The most painful moment in my life was when I comprehended that my mother didn't need to love me...and that there are mothers who don't love their children.
I can't emphasize enough, how this resonates with me. I have been nodding for almost an hour, & feel like saving these videos in a secure safe. This is so true, and for some reason, maybe because I started studying narcissism, informally, since 2018, I already thought about narcissists this way. This is an incredible piece of work. I appreciate you prof. Vaknin!
I decided using my real name on all my comments wasn’t very smart. Considering that I’m being monitored 24/7. I have been a loyal listener for a very long time. I think this video is one of the most painfully yet validating videos I’ve ever listened to. I’ve listened twice through and I’m about to listen to it for a third time and probably a fourth. Thank you.
Aging narc in my life recently started acting more paranoid. He dumped trash on my bedroom floor cause he said I locked him out of the house… yes, delusional & bitter indeed
I was on nightshift bought some mini cinnamon buns from the vending machine. Went to my truck it was dark and started to eat one and after chewing on it for a few seconds I thought it had an unpleasant taste. Once I turned the interior lights on I was eating a green fuzzy thing lol🤮
Professor I have to say that I laughed very loudly and heartily at the opening and closing of this video due to the unfortunate yogurt incident. I apologize 😂🙌🏼💚 I had to restart this video because I was unable to reel in my distracted delight but I eventually regained my senses and my ability to focus on the seriousness of the subject matter. Thanks for giving me a laugh on the morning after my country has made its heinous decision to re-elect the orange one.
In addition I bet there are many people in my country this morning who have the same taste in their mouths as if they DID eat the moldy yogurt after the election results.
Have you studied people over 55 because I'm recently living in these complexes because of the economy and I am having trouble handling the nosiness and the staring and the idleness while I'm trying to work and keep healthy
Welp this is sounding a lot like my delusional Schizoaffective relative. I had no idea narcs were this... psychotic? Out of touch with reality? And you almost make it sound like schizophrenia could be linked to childhood abuse or trauma, am I hearing that correct? (At least the hallucinations/delusions of some schizophrenics). That goes against what we're taught: that it's mostly a genetic dopamine issue in the brain.
kamala is more of a narcissist than trump in my opinion, and more insidious because she tries to make it not obvious with her performative empathy. and many people fall for it. covert narcissist perhaps , “empathetic narcissist???” i would love for him to speak on this phenomenon
The most painful moment in my life was when I comprehended that my mother didn't need to love me...and that there are mothers who don't love their children.
You suit that shade of blue, thanks again from England
I can't emphasize enough, how this resonates with me. I have been nodding for almost an hour, & feel like saving these videos in a secure safe. This is so true, and for some reason, maybe because I started studying narcissism, informally, since 2018, I already thought about narcissists this way. This is an incredible piece of work. I appreciate you prof. Vaknin!
No matter all the hurtful words and actions that’s left me an empty void I still hope she’s well.
From lectures I understand its me narcissistic more then people around me,I need to eat humble pie more often and less feeding others 😓
I decided using my real name on all my comments wasn’t very smart. Considering that I’m being monitored 24/7. I have been a loyal listener for a very long time. I think this video is one of the most painfully yet validating videos I’ve ever listened to. I’ve listened twice through and I’m about to listen to it for a third time and probably a fourth. Thank you.
Aging narc in my life recently started acting more paranoid. He dumped trash on my bedroom floor cause he said I locked him out of the house… yes, delusional & bitter indeed
I was on nightshift bought some mini cinnamon buns from the vending machine. Went to my truck it was dark and started to eat one and after chewing on it for a few seconds I thought it had an unpleasant taste. Once I turned the interior lights on I was eating a green fuzzy thing lol🤮
Professor I have to say that I laughed very loudly and heartily at the opening and closing of this video due to the unfortunate yogurt incident. I apologize 😂🙌🏼💚 I had to restart this video because I was unable to reel in my distracted delight but I eventually regained my senses and my ability to focus on the seriousness of the subject matter. Thanks for giving me a laugh on the morning after my country has made its heinous decision to re-elect the orange one.
In addition I bet there are many people in my country this morning who have the same taste in their mouths as if they DID eat the moldy yogurt after the election results.
@@marnienowicki4077🎉😂😂.. sorry, bc I actually feel with You.. and Im from Sweden even...❤
Please make good on your promise at the end of the video and eventually discuss getting stuck in one of the recovery phases.
Thank you.
the nothingness at the end of denial, freedom can be a little vertiginous
Have you studied people over 55 because I'm recently living in these complexes because of the economy and I am having trouble handling the nosiness and the staring and the idleness while I'm trying to work and keep healthy
Thank you. I own this book 😆
What to do when this is your own old mother?
Welp this is sounding a lot like my delusional Schizoaffective relative. I had no idea narcs were this... psychotic? Out of touch with reality? And you almost make it sound like schizophrenia could be linked to childhood abuse or trauma, am I hearing that correct? (At least the hallucinations/delusions of some schizophrenics). That goes against what we're taught: that it's mostly a genetic dopamine issue in the brain.
Please explain more about followers who think Trump is great.
kamala is more of a narcissist than trump in my opinion, and more insidious because she tries to make it not obvious with her performative empathy. and many people fall for it. covert narcissist perhaps , “empathetic narcissist???” i would love for him to speak on this phenomenon
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