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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @LAHWF
    @LAHWF  Год назад +27

    Thanks again to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video use my link here for 10% off your first month: www.betterhelp.com/LAHWF

    • @justinseibert
      @justinseibert Год назад

      yo andrew! What kind of mic are you using in these videos? Do you like it?

    • @rbanerjee605
      @rbanerjee605 Год назад

      hey man, i hope you are doing good

    • @american236
      @american236 Год назад

      Did you and Carly break up?

  • @ScareTheater
    @ScareTheater Год назад +172

    A lot of the people in the video said it best. Time heals all wounds! For most break ups I think it's just a matter of distracting yourself until the pain passes.

    • @essayedgar
      @essayedgar Год назад +13

      I agree, but that should come after having confronted your feelings. You should take some time to grieve the relationship before you should start distracting yourself

    • @abrielrobertsson4160
      @abrielrobertsson4160 Год назад +5

      Time may heal wounds, but it can never heal scars.

    • @danpineda4447
      @danpineda4447 Год назад

      ​@@abrielrobertsson4160Timon:Hey, what's going on here? Who's the monkey?
      Nala:Simba's gone back to challenge Scar.
      Timon:Who?
      Nala:Scar.
      Pumbaa:Who's got a scar?
      Nala:No no no. It's his uncle.

    • @Dismal626
      @Dismal626 Год назад +5

      time itself won't heal anything unless you're actively looking forward and trying to better yourself. if you're constantly thinking about your ex and reminiscing and hoping they come back, time isn't going to do anything.

    • @xNathan2439x
      @xNathan2439x 11 месяцев назад

      @@abrielrobertsson4160 "time heals all wounds, but time can leave the nastiest scars"

  • @caydenallen1537
    @caydenallen1537 Год назад +120

    Honestly I just miss having someone to cuddle every night. I miss having someone who’s name is always on my phone screen every time I pull it out of my pocket. Just having someone to put my love and trust into. It’s hard being single especially when literally everyone around you in your life are in long lasting committed relationships and I can never seem to find that. Time heals and the time will come though. Just gotta be patient and be true to myself.

    • @thomzyy
      @thomzyy Год назад +22

      We are all with you brother.

    • @adrienbancroft7895
      @adrienbancroft7895 Год назад +9

      wow took the words out of my mouth

    • @essayedgar
      @essayedgar Год назад +9

      It sounds more like you miss being in a relationship and not a specific person, so I guess that’s a good thing

    • @CJ-lr4uq
      @CJ-lr4uq Год назад +1

      Gay

    • @AdvancedSoul
      @AdvancedSoul 11 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. I share your vision, buddy

  • @Andyyyk47
    @Andyyyk47 Год назад +98

    Andrew, the world needs you now more than ever. Make more videos to get our minds off of everything else that's falling apart.

  • @Brownsharts
    @Brownsharts Год назад +32

    “Time heals what reason cannot.” - Seneca

    • @wolam
      @wolam 4 месяца назад

      Time doesn't heal, its what you do with that time.

  • @10yassine
    @10yassine Год назад +32

    Like many of us here, I went through a terrible breakup not so long ago. Most people in this video said it best. Keep yourself busy and focus on things that are meaningful to you and that bring you joy. There were days when I thought the pain would never stop and that I'd never get over it, but it's not true. It gets easier with time. Just don't hide from the pain and your feelings. If you have to cry, do it, it's ok and it's healthy. Just try not to spend most of your time dwelling on the past and on what could have been. It wasn't meant to be and it's alright. Thanks for the video Andrew! Have a good day everyone!

  • @omgurheadsgone
    @omgurheadsgone Год назад +45

    Break ups always hit me particularly hard. I usually go off the rails the first week after the break up lmao… totally lose my sh*t. Then just apathy for a few months. Time definitely heals all though. And hitting the gym, hanging out with good friends and concentrating on doing hobbies you love. OT4Y OT4Y!

    • @photomorti
      @photomorti Год назад +3

      Same man. I literally felt numb for months after my long relationship of 8 years ended. I did start working out a lot and that helped and just kept keeping myself busy but boy was i fucking numb. But time eventually healed me again.

    • @dyplex9
      @dyplex9 Год назад

      ​@@photomorti8 years? Im sorry for you

    • @photomorti
      @photomorti Год назад

      @@dyplex9 Im still on that workout grind luckely , so the breakup can also give you a lot of motivation if you use that sadness for something good.
      Cant say dating has been that great so far , been with a few girls for a few weeks but its so hard to find a real connection these days i feel like. Also dating apps in general suck for men lets be real haha but we keep trying ;)

  • @adrienbancroft7895
    @adrienbancroft7895 Год назад +31

    Like how genuine this is. Real people speaking their truth authentic contact seems rare great job Andrew

  • @Box_pop
    @Box_pop Год назад +32

    This is so real Andrew. You are a great inspiration, thank you, keep it up

  • @KevinTempelx
    @KevinTempelx Год назад +16

    Andrews ethos has a way of bringing out the authenticity and vulnerability of the people he speaks with.

  • @CorndogChampion
    @CorndogChampion Год назад +6

    Andrew. You can be funny on RUclips without a prank. RUclips needs your humor more than ever. Glad I was able to catch you live today. You're hilarious man - please bring back the funny.

  • @ezequiellopez8518
    @ezequiellopez8518 Год назад +15

    11:12 me trying to relate to people in this video as a 22 year old virgin/person whos never dated anyone at all

  • @azdarksonal
    @azdarksonal Год назад +7

    Andrew of all the channels and videos on youtube i've seen, yours are the ones i look forward to the most. Please upload more often. Thanks!

  • @turntablez504
    @turntablez504 Год назад +5

    Love the "draw me like one of your french girls" pose for you. Really compliments your vibe. 💯

  • @omgurheadsgone
    @omgurheadsgone Год назад +17

    Are you and Karly still together brother LAHWF?

    • @AyeSayGang
      @AyeSayGang Год назад +3

      That’s what I was wondering, usually his video topics are about current events 😬 Andrew you’re the goat

  • @scarlettb.5090
    @scarlettb.5090 Год назад +5

    I found this channel through my ex. He ghosted me after 3 years. I’ve literally just been working out for 2-3 hours everyday and making new friends. I spent so much time on him that when he left it opened up a lot of time I didn’t realize I had.

  • @griffaye
    @griffaye Год назад +5

    Time is the move for sure. Focusing on personal hobbies, making plans with close friends, talking it out with someone else, journaling, and hitting the gym are all definitely the right answer. Staying friends after a breakup is fine, but only if both parties are mature about it/the breakup was mature and both don't try to overstep the new boundary. If the breakup was unhealthy, traumatic, or cheating was involved then heck no. Give it a month or two after the seperation to heal and I think a good friendship can form for sure. You already both know and care so much about each other so why not 🤷🏼‍♂

  • @substun3sinfinit3list3n
    @substun3sinfinit3list3n Год назад +12

    So true 4:32 becoming friends with your ex right after is unhealthy. You def need time before you can. I just learn that recently for myself.

  • @iambored5
    @iambored5 Год назад +7

    my boy Andrew these videos are a fucking JAM
    its like chatting with but applied to the masses
    and it gives that old nostalgia of you when you used to be a dirty dog on the campuses with the pranks
    I think you got some fire here keep adding kindle boi

    • @iambored5
      @iambored5 Год назад

      Next topic ideas : are you addicted to tiktok? asked to gen Z types

    • @iambored5
      @iambored5 Год назад

      we millennials want to know how our youths are doing

    • @iambored5
      @iambored5 Год назад

      "checking in with Gen Z"

  • @volcano83
    @volcano83 Год назад +2

    My last ex was toxic and abusive and has taken me years to get over. It is harder to heal when they are uncooperative and dismissive.

  • @Arlotheis
    @Arlotheis Год назад +3

    The timing of this video is incredible as I’m just going through a situation myself that seems to be headed for a breakup. It was helpful to hear from people who feel like they got through it alright and are in a better place now. Reminded me I’m not alone.
    Andrew I don’t know if you’re going through a breakup right now or have recently, but always remember we love you and got your back. I’ve followed your content for many years, and even though we’ve never met, you feel like a close friend. Wishing you peace and all the best for the future.

    • @Arlotheis
      @Arlotheis Год назад

      @@Ourcompetelevelthanks man, much love

  • @Lehsto
    @Lehsto Год назад +4

    Please make them more frequent! This is the perfect content to watch while chilling on the couch!😁

  • @UnstableYT-u7k
    @UnstableYT-u7k Год назад +9

    There really is no easy way to get over someone who you thought was going to be with you forever. I feel like every advice I hear is all cliche and for the most part only time will tell.

  • @Wild-Siberia
    @Wild-Siberia Год назад

    Couldn't have found a better sponsor I hope they paid in therapy not money. We all need it

  • @ethan-sq6zv
    @ethan-sq6zv Год назад +1

    Broke up a good 5-1/2 months ago. Every time I start feeling good, it goes back to thinking and wishing. 😢 Good thing I keep reminding myself one day I probably will not even care about her much anymore and have different problems

  • @the_Effect
    @the_Effect 10 месяцев назад +1

    good work! I love your videos. I'm a long time fan of your videos.

  • @kunoichirecords
    @kunoichirecords Год назад +7

    This couldn't have dropped on a better time for me.

  • @Sportsman134
    @Sportsman134 Год назад +4

    each person smiles when first asked, and then gets serious as they reflect

    • @bsnf-5
      @bsnf-5 9 месяцев назад

      Afterthought. Powerful tool

  • @MQZ17
    @MQZ17 Год назад +1

    Breakups sometimes feel like it's the end of the world, but like most said, focus on you, distract yourself, hang out with friends, take a hobby, sometimes it will take days to heal, sometimes more, but you will heal eventually, dont let the sadness consume you

  • @NATOnova
    @NATOnova Год назад +4

    Nice to see you back! heard in a recent Sam Harris podcast that essentially sleep takes away the bad associations with certain memories

  • @VerySpecialMuffins
    @VerySpecialMuffins Год назад +13

    I love how genuine all of these people are, hope you keep doing these types of videos. Think I probably started watching your prank videos 10 years ago and I think it''s awesome how you've evolved (your content) over the years.

  • @Justin11897
    @Justin11897 Год назад +10

    i feel u bro. Its not like u NEED a girl but it can just feel like somethin is missing in your life sometimes 😅💯❤💯

  • @matterfact87
    @matterfact87 Год назад +187

    People on aliens/UFOs would be good 👽 🛸

    • @misterbobby8913
      @misterbobby8913 Год назад +1

      No such thing as aliens, they're actually Demonic Entities. Look up "Lam" the demonic entity Crowley summoned through a satanic ritual, he drew it and it eerily looks exactly like what we know as a "grey".

    • @moluscom4
      @moluscom4 Год назад +8

      Yes do it

    • @itsthemovement6450
      @itsthemovement6450 Год назад +3

      No

    • @Hawkfeet
      @Hawkfeet Год назад +1

      They don't steal your heart they steal your whole body

    • @LumaPuma-b2v
      @LumaPuma-b2v Год назад +1

      yess lmao 😂

  • @big0561
    @big0561 Год назад +13

    *Appreciate Andrew's all time lathergic attitude* 😊😊

  • @MojoRisingTV
    @MojoRisingTV Год назад +1

    i am in extreme pain, makes me want to literally conclude everything and everything that could be.

    • @crackbaby4444
      @crackbaby4444 Год назад +2

      When I was in that much pain I just went into it as much as I could. When it hurt, I didn't look away and I cried a lot if I needed to, I let the pain speak. If you do that consistently, if you don't run away from the pain, it will pass, and sooner than you thought possible.
      All the love to you, friend

  • @howareyou857
    @howareyou857 Год назад

    These are really mature young people. Great tips

  • @nicoleorr8843
    @nicoleorr8843 Год назад

    literally broke up w my girl two days before u posted this bro this helped so much fr thank u sir, been watching u since like fucking 2013 and i’m glad to see ur still funny af

  • @RantTherapist
    @RantTherapist Год назад +2

    I'm trying to break up with my hand but it's taking forever

  • @bsnf-5
    @bsnf-5 Год назад +2

    Little baby steps is the only way. Start working out, going to gym or meeting friends is good too. But only time will allow your heart to heal, so basically no matter what you do, you will get there. Just keep yourself busy.

  • @michaelsofine
    @michaelsofine Год назад +1

    I don’t even think you have to keep busy. Slowing down, enjoying things again. Take yourself out on a date.

  • @mattsitsback
    @mattsitsback Год назад

    The whole focusing on yourself is a cop out answer

  • @chris3665
    @chris3665 Год назад +14

    Andrew, let us know if you are still alcohol-free next time. Wishing you peace and healing.

  • @ethankillion786
    @ethankillion786 Год назад +1

    "If someone can walk away from you, let them walk."

  • @LeoRegum
    @LeoRegum Год назад +1

    6:51 Careful, Andrew!

  • @ewanduey
    @ewanduey Год назад +3

    I think in the future hearing your thoughts on the subject before and after the interviews would be interesting. just to see if the interviews offer any new perspective

  • @kelcsgo
    @kelcsgo Год назад +2

    Love this type of content Andrew, please keep it up!

  • @3Horus
    @3Horus 8 дней назад

    Currently in pain. This video made me smile though

  • @Pastorwalrus
    @Pastorwalrus Год назад +5

    Needed this Andrew. Love you brother. 0T4Y 0T4Y!!

  • @elliothill5721
    @elliothill5721 Год назад

    I can feel the vibe is back Andrew. Lezgo.

  • @PrinceTae
    @PrinceTae Год назад +5

    Common W from Andrew 🔥 love ya bro

  • @Itsfilthyy
    @Itsfilthyy Год назад

    Bro bring back chatting withs PLEASE , it doesnt even have to be alot. Ive seen alot of comments with a good amount of likes saying the same thing. Listen to your fans bro, we want to see you winning

  • @euanharrison7125
    @euanharrison7125 Год назад +2

    Dude at 5 to 6 minutes in is an absolute legend

  • @titusvodnik36
    @titusvodnik36 Год назад +4

    LAWHF IS BACK

  • @TheCoreyHodges
    @TheCoreyHodges Год назад +1

    2:37
    I thought Andrew was going to stop the lawnmower guy and ask him if he had ever been dumped before, too

  • @romanus8788
    @romanus8788 Год назад

    Hey Andrew, believe it or not, I've been following along with your videos ever since you were on prank series. cuz, I couple times canceled subscribing to RUclips channels or what.
    The thing is, I'd love to place a recommendation for you. now that you're buying some helps from therapy and that's great to give me a relief.
    Swimming, When I was paralyzing and extremely self deprived after struggles with job shopping and or challenges through the entire year with no success, helped refueling my qualities and now it's one major element to keep me alive.
    The more intensive training and drills you go through, the more you'd experience drowning and which eventually comes back to your mind what it feels like to be alive. (Psychopathic..?)
    Anyway, plz give it a whirl and want you to know you aint lost your edges at all.
    Hope to see you fetch your smile once again tho.

  • @firstlast476
    @firstlast476 11 месяцев назад

    Time heals. distraction helps.
    get rid of those photos... the small trinkets you aquired. those thing's are hard to get rid of . but it helps a great deal .

  • @BananaMuffins992
    @BananaMuffins992 Год назад +1

    Do you think you’d bring back the chatting withs now that the pandemic has settled down?

  • @TheAhmedbenali
    @TheAhmedbenali Год назад +3

    Love you Andrew

  • @dominicnapoli8568
    @dominicnapoli8568 Год назад +1

    Birchass Goat god bless ya man you’re a good fella also research Padre Pio signore

  • @idrissawane2059
    @idrissawane2059 Год назад +1

    Yea I think I might be skipping crucial stages. Just broke up 3 months ago and I still love her.
    I am kinda starting a new relationship but something is not right.
    I basically feel like am forcing myself to say sweet words to her, kinda like a replacement.
    Never would I thought feelings would last so long.

    • @bsnf-5
      @bsnf-5 9 месяцев назад +1

      just tell her you haven't got over an ex yet. Communication and clarity man, be honest with you new gal. She will understand and will comfort you, until you can make a beautiful couple, but take one step at the time.

  • @FranklynMalenia8670
    @FranklynMalenia8670 Год назад

    Nice one Andrew, thanks!

  • @phillylegion
    @phillylegion Год назад

    3:59 2 years of being single ain’t “a minute” I’ve been single for 19 years bruv you got it easy

  • @uniqueusername22337
    @uniqueusername22337 3 месяца назад

    The only way to get over an ex is to get rid of the delusions. They weren’t special and you can be just as happy with someone else. Easier said than done but don’t blame yourself, spend time with friends, acknowledge your feeling of powerlessness

  • @MicahPotts
    @MicahPotts Год назад +1

    I hope you didn't just have a breakup Andrew!

  • @masked8745
    @masked8745 Год назад

    Everything is so authentic i love it :)

  • @landridaltwood2698
    @landridaltwood2698 Год назад

    That guy cutting grass was the best part

  • @aLovelyDay4Love
    @aLovelyDay4Love Год назад

    I just sae you on Arako Tv youtube channel and had to go here 😃 So happy to see you Andrew ❤❤❤

  • @lexibright6911
    @lexibright6911 Год назад

    Great choice of topic!!

  • @XSANSERR
    @XSANSERR Год назад

    Andrew. You’re my RUclipsr. I got into your channel when you interviews that “FABSTRONAUT” those 1 on 1 interviews and RUclips videos in gereral WERE PEAK. You did it first.

  • @pjay21
    @pjay21 Год назад +1

    Under what circumstances is it okay for ex’s to be friends and not be friends?

  • @snoowbrigade
    @snoowbrigade Год назад +1

    i have no clue why i am watching this ive never been in a relationship

    • @bsnf-5
      @bsnf-5 9 месяцев назад +2

      I waited 25 years for my first girlfriend, you will find one when you are ready.

  • @drluffy43
    @drluffy43 Год назад +3

    where is the awkwardness

  • @CoolWhipp-hy1qu
    @CoolWhipp-hy1qu Год назад

    The boys will always be there

  • @dhawal7476
    @dhawal7476 Год назад

    Hey Andrew I would highly suggest you to collab with Brad from Discover Connection. I think you guys will relate and get along well. Much love and best luck ❤

  • @JustOneGuyProductions
    @JustOneGuyProductions Год назад

    Hella appreciate the first girl being so blunt with friends to lovers and not lovers to friends. I feel like that gets shit on a lot if you think that way these days.

  • @blissorordeal
    @blissorordeal Год назад +1

    Good stuff!

  • @accountantabed-il8ou
    @accountantabed-il8ou Год назад

    i been a loyal viewer for 10 years !

  • @777Revolutionary
    @777Revolutionary Год назад +1

    Man said arms chest and legs. NO BACK 😂

  • @JefeDeUsted
    @JefeDeUsted Год назад

    Andrew was really trying to get that quote dialed😭

  • @dylandutcher2820
    @dylandutcher2820 Год назад

    We need more TALKING WITHS. The Conspiracy Theorist lives rent free in my cerebellum.

  • @Deliciasdelahumanity
    @Deliciasdelahumanity Год назад +3

    ask people what they think of people that dont have social media , i am curious

  • @Th3Unf0rg1v3n95
    @Th3Unf0rg1v3n95 Год назад

    I'd have loved to check out Benton's music, he's got a cool speaking voice

  • @SICRoosterKido
    @SICRoosterKido Год назад

    That hair - full lahwf

  • @alphamale3643
    @alphamale3643 Год назад +1

    You should do a gym series. Get ripped, show body progress. I think it will be good for your mental.

  • @kKoga-qk2oi
    @kKoga-qk2oi Год назад

    love the random Nof4p conversations😂

    • @bsnf-5
      @bsnf-5 9 месяцев назад

      yup

  • @bak1snus
    @bak1snus Год назад

    Seriously this is something I mean: if you get a buzz cut and then a large oversize black shirt, you would look fire asf. Like a skateboarding brand for example, or button down shirt

  • @justinc.3385
    @justinc.3385 Год назад +1

    I’m friends with my ex, it didn’t work at first cause we both had feelings still (me more so) and i’d get jealous and catch feels but we lived separately and had that space and time so now we are good as friends. I wouldn’t date her again bc i’ve gotten to the point to know that we aren’t a match and she craves toxic in a relationship lmao.

  • @beautepley8352
    @beautepley8352 Год назад

    I feel like remaining friends is like being demoted from CEO of a campany to manager or something ya know what I'm sayin. I'd rather take my severance package and find a different company to work for or start my own my own business with the experience I gained from that CEO job.

  • @simeongalda5988
    @simeongalda5988 Год назад

    Pretty chill one

  • @KnightHawkMetal
    @KnightHawkMetal 9 месяцев назад

    Nathan is a King

  • @timxiix3864
    @timxiix3864 Год назад +1

    I feel like if you know in the future you are prbly gonna move to another country/city and u know it, then you should communicate that early in the relationship how the partner feels about that. For me it is a pointless relationship if im together with her and i know she will leave and i can’t go with her. You should clear that early and ask partner how he she feels about it.

  • @raphaelhudson428
    @raphaelhudson428 Год назад +1

    You can be friends with your ex when both aren't wondering what's the best way to get over your ex.

  • @ExpatJoel
    @ExpatJoel Год назад +1

    Andrew, can you repeat this video but with older people? Say in there mid twenties or 30s? I appreciate the insight from the ppl in this video, but id love to hear some thoughts from people a bit more mature. tysm

  • @TechnyGeek
    @TechnyGeek Год назад

    Nice Andrew

  • @drearmouse9510
    @drearmouse9510 Год назад

    Bah.. givin me flashbacks to stalking my ex's social media & coping w hydrocodone back in '08. Never again. Shit's bleak. Still have dreams abt it to this day. >_>

  • @fluffcom
    @fluffcom Год назад

    if someone choose someone else or bs you, you should never accept them ever! even if they come back and want you back.
    how to get over someone? do not use someone else to get over your own pain its wrong and unfair.
    probably best way to get over from someone else is that you go to the gym and work out as much as you can, kill your body feel pain in your muscles and never stop working out, its very important to use that negative energy that way, if you are some kind of person who like to be alone and you cant be around another ppl you dont have to go to gym you got your body weight and do 100-500-1000 pushups every day months and months and once you see results you get stronger you feel better and better.
    just focus on yourself do something what scared you before some kind of activity.
    stay away from drinking or drugs well too be fair you can go ham first 2 weeks then come out XD

  • @siddharthrao5185
    @siddharthrao5185 Год назад

    You look good man

  • @Duppydrubmusic
    @Duppydrubmusic Год назад +4

    You still w Carly?

  • @TylerCheeseman
    @TylerCheeseman Год назад +1

    i am in pain

  • @HAMZADENGA
    @HAMZADENGA Год назад +1

    Will we get a "People on tattoos" one day?