Loneliness - I Have No Friends

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024

Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
    @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 4 года назад +1233

    The more I get to know people, the more I come to the realization that being alone is not so bad after all.

    • @sharkamov
      @sharkamov 4 года назад +65

      Unfortunately, I have to admit: *I couldn't possibly agree more!*_

    • @deepakongaming2711
      @deepakongaming2711 4 года назад +88

      being alone better than hang out with wrong people

    • @richardeidemiller6739
      @richardeidemiller6739 4 года назад +24

      I don't know your age but I completely agree and can tell
      you for a fact the world was (in my experience) a much friendlier
      place when I was young.
      I get very lonely too but don't really enjoy most social interactions.
      If people can put down their phones long enough to have one that is.

    • @babblingalong7689
      @babblingalong7689 4 года назад +7

      Seems like you lack faith that there are good people around, who would make good friends.

    • @missesmew
      @missesmew 4 года назад +8

      You sir, are exactly right 👌🏾👊🏾. lol
      I mean their not all bad , just watch out for the ones that breathe and shit😚

  • @BoiseG
    @BoiseG 7 лет назад +2974

    You're alone, but you're not alone in your friendless state. There are millions of us out there.

    • @alrivas9803
      @alrivas9803 6 лет назад +17

      BoiseG what if they are too far away to meet

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +5

      BoiseG good to know

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +39

      LuchoGFly I'm shy too, it's hard. I think shy people are usually very nice though

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +4

      LuchoGFly have you researched ways to stop stuttering? I wonder if there is anything in you tube.

    • @LabRat6619
      @LabRat6619 6 лет назад +3

      BoiseG correct my friend. Oh sorry I didn't mean that ....as I have no friends lol 😀

  • @SONALI_V
    @SONALI_V 4 года назад +229

    How sad it is to think that we live in such a big planet with millions of people but still feel lonely

    • @DARKMADNESS666
      @DARKMADNESS666 4 года назад +3

      Because some lives are more important than others

    • @gavinburns9516
      @gavinburns9516 3 года назад +7

      Tbf the the internet hasn't helped, if there were no internet I bet there wouldn't be no where near as many lonely people as there are now

    • @corruptneedles3384
      @corruptneedles3384 3 года назад +6

      Billions*

    • @brendasentra4145
      @brendasentra4145 2 года назад +1

      @@DARKMADNESS666???

    • @Human1136
      @Human1136 2 года назад +1

      @@gavinburns9516 *YES* 💯

  • @StedmanFoster
    @StedmanFoster 4 года назад +403

    Just imagine having a best friend and realizing he was never a friend at all...

    • @tulioferreira6523
      @tulioferreira6523 4 года назад +9

      Exactly...

    • @gardini100
      @gardini100 4 года назад +11

      that happens !!!!

    • @youcanbefree9698
      @youcanbefree9698 4 года назад +6

      I think we all been there

    • @m.shevonmason4232
      @m.shevonmason4232 4 года назад +18

      It’s a terrible thing.. ended a 12 year FAKE friendship last year.. found out she was secretly jealous and spreading my business to anyone who listened..

    • @StedmanFoster
      @StedmanFoster 4 года назад +3

      @@m.shevonmason4232 Did she try to isolate you by talking badly about others to you to give you a bad impression of them and then talk about you to those same people collectively? Did she ever start drama with your other friends or at least try and then turn around and not allow you to be around her friends or try to humiliate you in front of them by talking down to you or sharing confidential information or bringing up things from your past that you'd rather forget? Did she intentionally give you bad advice on things such as dating or dealing with guys? Was there ever a situation where she tried to get you to not attend school or quit school because she didn't finish? Did you guys ever drink or use recreational drugs together? Did she consume a lot of your time? Ask for help constantly but then when you needed help there was always an excuse? Ever have her point out what you did wrong and you responded fairly or with and apology while if you did the same to her she'd fly off the handle and somehow frame it in a way to say it's your fault? Ever had her try and get you to do things for her that could possibly get you into trouble or ruin another important relationship in your life? Has she ever tried to fuck your boyfriend or on the flip side accuse you of trying to fuck hers so she would never allow you to be around him whether they're together or not? Has she ever lied to you?(obviously) Has she wasted your time by telling you she has an event going on and when you showed up you found out it never existed? Did it always seem like if something good was happening to anyone she would say something negative and down play it no matter who it was? Did she often act like someone was jealous or "hating on her" although there was no reason to and more often than not the person she's describing wasn't even paying any attention to her at all? Has she always complained about the people who were simply trying to help her? - Terrible isn't it... I had all of these same experience with a person I called a friend for 13 years. I was too forgiving of his misdeeds and as a result he eventually walked away because he started to see that I was slowly growing tired of all that stuff. A sociopath he is so much so that he's become delusional. But life has been good since his departure. One thing I can say is I have the ability to love a person for who they are. He can not because he doesn't even love himself. He follows the crowd and what's popular but then loves to argue with others just so he feels like he know more than them. He is very much like a girl, that bitchy friend every girl seems to have and for a guy that's really really bad. It's bad either way of course but I guess you get the point. It's painful surely but it's crazy how you realize how wholesome life is all of a sudden when you don't have to deal with that disgusting shit anymore.

  • @ujayet
    @ujayet 5 лет назад +1852

    There should be a social gathering only for lonely people.

    • @elco1980
      @elco1980 5 лет назад +71

      Dating apps are not always the answer for lonely people especially introverts. I fear going on dates because I have failed a few times on dating apps. Most people don’t understand introverts very much even on dating apps.

    • @Pliskin2894
      @Pliskin2894 5 лет назад +24

      @@teflondon6407 heard that shit all the time. Same old story, same results. It's gotten to the point where I just stop trying. But I wanna keep my head up.

    • @redhood8141
      @redhood8141 5 лет назад +12

      Lol I'd love that, would be cool. Wish I had that in high school

    • @kreativekorpze596
      @kreativekorpze596 5 лет назад +21

      I am an introvert i never know how to hang out with acquaintances and to actually make friends

    • @kreativekorpze596
      @kreativekorpze596 5 лет назад +10

      I just moved into a new city that has a low population so its hard

  • @alexwintermeyer2265
    @alexwintermeyer2265 5 лет назад +451

    I'm 40 and never been able to make lasting relationships. I've never belonged anywhere. I wish i had the courage like you to say it out loud.

    • @DenderaPrincess
      @DenderaPrincess 5 лет назад +18

      Same here but just older. I think it was easier for me having enemies since childhood . This lifetime is a nightmare I want to wake up from soon

    • @angiem7130
      @angiem7130 4 года назад +15

      alex wintermeyer I dont even belong in my own family!

    • @carolmakgalemela6940
      @carolmakgalemela6940 4 года назад +8

      I understand, my anxiety comes from the negative words my father used to say to me. I can't seem to shake them , despite being a Christian.

    • @angiem7130
      @angiem7130 4 года назад +5

      Carol Makgalemela ...mine started from many years of abuse by my spouse....yes verbal , emotional or mental abuse can lead to this condition. You are not alone friend.

    • @cinnamonandclove
      @cinnamonandclove 4 года назад +4

      Same here. 37 and I'm not sure where I belong. It's funny, I have 200+ Facebook friends, but I am not sure which of them are truly my friend.

  • @cman5053
    @cman5053 4 года назад +193

    The problem is that you can't tell anyone how you feel

    • @nerdrage6970
      @nerdrage6970 3 года назад +3

      I always do. On an unrelated note, everyone thinks I'm an asshole.

    • @bekinditcostsnothing1684
      @bekinditcostsnothing1684 3 года назад +3

      I would suggest that is why you feel lonely...its not being surrounded by many or not is make lonely. Its bing surrounded by many and still can't express a feeling - that is lonely truly.

    • @AyaAya-un1jm
      @AyaAya-un1jm 3 года назад +3

      And there answer will always be then make friends

    • @bennystackz55
      @bennystackz55 3 года назад

      @@nerdrage6970 me too

    • @user-hv1qe7cx5t
      @user-hv1qe7cx5t 3 года назад +3

      Nobody really care otherpeople's problems...

  • @doczero1296
    @doczero1296 4 года назад +590

    I feel lonely even around my own family.
    It's the worst feeling ever

    • @lauras3871
      @lauras3871 4 года назад +2

      DocZero same.

    • @karlopetrovic3733
      @karlopetrovic3733 4 года назад +2

      narcissist?

    • @gardini100
      @gardini100 4 года назад

      why ?

    • @mtf-alpha-1
      @mtf-alpha-1 4 года назад

      DocZero Hey bud I’m here for you

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 4 года назад +1

      anthony same thing I wanna know. People love throwing that word around...🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @jahlivepolosa639
    @jahlivepolosa639 6 лет назад +588

    Dude i had so many friends growing up. Now that i am grown i realised they were all fake friends. I'd rather be by myself than have fake friends.

    • @mindthegap1669
      @mindthegap1669 6 лет назад +28

      So true.. I had a similar experience

    • @1piece473
      @1piece473 6 лет назад +18

      Well you say that because you have friends and experienced having friends and had good times, learned how to socialise.. but he didn't experience that

    • @toyoscio
      @toyoscio 6 лет назад +8

      Jahlive Polosa
      Many friends, especially ones made in school tends to downsize their friendships when they marry and have kids.

    • @amiran.5450
      @amiran.5450 6 лет назад

      💯

    • @showmangaffladlink8280
      @showmangaffladlink8280 6 лет назад

      Yo bro hit me up

  • @vivalicious27
    @vivalicious27 6 лет назад +604

    The irony of social media; Humans are so connected, yet so lonely...

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад +1

      Masooma, that is a contradiction, if you understood how our mind works, which can be based on our thoughts, some people who have commented on this page are not friendly, who feel insecure and basically is no one elses fault, it's also your lifestyle that may determine if you feel lonely or isolated and yet because of the way we think, we blame other people. The guy in this video thinks he is lonely, has no friends, so other people may be in the same position, understandibly, we can all feel that way, but some people feel trapped.

    • @SleeplessinOC
      @SleeplessinOC 6 лет назад +2

      It’s not ironic. Most people who post on Facebook DO have real life friends although they may have many casual acquaintances on there too that they don’t personally really spend time with. Look at all those pictures they post. It’s BECAUSE they have friends or at least a few friends which is why they have pictures to post in the first place.
      The lonely people of Facebook are those looking at other people’s pages because they have nothing to post on their own which is why people like you are saying how it’s ironic . Just because people have Facebook accounts does not mean they have friends and those are the ones that are lonely and are then used to describe how ironic it is when it’s not really ironic at all . Part of the reason why I do not use Facebook is because I have no friends and also too many people use it as a bragging platform . The narcissism is truly sickening.

    • @graviler2514
      @graviler2514 6 лет назад +2

      It's because "social" media gives you te illusion you're being social, sacrificing REAL social interaction. Every "Friend" I make online dissapears in really short time.

    • @ChallengeTheNarrative
      @ChallengeTheNarrative 6 лет назад +1

      Yes indeed

    • @luffydragneel5635
      @luffydragneel5635 6 лет назад +1

      *PSSHHH*
      **sips**
      Ah, back then were much simpler times.

  • @bellabong8862
    @bellabong8862 4 года назад +312

    I can relate. I'm a 64-year-old grandmother with 3 grown daughters and have never really had any real friends to hang out with. It feels embarrassing to say that. The only people who ever choose to hang out with me just to chat or have fun are my sister and sometimes my aunt. I look like a normal person and am physically attractive even at 64, well-groomed and well-spoken. Upon first glance, no one would suspect that I am a person that doesn't have friends, but I have never been able to make and keep friends who aren't blood relatives. I have tried to make friends, but it goes nowhere even though I'm a kind person, show interest and am loving and caring. These are qualities others have told me I possess. But they prefer to hang out with other people. I have read so many self-help books and been to therapy, but nothing changes. I don't think like 99% of people I've met and feel like I don't belong in humanity. I feel very sad about it. I have resigned myself to being without friends for the rest of my life and just try my best to do things I enjoy (mostly solitary activities) and accept myself as I am. I also do random acts of kindness, and that gives me comfort in knowing I have contributed something positive to this world. I wish that all here who experience loneliness will find comfort, peace and one day soon true friendships if that's what they long for. Much love.

    • @m.shevonmason4232
      @m.shevonmason4232 4 года назад +36

      Bella Bong I though I was by myself. I’ve never had real friends either my entire life. I’m 51, and even my one sister isn’t close, too much jealousy and envy, and she’s married! I love her, but we have no relationship unless she needs something. Most of my life women pretend to be my friends but secretly hate/never liked me, only wanted me around for their benefit. I’m attractive and get attention, but I am ALWAYS kind and considerate to everyone. Had 1 BFF for many years, then she died of BC 8 years ago, so chronic loneliness every since. My kids are grown and I’m single, so I have NO ONE. I just do everything alone and enjoy my life.. I love life even though it seems the world and people don’t accept or want me.. I hope you meet a new REAL friend, and enjoy a true friendship.. Be blessed!

    • @happypoop8613
      @happypoop8613 4 года назад +18

      Both of you sound like an amazing human beings, lovely and caring, it seems like people wanna befriend jerks.

    • @juanitajones6448
      @juanitajones6448 4 года назад +9

      Don't be embarrassed, you are not alone in this statd

    • @user-zm7de9fc9x
      @user-zm7de9fc9x 4 года назад +10

      Happy Poop it’s the obvious man, people with so many friends are usually assholes and fake that’s why they are attracted to each other.

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 4 года назад +11

      Bella Bong sadly... I can relate to this. But, I also don’t fit in with my family either; so that makes it more depressing. I’ve just accepted that I’m alone; and such is life...🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SSJfraz
    @SSJfraz 4 года назад +158

    29, have no friends. Thing that has improved my life greatly is learning how to own it. Instead of telling myself that there is something wrong with me, I simply remind myself that I have no friends because I don't need anybody to lean on. I'm strong and independent enough on my own, which is something to take pride in.

    • @aladinmofo9555
      @aladinmofo9555 4 года назад +1

      Thats delusional, in this world its not about what you know, its whom you know

    • @SSJfraz
      @SSJfraz 4 года назад +4

      @@aladinmofo9555 Well best start with yourself. The most successful people knew themselves better than they knew anybody else.

    • @brefaqp6515
      @brefaqp6515 3 года назад +4

      No man, you need love. Peace♥

    • @manojmaitydm
      @manojmaitydm 2 месяца назад

      How are you now?

  • @indianpride8545
    @indianpride8545 5 лет назад +612

    I am lonely too, I can't make friends, I can't connect with people , have social anxiety and other issues. Mostly spend my time at home on the internet.

  • @samio1749
    @samio1749 4 года назад +451

    I love listening to him cause I can see that I'm not the only one.

    • @mulyani8236
      @mulyani8236 4 года назад +5

      Yes I am not the only one

    • @samio1749
      @samio1749 4 года назад +4

      @p u Thank you very much for your comment!

    • @supritiphani1282
      @supritiphani1282 4 года назад +3

      Hello Samio - I hear you

    • @NzPhenomenon
      @NzPhenomenon 4 года назад +1

      Yeah same here in New Zealand.

    • @nxviyaa
      @nxviyaa 4 года назад +3

      You’re cute, just start simple convos with people. It might be a little awkward but u needa get uncomfortable to grow cuz I think you’d be fine if you put yourself out there

  • @dominickray5103
    @dominickray5103 4 года назад +96

    Phones and technology. I bet if they didn’t exists, a lot more people would seek out real life friends.

    • @poreangela5348
      @poreangela5348 3 года назад +1

      So true

    • @dominickray5103
      @dominickray5103 3 года назад +1

      @David Sharma It’s not about being modern, it’s about the convenience of having access to these tools and technology. But we humans are so stupid and so irresponsible. We come up with reasons to convince ourselves that it’s normal and OK. But some who think a lot would naturally wonder.

    • @leighharwood916
      @leighharwood916 3 года назад +3

      Technology has separated man from nature. People are more connected to technology than humanity. Therein lies the problem.

    • @margalitvanbergen6620
      @margalitvanbergen6620 3 года назад

      So true 🙋

    • @dominickray5103
      @dominickray5103 3 года назад

      @@leighharwood916 hit the nail right on the head

  • @maryvasquez7246
    @maryvasquez7246 4 года назад +115

    I also feel lonely especially going to Starbucks and seeing people that have friends.And I am always drinking coffee by my self.I know how you feel.

    • @katenka_ana3997
      @katenka_ana3997 4 года назад +2

      :'( I know this is generic advice I don't do myself, but have you tried joining any clubs? Most people I know made their best friends there. I am too awkward and lazy to do this though

    • @ajdicarlo8693
      @ajdicarlo8693 4 года назад +5

      oh boy this is me every single night lmaoo haha ur not alone stay strong and always find a reason to leave ur house

    • @larzguy3714
      @larzguy3714 4 года назад +2

      You guys are saying you are so lonely, you know that you can find people with the same interests as you on the Internet. If you are lonely it's just good to discuss with people on the Internet. Maybe people think thats for losers but it feels good for me. Try reddit.

    • @rae9766
      @rae9766 4 года назад +1

      Haha felt that, always see friends walking into Starbucks laughing as they order their drink or these couples while I’m all alone in a corner waiting for my drink and want to leave ASAP

    • @larzguy3714
      @larzguy3714 4 года назад

      @@rae9766 but what do you think of my idea?

  • @LebSista
    @LebSista 8 лет назад +529

    I learnt the biggest lessen in my life in 2014. Never put all your eggs in one basket. My best friend of 16 years had a disagreement and stopped talking to each other. I used to think at the time, It's okay I don't need other friends, I got her and we are eternal. and here I am 2016 looking back and regretting that decision, wondering if I'll ever find that connection again. Social media makes it worse, seeing people with friends, a constant reminder of how easily the world would go on without you. You create a shell to protect you, and make you feel cosy, telling yourself you don't need anyone, only realising later on your clawing to get out. I feel you, and it's damn tough.

    • @Saxyct
      @Saxyct 8 лет назад +12

      That makes it three of us :(

    • @LebSista
      @LebSista 8 лет назад +6

      :-(

    • @InsanityisSanity
      @InsanityisSanity 8 лет назад +9

      I had the same problem too with my best friend. Loneliness is tough, no doubt about it

    • @jaipatel432
      @jaipatel432 8 лет назад +24

      I did the same thing. But with my girlfriend. My two friends didn't trust her and they gave me a choice. Either her or them. I loved her so I chose her. 1 year later she left me for another guy

    • @NoLetfTrigger13
      @NoLetfTrigger13 7 лет назад +2

      true

  • @jhuang230
    @jhuang230 6 лет назад +1438

    I get attention almost only when someone want something from me.

    • @anoyingvoice2638
      @anoyingvoice2638 6 лет назад +37

      Same

    • @weezerfanatic5320
      @weezerfanatic5320 6 лет назад +30

      That’s how it is sometimes my dude, sorry to hear that

    • @MastaSmack
      @MastaSmack 6 лет назад +52

      Yes, when I was in school, I was a class clown and had "friends" but it was make me laugh or don't talk to me...if I ever said anything that was serious, like good information, they always checked with someone else like I was too stupid to actually know anything.

    • @zainmushtaq4347
      @zainmushtaq4347 6 лет назад +32

      That's how humans work, I've recently discovered. Face it, don't you also approach someone else when you want something from them? It doesn't have to be anything materialistic. It can be their looks, personality, humor, etc. When a friend starts becoming less interesting or boring, it's normal to not want to hang out with them as much.

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад +3

      They must have been jealous MastaSmack,

  • @Nikolai9510
    @Nikolai9510 4 года назад +14

    Loneliness can be painful but it makes you appreciate connection on a deeper level than others

  • @charlottec4536
    @charlottec4536 4 года назад +196

    Finally, there is another person in this material world like...me.

  • @waynewaller5082
    @waynewaller5082 5 лет назад +610

    I'm 51 yrs old, my parents were my social network, dad passed in 08, mom 012. So now I talk to my dog.

    • @timesup4454
      @timesup4454 5 лет назад +93

      we love you wayne,you are not alone ,god is with you all the time

    • @Elwen-xs7gr
      @Elwen-xs7gr 5 лет назад +38

      I hope you are happy and have blessed life☺

    • @domibryant2257
      @domibryant2257 5 лет назад +17

      Damn

    • @vatsalshah998
      @vatsalshah998 5 лет назад +32

      hey bro , Have Courage and Strength , just hang in there bro ....

    • @vincebevis2277
      @vincebevis2277 5 лет назад +31

      My thoughts are with you Wayne.I have no one
      in my life that i can call a friend.Always been lonely so just wanted you to know that there are others in this world who are in the same situation.Be strong friend.

  • @Elephant334
    @Elephant334 6 лет назад +242

    I just spend 8 minutes listening to you. You have something to give others, you are a precious human being.

    • @DarknessIsThePath
      @DarknessIsThePath 5 лет назад +10

      You see this is exactly what pisses me off, they ALL say such things to us, you are so amazing, you are so great, you are probably the most loved and respected guy around yet no one or almost no one wants to do much with you unless they are just maybe bored.

    • @janinecunningham2
      @janinecunningham2 5 лет назад

      Atle Skorstad Yes he is lovely

  • @nalissolus9213
    @nalissolus9213 4 года назад +180

    You envy going to parties? Parties are so overrated...
    I miss deep meaningful conversations with people I like and respect. Taking a calm hike in nature, that sort of stuff.

    • @taikajorma7276
      @taikajorma7276 4 года назад +2

      Nalis Solus Maybe you are going to wrong type of parties then xd

    • @commentconnoisseur1001
      @commentconnoisseur1001 4 года назад +1

      @@taikajorma7276 this, parties are wicked for a while

    • @user-zm7de9fc9x
      @user-zm7de9fc9x 4 года назад +9

      Parties nowadays and for the last decade have been all about doing drugs, drinking yourself to waste, and smashing. Nothing special in these STD infested orgys

    • @talpatv512
      @talpatv512 4 года назад +8

      @You don’t give a shit about my name wtf is your problem man :/ ?

    • @charrua59
      @charrua59 4 года назад +1

      With all the changes in the world now feels like former system before corona was fake or not real

  • @father042
    @father042 4 года назад +57

    The most depressing thing about this video is that his life has barely changed in the last 5 years

    • @robertoramoshernandez2355
      @robertoramoshernandez2355 4 года назад +2

      How do you know bro?

    • @suecolden1055
      @suecolden1055 4 года назад +2

      Do you know him?

    • @father042
      @father042 4 года назад +5

      @@robertoramoshernandez2355 Watch his recent videos

    • @TheDjdjyou
      @TheDjdjyou 4 года назад +1

      You are probaly lonely, but watching Kenneth videoes lying to yourself that your are not. That is why you are wathing this, Sam Sneed. To feel better about yourself. Its sad. You waych him for 5 years, then make a comment talking abou him being sad when hes honest? Com on Sam you are the really lonely one here. (people like) you are depressing

    • @father042
      @father042 4 года назад +3

      @@TheDjdjyou Do you think I really feel any better

  • @charleschidester6767
    @charleschidester6767 6 лет назад +164

    I was a loner my entire life. You remind me of my son. He's 30 now and found a wife. Has a daughter. They are very happy together. But his loneliness has bothered me so much. Frankly I have worried about him his whole life. My parents were miserable people. Who never cared that I had this problem. I'm glad you are building a life. I can see how big your heart is. And how sad this has been for you. Please never give up. You are important and loved.

    • @thinkingofaname6233
      @thinkingofaname6233 5 лет назад +1

      Margaret Norvell I’m just suprised they lived to their 30s.

    • @domibryant2257
      @domibryant2257 5 лет назад

      Good input sir

    • @user-rb2fx9sr2b
      @user-rb2fx9sr2b 5 лет назад

      I can't imagine how my parents would feel if they know this kind of state that I am in. I guess they will worry about it like how you feel about your son. Bless you and your family and hopefully we can be happy ever in the rest of our lives

    • @halleykunen1088
      @halleykunen1088 5 лет назад

      I’m that girl. I am such a loser but not only b/c I’m single

  • @otorishingen8600
    @otorishingen8600 6 лет назад +211

    holy cow how did you find the courage to talk to the camera and share with total strangers how you feel - 👏🌞 amazing sir

  • @glennpierce8947
    @glennpierce8947 4 года назад +21

    Your honesty is so beautiful and inspiring.. wish I had the courage to be like you.

  • @rohank9292
    @rohank9292 4 года назад +48

    I am also very lonely:
    1. I keep the lights and fan in the next room switched on to make myself believe that there's someone else too living in my appartment. But loneliness makes me realise quite quickly that its a lie.
    2. I like to listen to the crackling sound of cockroaches chewing away at the cardboard of carton boxes kept in my room at night since it gives me the impression of atleast another living being co-inhabiting my appartment with me.
    3. I yearn for someone to ring my doorbell too when I hear it ring in my neighbour's house.
    4. I usually say "I love you" out aloud in my mind because I have no one to say that to.
    5. I feel terrible being lonely and don't want to to do anything at all.
    6. I sob as I write this feeling pity at my helplessness.
    7. Contrary to other lonely people out there who cannot make any friends, I have many school and college friends but I cannot show up in front of them as I am ashamed of myself.

    • @tonydrabenstott4745
      @tonydrabenstott4745 4 года назад +1

      Hi r you looking for a relationship with a good man 😇💭💌💌💞

    • @V3NDETTA1997
      @V3NDETTA1997 4 года назад

      Wow...that's unbelievable

    • @mousebarry7537
      @mousebarry7537 4 года назад +2

      Let me know if you would like to talk, from Mouse in Ireland ☘️🐭

    • @keturahmalett6632
      @keturahmalett6632 3 года назад +4

      Oh my God, Rohan Bora! Now why would you have me sobbing right along with you? I just can't stop my tears from flowing because I thought I was lonely but now I'm at a loss for words after reading your comment.Rohan please know that someone is always praying for you,and wish you were here near me.my dearest I am lonely too but I feel for you,and hope that ater you read all the comments on this post it will bring you some comfort knowing you're not alone in this, we're too many to be counted.god Bless your sweet heart,and just say a prayer for me as I'll always be saying one for you.much blessings.

    • @LyttonJose
      @LyttonJose 3 года назад +2

      Hang in there buddy

  • @montushah8856
    @montushah8856 5 лет назад +299

    I'd rather have 0 friends than to have even a single fake friend.

    • @batmane7591
      @batmane7591 5 лет назад +5

      Montu shah I’d rather have a single real friend then zero friends

    • @nikanj6
      @nikanj6 4 года назад +2

      Absolutely. The pleasure of your own company is luxury.

    • @mulyani8236
      @mulyani8236 4 года назад

      I have view friends, yes I cant stand fake people

    • @johnnycalvino7490
      @johnnycalvino7490 4 года назад

      @@batmane7591 *than

    • @annamariacantalupo8219
      @annamariacantalupo8219 4 года назад

      So right!!!! 👍

  • @EclipseOfTsuki93
    @EclipseOfTsuki93 5 лет назад +376

    I've read somewhere that intelligent people have fewer friends so I must be a genius cause I haven't got one.

    • @starsstripes2393
      @starsstripes2393 4 года назад +18

      This is true,plus you are mentally a stronger person.

    • @victoriaadeniji2050
      @victoriaadeniji2050 4 года назад +12

      Totally agree with this, and Kenneth seems very intelligent, I would totally hang out with him, I lved hanging out with geeks and nerds in college, and I "may have" fit into this category :)

    • @ingenuity168
      @ingenuity168 4 года назад +3

      Me too.

    • @Thelaunius
      @Thelaunius 4 года назад +4

      Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god.

    • @Sweettooth158
      @Sweettooth158 4 года назад +5

      Blackout043 lol same I've always been told that I'm intelligent and not had friends since I was 10. Makes sense now!😜✨

  • @serenahussain2072
    @serenahussain2072 4 года назад +26

    Me too. I hate when colleagues ask me every Friday ‘so any weekend plans?’ And I have none. Nothing. And then I have to return the question and hear about how they are meeting with various groups of friends and do things together.

  • @coleweston6740
    @coleweston6740 4 года назад +421

    First step to prevent loneliness: quit Facebook

    • @fahadashrafofficial
      @fahadashrafofficial 4 года назад +4

      💯

    • @coleweston6740
      @coleweston6740 4 года назад +3

      @@fahadashrafofficial 🔥🔥😀

    • @fahadashrafofficial
      @fahadashrafofficial 4 года назад +9

      I quit Facebook and even though I still am mobile addict but I think I kind of am improving my social life.
      At least I am making acquittances

    • @coleweston6740
      @coleweston6740 4 года назад +1

      @@fahadashrafofficial nice. Well done bro 🤘

    • @provost5752
      @provost5752 4 года назад +3

      Quit 2 weeks ago and going strong.

  • @ahmadistanbouli6136
    @ahmadistanbouli6136 4 года назад +187

    I feel alone many times. My loneliness comes from giving much love and not getting any back 😔

    • @sajivdoley6949
      @sajivdoley6949 4 года назад +24

      Same with me. Idk what's wrong with me. I open myself, I am nice to them but yet all I get is insults and get ignored. I guess this world is truly ruled by looks.

    • @ahmadistanbouli6136
      @ahmadistanbouli6136 4 года назад +19

      @@sajivdoley6949 true words. "This world is ruled by looks". You get respected most of the times by the way you look and your social status.

    • @sajivdoley6949
      @sajivdoley6949 4 года назад +3

      @@ahmadistanbouli6136 the sad truth

    • @angiem7130
      @angiem7130 4 года назад +2

      Ahmad Istanbouli ...me too friend

    • @ahmadistanbouli6136
      @ahmadistanbouli6136 4 года назад

      @@angiem7130 💔💔

  • @carabidus
    @carabidus 6 лет назад +222

    Brother, take it from an old dog. I'm 49 years old and I've always been a lone wolf. I didn't necessarily plan it that way, it's just the way my life has unfolded. Ironically, I don't WANT to be alone, but somehow, it always turns out that way. I'm recently coming off of a 5-year relationship with someone I intended to marry, but everything went to shit three weeks ago when I discovered her being unfaithful. So here I am again. Alone, but not by choice.

    • @WickedRibbon
      @WickedRibbon 6 лет назад +11

      Keep your chin up 👍

    • @annstillwell730
      @annstillwell730 6 лет назад +3

      Me too. That's life.

    • @welshhibby
      @welshhibby 6 лет назад +3

      Just go MGTOW

    • @tomizje
      @tomizje 6 лет назад

      thats fucked up

    • @maryrodger5130
      @maryrodger5130 6 лет назад +2

      Have you considered that maybe she finally realized that she may not have wanted to be engaged for another 5 years or a roommate with benefits for another 5 years?

  • @arcticridge
    @arcticridge 4 года назад +140

    "well just go out there broooooo put yourself out therrrrrre it's easyyyyyyy" - the internet

    • @loriscolangeli6142
      @loriscolangeli6142 4 года назад +12

      It's actually that simple, if you're alone it's mostly your own decision. How in the world do people expect to get friends when you're alone all day in your room

    • @faolancanidae2936
      @faolancanidae2936 4 года назад +14

      Just a random dude there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. I agree you can choose to be alone, most introverts do it to ‘recharge’ after a social or crazy time/events that has happened. However, loneliness is different, you could be in a room full of people you know or at a party and it’s this voice or thought at the back of your head saying “your not worth the trouble, your lucky your in this position don’t push your luck, you aren’t worth being friends with, etc” you ask a lonely person what it’s like it feels like this. Just my opinion on this whole topic.

  • @ohyesitsyouagain
    @ohyesitsyouagain 4 года назад +8

    I feel you. I’ve never had a real friend in my life, on top of being severely bullied. Loneliness is part of my dna at this point.

  • @makennakeliarose7063
    @makennakeliarose7063 6 лет назад +247

    "be yourself" is overrated. I go out and be myself and I have no friends.. what does that tell you ??

    • @blahblah3726
      @blahblah3726 6 лет назад +22

      Be the best version of yourself*. Visualize the ideal you, what would you look like? Would you be more social? Would you work harder? would you be more fit? Personally, if I were to "be myself" as in do whatever I feel like doing, then I'd just sit at home all day and get nothing done. However, despite not wanting to wake up in the morning and go to the gym, despite not wanting to go outside during the day and meet new people, I still force myself to do these things because I know it will allow me to achieve my ideal self. The strongest version of myself.

    • @ak-wt6ll
      @ak-wt6ll 6 лет назад +8

      I think you need to the opposite quite frankly, don't be yourself

    • @_hector__
      @_hector__ 6 лет назад +2

      Makenna Bobenna It takes time and effort, learn to be patient and be smart, know when to pull out and see that they're your type. Often, if you're quite different from the crowd the niche group of friends will be harder to find obviously.

    • @datgurlky1
      @datgurlky1 6 лет назад +19

      Makenna Bobenna The world is fake AF.

    • @makennakeliarose7063
      @makennakeliarose7063 6 лет назад +8

      True . I feel different and I still have no friends. I socialize with others but only make acquaintances. I do have one good friend but she is busy a lot.

  • @DeepFriedLemonWedges
    @DeepFriedLemonWedges 6 лет назад +152

    I cried. I am the same. I agree with everything you said. I'm basically like you, trying to not feel so bad because every time I think about the fact that I don't have friends, I cry so much.

    • @weekendgetawaywithme
      @weekendgetawaywithme 6 лет назад +4

      Same.

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад +4

      Im truly sorry DeepFriedL, this also sounds like depression, obviously, you are not on your own here, Im sure a lot of us feel for you, see your doctor and get help. I wish I was there for you

    • @anjalidas1439
      @anjalidas1439 6 лет назад +3

      Dear Deep, a lot of people around the world going through same problems.
      I m lonely so I joined yoga, Gym nd like to meet under privileged children nd elderly people too. I like to visit spiritual places nd explore different aspects of life. Love u

    • @7s29
      @7s29 6 лет назад +4

      Friends will make you cry even more, you're not missing out on anything.

    • @Sirdy857
      @Sirdy857 6 лет назад +3

      DeepFriedLemonWedges you are not alone. No need to cry about it just try your best to get out there and meet new people. I'm struggling with depression and anxiety I've withdrawn from my brothers because they think I'm weird I lost my good friends they don't even want to talk to me. I've been struggling for over 5 years now the doctors are horrible they just prescribe you with medication thinking it will work but instead you just get hooked to them and can't come off the medications. I've tried talking to my parents about this but they don't seem to understand fully they just say eat and go to the gym I've tried that but still have these harsh symptoms. But I still try to cope with life and make little goals everyday for myself like go to the swimming pools and go for a walk by myself. People think mental illness is a joke but really it's not a joke millions of people suffer each day from mental illness.

  • @catlady9012
    @catlady9012 4 года назад +113

    I am also very lonely. The last time I had close friends I was in my early teens. Today I'm 41 😢

    • @MrShaiya96
      @MrShaiya96 4 года назад +8

      Lies. Women cant be lonely. Especially if you really look like that profile picture.

    • @Hannah-ki2hi
      @Hannah-ki2hi 4 года назад +23

      MrShaiya96 it doesn’t matter if you’re pretty or ugly. Do you know if you’re pretty more often than not people only care about your looks..not your personality and your quirks, what matters to you and the details of your life. Beauty can be a curse

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 4 года назад +13

      @@MrShaiya96 classic incel response. Because you are the only one who has issues in life right? Boohoo you. Such bs.

    • @MrShaiya96
      @MrShaiya96 4 года назад +4

      @@msgirly6827 I dont know what "issues" have to do with loneliness. Clearly different things. My statement is either correct or it's not. Facts dont care about your feelings, little girl

    • @MrShaiya96
      @MrShaiya96 4 года назад +1

      @@msgirly6827 secondly, why should you care about Cindy's problem any more so? Boohoo her too right?

  • @courtlandbrugger6770
    @courtlandbrugger6770 4 года назад +23

    I'm right there with you, Ken. I'm in my early 40s and man does it suck not having anyone. It's because I'm socially awkward and feel like my self worth is very low. I don't know exactly how or why it happened but that's the one main thing holding me back but it's hard to shake it even after all these years. Man, it sucks.😔
    It's kind of strange though that I'm going through slight depression right now dealing with this very issue and this video popped up and I never did any searches for this type of thing.🤔
    Anyway, I hope you find the friendship your soul is craving. No one should be alone.

  • @MartellThaCool
    @MartellThaCool 6 лет назад +348

    I hate being alone and living alone as I suffering with social anxiety disorder and hard to fit in meet and talk to people

    • @Secret19977
      @Secret19977 6 лет назад +5

      Don’t worry about it, you can fix your social anxiety by testing yourself in situations that make you feel uncomfortable,

    • @lostinlife7226
      @lostinlife7226 6 лет назад +9

      I think it is possible to cure HIV than social anxiety for me

    • @jbro8934
      @jbro8934 6 лет назад +3

      G do you feel like people are judging you because I do. That's why I spend most of my time alone. I feel I'm not good enough for anyone. I googled that feeling to see what it meant and it said it was a symptom of depression. That in reality everyone had doubts about themselves and some people seek out relationships to lose themselves in that other person which on turn is bad for the relationship. So maybe being alone means being strong and sure. I don't know. Who knows anything anymore?

    • @_vavss_
      @_vavss_ 6 лет назад +4

      You should really try nofap. I know it gets a lot of shit, but just search on youtube the benefits of nofap. Just try it for a week and I promise you will feel the difference. You really have nothing to lose
      I recommend this video ruclips.net/video/hbIaP6dZzDA/видео.html

    • @elizabethshaw734
      @elizabethshaw734 6 лет назад

      Would you please go please stop using the word suffer? Everytime you say or write that word you self prophesy it. Every time you call yourself a sufferer you are a sufferer. Social anxiety can be overcome quite easily in fact however suffering can't. You need to see yourself as stronger than that and stronger than whatever your issue is. You need to realize your worth more than that and I have a very hard time with that because my mother never shut up about how good enough I was not even though I excelled at everything I tried. Whatever the problem may be social anxiety stuttering thinking you look ugly they are all just reasons to keep you where you are. You need to break that bubble and breathe some fresh air. It's not easy and it will be damn difficult but once you do you will wonder where life has been all your life! :-)

  • @ingenuity168
    @ingenuity168 6 лет назад +321

    Friendless people are strong people.

  • @lilpoindexter
    @lilpoindexter 4 года назад +23

    ....Remembers sitting at a lunch table alone as a 3rd grader...and realizing I was different than other people...eyes water up.

  • @michaelkoop6731
    @michaelkoop6731 4 года назад +4

    Your not alone, I'm almost 50 yrs old and have lived in the same town all my life and I have not one friend in this town. I completely understand what ur saying.

  • @misshelloareyouthere
    @misshelloareyouthere 8 лет назад +50

    I'm in my mid 40's and your video hits home. I have no friend because I am an introvert. Man, I can relate to your high school story and Facebook story.thanks for the video

  • @sarahsarah-fk7cg
    @sarahsarah-fk7cg 4 года назад +57

    I am lonely too. I wish there was a place that all lonely people could meet each other and they could make friends.

  • @lostmangos
    @lostmangos 4 года назад +9

    Its very difficult making friends when you get older, especially for people like me who suffer with mental health issues and have become socially awkward due to being at the edge of society for so long. Big hug to you.

  • @hidden1982
    @hidden1982 2 года назад +3

    It's better to be alone. The people who are alone, are wise. It means you don't relate to people who are fake..It means you are not apart of this world. You should embrace it because I prefer to be alone.

  • @QUEENHBIC99
    @QUEENHBIC99 6 лет назад +188

    I felt this whole video

  • @Hisunworthyservant
    @Hisunworthyservant 4 года назад +79

    I love you already Kenneth!💘💞💖I'm a loner also, my mom died 2007, since then I'm alone! I hope that you have found someone since you uploaded this video ...GOD bless you Kenneth ...HE loves you with His Divine Heart!💖💞💝

    • @JesusLovesYouSoMuch1
      @JesusLovesYouSoMuch1 4 года назад +15

      AMEN, Jesus is the bestest friend we can ever have!

    • @Monorail-Beyond-the-Veil
      @Monorail-Beyond-the-Veil 4 года назад +3

      @Tine Fanny Ly Mogensen Jesus truly IS the best friend we can have. And did you ever consider the possibility that *not everybody who is lonely is a "weirdo"? Certainly, there are always weirdos out there, but how many of us are simply misunderstood, or smarter than the average person? And shame on you for making fun of anyone who's mother died.

  • @deontebryant4075
    @deontebryant4075 4 года назад +10

    I know how it feels to be lonely. I've had a hard time with making friends as well. Loneliness sucks, but keep your head up, you'll be fine. That goes for anyone else that feel alone and struggle with loneliness.

  • @j0nnyism
    @j0nnyism 4 года назад +4

    Gosh there’s an epidemic of loneliness out there. People are losing that connection with others in their community. Frank discussion on this topic is desperately needed

  • @Ccal488
    @Ccal488 8 лет назад +173

    I can relate to most of your feelings. I am alone in life, too. All of the 'friends' I had got married and now seem to have absolutely no time for friends because every waking moment outside of their employment is spent with their significant others. life is so lonely and boring. It's such a deep pain knowing other people are out living their lives with others and enjoying fun experiences surrounded by people who care about them.. While I sit here alone. Making friends as an adult is difficult. I feel like most people already have their established social circles and, from what I've found, it's damn near impossible to squeeze into those circles.

    • @davedogge2280
      @davedogge2280 8 лет назад +3

      that's true 2/3 couples 40+ I know are now divorced with a whole host of baggage and problems.

    • @Patryyyyck
      @Patryyyyck 8 лет назад +2

      probably once you pass the 25 years old mark its really difficult im 23 and struggling a lot for 3 years trying to establish some kind of friendship. I used all that time to learn useful stuff and get fitt but for what.

    • @suzannebentley4533
      @suzannebentley4533 8 лет назад

      Hi Callie
      I know how you feel!

    • @Patryyyyck
      @Patryyyyck 8 лет назад +2

      ***** feeling it mate, all support

    • @seemeinspring5518
      @seemeinspring5518 8 лет назад +4

      So true, feeling loneliness sucks so much

  • @ramblingrose1540
    @ramblingrose1540 4 года назад +112

    I'm in my 50's and I can so relate to this. I've never been able
    to make and keep friends and while I've reached the stage of
    accepting that I'm just going to grow old, with my books+
    TV for company, I still feel sad that I have no one to talk to
    when I have a worry or just to go with a coffee with and chat
    like everyone around me. 🤔

    • @zeniktorres4320
      @zeniktorres4320 4 года назад +6

      Same bro, similar age.

    • @trippytrellis7033
      @trippytrellis7033 4 года назад +4

      I can relate.

    • @chicagomike
      @chicagomike 4 года назад +6

      Same here. In my early 60s oh well.

    • @ramblingrose1540
      @ramblingrose1540 4 года назад +8

      @@chicagomike How sad it is that so many of us lead such
      lonely lives.. So many of us on the planet yet we find it so
      difficult to bond with others.. 🤔

    • @ConestogaCreek
      @ConestogaCreek 4 года назад +3

      I am very similar

  • @katiewest3326
    @katiewest3326 4 года назад +6

    Loneliness can be so unbearable. I'll be your friend!

  • @jillyoung1282
    @jillyoung1282 3 года назад +4

    Hi Kenneth, you've got my attention! I think that you are a fine young man. I notice this video from you was shot 5 years ago. I hope you are feeling better and happier. I think you're special, not many young men would be able to speak so openly and honestly. Life is not easy. You have taught me a lesson, I shall go into work tomorrow with a much more positive and caring attitude
    Thank you so much.

  • @feebaker9323
    @feebaker9323 4 года назад +124

    I know how you feel Kenneth, I don't have any friends either, you're not alone

    • @sangeetasrivastav4704
      @sangeetasrivastav4704 4 года назад +2

      Me too

    • @brendadrumm9708
      @brendadrumm9708 4 года назад +2

      Fee there is a world out there u have the world at ur feet go for it I am ur friend and I don't even know u God bless x

    • @brendadrumm9708
      @brendadrumm9708 4 года назад

      Fee there is a world out there u have the world at ur feet go for it I am ur friend and I don't even know u God bless x

    • @Dany-nt6dn
      @Dany-nt6dn 4 года назад

      @@sangeetasrivastav4704 find God, learn his word.

  •  8 лет назад +28

    I perfectly feel you. I'm 25 and I have no friends. I've been struggling to have at least one but it isn't that easy.

  • @idkwhatimdoingheree
    @idkwhatimdoingheree 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for this. I get NO attention and it hurts so much. I also get excited when people simply talk to me. I wish we could be friends. I wish all of us could connect. it hurts so much to be so alone for so many years

  • @Iceman-gm1fu
    @Iceman-gm1fu 4 года назад +3

    I also was the person who had no one to sit next to at lunch. i used to walk around the lunchroom with nowhere to go. i then just did lunch at the library because i didn't want to be alone/seen alone.

  • @sunocharity
    @sunocharity 6 лет назад +52

    I understand! I was completely alone on Thanksgiving. It was the saddest day I had experience in a very long time. I had never felt so lonely. I went to volunteer that morning to help serve people… And I came home around 10 or 11 AM. And I to watch the Facebook and everyone with their families and friends and making memories… And my memory was me crying… Literally all day long. Feeling like I was completely alone having just gotten over a break up. Just sitting here with my dog. So I went to the store and bought a box of cards. I came home and hand wrotesomething on every single one of them and put them in each door on the third floor of my apartment building.

    • @DracoReptoidsExposed
      @DracoReptoidsExposed 6 лет назад

      Just don't get pumped and dumped.

    • @tthbbh6011
      @tthbbh6011 6 лет назад +3

      Charity Garcia I know it's hard...i really know. But you are a strong person and i am sure you are also a kind one. I suggest something: go volunterring (i probably wrote that wrong).

    • @emergencyappeal9680
      @emergencyappeal9680 6 лет назад

      Good. Sweet tears of emotional pain and eternal vengeful suffering. Keep it up you NASTY NARCISSIST.

    • @emergencyappeal9680
      @emergencyappeal9680 6 лет назад

      You envious bitch.

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 6 лет назад

      😥😭 I can understand your pain of spending holidays alone

  • @tudorrenegade7052
    @tudorrenegade7052 8 лет назад +170

    I had my lonely wasted years. Loneliness is horrible and it can be dangerous.

    • @Patryyyyck
      @Patryyyyck 8 лет назад +20

      im currently 3 years alone, know the feel and feeling it actually but im not wasting it, learnt german and english and got fit as fuck, but for what? thats the thing.

    • @tudorrenegade7052
      @tudorrenegade7052 8 лет назад +11

      No man, you did good ! You will be better prepared for the future.

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 7 лет назад

      Tudor Renegade me too. feel free if you need to chat

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 7 лет назад +5

      Tudor Renegade in order to not be lonely we have to accept ourselves including our weaknesses and strengths... if people cant accept us then forget them, but at least we tried... also sometimes its less of a case of what they can do for us but what we can do for them, how we can help alleviate their loneliness for them to do the same, i think social skills and pyschology come into this too.

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 7 лет назад +2

      Tudor Renegade perhaps all we need is good social skills and the rest will follow...

  • @alanking2959
    @alanking2959 3 года назад +1

    It's so difficult to find genuine people nowadays.

  • @simonstewart8263
    @simonstewart8263 4 года назад +10

    At school I could literally talk to anyone got on with basically everyone in my year , had like 3/4 people I could trust then since I left school none of them tried to stay in touch ( probably cause I dont drink or smoke ) it was always me reaching out so I'm sick of it honestly always put all the effort in and get nothing in return just pray one day I'll find friends who will reach out to me aswell as me reaching out to them

  • @ostihpem
    @ostihpem 8 лет назад +38

    I see it like that: I rather have REAL friends or I rather be lonely. Since I do not find REAL friends, I rather stay lonely, being able to do at least what I wanna do without gettin restricted by those superficial "friends". Important thing is not to get frustrated or cynical. Stay open for friends, but do your stuff, like a lonely wolf.

  • @michdim3425
    @michdim3425 7 лет назад +39

    my husband told me don't get too attached. im a loyal and a loving person to friends..when my friends got new cooler friends,they isolated me. it sucks coz i was always there for them.i still feel lonely at times. im jst focusing with my family right now

    • @thewheatfields8852
      @thewheatfields8852 6 лет назад

      Sounds like they weren't friends in the 1st place. I think it's best not to be around people like that because they will lower your self-worth which would stop you attracting the good friends that you deserve.

    • @lanis57
      @lanis57 6 лет назад

      Story of my life...

  • @geetabhattarai9644
    @geetabhattarai9644 4 года назад +1

    Oh my lovely Friend thank 😘 you very much for sharing this with us ❤️

  • @lorriechacon2731
    @lorriechacon2731 4 года назад +9

    All has betrayed me, friends, family, in-laws, my own mom, husband ran off with my brother's wife, had a baby, made all think that baby belongs to my brother, my mom baptized that baby and baby grew up had a baby, and my mom baptized that baby that belongs to my nemesis, I am my mom's only daughter and my life is full of betrayal. I think being alone is a lot better than people betraying you all the time.

    • @lisam6688
      @lisam6688 4 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear that...but people suck.

    • @user-og9nl5mt1b
      @user-og9nl5mt1b 3 года назад

      I wish I could know more about your life could be a good ass movie

  • @GOdsBriana
    @GOdsBriana 7 лет назад +16

    I thought I was the only one that has felt this way for so long. I'm lonely because people treat me like I'm in invisible. I try to reach out but rarely is it reciprocated. Thank you for making this video.

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад

      I relate to you Briana, Ive found that in the past I buy somebody a drink in the pub and they don't get you one back, and I thought I bet they didn't come in the pub with any money

    • @queenleisha9162
      @queenleisha9162 4 года назад

      What's your email ?

  • @NikiWonoto26
    @NikiWonoto26 6 лет назад +174

    it's no secret that the smarter the person is, usually the more lonely he/she is, because to be honest, most/majority of people can't understand him/her, and vice versa, people who are smarter usually can't relate & connect to most people, whom are often simple-minded ("Ignorance is bliss", sadly true).

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад +8

      I disagree with your comment here Niki, It sounds as if you have completely isolated yourself from the real world. I used to teach computing to school pupils doing their Duke of Edinburgh Award and made friends with them, so it's also a case of who you know, you see smart people as weakish, people who may not like sport usually excel at learning to play a musical instrument and has therefore been proven to enable you make new friends which I did, so how can you not relate to other people, I take it you don't understand yourself as a human being then. If somebody can't understand me, Im not the weaker one, Im only human, not another person, Ive been called arrogant by a mate of mine and he called himself a thicko, I said you're feeling emotional, but he was drunk at the time, no mate of mine, that's reality.

    • @Jayen4
      @Jayen4 6 лет назад +10

      @Niki ... You are absolutely spot on ! Most people who claim to be your friend , end up using you or betraying you.....Don't need people like that ! I find that the vast majority of people are not remotely on my level (not bragging) and simply can't comprehend me. Soo many dumbed down people out there now....don't want anything to do with any of them ! .....I may be 'alone' but I'm not lonely ! ....... Clearly Wayne doesn't understand either.....he's misread what you said.

    • @amysteriousdisease7168
      @amysteriousdisease7168 5 лет назад +5

      I'm sorry but no. 1. There are different kinds of "smarts" you can be academically smart or emotionally smart or whatever.2. most people that are popular at my school get really good grades and are really smart. I honestly think that's a bit of a myth.

    • @VentraleStar
      @VentraleStar 5 лет назад +5

      Sorry I know you trying to make yourself feel better but this is so inaccurate. Plenty of smart people have great social lives. My friend goes to Harvard and when I visit so many brilliant people are there having fun with other people. It's all about who you involve yourself with, what community you live in, etc.

    • @ujayet
      @ujayet 5 лет назад +4

      There's smart and arrogant..it's the arrogant that repels people.

  • @initeveryday5895
    @initeveryday5895 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. Its hard, i live in nyc w 8 million people here and im always alone everyday. Moved here year and a half ago by myself. It can be very difficult to make friends here cause everybodies on the move including myself. I work, come home and then lonely till i go to bed and thats how my days go. Also have major social anxiety which makes it twice as hard to make any kind of friends. Your not alone my Friend. Many out here w the same stuggles but in different flesh and it gets rough mentally. Keep ur head up and i wish you the very best brotha hope you find your way to happiness.

  • @ingenious4t
    @ingenious4t 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing this, it’s gotten worse for me as I’ve gotten older. It’s harder to date and make friends. I could really relate to the things you were saying and I hope they’ve gotten better for you since you’ve opened up. All praise to you for stepping out of the dark and I hope people like me have subscribed and reached out to you, you’re not alone anymore...

  • @killastake
    @killastake 7 лет назад +41

    I'm alone but I can't feel loneliness. My problem is I'm content in this loneliess. I don't feel excited when I get invited to a party, I feel annoyed... like I have to do this social duty so I don't look like a creep that stays home all the time. The problem is I feel good being home alone. I don't have that depression that would make me excited about other people talking to me. I hate it more when someone disturbs my alone time. At least your depression about being alone push you to open. But I'm happy being alone so I have nothing pushing me to others.

    • @NoLetfTrigger13
      @NoLetfTrigger13 7 лет назад

      sharingan

    • @dweina1735
      @dweina1735 6 лет назад +1

      nic tamere being an anime fan ( and a gamer) u know how great it is to be alone, and how unnecessary being social is. I don't need people to feel happy. I'd rather live alone.

    • @patriciareilly530
      @patriciareilly530 6 лет назад +1

      nic tamere Every day the phone doesn't ring is another day in paradise.

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад +1

      Yes especially, if the phone rings, don't answer, they're not friends, probably scammers.

  • @samjones0528
    @samjones0528 8 лет назад +59

    I totally understand that nobody asks how you are. When people say hi to me at the workplace, i feel kind of speechless at times. i'm really quiet due to shyness that very few people say hello to me. i only really spend time with my mum. I feel so lonely but I try to stay upbeat that I wont always be like this, but your video really relates with me. I hope you are doing ok.

    • @_hector__
      @_hector__ 6 лет назад +1

      Spongey PegasiTM When they do that it's just that they have nothing better else to do. Remember this, what someone does and says only speaks about themselves, not you. In other words they're making themselves look like the real retards. But just for every person gossiping about you there's a dozen more going about their day like nothing happened and will forget the next day.

    • @StarstreakHVM
      @StarstreakHVM 6 лет назад

      That's what hurts me too. I only ever spend time with my parents and it's really sad. I watch all the other kids go and do stuff with their friends but I have nobody.

  • @greciaivonnesaucedosantana7164
    @greciaivonnesaucedosantana7164 4 года назад +10

    I'm lonely too, I have never been able to conect with people, I don't know how to do it, there is always something holding me back and I don't know how to change that, I'm 20 years old but I believe I'll die completely alone.
    I feel I don't have anyone to trust in even in my own family, I don't know how to talk to them anymore.

    • @SK-qu4wo
      @SK-qu4wo 3 года назад

      Don't say that, I'm sure you're a wonderful person, you just haven't found the right person yet. This might sound cliched but you're only 20 and you have lots of time to meet friends. Just learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company when you're alone. This is a daily struggle for me as well.

    • @bigytutoshd5146
      @bigytutoshd5146 3 года назад

      Do what you want others do to you, if you want to receive calls, start you calling to People, take always The iniciative

  • @countrygal4205
    @countrygal4205 3 года назад +1

    You will probably feel better and less lonely when you get older,but loneliness Is part of life.Wishing the best for you.

  • @rayvenshyann5147
    @rayvenshyann5147 7 лет назад +88

    You are not alone. I go through this too.

    • @batmanforemka
      @batmanforemka 6 лет назад +2

      I don't believe it you're too pretty

    • @robbiehernandez8019
      @robbiehernandez8019 6 лет назад

      She is pretty but maybe she's an introvert though?

    • @batmanforemka
      @batmanforemka 6 лет назад

      she can just stand in the club, and wait for guys to hit on her

    • @danieldunn156
      @danieldunn156 6 лет назад +6

      Michał Lewandowski..That doesnt mean anything man...just because guys hit on her, doesnt mean they value her company. Many men use women and visa versa

    • @AVTAVT
      @AVTAVT 6 лет назад +2

      Michał Lewandowski that’s pretty ignorant dude

  • @es-ph6pg
    @es-ph6pg 7 лет назад +364

    everyone is selfish in 2017. I cannot make friends either. I cannot trust anyone these days.

    • @tthbbh6011
      @tthbbh6011 6 лет назад

      Pineapple I hope you will find that friend some day. A real friend makes life better... i hope you will find that friend some day. I was just surfing the internet and find this video and then go in comments and saw a lot of...stuf. True friends do exist, for everybody, don't lose your hope!

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 6 лет назад +3

      And in 2018 as well

    • @faizurrahman6613
      @faizurrahman6613 6 лет назад +1

      For me to also bro

    • @myroom4640
      @myroom4640 6 лет назад +6

      All this negativity, breeds negativity. There’s lots of great people out there. It’s about attitude. There’s plenty of ways to meet good decent people. One doesn’t find them at pubs or clubs etc. join a library, they hold book clubs etc. join a church, there’s many wonderful people in churches. Go help out a homeless person, think outside of yourself and look around for people that are in need. You could also volunteer in you’re spare time.

    • @TheChickenRiceBowl
      @TheChickenRiceBowl 6 лет назад +2

      @@myroom4640 This is a great way to be taken advantage of by a perpetrator.

  • @williamlarochelle6833
    @williamlarochelle6833 3 года назад +2

    I feel for you, Kenneth, I really do. I'm a loner, but I'm not a lonely person. I enjoy solitude, but I'm not anti-social. I'm very personable, in fact. I wish we could meet so that I could help you in some way. I feel for you, Kenneth. I hope you find freedom from your depression & loneliness.

  • @safalgupta6927
    @safalgupta6927 Год назад

    This guy's gold he's literally having every reason behind every suffering 😅

  • @Julie2554
    @Julie2554 8 лет назад +36

    I can so relate with the Facebook thing. It drives me mad that people from my high school are still hanging together and didn't keep in touch with me after we left school.

    • @anjummuneer5081
      @anjummuneer5081 6 лет назад

      Julie Macmillan Lee Same here

    • @stephaniedegange2737
      @stephaniedegange2737 6 лет назад +1

      Julie, Facebook is NOT real. People put their best faces on--beneath this happy face is very frequently a sad soul. Please do NOT pay any attention to the people on Facebook. I have heard of people going to for example, the Grand Canyon in the US. My friend saw someone take a selfie to upload to facebook and said that the guy did not even bother to look at where he really was. He was more concerned with his image than the beautiful sight that lay before him in the present moment. Now Julie, that person is so sad and insecure...can you see that...don't feel mad or sad...these are people who enjoy impressing everyone else, except their true selves. ROFL

  • @nancyrivas7413
    @nancyrivas7413 7 лет назад +60

    Don't worry!! I'm the same way, I'm 24 and ever since I was in high school., I had no friends!!! 0!!!!! No friendsss

    • @tiasw8734
      @tiasw8734 6 лет назад +3

      Nancy Rivas heyy you're not alone

    • @flyaway7162
      @flyaway7162 6 лет назад +1

      same

    • @Carmy0118
      @Carmy0118 6 лет назад

      not in this world aha the best and only true friend i had and have found was a guy we were friend form 18 years old to 21 years odl and he decided to cut ties with me im now 23 years old and i feel disconnected from most people who make friends easily ect i feel so lonely i feel like i will never find someone that will be able or try to understand me and in a most genuine way :((((

    • @nobisukenohara8596
      @nobisukenohara8596 5 лет назад

      @@Carmy0118 I'm also 23 I don't have any friends

  • @monogramadikt5971
    @monogramadikt5971 4 года назад +1

    when i quit drinking and drugs 15 years ago i lost all my fake friends overnight. i tried making new friendships in sobriety but over time i eventually gave up. its way to hard finding decent people who actually want to spend time with you

  • @kiikii3254
    @kiikii3254 4 года назад +59

    All my ‘friends’ are online friends, but even then it’s not the same as someone physically talking to you face to face 😔

    • @tonydrabenstott4745
      @tonydrabenstott4745 4 года назад

      Hi r you looking for a relationship with a good man 🌹🌹🌹💭💌💌

    • @piyushsagar2970
      @piyushsagar2970 4 года назад +1

      Right

    • @kiikii3254
      @kiikii3254 4 года назад

      Tony Drabenstott How dumb do you think I am

    • @nitin87654
      @nitin87654 4 года назад

      Make me to your online friend i am From india

    • @anshitsrivastava4078
      @anshitsrivastava4078 4 года назад

      @@nitin87654 Please stop dude, stop running India's name ffs

  • @joyinthemorning328
    @joyinthemorning328 6 лет назад +371

    You are meant to be a leader.. that's why you don't fit into any groups... think about eagles, they fly alone. You are meant to do great things.. God bless.

    • @nicholas-rochester.77
      @nicholas-rochester.77 6 лет назад +27

      Excellent advice, so true.

    • @joshuam4905
      @joshuam4905 6 лет назад +4

      Joyful For His Glory Is this why I find it hard to work with a team?

    • @andrewortiz9226
      @andrewortiz9226 6 лет назад +4

      How can I become a Christian??

    • @Samuel115s
      @Samuel115s 6 лет назад +20

      leaders have a group of followers. if you have no followers then your not a leader, your a loaner.

    • @carmichaelmoritz8662
      @carmichaelmoritz8662 6 лет назад +11

      andrew ortiz , to become a christian all you have to do is fake most of the things you do in your life and pretend to love god . yes its that simple . learn how to lie with a straight face and brag to people of how much you help others . oh and always try to have a smile that looks real , people love a nice smile :) .

  • @rozstevenson5968
    @rozstevenson5968 7 лет назад +38

    I can completely relate. I constantly think something is wrong w me. People going out and hvng fun and I'm at home alone. I feel like I'm not able to connect w people for some reason but I'm constantly praying for just 1 genuine/platonic friendship. If I ddnt hv a gf, I'm not sure what kind of life I'd have.

  • @fortheloveofivy3820
    @fortheloveofivy3820 4 года назад +2

    You have a beautiful mind Kenneth. I’m so thankful to see this channel as it is so refreshing to see genuine and honest content from a real person who expresses their inner most unique thoughts of loneliness. Thank you Kenneth. Your content has made me feel less unhappy as I feel I’m not so alone. Take care. 🌻

  • @ajdicarlo8693
    @ajdicarlo8693 4 года назад +1

    ur the man dude thanks for this hang in there i live home like an idiot at 26 no privacy .. decent job but .. also have no friends .. by myself in my thoughts for past 6 years been pretty brutal but its reality sometimes

  • @TWalsh-ji7jh
    @TWalsh-ji7jh 4 года назад +34

    Ken, you seem like a great guy that anyone would be proud to hang out with and call a friend.

  • @hassan5847
    @hassan5847 6 лет назад +17

    I am going through a lot at the moment. It was really comforting for me to see that I was not the only one.

    • @tthbbh6011
      @tthbbh6011 6 лет назад +1

      At some point in life we all go trough this

    • @kenno615
      @kenno615 6 лет назад

      No FU, even an animal can feel lonely, as dogs and cats may suffer with separation anxiety, humans can.

  • @Missyprincess719
    @Missyprincess719 4 года назад

    Don’t worry about having no friends. Friends will always come and go, but family stays forever. At least your family love you. That’s most important. So cheer up.

  • @babss2285
    @babss2285 3 года назад +2

    Don't fear having no friends, fear having bad friends

  • @losbeonit8865
    @losbeonit8865 8 лет назад +460

    I CONSTANTLY LOOK AT MY PHONE EVERY 2 SECONDS JUST TO GET A NOTIFICATION FROM SOMEONE....i AM LONELY TOO

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 7 лет назад +9

      LosBeOnIt hey im lonely too. wanna be friends? also i have aspergers.. i have poor social skills but that shouldnt detair anyone.

    • @soniczforever5470
      @soniczforever5470 7 лет назад

      I have as in Ireland. How are things for you

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 7 лет назад +1

      Claire Coffey good :-)

    • @sivashashank
      @sivashashank 7 лет назад +2

      LosBeOnIt let's be friends

    • @HBxJustme
      @HBxJustme 7 лет назад +3

      hi , im lonely too, lets be friends please

  • @sabrinaj.3398
    @sabrinaj.3398 7 лет назад +71

    I feel u, bruh. That loneliness that comes from that...sometimes unbearable. I really wish I could just not give a f**k, but I just can't let go and let the demons out. People say to me, "let go", "say what's on your mind", "stop caring what others think". I pray to God to break this yoke, this stronghold on my life, and to give me purpose. A reason to hold on just a little bit longer...and then, just a little bit longer, and then a little but longer. I've made it to 32 years, still lonely, still self conscious, still looking strong on the outside, yet emotionally needy on the inside. But I'm still here.

    • @lowproshak1681
      @lowproshak1681 7 лет назад

      Bri J. I

    • @grezzer1427
      @grezzer1427 7 лет назад

      Be who you are and continue to do good. The right people will come to you and stay. Never give up on your self

    • @rubenlesuma5700
      @rubenlesuma5700 6 лет назад +2

      Even if it seems you have nothing and no one to comfort you. If all you have is Jesus. Than you literally have everything you need. He is the essence of the word love and will fill you up with fresh new joy each morning. Every great person in the bible was alone with God at one stage in their journey, but that's when He put his Super into their natural and did anointed things with their life. Stay strong 💪 your time is coming

    • @alvint4485
      @alvint4485 6 лет назад

      We love you and God does too. Listen to Dan Mohler, he helps me.

    • @gabrieltrevino1673
      @gabrieltrevino1673 6 лет назад

      Bri J. that was too real. i felt every word u said. but i dont always look strong.

  • @xiozhanbunny5982
    @xiozhanbunny5982 4 года назад +3

    This got in recommendation and I am so glad.I am extreme introvert person...have a social anxiety and like to stay inside home.But I think sometimes loneliness teaches you to know yourself better,to live the life in different light.

  • @sarahss2483
    @sarahss2483 4 года назад +1

    Every now and then I go back to this videos, it comforts me to know that someone shares my experience

  • @queenstar5347
    @queenstar5347 6 лет назад +21

    I have literally never heard anyone else speak about this issue which I have also had for so many years. I feel exactly the same as you and if I ever do get slightly close with anyone it never lasts...i'm so lost, I feel how you feel, Thanks for sharing!!! I feel the tiniest bit less alone.

    • @elizabethshaw734
      @elizabethshaw734 6 лет назад

      We are all out here and we are real people. You know that you're a real person behind your keyboard and the rest of us are as well. These aren't just words on the screen that we say to somebody. The people who are not friendship or they have shown themselves in one post! What part of the country do you live in? I would certainly like to be your friend and I don't see any reason why we couldn't chat online and then talk on the phone. Every now and then I want to pick up the phone and tell somebody something that happened or a weird fact I learned or anything just to pick up the phone and say hey how you doing? My real name is Elizabeth I use the wheelchair outside the house because they don't have any feeling in my feet and I fall. But I love to do fun things I can make you laugh just by the way I talk I don't tell jokes but everybody laughs when we talk which is right now just my mother who hates me. Yep she finally told me the other day well I don't love you! I don't care I've let her run my life and it's time for me to have my own life! My email address for anyone who wants it that's not a bully and for you is tuniee88 at yahoo.com. I hope to hear from you!

  • @kaihollingsworth7357
    @kaihollingsworth7357 8 лет назад +33

    I can relate to you so much :( I wish you all the best of luck!

  • @sandhyameghoe9310
    @sandhyameghoe9310 4 года назад

    We also feel so lonely when we spiritually awaken... a disconnected innerstate causes loneliness...no one understands .. Innerchild connection n healing .I am with you,i think you n me and lots others have lotsss in common.Love n hug yourself in times of depression,accept this loneliness you feel deep inside.Be always there for yourself,you need you the most first. God bless you,I love youu.Things will get better, all will be alright.Angels will guide you further on your life journey.

  • @ttp436
    @ttp436 4 года назад +6

    The best relationship you can have Is the one you have With yourself. Some People that have so many People around And Yet they still feel lonely. We are all individuals be you, be proud of you. Step outside your comfort zone Dont be afraid To try Something or someone new. I've had periods of having loads of friends And having none or Very few. Thankfully i have a Good family And one real best friends even tho We are in Two different countries. I am At the mimen feeling Like i am living in an area Where i am
    Not Really clucking With anyone or anyone Is getting my vibe. I just keep busy, do my thing get out And see people in everyday life a few minutes exchange Is better than nothing. I know Its just a period amd learning experience so i just go With It And embrace. Dont get to in your head. Try And go for a walk everyday or doi something using your hands, energy, your mind. Keep occupide but take time to relax in yourself by yourself. I Wish u well. Dont stress even by you making this vid you've made a shift Good things And People Will come hang on in there. X