I hate when the same people who preach 'NEVER assume people's genders' turn around and completely ignore it as soon as someone looks like a cishet guy. No shade to anyone in particular, just something I'm thinking about.
we notice this a lot especially with masc presenting/AMAB nonbinary people, ESPECIALLY when they identify with the lesbian label. the moment “masc” is associated with being lesbian in any way it tends to make a lot of people mad. kinda gross tbh. lesbians arent fem femme feminity femmy girly girls all the time (its valid if they are but yall get my point!!)
True! I'm trying to explain that to my family way to often. My little sister picks up on it sometimes. She's 12 and told me that it's much more likely that she'll have a wife than a husband in the future! I was internally freaking out because having a queer sibling is really cool, but because she was telling me all of that so casually I also replied without making it a big thing.
@@wendyjohnson4345YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN
okay i quite literally *just* got out of class, but i need to say this there's something so sinister about straight men taking queer songs made by queer people for other queer people and turning them into straight love songs or straight revenge songs and when queer women complain about this, they're told that it's just music and they shouldn't be so mad about it cause it just comes with the territory but then when queer people do the same thing, we're being told that not everything is about us and that we don't need to shove our queerness down people's throats this will never not make me mad
THIS. WITH THE SONG “JENNY”. i hated the tiktok trend where cishet people did the “lyric prank on my bf/gf!!! ❤❤😂” SO MUCH. like, its a cute love song thats *clearly* supposed to be lesbian focused just by the lyrics and music video
Honestly something that makes my blood boil is the misinformation surrounding medical transition and how it works. I mentioned to my friend that my aunt is trans and medically transitioned and her response was “YOUR AUNT CUT HER DICK OFF?!!!!?11!??!! where does she pee from 😦” and its just like. ma’am. did you think she just had a gaping hole. Its so infuriating
it really is. the other day, i corrected a comment on a very conservative video (they had the idea that not only can ‘liberal’ parents walk into a therapists office and get their child prescribed hormones immediately, but puberty blockers are completely irreversible and halting puberty for even a little can damage a kid beyond recovery.) i tried to calmly explain that none of that was true, but i just got “it sadly is 🙁” ???? it’s so fascinating how people hear something untrue, and, frankly, absurd, and just roll with it because “trans people bad >:(“ like I’ve never seen someone fight against a strawman so hard
Imagine having to protest about dress code at school and the school forcing you to stop so some kids ended up threatening the principal and the principal had to make a video about it and the dress code to try and put our voices for the admin but it escalated to the point that kids with curly hair went into school suspension because of it and they forced a kid to cut a dread of their hair bc it was an “unnatural color” ….. yeah my school is going insane😀
I’ve mainly seen it said when a character is assumed trans based off of stereotypes (example: Louisa from Encanto head canoned as a trans woman because of her body type). But the majority of the time it’s just trans people relating to aspects of their character and attributing that to transness. It’s hardly ever a negative thing
The ableism with doctors I’ve had is just sad. The blatant disregarding, the constant downplaying, lying, not contacting us before putting something in my chart.
Ranting to boost the algorithm: Does anyone else kinda hate how Heartstopper is treated as mandatory to watch if you’re queer? Like I got pressured by my ex and her friends into reading the graphic novels and watching (most of) the first season, and I’ve hated heartstopper since because the ONLY reason she and the others wanted me to watch it was because I’m queer and it’s a queer show. I got just reduced to my queer identity (by other queer people) and treated as if none of my tastes in media persevere above wanting queer rep. I’m a sci-fi/fantasy fan, heartstopper has nothing in it (other than queer rep) that I would normally seek out and so I was completely uninterested because there weren’t exactly wizards or aliens or anything plot-wise that I enjoy. Like I understand the standpoint of “oh but you relate to it!!” but I *DONT* because we’re not a fucking monolith- and I’m absolutely sick of OTHER QUEER PEOPLE (mainly liberals tbh) acting as if we are.
Licherallyy, I have met queers before saying they only watch media with queer people in it/made by queer people. Pretty limiting to me, I don't do this. We are NOT a monolith
Still haven't watched it but I get the sense I might be annoyed by the idealism of it. Supportive openly queer teachers sounds amazing but in my experience they're few and far between.
im autistic and this is honestly something i relate to a lot. heartstopper has nothing related to my special interests, but i feel pressured and left out every time i hear a queer person rambling about how “every queer person should see this!! every queer person knows this!!!”. i feel the exact same about good omens! it isnt subject matter im interested in but i feel so pressured to see it because of how adored it is in leftist/queer communities, kinda wish people would keep their interests to the groups theyre in and the people who DO enjoy it
yeah i haven't seen heartstopper because i hate highschool romance with a passion. i would gladly watch lgbtg+ shows if they were not highschool based. i really hate how disappointed my friends are when i tell em i haven't seen it. i dont care that they haven't seen loads of things i like. just because im queer doesn't mean i need to consume certain media
I understand that it’s idealism is used mainly as escapism, giving queer people a show with representation that isn’t entirely about their struggles, but I find heart stopper kind of boring. I read the first book because I like the author and watched the first couple episodes but it’s not my taste and heartstopper being treated as something that all queer people love is frustrating. To clarify, I don’t have any problems with the show, just annoying how the fandom treats outsiders
Can't believe it took me this long to realise that while other transmasc people talk about playing house as kids and played as the dad/brother/other male figure wanting to be them and I never understood it, all I wanted was to be the older sister... My sister is about 15 months older than me and she has always been the favourite. She is the password child on everything and I have always been held to impossible standards while she gets away with everything she's done to me. I may be trans, but I'm also a trauma survivor and I can't believe it took me this long to realise that not relating to their experience hiding who they didn't know they were didn't mean I wasn't doing the same. I just wanted to be the favourite.
Recently learned that in 2011 my city was found to have cyanide and chloroform in that water. Yeah no wonder Florida is like this there literally is stuff in the water😭
If you have any positive (queer) stories you'd like to tell, I'd love to hear them! I'll start: I came out to my grandma as trans recently, and she just asked me: "should i also call you *name*then?" And when i told her that that's what i want and we were saying goodbye, she hugged me and said: "i want you to know that i love you very much, *name*" She's in her mid 80s and still so loving and open
i literally love supportive family and friends. my grandma didn’t know what nb was but when i told her she was just like “oh ok”. i’m not out to her but i love that even in her seventies she doesn’t give a shit bout what queer ppl do bc she understands that it doesn’t negatively affect her. she’s the best. ALSO congrats girlie/bro/bestie (i’m autistic in all genders lol) even though idk you im so proud of you for coming out bc it’s literally so hard.
As a trans woman, it's always really interesting to hear about the other side of transition, and I'm glad I got to hear about the less talked about parts. Thankyou for including the last tiktoks!
I remember whenever I was a little kid and trump was running for president and the topic of who my mom was voting for came up. I didn’t really know anything about politics at this time and i said at one point the Trump was going to bl0w up our schools💀 I mean it didn’t happen but the right is destroying the education system so I mean it isn’t completely wrong
4:53 i met a kid a few years ago that was terrified of what his parents would do if they found out he was trans. he was eleven. we have queer youth housing for exactly this reason.
I guess I’m nonbinary but still see myself as some sort of female thing if that makes sense. Anyway I used the men’s bathroom the other day then my male friend walked in and was like “you know what I’m not even surprised” so I see that as a win
@@AbstractQueerit’s probably less of an identity, and more holding on to dysphoria about the gender you’re perceived as. i’m nonbinary as well but typically get seen as female, and it’s easy to feel complacent, if that makes sense.
@@Mossious I'm not going to speculate what their identity is, especially based off of such a brief comment. The only reason I brought up the demigirl label was bc it's not a commonly known identity, and if they weren't aware of it this could give them something to look into, and could possibly give them a label that validates their experience and connects them to other people. I'm an AFAB agender person that still dresses relatively femme, so I def took a while to fully realize I didn't identify female at all. It wasn't until I realized how dysphoric I was about constantly being referred to as female that I realized that I was completely agender. So yeah, it could be dysphoria. It could be identity. It's useless to speculate from the sidelines though, as only OP can make that determination. I just wanted to make sure they have all applicable info to decide how they choose to label themself.
Creative Writing Prompt 170: I've been seeing a lot of assassin bugs at work lately and that's kinda sent me down a rabbit hole of reading about kissing bugs and learning more about Chagas disease. Long story short, it's a very treatable disease that can become chronic and debilitating. Kissing bugs, which spread the disease between vertebrates, are responsible for killing about 10,000 people a year. As the planet warms, and as climate refugees flee the imperial periphery, kissing bugs will spread farther north into the US and the poor, uninsured carriers of Chagas will help spread the disease to more people, who in the US will likely also be poor and unable to treat the disease before it becomes chronic. A lot of people are going to die. They don't have to. That's why we do what we do. Write a story about the consequences of climate change. It can be a warning, a stark reminder of what may happen if we fail, or it can be hopeful-examining ways we as communities can come together and help each other through a violent world. The threat may be one you know about or one you make up, as long as you are specific. Consider the specific hurdles that must be overcome and how we overcome them, or how we fail to overcome them, and why.
Thank you for writing all these prompts! I start looking out for you in the comments now, because you have some good ideas. Whether they're just a thought or an issue in real life,it makes for some interesting and challenging stories to write. I especially like your context as to how you find your prompts, sometimes it sends me into little rabbit holes of research about new topics. Hope you keep it up, and much love!
@@CazBun I appreciate it. lately I’ve only been posting these Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, so don’t spend too much time looking for me the rest of the week. It’s always good to know people are getting something out of this
Something I wish people would talk about more when starting T is how it seriously mellows you out. I talked to my endo about this and apparently most people who take T (trans and cis alike) are able to calm down much easier and relax more deeply. And as someone who's experienced heavy anxiety my whole life, I can say this absolutely happened with me.
That sounds like a headache! I do NOT want to discourage you but once I covered well-cleaned hair dye stains with white paint in my parents bathroom, and after a few months the color stains leached through and were actually visible So I want to encourage you to go with a color which the leached stains might blend with better than white, or to get a paint which is SUPER coverage Best of luck to you! I hope you just get it done, and it stays done! 😄 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love!!
Oof. I use rubbing alcohol to get dye stains off, but usually I'm able to wipe the dye off pretty quickly so it doesn't have as much time to cause a stain. Also a whole bathroom would be so much work.
I’m Libragender mainly masc, and oh my god my boyish adventure wasn’t even like how people described. Like I would still only choose girl characters in games because I liked how they were dressed- and then other things like that. Another thing that is probably similar with others but doesn’t really get talked about is I would follow ‘boy’ rules. Like you can’t cry, or you always have to be strong and stuff. I would also follow ‘non-girl’ rules. Like closing your legs was a girl rule my mom always told me to do, so I would man spread and stuff like that lol.
my therapist told me today it sounds like i have OCD. im not really sure how to feel, im glad to get possible answers but idk. it sounds right. but its scary at the same time
I thought "eepy" was supposed to mean happy, and when I saw someone suggest you take a nap I got really confused. Enjoy that mini story and I hope you get rest to become less eepy!
I despise thanksgiving. Like the foods always really good but i can’t stand my family. Like i refuse to listen to my map Walsh simp cousin say the worst takes ever and overhear my mom talk about me behind my back. If anyone has any tips for how I can just ignore everything during thanksgiving it will be very much appreciated
I haven't been forced into this setting in nearly a decade. Maybe my advice is bad. But my family would all the in the living room area, and my autistic ass would be in the very back at the end of the dark hallway. Alone and not overstimulated. And I'd put up a fight if people wanted me to do otherwise. I hated being there. I wasn't there on my terms. I did what little I could to do things on my terms and be as comfortable as possible in an uncomfortable situation.
Well from my experience since thanksgiving would be around my abuelitas birthday that’s what I always thought about instead but I would say maybe help with preparing the food or learn how to make it if you haven’t or don’t know how.but other than that I’m not sure what to tell you
I always just ignore it and laugh when they make a “I identify as trans-thin” joke (I don’t laugh becases it’s true, I laugh because I am unsafe and I’ll do whatever I can to let my family think “I’m so glad we didn’t have a freak in this family” If I’m being honest, I love all of their company (most of the time, sometimes their annoying), like this weekend for Labor Day my family and cousins went camping, and it was so fun I got to throw a football we all played volleyball together at the net, and I even met some of my older cousins friends. Also, on our last night there I was still hanging out at one of my cousins campers and she was asking everyone what song they wanted played on the speaker, my first choice was 9 to 5 by Dolly Parton 🫡🫡❤️❤️ and then my second choice was It ain’t my Fault by Brothers Osborne (for the record these are both country songs, I live in Alabama) and well.. I didn’t know this when I told them to play it, but one of the brothers came out as gay in 2021. I figured this out the next day, in the car, on the way home, I remembered another one of my cousnins comments was “More like Brothers Gay-Borne”. I decided not to look it up that night and tried to shake it off, but the next day I had to know what that meant, so that was when I figured out that one of them was gay. My cousin (let’s call her A) A was an adult there and the mother of the one who made the comment, when I suggested this song, E, the one with the speaker said “We don’t listen to them anymore”, I didn’t know this information when I said this song, but A said “play it”, in a kind of like ‘it’s whatever’ tone. Honestly I kind of got off topic but that’s what I do. I just try to pretend like I am one of them. I pretend like I don’t have a leftist country playlist and a rap playlist that I will never willingly let them hear or see. When I’m at thanksgiving I just eat and watch the tv, I zone out, and laugh when appropriate. But I also could go outside, or in a room, to think or because I want to, or to try to not cry and make myself even more aware of how unsafe I feel in that area, surrounded by them all. I feel u safe right now, and every time I write a comment like this, or when I watch this channel or others like it. All my parents have to do it walk across the two-foot hallway, push open my door (I finally got it back) and snatch my phone out of my hand, to see the real me, I do what I can to hide it but it gets hard, it is hard, and the fact that I just do, act, look, and talk masc doesn’t make me feel any safer, (I’m AFAB btw, but I don’t fully feel that, but u don’t fully feel like a man, or non-binary, idk I don’t care which pronouns are used for me, everyone uses she and it feels right, but I think I’d be fine with he ir they too) Anyways I’m sorry for making this SO long and going on an unnecessary rant but anyways. When I am with them I try to just ignore it all, and pretend to be one of them, I am quiet there but they’ll definitely hear me talk and smile and laugh, most of that is out of necessity though, but they wouldn’t think it, so I pretend not to know it.
i love most of my extended fam but sometimes i swear ima start throwing hands. plus yk the holiday is based off indigenous murder and shit so it’s kinda a double edged sword of a holiday. i have such a love hate relationship w it.
What’s making me question taking T is hair problems, weight distribution, and the smell. Like yes, I’d like a deeper voice and bottom growth, but those are kind of the only pros for me. The cons are the major head hair loss in my family, and the major body hair growth, my weight being redistributed when I‘ e just begun to accept it, and smelling different. Because now I can get along with a lot of animals but I’ve read a lot of studies that show that a lot of animals react differently to the smell produced by higher testosterone levels and I don’t want to lose my connection with animals. Another worry is losing my singing voice.
i was always the tomboy and always with boys and always rough and always upset when someone made a comment like "oh ur so boyish..." *cue unexplainable excitement (now known as gender euphoria) from kid me "for a girl!" *immeasurable disappointment*
I had my first day of school today! It was really good and all of my teachers are nice! I had my art teacher and learning support teacher again and I really like them. They redid the fountain in one of our schools courtyards so It is so beautiful and calming, they had the doors open to the school courtyards (we have two) and I debated sitting out there but I got distracted. They put plug in air fresheners throughout the school so it smells really nice
12:14 Ugh this as a black trans boy hits different I swear. I literally listened to the song "Do it Like a Dude" by Jessie Jay when I was 7. Why didnt my parents see im trans?? It was so obvious!!
6:33 okqy but seeing this person actually means so much to me. It is so hard to find representation as a fat transmasc person. The only other social media app I have, Pinterest, has so little plus size trans rep. You search plus size fashion and it's all very mainstream fashion on women who are the "good" type of fat. They have curves only in the "right" places, a flat stomach, a waist that's still relatively small, etc. And they're always dressed super fem, too. And while I do like dressing fem sometimes, It's not all I want to wear. I'd say sorry for rambling, but I'm trying to apologize less and this helps the algorithm, so you know what? I'm going to say you're welcome for listening to me (/hj, I don't actually think that highly of myself but pretending I do is better than thinking I suck) 11:44 What's always been interesting to me, is that I was a super feminine kid. Of course I never fit in with the girls, but I was always told I was one and thus didn't think I could be anything else. But recently I started experimenting online, and thinking. And that's when I realized transmasc fit me. I still sometimes feel like I'm invalid because I was and still am pretty feminine. But if cis guys can be feminine and still be guys, so can we! I mainly think as a kid I had no clue there were other ways to be a guy. Most of the boys I were around (aside from my dearest friend) were obnoxious and super masculine. And I'm sure part of it was masking, too. Am I the only trans guy here who feels like this? Bc I've never seen anyone else talk about this.
I'm a trans guy and I've mostly considered myself pretty feminine. Like, to the point where I wish I was actually a girl, almost. Sometimes. It's funny. I'm not the most feminine guy ever but I've always really admired women and loved women's clothes and sometimes coped with dysphoria by trying to feel honoured by being mistaken for a woman. It sucks that it just doesn't fit me.
I relate as a transmasc person to being feminine as a child. I was part of a church and a conservative family and as such I couldn’t experiment with gender for most of my life. I still enjoy being feminine now but I am so much more comfortable in it because it no longer feels forced on me.
im a transmasc nonbinary person, but as a kid i was super fem because i didn't know there was another way to be. I wore dresses but i never liked them. I had long hair but i never liked it. I remember envying the fact that my brothers could walk around with their shirts off in the house, that my brothers could get short haircuts at home by our mom, i just never thought that being any different was an option. I also lived/still live in a conservative christian home so im sure that didnt help either
this is gonna sound creepy but fat ppl are so slay like how the heck do ppl think y’all aren’t pretty cuz y’all are so pretty. pls know that i don’t mean that in a fetish way and that i just love all body types and think basically everyone is hot recently lmao bisexuality is a blessing and a curse.
Let me talk about my day today and why I hate art critiques So, my class had an art critique after a project we did, we all presented our projects and moved around putting sticky notes with critique on them [ex: oh this was done really well, but this could also be improved maybe if it's blended a little more?] I like to make sure things are going well with mine and make sure nobody destroyed or damaged mine- which in the process I ended up overhearing a couple of my classmates talking smack [I knew these classmates and never generally had a good opinion of them beforehand because they were always talking smack about other classmates when they passed by them-] and I could hear them giggling and talking smack about it, saying stuff like "guysss I gotta try to be nice" and some other little things- I'm pretty sure they didn't know that I made it but either way- it's still messed up to act like that
Ranting to boost the algorithm: Being genderfluid is awesome but I can feel extremely strange when I have dysphoria from being masc. I am generally a pretty masc person and most of my dysphoria comes from more “feminine” aspects of myself. So, experiencing dysphoria from my mascness, on the occasion that it happens, is simply strange to deal with especially when it’s closely following moments when I felt gender euphoric about it. Like, I’ll be staring at myself and I think “oh my god I look like such a handsome boy :)” and then a while later it’s “oh my god I look like a boy :(“ Adding into this, most dysphoria adds onto my constant imposter syndrome with my gender. When I’m feeling masculine, I feel like I’m faking being genderfluid and I’m just transmasc in denial but when I’m feeling femme then I worry I’ve been faking all of it for attention. Anyways bye!
is it just me or is the best part of being gender fluid other than the euphoria the fact that i’m gay for guys and gay for women. bc the idea of dating straight men and straight women gives me the ick so bad
@@akatheloser13yearsof1D yeah I love telling people that attraction to me is inherently gay. Everyone is gay for me and I’m gay for everyone. Like if you don’t perceive me as genderfluid then I don’t want to date you
The tiktok about residential schools got me RILED UP i never even thought about it or knew much but now i'm like "for real how is nobody even apologizing??"
My private catholic schools dress code is getting bad. Starting Monday there’s a fine for any skirt or short 2 inches above the knee. And on Monday they’re CHECKING TOO which creeps me out so badly as someone who wears a skirt. And not to mention some teachers are getting threatened if they don’t dress code us. I honestly don’t see the problem as long as no one’s ass is showing or anything. It’s not bothering anybody EXCEPT the staff. I feel really bad for the freshman and transfer students because it was so nice last year. You could accessorize the uniform a lost which gave lots of queer kids leeway to stylize the uniform. Plus if our phones are anywhere EXCEPT our locker (even if it’s not being used and completely shut down just in our bags) our PARENTS have to come pick it up, which doesn’t work for kids who’s parents work far, who can’t drive to the school, or kids who need their phones for transportation purposes. Our new vice principal is really cracking down and WE CANT EVEN HAVE OUR BAGS AT LUNCH WHICH SUCKS. Me and my friend have our 5th period on the first floor, which means we have to go up to the third and fourth floor for our 6th after lunch, drop our bags off, then go back down to the first floor to lunch. And we have the last lunch of the day too which makes us sm worse BEcasue there’s typically nothing left by the time we’d get down there. Just to finish lunch and go BACK UPSTAIRS. Nothing makes sense and honestly if I started petitions for these I could get most if not all the school to sign it
I really liked the last TikTok because I am starting T next Friday and as a trans guy who was/ still is really nervous to start T knowing some of the more unspoken things that happen has put me at ease
Tomorrow my data plan renews so I'm gonna be watching Killing Eve. My friend showed me a place where it's available for 360p so it's not gonna drain my high speed data as fast. It still will within a few days, since I'm just gonna binge it, but very excited.
update on rhe play: I MADE CALLBACKS!! not for the role i wanted, but its probably a good thing considering i've never done a play before! im so excited
I'm gonna go to Spirit Halloween after my car gets fixed. I feel that. I guess the key thing maybe is "Is this practical?" Not sure how well that works with clothes, but there were table decorations I wanted but we don't really use tables at my house so I forced myself not to get them.
@@ChloeR-th4jqYou have like 16 comments on this channel and the ones that are showing are either ever so slightly transphobic or you just being icky. Huh?
10:44 it really makes me upset that indigenous people are told to "get over it", CUZ LIKE IT SAYS IN THE DAMN VIDEO residential schools were NOT a long time ago. These past few years have been really sad in canada, with all the remains of the children being found in unmarked graves and its so sad to see survivors within my community who made it out of the "school" in my town on the day of reconciliation recall their stories, hearing how their culture was stripped away and being treated horribly. Sorry for ranting its just that i cant even fathom telling an ENTIRE group of people to get over it
13:50 I love these things! I’ve seen a few “free pantry” cupboards outside peoples homes near where I live and it’s such a simple yet meaningful concept ❤
me when i find a transphobic film ad on a trans-supportive video: (the film was called "Gender Transformstions: The Untold Realities", by the epoch times, so you know to avoid it) but i let it play all the way because i love the idea of transphobes giving money to the people they hate :3
i’ve been kinda MIA from this channel this summer bc i’ve had so much shit go down and anyways i came back bc i had a rlly garbage day i just kinda need to vent to some strangers. so i live with my parents bc yk life. and basically over the summer our house got like 50k in hail and weather damages and my moms car got totaled at that red rocks concert that made the national news which was hella traumatic and now have a borderline panic attack every time it fucking rains. and anyways insurance is being an exploitative piece of shit per usual. and basically life kinda sucks and today my mom was only out of the house for an hour before my dad got home and we got fucking robbed. and i’m so pissed bc they took all my jewelry and all my parent’s jewelry including their wedding rings which are hella expensive. and my brand new tennis shoes. which to be fair my family has a fair amount of money but we got robbed of thousands of dollars worth of shit and a lot of my jewelry was heirloom or had sentimental value and im just rlly depressed. i passed my drivers test and my birthday is tomorrow but it’s all covered in this dark cloud of trauma and one of my cats is kinda traumatized and it’s all this big mess of horrid shit. and i get the whole leftist thing of eat the rich robinho of type shit. but don’t literally robb ppl. like if you wanna steal tampons from walmart and punch jeff bezos i’ll fucking join you. but stealing my white suburban dads dj sound board and my moms heirloom engagement ring is not leftist it’s just a bad thing to do. anyways thank you for coming to my ted talk. hope y’all are having a better day.
Hi everyone :3!! Yesterday actually ended up being fine! My dad was chill and I got to play assassins creed odyssey some more. I've romanced so many women and men both in this game that I'm surprised I'm not known as the sluttiest eagle bearer around
11:48 I completely agree with this. I have always done the things that he is talking about and until I realized what trans meant I always felt bad about doing the things I enjoyed and now that I’ve had the ability to learn more it makes so much sense
thank you for the last two tiktoks! i recently got a testosterone prescription and the sheet of paper the doctor gave me only has the more talked about effects listed. also,, why are people so disgusted with bottom growth? thats something i really want out of taking testosterone /gen
Heyo! I officially hate chapel (was yesterday but whatever) at school because we don’t get a snack bell. Luckily my 4th bell teacher (2 bells after chapel) lets me eat in his class :’)
Okay people so I'm going over an old Word WIP with a story idea and a class list for yet another elemental-superpower-school. I wanted to include people that are not all cishet and white, the main five characters are almost all queer (4 out of 5), the girlfriend of the protagonist who is a lesbian is a black trans girl because they are underrepresented as fuck and when trans people get rep it's always about coming out or it has to be "revealed" in a super unrealistic and/or weird way that they are not cishet. There's also 4 other queer people in the class that are not super close with the protagonist. To come to the point, one of the characters who is more of a side character but still a friend to the protag is native american, and I wanted to make sure that her name is okay. It's Amadahy Fensby. Tbh I often avoid writing minorities that are not white and also some that are white as protagonists because I know that I'll never experience what they have, I'll never experience discrimination based on my skin color or heritage, because I'm white as fuck lol. I'm scared to misrepresent them, and also taking away from people that are of that minority and can write protagonists that are very similar to them of course better than me. So yeah, that's it :)
I’m gonna do the book of Enoch and the gnostic gospels for my essay where I can write about whatever I want!! I think it will be good! I would like to do something related to stigmatism of neurodivergent ppl but I have to present a slideshow to the class and Ik I would get bullied if I did anything related yo queerness, neurodivergence, etc.
So glad someone talked about the taboo testosterone effects 😭 I can’t wait to start, I’m gonna have to wait a while but it’s good I’ll know these things early!
one time the water at my school started looking and tasting weird so the director sent out an email saying not to drink the water, but then they declared it safe again but it still tasted metallic and like chemicals lol (me and this one other kid were like hell yeah dude i like the fucked up water)
6:57 it makes me so emotional to see other transmascs with similar body types as me, like, i love their top surgery results. i get to be like that some day. it's so joyous
Hey can you take care of yourself? Just do one small thing that will make yourself happy. And if you feel like you can do more, please stretch, drink some water, and eat something. You matter so much. I send all the virtual love. 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
I was just texted by a content creator whom I know is an adult. They complimented me, asked for my date of birth, my age, my number, and a picture of me. Is that normal? I'm really stressed right now 😢 I don't want to make false assumptions. I don't plan on showing them a picture of me, but I do have their number on whatsapp. Please help me 😢 The creator knows I'm a minor, I don't know if I should say the content creators name or not Edit: I deleted their contact Information.
I blocked them. Now I'm conflicted, their content is really great and I do like watching their content, but I don't know what to do about that. Should I unfollow them?
does anyone here know how to see if you're Indigenous but not native american? I'm pretty sure I'm Sami but most DNA tests only show Native American heritage on the results :p
Maybe try listening to stories and ask questions about your heritage to your grandparents/older family members? I’m not to sure how much this’ll help but here anyway:>
It really don't matter trace your heritage back far enough you're "indigenous" to some place. It also doesn't matter because those barbaric tribes got eliminated for a reason: they don't provide for the benefit of humanity by sticking to mythos and superstition rather than science and reason.
Okay how do i explain to people that i am just a little guy and not a wife Like im just a gentleman Im not a girl I just like to do all the traditionally feminine things because im a gentleman. I paint because im fucking van gogh not because im such a well mannered lady I like drinking out of pretty tea cups and having tea time because im a male socialite from the late 1800s (without all the bad stuff) Im not embroidering because im your grandmother, im embroidering because im a gay cottage core twink in the french country side. I'm not your wife, I'm the hot man-written-by-a-woman librarian from your damn fanfiction. Anyways,
11:48 I don’t relate to a lot of the things this person mentioned, despite being in the category. For most of my life, I just thought I was a girl because I was told I was a girl. That was as far as I thought about it until a couple years after high school.
the tiktok being funny: OH MY GOD THE LIGABITAH!! the ad that came on: they tied my husband up and cut him with machetes then shot him to death RUclips, HORRIBLE TIMING DUDE
Quick question because i remember seeing a tiktok in one of these videos upon bonnets and i cannot find it again but can non-black people wear it? For example, im POC but with curly hair that dries out during my sleep or gets matted that i need a bonnet to use but im not sure if it's cultural appropriation?
Damn first vid didn't hold back (I haven't done anything, dw man-) But also with the autism thing, I'm so pissed off that dudes can get diagnosed as young as 4 but women need fuckin lists and lists of criteria before they even consider it. I told my friend with autism about his privileges and he instantly went off at me lmaooo (yeah we ain't friends anymore)
14:03 riddle me this: how is he so handsome an has such a hot voice, yet feels insecure. it just doesn't make any sense.... 😍 (ow mai gawd i wanna squeeze him)
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I hate when the same people who preach 'NEVER assume people's genders' turn around and completely ignore it as soon as someone looks like a cishet guy. No shade to anyone in particular, just something I'm thinking about.
we notice this a lot especially with masc presenting/AMAB nonbinary people, ESPECIALLY when they identify with the lesbian label. the moment “masc” is associated with being lesbian in any way it tends to make a lot of people mad. kinda gross tbh. lesbians arent fem femme feminity femmy girly girls all the time (its valid if they are but yall get my point!!)
@@wendyjohnson4345 no u can’t it’s been proven time and time again lmao
True! I'm trying to explain that to my family way to often. My little sister picks up on it sometimes. She's 12 and told me that it's much more likely that she'll have a wife than a husband in the future! I was internally freaking out because having a queer sibling is really cool, but because she was telling me all of that so casually I also replied without making it a big thing.
@@wendyjohnson4345YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN? YOU WANNA GET BAKED IN A OVEN
@@wendyjohnson4345Nobody can. Not even you.
okay i quite literally *just* got out of class, but i need to say this
there's something so sinister about straight men taking queer songs made by queer people for other queer people and turning them into straight love songs or straight revenge songs and when queer women complain about this, they're told that it's just music and they shouldn't be so mad about it cause it just comes with the territory
but then when queer people do the same thing, we're being told that not everything is about us and that we don't need to shove our queerness down people's throats
this will never not make me mad
THIS. WITH THE SONG “JENNY”. i hated the tiktok trend where cishet people did the “lyric prank on my bf/gf!!! ❤❤😂” SO MUCH. like, its a cute love song thats *clearly* supposed to be lesbian focused just by the lyrics and music video
Now we have to take stright songs and make them queer and when they say anything jus say "its just a song"😍
@@thesnapshotscollection what happened to both Jenny and Boyfriend (from dove cameron) are both things i will never forgive straight people for
Word. 💔
People can interpret music however they want. It doesn’t affect you how is it “sinister”
Honestly something that makes my blood boil is the misinformation surrounding medical transition and how it works. I mentioned to my friend that my aunt is trans and medically transitioned and her response was “YOUR AUNT CUT HER DICK OFF?!!!!?11!??!! where does she pee from 😦” and its just like. ma’am. did you think she just had a gaping hole. Its so infuriating
It's surprising how people are still ignorant about MTF bottom surgery. Literally just a simple Google search would give you the right information.
There's a literally video about it somewhere 😭😭😭
it really is. the other day, i corrected a comment on a very conservative video (they had the idea that not only can ‘liberal’ parents walk into a therapists office and get their child prescribed hormones immediately, but puberty blockers are completely irreversible and halting puberty for even a little can damage a kid beyond recovery.)
i tried to calmly explain that none of that was true, but i just got “it sadly is 🙁” ???? it’s so fascinating how people hear something untrue, and, frankly, absurd, and just roll with it because “trans people bad >:(“ like I’ve never seen someone fight against a strawman so hard
@@Mossious The way the >:( is showing up for me is like >:
( , which is honestly pretty symbolic of their thought process.
I’m still getting notifications from incredulous replies to this day 😭
Imagine having to protest about dress code at school and the school forcing you to stop so some kids ended up threatening the principal and the principal had to make a video about it and the dress code to try and put our voices for the admin but it escalated to the point that kids with curly hair went into school suspension because of it and they forced a kid to cut a dread of their hair bc it was an “unnatural color” ….. yeah my school is going insane😀
I love when teachers use their authority to take ownership of black kids autonomy (sarcasm)
I’m so sorry 😞
@@AnarchicCrow worse part about it is most of the staff are black themselves and still enforce it even though it has gotten ridiculous
I've seen some cis people say "assuming a character is trans is transphobic" like bro? What logic even is that 😭😭😭
How?!😭
i think they were trying to say that as a way to say “trans-vestigation” is bad? if theyre saying that TO TRANS PEOPLE though thats just dumb
I’ve mainly seen it said when a character is assumed trans based off of stereotypes (example: Louisa from Encanto head canoned as a trans woman because of her body type). But the majority of the time it’s just trans people relating to aspects of their character and attributing that to transness. It’s hardly ever a negative thing
“assuming a character is cis is cisphobic”
@@bauhausliker0 real
The ableism with doctors I’ve had is just sad. The blatant disregarding, the constant downplaying, lying, not contacting us before putting something in my chart.
I have nightmares about reading my medical notes.
man does it suck.... i read some of my medical notes recently and found out some of the stuff in there is just.... it isn't.
loved the teacher "exposing" his co-workers, and them just being like "whatevs"
Ranting to boost the algorithm: Does anyone else kinda hate how Heartstopper is treated as mandatory to watch if you’re queer? Like I got pressured by my ex and her friends into reading the graphic novels and watching (most of) the first season, and I’ve hated heartstopper since because the ONLY reason she and the others wanted me to watch it was because I’m queer and it’s a queer show. I got just reduced to my queer identity (by other queer people) and treated as if none of my tastes in media persevere above wanting queer rep. I’m a sci-fi/fantasy fan, heartstopper has nothing in it (other than queer rep) that I would normally seek out and so I was completely uninterested because there weren’t exactly wizards or aliens or anything plot-wise that I enjoy. Like I understand the standpoint of “oh but you relate to it!!” but I *DONT* because we’re not a fucking monolith- and I’m absolutely sick of OTHER QUEER PEOPLE (mainly liberals tbh) acting as if we are.
Licherallyy, I have met queers before saying they only watch media with queer people in it/made by queer people. Pretty limiting to me, I don't do this. We are NOT a monolith
Still haven't watched it but I get the sense I might be annoyed by the idealism of it. Supportive openly queer teachers sounds amazing but in my experience they're few and far between.
im autistic and this is honestly something i relate to a lot. heartstopper has nothing related to my special interests, but i feel pressured and left out every time i hear a queer person rambling about how “every queer person should see this!! every queer person knows this!!!”. i feel the exact same about good omens! it isnt subject matter im interested in but i feel so pressured to see it because of how adored it is in leftist/queer communities, kinda wish people would keep their interests to the groups theyre in and the people who DO enjoy it
yeah i haven't seen heartstopper because i hate highschool romance with a passion. i would gladly watch lgbtg+ shows if they were not highschool based. i really hate how disappointed my friends are when i tell em i haven't seen it. i dont care that they haven't seen loads of things i like. just because im queer doesn't mean i need to consume certain media
I understand that it’s idealism is used mainly as escapism, giving queer people a show with representation that isn’t entirely about their struggles, but I find heart stopper kind of boring. I read the first book because I like the author and watched the first couple episodes but it’s not my taste and heartstopper being treated as something that all queer people love is frustrating. To clarify, I don’t have any problems with the show, just annoying how the fandom treats outsiders
Can't believe it took me this long to realise that while other transmasc people talk about playing house as kids and played as the dad/brother/other male figure wanting to be them and I never understood it, all I wanted was to be the older sister...
My sister is about 15 months older than me and she has always been the favourite. She is the password child on everything and I have always been held to impossible standards while she gets away with everything she's done to me.
I may be trans, but I'm also a trauma survivor and I can't believe it took me this long to realise that not relating to their experience hiding who they didn't know they were didn't mean I wasn't doing the same. I just wanted to be the favourite.
so real. i always wanted to be the mom bc of how controlling i am lol
as a Norwegian, I'm really glad to see a video about the Sami people, they deserve more recognition and respect by the government >:(
I love that "EXPOSING OUR WOKE TEACHERS" series.
NAH CAUSE THE WAY THEY DO THINGS IS SO HILARIOUS GJDKKDXJSJFJDJDK
@@shak3nicypaws As a former anti-sjw, that's legit how those people see things.
The LGBTQ pronunciation is hilarious
@@rainabahadur3621LOL. Agreed.
I did the car cranking up wheeze at the “open borders” bit☠️🦤☠️🦤
Recently learned that in 2011 my city was found to have cyanide and chloroform in that water. Yeah no wonder Florida is like this there literally is stuff in the water😭
Oh jeez
The death stuff?!?! Oh no!
If you have any positive (queer) stories you'd like to tell, I'd love to hear them!
I'll start: I came out to my grandma as trans recently, and she just asked me: "should i also call you *name*then?" And when i told her that that's what i want and we were saying goodbye, she hugged me and said: "i want you to know that i love you very much, *name*" She's in her mid 80s and still so loving and open
That’s so sweet my heart is gonna fall out of my chest and melt
i literally love supportive family and friends. my grandma didn’t know what nb was but when i told her she was just like “oh ok”. i’m not out to her but i love that even in her seventies she doesn’t give a shit bout what queer ppl do bc she understands that it doesn’t negatively affect her. she’s the best. ALSO congrats girlie/bro/bestie (i’m autistic in all genders lol) even though idk you im so proud of you for coming out bc it’s literally so hard.
@@akatheloser13yearsof1D thank you :)))
yay thats so awesome!
so sweet!
As a trans woman, it's always really interesting to hear about the other side of transition, and I'm glad I got to hear about the less talked about parts. Thankyou for including the last tiktoks!
I remember whenever I was a little kid and trump was running for president and the topic of who my mom was voting for came up. I didn’t really know anything about politics at this time and i said at one point the Trump was going to bl0w up our schools💀
I mean it didn’t happen but the right is destroying the education system so I mean it isn’t completely wrong
I keep forgetting there were people below the age of 10 in 2016
@@captaincaspian42 I JUST REALIZED 2016 IS 7 YEARS AGO /lh
@@o00M00o I'm turning 20 tomorrow so everytime I hear that the mid 2010s were X many years ago, I hear Viva la Vida on the back of my mind...
Sometimes I forget how long ago it was too💀
@@o00M00oI was 7 or 8. Woah.
4:53 i met a kid a few years ago that was terrified of what his parents would do if they found out he was trans. he was eleven.
we have queer youth housing for exactly this reason.
I guess I’m nonbinary but still see myself as some sort of female thing if that makes sense. Anyway I used the men’s bathroom the other day then my male friend walked in and was like “you know what I’m not even surprised” so I see that as a win
that's a win indeed
If you only partially identify as a woman, you could be a demigirl.
@@AbstractQueerit’s probably less of an identity, and more holding on to dysphoria about the gender you’re perceived as. i’m nonbinary as well but typically get seen as female, and it’s easy to feel complacent, if that makes sense.
@@AbstractQueerAyo you might be onto something here
@@Mossious I'm not going to speculate what their identity is, especially based off of such a brief comment. The only reason I brought up the demigirl label was bc it's not a commonly known identity, and if they weren't aware of it this could give them something to look into, and could possibly give them a label that validates their experience and connects them to other people.
I'm an AFAB agender person that still dresses relatively femme, so I def took a while to fully realize I didn't identify female at all. It wasn't until I realized how dysphoric I was about constantly being referred to as female that I realized that I was completely agender. So yeah, it could be dysphoria. It could be identity. It's useless to speculate from the sidelines though, as only OP can make that determination. I just wanted to make sure they have all applicable info to decide how they choose to label themself.
Creative Writing Prompt 170: I've been seeing a lot of assassin bugs at work lately and that's kinda sent me down a rabbit hole of reading about kissing bugs and learning more about Chagas disease. Long story short, it's a very treatable disease that can become chronic and debilitating. Kissing bugs, which spread the disease between vertebrates, are responsible for killing about 10,000 people a year.
As the planet warms, and as climate refugees flee the imperial periphery, kissing bugs will spread farther north into the US and the poor, uninsured carriers of Chagas will help spread the disease to more people, who in the US will likely also be poor and unable to treat the disease before it becomes chronic. A lot of people are going to die. They don't have to. That's why we do what we do.
Write a story about the consequences of climate change. It can be a warning, a stark reminder of what may happen if we fail, or it can be hopeful-examining ways we as communities can come together and help each other through a violent world. The threat may be one you know about or one you make up, as long as you are specific. Consider the specific hurdles that must be overcome and how we overcome them, or how we fail to overcome them, and why.
NO BC I DIDNT READ THIS ALL THE WAY THRU BEFORE I WENT "kissing bugs? 🤨🤨🤨why are you kissing bugs? 🤨🤨🤨🤨" 😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you for writing all these prompts! I start looking out for you in the comments now, because you have some good ideas. Whether they're just a thought or an issue in real life,it makes for some interesting and challenging stories to write. I especially like your context as to how you find your prompts, sometimes it sends me into little rabbit holes of research about new topics. Hope you keep it up, and much love!
@@CazBun I appreciate it. lately I’ve only been posting these Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, so don’t spend too much time looking for me the rest of the week. It’s always good to know people are getting something out of this
GUYS!! WE FINALLY GOT OUR FIRST AUTISM ASSESSMENT APPOINTMENT AND ITS NEXT WEDNESDAY WOOOO :DD
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yippee !!!
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YIPPEE! (quick q, how do you get one?)
Something I wish people would talk about more when starting T is how it seriously mellows you out. I talked to my endo about this and apparently most people who take T (trans and cis alike) are able to calm down much easier and relax more deeply. And as someone who's experienced heavy anxiety my whole life, I can say this absolutely happened with me.
update on the hair dye explosion: we've decided to just paint the bathroom and cover up the stains. we got the actual dye off but not the stains.
That sounds like a headache!
I do NOT want to discourage you but once I covered well-cleaned hair dye stains with white paint in my parents bathroom, and after a few months the color stains leached through and were actually visible
So I want to encourage you to go with a color which the leached stains might blend with better than white, or to get a paint which is SUPER coverage
Best of luck to you!
I hope you just get it done, and it stays done!
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🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤
Much Love!!
@@endTHEhegemony_Today we are planning on using spare paint from when we moved, so like. bi flag colors lol--
Oof. I use rubbing alcohol to get dye stains off, but usually I'm able to wipe the dye off pretty quickly so it doesn't have as much time to cause a stain. Also a whole bathroom would be so much work.
@@AbstractQueer we've tried, it was rubbing the paint off too.
@@gordshorde That solution is EPIC!!!
🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤
It's gonna be an awesome bathroom!!
Much Love
Recently i found out a bunch of stuff about people i trusted that really made me sad. :(
Sending hugs
I’m Libragender mainly masc, and oh my god my boyish adventure wasn’t even like how people described. Like I would still only choose girl characters in games because I liked how they were dressed- and then other things like that. Another thing that is probably similar with others but doesn’t really get talked about is I would follow ‘boy’ rules. Like you can’t cry, or you always have to be strong and stuff. I would also follow ‘non-girl’ rules. Like closing your legs was a girl rule my mom always told me to do, so I would man spread and stuff like that lol.
I follow boy rules too even though I’m comfortable with she/they pronouns, then again I’m fine with he/him as well
Lol, yeah being part of the lgbtq is weird in a good way-@@CorvusMoon22
if you don’t mind sharing what’s libragender or whatever you said. i love learning new queer terms.
@akatheloser13yearsof1D I looked it up and it's like being agender (not having gender i think) but feeling a faint connection to one gender
@@not_soph4117 oh i didn’t see there message- but yeah that’s what it it’s
my therapist told me today it sounds like i have OCD. im not really sure how to feel, im glad to get possible answers but idk. it sounds right. but its scary at the same time
@@eudaemonia616 yeah exactly ahh
So eppy rn
Hope you can nap
I thought "eepy" was supposed to mean happy, and when I saw someone suggest you take a nap I got really confused. Enjoy that mini story and I hope you get rest to become less eepy!
I despise thanksgiving. Like the foods always really good but i can’t stand my family. Like i refuse to listen to my map Walsh simp cousin say the worst takes ever and overhear my mom talk about me behind my back. If anyone has any tips for how I can just ignore everything during thanksgiving it will be very much appreciated
I haven't been forced into this setting in nearly a decade. Maybe my advice is bad. But my family would all the in the living room area, and my autistic ass would be in the very back at the end of the dark hallway. Alone and not overstimulated. And I'd put up a fight if people wanted me to do otherwise. I hated being there. I wasn't there on my terms. I did what little I could to do things on my terms and be as comfortable as possible in an uncomfortable situation.
Well from my experience since thanksgiving would be around my abuelitas birthday that’s what I always thought about instead but I would say maybe help with preparing the food or learn how to make it if you haven’t or don’t know how.but other than that I’m not sure what to tell you
I always just ignore it and laugh when they make a “I identify as trans-thin” joke (I don’t laugh becases it’s true, I laugh because I am unsafe and I’ll do whatever I can to let my family think “I’m so glad we didn’t have a freak in this family”
If I’m being honest, I love all of their company (most of the time, sometimes their annoying), like this weekend for Labor Day my family and cousins went camping, and it was so fun I got to throw a football we all played volleyball together at the net, and I even met some of my older cousins friends. Also, on our last night there I was still hanging out at one of my cousins campers and she was asking everyone what song they wanted played on the speaker, my first choice was 9 to 5 by Dolly Parton 🫡🫡❤️❤️ and then my second choice was It ain’t my Fault by Brothers Osborne (for the record these are both country songs, I live in Alabama) and well.. I didn’t know this when I told them to play it, but one of the brothers came out as gay in 2021. I figured this out the next day, in the car, on the way home, I remembered another one of my cousnins comments was “More like Brothers Gay-Borne”. I decided not to look it up that night and tried to shake it off, but the next day I had to know what that meant, so that was when I figured out that one of them was gay. My cousin (let’s call her A) A was an adult there and the mother of the one who made the comment, when I suggested this song, E, the one with the speaker said “We don’t listen to them anymore”, I didn’t know this information when I said this song, but A said “play it”, in a kind of like ‘it’s whatever’ tone. Honestly I kind of got off topic but that’s what I do. I just try to pretend like I am one of them. I pretend like I don’t have a leftist country playlist and a rap playlist that I will never willingly let them hear or see. When I’m at thanksgiving I just eat and watch the tv, I zone out, and laugh when appropriate. But I also could go outside, or in a room, to think or because I want to, or to try to not cry and make myself even more aware of how unsafe I feel in that area, surrounded by them all. I feel u safe right now, and every time I write a comment like this, or when I watch this channel or others like it. All my parents have to do it walk across the two-foot hallway, push open my door (I finally got it back) and snatch my phone out of my hand, to see the real me, I do what I can to hide it but it gets hard, it is hard, and the fact that I just do, act, look, and talk masc doesn’t make me feel any safer, (I’m AFAB btw, but I don’t fully feel that, but u don’t fully feel like a man, or non-binary, idk I don’t care which pronouns are used for me, everyone uses she and it feels right, but I think I’d be fine with he ir they too) Anyways I’m sorry for making this SO long and going on an unnecessary rant but anyways. When I am with them I try to just ignore it all, and pretend to be one of them, I am quiet there but they’ll definitely hear me talk and smile and laugh, most of that is out of necessity though, but they wouldn’t think it, so I pretend not to know it.
i love most of my extended fam but sometimes i swear ima start throwing hands. plus yk the holiday is based off indigenous murder and shit so it’s kinda a double edged sword of a holiday. i have such a love hate relationship w it.
Sea creature for you guys: the Zoanthus !! They are very colorful and cool looking :3
“Zoanthus” I’m stealing that for my list of names
Me when women: ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜
same. i love being gender-fluid bc i’m gay for men/guys and gay for women.
"Our Lord and saviour Barbie" XD yes.
Gonna have a nice day today I think.
What’s making me question taking T is hair problems, weight distribution, and the smell. Like yes, I’d like a deeper voice and bottom growth, but those are kind of the only pros for me. The cons are the major head hair loss in my family, and the major body hair growth, my weight being redistributed when I‘ e just begun to accept it, and smelling different. Because now I can get along with a lot of animals but I’ve read a lot of studies that show that a lot of animals react differently to the smell produced by higher testosterone levels and I don’t want to lose my connection with animals. Another worry is losing my singing voice.
Me reading my vents from a couple of days ago: 👁️👄👁️💧❓
i hope youre okay
@@moonfairieyeah I’m actually doing pretty well today :)
@@o00M00o im glad!
hope you're doing better!
@@o00M00o Yay!!!!! That's amazing!!!!!! 💗🖤♥️🖤💗🖤🖤🖤💗🖤♥️🖤💗🖤♥️💗💗
i was always the tomboy and always with boys and always rough and always upset when someone made a comment like "oh ur so boyish..." *cue unexplainable excitement (now known as gender euphoria) from kid me "for a girl!" *immeasurable disappointment*
Hi y'all!! School started today. Was surprisingly alright, actually. I do however have homework already (but its art homework, so its okay).
Glad it went ok
I had my first day of school today! It was really good and all of my teachers are nice! I had my art teacher and learning support teacher again and I really like them. They redid the fountain in one of our schools courtyards so It is so beautiful and calming, they had the doors open to the school courtyards (we have two) and I debated sitting out there but I got distracted. They put plug in air fresheners throughout the school so it smells really nice
that’s awesome! my first day was much much worse
@@alistair_yippee I hope the rest of your school year goes so much better then your first day !
i’m so excited bc my asl teacher is actually deaf and i’m so glad not to learn from a hearing person
@@akatheloser13yearsof1D Oooh, my school doesn't have asl. I wish it did.
12:14 Ugh this as a black trans boy hits different I swear.
I literally listened to the song "Do it Like a Dude" by Jessie Jay when I was 7. Why didnt my parents see im trans?? It was so obvious!!
11:46, as a bigender person, YES THIS. I was always called a Tomboy and did the carrying heavy things, lol.
0:50 called me out dang lol
i wore a binder today and feel very good abt myself (ribs hurt tho, gonna take it off as soon as i get home at 15:40 est)
6:33 okqy but seeing this person actually means so much to me. It is so hard to find representation as a fat transmasc person. The only other social media app I have, Pinterest, has so little plus size trans rep. You search plus size fashion and it's all very mainstream fashion on women who are the "good" type of fat. They have curves only in the "right" places, a flat stomach, a waist that's still relatively small, etc. And they're always dressed super fem, too. And while I do like dressing fem sometimes, It's not all I want to wear. I'd say sorry for rambling, but I'm trying to apologize less and this helps the algorithm, so you know what? I'm going to say you're welcome for listening to me (/hj, I don't actually think that highly of myself but pretending I do is better than thinking I suck)
11:44 What's always been interesting to me, is that I was a super feminine kid. Of course I never fit in with the girls, but I was always told I was one and thus didn't think I could be anything else. But recently I started experimenting online, and thinking. And that's when I realized transmasc fit me. I still sometimes feel like I'm invalid because I was and still am pretty feminine. But if cis guys can be feminine and still be guys, so can we! I mainly think as a kid I had no clue there were other ways to be a guy. Most of the boys I were around (aside from my dearest friend) were obnoxious and super masculine. And I'm sure part of it was masking, too. Am I the only trans guy here who feels like this? Bc I've never seen anyone else talk about this.
I'm a trans guy and I've mostly considered myself pretty feminine. Like, to the point where I wish I was actually a girl, almost. Sometimes. It's funny. I'm not the most feminine guy ever but I've always really admired women and loved women's clothes and sometimes coped with dysphoria by trying to feel honoured by being mistaken for a woman. It sucks that it just doesn't fit me.
I relate as a transmasc person to being feminine as a child. I was part of a church and a conservative family and as such I couldn’t experiment with gender for most of my life. I still enjoy being feminine now but I am so much more comfortable in it because it no longer feels forced on me.
im a transmasc nonbinary person, but as a kid i was super fem because i didn't know there was another way to be. I wore dresses but i never liked them. I had long hair but i never liked it. I remember envying the fact that my brothers could walk around with their shirts off in the house, that my brothers could get short haircuts at home by our mom, i just never thought that being any different was an option. I also lived/still live in a conservative christian home so im sure that didnt help either
this is gonna sound creepy but fat ppl are so slay like how the heck do ppl think y’all aren’t pretty cuz y’all are so pretty. pls know that i don’t mean that in a fetish way and that i just love all body types and think basically everyone is hot recently lmao bisexuality is a blessing and a curse.
Let me talk about my day today and why I hate art critiques
So, my class had an art critique after a project we did, we all presented our projects and moved around putting sticky notes with critique on them [ex: oh this was done really well, but this could also be improved maybe if it's blended a little more?] I like to make sure things are going well with mine and make sure nobody destroyed or damaged mine- which in the process I ended up overhearing a couple of my classmates talking smack [I knew these classmates and never generally had a good opinion of them beforehand because they were always talking smack about other classmates when they passed by them-] and I could hear them giggling and talking smack about it, saying stuff like "guysss I gotta try to be nice" and some other little things- I'm pretty sure they didn't know that I made it but either way- it's still messed up to act like that
the "exposing my..." were great. Thanks for this.
Ranting to boost the algorithm:
Being genderfluid is awesome but I can feel extremely strange when I have dysphoria from being masc. I am generally a pretty masc person and most of my dysphoria comes from more “feminine” aspects of myself. So, experiencing dysphoria from my mascness, on the occasion that it happens, is simply strange to deal with especially when it’s closely following moments when I felt gender euphoric about it. Like, I’ll be staring at myself and I think “oh my god I look like such a handsome boy :)” and then a while later it’s “oh my god I look like a boy :(“ Adding into this, most dysphoria adds onto my constant imposter syndrome with my gender. When I’m feeling masculine, I feel like I’m faking being genderfluid and I’m just transmasc in denial but when I’m feeling femme then I worry I’ve been faking all of it for attention. Anyways bye!
is it just me or is the best part of being gender fluid other than the euphoria the fact that i’m gay for guys and gay for women. bc the idea of dating straight men and straight women gives me the ick so bad
@@akatheloser13yearsof1D yeah I love telling people that attraction to me is inherently gay. Everyone is gay for me and I’m gay for everyone. Like if you don’t perceive me as genderfluid then I don’t want to date you
The tiktok about residential schools got me RILED UP i never even thought about it or knew much but now i'm like "for real how is nobody even apologizing??"
My private catholic schools dress code is getting bad. Starting Monday there’s a fine for any skirt or short 2 inches above the knee. And on Monday they’re CHECKING TOO which creeps me out so badly as someone who wears a skirt. And not to mention some teachers are getting threatened if they don’t dress code us. I honestly don’t see the problem as long as no one’s ass is showing or anything. It’s not bothering anybody EXCEPT the staff. I feel really bad for the freshman and transfer students because it was so nice last year. You could accessorize the uniform a lost which gave lots of queer kids leeway to stylize the uniform. Plus if our phones are anywhere EXCEPT our locker (even if it’s not being used and completely shut down just in our bags) our PARENTS have to come pick it up, which doesn’t work for kids who’s parents work far, who can’t drive to the school, or kids who need their phones for transportation purposes. Our new vice principal is really cracking down and WE CANT EVEN HAVE OUR BAGS AT LUNCH WHICH SUCKS. Me and my friend have our 5th period on the first floor, which means we have to go up to the third and fourth floor for our 6th after lunch, drop our bags off, then go back down to the first floor to lunch. And we have the last lunch of the day too which makes us sm worse BEcasue there’s typically nothing left by the time we’d get down there. Just to finish lunch and go BACK UPSTAIRS. Nothing makes sense and honestly if I started petitions for these I could get most if not all the school to sign it
I really liked the last TikTok because I am starting T next Friday and as a trans guy who was/ still is really nervous to start T knowing some of the more unspoken things that happen has put me at ease
congrats babes thats so exciting ❤
Tomorrow my data plan renews so I'm gonna be watching Killing Eve. My friend showed me a place where it's available for 360p so it's not gonna drain my high speed data as fast. It still will within a few days, since I'm just gonna binge it, but very excited.
update on rhe play: I MADE CALLBACKS!! not for the role i wanted, but its probably a good thing considering i've never done a play before! im so excited
Clothes shopping is my therapy but unfortunately capitalism 😖
you want communism but still want to shop? so you're basically materialist but you don't like spending money? You can't have the best of both worlds.
I'm gonna go to Spirit Halloween after my car gets fixed. I feel that. I guess the key thing maybe is "Is this practical?" Not sure how well that works with clothes, but there were table decorations I wanted but we don't really use tables at my house so I forced myself not to get them.
@@ElizabethMidfordHatesCopsI love the spook but screw capitalism.
@@ChloeR-th4jq That's not the argument. Shopping is a fun activity for them, but it ties into capitalism, which sucks.
@@ChloeR-th4jqYou have like 16 comments on this channel and the ones that are showing are either ever so slightly transphobic or you just being icky. Huh?
10:44 it really makes me upset that indigenous people are told to "get over it", CUZ LIKE IT SAYS IN THE DAMN VIDEO residential schools were NOT a long time ago. These past few years have been really sad in canada, with all the remains of the children being found in unmarked graves and its so sad to see survivors within my community who made it out of the "school" in my town on the day of reconciliation recall their stories, hearing how their culture was stripped away and being treated horribly. Sorry for ranting its just that i cant even fathom telling an ENTIRE group of people to get over it
13:50 I love these things! I’ve seen a few “free pantry” cupboards outside peoples homes near where I live and it’s such a simple yet meaningful concept ❤
me when i find a transphobic film ad on a trans-supportive video:
(the film was called "Gender Transformstions: The Untold Realities", by the epoch times, so you know to avoid it)
but i let it play all the way because i love the idea of transphobes giving money to the people they hate :3
I would, however, tell the Confederates who lost the Civil War nearly 160 years ago to get over it.
Bennet Foddy can help them in that front. (I'm making a reference, so if you want to know where it came from I can tell you.)
i’ve been kinda MIA from this channel this summer bc i’ve had so much shit go down and anyways i came back bc i had a rlly garbage day i just kinda need to vent to some strangers. so i live with my parents bc yk life. and basically over the summer our house got like 50k in hail and weather damages and my moms car got totaled at that red rocks concert that made the national news which was hella traumatic and now have a borderline panic attack every time it fucking rains. and anyways insurance is being an exploitative piece of shit per usual. and basically life kinda sucks and today my mom was only out of the house for an hour before my dad got home and we got fucking robbed. and i’m so pissed bc they took all my jewelry and all my parent’s jewelry including their wedding rings which are hella expensive. and my brand new tennis shoes. which to be fair my family has a fair amount of money but we got robbed of thousands of dollars worth of shit and a lot of my jewelry was heirloom or had sentimental value and im just rlly depressed. i passed my drivers test and my birthday is tomorrow but it’s all covered in this dark cloud of trauma and one of my cats is kinda traumatized and it’s all this big mess of horrid shit. and i get the whole leftist thing of eat the rich robinho of type shit. but don’t literally robb ppl. like if you wanna steal tampons from walmart and punch jeff bezos i’ll fucking join you. but stealing my white suburban dads dj sound board and my moms heirloom engagement ring is not leftist it’s just a bad thing to do. anyways thank you for coming to my ted talk. hope y’all are having a better day.
Wooo I did something brave I asked someone to be my gym buddy
congrats! did they agree?
@@aaaa.non-battery ye
@@broken_queer_but_fighting8589 yay, that's great! have fun at the gym
@@aaaa.non-battery thank you
Hi everyone :3!! Yesterday actually ended up being fine! My dad was chill and I got to play assassins creed odyssey some more. I've romanced so many women and men both in this game that I'm surprised I'm not known as the sluttiest eagle bearer around
Lmao everytime theres a hate comment i wanna educate but like they wont believe me
I just spam them nowadays
11:48 I completely agree with this. I have always done the things that he is talking about and until I realized what trans meant I always felt bad about doing the things I enjoyed and now that I’ve had the ability to learn more it makes so much sense
2:45 YEAHH THAT'S MY BOY THINKPIECETRIBE
thank you for the last two tiktoks! i recently got a testosterone prescription and the sheet of paper the doctor gave me only has the more talked about effects listed.
also,, why are people so disgusted with bottom growth? thats something i really want out of taking testosterone /gen
IM GONNA MAKE MORE ART RAHHHH I POSTED MY SECOND TIKTOK YESTERDAY AND GONNA MAKE ANOTHER ONE 😁👹
Fun
omgg whats your tiktok so i can see your art! :3
@@moonfairiemy username is _egg_frogg
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Heyo!
I officially hate chapel (was yesterday but whatever) at school because we don’t get a snack bell. Luckily my 4th bell teacher (2 bells after chapel) lets me eat in his class :’)
hii how is everyone today! im feeling really bad tbh but i’ll be okay >__>
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hi, i'm rather good, hope you'll feel better soon!
im doing good, just angry. Hope you're feeling better soon ❤️
@@aaaa.non-battery thank youuu im glad youre good 🫂
Okay people so I'm going over an old Word WIP with a story idea and a class list for yet another elemental-superpower-school. I wanted to include people that are not all cishet and white, the main five characters are almost all queer (4 out of 5), the girlfriend of the protagonist who is a lesbian is a black trans girl because they are underrepresented as fuck and when trans people get rep it's always about coming out or it has to be "revealed" in a super unrealistic and/or weird way that they are not cishet. There's also 4 other queer people in the class that are not super close with the protagonist. To come to the point, one of the characters who is more of a side character but still a friend to the protag is native american, and I wanted to make sure that her name is okay. It's Amadahy Fensby. Tbh I often avoid writing minorities that are not white and also some that are white as protagonists because I know that I'll never experience what they have, I'll never experience discrimination based on my skin color or heritage, because I'm white as fuck lol. I'm scared to misrepresent them, and also taking away from people that are of that minority and can write protagonists that are very similar to them of course better than me. So yeah, that's it :)
That's a great name! Although I don't have much knowledge on Native American names, to be clear.
Totally forgot to mention it because I was tired and on a hurry but Amadahy is Cherokee
I’m gonna do the book of Enoch and the gnostic gospels for my essay where I can write about whatever I want!! I think it will be good! I would like to do something related to stigmatism of neurodivergent ppl but I have to present a slideshow to the class and Ik I would get bullied if I did anything related yo queerness, neurodivergence, etc.
So glad someone talked about the taboo testosterone effects 😭 I can’t wait to start, I’m gonna have to wait a while but it’s good I’ll know these things early!
Tap water tastes weird tbh
Its nasty honestly
one time the water at my school started looking and tasting weird so the director sent out an email saying not to drink the water, but then they declared it safe again but it still tasted metallic and like chemicals lol
(me and this one other kid were like hell yeah dude i like the fucked up water)
Can nonblack people identify as masculine of center? I’ve seen mixed answers to this question and I’m just wondering
6:57 it makes me so emotional to see other transmascs with similar body types as me, like, i love their top surgery results. i get to be like that some day. it's so joyous
Watching this while i’m fighting for my life in the restroom
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Oo ee ah ah ah ting tang walla walla bing bang
4:00 I love these teachers 👩🏫 👨🏫 🧑🏫 this energy is awesome
rambling to fight the, feel free to ramble in the replies :)
i went to a doctor's appointment today! it gets less and less scary every time :)
Hey can you take care of yourself? Just do one small thing that will make yourself happy. And if you feel like you can do more, please stretch, drink some water, and eat something. You matter so much. I send all the virtual love. 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
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Yay!!!! Tysm for these comments! They're the best! I love them so much. Thank you!!! 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜
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It's getting close to spooky season, yay
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@@Feather899 agreed
I was just texted by a content creator whom I know is an adult. They complimented me, asked for my date of birth, my age, my number, and a picture of me. Is that normal? I'm really stressed right now 😢 I don't want to make false assumptions. I don't plan on showing them a picture of me, but I do have their number on whatsapp. Please help me 😢 The creator knows I'm a minor, I don't know if I should say the content creators name or not Edit: I deleted their contact Information.
Run, don't continue contact
no, that’s not normal. block them and don’t interact anymore, you’ll be okay 🫂🫂
No its not, block them.
I blocked them. Now I'm conflicted, their content is really great and I do like watching their content, but I don't know what to do about that. Should I unfollow them?
They do get included in the leftist tiktok compilations of dude.
When I was a child and would play house a would be, either a father or an animal. And I chose the latter most of the time.
does anyone here know how to see if you're Indigenous but not native american? I'm pretty sure I'm Sami but most DNA tests only show Native American heritage on the results :p
Maybe try listening to stories and ask questions about your heritage to your grandparents/older family members? I’m not to sure how much this’ll help but here anyway:>
It really don't matter trace your heritage back far enough you're "indigenous" to some place.
It also doesn't matter because those barbaric tribes got eliminated for a reason: they don't provide for the benefit of humanity by sticking to mythos and superstition rather than science and reason.
Okay how do i explain to people that i am just a little guy and not a wife
Like im just a gentleman
Im not a girl
I just like to do all the traditionally feminine things because im a gentleman.
I paint because im fucking van gogh not because im such a well mannered lady
I like drinking out of pretty tea cups and having tea time because im a male socialite from the late 1800s (without all the bad stuff)
Im not embroidering because im your grandmother, im embroidering because im a gay cottage core twink in the french country side.
I'm not your wife, I'm the hot man-written-by-a-woman librarian from your damn fanfiction.
Anyways,
11:48 I don’t relate to a lot of the things this person mentioned, despite being in the category. For most of my life, I just thought I was a girl because I was told I was a girl. That was as far as I thought about it until a couple years after high school.
Im able to sit down and watch these videos again!! It took me a while because thesse are a bit slwoer and also i have a really small attention span
alright, i'm gonna sate my morbid curiousity and look up republican tiktoks. wish me luck
i cant even click on them i feel my brain cells frying up
my monster high twyla doll arrived ((:
Twyla :3
the tiktok being funny: OH MY GOD THE LIGABITAH!!
the ad that came on: they tied my husband up and cut him with machetes then shot him to death
RUclips, HORRIBLE TIMING DUDE
Me when capitalism 🔫🤠
Quick question because i remember seeing a tiktok in one of these videos upon bonnets and i cannot find it again but can non-black people wear it? For example, im POC but with curly hair that dries out during my sleep or gets matted that i need a bonnet to use but im not sure if it's cultural appropriation?
1429 days until SIIIILLLLLYYYY
10:43 Do y'all know what this is about? Who's Lou?
Damn first vid didn't hold back (I haven't done anything, dw man-)
But also with the autism thing, I'm so pissed off that dudes can get diagnosed as young as 4 but women need fuckin lists and lists of criteria before they even consider it.
I told my friend with autism about his privileges and he instantly went off at me lmaooo (yeah we ain't friends anymore)
6:58 the red jacket looks great! ❤🏳️⚧️
11:48 is so true
14:03 riddle me this: how is he so handsome an has such a hot voice, yet feels insecure. it just doesn't make any sense.... 😍 (ow mai gawd i wanna squeeze him)
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10:34 Who's Lou and what's the context? /gen
I’m guessing it’s calling out a person defending an SA’er/abuser by name
stream Noname !!
are we not going to talk about how the first clip is racist?
No cause it's not
whats the game in the first tiktok?/gen