Ive gone non contact for about 5 weeks now. He came hoovering the first week. I told him to stop gaslighting me and to get out. Now hes living his best life and travelling out of the country! Thank you for this channel. Its hard but ill get there🙏🏽
I called him out about every situation. He just didn't say anything. He never talk much. He bought the flights for to NYC for valentine's day. But he already had a ticket to leave me for Japan om February 1. Valentine's day is February 14. Premeditated!!!!!
My ex gave me” closure” but he didn’t expect me to accept it. This was following my discard of him first two weeks prior, then later giving him an ultimatum if he wanted to save the relationship. He declined my offer and gave me a “ soft discard”. He did it in such a way that made it possible for him to be able to come back. So he thought. He said he needed to work on himself and wished me happiness. My ultimatum was for him to start going to therapy. Here he is declining going to therapy but wants to work on himself? Yeah right. We’ve been here before with the break ups and usually I would try to talk him out of it. Usually after he did something wrong and didn’t want to be held accountable. I would forgive him and try to keep the relationship in tact. That was before I learned he was a narc. He thought I would chase and beg him again. This time,I did not. Instead, I completely closed that door he tried to leave a crack in, to make his return. I mailed all of his gifts and belongings back to him and attached a note. “ Don’t look for me. Ever. I was done. I refused to play his games. That was 3 weeks ago. No attempted contact on either side. He’s probably still hoping I reach out. I will never. Im an Empath and have detached from him. All it took was for me to know he deliberately wanted to cause me pain after all I’ve done for him. Two years of my caring and effort. No thank you. I don’t deserve that.
it sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's inspiring to see you take such a strong stand for yourself. Recognizing his patterns and refusing to play those games is a huge step in your healing process. It’s great that you’ve closed that door firmly and prioritized your well-being. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, especially after all you’ve given. Keep focusing on your journey and healing. you’re doing amazing!
Another bullseye! Great video! A narcissist’s power and manipulation is directly proportional to the depth and intensity of their “serious” drama. Laugh lovingly in their faces and watch what happens: be careful-they could respond violently… It took me years to finally consistently giggle after my divorce and recovery. Sending a little strength and humor to the narcissistic abuse survivors out there🙏
Oh yeah…married for 15 years to a physically abusive malignant narcissist female-divorced for ten years-no kids-no contact…not one word since our divorce was final.
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's inspiring to hear how you've found strength and humor after such a difficult experience. Your journey is a testament to resilience, and sending strength to all survivors is so important. Keep shining and laughing. it truly can be empowering! 🙏❤️
I told him that I got his number. I told him that he wasn't the smooth operator he thought he was because I knew his every steps. I caught him and called him out!!!!
They are nothing more than heartless, selfish monsters! The manipulation and lies, especially the future faking, was more than enough to try to get past but finding out he was also cheating was a huge blow. I have no desire to ever see or talk to my nex. He disgusts me in every way.
I totally get that! Narcissists can drain our energy and motivation, making it hard to feel inspired. It’s important to recognize that and focus on what brings you joy and fulfillment!
Absolutely! Cutting the cord is essential for reclaiming your power and peace. It's empowering to recognize that you deserve better and can move forward. Thank you for sharing such a positive perspective! 🎉❤️
Yes !!!this on point thank you every thing said 💯right nothings civil about how they planned all this, I never loved the way I loved her and cared for her threw out her physical and mental situation I thought I could fix her😢I still love her so much! But I keep my distance my heart is broken that I can see my granddaughter anymore!
I’m so sorry to hear about your pain and the difficult situation with your granddaughter. It’s tough to let go of someone you love, especially when you tried to help them. Remember, taking care of yourself is important, and keeping your distance can be a step toward healing.
That's a thought-provoking question! While the truth can be painful, it ultimately leads to healing and growth. Comfort from a lie may feel easier in the moment, but it often prolongs suffering. Embracing the truth empowers us to make better choices for our lives.
@@NarcPedia and like you mentioned on the video people make their own decisions and choices if someone chooses to be with a narcissist or they think have no other choice you have to respect and accept it all you can do is giving advice and it's up to them if they follow your advice.
I'm happy for being the victim 10 times over. Being discarded over and over again. It was the first and last merry go round I'll ever take on the internet. These romance scammers are something else. I never met the loser thank God, but I know we had some real laughs along the way. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
My ex is a lawyer. She is taking me to court for an email where I told her karma is going to get her. So for that I am reporting her to the IARDC for ethics violations. If that doesn’t provide infinite closure I don’t know what will.
That sounds like a really challenging situation. It’s important to stand up for yourself, especially when dealing with manipulative behavior. I hope you find the closure and peace you’re seeking. Stay strong!
This has got to be a crazy way to live..... Especially if they feel like this about AL they've connected with for whatever reason😮😮 I'm exhausted thinking about it..... And that's the last thing I want to think about😊
It really can be exhausting to navigate such chaotic dynamics! It's understandable to want to focus on more positive aspects of life. Take care of yourself and prioritize what brings you peace and joy!
Absolutely! Narcissists often plan their manipulations carefully, making it all the more important for us to recognize their tactics. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
My ex just took money then just left oh well now I realiae he did me a favour. We had a history way back to the 90s sadly we lost a daughter. I reconnected helped him, he took everything pretended he was into me. I think he got a better offer and just disappeared. So ive learned my lesson. I have no contact number as he disconnected his WhatsApp. Guess him and the new supply are dining in fine restaurants and drinking champagne. I'm good i accept his no good. This video is ace.
Hi And Thank You For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This. I Was Discarded Cruelly 2 Months Ago I Called The Narcissit Out For Using Me He In Return Told Me To Never Message Him Again. It's So Hurtful. MY Question To You Is Why Do Narcissists Treat you like You Don't Exist?
They are miserabele mentally ill people. They hate themselves, you think they going to love you? It was a scam to punish you out of jealousy. You are a empath, they hate you
Remember what he said , and do the same and also if for some reason you come in contact with him TREAT HIK LIKE A TOTAL STRANGER and WALK AWAY like they do. And I’m not sure if you know who BON JOVI is , he has a song titled YOUR LOVE IS LIKE BAD MEDICINE. Say that to him. Stay Strong Life is good to those who treat on another Right.
THANK YOU!!🙏 So much Your videos are so good They're so helpful You should have more subscribers They are so accurate. I wait for your videos because they do validate me. ❤️🩹❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that my videos resonate with you and provide validation. Your support means a lot, and I appreciate you being part of this community! ❤️🩹
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Thank you my sister, i very appreciate your message.
@@NarcPedia and sorry that i didn't respond to your early videos my RUclips channel was blocked by RUclips for a day.
@@Kadir_1990 No Problem! Thank you for your support! ❤
Ive gone non contact for about 5 weeks now. He came hoovering the first week. I told him to stop gaslighting me and to get out. Now hes living his best life and travelling out of the country! Thank you for this channel. Its hard but ill get there🙏🏽
I called him out about every situation. He just didn't say anything. He never talk much. He bought the flights for to NYC for valentine's day. But he already had a ticket to leave me for Japan om February 1. Valentine's day is February 14. Premeditated!!!!!
My ex gave me” closure” but he didn’t expect me to accept it. This was following my discard of him first two weeks prior, then later giving him an ultimatum if he wanted to save the relationship. He declined my offer and gave me a “ soft discard”. He did it in such a way that made it possible for him to be able to come back. So he thought. He said he needed to work on himself and wished me happiness. My ultimatum was for him to start going to therapy. Here he is declining going to therapy but wants to work on himself? Yeah right. We’ve been here before with the break ups and usually I would try to talk him out of it. Usually after he did something wrong and didn’t want to be held accountable. I would forgive him and try to keep the relationship in tact. That was before I learned he was a narc. He thought I would chase and beg him again. This time,I did not. Instead, I completely closed that door he tried to leave a crack in, to make his return. I mailed all of his gifts and belongings back to him and attached a note. “ Don’t look for me. Ever. I was done. I refused to play his games. That was 3 weeks ago. No attempted contact on either side. He’s probably still hoping I reach out. I will never. Im an Empath and have detached from him. All it took was for me to know he deliberately wanted to cause me pain after all I’ve done for him. Two years of my caring and effort. No thank you. I don’t deserve that.
it sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's inspiring to see you take such a strong stand for yourself. Recognizing his patterns and refusing to play those games is a huge step in your healing process. It’s great that you’ve closed that door firmly and prioritized your well-being. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, especially after all you’ve given. Keep focusing on your journey and healing. you’re doing amazing!
Another bullseye! Great video!
A narcissist’s power and manipulation is directly proportional to the depth and intensity of their “serious” drama.
Laugh lovingly in their faces and watch what happens: be careful-they could respond violently…
It took me years to finally consistently giggle after my divorce and recovery.
Sending a little strength and humor to the narcissistic abuse survivors out there🙏
Oh yeah…married for 15 years to a physically abusive malignant narcissist female-divorced for ten years-no kids-no contact…not one word since our divorce was final.
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's inspiring to hear how you've found strength and humor after such a difficult experience. Your journey is a testament to resilience, and sending strength to all survivors is so important. Keep shining and laughing. it truly can be empowering! 🙏❤️
I told him that I got his number. I told him that he wasn't the smooth operator he thought he was because I knew his every steps. I caught him and called him out!!!!
They are nothing more than heartless, selfish monsters! The manipulation and lies, especially the future faking, was more than enough to try to get past but finding out he was also cheating was a huge blow. I have no desire to ever see or talk to my nex. He disgusts me in every way.
They make me lazy 🥱
I totally get that! Narcissists can drain our energy and motivation, making it hard to feel inspired. It’s important to recognize that and focus on what brings you joy and fulfillment!
Na they are not worth it.
Take the permanent vacation....you'll go from lazy to relaxation in a matter of minutes.
They will always come back that’s where you cut the cord can only control you ❤❤❤❤❤❤exit the matrix 🎉
Absolutely! Cutting the cord is essential for reclaiming your power and peace. It's empowering to recognize that you deserve better and can move forward. Thank you for sharing such a positive perspective! 🎉❤️
Yes !!!this on point thank you every thing said 💯right nothings civil about how they planned all this, I never loved the way I loved her and cared for her threw out her physical and mental situation
I thought I could fix her😢I still love her so much! But I keep my distance my heart is broken that I can see my granddaughter anymore!
I’m so sorry to hear about your pain and the difficult situation with your granddaughter. It’s tough to let go of someone you love, especially when you tried to help them. Remember, taking care of yourself is important, and keeping your distance can be a step toward healing.
Distance for sure
The question is: would you rather be hurt by the truth or comforted with a lie?
That's right. It's been months of grey rocking but unreal to experience this so called 'trauma bond'. It's a very a strong hold
That's a thought-provoking question! While the truth can be painful, it ultimately leads to healing and growth. Comfort from a lie may feel easier in the moment, but it often prolongs suffering. Embracing the truth empowers us to make better choices for our lives.
@@NarcPedia Yes.
@@NarcPedia and like you mentioned on the video people make their own decisions and choices if someone chooses to be with a narcissist or they think have no other choice you have to respect and accept it all you can do is giving advice and it's up to them if they follow your advice.
Thank you.
I'm happy for being the victim 10 times over. Being discarded over and over again. It was the first and last merry go round I'll ever take on the internet. These romance scammers are something else. I never met the loser thank God, but I know we had some real laughs along the way. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
My ex is a lawyer. She is taking me to court for an email where I told her karma is going to get her. So for that I am reporting her to the IARDC for ethics violations. If that doesn’t provide infinite closure I don’t know what will.
That sounds like a really challenging situation. It’s important to stand up for yourself, especially when dealing with manipulative behavior. I hope you find the closure and peace you’re seeking. Stay strong!
This has got to be a crazy way to live..... Especially if they feel like this about AL they've connected with for whatever reason😮😮 I'm exhausted thinking about it..... And that's the last thing I want to think about😊
It really can be exhausting to navigate such chaotic dynamics! It's understandable to want to focus on more positive aspects of life. Take care of yourself and prioritize what brings you peace and joy!
I love this channel.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm glad you're enjoying the content. Your encouragement really means a lot! ❤️
Premeditated!!!!!!!
Absolutely! Narcissists often plan their manipulations carefully, making it all the more important for us to recognize their tactics. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
My ex just took money then just left oh well now I realiae he did me a favour.
We had a history way back to the 90s sadly we lost a daughter. I reconnected helped him, he took everything pretended he was into me. I think he got a better offer and just disappeared.
So ive learned my lesson. I have no contact number as he disconnected his WhatsApp.
Guess him and the new supply are dining in fine restaurants and drinking champagne.
I'm good i accept his no good. This video is ace.
Hi And Thank You For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This. I Was Discarded Cruelly 2 Months Ago I Called The Narcissit Out For Using Me He In Return Told Me To Never Message Him Again. It's So Hurtful. MY Question To You Is Why Do Narcissists Treat you like You Don't Exist?
It's not you.., It's how his brain is wired
They are miserabele mentally ill people. They hate themselves, you think they going to love you? It was a scam to punish you out of jealousy. You are a empath, they hate you
Remember what he said , and do the same and also if for some reason you come in contact with him TREAT HIK LIKE A TOTAL STRANGER and WALK AWAY like they do. And I’m not sure if you know who BON JOVI is , he has a song titled YOUR LOVE IS LIKE BAD MEDICINE. Say that to him. Stay Strong Life is good to those who treat on another Right.
@ You Are Absolutely Right Thank You 🙏
@@demigaines5644Your Welcome, I did the same when My Wife WALKED
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Do they mold to you?
THANK YOU!!🙏 So much Your videos are so good They're so helpful You should have more subscribers They are so accurate. I wait for your videos because they do validate me. ❤️🩹❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that my videos resonate with you and provide validation. Your support means a lot, and I appreciate you being part of this community! ❤️🩹