I can so much relate to this as I was born and raised in an Adventist home, but at certain age I decided to go out and live my sexuality freely, which ended up causing me and other people a whole lot of pain. I am so happy to have been able to return and experience a happy marriage within God’s boundaries.
Thanks for all your time and effort in putting together the Authentic series Pastor Boonstra. We look forward to them and also learn a lot about history and the Bible.😊
The emotional construct of the individual and Society explained. 1. Self deception/ or being deceived 2. Common Behaviors of a person that's been dehumanized. 3. Self- centered or altruism 1. Is the answer to all of these things as simple as our 10 basic needs of all human and the environment and society that we are brought up in. With only a slight variance and complexity. Or is it more complex. 2. As we talked about yesterday how a people pleaser and a malignant narcissist have the same psychological shortcomings of low self-esteem which creates fear and how both of them deal with it in a extreme opposite manner. As a survival strategy and A coping mechanism for their believed inadequacies. We carry the malignant narcissistic traits and the people pleaser traits inside of us. it's part of our emotional makeup. In some form of variance of degree or even extreme. Which comes out and is used as a survival and coping mechanism to our environment and Society as a whole and individual. Which I've just come to the conclusion. It comes down to what I originally wrote. Adding on a emphasis too our survival Instinct. The 10 basic needs of all mankind whether you are a boy or girl. Our environment and our society. That influences us and becomes a learned behavioral response. Which again society and our environment teaches us how to act and behave. So environment willing if society says we should all run around naked tomorrow 80% of us would. And the scientific proof. Is in the extreme behavior and customs that we see in different societies. And even social groups. This is the reason why man can never be perfect. we can only try to be better. And without the Lord God we become more and more immoral. We all basically have an intuition of right and wrong. But add in all those other factors without a strong leader we can easily be misled and corrupted. As evident of what we see in society today happening quickly and extremely. And we know it's not right. But due to fear and anxiety we go along to get along to survive. Which in many ways is a normal survival Instinct. So when we see extreme behaviors in other people, and wonder why it's because it's allowed and accepted. And becomes the norm just like different societies do things that we think are extremely weird strange or wrong. So people's behaviors are built off what society and individuals, anxieties and fears of the known and unknown. Which then Fosters our strong beliefs Of what's right and wrong .Which in turn become allowed and acceptable behavior in our Society. 10 basic needs of all human explained ___________________________________________________ It's not really that complex. Think about what A babies Basic needs are . It's no different for a boy or girl. Take away sexuality. For boys and girls, as they're growing up. We're talking about emotionally. And physical needs. Physical needs. 1. eat & drink 2. Breathe 3.sleep, 4. wear clothing 5. housing To protect us from the environment we're in. That is whether you're a boy or a girl. It doesn't matter. What are our emotional needs. For both boys and girls. It's absolutely identical. 1. Affection 2. Intimacy 3. Acceptance 4. Feeling safe 5. Emotional bonding with the opposite sex Boys and girls are two halves of the whole. That is where sex and sexuality join as one. Each one has a strong part to play. Both are equally important to build a strong union, Sex and sexuality is the cherry on top. Through that we bond with each other. And the better it is the stronger the bond. So are 10 basic needs of all humans. Fulfilled give us comfort and peace. If we start having a lack of any of them just one of them or an extreme absent of even one of them. Where we then start looking into answers of the known and unknown to bring balance back in to our lives. Which immediately triggers anxiety self-doubt and fear. Which can only be fixed by bringing our 10 basic needs back into some form of balance. Which we find acceptable to us and or the society as a whole around us. Which is seen in ritualistic forms through all individuals and all other societies. Without exception. Wear a Doctrine will develop for the individual and the society as a whole of right and wrong Behavior. The 10 basic needs we all have. that is the foundation of the individual and Society. The outside influence is always going to be. Environment which encompasses everything that goes on around us. And our Society's beliefs and behaves. Which if threatened will cause. Anxiety and fear of the known and unknown. Which means the more stable the society is. The safer we feel and the happier we are. But regardless of everything . If anxiety and fear start to control us as a individuals feelings of inadequacies or the appearance of true inadequacies, mainly due to self perception and the outside influences of the environment and Society they see around them. It will corrupt the individual and can and will corrupt the society as whole given enough time. Part. 2 It also explains the reason why using it as a extreme example. Of the malignant narcissist and the people pleaser. Both have the same shortcoming. Of low self-esteem and self worth which triggers anxiety and fear. And why and how they cope with it. And the best way of understanding things is to always understand the extreme to understand everything else. But you have to understand the foundation first. Which is always going to be with all humans the 10 basic needs. Example: You can't take care of a baby unless you know what the babies needs are. Or any other living thing.
Galatians 9:17 KJV For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.
On behalf of all counsellors out there, I sincerely apologize for the horrible advice given to many seeking real God inspired help. It saddens me to hear about what the field of psychology has become: riddled with spiritualism, affirming people in their delusions and "if it feels good do it" self focused counsel. God is the one true counselor and healer!
It's a tough ask to watch a 28min video, if it takes 9 minutes to get to the point. And even then what comes next is a break and a detour to Reich... I mean, how much context does one need to understand your argumentation?
I can so much relate to this as I was born and raised in an Adventist home, but at certain age I decided to go out and live my sexuality freely, which ended up causing me and other people a whole lot of pain. I am so happy to have been able to return and experience a happy marriage within God’s boundaries.
Happy Sabbath! Thank God for His perfect institution of one man and one woman.
morality can not be legislated.Thank you for Authentic programs
Happy Sabbath 🌹May we all continue to grow in Christ and follow the Lamb of God where ever he leads. ❤️
Thanks Pastor Boonstra. I look forward to every edition of Authentic.
Thanks for all your time and effort in putting together the Authentic series Pastor Boonstra. We look forward to them and also learn a lot about history and the Bible.😊
Happy Sabbath
Pastor, you are so well read. Thank you so much for educating us mentally and spiritually. God bless you and your family. ❤
Another Awesome presentation Pastor. Thanks so much for your ministry.
We are really experiencing the results of the hippies’ generation. So many young people are taught to follow their hearts.
Perfect presentation... Blessing to You all
Thank you. Enjoyed this episode.
Thanks!
Thank you!
This show is so good!
Excellent!
Many Blessings;
Much love !
Thank you Pastor Shawn!
Thank you again Pastor. Love your shows
Thank you brother 🙏🏽
Very good discussion on a sensitive topic.
Good episode and something to think about
I love watching this show
I've always wondered how your memories could be similar to my own when you're 15 years younger than me. LOL
Wow thanks for the vid!
Amen!
Nicely presented
This was eye opening, thank you!
another insightful and thought provoking episode
Happy Sabbath!
Thanks pastor
Happy Sabbath ❤
Love your presentation
God bless
Very good--!!
The emotional construct of the individual and Society explained.
1. Self deception/ or being deceived
2. Common Behaviors of a person that's been dehumanized.
3. Self- centered or altruism
1. Is the answer to all of these things as simple as our 10 basic needs of all human and the environment and society that we are brought up in. With only a slight variance and complexity.
Or is it more complex.
2. As we talked about yesterday how a people pleaser and a malignant narcissist have the same psychological shortcomings of low self-esteem which creates fear and how both of them deal with it in a extreme opposite manner.
As a survival strategy and A coping mechanism for their believed inadequacies.
We carry the malignant narcissistic traits and the people pleaser traits inside of us. it's part of our emotional makeup. In some form of variance of degree or even extreme.
Which comes out and is used as a survival and coping mechanism to our environment and Society as a whole and individual.
Which I've just come to the conclusion. It comes down to what I originally wrote.
Adding on a emphasis too our survival Instinct. The 10 basic needs of all mankind whether you are a boy or girl.
Our environment and our society. That influences us and becomes a learned behavioral response. Which again society and our environment teaches us how to act and behave. So environment willing if society says we should all run around naked tomorrow 80% of us would.
And the scientific proof. Is in the extreme behavior and customs that we see in different societies. And even social groups.
This is the reason why man can never be perfect. we can only try to be better.
And without the Lord God we become more and more immoral. We all basically have an intuition of right and wrong. But add in all those other factors without a strong leader we can easily be misled and corrupted.
As evident of what we see in society today happening quickly and extremely. And we know it's not right.
But due to fear and anxiety we go along to get along to survive.
Which in many ways is a normal survival Instinct.
So when we see extreme behaviors in other people, and wonder why it's because it's allowed and accepted. And becomes the norm just like different societies do things that we think are extremely weird strange or wrong.
So people's behaviors are built off what society and individuals, anxieties and fears of the known and unknown. Which then Fosters our strong beliefs Of what's right and wrong .Which in turn become allowed and acceptable behavior in our Society.
10 basic needs of all human explained
___________________________________________________
It's not really that complex. Think about what A babies Basic needs are . It's no different for a boy or girl. Take away sexuality. For boys and girls, as they're growing up.
We're talking about emotionally. And physical needs.
Physical needs.
1. eat & drink
2. Breathe
3.sleep,
4. wear clothing
5. housing To protect us from the environment we're in. That is whether you're a boy or a girl. It doesn't matter.
What are our emotional needs. For both boys and girls. It's absolutely identical.
1. Affection
2. Intimacy
3. Acceptance
4. Feeling safe
5. Emotional bonding with the opposite sex
Boys and girls are two halves of the whole. That is where sex and sexuality join as one. Each one has a strong part to play. Both are equally important to build a strong union,
Sex and sexuality is the cherry on top. Through that we bond with each other. And the better it is the stronger the bond.
So are 10 basic needs of all humans. Fulfilled give us comfort and peace.
If we start having a lack of any of them just one of them or an extreme absent of even one of them. Where we then start looking into answers of the known and unknown to bring balance back in to our lives. Which immediately triggers anxiety self-doubt and fear.
Which can only be fixed by bringing our 10 basic needs back into some form of balance. Which we find acceptable to us and or the society as a whole around us.
Which is seen in ritualistic forms through all individuals and all other societies. Without exception. Wear a Doctrine will develop for the individual and the society as a whole of right and wrong Behavior.
The 10 basic needs we all have. that is the foundation of the individual and Society.
The outside influence is always going to be. Environment which encompasses everything that goes on around us. And our Society's beliefs and behaves. Which if threatened will cause. Anxiety and fear of the known and unknown.
Which means the more stable the society is. The safer we feel and the happier we are.
But regardless of everything . If anxiety and fear start to control us as a individuals feelings of inadequacies or the appearance of true inadequacies, mainly due to self perception and the outside influences of the environment and Society they see around them. It will corrupt the individual and can and will corrupt the society as whole given enough time.
Part. 2
It also explains the reason why using it as a extreme example. Of the malignant narcissist and the people pleaser.
Both have the same shortcoming. Of low self-esteem and self worth which triggers anxiety and fear. And why and how they cope with it.
And the best way of understanding things is to always understand the extreme to understand everything else.
But you have to understand the foundation first.
Which is always going to be with all humans the 10 basic needs.
Example:
You can't take care of a baby unless you know what the babies needs are.
Or any other living thing.
very informative
Very interesting talk!
Happy Sabbath
Thank you once again, Paster, for encouraging us to see God's plan.
Uuhm TL was on another level. The pill eish started just in the 1960s i thot it was there from way back.
Galatians 9:17 KJV
For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.
On behalf of all counsellors out there, I sincerely apologize for the horrible advice given to many seeking real God inspired help. It saddens me to hear about what the field of psychology has become: riddled with spiritualism, affirming people in their delusions and "if it feels good do it" self focused counsel. God is the one true counselor and healer!
That's a great idea being born makes complete sense
Most of us didn't do hippies
Mote than collateral damage!
The only why humans sin is because of temptation and free will
God’s original design is proven to be the best.
It's a tough ask to watch a 28min video, if it takes 9 minutes to get to the point. And even then what comes next is a break and a detour to Reich... I mean, how much context does one need to understand your argumentation?
Some people are weird. They do need a lot of context. I did experience this in my job as a public speaker
@fobusas
Not everyone is as smart as you and are happy with the length of this presentation.
Sorry to hear that you are disappointed.😢