“Ugly” face filters are inherently ableist and racist. What features we define as “ugly” vs “pretty” are based on racism and ableism. Please for the love of god stop using them.
Pet peeves I have: -If I hear someone make fun of my last name and say [my name] Dasani (sounds similar to my last name) I’ll actually lose my damn mind. -how people think eating with hands is gross even though it’s very common where I’m from (honestly eating with hands makes the food better🤷♀️) -calling cultural food “rich people food” (someone told me paella and shawarma was for rich people. Dude it’s literally existed for years) -cishet people who tell queer people “omg I could never do that” like, congrats?
The hands one yes 😭😭 my stepdad grew up in India until he was like 20 and came to the u.s. he eats with his hands atill and I used to be weirded out until I realized that that’s how many cultural foods were eaten like that, and that we do it too but we just judge because it’s a different culture (ex. We eat burgers and pizza with our hands, but when it becomes a cultural food it’s deemed gross).
@@Maya-zx1dp YES. Anytime I’m minding my own business eating my cultural food people are like “ewww”. The girls who get it, get it. The girls who don’t, dont
@@Exhausted905 frrr tho, like my answer to a "what's something interesting about you" question was that I hate these assignments just so I didn't have to think of smth
My four year old cousin thinks I’m a guy and that makes me really happy like I’m non binary but very femme presenting and it makes me happy for some reason
Omg feltttt One time my old neighbor saw me outside and thought I was my brother even when I was wearing makeup and not binding and it made my month Also on Halloween 2 years ago I went trick or treating with my best friend and his little sister, and when I had to go home she said "I want to stay with they" and I still smile every time I think of it :)
omg my little sister talks about my gender all the time, she's so fascinated by the idea that you don't have to be just a girl or jut a boy. i love her sm
As a white person, the video about 10 things that are like the n word at first I thought didn't make sense, but the second video definitely helped me understand and be more conscious. Thank you to not just her but any black people who take time out of your days to help white people understand this stuff. You're awesome
I thought to myself, even if I don't understand it, I know she does make sense. Her words do mean something even if I-as a white person - don't really get it
I cleaned a closed off room in my house today. It's not closed off anymore cuz it's clean. It's not the typical clutter mess I've been cleaning either. In fact, there isn't a whole lot in the room. But it's so dirty that it's been closed off so that the cats don't go in it. How is this so? About a decade ago, my sister made the ceiling in that room collapse. It got fixed. Whatever. A few years ago, my nephew made the ceiling collapse. It got cleaned up a bit, a plastic thing was put over the wall, and we just pretended that room didn't exist. So today I cleaned up a bunch ceiling off the floor. Tomorrow I'm going to vacuum in there some more because I'm just not convinced. I swept like four times. Then I vacuumed multiple times, and the vacuum wouldn't last five minutes before getting clogged. I got so sweaty. I think this is the sweatiest I've ever been in my life. My binder was so incredibly drenched that I ended up washing it. It's drying right now. I went to my car and grabbed my Viva La Cobra CD out of it and just blasted that on repeat the whole time. Ughhhhhh. In other news. My nephew a few years ago broke a window. We never fixed it cuz it's double layered so it didn't matter too much. But now there is a nest nestled in the window. I think it's wasps. I'm not scared of wasps, but also I am not gonna tear down someone's house and expect me not to kill me. So these wasps are the incentive to get the window fixed so that the nest is someone else's problem. I feel like I make it sound like my house is on the verge of being condemned. It's not. Really, the only major issue is that we really need to replace the carpets. You're supposed to do that about every eight years apparently. But these carpets have been around for about thirty years. It could be better, but I don't know how to work the carpet cleaner. That carpet has thirty years of kids, cats, and ash trays. No amount of cleaning the carpet will change the fact that it needs replacing. But then there is the impending doom that eventually those carpets will also need replaced. I swear my house isn't super gross.
quick rant about healthcare my doctor is trying to convince me im imagining my chronic pain? like tf? i told her i have chronic pain and i want to get tested for eds and she was like no, youre too young to have pain, are you sure youre not just imagining it? she then told me im too young to have eds which is literally a genetic condition. you have from birth, and last time i checked ive been born. ik its kinda pointless to try and get an official eds diagnosis bc theres only one specialist in my area and the wait list is literally two and a half years, my family’s insurance wont cover it and my dad says he doesnt want to be diagnosed with anything bc it could get in the way of future opportunities, but me not being able to get the accommodations i need is just going to get in the way even more. it just really sucks, bc i know for a fact that i have eds. all the physical therapists ive talked to have agreed as well but i cant find a doctor that will listen to me and it is *so* frustrating
That's happened to me. I don't think it counts as chronic pain but I've had headaches like all the time since I was 5. I wake up and it starts and doesn't end until I go to sleep. I told my doctor about this and other issues I've been going through and she said I was imagining it and proceeded to gaslight me. It's so weird
I guess the east way to understand appropriation vs acculturation vs assimilation is direction on the hierarchy. Appropriation is when cultural customs move up the hierarchy: taken from people lower for the benefit of people higher Assimilation is when cultural customs move down the hierarchy: forced on people lower by people higher. Acculturation is when cultural practices are exchanged between equal parties on a hierarchy.
Hi y’all!! Shout out to everyone else who isn’t really sure if they’ve experienced trauma. I have no clue if it’s just me here, but shout out regardless.
I had a horrible experience with the person that i trusted most in the world leaving me which shattered me for months and gave me lasting trust issues and I feel insecure calling it trauma because other people have it so much worse anyone else?
@@azthebisaster I also feel insecure when referring to some experiences (with a family member) as trauma, despite it leaving me with lasting issues, and completely changing me as a person, so, yeah, hi. Me too. (And its okay, just because other people have experienced worse, does not mean you haven't experienced trauma, nor does it mean you cannot refer to it as such).
Hot take: nt people can’t write dangerous or evil characters. 9 times out of ten, they just write a nd person. Wether the villains are autistic coded, systems, or just plainly have ptsd, nt people always write us as the “crazy” bad guys, when it’s THEM who hurts us.
True! I think they aren't even aware of it... My mum told me about one guy she was in school with, and said that he was doing a lot of what I also do to stim (she doesn't know tho cuz when I was stimming in front of her, she told me to stop. And that, what I do looks mentally ill etc). She told me to stay away from ppl like that because that doesn't seem healthy. It really hurt because that's who I am and I won't stay away from myself or any of my ND friends (Also, this is my daily comment)
I guess thats why when I write I find it hard to write a "purely evil villain." What is a truely evil villain? Yk, thats why I love My Hero Academia and I dont care what people think about it. MHA's villians are complicated because their backstories give them reasons to hate hero society. Their reasons are understandable, thats what makes them so likeable. And their backstories truely poke holes in the "perfection" of hero society.
Oh, and also I found a comic I really adore called "the paupers prince" on tapas. It's about a poor boy falling in love with an autistic poc prince and them fighting capitalism. All wrapped up in a romance that we really deserve
Dude I'm so sorry, that's sucks really bad When I was a freshman in highschool I had to take a shop class (mandatory for some reason) and it took all of my energy to not bolt out of there as soon as any machine was turned on Hope the welding thing gets better or you can bring ur headphones when you go next time
@@lokiaxel5028thanks. I’m gonna get some earplugs. I love welding with all my heart and plan to make a career out of it but the machine that cuts the metal is SO LOUD
YT asked me if I wanted to reconsider my last comment. Maybe edit it and make it less offensive. I'm sorry women. 🙏 It was misogynist of me to imagine tits that aren't connected to anyone. I objectified you. 🙏 Granted, I don't think that's what YT was going on about, but still.
my friends dad recently went on a rant about how the government wants to force people to eat crickets and he ended it by saying that the black panther movies were pandering. i laughed at him and he threw a tantrum. hopefully they'll come to their senses, but some people are too far gone :/
i have a emotional support white guy, hes a year older than me, cis, het, very stereotypical, likes sports and fortnite, and he is incredibly sweet, he has like 4 sisters so hes very comfortable being feminine and i love him, he is the best
Hi everyone :3!! After yesterday ive been doing better, finished writing a chapter of the fanfiction im working on late last night. Also there was a herd of horses by the cemetary fun fact.
Ello good people of the internet, it is I. I'm currently thinking about culture. Ya see I was a sikh who was technically raised atheist by most standards. This was mostly because of cultural assimilation. Because of this at some point I cut my hair, we're kind of not supposed to do that. So now I feel relatively bad about that and want to recconect with my culture. So my dad invited me to the temple on Sunday, and I want to go but at the same time I'm feeling extremely anxious about it because I don't know a single one of the prayers and am already insecure about my knowledge of my culture. So yeah.
And I could write an essay on cultural appropriation in Kpop and how some stans and South Koreans choose to individualize the experience of culture and cultural appropriation in order to justify it or overlook its existence in the industry and in South Korean media and society🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
2:58 I know a lot of people are going to say, "its just music" just like you say when you take our hairstyles, our dances, our fashion. Youre just mad black people wont let you take our shit and rebrand it. Yall act like thats not what youre doing when it totally is and then you start victim blaming. Its not just hair, its not just a dance, its not just a song when you do it all the time. And for the people who say "culture is meant to be shared" yeah, but youre overstepping when you take something and try to pass it off as your own. Thats the difference between cultural appropriation and appreciation. One, youre acknowledging the original and that you did not come up with this, and the other you give no credit and pass it off as your own. There are COUNTLESS examples of this but yall wanna act like its isolated events. Its not.
PERIODT!! It isn't just hair, just music or, just a dance. There's symbolic meaning and a cultural significance behind the cultural things the black community does. When white people say "it's just hair", that statement acknowledges the fact that because of the social and systemic power they have, they never had to have a connection to their hair or it never was significant. To them their hair is "just hair". This could be said about other things too.
i agree completely, but genuine question of curiosity: is the genre of music (bedroom pop) apart of black culture? just asking because i love a lot of bedroom pop artists, most of them being black, and i was wondering if it was another music genre that POC started :)
I feel really hesitant about using mobility aids when I don't have any diagnosed issues. I've got some joints that are really sensitive and i can roll them out of socket kinda easily(especially my knees, and i lock them naturally when I stand) and I feel that a brace or cane would help, but I'm worried people will question me about it especially if nothing is on the books. But like on the other hand, it causes me issues in everyday life to do things I enjoy, so idk what to do
I think that if something helps you, it helps you. You need braces or a cane just as much as someone with a diagnosis. A lack of one doesn't make your needs any less valid!
Hello! I'm a cane user! And while I recommend researching what may help you and ur specific pains and maybe speaking to ur doc; me and my other disabled friends ultimately think that if you think you may need a mobility aid, get one. The "taking resources" idea prevents people who need aids from getting them cuz they don't think they're "disabled enough". Let me tell you, you deserve aid if you need it and no one except yourself can tell you you're invalid in ur pain.
I use a cane and I'm not diagnosed, I know I have chronic pain and that I struggle to stand/walk, that's all that matters to me. And, I mean this in the best way possible, no passive aggressiveness intended. But getting a diagnosis and using a mobility aid will not magically make ableist people go away. There will still be people who will question why you use it, not believe you if you say you're diagnosed. Sadly, this is the world we live in and there's not a whole lot that can be done about that. So I recommend getting whatever helps you.
literally like ik how stressful it can be to use mobility aids when ur worried abt ppl questioning u but also like literally 99% of the time the aid will noticeably improve ur situation enough to outweigh the detriment of any potential questions :) also my bestie uses a cane and it helps them a lot, plus i don’t think they’ve ever been questioned directly abt it!
I had a really upsetting episode a couple of days ago. My mothers birthday is coming up and I was planning to crochet a jellyfish for her but I couldn’t find my stitch markers and had a total meltdown. I couldn’t breathe and I wanted to scream. My mum was really understanding, but I still feel guilty and can’t stand on the project even though I can just use earrings instead of stitch markers
Crochet update 13: I’m crocheted 26 rows since yesterdays update, so I’m 40 rows into the back panel of the BMO bag. I’m hoping to finish the other 16 rows tonight and do the bottom panel tomorrow morning so I can take the bag to the Barbie movie tomorrow. I’ll still have to add the details but then I can use it!!! Very exciting
I'm more of a sewist but recently started doing crochet and it amazes me that I can create a whole 3d shape from just a ball of yarn because I'm so used to being able to see all the pieces of the finished product laid out flat before I start I hope your bag turns out nicely :)
Vent: I hate learning to drive. The road layouts make no sense and neither does anything else and it makes me anxious as fuck. Unfortunately I’m American so I have to. If I don’t my quality of life will be objectively worse. There’s a disability bus service but I feel like I’m not disabled enough to use it. This is what I hate about being “high functioning” I’m expected to be able to function normally so when I can’t I’m seen as just being lazy so I just stop trying.
Learning to drive was hell for me. I actually quite enjoy it now that I don’t have my mom freaking out in the passenger seat. Good luck friend! Be safe!
It becomes easier faster than you'd think. It SUCKS! ESPECIALLY IN CITIES!!!!! Cities are gross, especially if you don't drive in that city frequently. But don't be too bummed over driving. It truly becomes easier quicker than you'd think. Definitely not immediately, but not forever either.
sometimes I just want the simple stupid shit like... stuff that doesn't have a BIG and DEEP meaning, and stuff that I can look and connect with in a way that's simple. Like for me I've never been that creator or artist who creates something out of a DEEP and COMPLEX feeling. I just create stuff that I like. and that's the basic definition of it. I've always hated it when people ask me "what made you create this?" or "what's the meaning behind this?" and I'd just say that there's nothing... there's no big, colossal meaning behind the things that I make and nothing made me want to create it (other than basic inspo and motivation), because THERE ISN'T and I hate when people try to force said "meanings" and "depth" out of me like, I DO SHIT THAT I LOVE BECAUSE I ENJOY DOING IT TF!! Sorry that it's too "simple" or too "basic" of an answer for you. and because of this I've naturally been drawn to things that are seen as simple or less complex and I analyze it. Not analyze it in a "finding the meaning behind it" way but analyze it in a "what technique did this person use to create this" or I look at the details and intricate aspects of it and I find fascination in that and that alone. and this doesn't even need to be with artwork. This applies to EVERYDAY stuff for me. grass, leaves, trees, lakes, rivers, buildings, sticks, coffee grains, power, eyeshadow pallets, and clothes etc. the simple stuff.
This!! I literally told someone this and they were like 🤓☝️"no!! Even that emotion contributes to your art!! All art has meaning" like pls stfu it's my Fookin art
I've never been the person who can create when they're in a depressive or unhappy state. Like, people always like to assume that because I'm an artists that my feelings and my drawings are so connected when that's by far NOT the case with me. They especially assume so when they see a BIG creation come out from an artist when that artist was in a negative space and so they think that applies to me, like no. I cannot create or do anything "creative" when I'm in a negative space BECAUSE I LACK MOTIVATION and the stimuli is not stimuli - ing like it's suppose to. HOW DO YOU EXPECT ME TO CREATE WHEN I'M IN THAT SPACE (unless it's like crocheting, cause I can do that when unhappy fr)
@@HeresAbigOne Mine is a bit of both when I'm in a depressive state I'm extremely creative and the juices are flowing but I lack the motivation to physically get up or act on them and I end up (sometimes) losing some of my best ideas which makes me feel even sadder.
(This comment is for the algo but also, I'm curious.) I've always been confused as to why modern religions are called religions, but ancient ones are called myths.
personally, I think its because society views our ancient ancestors as primitive and uncivilized, therefore they are subsequently also viewed as inferior and are dehumanized. I don't know is this is the actual reason why, but that's my theory!!
When most people think about ancient religions they think about Ancient and Roman mythologies. A reason why those relgions are considered myth are the way stories were passed down, and because most people don’t believe in them anymore/regard them as fables. However there are also many reason why they are considered myth and sometimes this view often overshadows the ancient religions that other people of different cultures/ethnic groups believe in. The commentor above points it out well.
Yeah honestly, whenever ive heard a teacher talk about greek "mythology" they approach it with this notion that it's like a made up story, and that "no one believes it anymore." But hellenistic paganism exists.
Question I have for ppl who have bpd/cluster b disorders. But what is your opinion on the “Yandere” trope n is it ableist?? I’m fully aware that obv someone with BPD is *not at all* a yandere. But I’ve seen debates on wether or not the trope is harmful to those with bpd
Not fully sure if I count as a cluster B disorder (DID, I just can’t remember if it counts) but OH BOY ITS SO BAD. A yandere isn’t “quirky” or “cute” or something like that.
Oh absolutely. Almost all the “crazy” deres are ableist. BPD being built off the “crazy gf with bpd” trope. The mood swings, fear of abandonment, self harm/harming others, everything.
I never gave it too much thought other than it being cringe and stupid. I never knew people linked it to specific disorders, but it makes sense now that I think about it. Makes it all the more cringe.
Alrighty, good to know. Now may I ask, is there anyway someone could make a “yandere” without being ableist? Discarding everything that makes the yandere trope bad, to the point where one might not consider it a yandere anymore but still keeping the core trait of “killing for love.” Or naw
Really quickly, in a song off sundial, an antisemitic artist was featured, and no name refused to take it down. As much as I love noname, that was a bit of a disappointment
‼️TW‼️talks of possible sh and mental hospitals‼️ i'm gonna be honest, i'm not doing good right now. it's getting worse, actually, a lot worse. i had one of, if not, the worst anxiety attacks i've ever had two nights ago and i'm genuinely considering entering myself into a psych ward because i don't know what else to do. i don't have anywhere else i can really go right now and i'm genuinely worried i might do something drastic.
hi tobi, ive gone through the same thing and, while the physc ward can be helpful, it can also make things a lot worse. it can be very traumatic going there too. if you feel unsafe, i recommend trying to talk to a trusted adult/school, if you go there. if you have a therapist/ counsellor, or just someone you trust and know can help you, then i recommend talking to them. also, try to distract yourself, stay with others alot of the time and avoid being alone, that won’t help, distance yourself from things that might cause harm, cuddle with soft toys (plushies), or with a pet if you have one. dance, sing, draw, read, watch she-ra. she-ra is always a mood lifter haha- anyway, im sending love and i hope this can be of help
People up in arms about racism and being called racist need to calm down. Just confront it, acknowledge, and think. You don't have to get all hurt about it. Someone called you racist, you're not the only person who has been racist today. Deal with yourself and learn.
Hiiiii ive wanted to comment on here SO BAD, yall seem really cool!!!!! Here's some stuff about me: My name is Lavender, i live in the US and im Native American (Mvskoke and Kiowa tribes.) Uhhhh. hyperfixations/special interests inlude MLP, TOH, PJO, Twilight, jellyfish, sharks, bugs!!, and Psychology !!!!
@@absoluteunfunnynerd I LOVE PINKIE PIE!! i have a lot of faves but probably twilight, fluttershy, pinkie pie, RARITY OMGG and discord! i also like mrs cake. and cadence. and luna AND KING SOMBRA OMG😭😭 also applejack! basically all the mane six except rainbowdash, i don’t really like her but she’s still cool! i also really like sunset shimmer from the eg series!
I wish there were more goth/alt shops that arent just shein or dollskill selling garbage just bc its trendy right now. I like killstar but I personally cant wear a lot of what they make. Maybe all the good goth clothing is just outside of my budget ://
Hey guys!! Really late but I’ve had a really rough day. It was the second day of school today and school itself wasn’t necessarily bad, but when I got picked up my mom was already stressed and stuff, and the drive home just made her continuously more angry (bad drivers). Then when we got home lots of things just went wrong for me, like small things like me not finding my phone cord, my hot cocoa burning my mouth, me falling asleep, etc. to the point I just had a mental breakdown a few minutes ago. I still have to take a shower too and my legs hurt so bad and my lavender shower steamer ran out too :( it’s only the second day of sophomore year and I’m already so mentally and physically exhausted 😭 tbh I don’t know what to do (no therapist or trusted adult to listen to me) so if anyone has any tips lmk and I love all my queer, nd, and Bipoc friends!❤ - a gender-fluid Abrosexual half Indian 🫶
AHHH IM LATE :(. I woke up with a migraine again today and my school sent out more info about book bags. Other then that I’ve stayed in my pajamas and laying next to my long haired calico cat :3
Hello, it has been a really long time, huh? Here's some updates to boost this video. (TW: Some are depressing or triggering, and mentions for drowning and such) -Our host, Maya, has officially reached 6 months with her fiance. -An unfortunate situation having to deal with the beach and a drowning of a family member (the member has survived, luckily) has caused some severe PTSD and trauma, so our system has a few more members (more like a lot. A lot has happened). -For those curious about the dental health stuff, it has gotten much better, and we're even growing a wisdom tooth. -As we've mentioned before, we've been in ED and SH recovery for a while. I am very happy and lucky to report: 79 days clean, body dysmorphia pretty much gone, and have been eating very regularly for a while. -Got to see a concert of a childhood favourite band, it was incredible. (For those curious, it was Disturbed). -Went to see a doctor about possible carpal tunnel and osteoarthritis. Unfortunately got blown off but since we've finally switched to the normal doctor, I can hopefully get it checked out sometime in a few weeks if the host's mother agrees to it. Overall, a lot of good stuff has happened, a lot of bad stuff too but at the moment life is looking up for us. I hope you're all doing very well, how have your days been? Stay safe, eat the rich, and remember that fakeclaiming people you have no idea about the medical history of is shitty and you're not a psychologist, you cannot tell when someone is faking. Saying this in preparation for the fakeclaimers who call us "fakers" of DID. Have a good day. -Sanemi
congrats for maya and her fiance! sorry to hear about the drowning and ptsd, hope y'all doing better now. congrats on recovery! that's amazing, keep going! glad you liked the concert, i also like the band disturbed and fuck fakeclaimers
Question time 🤖🤖🤖 1) What are your thoughts on AI? 2) Barbie or Oppenheimer? 3) Can you give me an example of a dog whistle and what that dog whistle means? 4) Is AI sentient? How do you define sentience? 5) What's your favorite sound?
1- it’s a tool. Can be used for good and bad 2- both omfg 3- not sure if this counts, but people who refuse to call poc, poc. It’s okay to say black. It’s okay to say Indigenous. It’s okay to say Asian. 4- I don’t know if it’s sentient, but every robo apocalypse starts with people refusing to give AI human rights. 5- picking a fruit off my plants
1. i think it can be useful in some regards but that ai art is objectively harmful and bad 2. barbie, i don't like oppenheimer. 3. a dog whistle is a phrase used by fascists to find other fascists without outright being hateful. an example of this would be the phrase "new world order"(used by antisemites) 4. i don't know. it could be, but sentience can't really be defined so i guess we may never know 5. i like the sound of rain :3
1) is a good tool for artists, writers and etc. but shouldn’t be used against them cause it’s harmful 2) Barbie🩷💅 3) I don’t know many dog whistles and I don’t know if this counts but people wanting their family with blue eyes and blonde hair which is what Hitler wanted all families to look like 4) if the AI has rights and emotions then I guess it’s sentient? Not really good at explaining this 5) that really funky, jazzy instrumental in “Wesley’s Theory”. Great song👍
1. It can be good but it’s usually stoopid 2. I haven’t seen either yet 3. When one group uses a “code” of sorts to find others of their group without just being like “hey I’m a fascist look at me” 4. Jeez I hope not. Sentience = ability to perceive and think about how you react to stimuli and not just go on instinct. A lizard is sentient. Bacteria are not 5. I like the sound of a v8 engine
Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
(i am white and open to discussion, this is just my perspective and what I've gathered) Cultural appropriation is similar to plagiarism in a sense Where you benefit by using something someone else created for your own gain But, if you give the proper credit (in situations where it is ok to use with credit) then it is "ok" in a sense I put that in quote because there's rules, regulations and exceptions that I'm not really aware of Again, open to discussion and happy to hear other's thoughts, that's just how I see things with the information I have
9:15 The issue with this is that autistic people, such as myself, wouldn't instinctively understand the insinuation that she wasn't saying that calling a black person lazy under any circumstance is racist. I wouldn't be surprised if a large number of those responding are undiagnosed on the spectrum and thus don't have the neurotypical's ability to use that form of bridging gaps in knowledge with logic. I was starting to get offended until she explained in the follow-up, but that stuff about critical thinking skills and thinking comprehension in terms of what I'm saying now seems ableist.
questions for the algorithm! ✨ 1. your favourite juice? 2. favourite music genres? 3. something you're proud of? 4. do you prefer listening to music with headphones or without them? slay safe y'all!
1) idk if lemonade counts, but im picking it. 2) i love punk music and R&B 3) actually having a healthy and long lasting relationship. things like that are hard for me, but my partner has been so supportive and accommodating for me. 4) with headphones, usually.
1. Grape, but I also like “super fruit punch”. Both from the brand “Honest Kids”. 2. I don’t really pay attention to genres but vocaloid is v funky! 3. I opened up to my therapist about $/@! (pleas tell me if this needs a tw am sick and unable to tell) 4. With!! Especially since I listen to music I’m not allowed to (honey I’m home by ghost, Bloody Mary by lady Gaga, etc. not songs that are inherently bad but songs that my radical right and conservative Christian dad wouldn’t approve of)
Omg all 3 of my comments got deleted augh. First one is I stayed home because sick. Second is asking what a race gr!fter, race b@!ter is and what’s the context that gh3tto would be used against bl@ck ppl. Third was Talking about something r@c!st I was told as a kid. I’ll respond in comments if anyone wants to know what it was (with major censoring so it doesn’t go bye bye)
Oof, that sucks! Sorry you had to deal with that /gen So ו don't really know what a race gr!ft3r is, but ו think calling a black person a "race b@!t3r" is saying they're trying to trick people into thinking they're another race just because they look or act a certain way. ו remember once ו saw something (maybe in an old comp) where someone said a black girl was "Asian fishing" because she had almond shaped eyes, which is just a dumb claim because that's just a common trait worldwide. Also, in my experience people are called gh3tt0 for "acting black," which just follows the stereotype that black people are poor and/or uneducated. It could also be antisemitic, since the ghettos were where Jewish people were forced to live, and where the N@z!s hit first, trying to "3xt3rm!n@t3 the Jews"
@@cgihearteyes Yes. It was so bad. I also didn't even understand it anyway because they didn't look like they were trying to not say anything, and nobody did. Maybe the noise was the signifier, but I dunno. Also the noise sucks. Bte, kind of u related to up in this comment but you probably shouldn't watch the conclusion of woke Karen's tictoks because he make a weird slurping sound at the end. I know that he likes it, and he means well, but the sound sucks.
Just remembered something r&c!st my old school did. Hope this comment doesn’t get taken down. TW: R@c!sm There was a day (I can’t remember when) every year that ppl would dress up as either a pilgrim or a Native American. My 8-9 year old self who thought it was fine (and was never told it was r@c!st) went as a Native American. Both years I went there. I also dressed up as Pocahontas at my homeschool one year where you had to dress up as a historical figure. I am yt and (as far as I know) have no Native American heritage.
Hii!! I'm not sure if this was a typo or something, but Pocahontas was Indigenous to America (Native American), not African American. Also, the term 'Indian' shouldn't be used to describe Natives. We're not Indian: we're not from India. We're Native American, or, American Indigenous. I hope you have a nice day!! ((also sorry if my tone came off as rude, it's all /nm and /pos !!)) :]]
Caterpillars show up 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛its been a rough few days for us huh. Still, no matter! Recently i tried getting therapy . My mom wanted a recommendation, but my doctors office isnt responding. We are gonna try out finding another way now. Hhhhh So much has happened the past few days. But all of the loose threads are tying up. Soon, hopefully i wont have to worry about anything. 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛
“Ugly” face filters are inherently ableist and racist. What features we define as “ugly” vs “pretty” are based on racism and ableism. Please for the love of god stop using them.
THIS OMG!!
Yeeeee
I don’t need a filter to be ugly 😎😎😎
All the pretty filters have light eyes and are eurocentric too 🤨
I agree It’s an ick
8:41 wanna remind everyone that laziness doesn’t exist. Your ability to support capitalism doesn’t determine your worth!
SOMEBODY HAD TO SAY IT.
thank you, i needed this
PURRR SAY IT LOUDERR
Pet peeves I have:
-If I hear someone make fun of my last name and say [my name] Dasani (sounds similar to my last name) I’ll actually lose my damn mind.
-how people think eating with hands is gross even though it’s very common where I’m from (honestly eating with hands makes the food better🤷♀️)
-calling cultural food “rich people food” (someone told me paella and shawarma was for rich people. Dude it’s literally existed for years)
-cishet people who tell queer people “omg I could never do that” like, congrats?
"I could never do that" yeah because we do it better, obviously. /J
How is your last name actually pronounced?
@@VanNessy97 i might just be butting in inappropriately but internet safety training made me so nervous at ur reply!!
The hands one yes 😭😭 my stepdad grew up in India until he was like 20 and came to the u.s. he eats with his hands atill and I used to be weirded out until I realized that that’s how many cultural foods were eaten like that, and that we do it too but we just judge because it’s a different culture (ex. We eat burgers and pizza with our hands, but when it becomes a cultural food it’s deemed gross).
@@Maya-zx1dp YES. Anytime I’m minding my own business eating my cultural food people are like “ewww”. The girls who get it, get it. The girls who don’t, dont
Okay am I the only one who hates those “letter to the teacher” assignments because I end up investing way too much emotional energy in them?
YES
And the "about me" assignments at the beginning of the year, like idk what to put on those or how specific to get
@@lokiaxel5028 stop this is painfully true💀. I’m insecure abt my interests and I have difficulties lying so I hate abt me assignments sm
@@Exhausted905 frrr tho, like my answer to a "what's something interesting about you" question was that I hate these assignments just so I didn't have to think of smth
@@lokiaxel5028omg same here, I'm back to school and literally the first day my head teacher ask me to write my interest 😭
@@lillin7546 I know I have them but I also kind of don't at the same time. Also, I really don't have actual answers for some of them.
My four year old cousin thinks I’m a guy and that makes me really happy like I’m non binary but very femme presenting and it makes me happy for some reason
Aww
Omg feltttt
One time my old neighbor saw me outside and thought I was my brother even when I was wearing makeup and not binding and it made my month
Also on Halloween 2 years ago I went trick or treating with my best friend and his little sister, and when I had to go home she said "I want to stay with they" and I still smile every time I think of it :)
is your name axel my name is axel
omg my little sister talks about my gender all the time, she's so fascinated by the idea that you don't have to be just a girl or jut a boy. i love her sm
Sending love to the people who struggle to make and keep friendships. Y’all still deserve to be cared for.
💜💜🤗🤗
us rn ugh /lh
-ves
yzy tganks
thank you so much 💕💕
Thank you🫂🤍 :3
As a white person, the video about 10 things that are like the n word at first I thought didn't make sense, but the second video definitely helped me understand and be more conscious. Thank you to not just her but any black people who take time out of your days to help white people understand this stuff. You're awesome
Ashani mfuko is awesome, she has so many good videos
I thought to myself, even if I don't understand it, I know she does make sense. Her words do mean something even if I-as a white person - don't really get it
I cleaned a closed off room in my house today. It's not closed off anymore cuz it's clean. It's not the typical clutter mess I've been cleaning either. In fact, there isn't a whole lot in the room. But it's so dirty that it's been closed off so that the cats don't go in it. How is this so? About a decade ago, my sister made the ceiling in that room collapse. It got fixed. Whatever. A few years ago, my nephew made the ceiling collapse. It got cleaned up a bit, a plastic thing was put over the wall, and we just pretended that room didn't exist.
So today I cleaned up a bunch ceiling off the floor. Tomorrow I'm going to vacuum in there some more because I'm just not convinced. I swept like four times. Then I vacuumed multiple times, and the vacuum wouldn't last five minutes before getting clogged. I got so sweaty. I think this is the sweatiest I've ever been in my life. My binder was so incredibly drenched that I ended up washing it. It's drying right now. I went to my car and grabbed my Viva La Cobra CD out of it and just blasted that on repeat the whole time. Ughhhhhh.
In other news. My nephew a few years ago broke a window. We never fixed it cuz it's double layered so it didn't matter too much. But now there is a nest nestled in the window. I think it's wasps. I'm not scared of wasps, but also I am not gonna tear down someone's house and expect me not to kill me. So these wasps are the incentive to get the window fixed so that the nest is someone else's problem.
I feel like I make it sound like my house is on the verge of being condemned. It's not. Really, the only major issue is that we really need to replace the carpets. You're supposed to do that about every eight years apparently. But these carpets have been around for about thirty years. It could be better, but I don't know how to work the carpet cleaner. That carpet has thirty years of kids, cats, and ash trays. No amount of cleaning the carpet will change the fact that it needs replacing. But then there is the impending doom that eventually those carpets will also need replaced.
I swear my house isn't super gross.
quick rant about healthcare
my doctor is trying to convince me im imagining my chronic pain? like tf? i told her i have chronic pain and i want to get tested for eds and she was like no, youre too young to have pain, are you sure youre not just imagining it? she then told me im too young to have eds which is literally a genetic condition. you have from birth, and last time i checked ive been born. ik its kinda pointless to try and get an official eds diagnosis bc theres only one specialist in my area and the wait list is literally two and a half years, my family’s insurance wont cover it and my dad says he doesnt want to be diagnosed with anything bc it could get in the way of future opportunities, but me not being able to get the accommodations i need is just going to get in the way even more. it just really sucks, bc i know for a fact that i have eds. all the physical therapists ive talked to have agreed as well but i cant find a doctor that will listen to me and it is *so* frustrating
Collect an album of resources and if anything seems weird, video it
Throw the whole doctor away
Ask for a written document saying that the doctor refused to treat your illness
That's happened to me. I don't think it counts as chronic pain but I've had headaches like all the time since I was 5. I wake up and it starts and doesn't end until I go to sleep. I told my doctor about this and other issues I've been going through and she said I was imagining it and proceeded to gaslight me. It's so weird
I guess the east way to understand appropriation vs acculturation vs assimilation is direction on the hierarchy.
Appropriation is when cultural customs move up the hierarchy: taken from people lower for the benefit of people higher
Assimilation is when cultural customs move down the hierarchy: forced on people lower by people higher.
Acculturation is when cultural practices are exchanged between equal parties on a hierarchy.
amazing summary!!
Hi y’all!! Shout out to everyone else who isn’t really sure if they’ve experienced trauma. I have no clue if it’s just me here, but shout out regardless.
I feel you ❤
I had a horrible experience with the person that i trusted most in the world leaving me which shattered me for months and gave me lasting trust issues and I feel insecure calling it trauma because other people have it so much worse
anyone else?
@@azthebisaster I also feel insecure when referring to some experiences (with a family member) as trauma, despite it leaving me with lasting issues, and completely changing me as a person, so, yeah, hi. Me too.
(And its okay, just because other people have experienced worse, does not mean you haven't experienced trauma, nor does it mean you cannot refer to it as such).
Hot take: nt people can’t write dangerous or evil characters. 9 times out of ten, they just write a nd person. Wether the villains are autistic coded, systems, or just plainly have ptsd, nt people always write us as the “crazy” bad guys, when it’s THEM who hurts us.
True! I think they aren't even aware of it... My mum told me about one guy she was in school with, and said that he was doing a lot of what I also do to stim (she doesn't know tho cuz when I was stimming in front of her, she told me to stop. And that, what I do looks mentally ill etc). She told me to stay away from ppl like that because that doesn't seem healthy. It really hurt because that's who I am and I won't stay away from myself or any of my ND friends
(Also, this is my daily comment)
I guess thats why when I write I find it hard to write a "purely evil villain." What is a truely evil villain? Yk, thats why I love My Hero Academia and I dont care what people think about it. MHA's villians are complicated because their backstories give them reasons to hate hero society. Their reasons are understandable, thats what makes them so likeable. And their backstories truely poke holes in the "perfection" of hero society.
Oh, and also I found a comic I really adore called "the paupers prince" on tapas. It's about a poor boy falling in love with an autistic poc prince and them fighting capitalism. All wrapped up in a romance that we really deserve
I write my villain characters usually blinded by power, thinking they’re doing good, thinking they’re better than others, ect.
@@Feather899 All my villains are essentially colonizers with extra steps
It was our collective birthday yesterday! Big silly system birthday! We're little big guys! -Vexen
happy birthday y'all!!!!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY :D
happy birthday (:
happy birthday! 🎉
Happy birthday!!
Got sensory overload from the equipment in the welding shop because I forgot my hearing protection at home
Dude I'm so sorry, that's sucks really bad
When I was a freshman in highschool I had to take a shop class (mandatory for some reason) and it took all of my energy to not bolt out of there as soon as any machine was turned on
Hope the welding thing gets better or you can bring ur headphones when you go next time
@@lokiaxel5028thanks. I’m gonna get some earplugs. I love welding with all my heart and plan to make a career out of it but the machine that cuts the metal is SO LOUD
My dad just tried to convince me that Rome fell because the Romans were transgender 💀
lmao WHAT-
Bruh💀💀
YT asked me if I wanted to reconsider my last comment. Maybe edit it and make it less offensive.
I'm sorry women. 🙏 It was misogynist of me to imagine tits that aren't connected to anyone. I objectified you. 🙏 Granted, I don't think that's what YT was going on about, but still.
HEEEEEELPPP WHAT
💀????? I’m sorry ?????
my friends dad recently went on a rant about how the government wants to force people to eat crickets and he ended it by saying that the black panther movies were pandering. i laughed at him and he threw a tantrum. hopefully they'll come to their senses, but some people are too far gone :/
The crows in my neighborhood are going wild because there’s a cat sitting on a fence
omg, crows and a cat, i love crows and cats!
i have a emotional support white guy, hes a year older than me, cis, het, very stereotypical, likes sports and fortnite, and he is incredibly sweet, he has like 4 sisters so hes very comfortable being feminine and i love him, he is the best
Hi everyone :3!! After yesterday ive been doing better, finished writing a chapter of the fanfiction im working on late last night. Also there was a herd of horses by the cemetary fun fact.
Ello good people of the internet, it is I. I'm currently thinking about culture. Ya see I was a sikh who was technically raised atheist by most standards. This was mostly because of cultural assimilation. Because of this at some point I cut my hair, we're kind of not supposed to do that. So now I feel relatively bad about that and want to recconect with my culture. So my dad invited me to the temple on Sunday, and I want to go but at the same time I'm feeling extremely anxious about it because I don't know a single one of the prayers and am already insecure about my knowledge of my culture. So yeah.
I’m sure your dad would love to teach you some prayers! It’s great you’re starting to get back in ur culture even if it’s been some time ❤
It's great that u want to reconnect with ur culture and religion. I'm sure other people would be happy to teach u!
And I could write an essay on cultural appropriation in Kpop and how some stans and South Koreans choose to individualize the experience of culture and cultural appropriation in order to justify it or overlook its existence in the industry and in South Korean media and society🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I’ll help you *cough cough money performance vid* *cough cough mamamoo* 🏃🏃
2:58 I know a lot of people are going to say, "its just music" just like you say when you take our hairstyles, our dances, our fashion. Youre just mad black people wont let you take our shit and rebrand it. Yall act like thats not what youre doing when it totally is and then you start victim blaming. Its not just hair, its not just a dance, its not just a song when you do it all the time.
And for the people who say "culture is meant to be shared" yeah, but youre overstepping when you take something and try to pass it off as your own. Thats the difference between cultural appropriation and appreciation. One, youre acknowledging the original and that you did not come up with this, and the other you give no credit and pass it off as your own.
There are COUNTLESS examples of this but yall wanna act like its isolated events. Its not.
boost!
PERIODT!! It isn't just hair, just music or, just a dance. There's symbolic meaning and a cultural significance behind the cultural things the black community does. When white people say "it's just hair", that statement acknowledges the fact that because of the social and systemic power they have, they never had to have a connection to their hair or it never was significant. To them their hair is "just hair". This could be said about other things too.
Boost.
i agree completely, but genuine question of curiosity: is the genre of music (bedroom pop) apart of black culture? just asking because i love a lot of bedroom pop artists, most of them being black, and i was wondering if it was another music genre that POC started :)
Boost
Shout out to Noname! If y'all ain't listened to her you're missing out.
I feel really hesitant about using mobility aids when I don't have any diagnosed issues. I've got some joints that are really sensitive and i can roll them out of socket kinda easily(especially my knees, and i lock them naturally when I stand) and I feel that a brace or cane would help, but I'm worried people will question me about it especially if nothing is on the books. But like on the other hand, it causes me issues in everyday life to do things I enjoy, so idk what to do
This sounds very similar to what I have (CMT) you should look into it. It might be something else entirely though idk
I think that if something helps you, it helps you. You need braces or a cane just as much as someone with a diagnosis. A lack of one doesn't make your needs any less valid!
Hello! I'm a cane user! And while I recommend researching what may help you and ur specific pains and maybe speaking to ur doc; me and my other disabled friends ultimately think that if you think you may need a mobility aid, get one. The "taking resources" idea prevents people who need aids from getting them cuz they don't think they're "disabled enough". Let me tell you, you deserve aid if you need it and no one except yourself can tell you you're invalid in ur pain.
I use a cane and I'm not diagnosed, I know I have chronic pain and that I struggle to stand/walk, that's all that matters to me.
And, I mean this in the best way possible, no passive aggressiveness intended. But getting a diagnosis and using a mobility aid will not magically make ableist people go away. There will still be people who will question why you use it, not believe you if you say you're diagnosed. Sadly, this is the world we live in and there's not a whole lot that can be done about that. So I recommend getting whatever helps you.
literally like ik how stressful it can be to use mobility aids when ur worried abt ppl questioning u but also like literally 99% of the time the aid will noticeably improve ur situation enough to outweigh the detriment of any potential questions :)
also my bestie uses a cane and it helps them a lot, plus i don’t think they’ve ever been questioned directly abt it!
I had a really upsetting episode a couple of days ago. My mothers birthday is coming up and I was planning to crochet a jellyfish for her but I couldn’t find my stitch markers and had a total meltdown. I couldn’t breathe and I wanted to scream. My mum was really understanding, but I still feel guilty and can’t stand on the project even though I can just use earrings instead of stitch markers
i was supposed to write an essay about mtbi types but it turned into me rambling about capitalism help
What's mbti? Also, fuck capitalism.
@@hellolithy Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. It's the 16 personalities.
Yeah, fuck capitalism.
I once had to write a paper on _Flowers for Algernon_ (the short story version), and went on a two-page tangent about the failings of capitalism.
weve been having a terrible week, but hey, at least were going to get a 4 day weekend soon. we seriously need rest
-ves
💜💜🤗🤗 I hope it will be a great weekend 💜💜🤗🤗
Labor day!
Crochet update 13: I’m crocheted 26 rows since yesterdays update, so I’m 40 rows into the back panel of the BMO bag. I’m hoping to finish the other 16 rows tonight and do the bottom panel tomorrow morning so I can take the bag to the Barbie movie tomorrow. I’ll still have to add the details but then I can use it!!! Very exciting
Whoop whoop! I'm making a pumpkin cow for a bus driver rn :) hope the bag goes well!!!
I'm more of a sewist but recently started doing crochet and it amazes me that I can create a whole 3d shape from just a ball of yarn because I'm so used to being able to see all the pieces of the finished product laid out flat before I start
I hope your bag turns out nicely :)
Yesterday I started a cat ear beanie with ace - y colors :^
@@lokiaxel5028 thank you! that’s so sweet, i hope they like it :)
@@dragonalpaca3530 thanks!!!! crochet really is such a cool art form
Vent:
I hate learning to drive. The road layouts make no sense and neither does anything else and it makes me anxious as fuck. Unfortunately I’m American so I have to. If I don’t my quality of life will be objectively worse. There’s a disability bus service but I feel like I’m not disabled enough to use it. This is what I hate about being “high functioning” I’m expected to be able to function normally so when I can’t I’m seen as just being lazy so I just stop trying.
As an American incapable of driving I can confirm that it sucks
Learning to drive was hell for me. I actually quite enjoy it now that I don’t have my mom freaking out in the passenger seat. Good luck friend! Be safe!
It becomes easier faster than you'd think. It SUCKS! ESPECIALLY IN CITIES!!!!! Cities are gross, especially if you don't drive in that city frequently. But don't be too bummed over driving. It truly becomes easier quicker than you'd think. Definitely not immediately, but not forever either.
I don't know why streets bend. Or when they cut off and start at a different place. Grid is better.
sometimes I just want the simple stupid shit like...
stuff that doesn't have a BIG and DEEP meaning, and stuff that I can look and connect with in a way that's simple.
Like for me I've never been that creator or artist who creates something out of a DEEP and COMPLEX feeling.
I just create stuff that I like. and that's the basic definition of it.
I've always hated it when people ask me "what made you create this?" or "what's the meaning behind this?" and I'd just say that there's nothing... there's no big, colossal meaning behind the things that I make and nothing made me want to create it (other than basic inspo and motivation), because THERE ISN'T and I hate when people try to force said "meanings" and "depth" out of me like,
I DO SHIT THAT I LOVE BECAUSE I ENJOY DOING IT TF!!
Sorry that it's too "simple" or too "basic" of an answer for you.
and because of this I've naturally been drawn to things that are seen as simple or less complex and I analyze it. Not analyze it in a "finding the meaning behind it" way but analyze it in a "what technique did this person use to create this" or I look at the details and intricate aspects of it and I find fascination in that and that alone. and this doesn't even need to be with artwork. This applies to EVERYDAY stuff for me. grass, leaves, trees, lakes, rivers, buildings, sticks, coffee grains, power, eyeshadow pallets, and clothes etc. the simple stuff.
Yeah! Art isn't always that deep! It doesn't have to be that deep!
This!! I literally told someone this and they were like 🤓☝️"no!! Even that emotion contributes to your art!! All art has meaning" like pls stfu it's my Fookin art
fr ^^^
@@extrasupercoolbeans even the art that's just my favorite fictional characters kissing each other?
@@VanNessy97 idk its whatever you want it to mean
I've never been the person who can create when they're in a depressive or unhappy state.
Like, people always like to assume that because I'm an artists that my feelings and my drawings are so connected when that's by far NOT the case with me.
They especially assume so when they see a BIG creation come out from an artist when that artist was in a negative space and so they think that applies to me, like no. I cannot create or do anything "creative" when I'm in a negative space BECAUSE I LACK MOTIVATION and the stimuli is not stimuli - ing like it's suppose to.
HOW DO YOU EXPECT ME TO CREATE WHEN I'M IN THAT SPACE (unless it's like crocheting, cause I can do that when unhappy fr)
I love this because it can go both ways. I get really creative when I’m sad
@@HeresAbigOne Mine is a bit of both when I'm in a depressive state I'm extremely creative and the juices are flowing but I lack the motivation to physically get up or act on them and I end up (sometimes) losing some of my best ideas which makes me feel even sadder.
@@HeresAbigOne Lucky. For me it rarely ever happens. (me creating when I'm unhappy or sad rarely ever happens).
i've been playin acnh lately, problem is i am very impatient but also don't want to time travel--
but hey i've got a tangy ambio card!!! excited!!
What’s acnh? /genq
I might know but I can’t think of it atm
@@triple-AAA-battery animal crossing new horizons :)
can we appreciate how Peyton uploads frequently for us? ❤❤❤
I got the zinc for Wilson’s
Yippee!
Yay!!! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
(This comment is for the algo but also, I'm curious.) I've always been confused as to why modern religions are called religions, but ancient ones are called myths.
I… honestly don’t know. Now that you mention it yeah it’s pretty weird
personally, I think its because society views our ancient ancestors as primitive and uncivilized, therefore they are subsequently also viewed as inferior and are dehumanized. I don't know is this is the actual reason why, but that's my theory!!
When most people think about ancient religions they think about Ancient and Roman mythologies. A reason why those relgions are considered myth are the way stories were passed down, and because most people don’t believe in them anymore/regard them as fables. However there are also many reason why they are considered myth and sometimes this view often overshadows the ancient religions that other people of different cultures/ethnic groups believe in. The commentor above points it out well.
@@Aravis-the-dragon says who?? I still believe in the "myths" of my ancestors.
Yeah honestly, whenever ive heard a teacher talk about greek "mythology" they approach it with this notion that it's like a made up story, and that "no one believes it anymore." But hellenistic paganism exists.
Question I have for ppl who have bpd/cluster b disorders. But what is your opinion on the “Yandere” trope n is it ableist?? I’m fully aware that obv someone with BPD is *not at all* a yandere. But I’ve seen debates on wether or not the trope is harmful to those with bpd
Not fully sure if I count as a cluster B disorder (DID, I just can’t remember if it counts) but OH BOY ITS SO BAD. A yandere isn’t “quirky” or “cute” or something like that.
Oh absolutely. Almost all the “crazy” deres are ableist. BPD being built off the “crazy gf with bpd” trope. The mood swings, fear of abandonment, self harm/harming others, everything.
Yandere is problematic as hell
I never gave it too much thought other than it being cringe and stupid. I never knew people linked it to specific disorders, but it makes sense now that I think about it. Makes it all the more cringe.
Alrighty, good to know. Now may I ask, is there anyway someone could make a “yandere” without being ableist? Discarding everything that makes the yandere trope bad, to the point where one might not consider it a yandere anymore but still keeping the core trait of “killing for love.” Or naw
My teeth hurt and I am eating a sandwich :(
Really quickly, in a song off sundial, an antisemitic artist was featured, and no name refused to take it down. As much as I love noname, that was a bit of a disappointment
Oh that is upsetting
‼️TW‼️talks of possible sh and mental hospitals‼️
i'm gonna be honest, i'm not doing good right now. it's getting worse, actually, a lot worse. i had one of, if not, the worst anxiety attacks i've ever had two nights ago and i'm genuinely considering entering myself into a psych ward because i don't know what else to do. i don't have anywhere else i can really go right now and i'm genuinely worried i might do something drastic.
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hi tobi, ive gone through the same thing and, while the physc ward can be helpful, it can also make things a lot worse. it can be very traumatic going there too. if you feel unsafe, i recommend trying to talk to a trusted adult/school, if you go there. if you have a therapist/ counsellor, or just someone you trust and know can help you, then i recommend talking to them. also, try to distract yourself, stay with others alot of the time and avoid being alone, that won’t help, distance yourself from things that might cause harm, cuddle with soft toys (plushies), or with a pet if you have one. dance, sing, draw, read, watch she-ra. she-ra is always a mood lifter haha- anyway, im sending love and i hope this can be of help
I had a really embarassing moment at school today goddamit 😭
People up in arms about racism and being called racist need to calm down. Just confront it, acknowledge, and think. You don't have to get all hurt about it. Someone called you racist, you're not the only person who has been racist today. Deal with yourself and learn.
gonna have noodles for lunch :)
Yum
omg im literally boiling pasta rn for lunch. twinnn
Hiiiii ive wanted to comment on here SO BAD, yall seem really cool!!!!! Here's some stuff about me: My name is Lavender, i live in the US and im Native American (Mvskoke and Kiowa tribes.) Uhhhh. hyperfixations/special interests inlude MLP, TOH, PJO, Twilight, jellyfish, sharks, bugs!!, and Psychology !!!!
Welcome!
hiya :33 and welcome! mlp is one of my special interests too!!! who’s your favourite character from it and why? (also love toh)
@@moonfairie PINKIE PIE BC SHES JUST LIKE ME :DD WBY???
@@o00M00o tyyyy!! :33
@@absoluteunfunnynerd I LOVE PINKIE PIE!! i have a lot of faves but probably twilight, fluttershy, pinkie pie, RARITY OMGG and discord! i also like mrs cake. and cadence. and luna AND KING SOMBRA OMG😭😭 also applejack! basically all the mane six except rainbowdash, i don’t really like her but she’s still cool! i also really like sunset shimmer from the eg series!
I wish there were more goth/alt shops that arent just shein or dollskill selling garbage just bc its trendy right now. I like killstar but I personally cant wear a lot of what they make. Maybe all the good goth clothing is just outside of my budget ://
hi y'all! i'm decorating my walls with my art, what should i draw?
Frog having a picnic with a possom
ooh those are some really cool ideas
draw some fanart of your favorite book character! If you want something more specific, how about a bat kid living in a cave?
Person wearing a poofy strawberry dress
Fanart of shows or a band you like. Also maybe a possum or constellations
Hey guys!! Really late but I’ve had a really rough day. It was the second day of school today and school itself wasn’t necessarily bad, but when I got picked up my mom was already stressed and stuff, and the drive home just made her continuously more angry (bad drivers). Then when we got home lots of things just went wrong for me, like small things like me not finding my phone cord, my hot cocoa burning my mouth, me falling asleep, etc. to the point I just had a mental breakdown a few minutes ago. I still have to take a shower too and my legs hurt so bad and my lavender shower steamer ran out too :( it’s only the second day of sophomore year and I’m already so mentally and physically exhausted 😭 tbh I don’t know what to do (no therapist or trusted adult to listen to me) so if anyone has any tips lmk and I love all my queer, nd, and Bipoc friends!❤ - a gender-fluid Abrosexual half Indian 🫶
AHHH IM LATE :(. I woke up with a migraine again today and my school sent out more info about book bags. Other then that I’ve stayed in my pajamas and laying next to my long haired calico cat :3
Hi :) day three of not trying to kms 💪
you can make it fam!! i belive in you
You got this 💜💜🤗🤗
CONGRATS‼️‼️
congrats!! i'm proud of you!
im so proud of you! great job. you can do this, we all believe in you!!
my binder is coming monday :D
Hello, it has been a really long time, huh? Here's some updates to boost this video.
(TW: Some are depressing or triggering, and mentions for drowning and such)
-Our host, Maya, has officially reached 6 months with her fiance.
-An unfortunate situation having to deal with the beach and a drowning of a family member (the member has survived, luckily) has caused some severe PTSD and trauma, so our system has a few more members (more like a lot. A lot has happened).
-For those curious about the dental health stuff, it has gotten much better, and we're even growing a wisdom tooth.
-As we've mentioned before, we've been in ED and SH recovery for a while. I am very happy and lucky to report: 79 days clean, body dysmorphia pretty much gone, and have been eating very regularly for a while.
-Got to see a concert of a childhood favourite band, it was incredible. (For those curious, it was Disturbed).
-Went to see a doctor about possible carpal tunnel and osteoarthritis. Unfortunately got blown off but since we've finally switched to the normal doctor, I can hopefully get it checked out sometime in a few weeks if the host's mother agrees to it.
Overall, a lot of good stuff has happened, a lot of bad stuff too but at the moment life is looking up for us. I hope you're all doing very well, how have your days been?
Stay safe, eat the rich, and remember that fakeclaiming people you have no idea about the medical history of is shitty and you're not a psychologist, you cannot tell when someone is faking. Saying this in preparation for the fakeclaimers who call us "fakers" of DID.
Have a good day. -Sanemi
congrats for maya and her fiance!
sorry to hear about the drowning and ptsd, hope y'all doing better now.
congrats on recovery! that's amazing, keep going!
glad you liked the concert, i also like the band disturbed and fuck fakeclaimers
Opens door
Fellow system? -Vexen
ah dw fakeclaimers r rare here, personally in the 3 months ive been here ive never seen one
@@giddyspiderboy I've seen one like, twice here. Specifically towards us. But it's okay. -Sanemi
@@michealmistilteinn Hello, fellow system. -Sanemi
Question time 🤖🤖🤖
1) What are your thoughts on AI?
2) Barbie or Oppenheimer?
3) Can you give me an example of a dog whistle and what that dog whistle means?
4) Is AI sentient? How do you define sentience?
5) What's your favorite sound?
1- it’s a tool. Can be used for good and bad
2- both omfg
3- not sure if this counts, but people who refuse to call poc, poc. It’s okay to say black. It’s okay to say Indigenous. It’s okay to say Asian.
4- I don’t know if it’s sentient, but every robo apocalypse starts with people refusing to give AI human rights.
5- picking a fruit off my plants
1) depends on what ai ur talking about
2) I haven’t seen any yet
3) not that sure
4) ?
5) music
1. i think it can be useful in some regards but that ai art is objectively harmful and bad
2. barbie, i don't like oppenheimer.
3. a dog whistle is a phrase used by fascists to find other fascists without outright being hateful. an example of this would be the phrase "new world order"(used by antisemites)
4. i don't know. it could be, but sentience can't really be defined so i guess we may never know
5. i like the sound of rain :3
1) is a good tool for artists, writers and etc. but shouldn’t be used against them cause it’s harmful
2) Barbie🩷💅
3) I don’t know many dog whistles and I don’t know if this counts but people wanting their family with blue eyes and blonde hair which is what Hitler wanted all families to look like
4) if the AI has rights and emotions then I guess it’s sentient? Not really good at explaining this
5) that really funky, jazzy instrumental in “Wesley’s Theory”. Great song👍
1. It can be good but it’s usually stoopid
2. I haven’t seen either yet
3. When one group uses a “code” of sorts to find others of their group without just being like “hey I’m a fascist look at me”
4. Jeez I hope not. Sentience = ability to perceive and think about how you react to stimuli and not just go on instinct. A lizard is sentient. Bacteria are not
5. I like the sound of a v8 engine
Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
Hoi! Loce your comments. They're amazing! Tysm for commenting every day! 🤗🤗💜💜
Btw, if you do take a break, I won't hold it against you. You seserve one. 🤗🤗💜💜
@hellolithy aww thanks love you/p 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
(i am white and open to discussion, this is just my perspective and what I've gathered)
Cultural appropriation is similar to plagiarism in a sense
Where you benefit by using something someone else created for your own gain
But, if you give the proper credit (in situations where it is ok to use with credit) then it is "ok" in a sense
I put that in quote because there's rules, regulations and exceptions that I'm not really aware of
Again, open to discussion and happy to hear other's thoughts, that's just how I see things with the information I have
I’m a goofy goober yeah
You're a goofy goober yeah
Goofy goober. :)
GOOFY GOOBER ROCK
9:15 The issue with this is that autistic people, such as myself, wouldn't instinctively understand the insinuation that she wasn't saying that calling a black person lazy under any circumstance is racist. I wouldn't be surprised if a large number of those responding are undiagnosed on the spectrum and thus don't have the neurotypical's ability to use that form of bridging gaps in knowledge with logic. I was starting to get offended until she explained in the follow-up, but that stuff about critical thinking skills and thinking comprehension in terms of what I'm saying now seems ableist.
My dad doesn't believe that racism exists (as much)in the US and i think that with that statement, he's being racist.
Wooo I’m early!!
questions for the algorithm! ✨
1. your favourite juice?
2. favourite music genres?
3. something you're proud of?
4. do you prefer listening to music with headphones or without them?
slay safe y'all!
@GreenMayoMan69_ fresh squeezed stuff is the best!
1) idk if lemonade counts, but im picking it.
2) i love punk music and R&B
3) actually having a healthy and long lasting relationship. things like that are hard for me, but my partner has been so supportive and accommodating for me.
4) with headphones, usually.
1. Grape juice
2. Metal, punk, country
3. Escaping the far right pipeline
4. Both
1. Grape, but I also like “super fruit punch”. Both from the brand “Honest Kids”.
2. I don’t really pay attention to genres but vocaloid is v funky!
3. I opened up to my therapist about $/@! (pleas tell me if this needs a tw am sick and unable to tell)
4. With!! Especially since I listen to music I’m not allowed to (honey I’m home by ghost, Bloody Mary by lady Gaga, etc. not songs that are inherently bad but songs that my radical right and conservative Christian dad wouldn’t approve of)
@@CorvusMoon22 yoo, metal and punk! 🤘🏻
good for you for escaping the alt right, proud of you!
Omg all 3 of my comments got deleted augh. First one is I stayed home because sick. Second is asking what a race gr!fter, race b@!ter is and what’s the context that gh3tto would be used against bl@ck ppl. Third was Talking about something r@c!st I was told as a kid. I’ll respond in comments if anyone wants to know what it was (with major censoring so it doesn’t go bye bye)
Oof, that sucks! Sorry you had to deal with that /gen
So ו don't really know what a race gr!ft3r is, but ו think calling a black person a "race b@!t3r" is saying they're trying to trick people into thinking they're another race just because they look or act a certain way. ו remember once ו saw something (maybe in an old comp) where someone said a black girl was "Asian fishing" because she had almond shaped eyes, which is just a dumb claim because that's just a common trait worldwide. Also, in my experience people are called gh3tt0 for "acting black," which just follows the stereotype that black people are poor and/or uneducated. It could also be antisemitic, since the ghettos were where Jewish people were forced to live, and where the N@z!s hit first, trying to "3xt3rm!n@t3 the Jews"
how do people not know this shit
Some people grew up sheltered from things
Some people refuse to acknowledge real life situations
Boost
Boost boost.
aaaaaaaaaaaa as a misophoniac the first video was horrible
Chewing was so loud and disgusting.
and unwarned so the video just started and “CRUSNCHSSCHRUNCHS”@@hellolithy
@@cgihearteyes Yes. It was so bad. I also didn't even understand it anyway because they didn't look like they were trying to not say anything, and nobody did.
Maybe the noise was the signifier, but I dunno. Also the noise sucks.
Bte, kind of u related to up in this comment but you probably shouldn't watch the conclusion of woke Karen's tictoks because he make a weird slurping sound at the end. I know that he likes it, and he means well, but the sound sucks.
15:27 why is blp kosher here? he's not claiming to have made rap music a genre or anything of that nature
1437 days until RIP THE SPIDERS OUTSIDE MY HOUSE DROWNING IN THE HURRICANE /j
rescue the silly comerades‼‼/hj
Just remembered something r&c!st my old school did. Hope this comment doesn’t get taken down. TW: R@c!sm
There was a day (I can’t remember when) every year that ppl would dress up as either a pilgrim or a Native American. My 8-9 year old self who thought it was fine (and was never told it was r@c!st) went as a Native American. Both years I went there. I also dressed up as Pocahontas at my homeschool one year where you had to dress up as a historical figure. I am yt and (as far as I know) have no Native American heritage.
Hii!! I'm not sure if this was a typo or something, but Pocahontas was Indigenous to America (Native American), not African American. Also, the term 'Indian' shouldn't be used to describe Natives. We're not Indian: we're not from India. We're Native American, or, American Indigenous. I hope you have a nice day!! ((also sorry if my tone came off as rude, it's all /nm and /pos !!)) :]]
@@absoluteunfunnynerd more of a brain not brain ing moment but ty :)
@@triple-AAA-batteryOfc!!! I get it :D
@@absoluteunfunnynerd also i love your pfp sm funky colors go brr :)
@@triple-AAA-battery AHHHH YES YES :DD TYYY
Caterpillars show up 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛its been a rough few days for us huh. Still, no matter!
Recently i tried getting therapy . My mom wanted a recommendation, but my doctors office isnt responding. We are gonna try out finding another way now. Hhhhh
So much has happened the past few days. But all of the loose threads are tying up. Soon, hopefully i wont have to worry about anything. 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛
🐛🐛🐛🐛capillers🐛🐛🐛🐛
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