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Kids know when adults hate them. Teachers, doctors, parents, anyone. They can feel it. This is why it’s so important to be kind to children.
Anyone knows when anyone hates them, but yes, that includes children. The problem is that children will internalize the way they are treated by their caregivers and continue treating their inner child that way when they become adults.
*stares in child from a dysfunctional family/toxic community and is about to cry because I really needed to hear this*
my violin teacher in school did not like me and i remember walking back to my classroom one time like "I didn't know a teacher could make you feel that bad" like I wasn't wanted in the rehearsal for this thing (don't remember what it was anymore)
This.
absolutely!
I try very hard to show my students that I care about them
My teaching degree absolutely did not prepare me for actually being the only adult in the classroom outside of the very specific white middle class suburban type of school.
I'm really thankful for the program I got into in collage that was specifically meant to give extra training for upcoming teachers in underprivileged schools (this included a huge variety of schools, super urban school, super rural schools, even teaching in a juvenile detention center)
If anyone is wanting to be a teacher in the US state of Illinois, I super recommend looking into Golden Apple
i met someone who lives on a reservation today, and that made me realize how privileged i am to not live on one. america doesn’t give af about our reservations and we need to take action
The crazy part is that reservations are a trick of diplomacy -- Natives were compelled to sell or give their land to the USA, but were "encouraged" (at gunpoint) to "reserve" a portion for their own use. The land wasn't reserved by the US government on behalf of the Natives, the treaties were written in a way to make the Natives look generous.
as a Native person i appreciate this. in Canada too alot of our reserves don’t even have clean drinking water. It’s a stereotype that we have so many benefits we don’t even have to work. Our people drop like flies. We suffer from the aftermath of colonial genocide. Inter generational trauma haunts our communities.
@@bluishbuncake 🩷
America doesn’t give af about a lot of things, it’s part of the reason why they’re taking away so many people’s rights. We seriously need to bring the freedom into America, otherwise we’re just another country on this damned planet. Natives in America don’t even get decent healthy food and drinking water, it makes me want to cry. Nobody deserves to be treated the way people who aren’t straight white men are in America. My heart goes out to anybody on the reservations who are struggling.
I'm part native, have never lived on a reservation. I've been told I have enough "native in me" to carry a card, but I don't want to because my documents say I'm white, and I've never had to experience those hardships, or had the chance to experience that culture. I want to give opportunities and resources to those who deserve them by not dabbling
21:25 reminder that trans racial means someone of one racial group who is taken into the family of another racial group. Not someone who decides they wanna be black.
I've never heard this before. I need to think about whether it makes sense given the way other "trans-" adjectives are used.
@@deusexaethera trans just means to transition. If someone is raised in a family with different racial experiences then the child, they will be raised as that racial identity.
I grew up with a couple of transracial people. A lot of Chinese girls got adopted to white families because of the One Child Policy. There's some... checkered history that comes with transracial adoptions. When white families adopt children of color there's often some extra baggage that comes along with it.
Don't get me wrong: I'm not advocating that white families avoid adopting non-white kids, I'm just saying that white families need to put in a little extra effort to learn and support their kid. And they need to be cognizant of why those kids need adopting in the first place.
@@aldenheterodyne2833 exactly!!
@@deusexaetherain latin trans means “to go across”
(Also, this is my daily comment)
People who comment "Bring bullying back" under videos of someone acting silly need to grow up.
How bored do you have to be to where someone on the internet having harmless fun makes you so upset?
bullying is not something to be brought back. that shit traumatized me
And saying that implies that bullying ever stopped. It just shifted so it’s harder for teachers to identify.
@@cgihearteyes Exact reason why I can never set foot inside my former middle school again. I was bullied A LOT for my SPD and I still carry a lot of negative baggage about my disorder to this day. Being told “It’s not that loud” will forever piss me off.
bullying doesn’t even make any sense in the first place. are bullies just bored?
“Finish that douchebag’s phrase” has to be my new favorite game show of all time.
You don’t need to forgive those who hurt you over and over again. You don’t need to forgive your parents. It’s okay to hold onto that anger. Just don’t let it consume you.
Exactlyy
And I’m not gonna forgive him either. He can go step on a cactus
thank you ❤
I absolutely agree with this. People need to stop using ‘family’ to insist on continued relationships. Just because your related to someone doesn’t mean you have to forgive them. You don’t owe your parents/relatives a good relationship. You’re allowed to still be upset.
Nicque Marina explained this so well! You're allowed to heal AND stay mad! If I found out that my dad died of a heart attack, I would quote Death Note's "All according to plan."
Random people stop invalidation teenagers sexualities challenge, IMPOSSIBLE. My younger sisters best friends mum decided yesterday to tell me that she too was a late bloomer, and ‘just you wait until your classmates are men’ when I casually joked about being aroace to my mum in her presence. What’s with straight people thinking they know more about a kid they only know through proxy than the kid themself?
Anyway. Fuck that. Queer people, especially with labels that make people be like ‘oh now you’re just making things up’, please tell me who you are. Because you’re all so valid. Especially aspec people, because god knows you go through shit.
I’m aroace, aesthetically attracted to women, and I’m non binary and use they/she pronouns.
i’m aroace but like physical contact (only from not family members) and i’m transmasc but don’t try to pass and liek fem things and use it/he pronouns. th ask for sharing
I'm ace, possibly lesboromantic, transmasc and use they/he/it/any pronouns.
I'm also ace, but I have no idea whether I'm just into men (femboys hehe), femininity itself, every gender, or none of them. Went through a real, slow journey with my gender, so for the time being I am genderfluid...in theory.
I’m aroace, don’t have a gender label, I prefer it/they most of the time but I’m not really bothered if someone uses he or she unless I’m having a bad day. Sometimes I might just want to be called by they/them or it/it’s too? I dunno, I can compare it to how like. My chronic pain changes from day to day. And so do my pronouns. Not my gender though, that’s always the same, whatever the hell it even is.
also the unlabelled flag is really pretty but it looks like sour candy to me? like the ones that are a bit fuzzy. would eat it
I’m ace omnisexual transmasc and I use it/they/he/LOTS OF NEOS
I love when people say ‘living with autism’ not because it’s right, but because it cracks me up. Nah, im not autistic, totally, I just have this roommate. It conjures up the funniest image of just… sitting on the couch with autism. Like hey dude. Pass the tv remote. Nope you wanna watch the LEGO Batman movie again? Oh alright. Living with autism so be like that
Pfft
autism was too busy spiraling in yet another info dump rabbit hole and forgot to do the dishes again :/
@@QUR_LvR goddammit autism really not pulling their weight
My aunt Tism said I can't eat the rich guys, it's too slimy for me :[
??? how else would you refer to it? are you only autistic post mortem?
honestly having people in my head at the best of times feels exactly like this, "look there's a video on sharks" "dude no I wanna watch the video about a video game I've never seen"
reminder that you cant separate art from the artist when the art itself is the problem !! not when problematic stuff is slipped in subtly, but when 90% of the 'jokes' in your favorite show are gross and oppressive for example and you sit there giggling at it knowing what its supposed to mean, you're supporting it !! its weird
Agreed. When the art is used to further the artist's problematic agenda, that's when you stop the separation and look at it as one thing if that makes sense.
Also when supporting the art would give the artist money
What part of this video does that relate to?
@@boopdedoop3764True!
Thanks vriska
3:03 please remember that some people just.. aren’t into polyamory. Not everyone is gonna be poly, and not everyone is gonna be mono! That’s okay! I just see a lot of fellow polyam people trash on mono people and act like they’re stupid for not being polyam.
boosting!
Please use mutual respect. Mono people respect poly people and vice versa
yes!!!
Wasn't the point of that video to point out how ridiculous the attitudes and arguments against polyamory are? Not to trash on mono people?
@@AbstractQueer I never said that??
Feeling isolated in your relationship? Getting annoyed at your partner really quickly?
Do you have all your needs met?
When was the last time y’all cuddled, played a game, or watched a film? When was the last time you guys cooked together? Often times when our needs aren’t met we feel like the other person doesn’t care about us.
I was feeling so upset with my partner until we held hands. Im a very touchy person and didn’t realize until afterwards that we hadn’t had the ability to cuddle in over three weeks due to schooling, work, and other personal issues. I wasn’t mad, I felt alone and couldn’t verbalize it. Same way we get snippy when we’re hungry.
This goes for all relationships. Platonic, romantic, sexual, familial, etc. Please check if your needs are being met before getting angry with someone
I wish I could touch my partner:[ we live in completely different states
THIS IS ACTUALLY SO HELPFUL I NEED TO MAKE A CHECKLIST OR SOMETHING
this is so unbelievably important and i need this printed on a shirt i can wear outside around others
@@CosmiTwink me too but we live three hours away from each other
@@8luelightya see the thing is I've explained my needs to my partner but she doesn't seem to care
i love leftism
real !!!!
unpopular opinion (apparently): people are pretty cool actually and the world isn't lost and i like being around and helping other people a lot actually
revolutionary optimism for the win B)
you're right, it is so sweet :D
unfortunately, that's not what leftism is because it's not an actual analysis or theory that can be applied to create a functioning society. feel good mantras are not a substitution for dialectical theory.
yay
11:41 I absolutely agree that you should never yell at children. It is your job as a parent to not take out your anger on a child that can not defend themselves.
Def feel validated by the second one about being Bi. I remember my Mum being “supportive” by treating it like, “Oh is that it?” And laughing, then saying how my brother was scared to come out and she thought it was “ridiculous”. My Mum is def an on the fence ally, where she says she supports it, but the minute you tell her being straight is a privilege or call out assumptions made about bi or other queer people, she can get defensive.
It’s been better after some fam therapy, but still a bit of an issue we are working on.
“Narcissists are evil” i got so upset over a joke this guy I’m seeing made, I cried. I was so embarrassed his husband had to come and comfort me. Dude I’m too busy having panic attacks to create some master mind abuse plan for every person I meet.
I’m angy bc I thought I was first but I respect your speed. This is the start of a war. I will beat you. One day. Soon…/lh
@@CorvusMoon22GOTTA GO FAST /ref
thats horrible :( i really hope you're feeling better now, thats such a weird joke for him to make in general too?? very gross + uncalled for on his part tbh
Ugh I'm so sorry, I hope the guy apologized at least and I'm glad his husband was comforting.
But about the whole idea that narcissists are evil masterminds - please lmk if I'm out of my lane or being offensive since I'm mentally ill but not with a personality disorder, I just wanna add my perspective as someone who's the classic example people point to when talking about the ~victims~ of people with PDs, since my dad's mentally ill (probably NPD) and was also abusive towards me and my mom... People forget that feeling like "the world surrounds you" isn't just a fun "I'm special" feeling, it's also insanely overwhelming and at the core of a lot of anxiety issues. When someone feels like everything is about them, it can also mean they feel like everything is their responsibility/fault and everything is a personal attack. My dad was fucking terrified, constantly, and never wanted to admit it because he worried people were out to get him (including my mom, his family, and when my parents separated, his girlfriend) and if he showed fear it'd be a weakness, and if he was weak he'd die. It was so bad that when my uncle bought a Dodge Challenger - a very normal car for middle-aged guys to like - he thought it was my uncle's way of trying to make me like him more than my dad. (Note: I'm not into cars and know next to nothing about them lol).
He dealt with that anxiety with drinking, drugs, and lashing out and pushing people's buttons to "retake power" (and he definitely was _not_ a mastermind, at the worst of times he was just... a shitty bully, he didn't have any large scale end goal, he didn't even have a plan for when people inevitably had bad reactions to being treated like shit). Others obviously deal with anxiety differently. Every person with NPD or any other disorder is going to have different symptoms and deal with it differently, the same as any person going through literally anything. It doesn't excuse when people do make bad decisions, it's just like... weird when we assume everyone is going to make those bad decisions and don't even try to understand when they make bad decisions. The best way we can let people get through anxiety and mental illness is with widespread kindness and acceptance to try and reduce that fear.
@@Marispider this comment is right on the money. I feel like the world revolves around me, which means I’m always panicking that every little mistake I make will be broadcast on live news for everyone to see.
I REFUSE to be close with people because I’m SO SCARED that everyone will automatically turn on me. The way I look, talk, act, dress, it’s all curated for people to like me.
Npd is a TRAUMA disorder. People with trauma often react badly. It’s not an excuse, it’s a reason. I’m not lashing out because I want to, I’m lashing out because I feel like I actually dying.
I’m so sorry your father wasn’t a good father, but I’m so so thankful you can see how we (people with npd) aren’t evil. You’re doing amazing. I hope you have a lovely day.
OKAY GUYS YOU KNOW THOSE ORCAS WHO ARE SINKING YACHTS. So. Guess who has a ‘sink the rich’ tshirt with an orca on it. Found this cool anti capitalist artist and went brrrrr. I did accidentally wear said shirt to the Ferrari museum. Lol.
don't be shy, bestie, who's the artist 😌✨
I got mega period rage rn. I feel like I’m gonna explode. I get very pissed off at everyone and everything except for like 4 people. Like I get mad at the wind for blowing in my direction. I can literally feel the hormones coursing through my veins and I get the urge to punch stuff, fight, and yeet stuff into oblivion. It’s similar to roid rage. But guess what? I have self control. I stop myself. I find things to keep me occupied
🤗🤗💜💜
i feel ya. pillows are very good for getting rage out
It’s so annoying the amount of misinformation about periods and the amount of amab who say “is it really that bad? I feel like you’re faking it” like, fck no. When I’m on my period I feel like I’m being stabbed and being expected to go through my life like nothing is happening is impossible. And being emotional on your period, if it is portrayed in media, is often shown as just hysterical crying over nothing. And while that can happen, it’s not the only form of it. I get so pissed at the smallest stuff and just want to punch whoever talks to me. I personally love watching videos of amab people trying period simulations when I have bad cramps. Seeing them have that moment of “oh it really is that bad” is hilarious
@@yourbonesareminenow I honestly want to try one of those, but not because I'm amab, but rather to see what the 10 level is for reference.
@@hellolithy the average period is usually a level 5
The system is finally recovering from the mass dormancy but not from the fact that YX made The Coleslaw, Spaghetti and the Crab Pasta last night
Someone needs to get YX a child leash at this point /lh
@@goblinguy3103my singular request is that we all one day return to #cooking-and-baking so we can banish him to the Hell Basement™ once more
NOOOO I DIED INSIDE READING THAT FOOD COMBO
YX, i do have just one question, *why?*
damn, YX was cooking up a feast
Would y’all still like my comments if I was a worm?
yes
yes, personally i think that would make them so much better like imagine a leftist worm that can type
Yes, I had an army on ants before, worms were on my side
yes, worms are cool
Ye
19:46 because millennials didn’t grow up with the internet as their main parents. They may have grown up in the early days of the internet, but y’all didn’t grow up with an iPad holding your hand more then your parents. You don’t know what it’s actually like.
12:51 “these kids are mean” wow it’s almost like our teachers don’t care about us, our parents don’t care about us, and we went through a pandemic and permanently changed us FOREVER! I wonder why we’re so miserable!
Yeah lololol :D
agree 100%
Teachers are so shocked by the nihilistic and dark humored kids that the pandemic created. They don’t understand what actually bullying look likes and it can get so frustrating.
Let’s see here, we’ve gone through a global pandemic, more mass sh**tings than days of the year, watched the former President nearly overthrow the government, our planet is currently boiling alive, the government hates LGBT folks and especially Trans kids, Republicans want to completely sabotage public schools, and basically the next election cycle will decide if we live in a dictatorship or not. Meanwhile, the older generations not only caused the horrific state of the world we current live under (Thanks, Boomers), but also blame us younger folks for being “whiny snowflakes”. If kids are being mean to you, there’s probably a reason.
Can you share more about what bullying looks like these days?
22:52 NAH PEY TOO CLOSE. Got an immigrant dad with adhd and ptsd. It’s so. God. This is so accurate. Ouch. “Nah that’s normal. I did this when I was your age” MF I GOT NEWS FOR YOU
IK RIGHT!? My older sibling was convinced I had autism a few mont after we started spending time together. And my parents will go “Baby, I was just like that when I was your age.” Bro you literally spent your childhood escaping war, poverty and starvation, please get me a doctor.
Here's your not so daily "narc abuse doesn't exist" comment, please respect those w/ NPD and stop using narcissist as an insult and stop calling abusive people narcissists.
boosting!
No no, look at me do my evil little narcissistic abuse (I made my friend watch monster high movies at her house)
Boost
@@goblinguy3103 i love monster high!! who's your favorite character? My favorites are Ghoulia, Abbey Bominable, Elissabat, and Toralei! I haven't watched the G3 series yet, but I love the G1 web series and animated movies! 🥰
boost!
I promised myself I wouldn’t stay up for these 🤡🤡🤡
“Autistic people tend not to feel full until our stomach hurts or not hungry until we’re starving.”
So that’s…not normal? Oops-
…oh
No wonder hunger cues are hard
12:58 - 18:27
I loved this response!! It's so rare to see teachers who actually care. My school environment (PWI) is not a community at all. It serves kids from many districts and the teachers don't build relationships with them. It's also defintely not a safe environment for POC. There are SO many anti-black, xenophobic, and discriminatory microaggressions every day! 😔
You shouldn’t be able to become a parent before working with kids. Wether it’s baby sitting, teaching, or something similar.
You also shouldnt be a parent if you cannot accept your children having disabilities or being queer.
agreed. at the very least take some classes
Whenever you think about people not being "allowed" to have children unless XYZ, ask yourself: "Do I trust my government to enforce this fairly?" These kinds of sentiments often lead to eugenics, whether that was the original purpose or just rich bigots in charge taking advantage of it.
Instead of "not allowing" people to have kids, how about we make resources more available, like offering free parenting classes? PSAs spreading info on these things? More community-centered care for children? There are better options than punishing people for having kids without "permission".
@@AbstractQueer people planning to adopt have to prove that they will be good caregivers, i dont think it would be all that strange for it to be something standardized to have some sort of parenting class (perhaps as an elective or adjacent to health class in highschools) or for there to be free programs, both on and off line, for people wanting or needing to learn. if someone has a baby, hospitals could give recommendations or such towards such classes incase the parents need them. something less enforced in the way crime laws are enforced, but more in the way mask mandates are enforced. for the wellbeing of yourself and your child/children, learn these things and such, or dont but you will be asked to many times and looked down upon if you have chosen not to. i think that would be more than fair. but hey, what do i know? im just good at world-building fictional ideal realities, lol
@@comicallylargerodent9155 I understand where all y'all are coming from, I used to think the same way, but again: do you trust this to be enforced fairly? Any sort of mandatory condition to fulfill to have children opens up an avenue for discrimination by those in charge of enforcing it. Imagining fictional ideal realities is great and all, but we're discussing the real world, and we have to be realistic about how these kinds of things are likely to play out or we'll just create an even worse situation.
I like some of your other ideas, like if we put parenting classes in the lineup of everyone's standard education, then failure would just mean delayed graduation. And of course, free programs and resources that are easily accessible to everyone.
(I'm not entirely sure what you meant by "how mask mandates are enforced" since I've never actually seen someone be punished for that)
i was talking to my mom the other day and she called me handsome for the first time ever. yippee :)
I hope in March someone knows it’s Wilson’s disease awareness month
Like I’ll even accept fake allyship im so tired of being overlooked
Happy early Wilson’s disease awareness month!
@@i-eat-rusty-nails thanks :)
I did my eye exam. I don’t know why I expected answers. Oh well. No rings. It sucks being the 5%.
Yay an upload!! I finished the art thingy, and she liked it super duper much
I'm practicing my flute and I might learn trumpet/cornet
I tried it today and did super well (somehow) and I would love to dual wield Instruments :33
ahh that’s so cool! people who play instruments are so rad 😎
Recently I’ve had a really bad headache and I still have an entire week to go 🤑
I'm so sorry have you tried heat packs or ice packs on your head?
wishing you the best of luck of dealing with life
Im gonna make some spooky art :3
that’s epic! i love spooky season
came home from school and was sad there wasnt a video- about 3 minutes later u posted lol
Title suggestion!: leftist tiktoks that are tiktokking leftistly
we talked about autism in class, and will for the whole week since the book we're reading has the r slur in it and a character who is "mentally r-t----d" (acknowleged thats a outdated term and he explained the difference between that and autism). i will update you each day to see how it goes. day 1:not much was talked about. we did some vocabulary about autism. tomorrow we will finish that and hopefully get into the article we are reading called "My Life With Autism".
All of my English teachers throughout high school hated me. I could feel it and I almost didn’t graduate because I didn’t feel comfortable going into those classrooms
I hope all the other systems here in the comments are having a great day. You guys are doing so well and we are proud of you
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in the questioning and confussed phase but this is so encouraging and kind thank you
As someone who less than a year ago went through that questioning phase it can be one of the hardest things to go through and explore. But lemme tell you some things i wish i would have known and it might help regardless of what the outcome turns out to be.
So refreshing to see other systems here
@@AwkwardCat23 thank you so so much that means so much to me
My first ever binder showed up today y'all! I am experiencing so much gender euphoria and I'm so much happier than I thought I'd be. Just wanted to share with you guys! To all my trans brothers and sisters out there, you are perfect and I'm so glad you're here, I love you! /p
Yay!!!
Omg I’m so happy for you! Just make sure you bind your chest nuggets correctly, so you don’t damage them! There are plenty of RUclips videos out there that will show you how to do it safely and correctly, stay safe! ❤️
Went to my first d&d meeting today! Still kinda confused since it's my first time and there's so much to process but I had fun
That second tiktok🥹💗💜💙
The girl in TikTok #2 has pretty eyeshadow. Probably the one thing about being female that I wish I could get away with is the ability to wear pretty makeup.
i wish i could wear makeup without dysphoria :(
@@cgihearteyes : I took advantage of makeup companies' very generous return policies so I could try basically every color of eyeshadow known to humanity, until I found a few that look good on me and don't make me look like a drag queen. I have really dark irises for a white guy, and my whole life people have told me my eyes look intimidating, soulless, piercing, etc. It only took me until age 40 to actually try something to make them look friendlier, and dammit, it actually worked. I also found a brown tinted lip balm that cuts down on the pinkness of my lips for a more ruggedly masculine look (I guess?), and coincidentally it's also the best damn lip balm I've ever used -- for the first time in decades my lower lip doesn't look like the surface of the Moon from me chewing on it.
I'm watching this at the bus stop rn lol the title is perfect
I have a classmate who's catchfrase would be : "I personally think people who eat meat are disgusting, but you can do what you want"
important thing i feel the need to comment on:
its not stupid for people to wear diapers, its not bad for adults to wear diapers, people shouldnt be looked down upon for wearing them
y’all heard of the “simple russian girl” trend? it’s super cool and a fun way to share tidbits of your culture/ heritage so if u hadn’t i’d check it out (it’s usually done by artists). ANYWAYS i was thinking that it’d be super fun to do it here so feel welcome to put your version in the replies! Also if anyone wants the layout to try it just ask!
I love this trend so much. Seeing people celebrating cultures that they’ve lost and trying to reconnect with it is beautiful
all i've saw of that trend was the negative stereotypes of their culture 💀
Top tip (TW abuse but nothing explicit, it's fairly vague)
Instead of saying "victim"/"victim of", try to use "suvivor"/"survivor of" instead. Ofcourse it depends on the individual and you should absolutely use whatever they prefer.
When I was coming to terms with my trauma, one of the things that held me back the most was how others would perceive me. Had I been irreparably changed and harmed? Yes, but the last thing I wanted was to be seen as a victim all my life, before I was seen for who I am as a person. The word "victim" made me feel small, helpless and like damaged goods. I am not damaged goods. I am a survivor.
I have my battlescars and they have changed me. I may have been victim to violence, but I'm a survivor because I got through it.
I hope this helps people understand that terminology is important when tackling trauma and that if you have trauma, you have the choice of what word you use for yourself. Your trauma may change you but it doesn't define you, you define yourself ❤
It definitely depends. I prefer to be called a victim of abuse because I want my abusers to be held responsible. I refuse to be a “survivor” because that makes it sound like they weren’t responsible
@@goblinguy3103That's your right to choose and I imagine the main reason most people who refer to themselves as victims do so for that reason. Personally, I don't feel that way, I explained why and I think unless you know someone's preference, it's best to say "survivor" as I feel like it gives people more autonomy, whereas the word "victim" seems to focus on the loss of autonomy (which is not perpetual, you will regain your autonomy even if you have been denied it, this is to anyone who may be reading and feel the same way I did).
You can be a survivor and hold your abuser/s accountable, for me the label is about self-accepance, not my abuser.
Again, that's just my thought and people are entitled to identify however they choose.
ive never thought of it like this, i have never called myself a survivor because of internalized invalidation but this just opened my eyes, thank you
@@Rene-is-confusedOfcourse, I'm so happy to have helped!
note to self; look closer at the dialogue buttons for terraria.
what i thought the button said: continue
what it actually said: curse
side note i really wish terraria had accessibility options :( i can barely see the text (i play on xbox so the screens farther away)
Ah, I can tell you summoned Skeletron by accident. Luckily, that’s the only NPC in vanilla you need to talk with to summon a major boss. I play Terraria on Mobile, and there’s all sorts of ways you can customize the way your touchscreen controls operate, what effects you want on or off, lots of advanced options, etc. which in regards to UI is actually quite nice. I checked the settings in my game, and there’s options for controllers and keyboards that I’m sure you could hook up, but nothing regarding changing the text size from what I could find. I definitely recommend sending a message to Re-Logic/the developers about it, they have a fantastic track record of listening to their player base!
@@rnpee oh really?? that's wonderful! i'll totally see if i can contact them to let them know about this!! thank you so much for your help
when the autism and you just can’t the autism and make the autism stop autism so you realize when you stop stopping the autism the autism makes the autistic feel better
I fuckin felt that
real
@@CorvusMoon22I absolutely felt that as well
valid bro
I'm a white writer who is really trying to get more diversity in my books, so I have a lot of questions about black hair specifically. Please tell me if any of these questions are phrased badly, and if you have the spoons, knowledge, and time to answer one or more, please do. If you yourself are black I particularly need and appreciate your input! If you know of resources for me to find this information, that would also be good.
1. How do braids work? Why do black people have to cut them out? What does it mean if they have growth, does their hair not grow when it's in braids?
2. What's the difference between braids, dreadlocks, coils, etc?
3. What is the cultural and historical meaning behind black hair (ik this is very general but I just want to know how if there are styles that would be bad for fantasy)
4. How difficult are braids, cornrows, afros, etc. to do? Could someone do it on their own or would they need someone else who knows what to do with their hair to help?
5. Is black hair more delicate and easy to break than other textures? I know they wear those silk hair things or use silk pillow cases but is that just because it's curly?
6. What kind of basic things do you have to do to take care of your hair, preferably steps that are achievable in a D&D-ish fantasy setting?
7. Not quite hair related, although it could be, but any absolute do-nots that I should avoid during characterization? I would hope I haven't done anything racist, but I'd like to know if there's anything I should try to avoid, or just avoid completely.
boost! i am not POC but from other creaotrs and POC I've heard them say not to use food like descriptions for skin color, hair color, etc... also if someone reads this and has something to add or i am wrong plz let me know.
@@Rene-is-confused Thank you! I have heard the food one before, and I've heard it a lot of places, so I think you're right.
@@ReeseAugust :)
It's best to go actually talk to black people they will most likely smile at knowing they're being included in the process of writing your book and they may order it after telling you about their culture. People on the Internet can make up anything
Go talk to black people
i have a sewing class today!
that’s so cool! what are you making rn!
@@cgihearteyes we are making a canvas bag!
Any other nd people here feel like they were supposed to be born in the Stone Age? I can talk just fine but sometimes the only way for me to get something across is the “ugg! ugg! AAAAA!” y’know? And I get very territorial to the point it ruins my day if someone sits at my desk. I enjoy stalking insects and catching them much in the way a lion stalks it’s prey, I have a very strong fight or flight instinct, I would rather be outside than anywhere else, and I’m constantly wanting to go barefoot, hunt deer, and forage wild food. Like I’ll just pick random edible plants and start munching on them. Oh and I absolutely LOVE to climb stuff. Maybe I’m devolving into a monkey lol
We were supposed to be the hunter gatherers
@@dinolover8183you know what that makes a lot of sense
25:51 I related to this section a lot because it takes me at least hours to realize when I’m sick or feeling like crap. The amount of times that I’ll realize 5 hours have past and I haven’t eaten since noon or I’ve eaten a shit ton of food. I also have stomach problems along with this but I feel like it’s more than my lactose intolerance. When I don’t eat in the morning i feel so awful like I’m going to throw up and pass out. Sometimes I’ll get gas cramps so bad I feel like I’m dying. I’m trying to convince myself to get lactase pills to see if that helps. Take care of yourselves
Hi everyone :3!! I wanna know if you guys have heard about a cop show called swat? My moms always been interested in them, but as ive become more political shes started to see the flaws in most of them. Now i personally havent seen it, but apparently this ones actually good? The whole plot is about a black man who became a cop to try and fix the system, but hes realised over the course of the show that its likely impossible. Apparently it also has p good representation too, including a healthy polyamarous relationship. If any of you know more about it let me know!
6:42 THIS IS WHY I CLIKED TO WATCHBTHE VIDEO
THIS
THE HOUSE IS GIVING ME LIKE GENDER ENVY BUT INSTEAD OF WOW I WANT THAT AS MY GENDER ITS LIKE WOW I WANT TO LIVE LIKE
AND THE PERSON??? IM SO ENVIOUS BUT ALSO SO HAPPY AND COMFORTED
I had an allergic reaction to the eyedrop they put in
Oh- hope ur eyes doing well
hey i think i’m finally comfortable with sharing that I am a system. thank you and goodbye.
-zane
congrats!
Yay!
you are not a system. real systems (if they exist at all) are not completely distinct and self aware. please do some actual fucking research before turning a life ruining disorder into a subculture.
I've got a jellyfish splatoon oc, I'm still deciding the final name, placeholder name is Jesse no last name and I'm open to suggestions for the final name :3 keep in mind that he's not a jellyfishling, he's a jellyfish like the ones in the plaza that change color for their splatfest team and look squishy all the time
nice pfp! ot got me through a lot of tough times
I love jellyfish 🪼🪼🪼
@@cgihearteyes that’s so real
i can’t rly explain it but maybe Lilo? or Cricri
i want a septum piercing so bad :(
me too! i’m saving up rn so i can get it when i’m old enough
Me too but I need too get one of my parents to take me and uh :(
dunno about everyone elses take on this but not every single thing we enjoy has to have some long story with deep meaningful roots. i cant like shit just cause i like the way it sounds or looks? nah, im gonna do me. i like what i like and if you dont like it, you can go somewhere else especially if i have hurt no one.
YAYYYY I ACTUALLY GUESSED THE "Finish That Douchebag's Phrase" THINGY THIS TIME YAYYYYYYYYYY
watching this while eating left over lamb korma and its very good. whats your favourite food???
it’s hard to pick just one, but matzoh ball soup is the ultimate comfort for me
My favorite food* is the mac and cheese my husband makes for me! It is just kraft mac but has smoked cheddar and chives added. It's incredible c:
Its hard for me to pinpoint what my favorite food is, but i know i like fried rice
5:42 this is an issue i've been grappling with as a white pagan/spiritual person for a while now. i look at other ethnicities and cultures, and there's so much for them to be proud of and celebrate. i wish i had that. i wish i had a spiritual home, a sense of belonging, that doesn't trace back to my racist, Christian imperialist ancestors. the only solutions i can think of, are to either try looking through my ancestry *long enough* until i find people from maybe thousands of years ago who were actual decent people. it would bring me such a sense of peace, to look back far enough beyond the many generations of Christians, and find pagans in my heritage. that, or just abandoning the concept of ancestral discovery altogether. because i know the majority of my ancestors have disowned me. they would look at me, a queer, pagan witch, and spit on me, calling me an unholy disgrace. so i don't need them. i can have a culture of my own making, that doesn't steal anything from other cultures. i hope other white spiritual folks who are struggling with this same issue realize the harm they do by their cultural appropriation, and can find other ways to express themselves spiritually without resorting to spiritual theft. white folks deserve to have a spiritual home too; i feel happy for the white Christians (who aren't toxic about their religion) who feel at home with their beliefs, but i can't see myself ever returning to that religion.
i'm afraid that no matter how hard i try to make my own spiritual home, every idea i come up with won't be an original idea, thus making it accidental plagiarism of other cultures. i just want to be me and have a home somewhere without hurting anyone, because of the moral atrocities of my ancestors that i have no control over. all i can control is myself, but i'm so *scared* that my efforts will never be good enough.
i'm about ready to abandon all of my human clothes, and exist in nature as my naked self. maybe then i'll belong. and once there is no more skin, nothing left of me but bones, and the mushrooms, moss and worms overtake me, maybe then i'll finally be home.
I am so happy I found this.
Isn't she just referring to "cottagecore" or like "witch aesthetic" which both of which insult people who are actually practicing witchcraft. You can practice witchcraft no matter your race/ethnicity or even religion. People just thought i t was like: "omg! SARAH THATS SO CUTEEE!".
But grouping white people as a whole as if they have no spiritual connection is a rude assumption and generalization. It comes down to someone's background and personal experience rather than race.
@@bubbleanxietea9593 see like, i can see where she's coming from because white people *do* end up culturally and spiritually appropriating other races' cultures. the white girl talked about in the video had her hair styled in a specific way that's unique to black people, and it did come across as racist to me. but there are ways white people can connect to and express their spirituality without stealing it from other cultures. for example, i love the thought of having trinkets/accessories in my hair, but i would never braid it in a way that's specific to black folks (if you've ever seen the movie Tangled, think about how Rapunzel got her hair braided and flowers were put in it).
@@kalimbakryptid6801
To be clear I was never denying that appropriation isn't a thing and people certainly do it, purposefully or not it is real and never okay. I just feel like saying that "white people" as a whole have no connection to culture or religion in just kinda.... *huh* ?
@@bubbleanxietea9593 yeah i absolutely agree with you, i was moreso clarifying my own stance i suppose. but there's so many different cultures around the world associated with white people that aren't Christian and oppressive in nature, so making that kind of generalization is kinda weird to me as well
@@kalimbakryptid6801 Yeah. 😐
1404 days until DOCTOR VRISKA WILL SEE OYU NOW...
hi comrades! hope you're all doing well, here are some questions for the algorithm!
1. your favourite butterfly?
2. a plant you like that is native to where you live?
3. your favourite soup?
4. your favourite form of public transport?
slay safe y'all!
1. ummm idk i like the blue ones
2. I'm not really familiar with any native plants
3. chicken noodle
4. i like trains personally
1. tbh i prefer moths--
2. looked up a list, apparently i haven't seen a lot of my native plants... thats... sad...
3. potato :)
4. TRAINS 🚂
1. monarch butterflies!!! they’re so pretty and we used to raise them so that there were more in the environment
2. purple coneflowers are so pretty
3. you can’t make me choose! but matzoh ball soup brings back a lot of comfort so i’ll go with that
4. i get too overstimulated with public transport :(. i like riding my bike tho!
1. lunar moths (not a butterfly but like they’re so cute and they look like leaves like cmon)
2. little venus flytraps?? i didn’t know that but it’s super dope
3. lobster bisque
4. METRO (idk if that’s the english name but whatever)
1- I don’t remember it’s name, but it’s got transparent wings!!
2- the Rocky Mountain columbine!
3- chicken noodle with gnocchi
Hey y’all! How are you doing today?? I have a kind of shifting headache rn and my voice is a bit sore from choir. I have to take my chem test tomorrow morning at 7 (if anyone saw my comment from like yesterday it’s been hell tryna get it over w/) I’m also- kinda falling out of my music taste?? Not like- I dont like it anymore but I’ve kinda lost the same happiness I used to get literally two days ago listening to the songs. But I don’t like anything else so idrk what to do 🫤 I think it’s the prednisone I’ve been taking?? Cuz I’m pretty sure it’s the reason I haven’t enjoyed anything these past few weeks. Idk I’m already waiting for the weekend now
6:40
im white and once my hair gets longer i will be putting things in it. it DOES ACTUALLY TIE IN WITH MY RELIGIOUS CULTURE. saying that these white girls are saying they are boho or hippie is just incorrect, they are pagan and practice paganism. in many forms of paganism have different meanings to things like small braids or "trinkets" in the hair.
also gatekeeping a way of expressing yourself bc of race is just dumb and continuing to separate the races
It’s all a victim mindset, having stuff in your hair isn’t ‘connecting’ to anything, it’s a tradition, and even then it’s been done by other cultures!! Not to mention, they’re assuming every non-poc girl has had slavery in her past, which is blatantly untrue
I’m so glad I could find someone else who agrees with me on this
@@daeflowerr omg me too
Yeah I agree also damn let people burn their incense and sage (as long as it’s not white sage) let them enjoy nature or “frolic” in forests. Idk why so many leftists have a problem with people doing what they love.
yesss i love taking public transit
i hate having chronic pain especially in my back and my legs it makes walking feel like suffering and i need to have a cane/wheelchair (ambulatory) but my mom prob won’t let me
I'm sorry but I had to keep nagging my mom and slowly wear at her to get my supports I hope you can get her to cave in 🤗🤗💜💜
@@broken_queer_but_fighting8589ur so real for that
good luck with talking to her
im about to try and get a mobility aid myself and am running into similar problems, wishing you luck talking to her!
@@Rene-is-confused i don’t think i’m gonna talk to her, just trying to find a good cane and wheelchair for me to see if i can manifest them or atleast meanifsst that she lets me get one
26:22 well that explains a lot
I have a person who I’ve been friends with on and off for a few years and they’ve recently been hanging around our friend group more. Their a amab femme nonbinary person and have been amazing in helping me be more comfortable in my femininity. They’ve never made me feel like it in validates my gender. Their super awesome and I’m very into them but I’ve never gotten into a relationship before and from conversation they don’t seem to be looking for a relationship at the moment. I’m okay being friends but I hate the feelings of hiding romantic feelings from a friend because I don’t want them to think I’m just friends for the possibility of a relationship. It’s the opposite (I’m demiromantic). Any advice would be welcome and take care of your selves
your friend seems cool, so possibly just literally tell them what you wrote here? "hey, i'm into you and i don't want to hide that from you but please don't feel pressure to reciprocate, i'd love to continue being platonic friends too if that's what you'd like" or something like that.
100% with that person at 12:55.
Yes! Heavy on what she said of LESS POLICING FR. Schools should have discipline but not an obsession on making literal children obedient
I just wanna say: thank you so much for making these videos. I get overwhelmed so easily to the point where I can't even complete basic tasks, and I really struggle with reading & attention span. In the past, any time I've wanted to educate myself on these matters, it's always been to the detriment of my mental health, because it was always in a way that wasn't compatible with me. These videos are honestly amazing though - they're comprised of shorter clips, which helps with my attention span, they cover a range of topics, which helps me get little bits of everything, and they allow me to learn about these things that are so important to me in a way that is actually manageable for me, and I appreciate that so much. I hope you have a wonderful day/night :). /gen
It's my birthday today! It's unrelated to the video but I just wanted to share.
happy birthday!
happy bday!!!!
Happy birthday homie!
Happy birthday hope it was magical 🤗🤗💜💜
Yay good job being born🎉🎉🎉
Okay but the second girl’s video was SPOT on!
6:47 I've always found that so strange. I think I might also have audio processing issues but also, if I have subtitles on all I can do is pay attention to the subtitles and I can't actually watch the show/movie, so it really distracts from the experiance for me. I don't know why, I kinda hate it, I'd love to be able to have subtitles on but can't watch anything with subtitles. Always interesting how something so simple like subtitles can have such a vast array of reactions and opinions on though.
omg the troy and abed sound !!! screaming crying throwing up
8:52 this is so funny because last Halloween, my ex boyfriend dressed up as Joe Biden and wore an actual adult diaper at a party. Like with no pants under. Just a suit, diaper and a Joe Biden mask. I dumped him a month later lmao
NO PANTS UNDER IS LITERALLY INSANE?? guess it was comfortable😭?
@@eatingmygrandmasbed oh dude he is absolutely insane and no he was complaining the whole time but so we’re the strangers at the party. like every girl was uncomfortable and I was embarrassed to be near him(we didn’t discuss costumes before hand)
white republican cis straight “men” are fucking weird lol
Heya! Waiting for my bday dinner party (at least one more) to get here so we can be seated :D
happy bday!!!
@@cgihearteyes Ty!!!
Happy birthday :)
@@Raymond.the.commie.raccoon44 Ty!
I hope your b-day dinner went well!
Hi y’all! I had a interesting and a not fun interaction back to back and I kinda needed to talk abt it in a not joking way cause idk (if u can’t tell i’m amazing w words so bear w me /s)
If it’s too long j skip to the bottom for a summary.
So I was eating lunch w my friend outside and these two guys come up to us and ask to borrow a phone to call their friend. It took a bit of figuring out but they were able to get in touch and I gave them directions on how to get to the place they were trying to meet them at. They were chill and I was kinda nervous cause I don’t talk to ppl (esp ppl idk) but it was nice so i felt kinda proud of myself for being able to interact w them (sound kinda self absorbed but idk how to phrase it better). Anyways right after they walked away these other guys came up and one of them said something at me that i didn’t catch so I had to ask like 3 times for him to repeat himself. When I finally heard him it was something derogatory that i think was supposed to be flirting (i don’t feel comfy typing it) but anyways i shut it down and he made another joke as a follow up which i responded awkwardly to. The interaction was rly uncomfy so I didn’t realize he was supposed to be hitting on us until my friend and i were talking abt it on the way back to class.
Anyways made me feel icky and it makes me sad that it happened right after a situation where i stepped out of my comfort zone and was happy w my choice.
TLDR: helped some strangers and was happy, immediately got hit on and didn’t feel happy
that sucks, creeps come out of nowhere i swear. sorry you had to deal with that
I have such a hard time telling when someone’s hitting on me especially when it’s a joke and it so frustrating. Hope you’re doing okay
10:32 I GUESSED IT RIGHT
3:04 those first two are really stupid to "mock" or turn around.
Saying it's unethical is kind of weird and not true but don't mock people for not wanting a polyamorous relationship for themselves.
It is true that it's a lot to ask of several people to all love you and the other(s) equally much.
If you can find a relationship like that, that's awesome.
But the second one is just absurd and all it does is make others seem rude when they're not.
It's natural that a monogamous person would say they'd get jealous in a polyamorous relationship and the reverse makes no sense, because jealousy would occur because of love/time/attention being divided amongs multiple people. If there is one person, there is way less to be jealous of.
Yes public transit very good especially of its Electrified railroad Electrification is actually a form of climate justice since existing railroad infrastructure tends to be in low income communities and Electrification turns a source of particulate emissions into a high quality public transportation
Also battery buses that aren't trolley capable are a stupid idea
12:53 not all situations are the same. kids CAN be mean just because they want to be. there was a teacher at my school who was nice and a little annoying at times but she was a teacher that’s just how it goes, it was her first year at my school when i had her and the kids in my grade (we were in 8th grade so 13-14) were horrible to her and spreading stuff about her that may have been true but was shitty. the next year, the kids in her class (the grade below us) were worse to her and made her cry so she quit like a month or so into the year. it’s been two years and the kids in my grade have not changed, they’re still a bunch of assholes who don’t give a fuck
"Everyone questions their sexuality. You're just going through a phase!"
Uhmm...no, ma'am. If you are questioning your sexuality, your brain is wrestling with the idea set out FOR you that you default to straight.
You are probably not entirely straight...🤗
That’s what I thought!! I’ve always known that I’m a boy who likes boys, I just never had the language to put to it until I was around 14. I never questioned it, I just was what I was and had difficulty expressing it. I was still always told I was confused or questioning despite being so sure.
People will often use “questioning” to invalidate young queer people, but it almost always implies that the person doing the invalidating is probably some form of queer themselves.. If “everyone” supposedly “questions” their gender and sexuality.
Community is my special interest and when the Troy and Abed in the morning video popped up, I was stimming so hard JAJSHDDJSKAKANXNX
I LOVE COMMUNITYYY
@@search..engine I LOVE YOU.
@@tallussy_hallussy OH MY GOD I JUST NOTICED YOUR USERNAME YOU ARE EVEN COOLER NOW
@@search..engine THANK YOU SO MUCH AHAHSGAJABVS
7:26 Thisis so eye opening and IMPORTANT! Like common sense would have the the constitution be a living (as in changing) document because the world changes and has changed so much, just ridiculous that grown people in positions of power can’t comprehend this
Tell me about your ocs in replies!! I'd love to hear it and I'll try to respond :]
rowen web: vampire born in mid 1600 (in my imagination world vampirism symptoms start happening around puberty), had to run from home due to the village wanting to off him once he started having visable symptoms (sun sensitivity, blood lust)
eventually became a pirate to keep some sort of life. goes around trying to find books about vampires and other vampires.
he managed to avoid the great war by going into hibernation (he would've tried to fight but kept being called a spy so), which turned into avoiding both world wars and having to suddenly navigate all the new tech n shit.
he manages to settle in a small town thst he (much later) realizes seems to be full of other supernatural beings.
he continues his piracy in the modern day, and brings any extra books to the local library :)
he also got adopted by the local lesbian witch grandmas.
not his full story but that's the jist of it (oh he's also bi)
Oh god I have so many. Let’s go with Aria and Ospray
They are a species called carnies that live on a planet called goofy with clowns and mimes. Carnies main thing is that they can walk on the air when they’re barefoot. They are also expected to be entertainers in the same way that people in real life are expected to be doctors or lawyers. They are descendent from mimes which means they are naturally grayscale and paint themselves different colors. They can’t change their shade of hair or skin though.
Anyways Aria is a mediocre gymnast who joins up with famous comedian Ospray as her opening act. He eventually gets a clown to invent ice skates that he can walk on the air with and ends up overshadowing Ospray and they have a falling out.
Aria is a man with medium brown/green/blue skin and orange or pink hair down to his ankles. He likes wearing flowy dresses during his act because it looks majestic in the air. He is very tall and thin.
Ospray has dark purple skin and never changes it. She is short and plus sized with a big Afro she likes to stick feathers into. She dressses like a 1920s “male impersonator”
Haha, you want me to info dump? 😳👉👈 Allison “Allen” Natus: A 16 year old girl from the state of Montana who was an advocate for her father’s Right Wing Anti-Mutant policies, who in a shocking twist of events, becomes a Mutant herself before running away into Canada where she crosses paths with Wolverine. Allen’s mutation centers around Light absorption and depending on how much light she absorbs, the more intense her abilities become. She can shoot energy beams and later in the story, concentrate light with the intense heat her body gives off to form crystals that can be shot as projectiles or formed into small weapons/shields. However, her Mutation also turns her skin and hair pigment completely white-her blood is also black-,and due to the nature of her powers, causes her body to generate heat that can be strong enough to singe most fabrics and her skin to glow in dark lighting conditions. In essence, there’s a trade off; Along with light fueling her powers, Darkness weakens her on the contrary.
Throughout her story, she has to do a lot of unlearning what she grew up believing about Mutants, eventually confronting her father who had suppressed his Mutation in the name of faith. Love it when Wolverine picks up a distraught teen on the side of the road lol
I actually created my own multiverse of ocs. Not inspired by Marvel but inspired by Markiplier's characters, ha ha. I just find the idea of seeing how an individual raised in different places and worlds and even as different species can change how they would develop.
how was everyone’s days? mine was pretty ok! nothing too interesting
8:25 Not me thinking this was a drag name lmao I wasn't looking at the screen so I was lol that's a hilarious drag persona bit then the second part started playing so i finally looked & realized
2:29 HAHHDJQJEJQ im so happy to see something related to community all the time 😭😭 theyre really good at this too, thought they were lip syncing till annie came in
10:37 I GOT IT RIGHT 2 TIMES?
25:53 What helps me is chewing gum! When I know I’m full but my mouth wants more I just grab a stick of gum and it helps :)
6:51 OMFG FINALLY SOMEONE EXPLAINED IT BC I GENUINELY DIDNT KNOW HOW
subtitles make everything sm easier (and thats why i struggle in school)
18:18 yeah there were cops at my school and it would make a lot of my friends uncomfortable
1:00 I'm bi and nb, its like a self doubt sandwich :c
i wish i would’ve seen this video when i was on the bus earlier
Guys, people don't seem to hear this enough so KIDS REMEMBER EVERYTHING. They don't view every day as "just another tuesday", this is their CHILDHOOD. You need to take their lives into consideration, they aren't just a background piece. They have thoughts and feelings, and they're still getting used to the world around them. Guardians or role models need to recognize that they aren't fully developed yet, and they NEED someone to show them how the world is. You are how you were raised a lot of times, and if you neglect your child, theres a high chance that they will neglect you, others, and maybe even their own kids in the future. And going back to them remembering everything, I mean that. They can remember even the smallest of things. They can remember tiny details that made them happy or sad and how you reacted to it, even if you forgot about it almost immediately. Treat them kindly, they'll remember it. I remember every detail of multiple things from my childhood, even my early childhood. They remember how you made them feel. They don't just forget if you lash out at them because you're in a bad mood. It is your job to take care of them, do it right.
Edit: Take 11:25 . This is a really good example of what to do here - I'm not saying take it exactly, but just be gentle. Let them have some control. Don't be inconsiderate. I've already typed a lot, so I'll let this sink in on its own.
i was a “mean kid” whose teachers mostly hated and gave up on me. i was an inconvenience they didn’t want to deal with. i was actually being abused at home and didn’t know any adult who was worth my respect frankly, it was hostility from all sides but because i was gifted nobody cared. i was smart so that was supposed to somehow mitigate for my complete lack of support even for my basic needs. i’m a senior in undergrad with a 4.0 now but that’s after dropping out of high school and taking a decade off. it took a lot for me to come back.
Why do people do the palm thing? I really don't understand and its extremely annoying.
Tiktok censors people (especially poc) saying white 😵💫
If you'r referring to the "* Taps on palm * people", it means white or yt people.
Black people would get in trouble/videos taken down on tik tok for saying "white people" so they have to tap their palms
@@hellolithyYT is considered a racist slur