Orthodox Jewish Couple Responds to Questions on Love and Intimacy
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
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What's the one question you've always wanted to ask an Orthodox Jewish couple?
Why keep your love life so private?
Why such a divide between men and women?
Why so many kids?!
Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler of @JewishGardens, Florida have a candid conversation about love, sexuality, and relationships. There are stats, advice, and most of all beauty to be learned from a Jewish marriage.
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Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!
Wow, that's a really special story. Thanks for sharing!
I love how they look at each other. Not all googly-eyed, but full of respect.
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As an Azerbaijani Muslim, I would like to say that you guys are today the subject of my prayers, may God bless you both! 👍
Thanks!
I am not Jewish however what this couple says is so true. I enjoyed their talk so much. Thank you.
You are so welcome! These kind of insights are universal!
I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special!
The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏!
Thank you very much for sharing!
May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!
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Love the way they look at each other. The trust.
Trust is so important!
Okay...let's talk about how he looks at her when she's speaking 😅😅 That's amazing.
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@Michael Acquah…and the way she looks at him too.
And she likewise. 😊
And vise versa ❤
This couple gave me so much to meditate on.
That's great to hear!
Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video.
My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.
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You are very lucky to have such a Rabbi and Rebbetzin
Stunning I'm Christian and this is such stunning advice and a wonderful couple
This dude has a serious way with words. well done.
Thank you!
I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin
They really are! Glad you enjoyed
I like when she said that if you found love once you can find it again in that same person.
Powerful point indeed.
I'm not a Jew, but this perspective on marriage, 10 on 10.
As a Catholic I share the same views. Bless you both
Thank you so much!
I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment
So happy to hear! Glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!
Feeling great sympathy for this couple. Wise rules and life advice.
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Thank you for sharing. 😊 I have been struggling recently and you made some beautiful points that have helped me. From my heart, thank you. 💜💜
You are so very welcome
I agree with everything you said regarding marriage! Thank you for this wonderfully informative discussion!
You are welcome :)
Beautiful couple with excellent values and great understanding of humanity and the guidance humanity needs
Well said
I love it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!
I love you guys, thank you for the purity, honesty, beautiful and Godly advice and words. God bless you both 🤗🙏🏻
Same to you!
Yes! Great conversation! More people need to be addressing these issues.
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that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.
Amen! Thank you!
Thank you so much for this! It has helped me understand our marriage better without even realizing what we were doing.
Glad it was helpful!
The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏
Glad you think so!
I love this🙌🏻 And the way the answers are expressed!
Agreed!
I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!
I love this so much.
Enjoyed this video immensely!
Shana Tovah! May we all be inscribed for good, for blessing, for health and for maasim tovim in the book of life.
Amen! Thank you!
Toda. Love your sharing and honesty.
So nice of you
I'm a traditional Roman Catholic and your way of explaining the whys is wonderful and agree.
Thanks!
First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏
G-d bless you too!
Agreed !!
I loved hearing this lovely couples perspective
Well communicated
So glad you appreciated!
What a great example! Love love !
Agreed!
Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler .
Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants.
Shana Tova...
Michael and Brigitte B.
Shana Tova to you too!
Interesting, we share a last name!
Beautiful couple with the right insights, living life, marriage and family the way it is supposed to be!
The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.
I would have loved to have grown up like this ☝🏼 God bless you
Holy, sacred, set apart!💐♥️ 🔥
I loved this video. Thank you.
You are so welcome!
This is the best way !
I love this. Very insightful.
Indeed :)
Beautiful ideas. Thank you for sharing these healing values. I am not Jewish, but agree completely with you.
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Wonderful
really enjoyed this one. thank you for your efforts!
Happy to hear that!
So very well sad
Beautiful. It made me thoughtful.
That's great to hear, thank you for sharing!
I love you both! ❤
What a loving couple.
Indeed 😊
Agree thank,you
Very nice! Thank you Viglers
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Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.
Well said!
Absolute gems of Torah wisdom 🙌🏻
Yes indeed!
Beautiful words 😊
Thank you! 🙂
All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.
Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space.
God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks!
Great bring more
a beautiful dialogue between the two of you....so proud of the two of you and feeling so fortunate and happy to be one of your congregants!
Will do!
So beautifully explained
Glad you think so!
I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.
Powerful. Thanks for sharing!
Hello! Lovely video thank you! Beautiful couple. ❤ שָׁלוֹם
Thanks for sharing great
Pleasure!
I definitely agree. I've always felt that, too much touching, feely, feely thing going on between relative strangers.
I’m Jewish and this was so wonderful and made me think and meditate about some of the subjects
That's awesome! Thanks for watching
intimacy and sex is not seen as impure and is not taught as bad like in other religions. it is sacred and holy
Exactly!
Curious to know which other religion you are referring to. As most I know speak of the same thing.
Thanks for this! Please gibe more Jewish relationship advice!
Will do! Stay tuned!
That’s powerful 😊😊😊😊😊
Glad you think so!
I'm not Jewish but I can get behind a lot of these ideas. I think a lot of people don't like the idea of living within any guidelines.
Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️
Hello 👋👋
Thank you for sharing these words!
This is so wonderful. I want to b in a relationship like this so much😅
I want the same Pam 🤗
Me too
In-DEED ♥️🔥🎶
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Observant…great!
What a beautiful couple ❤, well done
You are so kind
Beautiful and Godly perspective on intimacy and marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💜✝️✡️
Our pleasure!
Her hair is amazing! Ouu loving it 😍
Yes!
Beautiful couple! God bless you,,,God keep you!
I'm beyond happy I've stumble upon this! Like founding a treasure. Thank you and to this beautiful couple. In G-g's will, I'll be married soon.
Please G-d! So happy you found this. Welcome to our channel!
Wow this video is just beautiful
What a beautiful couple!!
I think all your answers are perfect answers and really should apply to all people and all religions not just being Jewish.
These ideas have universal relevance, and can apply to people of all backgrounds.
I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week
That's awesome, thanks for sharing!
Thank you for sharing! As a non Jew formerly married to a Jewish man. I enjoyed your insight. Although not together we have an amazing grown son!
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Ty shalom toda
Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?
That's a great question! Perhaps this will shed some more light on the topic ruclips.net/video/VinuyZb-ES8/видео.html
I love when he says he was looking for a kind person - not a professor. Look for character not externals. Externals change, character does not.
So true! 🙌
When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.
Thanks so much for the feedback!
G-d's involvement is vital
I met this couple many years ago at their Yom Kippur service in a hotel. It was my husband’s first time making it through the service without leaving. They are something special. Truly wonderful neshamas. We’ve now become Baal tshuva, but they gave us our first good taste of true chassidus.
We change so much in the modern world that we want a spouse who can change in a similar way.
Yo Rabbi and Rabbi's wife, that was truly expiring and insightful and all that! I believe that what y'all was saying is the secret to happy marriage!
Once when a young lady was axed if she "liked" a young man that she was dating and answered that she had the same love for him as any other jewish person
the Menachem Mendel Rebbe said . . .
“For a husband, you have to have more than basic love of a fellow Jew.” well this rabbi wife seems to have that, if you axed me.
That's such a great story and message! Thanks for sharing!
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Chanukah Sameach. Watching from London UK.
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It's time to cherish as well, our private life.
Absolutely.
I must say I missed hugging my close family and friends during Covid. However, people I hardly know hugging me drives me mad!
I love these two beautiful people
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It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.
I am a Christian woman and I completely agree with this lovely couple. It would benefit all couples to sit down with them to discuss the realities of marriage. It is all about commitment and loyalty.
Indeed!
Amazing even if your not orthodox ! Thank you, Shalom
Shalom 👋
im not jewish or religious but i can tell kind ppl when i see it
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God led me hear thank you 🙏
We're so touched to hear! Welcome :)
HalleluYah! Be Observant! 🐏
Deep
Beautiful Jewish Couple. Mazal Tov!
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