I might only be a couple months in, after our breakup, but there is "no way" I'd give her another chance! I punched in my golden ticket to "crazy town" over 3 years ago and due to her betrayal, the whole grooming a new person behind my back, yeah right, she was only playing video games on her phones in the bedroom by herself, then soon after the eventual "discard", done with vial and venom and poison! All I did was take a moment here and there to approach her and start to point out that I'm not feeling "ok" with her abusive tactics, even mentioning that more than likely I hadn't seen the abuse all these years for being hypnotized into the narcissistic fog! All I did was put a mirror to her face a couple times and boy oh boy, that was it. She went strict radio silence, full on silent treatment, slipped her engagement ring off, went all cold shoulder, ice dagger looks, wouldn't get close to me, ect. ect. ect. Next thing I know she's packing up some boxes and without a word, no excuse, no reason, no words, no closure, she just got into a car with a man I've never seen nor heard of and drove off into the sunset. Just for the mire facts of how she left me, that alone does not warrant giving her any chances what so ever. She has her shot, she had her chances, now, she's someone else's problem, let them punch in their golden ticket to "crazy town", me, yeah it hurts, there's a lot of pain, there's a lot of confusion and frustration, but I'll take all that any day of the week, than to give her another chance!
Good day. I have been 4.5 years with a female covert narcissist. First 3 years I d say were good. She had the odd signs or call it red flags I didn’t see. Made me wonder though. Fell completely in love with her. We have both two kids and live in different households. On her social media she always appeared as single. In 2023 things started gradually deteriorating. Silent treatment, gas lighting, devaluation, she did her thing as she was bored only with me. She always played the loyal and trustworthy person but I had always a bad gut feeling wrt her social media. Once I saw that she engaged with a guy who posted only pictures like: cars, planes, cigars, watches, grand places?!? I asked her do you know the guy. She replies that she just asked him if he was from the same family as last names similar…..told her if he was sitting on a tractor…would you have written? She blocked me and said I can handle social media!! We had various discussions in August one of them she not prioritising our relationship and a specific Sunday where all of a sudden two friends (she hasn’t got friends but only followers that come in handy) popped up even though we had things to do. Told her am going home. We had a long chat on Sunday evening me trying to explain that she could have set priorities differently. Anyway, wrote on Monday morning wishing her a good start in the day. She replied with kisses etc. Called her on Monday evening. Nada. Called her on Monday morning. Nada. After a week she writes: sorry for not getting back to you. all a bit much for me. need time!!! We haven’t spoken in six weeks. She wrote two weeks ago to my sons that she is thinking of them and how I was. She either has a new supply or she really pulled the plug. I haven’t noticed any major changes other than she was a bit colder. I blocked her every where. Deleted all our pictures, put all her stuff in a bag and put it in the cellar. My gut feeling was telling me things and I ignored the red flags. I need to work on me and why I let her cross all over my boundaries. Memories are killing me but I can’t neglect the fact that it was a one sided relationship. For the next months no going out, no meeting women, nothing. Walking in the woods and getting my life back. I fell in love with an illusion. A beautiful house with a beautiful facade but the house inside was cold and empty. She said at the beginning: I know what I don’t want but I don’t know what I want. Or, if I behave strangely please forgive I don’t mean it. Am such an evil person. Didn’t pay attention back then. This year it felt as if she was constantly angry, miserable and always criticising people. She said to me if you had had a decent women in your life before you wouldn’t have bought your apartment there where you bought it!!! The alimony you have to pay to your ex wife will always be between us. She organised a meeting at Hermes and she said you will buy me a Hermes bag with your next bonus. I used to look at her in disbelief….where is the strong woman gone who always told me that she doesn’t need men… Apologies for the long blurb but this is like getting some sort of closure. I miss her….but what do I miss? She treated me so badly hence if I miss her I do not love myself. Good luck to all. 🍀
I’m really sorry to hear about everything you’ve been through. It takes a lot of strength to recognize your worth and refuse to go back to a toxic situation. Your healing journey is important, and it's great that you're prioritizing your well-being over the pain. Stay strong!
Thank you for your kind words! It’s true that personal experience often brings deeper insights. I'm glad the video resonated with you, and I appreciate your support!
I noticed this when he was saying to me that he wasn't enough for me his a failure. That's when I started to realize that yes I do deserve better it was obvious he couldn't give me what I needed. He thought that i would never leave him but I had the strength to walk away & I'm so glad I did. God has changed my life 🙏
Thank you for sharing your powerful story! It's inspiring to hear how you recognized your worth and found the strength to walk away. I'm so glad to hear that you're feeling positive changes in your life. Keep shining!
This video explained EVERYTHING I've been through. I soooooo appreciate these videos very good information and helpful advice to leave a narcissist relationship. I thank you 😊 ❤
I'm so glad to hear that the video resonated with you! It means a lot to know that the information is helping others navigate these tough situations. Thank you for your kind words, and take care of yourself! 😊❤
That’s an interesting perspective! Many people see narcissistic traits as deeply rooted in manipulation and deception, which can certainly align with that view. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
After learning so much about this condition, there is not a cat in hells chance I would ever consider giving another chance to that person. I embrace the fact that it was one of the lessons in life I needed to learn. I have become cautious of people in general. I have very few friends, they are genuinely good people.
It's great to hear that you’ve turned this experience into a valuable life lesson! Being cautious is a smart approach, and surrounding yourself with genuinely good people is essential for your well-being. Your growth and awareness are inspiring!
It’s often the case that narcissists seek out new sources of supply, but it’s only a matter of time before their true nature is revealed. It’s tough to watch, but recognizing this pattern can help you move forward with strength and clarity.
I understand your feelings, narcissism can be incredibly damaging. It's important to recognize these behaviors and protect ourselves from their impact.
This video nailed it! Very well explained and informative to the point never go back to a relationship with a narcissist person. Trust God he saved you from a dysfunctional relationship 💯
Thank you for this content, I'm a registered nurse that fell in love with one of these sadistically deranged people, my wife of ten years, wife was younger than me and I thought She was still developing and maturing? So I did my research into her mental disorders in an effort to help her grow and mature. Once I realized it was narcissism and evaluated the stages of the nonsensical disease of mental illness, after ten years together and working diligently to find an answer, I realized that they don't heal from this mindset. The end result was that I lost myself emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically worrying about my wife. My life became a nightmare of abuse, and I knew it. Eventually I was forced to evacuate her from my life and start to work on my newly acquired trauma Bond. Thankfully I have a good spiritual foundation and medical education to fall back on. Ironically I still deeply love this woman and perversely think that I could go back and save her, but I know that I cannot, I am not God 🙏 ❣️
Since she cannot go back to the womb be born again into a healthy mother’s arms….. it will take a Come to Jesus/Totally Born Again experience , where she CRIES OUT for God “I Need Help, I am WRONG” Then God can Heal, But even then…. Far and few between ever
Thank you for sharing your experience. it’s incredibly powerful. It’s tough to let go of someone you love, especially after investing so much time and effort. Recognizing that you can’t save her is a significant step in your healing journey. Prioritizing your own well-being is essential, and I’m glad you have a strong foundation to support you. Stay strong on your path to recovery!
No one will be treated any better. It's like a record. Over and over same old crap. Your better off without this kind of person. If you like to feel unloved and belittled then stay.
You’re absolutely right. Staying in that kind of toxic environment only perpetuates the pain. It’s important to prioritize our well-being and surround ourselves with people who truly value us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I'm one victim probably but I swear I love her and I'm trying to wait if she will be able to return ... but she is quiet 3 months with new supply and no comm via SMS , phone .... from her side :(
It's tough to navigate these feelings, especially when you still care for someone. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being and healing, even if it’s hard to let go. Sometimes, giving space is necessary for both parties to gain clarity. Remember, you deserve a healthy relationship where communication and respect are mutual.
Nothing will change them... What can happen is they meet a much more powerful and emotionally unavailable person that basically treats them like a captive and they can develop the Stockholm syndrome... That's it.
I completely agree, it's a common misconception that narcissists can change if someone loves them enough. True change requires self-awareness and a willingness to work on their issues, which most narcissists lack. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being rather than hoping for someone to change.
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I might only be a couple months in, after our breakup, but there is "no way" I'd give her another chance! I punched in my golden ticket to "crazy town" over 3 years ago and due to her betrayal, the whole grooming a new person behind my back, yeah right, she was only playing video games on her phones in the bedroom by herself, then soon after the eventual "discard", done with vial and venom and poison! All I did was take a moment here and there to approach her and start to point out that I'm not feeling "ok" with her abusive tactics, even mentioning that more than likely I hadn't seen the abuse all these years for being hypnotized into the narcissistic fog! All I did was put a mirror to her face a couple times and boy oh boy, that was it. She went strict radio silence, full on silent treatment, slipped her engagement ring off, went all cold shoulder, ice dagger looks, wouldn't get close to me, ect. ect. ect. Next thing I know she's packing up some boxes and without a word, no excuse, no reason, no words, no closure, she just got into a car with a man I've never seen nor heard of and drove off into the sunset. Just for the mire facts of how she left me, that alone does not warrant giving her any chances what so ever. She has her shot, she had her chances, now, she's someone else's problem, let them punch in their golden ticket to "crazy town", me, yeah it hurts, there's a lot of pain, there's a lot of confusion and frustration, but I'll take all that any day of the week, than to give her another chance!
You dodged a bullet my friend, by having no children, mortgage, shared possessions etc.
That was an easy, clean break for you!
Count your lucky stars.
Good day. I have been 4.5 years with a female covert narcissist.
First 3 years I d say were good. She had the odd signs or call it red flags I didn’t see. Made me wonder though. Fell completely in love with her. We have both two kids and live in different households.
On her social media she always appeared as single. In 2023 things started gradually deteriorating. Silent treatment, gas lighting, devaluation, she did her thing as she was bored only with me.
She always played the loyal and trustworthy person but I had always a bad gut feeling wrt her social media. Once I saw that she engaged with a guy who posted only pictures like: cars, planes, cigars, watches, grand places?!? I asked her do you know the guy. She replies that she just asked him if he was from the same family as last names similar…..told her if he was sitting on a tractor…would you have written? She blocked me and said I can handle social media!!
We had various discussions in August one of them she not prioritising our relationship and a specific Sunday where all of a sudden two friends (she hasn’t got friends but only followers that come in handy) popped up even though we had things to do.
Told her am going home. We had a long chat on Sunday evening me trying to explain that she could have set priorities differently. Anyway, wrote on Monday morning wishing her a good start in the day. She replied with kisses etc. Called her on Monday evening. Nada. Called her on Monday morning. Nada. After a week she writes: sorry for not getting back to you. all a bit much for me. need time!!!
We haven’t spoken in six weeks. She wrote two weeks ago to my sons that she is thinking of them and how I was.
She either has a new supply or she really pulled the plug. I haven’t noticed any major changes other than she was a bit colder.
I blocked her every where. Deleted all our pictures, put all her stuff in a bag and put it in the cellar.
My gut feeling was telling me things and I ignored the red flags. I need to work on me and why I let her cross all over my boundaries. Memories are killing me but I can’t neglect the fact that it was a one sided relationship. For the next months no going out, no meeting women, nothing. Walking in the woods and getting my life back. I fell in love with an illusion. A beautiful house with a beautiful facade but the house inside was cold and empty. She said at the beginning: I know what I don’t want but I don’t know what I want. Or, if I behave strangely please forgive I don’t mean it. Am such an evil person. Didn’t pay attention back then. This year it felt as if she was constantly angry, miserable and always criticising people. She said to me if you had had a decent women in your life before you wouldn’t have bought your apartment there where you bought it!!! The alimony you have to pay to your ex wife will always be between us. She organised a meeting at Hermes and she said you will buy me a Hermes bag with your next bonus. I used to look at her in disbelief….where is the strong woman gone who always told me that she doesn’t need men…
Apologies for the long blurb but this is like getting some sort of closure. I miss her….but what do I miss? She treated me so badly hence if I miss her I do not love myself.
Good luck to all. 🍀
I’m really sorry to hear about everything you’ve been through. It takes a lot of strength to recognize your worth and refuse to go back to a toxic situation. Your healing journey is important, and it's great that you're prioritizing your well-being over the pain. Stay strong!
The way narcs treat us during the brutal, merciless, cold discard is actually our closure. They are NOT the person we thought they were.
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You have a deep, biblical understanding of this nightmarish phenomenon. It must be experienced to be understood. Thank you for your post!
Thank you for your kind words! It’s true that personal experience often brings deeper insights. I'm glad the video resonated with you, and I appreciate your support!
I noticed this when he was saying to me that he wasn't enough for me his a failure. That's when I started to realize that yes I do deserve better it was obvious he couldn't give me what I needed.
He thought that i would never leave him but I had the strength to walk away & I'm so glad I did.
God has changed my life 🙏
Thank you for sharing your powerful story! It's inspiring to hear how you recognized your worth and found the strength to walk away. I'm so glad to hear that you're feeling positive changes in your life. Keep shining!
@@NarcPedia ❤️
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This video explained EVERYTHING I've been through. I soooooo appreciate these videos very good information and helpful advice to leave a narcissist relationship. I thank you 😊 ❤
I'm so glad to hear that the video resonated with you! It means a lot to know that the information is helping others navigate these tough situations. Thank you for your kind words, and take care of yourself! 😊❤
I’m convinced that Satan was the first narcissist.
That’s an interesting perspective! Many people see narcissistic traits as deeply rooted in manipulation and deception, which can certainly align with that view. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I never thought about this, but I'm of the same mind as u. 😮
After learning so much about this condition, there is not a cat in hells chance I would ever consider giving another chance to that person.
I embrace the fact that it was one of the lessons in life I needed to learn.
I have become cautious of people in general.
I have very few friends, they are genuinely good people.
YES SAME HERE❤
It's great to hear that you’ve turned this experience into a valuable life lesson! Being cautious is a smart approach, and surrounding yourself with genuinely good people is essential for your well-being. Your growth and awareness are inspiring!
He supposedly found someone who gives him more money & is easier to control than I was…that’s until she figures him out!!
It’s often the case that narcissists seek out new sources of supply, but it’s only a matter of time before their true nature is revealed. It’s tough to watch, but recognizing this pattern can help you move forward with strength and clarity.
These people are demons, period they are out to destroy you.
I understand your feelings, narcissism can be incredibly damaging. It's important to recognize these behaviors and protect ourselves from their impact.
He often said he needed to see a therapist or wanted to expire himself
This video nailed it! Very well explained and informative to the point never go back to a relationship with a narcissist person. Trust God he saved you from a dysfunctional relationship 💯
Thank you so much! I'm glad you found it informative, and I completely agree, trusting in a better future is key. Your support means a lot!
Thank you for this content, I'm a registered nurse that fell in love with one of these sadistically deranged people, my wife of ten years, wife was younger than me and I thought She was still developing and maturing?
So I did my research into her mental disorders in an effort to help her grow and mature. Once I realized it was narcissism and evaluated the stages of the nonsensical disease of mental illness, after ten years together and working diligently to find an answer, I realized that they don't heal from this mindset. The end result was that I lost myself emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically worrying about my wife. My life became a nightmare of abuse, and I knew it. Eventually I was forced to evacuate her from my life and start to work on my newly acquired trauma Bond. Thankfully I have a good spiritual foundation and medical education to fall back on. Ironically I still deeply love this woman and perversely think that I could go back and save her, but I know that I cannot, I am not God 🙏 ❣️
You need to break the soul ties you have with her if not she'll come back into your life and destroy you
Since she cannot go back to the womb be born again into a healthy mother’s arms….. it will take a Come to Jesus/Totally Born Again experience , where she CRIES OUT for God “I Need Help, I am WRONG”
Then God can Heal, But even then…. Far and few between ever
Thank you for sharing your experience. it’s incredibly powerful. It’s tough to let go of someone you love, especially after investing so much time and effort. Recognizing that you can’t save her is a significant step in your healing journey. Prioritizing your own well-being is essential, and I’m glad you have a strong foundation to support you. Stay strong on your path to recovery!
No one will be treated any better. It's like a record. Over and over same old crap. Your better off without this kind of person. If you like to feel unloved and belittled then stay.
You’re absolutely right. Staying in that kind of toxic environment only perpetuates the pain. It’s important to prioritize our well-being and surround ourselves with people who truly value us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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Best video yet!
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Great content.
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Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. Your support means a lot! ❤️
I'm one victim probably but I swear I love her and I'm trying to wait if she will be able to return ... but she is quiet 3 months with new supply and no comm via SMS , phone .... from her side :(
It's tough to navigate these feelings, especially when you still care for someone. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being and healing, even if it’s hard to let go. Sometimes, giving space is necessary for both parties to gain clarity. Remember, you deserve a healthy relationship where communication and respect are mutual.
What are your thoughts on these narcissist finding someone who will "change them"?????
In my opinion I THINK NO SUCH THING COULD OR CAN HAPPEN!!
Nothing will change them... What can happen is they meet a much more powerful and emotionally unavailable person that basically treats them like a captive and they can develop the Stockholm syndrome... That's it.
They make you believe that you'll save them. It's a sick game they play
I completely agree, it's a common misconception that narcissists can change if someone loves them enough. True change requires self-awareness and a willingness to work on their issues, which most narcissists lack. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being rather than hoping for someone to change.
@@NarcPedia wise words.