. I think he’s very handsome and the scars are nothing. He will find someone perfect for him. He’s got a lot going on his favour. I’d marry him. (Except I’m in the USA and too old for him.)
I just think it is so sad that people miss out on dating people they would be perfect with because they will only date within their religion. It happenms in many many religions.
@Speaking Truth It's crazy. I see even in my own family the problems religion can cause. I just think it really is so sad that most don't go with their instincts and give that man or woman in the office or bar or shop etc a chance as they might just be the person of their dreams. Instead they hold off because the person must share the same belief in order to marry
If it's their own free choice then it's their business. If you have strong beliefs you want to be with someone who shares them, pretty simple and healthy in the long term. If those things are important to you, of course. See, If I am a practicing christian, go to church/camps/studies and have strong morals about marriage,family etc, how can I be with an atheist or muslim(or other,whatever) with so different beliefs and principles? It would be important to me to be on the same page, simple as that. Same goes to all people, regardless or their belief or other important thing they seek in a relationship. Problems appear when, for example, a guy from a religious family want to date a nonreligious girl but the family is against... the guy should listen to his instinct and do his own thing, ofc. Aaanyway, all this people from this series seem kinda weird to me...and not because of their beliefs. I think they selected the "not so wise" ones...
I would agree generally except in the case of Jewish and Christian beliefs..and for different reasons. As a Christian, it would be hard for me to be married to a non-believer because my belief is the center of my life and it would be distracting to divide my priorities. And pretty much the same reason for observant Jews, except I also think they should keep their lines of race pure..for Biblical reasons. I know you won't understand, but that's my view.
same-background marriages are likely to be significantly much more successful. But those that go to matchmakers, who think they are buying a product instead of buying a service, those people have the problem.
You can convert to Judaism. A strict orthodox conversion is accepted by everyone but it is extremely difficult and takes a few years. The candidate needs to be completely comitted, and their sincerity would be questioned if they wanted to marry anyone who was not strictly orthodox like the people featured in this video. There are other types of conversion like Reform or Progressive which are accepted only by that specific sect.
Exactly. Natalie is a big girl. And guys can see what the future will be. Hard to describe it’s more than just visible - it’s at the cellular level - the survival of the fittest, and Natalie isn’t one of them.
Okay no offence, but the people in such kinda documentries are highly deluded. They seek partners not just out of their league; but from another league altogether😂😂
Hannah B to clarify, do you mean that if you are a good and moral person, the people around you would see those good qualities and you’d have your pick of the crop & not need to look online? Or am I missing something? As well as j date being HUGE, there are also very popular Christian dating sites & ive not heard any real condemnation of the services by religious folk. Though if what you’re saying is that those needing the services are likely not the greatest people in the world, then I guess I can see your point. I’m not religious and hate the idea of people refusing to date someone just because of their faith (or lack thereof), so my personal experience is pretty much non existent in that regard.
@5:56 if anyone here knows Natalie, please let her know that she narcissistic personality disorder and that she needs treatment for it. Guys don’t like women like that, she’s pushing all of the guys away.
Natalie... You have man repellant on with those excessive standards. Like, I hope you read these comments about yourself because it's absolutely disgusting to see someone call themself open minded while talking about men like an accessory. Edit:by the end of it I see she's grown.
I use to think I was fussy with some ideals (but also knowing it would be a miracle to find them all in the same person) Natalie has made me realise I am far from fussy after hearing her list, and being so stuck by it lol
@@LoveAsianCulture it seems that you aren't far from her beliefs, judging a book by its cover! There is nothing wrong with her look and size, you don't need to be fit and thin to be fabulous in this world!
Ladies, don't expect a knight in shining armor when your no dazzling princess yourself. Expect a man who may be a little chubby, a little bald, a little short, a little dull, because at the end of the day, personality and his attitude is what really matters. Not to say you should go to someone who straight up ugly inside and out. Just expect an actual human man and not some God of the super models.
I don't think we woman care at all about what a man looks like, we feel atracted to other things. Never cared at all or measured the looks of a guy. This tv shows doesmt properly show reality
@@Yulia.chandrika I've always been exactly the same, but I'm shocked by how many women care so much about looks and income. Not that men don't too, but...they're men, aren't they.
@@trappistpreserves then they probably do that because they have been pushed to disconnect frm their hearts. Man also have hearts I mean they may play or whatever for some years but they are also capable of deep love which doesmt depend on looks or income of the woman. Its all about how much of a machine you become inside I guess. There is many things in society which are promoting to not feel much and to be just usefull and productive. If you buy too much into it then you end up seeign other people like that too.
Nathalie really needs to lower her ”standards”! She mentioned a guy being a couple of months younger than her as a con, i mean really? If she’s serious about getting a boyfriend she should probably not order a cup cake on a first date and start working on her physical appearance. At least then she could justify her high demands. Dont want to sound harsh but the girl needs a reality check!
alex samdon Dude the majority of woman online are delusional. I’ve seen worse on Plenty of Fish. That’s why they’re using those dating sites because there’s something wrong with them. I don’t think that she’s ugly. I’d rate her as a 7 which is cute, but she wants a perfect 10 and she’s definitely not that. She’s also chubby and she joked around about having a bad diet.
People rank attraction in different ways. I went out with with a man who had 2 year before he the arrogant was woukd be a doctor. The min he opened his mouth he wasn't worth my time. I wouldn't go on another date and told him why. Went out with a police officer master's degree,ect. I got up to use the restroom he grabbed my arm and said I didn't give you permission to get up. People can look in the mirror and think they are such and such number and be soooooo wrong. You think your a 10 well think again your a Zero. You think your 5 well think again your a 10!
John, mom can easily cause problems between him and his girl and make her life hard if they were to marry. Bad idea to marry when the MIL doesn’t like you!
The look on the matchmakers face at @10:00 minutes was priceless she looked at her like have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror girl. Lol I wonder why she's still single lmfaoo
Her legs look funny shaped. Whats funny about that is that she wore pants everytime and you can see something wrong with her legs, even through the pants. LOL
I used to go to camp jca shalom...it burned in the Woolsey fire, they are thankfully rebuilding. And I worked there too. And yes you do get a day off a week.
Im only halfway through watching this but I couldnt get over Natalies sense of what she thought were non negotiable attributes for a date . Phew ! She was so darn picky and with such a sense of " entitlement " and no insight at all
I find the whole dating thing with humanity a completely strange thing now. We have more people and more ways to connect with others. The problem in my opinion is that people have really isolated since covid19. It’s so sad but I believe that those who really want to marry will find a way through this. It’s just very different right now.
It would be fun to know how the three young people have fared two years later. I hope they all found what they were looking for. Natalie was probably too demanding in what she wanted. You should never dismiss a man just because he isn't tall.
Wow, I'm so pleased I don't live in a family who are restricting my potential partners to a tiny minority population and who think finding someone who is Jewish is more important than finding a good match.
Isn’t a good match someone you share the same beliefs with? Cultural traditions? Familiar upbringing? It also makes raising kids a lot easier if you’re both on the same page.
This girl with the height thing is just keeping a reason in her pocket to have it fail. You can tell from her mannerisms that she clearly has never been in any sort of relationship that requires give and take. She’s in for a rude awakening as she gets older
@@mazzaf7575 the problem here is Natalie is looking for a Jewish prince, but she is no Jewish princess. She is overweight and needs to slim down very very much. She can probably catch a guy then and get obese after she’s married.
Ohhhh Natalie... Your standards are Wayyy to high, You seem to be a Lovely person, A friendly.. easy to talk & get along with girl, But you need to actually have the standards you are looking for yourself Maybe set your standards a tad lower .
The mother’s of Jason: She has to be pretty! No Lady, she has to be a good and honest person. What Kind of values do you have? Do you think pretty and Jewish will be enough to make your son happy. Helloooo. Also this Jason is not exceptionally good looking,. I think they are delusional and with a wrong code of values.
Intelligence is not a personality trait. There are many different kinds of intelligence. I have a genius IQ and yet I have loved Men Who could build beautiful furniture with their hands something that I could never do. All of these people are far too young to get married as they don't even know who they are yet.
How old are you Elizabeth? And can you define what is considered 'young' age for marriage. Maybe you married when you were mature. But there are cultures around the world that put an enormous demand on the young to get married. I think you are quite lucky in that case, being a white person and living in the developed world. Most of us do not have this luxury
Is it so difficult to find men 5’10 tall or above in the UK?? Quiet strange .. I thought people in the UK are quiet tall on an avg.. ( 6 feet and above )
At least they know what they want… that’s the first step of finding who they want.. having a lot of standards are better then not having standards in my opinion. Great documentary very realistic.
These youngsters never cease to amaze me with such superficial lists of criteria. If were young again and dead set on marriage (which I never was), I’d be looking for someone who wouldn’t beat me, rob me, throw me out and hold my kids to ransom. That’s all I’d be screening for. They’ve clearly no idea what they’re getting themselves into. Especially looking for someone religious.
Having extremely low standards isn’t a good thing if a guy does the bare minimum you’ll end up infatuated with him… your perception is warped due to trauma it sounds like
If you can overlook her 50 extra lbs,she should be able to throw you a two inch height handicap..I don't think I'm being unreasonable to assume she would be an absolute nightmare to deal with.. she might be daddy's princess, but ......
Jason is a mommys boy. He could really use moving out and starting his own life. Once he is confident and independent he would find the right girl. Natalie is delusional- looking like she does she sure makes lot of demands. Same as w jason- she should work on herself in all ways and the try to find a husband. Richard seems like a true douchebag. Surely he will find a wife but ....
Natalie can't find a nice man in 4 months? Poor child. I haven't been able to find a nice man in many, many years! 😄😄😄😄 Hang in there young miss! At your young tender age, there is still PLENTY of time!!! 🤗💕😊👍💗
Jason is great, but I do feel bad for Richard. He seems really caught between his parents’ version of what his identity should be and who he actually is. Maybe it does change in time but from an outside perspective he’s just not who he’s trying to make himself think he is. And that deadpan comment on the blind date is just wickedly evil brilliance
God I hate this mentality so much. Just be with the person that makes you happy, regardless of their race/religion etc. For those people that want to just ‘look for love’ within a sub-group that ensures common interest - fine. But don’t date someone & look down you nose at them & day they aren’t worthy of marriage because of their nationality or religion! Poor Laura is being lead on and hidden from the family, all whilst he puts her down & talks about her she’s not good enough because of her nationality and beliefs. If you switch up the people & think of it as though they are talking about being white & needing to be with another white person to continue the genes, family connection & white race; as well as their morals & ethics being the same etc. Then it starts to sound real sick, real fast!
I think you are taking it a bit far. I don't see anything wrong with wanting to date someone with the same religious beliefs as you, especially if you have always wanted to bring your children up in your faith. I was christened, and some of my family are religious but it wasn't a big thing. I have tried to find a way in a faith but never seemed to find one that suits my way of thinking. I can't imagine marrying a man of a religion and he wanting to raise our children under that religion. I would want to raise my children with religious freedom to decide what and how they want to believe. So surely if you want to continue your life in a faith then it isn't crazy to consider that your ideal match will be someone with the same views as yourself!
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@@eddenoy321 They are Jewish kid, they don't marry non jews, like it's a matter of ethnicity nowadays. Muslims and Christians marry anyone as long as they are Muslims or Christians(respectively) like literally any ethnicity can work but jewish people have a different thing going on
@@arifahmedkhan9999 Not true at all . Most Jews are not strict and are moving away from religious BS. In fact, they were simply born to a parent who was a practicing Jew. Get a grip.
I think some of these people are really missing out by restricting partners by religion even if they aren't at all devout. It just seems sad to focus on various arbitrary categories like religion, money, and height instead of looking at a whole person. Relationships are complicated and nuanced and I think some people here are missing that.
all who r only focusing on looks might surely get wrong since looks changes but basic character doesn't hence tht is more important for to see interms of compatibility rather than focus on looks only like natalie, etc.
For some reason I get that a lot of these girls are stuck up selfcenter and really picky and they shouldn't be because they're not that cute!! Especially that one girl that says she likes ham she also likes wine a lot cuz she drank like 3 cups in the first 5 minutes on their date! Lol
23 barely gotten out of high school? At 23 I was at my last year of bachelor degree. Not saying that people should get married at that age but certainly you’re not a highschooler..
It's also not a simple process (you have to be Orthodox) & as mentioned you're always seen as 'the convert' and not really 'truly' Jewish in a lot of cases.
Good on Jason for being positive when Emma waved him directly into the friend zone. He seems like the type of guy that you can't really get the vibe of his personality through an online profile, that's why he did so much better at the camp, in person.
Well spotted! So true about Jason. It looks like American girls appreciated him a lot more than the British girls. I thought the last girl he dated was a good match, but... I guess.. not.
Sadly online we mainly look at the pictures, which yeah we would be lying if we didn't, good looks do really help, so sadly some of us with good personalities get pushed aside for the hot skinny girl who loves to party all night!
@@lozzylols Amen sister!
If Jason needs female friends.He would have gone to a club. And people wonder why there's more women than men in these events.
Awww, Jason is a really nice guy. I hope he has found real love with someone who appreciates him.
His head looks deformed.
@@sarcasticallyrearranged He has "Jew head"
@Sarcastically Rearranged - He fell through a glass window. And really, life and time change us all. If life's scars bother someone, then they're not who you want for a life partner.
Jason is adorable. I hope he has found his special someone. He has such a great attitude.
Jason is so lovely, I hope he has found his love match, Who ever gets him will be a happy girl.
He is married with a child now he is on facebook as jason goldstein
@@doug2279 Fantastic, thanks for the info.
@@doug2279 yeey, thank you for the update. That is so nice to hear.
I really love how close their families are BUT I have a feeling that those mom's might get really into their son's relationships.. And once it hits that,they will always stand by their mothers
As a Jew you have no idea.
Yeah I agree with you
Lol I’m Jewish and I absolutely adore my boyfriends Mom (he’s Jewish too). It can be really really good... or really really bad.
Saint Sinner I’m not jewish but my partner is. His mother tried to get in the way initially but now she loves me and tries her best to leave me alone 😂
Jason is a real catch. He's funny charming and knows his values and won't compromise. If I was half my age and Jewish, which I'm not. I wouldn't hesitate. Good luck Jason.
I would love an update on all the people featured in this documentary.
Jason Golstein is recently married to Elana Cohen with a baby, The guy dating laura also ended up marrying a jewish woman in Israel and has a child. Natalie I think is still single. They are all on Facebook.
@@doug2279 thank you! I’m thrilled for Jason - I’m positive he’s a wonderful husband and father. I’m glad Jason was evidently able to find someone that didn’t lead to inner or family conflict - I hope he’s happy, too.
Anyone else heart kinda broke when Jason saw he had no responses on the Jewish dating site? He seems so so sweet. He wants to just find the one and “give her all she wants and treat her like gold .” Like aweeee I’m not even Jewish and I sort of related . I’m Wiccan which absolutely unknown by most people and if they do know then they have misconceptions and it’s hard to find anyone who really gets it and accepts it.
Kenzieisawkward oh, you're Wiccan...close to being Jewish! Probably the same ethnic background anyhow!
Of course, he has no luck with the date platform, because he has written to all the same text. How unimaginative.
Natalie's impossible standards will drop as she gets older because we've all been there at that age. The guy with the dark hair really needs to get it together coz he can't keep leading Laura on when he's still keeping his options open by going along to Jewish parties. Jason seems really sincere, honest and he's not bad looking at all so I'm sure he'll find someone sooner rather than later. Nice little documentary 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@Kelly Marie It's a part of the Jewish faith to not seek converts and it's not appropriate to ask someone to convert to Judaism. In fact, a Rabbi will discourage a potential convert at least 3 times.
@@LoveAsianCulture sexual dancing is not Jewish as in religion, but nothing against the ETNICITY like what you're talking about. His mother indeed wants children of Jewish blood/etnicity, religion is not the issue.
kashmiri?
And Natalie is chubby and some men will not want that. They want the Barbie looking woman. And absolutely. As she ages - the broad shoulders bit - LOL come on. Do you care about broad shoulders or a good man? Funny how things change as you age and you see what's important.
Go get your psychology degree that is what my daughter and I have, you believe you know from an edited documentary!!?? Hahaha
I think a man can be bald and extremely sexy. What’s on the inside is also very important. I never noticed beautiful Jason’s scars.
I don't like that Richard is treating Laura as second-rank like that. Especially if he's keeping her in the dark as to why.
Aww Jason how lovely are you! My daughter is 12% Ashkenazi is that any good? Haha, You know I didn't even see your scars until your date pointed them out. I really hope you find your perfect girl and she will be lucky to have you!
He's married now and has a daughter, hes fab
@@peacelove7495 That's so good to hear, I wish his family nothing but good things! Keep safe and well x
Until the girl mentioned Jason’s scars, I didn’t notice.
I hope that he doesn’t feel held back because of scars.
I think he’s very handsome and the scars are nothing. He will find someone perfect for him. He’s got a lot going on his favour.
I’d marry him. (Except I’m in the USA and too old for him.)
I thought they were veins until she said scars
If he looked for beautiful girl why should not she look for good looking male too?
What scars?
Girls can tell when a guy copies and pastes his message. We see it around other places on the same site very quickly.
Richard is a jerk! I hate him wasting Laura's time. He wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot.
I just think it is so sad that people miss out on dating people they would be perfect with because they will only date within their religion. It happenms in many many religions.
@Speaking Truth It's crazy. I see even in my own family the problems religion can cause. I just think it really is so sad that most don't go with their instincts and give that man or woman in the office or bar or shop etc a chance as they might just be the person of their dreams. Instead they hold off because the person must share the same belief in order to marry
If it's their own free choice then it's their business. If you have strong beliefs you want to be with someone who shares them, pretty simple and healthy in the long term. If those things are important to you, of course. See, If I am a practicing christian, go to church/camps/studies and have strong morals about marriage,family etc, how can I be with an atheist or muslim(or other,whatever) with so different beliefs and principles? It would be important to me to be on the same page, simple as that. Same goes to all people, regardless or their belief or other important thing they seek in a relationship. Problems appear when, for example, a guy from a religious family want to date a nonreligious girl but the family is against... the guy should listen to his instinct and do his own thing, ofc. Aaanyway, all this people from this series seem kinda weird to me...and not because of their beliefs. I think they selected the "not so wise" ones...
I would agree generally except in the case of Jewish and Christian beliefs..and for different reasons. As a Christian, it would be hard for me to be married to a non-believer because my belief is the center of my life and it would be distracting to divide my priorities. And pretty much the same reason for observant Jews, except I also think they should keep their lines of race pure..for Biblical reasons. I know you won't understand, but that's my view.
justmadeit2 completely agree with you
same-background marriages are likely to be significantly much more successful. But those that go to matchmakers, who think they are buying a product instead of buying a service, those people have the problem.
My Brother married a non jew who was willing to convert . Her parents weren't religious and went along with it . Sometimes it can work out that way !
@Gantz akira I've never heard that but there are different levels of orthodoxy among Jews so possibly not in in some circles .
@Gantz akira You are an ignorant,and with a fake name.If ypur mother isnt jewish,you still can convert
@Gantz akira I mean, the woman converted, therefore she is now Jewish so yes, her kids will be Jewish as well.
You can convert to Judaism. A strict orthodox conversion is accepted by everyone but it is extremely difficult and takes a few years. The candidate needs to be completely comitted, and their sincerity would be questioned if they wanted to marry anyone who was not strictly orthodox like the people featured in this video.
There are other types of conversion like Reform or Progressive which are accepted only by that specific sect.
there is o such thing as converting to judaism. you guys are delusional
Good luck Jason. Good lad
Natalie better start hanging out at the Big and Tall Menswear Shop.
Exactly. Natalie is a big girl. And guys can see what the future will be. Hard to describe it’s more than just visible - it’s at the cellular level - the survival of the fittest, and Natalie isn’t one of them.
I enjoyed this~ thank you ...& yes I am single at age 47 and never was married nor ever had children 👍😊
But hey with God all things are possible ❤️
Okay no offence, but the people in such kinda documentries are highly deluded. They seek partners not just out of their league; but from another league altogether😂😂
there is no league
Hannah B to clarify, do you mean that if you are a good and moral person, the people around you would see those good qualities and you’d have your pick of the crop & not need to look online? Or am I missing something? As well as j date being HUGE, there are also very popular Christian dating sites & ive not heard any real condemnation of the services by religious folk.
Though if what you’re saying is that those needing the services are likely not the greatest people in the world, then I guess I can see your point.
I’m not religious and hate the idea of people refusing to date someone just because of their faith (or lack thereof), so my personal experience is pretty much non existent in that regard.
There's no league when you follow abrahamic religions.
Well...Aren't you judgmental...shallow and ignorant.
Priyanka Das I stay away from dating sites for that reason. They’re always full of a bunch of ugly chicks with super high standards.
"Not to be insulting in any way"-Goes on to insult him!😂
Bruh, when a girl look at her watch during a date, you already know it's a no!
26:44 "I dont kill people"
"That's a good thing to know, cause i was getting a bit worried" LOL
@Gantz akira bullshit.
Jemima Just he was feeling nervous about jwer8ng her because he thought she was pretty but she turned out to be a beast with a hump LMAO
Gantz akira true. Real Jews also don't eat pork. At all. She's an idiot
she was awful i thought, bra straps and poor attitude
Gantz akira We get it. You’re an antisemite.
@5:56 if anyone here knows Natalie, please let her know that she narcissistic personality disorder and that she needs treatment for it. Guys don’t like women like that, she’s pushing all of the guys away.
I agree with this!
Natalie, bless your heart. A little bit of self awareness will go a long way in your search for a partner. I do wish you the best of luck.
Any guy who tells a gal he has a "meeting " in 9 minutes?! I would excuse myself and leave. Totally rude, selfish.
obviously he's not interested because if he was really interested those meetings or whatever he had in his agenda would have been obsolete!!
Good for both of ya
We never know whether he's really busy. Probably, he has other priorities. 9 mins is a good start, least it's something.
Natalie... You have man repellant on with those excessive standards. Like, I hope you read these comments about yourself because it's absolutely disgusting to see someone call themself open minded while talking about men like an accessory.
Edit:by the end of it I see she's grown.
bee pot yes she's grown even more huge LOL and her head got bigger, literally!!
I use to think I was fussy with some ideals (but also knowing it would be a miracle to find them all in the same person) Natalie has made me realise I am far from fussy after hearing her list, and being so stuck by it lol
@@LoveAsianCulture it seems that you aren't far from her beliefs, judging a book by its cover! There is nothing wrong with her look and size, you don't need to be fit and thin to be fabulous in this world!
I see all the others have settled down and gotten married except for Natalie, does anyone know if she ever found mr right in the end?
Ladies, don't expect a knight in shining armor when your no dazzling princess yourself. Expect a man who may be a little chubby, a little bald, a little short, a little dull, because at the end of the day, personality and his attitude is what really matters. Not to say you should go to someone who straight up ugly inside and out. Just expect an actual human man and not some God of the super models.
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I don't think we woman care at all about what a man looks like, we feel atracted to other things. Never cared at all or measured the looks of a guy. This tv shows doesmt properly show reality
@@Yulia.chandrika I've always been exactly the same, but I'm shocked by how many women care so much about looks and income. Not that men don't too, but...they're men, aren't they.
@@trappistpreserves then they probably do that because they have been pushed to disconnect frm their hearts. Man also have hearts I mean they may play or whatever for some years but they are also capable of deep love which doesmt depend on looks or income of the woman.
Its all about how much of a machine you become inside I guess.
There is many things in society which are promoting to not feel much and to be just usefull and productive.
If you buy too much into it then you end up seeign other people like that too.
I am Jewish. My father said I had better marry a nice Jewish boy. I did at 24. WORST mistake of my life, Got divorced.
whyyy?
@@SaraLevins he was a control freak & very verbally abusive
@@isellorganic how old was he? what was his problem?
@@bevs9995 he was a kid. He never really told me the whole story
You can search for a perfect person only if you are perfect.
Nathalie really needs to lower her ”standards”! She mentioned a guy being a couple of months younger than her as a con, i mean really? If she’s serious about getting a boyfriend she should probably not order a cup cake on a first date and start working on her physical appearance. At least then she could justify her high demands. Dont want to sound harsh but the girl needs a reality check!
The reason she has impossible standards is because she’s insecure. The higher the standards, the harder to find someone who could reject her.
alex samdon Dude the majority of woman online are delusional. I’ve seen worse on Plenty of Fish. That’s why they’re using those dating sites because there’s something wrong with them.
I don’t think that she’s ugly. I’d rate her as a 7 which is cute, but she wants a perfect 10 and she’s definitely not that. She’s also chubby and she joked around about having a bad diet.
People rank attraction in different ways. I went out with with a man who had 2 year before he the arrogant was woukd be a doctor. The min he opened his mouth he wasn't worth my time. I wouldn't go on another date and told him why.
Went out with a police officer master's degree,ect. I got up to use the restroom he grabbed my arm and said I didn't give you permission to get up.
People can look in the mirror and think they are such and such number and be soooooo wrong. You think your a 10 well think again your a Zero. You think your 5 well think again your a 10!
3monsters014 wow! I hear u girl! Stay safe!
3monsters014 Should never go on a date with a police officer.. unless you are also one. That’s dangerous..
Jason is just sweet, charming , genuine , and happy go lucky nice guy, but his Mum omg 😱🙈
He is NOT going to marry his mom
John, mom can easily cause problems between him and his girl and make her life hard if they were to marry.
Bad idea to marry when the MIL doesn’t like you!
Repent don't say God name in vain
He won’t find the girls girl until he stops asking his mom what does she think
Jason is married with a daughter now 😀
The look on the matchmakers face at @10:00 minutes was priceless she looked at her like have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror girl. Lol I wonder why she's still single lmfaoo
Her legs look funny shaped. Whats funny about that is that she wore pants everytime and you can see something wrong with her legs, even through the pants. LOL
Both of their backs are facing at the 10:00 mark -_-
No she disnt. She looked at her like are you ridiculous? A tall Jew. I still have met one in my entire life.
Donald Trump married Melania, so she probably thinks if he could why I can’t
Did she really just tell him she goes to the gym??? LMAO LIAR!
Such a bunch of babies. They are all nice but love is not about finding perfection. It's about genuine connexion.
The best comment on this thread. Lol. xD
I used to go to camp jca shalom...it burned in the Woolsey fire, they are thankfully rebuilding. And I worked there too. And yes you do get a day off a week.
Jason is so innocent and sweet.
Has to be tall.... problem is the guy might say, has to be "slim" ....
someone should tell natalie perfection does not exist, she should know as she's far from it.
The irony of that Richard lad wearing a Volkswagen tshirt lol 😂😂😂
i guess i'm the 10th person who understood your joke , although im sure many didnt get it otherwise you would have gotten a lot more likes. lol
Grow up Natalie. You will be single until you do.
Jason is very much my type but I’m very much not his. 👌🏾❤️
Im only halfway through watching this but I couldnt get over Natalies sense of what she thought were non negotiable attributes for a date . Phew ! She was so darn picky and with such a sense of " entitlement " and no insight at all
Is it just me or does Natalie look like a Little Britain character?
vicky!
I thought that too
I find the whole dating thing with humanity a completely strange thing now. We have more people and more ways to connect with others. The problem in my opinion is that people have really isolated since covid19. It’s so sad but I believe that those who really want to marry will find a way through this. It’s just very different right now.
These dating or pairing for marriage documentaries are interesting but sad.
" Even though she's 22, Natalie never had a boyfriend"
Damn the narrator is brutal 🤭🤭🤭
I know a Jewish man who looks and acts just like Jason. He is in his 40s and still single sadly.
It would be fun to know how the three young people have fared two years later. I hope they all found what they were looking for. Natalie was probably too demanding in what she wanted. You should never dismiss a man just because he isn't tall.
Jason is married and has a daughter :)
I’m too tall and that doesn’t help either
You’ll know you love someone when you head and your heart agree..
Wow, I'm so pleased I don't live in a family who are restricting my potential partners to a tiny minority population and who think finding someone who is Jewish is more important than finding a good match.
Isn’t a good match someone you share the same beliefs with? Cultural traditions? Familiar upbringing? It also makes raising kids a lot easier if you’re both on the same page.
This girl with the height thing is just keeping a reason in her pocket to have it fail. You can tell from her mannerisms that she clearly has never been in any sort of relationship that requires give and take. She’s in for a rude awakening as she gets older
I haven't met many Jews who are tall. So she better look for a convert.
@@3monsters014 they DO exist. I know a few, and one of them is super tall at 6'9"!
she's literally a 4/10. gross face and personality
She’s incredibly immature and it’s clear she has never had any sort of relationship. She’s looking for a Disney prince who doesn’t exist
@@mazzaf7575 the problem here is Natalie is looking for a Jewish prince, but she is no Jewish princess. She is overweight and needs to slim down very very much. She can probably catch a guy then and get obese after she’s married.
Does Laura know that Richard is looking for a Jewish girl whilst dating her ?
great question!
I would assume she does now
Ohhhh Natalie...
Your standards are Wayyy to high, You seem to be a Lovely person, A friendly..
easy to talk & get along with girl,
But you need to actually have the standards you are looking for yourself
Maybe set your standards a tad lower .
The mother’s of Jason: She has to be pretty! No Lady, she has to be a good and honest person. What Kind of values do you have? Do you think pretty and Jewish will be enough to make your son happy. Helloooo. Also this Jason is not exceptionally good looking,. I think they are delusional and with a wrong code of values.
I think she meant her son wanted a girl who was pretty, rather than she herself prioritising that.
@@megisthus Yes thats how I perceived the mothers she has to Pretty comment,
Plus we all have vastly different thoughts 0n what's Pretty ?!
The girl in pink dress 🙄🤦🏻♀️ white bra sticking out 🤦🏻♀️
Intelligence is not a personality trait. There are many different kinds of intelligence. I have a genius IQ and yet I have loved Men Who could build beautiful furniture with their hands something that I could never do. All of these people are far too young to get married as they don't even know who they are yet.
Hi how are you
How old are you Elizabeth? And can you define what is considered 'young' age for marriage. Maybe you married when you were mature. But there are cultures around the world that put an enormous demand on the young to get married. I think you are quite lucky in that case, being a white person and living in the developed world. Most of us do not have this luxury
the look on his face when he got no replies ;(
Breaks my heart
I felt his pain
so sad that money and looks over rule love
Yeah, I felt for him.😔
Is it so difficult to find men 5’10 tall or above in the UK?? Quiet strange .. I thought people in the UK are quiet tall on an avg.. ( 6 feet and above )
26:45 Some brilliant deadpan sarcasm right there.
At least they know what they want… that’s the first step of finding who they want.. having a lot of standards are better then not having standards in my opinion. Great documentary very realistic.
So why is Natalie so picky and have all of these expectations when she definitely has ISSUES of her own? That’s just rude.
Yes I agree
I found this one alot easier to watch than the christian one
Miss Quinn really?
Same, their religious values didn't get in the way so much, and it seems you don't have to save yourself for marriage either!
Same
@@lozzylols u have to save urself for marriage
Wow i end up listening and watching these soulmates searching sounds great and enjoy watching,, i wonder if these people truely meet their soulmates😊
I work in teaching like yourself.. but outside. And Not in a school. 😂😂😂
It's impossible to find all the qualities you want in one person. Sometimes you have to compromise and choose someone who has 5 out of 10.
When Tony Romo's not calling games on CBS, he's over in England on JDate.
These youngsters never cease to amaze me with such superficial lists of criteria. If were young again and dead set on marriage (which I never was), I’d be looking for someone who wouldn’t beat me, rob me, throw me out and hold my kids to ransom. That’s all I’d be screening for. They’ve clearly no idea what they’re getting themselves into. Especially looking for someone religious.
Wow, your standards couldn’t be much lower!
You’re not asking for much.
Having extremely low standards isn’t a good thing if a guy does the bare minimum you’ll end up infatuated with him… your perception is warped due to trauma it sounds like
I think Natalie is gorgeous but I'm only 5'10 and a 1/2 and I don't have a career. I am Jewish though :)
If you can overlook her 50 extra lbs,she should be able to throw you a two inch height handicap..I don't think I'm being unreasonable to assume she would be an absolute nightmare to deal with.. she might be daddy's princess, but ......
You're too good for her!! 😀 💖 👍
4:05 when his friend tells him he's gone mad for thinking gambling is acceptable xD I DIED
Jason is a mommys boy. He could really use moving out and starting his own life. Once he is confident and independent he would find the right girl.
Natalie is delusional- looking like she does she sure makes lot of demands. Same as w jason- she should work on herself in all ways and the try to find a husband.
Richard seems like a true douchebag. Surely he will find a wife but ....
I never knew they actually go out to clubs partying being orthodox, now i know!
None of these people are really orthodox. It's more traditional
Tamar- not true. They’re modern orthodox. You’re thinking of Hasidism.
I like Jason a lot, but I’m not Jew
Lol @ writing "gambling" as a hobby 🤣🤣
Natalie can't find a nice man in 4 months? Poor child.
I haven't been able to find a nice man in many, many years! 😄😄😄😄
Hang in there young miss! At your young tender age, there is still PLENTY of time!!! 🤗💕😊👍💗
Poor Richard! I feel sorry for him not being able to find the right lady because she may not be Jewish. It breaks my heart
54:30 I didn't even notice his scar until she asked about it.
I hope all of these young people have found love. It would be great to know where they are at now.
Love those Jewish matchmakers
I love how Adam starts playing ‘Jewish Geography’ whilst speed dating, we all do it: “I’m from Manchester, oh who do you know there?”
I wanna see Eric Cartman's reaction on this documentary.
Laura is adorable!
I'm here single praying for a God fearing husband. In London.
I know many females that were just like Nathalie they are now in their 60’s and 70’s and still never married.
Good luck to all.
"Women, sit at the back, please" -- this why I'm Jewish culturally and not religiously
Jason is great, but I do feel bad for Richard. He seems really caught between his parents’ version of what his identity should be and who he actually is. Maybe it does change in time but from an outside perspective he’s just not who he’s trying to make himself think he is.
And that deadpan comment on the blind date is just wickedly evil brilliance
Richard could ask Laura to convert! That was never mentioned.
God I hate this mentality so much. Just be with the person that makes you happy, regardless of their race/religion etc. For those people that want to just ‘look for love’ within a sub-group that ensures common interest - fine. But don’t date someone & look down you nose at them & day they aren’t worthy of marriage because of their nationality or religion! Poor Laura is being lead on and hidden from the family, all whilst he puts her down & talks about her she’s not good enough because of her nationality and beliefs.
If you switch up the people & think of it as though they are talking about being white & needing to be with another white person to continue the genes, family connection & white race; as well as their morals & ethics being the same etc. Then it starts to sound real sick, real fast!
I think you are taking it a bit far. I don't see anything wrong with wanting to date someone with the same religious beliefs as you, especially if you have always wanted to bring your children up in your faith.
I was christened, and some of my family are religious but it wasn't a big thing. I have tried to find a way in a faith but never seemed to find one that suits my way of thinking. I can't imagine marrying a man of a religion and he wanting to raise our children under that religion. I would want to raise my children with religious freedom to decide what and how they want to believe. So surely if you want to continue your life in a faith then it isn't crazy to consider that your ideal match will be someone with the same views as yourself!
how do bald men keep the jewish cap thing on their head..... double sided tape? lols
Oh my gosh, that's what I want to know.
There is a tape meant for toupe that works well or the wearer can have one make of suede that grips more. Another option is a slighter larger size so it kinda hugs the head.
Mina ...better still,marry one n find out
usually they put bigger ones - pope style
It’s called a kippah and unless your head is a perfect sphere, they don’t typically slide off.
This documentary is rather old!
Hanya Q perhaps. Do you have any problem with that?😊
Not sure why Natalie is so fussy.
Europa 17 IKR, just get a thin Filipina that is easy on the eyes and the wallet.
She's got her reasons.
@@RebekahAPinto yea being a jerk and a hallucinater.
@@eddenoy321 They are Jewish kid, they don't marry non jews, like it's a matter of ethnicity nowadays. Muslims and Christians marry anyone as long as they are Muslims or Christians(respectively) like literally any ethnicity can work but jewish people have a different thing going on
@@arifahmedkhan9999 Not true at all . Most Jews are not strict and are moving away from religious BS. In fact, they were simply born to a parent who was a practicing Jew. Get a grip.
I think some of these people are really missing out by restricting partners by religion even if they aren't at all devout. It just seems sad to focus on various arbitrary categories like religion, money, and height instead of looking at a whole person. Relationships are complicated and nuanced and I think some people here are missing that.
The thing is i am not sure many women want to marry and entrust their lives into men's hands.
all who r only focusing on looks might surely get wrong since looks changes but basic character doesn't hence tht is more important for to see interms of compatibility rather than focus on looks only like natalie, etc.
As a Jew myself, I am disgusted at the level of dating delusion within my community 🤦♂️
For some reason I get that a lot of these girls are stuck up selfcenter and really picky and they shouldn't be because they're not that cute!! Especially that one girl that says she likes ham she also likes wine a lot cuz she drank like 3 cups in the first 5 minutes on their date! Lol
Jason has a good heart
Thats insane to be trying to get married at 23, youve barley gotten out of high school. I really doubt most people who get married in their 20s last.
23 barely gotten out of high school? At 23 I was at my last year of bachelor degree. Not saying that people should get married at that age but certainly you’re not a highschooler..
Can't they find someone that's willing to convert?
It's also not a simple process (you have to be Orthodox) & as mentioned you're always seen as 'the convert' and not really 'truly' Jewish in a lot of cases.