“We took a walk, took it really slowly because he knew when we got back to the car it was over. And it was.” Fuuuuuuuck dude the feels are real on this one.
i remember the day that i knew my ex was going to break up with me, it was valentine’s day and he was staying the night, which would be the last night i was with him. but we had talked about if he still wanted to be with me and it was super confusing so i suggested we just go to bed. but i remember laying there for hours just holding onto him, because i knew that this was the last time that i was going to be able to hold him like that. it was such an awful feeling and that pain is with me everyday still. you feel like your heart is being pulled out of your chest and there is nothing you can do about it.
f ri it was the pain of loving them so much but knowing that there is nothing you can do to get them to love you back again i felt that i had given up on him even tho he was the one gave up on me. it hurts like hell to love someone like that and talk to them everyday to go to feeling like they don’t care about you at all and never speaking again. It hurts to lose your person.
I'm sorry but something is off here. I know I'll get hate for saying that but if the other person has caused you nothing wrong then how can you "not see yourself with him for much longer"?? Something doesn't sound right.
@@meganod279 There are lots of reasons people break up without any wrongdoing. In my situation, my ex wasn't in a good mental state for a relationship and had commitment issues. I also know people who break up when things get serious and they realize there are sacrifices for their families that they are not willing to make, or that they have different values, even though they still love each other very much. My breakup was amicable and for that reason, it hurt a lot.
@@meganod279 sometimes you fall out of love, and you feel like you are living a lie/leading them on even though you still deeply care for them. Sometimes love is all you have in common, and yall are incompatible for reasons outside of your control (e.g. principles/future plans don't align, maturity levels, etc.). No hate here, but there are many possibilities to consider.
I prayed over that in Jesus Christ name n my life came back instantly after I said Amen. He left me 2weeks ago n I'm all good n I feel good and at peace. I really really Loved him but Jesus restored me. Jesus can not leave or forsake us
@@fran791 there's a difference between codependency and attachment...the lines can be blurred for some people but codependency is "i can't live without you" attachment is "i can live without i just dont want to"
5:26 I feel her pain. I just recently ended a 7 year relationship with a guy I trusted and potentially thought he would be husband material. After he cheated on me I tried to work through it but that trust was gone and I didn’t see him the same anymore. It was so hard to get over it and yes it’s still hard. But now all I can do is pray and try moving forward.
@@roseb.5645 3 months have passed, I feel like I've embraced the numbness. I've lost a piece of myself cuz I can't feel a single emotion even if I want to. You know you're broken when your tears won't fall. The only positive side is that I feel less depressed because I'm trying to focus on myself since the breakup : I got my driving license at first try one week ago, I'm about to do my first tattoo, I'm getting back on track very slowly about bodybuilding and finally at the beginning of September I will try to get back to university. Time is slowly doing the things but those who say that time heals aren't right. The pain and the betrayal will never fade away no matter how many years go by. You just learned to accept it and unfortunately during the process you realize that you've changed in a bad way.
@@formulajuan644 I'm so happy to hear that you could create a time only for yourself. I think the best way to getting over it is self-care and boosting your self-esteem. I am hurt too but I found my peace in my religion. So maybe you found it too. But don't be so close about time-healing process. Maybe the best way to heal is that and you're young, you have many years to more joy in life so don't lose hope about it. I wish the best of you and sending you my prayers! Hope you feel incredible in the upcoming months🙏🏻
@@roseb.5645 I'm 23 actually, and I'm glad to hear that you found your own way to deal with it. To be honest, I've never been a religious person but recently I tried to pray without even believing that there are some gods somewhere, surprisingly I felt some kind of relief. Ironically I started to pray without any valid reason and just 2 days after, I found out by myself that she cheated. Looks like something or someone opened my eyes. Idk if it's some kind of magic of gods if there's any or it was only a coincidence. But whatever reason behind it I just want to be happy again, which I can't really be since I'm not able to feel anything. But I'm truly thankful that there are people like you that are willing to help others with kind words even if we might not be living on the same continents.
My first real relationship ended a few months ago, after being 7 years together. I honestly thought we were going to grow old together, and it felt like someone died when he left me. He was the only person who really got me, and who I could be comfortable with. And then he suddenly says he doesn’t love me anymore, and hasn’t for some time. I dropped out of my education simply because I hardly got out of bed for a month, and maybe ate every 2 or 3 days, because I couldn’t be bothered to eat. I once went over a week without eating anything at all. People started to get worried and started to come by and knock on the door. I never answered. I didn’t read emails or answer texts or phone calls. Eventually I had to get out of bed, because I had to take on debt to pay my bills. It helped going to work again, but it still feels like I lost a part of myself.
im so sorry. that's a horrible thing to go through, but I'm very glad you're hanging in there. someday you will fully heal and feel whole again, don't give up
its not brave to realise youre wrong. if it takes that much for u to do so, reconsider a lot of your behavior. not to attack you, this is genuine advice, ive been admitting defeat and apologising much more these past few months, and nothing feels better than loosing a toxic trait.
Yeah , I had to leave him I broke it off even though he meant everything to me . He was making me sad because of someone else . I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks , we would talk everyday. He got me through a lot but I think my mindset is better now . Yes I will always miss him , and I'm glad I was able to put myself over him. I still cry about it a lot but it took a lot of courage to do and I'm proud of myself .
A note to whoever is going through this right now: you are NOT alone. This happens to almost everyone and its a natural part of life. As painful as it is, you WILL get through it! You're strong, I believe in you :) ❤❤❤
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back
Thanks it was much needed... Whenever I feel extremely low, I just start thinking that I'm not alone in this, i think so many people in this world are going through this thing daily..so these thoughts make it less painful for me🙂
The worst breakup is when you both know that you're perfect for each other but the situation and condition are forcing you to walk in a different way. not even get a chance to start anything. edit: so many souls who share the same pain. Do believe that what meant for us would forever be ours no matter what.
Going through that now 😕. We had to break up because is in the military and he is about to be deployed. He won’t be able to see or talk to me for 6 months and he doesn’t think I should have to wait 🙁. I would’ve waited...
shout out to the people who were honest about their feelings and their own toxic behaviors that led to the breakup. too often i see that people are quick to blame the other person. it takes guts to admit you're the wrong one
Elowen Rasmusovs impact on the lives of those shes helped through breakups is a testament to her skill as a psychotherapist. She has truly made a positive difference.
5:40 "We went real slow... cause he knew that when we got back to the car, i'd just drive him home and that would be it." My heart broke when she said that.
I'm so scared for my relationship to end, it's my first one, we've been together 2 years, we are still just teenagers, there are times I just get so sad & exhausted of him and his shit, but I'm so afraid of being alone, losing him and losing that part of me too but I don't know what I'm more scared about, I just wish one day I'll be brave enough to know what I'm actually wanting/waiting/expecting of my relationship and do something about it
Constanza Rojas it’s not a relationship ship unless you go through the toughest of times and if it’s real that love can only grow, but don’t wear it out take it slow, and you should know if your right for eachother or not, don’t be stupid and be humble and know when your in the wrong and don’t text everyday all day you’ll hate eachother, like imagine doing that with your sibling you would hate them
I’m going through my third break up, it was my most serious relationship to date- details aside, it’s been hell on my mental health but seeing this video, knowing that we aren’t alone in this pain, that others have been through worse and are still standing gives me hope! We will be okay! ❤
@Skii Baby omg thats so unfortunate.. But you'll get through this.. U re amazing to be able to go such thing.. U re okay before him and u ll be okay after him //hugs
Thats me right now. I didnt want my relationship to end but how long can you stay with a liar and cheater? I had to end it because its killing me. Its making me depressed and drink too much. I couldnt do it anymore. I want to live and be healthy. I had to get him out of my life but i still love him. I just cant ever go back. Im afraid if i got back with him and he does it again ill end up hurting myself.
@@toddstevens3049 That doesn't mean she isnt in pain... I got out of a year long relationship recently and I cried even though I broke up with him. I loved him even though he was abusive towards me and I did not want to leave but I just knew i had to. I'm doing better now but i still get sad when i think of him.
Rea Jay but it’s different when the guys not abusive or doing anything wrong, but you’re right it’s hard on both ends. But sorry to hear about that, i hope you keep doing better!
@@salenzo8065 my stepdad does! I live with him after he and my mum broke up (my mum and dad already ran lol) and he loves me like his own. I could call him in the middle of the night if I needed help and he would come, no matter the distance. He saves up to pay for college so I do not have to get a loan and he is so open-minded about everything: from transgenders to sexuality or whatever you want. He would run the world for me and he gave me the home nobody else gave or could give me, without asking anything back for it.
😦😞Please help! This bully won't leave me alone on my channel😭😭 He told me if I don't get 5 views on each video by midnight he's going to post the nudes I thought I was sending to my ex-girlfriend!! Somebody save me please!!!😟
I'm here a year after a breakup and it hurts like it was yesterday. I know life goes on but it hurts like hell knowing he left without warning. I've moved forward, have had moments of happiness, good connections, and am healing. But that disregard, and just knowing he's moved on so completely and fully like an emotional hit and run... the pain feels like a small piece of glass in my heart.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I feel bad about the girl that said he didn’t wanna claim her because she was mixed with black. People still really be on about race. Love is love why it matter at this point
I was like wtf how can people be this ignorant and the worst thing is that once something like this happens to you, you start thinking that you are the problem
What gets to me is that I saw that lady on another cut video (guess my sexuality) and she kept asking people if they found her sexy, now I feel for her because I’m starting to realize it’s an insecurity that person or other people probably caused
Niccolò Machiavelli The Prince It basically means that they both still loved each other but they knew that things weren’t working for them. I think they just wanted their last walk together to last.
just got dumped with the words "I dont think i want to spend the rest of my life with you, but you're a amazing Person" when i asked for a reason she just repeated what she had already said ... thank you for not giving me a chance for closure. Little note to everyone out there, if you're about to break someones heart, at least let them know why, cause it hurts like frickin' hell to dont know why.
yk what i agree completely. this really helps society in many ways. i feel very touched by this message of pure inspiration and that really brings joy to my soul. everything, down to the smallest detail, moves me so much in how much happiness this really brings to me. i cannot believe that you, yes you, have written such an eventful masterpiece. i am honestly so taken aback by this, i could go on and on.
I just broke up with someone I’d had a crush on for years. Dating him was like a dream come true, and I honestly feel gutted. This is the first breakup I’ve ever had, and compared to these, it was really seamless. We were both kind to each other, and we still talk. I still love him though so it’s hard
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Like how the F is that even a question??? No women should have to choose between a men and their kids, if a men can’t accept her kids from the beginning then BYE
my mom actually has the same name as my grandfather‘s first girlfriend haha… he always refused to answer whether he named her after her (and why my grandmother was okay with that..)
Ann Honey Very true. I don't think getting your heart broken ever gets easier, I think you can just go through the motions better after you've gained experience with it.
i have always been the one that ends up the relationships, so I actually have never been that directly heartbroken (for saying it in a certain way) and well my worst relationship was my last one (the 3rd) because it was VERY toxic I just suffered the whole time but I was the one to break up with him so yeah. I can’t imagine being the one in that position or how could I feel... maybe i would feel kinda betrayed
I just got broken up with, for the first time, after almost 4 years of a relationship that I really really valued. I have to admit that I blame a lot of my emotional issues on the breakup, and I can't help wondering if things could have been different. It sucks, really. I also didn't get into this relationship until I was in my late 20s, so I feel so lost. I still really love him, but I recognize that his mind is made up. I feel like I'm losing my best friend and the person who I felt closest to in the world. I know people say it gets better and I can only hope it does because this is the worst feeling.
Same!!! I got broken up with my first ever relationship of almost 2 year, which I was in mid twenties. I was planning to move countries to live with her but she ended all our plans like it was nothing. I lost my best friend, no to share memes with, no one to share mundane daily things. I fear that I won't be able to find someone who cares as much about as she once did. We talked about getting married and having kids but towards the end, she wanted nothing of it.....
@ellie Lindsey I literally just got broken up with and have no friends and our stories sounds the same , he couldn’t handle me anymore so me broke up with me wanna become friends?? (Ik this sounds creepy)
I really feel this right now. I got into my first relationship ever at the age of 25 and it went on for 5 years. We broke up this April. I saw a long term future with him. I feel this emptiness in my heart that I haven't felt ever and it's like a a chunk of myself has been taken when he broke up, because he has. When a person was with you for that long and now they're not in your life like that anymore, it really feels like half your life just disappeared. Every little trivial thing reminds me of him now and I break down crying. I really hope that what people say is true and that time does heal eventually, because right now, it's so rough.
Elowen Rasmusovs ability to create a safe space for healing is remarkable. She has a gift for helping people rediscover their strength after a breakup.
Hello, Do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you truly love? There is a love doctor I I'd like you to contact, the love doctor helped me restore my ex husband back to me few weeks ago after 3 years of break up. The love Doctor can also help you get your ex
gp'art same. Omg, it was so painful, I thought I would never recover. I have so been there and my situation very much parellels hers. No contact since we broke up at all. It has been 3 years.
My worst breakup was when my first love and I were having to do a temporary long distance thing because of some financial and work issues. I was sending money back to him while setting up our new home in another state and getting things in order. It turned out he was using the money I was sending to help him to finance a relationship with someone else. He waited until I travelled 1000 miles back to pack him up and move him to tell me he wasn't going to be moving and that he had fallen in love with someone else. He tried to claim he waited to tell me because he thought I deserved to hear it in person but I know the real reason was that he wanted to keep our dog and he knew I'd be bringing him with me for the trip. He was truly a narcissist of the highest order. I was so mad at myself for a long time after because I didn't understand how I could have missed/ignored all the warning signs that were so obvious looking back. Even within the first couple months of our relationship, there were red flags. Moral of the story is to trust your gut and protect your heart because nobody else can!
“Turns out she was seeing someone else the whole time. I was a place-holder. And, she was perfect for me.” .....I feel that with every ember of my dead, worthless heart
dont feel that way, it do gets more bearable with time and since all you can do is cry and wait it out, know that it was never your fault :D stay strong
Its not the perfect / right person for u if you dont have the same feelings for each other. I guess to realize that, it takes until u find the "right" one:D
On instagram whenever something is in a different language there's a little button that shows up at the bottom that says "see translation" so I was making a joke on how when you said "smoke some weed" the font looked the same as the button.
Excellent video; I'm still struggling to let go of my seven-year relationship. My former significant other, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can't seem to move on. I'm feeling irritated and powerless since nothing has worked to bring him back into my existence. I've tried to move on, but my heart still hurts for him, and I can't see myself with anyone else. I apologise for posting this here, but I just can't seem to move on from missing him.
It's difficult to say goodbye to someone you love; I know this from my 12-year relationship. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually had to seek help from a spiritual counsellor.
Thank you for sharing this crucial information; I've just done some research about him online. Startlingly, I looked up Father Obah Eze online and, whoa, he seems like a real guy. Once again, thank you so much ❤
You're lucky. Do yourself a favor and stay single. Relationships are great but they always end, and when it happens it's like hell on earth: painful, traumatic, devastating.
@@ryvr. so fucking true man its your best friend and your worst Enemy H is kinda Like Love when you try it and you are Not addicted IT gives you the best Felling in The World but than with the Time it becomes normal and The Felling starts to get away but than when its realy gone and you are on Turkey IT becomes you worst fucking Nightmare and all you want is that great Felling comes Back again and all you feel is Pain you freezin and sweating like Hell and your skin feels Like IS going to rip you are over sensitive and i couldent even smell of a Ciggarette because you puke when you smeel IT you have Diarea that it Rips your Asshole in Half you cant sleep for Days and when you lay in Bed every Position feels uncomfortable and legs are Restless you have Depression and you feel Like you 90 years old Im pretty Sure you know all that Shit but i Just want to explain it to keeps a Person away from it when He or she reads my Comment and wants to start using THE GREAT FEELING ITS NOT WORTH IT BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TRU HELL WHEN YOU ARE A JUNKIE AND AT THE END YOU LOOSE EVERYTHING AND IN WORST CASE YOU ARE LOOSING YOUR LIFE i Hope you understand me man because my english sucks
My ex broke up with me the day after my Nephew was shot 9 times sitting in his car. He died on scene, and she avoided all my calls cause she was partying. When I broke down crying at her decision when she finally heard me out, she cancelled me on Twitter warning ladies to watch out for crazy emotional men. This was the next relationship I had right after my girlfriend of 4 years came out as gay. People complain about always being single, but don’t realize the luxury of it until they experience what relationships all about.
My worst breakup was with a guy who had 2 kids. I loved those kids like they were my own, helped raise them for years. We'd discussed what would happen if we ever broke up, and there was a mutual understanding and agreement that I could still be a part of their lives. When we did break up, he changed his mind. Refused to let me speak to them, but would tell me how much they talked about me and that they were asking where I was and he really manipulated me emotionally. It was devastating and heartbreaking and required a LOT of therapy. I haven't been in a relationship since, and this was in 2019. I've dated, but I'm just so guarded and hesitant. I don't think I could date somebody with kids ever again.
Elowen Rasmusovs therapeutic approach is both nurturing and insightful, making her an ideal choice for anyone seeking guidance during a difficult breakup.
I actually told my ex that I would do that when I broke up with him. It was because I will always have love for him and I wanted to still be friends but I knew I was never going to be in love with him. He’s married now🤣
first breakups are the worst. it's like someone who told you they'd never leave you, they make you trust them, we give every single inch of our attention, love, priority to them. it literally changes the way you look relationships & love. but you have to keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.
Omg yess I was my exes first girlfriend I wanted to be with him forever but he said he wants his old life back and can’t be committed to me at all he brokeup with me atleast every time but i begged him to stay with me but at last he brokeup again and said I just wanted a reason to breakup because he can’t make efforts to be with me even though he wasn’t my first bf i was his so i never wanted to make him feel like relationship are shitty still he left me i still love him so much he blocked me everywhere but i wish him the best if he dates another girl i hope he gets happy
yes especially when he wants to marry for years, you finally give in and 7 months later (2 months after the honeymoon) he starts kissing another girl again and again and again, though you cry and beg not to do, he ignores your feelings, and 2 weeks after your first anniversary he breaks up, tells everyone that you both grew apart (I see that differently) and you're not allowed to tell anybody about what happend, but he runs through his town with the other girl just the week after the breakup. I'll never trust any guy again (and women either, that b*tch didn't care as well that he was married).
yeah. sadly i was the one to initiate the breakup because i lost feelings. we were long distance and i couldn’t handle it anymore. we haven’t talked in almost a year. i wonder how he’s doing.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
I got out of a 5 year relationship & its been a year of broken up & its been 6 months of him cutting me off. I've been trying to find songs, a movie, something to relate to, that makes me feel normal for grieving. This video was that comfort.
Hey man super sorry to hear about your situation. I just got out of a 3 year relationship. It sucks but I've been motivated on my goal in life which I had been during the relationship and its been 2 weeks since the break up. Haven't spoken to her since then. Just keep doing your best man.
Going through a break up after 8 years. My first relationship that I got into when I was 19. This has been the hardest shut of my life, but I’m lucky that my ex is very respectful and really didn’t want to make it any harder on me than necessary. I feel like I lost my entire identity. I’m two months in and things are only just starting to feel a little better but everyday random things still destroy me. Sucks that my ex seems to okay as well after so many years. 😢
@@gaoxiaomid4272 my first love dumped me almost 6 months ago and blocked me on everything after a 4 year relationship. DIdnt eat for 2 weeks and I stayed up till 4am crying every night for the first 4 months. even called the suicide hotline a couple of times. I would curl up in a ball at work in the bathroom floor and would cry for hourrrsss. These past 2 months I started working on myself and its gotten better. Dont get me wrong I still my best friend and I still have breakdowns here and there but its not as bad as it used to be. It does get better. Just takes time
"he left in the middle of the night"
"i just left in the middle of the night"
Plot twist😂
When they say that?, i didn't hear it omg
@@sofia3097 00:31-00:46
I thought they really had been in a relaltionship LMAO
HAHHAHHAHA thats the tea
''her dog chased me''
''did u get bit?"
"no, he wanted to go with ME"
LMAOOO
Merielys Chu lmaooooo
Merielys Chu not funny
wait bro....waaaaaaiiiit!
MERIELYS
ERES PRIMERA AJJAJA
"I mean I still miss her but-
*M Y D O G . "*
Where
@@yuwen7335 2:33-2:38
I’m screaming💀
😂 that guy is a mood tho
mood
For the man who threw the burrito, I hope he is doing so much better now, that was a very heartbreaking story 💔
His food bro 💔💔
may his burrito rest in peace
fr you know we all came for that guy
@@cadegibson5189 True, look this video up just for that moment in 5:03
@Yui Li
His foooooood 😭😭😭
“We took a walk, took it really slowly because he knew when we got back to the car it was over. And it was.”
Fuuuuuuuck dude the feels are real on this one.
Midwest Monstaz this hit me in the chest hard asf
My heart fuck
i remember the day that i knew my ex was going to break up with me, it was valentine’s day and he was staying the night, which would be the last night i was with him. but we had talked about if he still wanted to be with me and it was super confusing so i suggested we just go to bed. but i remember laying there for hours just holding onto him, because i knew that this was the last time that i was going to be able to hold him like that. it was such an awful feeling and that pain is with me everyday still. you feel like your heart is being pulled out of your chest and there is nothing you can do about it.
f ri it was the pain of loving them so much but knowing that there is nothing you can do to get them to love you back again i felt that i had given up on him even tho he was the one gave up on me. it hurts like hell to love someone like that and talk to them everyday to go to feeling like they don’t care about you at all and never speaking again. It hurts to lose your person.
I just broke up with someone after 3 years and I can feel u girl... keep going👊🏻
the girl who started crying as soon as she heard the question :(
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@@AdanyKai 5:25
And the the guy that's not over her right after 😩
@Autistic Dolphin54 LMFAOOOO
@@amandarodriguez1752 kinda hit home since im bout to be in their situation just half the time
“She took my dog, I miss her but my *dog* “
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A Lewin I felt that
ava Mendiras 2:34
The way he said it, I had to laugh. It's not a laughable case, but the way he said it man
Getting ghosted suddenly, without explanation, is the worst.
The absolute worst. How much of a coward can one be
Fvck yes, I experienced it. And she contacted me after a few months and took a look at her photo, saw her pregnant already 😭
Yes I would agree just sucks
I just logged in my account for commenting on you.What the fuck😂
Imagine getting ghosted then seeing your fiance kissing another girl with a engagement ring 3 months later. I was livid.
"her dog chased after me tho"
"Did u get bit?"
" No he wanted to go with me"
😂
That's so sad though
😂😂
😂😂😂😂💔
🤣🤣🤣🤣
And then he realised that the dog was all he ever needed and they lived happily ever after
“we walked real slow because he knew once we got back to the car i would just drive him home and that would be it...and that was it” so sad 😭💔
Same thing happened to me a month ago...so horrible
I'm sorry but something is off here. I know I'll get hate for saying that but if the other person has caused you nothing wrong then how can you "not see yourself with him for much longer"??
Something doesn't sound right.
@@meganod279 There are lots of reasons people break up without any wrongdoing. In my situation, my ex wasn't in a good mental state for a relationship and had commitment issues. I also know people who break up when things get serious and they realize there are sacrifices for their families that they are not willing to make, or that they have different values, even though they still love each other very much. My breakup was amicable and for that reason, it hurt a lot.
@@meganod279 sometimes you fall out of love, and you feel like you are living a lie/leading them on even though you still deeply care for them. Sometimes love is all you have in common, and yall are incompatible for reasons outside of your control (e.g. principles/future plans don't align, maturity levels, etc.). No hate here, but there are many possibilities to consider.
I cried 😭😭😭😭
“If you’re sharing your life with somebody else, and they leave, they take half of your life with them.”
Yess! That line stuck with me.
That's why you have to keep your interests and not become codependent
I prayed over that in Jesus Christ name n my life came back instantly after I said Amen.
He left me 2weeks ago n I'm all good n I feel good and at peace.
I really really Loved him but Jesus restored me. Jesus can not leave or forsake us
@@fran791 there's a difference between codependency and attachment...the lines can be blurred for some people but codependency is "i can't live without you" attachment is "i can live without i just dont want to"
True statement. It’s similar with sex partners, which is why some people choose celibacy.
5:26 I feel her pain. I just recently ended a 7 year relationship with a guy I trusted and potentially thought he would be husband material. After he cheated on me I tried to work through it but that trust was gone and I didn’t see him the same anymore. It was so hard to get over it and yes it’s still hard. But now all I can do is pray and try moving forward.
I ended my ex gf first love 7 year relationship too. She cheated.
1 month now. I only feel numb.
@@formulajuan644 how are you doing today?
@@roseb.5645 3 months have passed, I feel like I've embraced the numbness. I've lost a piece of myself cuz I can't feel a single emotion even if I want to. You know you're broken when your tears won't fall.
The only positive side is that I feel less depressed because I'm trying to focus on myself since the breakup : I got my driving license at first try one week ago, I'm about to do my first tattoo, I'm getting back on track very slowly about bodybuilding and finally at the beginning of September I will try to get back to university. Time is slowly doing the things but those who say that time heals aren't right. The pain and the betrayal will never fade away no matter how many years go by. You just learned to accept it and unfortunately during the process you realize that you've changed in a bad way.
@@formulajuan644 I'm so happy to hear that you could create a time only for yourself. I think the best way to getting over it is self-care and boosting your self-esteem. I am hurt too but I found my peace in my religion. So maybe you found it too. But don't be so close about time-healing process. Maybe the best way to heal is that and you're young, you have many years to more joy in life so don't lose hope about it. I wish the best of you and sending you my prayers! Hope you feel incredible in the upcoming months🙏🏻
@@roseb.5645 I'm 23 actually, and I'm glad to hear that you found your own way to deal with it. To be honest, I've never been a religious person but recently I tried to pray without even believing that there are some gods somewhere, surprisingly I felt some kind of relief. Ironically I started to pray without any valid reason and just 2 days after, I found out by myself that she cheated. Looks like something or someone opened my eyes. Idk if it's some kind of magic of gods if there's any or it was only a coincidence. But whatever reason behind it I just want to be happy again, which I can't really be since I'm not able to feel anything. But I'm truly thankful that there are people like you that are willing to help others with kind words even if we might not be living on the same continents.
I love the guy who said his parents who took a 3am phone call. I hope when my child gets older they know they can always call me.
Yea... i loved that
i dont he guy
same i loved that
This is a good mindset Seems like a lot of people think the job is over when they turn the legal age to move out
It definitely made me tear up a bit. Sadly, it reminded me that it's no longer a possibility for me. :( I hope he cherishes that support!
“If you share a life with someone else and they leave, it’s like they took half of your life with them” man that’s deep but so true
"he left in the middle of the night"
*next scene*
"i left in the middle of the night"
YES!!! NO ONE ELSE WAS TALKIN ABT THIS
Emma Chandler yES
Ikr I’m confused
Honestly! Like why’s isn’t anyone talking about this, I wonder if they saw each other
hasn't seen him since...
My first real relationship ended a few months ago, after being 7 years together. I honestly thought we were going to grow old together, and it felt like someone died when he left me.
He was the only person who really got me, and who I could be comfortable with. And then he suddenly says he doesn’t love me anymore, and hasn’t for some time.
I dropped out of my education simply because I hardly got out of bed for a month, and maybe ate every 2 or 3 days, because I couldn’t be bothered to eat. I once went over a week without eating anything at all.
People started to get worried and started to come by and knock on the door. I never answered. I didn’t read emails or answer texts or phone calls.
Eventually I had to get out of bed, because I had to take on debt to pay my bills. It helped going to work again, but it still feels like I lost a part of myself.
I can feel you my dear, pole sana
im so sorry. that's a horrible thing to go through, but I'm very glad you're hanging in there. someday you will fully heal and feel whole again, don't give up
How u doin now?
I'm going through the exact same thing
oh my gosh, i hope you are doing better now :(
“How did you get over it?”
“SmOkEd SomE WeEd”
LMFAOOOO
IKKK HAHAHA
what is funny about that? that`s illegal
honestly the best way , trust me
@@andtheywereroommates1989 not in many states, I sm0ke it everyday in California
definitelyNOTjungkook this person clearly doesn’t understand internet culture.
“she stole my dog “
“ I still miss her “
“ but MY DOG “
Sophia Chrin mÿ døg
ruclips.net/video/jHTRWvryjt8/видео.html
Mood
Totally i am gonna call her to say give my Dog back
Dang my feels was like
Me to my ex:ok, give me back my jersey shirt.
The people who were saying that they were in the wrong are very very brave.
its not brave to realise youre wrong. if it takes that much for u to do so, reconsider a lot of your behavior. not to attack you, this is genuine advice, ive been admitting defeat and apologising much more these past few months, and nothing feels better than loosing a toxic trait.
I meant it was brave for them to say what they did instead of pretend it didn’t happen or ignore it. Sorry
@@jadakepkie5510 ohh okay, im sorry for going all preachy then, dont apologise im the one who misinterpreted lol
Yeah ,
I had to leave him
I broke it off even though he meant everything to me . He was making me sad because of someone else . I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks , we would talk everyday. He got me through a lot but I think my mindset is better now . Yes I will always miss him , and I'm glad I was able to put myself over him. I still cry about it a lot but it took a lot of courage to do and I'm proud of myself .
@@mariahi.mariahaaa thank you for this. i've been reflecting a lot also
A note to whoever is going through this right now: you are NOT alone. This happens to almost everyone and its a natural part of life. As painful as it is, you WILL get through it! You're strong, I believe in you :) ❤❤❤
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back
I got through it!!!!!!!
Thanks it was much needed... Whenever I feel extremely low, I just start thinking that I'm not alone in this, i think so many people in this world are going through this thing daily..so these thoughts make it less painful for me🙂
i needed this, thankyou 🥰
Thank you. I needed this.
The worst breakup is when you both know that you're perfect for each other but the situation and condition are forcing you to walk in a different way. not even get a chance to start anything.
edit: so many souls who share the same pain. Do believe that what meant for us would forever be ours no matter what.
Yeah wow
agree
Going through that now 😕. We had to break up because is in the military and he is about to be deployed. He won’t be able to see or talk to me for 6 months and he doesn’t think I should have to wait 🙁. I would’ve waited...
Aliyah Brown For real, if you want to wait, WAIT. Try to contact him when he gets back. See where it goes.
Simone Blue I will. I just hope he still feels the same about me when he gets back
"He left in the middle of the night"
Next clip:
"I left in the middle of the night"
Echo TheEcho 🤯
And I oop-
Echo TheEcho lmao maybe that was the guy she was talking about, maybe not. It might be a coincidence 🤔
I was like hell naw they can't be in the same video
Pemdas says...
“I still miss her, but *MY DOG* “🤣
🤣
_that is so.. so tragic_
Copied.
Lovelyashy bro...it don’t matter
If me ex tried to take my dog I’m killing them if it means I keep my dog
I was going through a horrible breakup when this video came out. Now I barely ever think of that person. So it all passes.
No ones talking about “he was like, ‘iM gONnA gO tRy HeROiN’” LMAOO
lol that had me dead too
I SCREAMED! I was about to comment until I saw yours! Lmaoooo
I came across this comment and she was in the screen at the same time i read it😂😂
I read this as soon as the part came on lmao
@@adelaide8334 bro same lmao
shout out to the people who were honest about their feelings and their own toxic behaviors that led to the breakup. too often i see that people are quick to blame the other person. it takes guts to admit you're the wrong one
And even harder to admit that one is a narcissist..
Facts
Mis Kay righttt💯
Hello
I was going to type the same comment! You saved my time 😁
“I wonder why I was hurt when I was the one who decided to cheat”
*dang*
-_-
This
At least he acknowledged that he's trash for cheating. He was probably hurt because he realized he fucked up, but it's too late.
This is what my ex said
Yep
Elowen Rasmusovs impact on the lives of those shes helped through breakups is a testament to her skill as a psychotherapist. She has truly made a positive difference.
who that?
@@growing.flowersit’s a bot
When i broke up with my ex girlfriend her little brother was like "Can we still play games together?"
What did u do then?
I hope u still did
@@lucycoakley9593 I'd snatch her lil brother away and bring him home dude
@@sanfiora6537 wooooooaaah there bud
did u go play games with him today? >:(
The girl who had the most recent break up, damn... I felt for her. You just wanna give them a hug.
I cried so much bc it’s been a month since mine and it’s so sad 😞
hug
@@velvetdreems it’s been a month for me too. It’s been real hard. Keep strong though.
Its been two weeks for me too, it’s horrible
A day for me..
“We were dating for four years and he just left in the middle of the night”
Next guy: “I left in the middle of the night...” wait what-
Rohan Khubchandani SAMEEE
Rohan Khubchandani I know they did that on purpose
They totally did that on purpose lmao. It's too perfect ;-;
I WAS ABOUT TO SAY THAT😂😂😂😂🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Rohan Khubchandani 👀👀👀👀👀👀
3:52 that’s literally the coolest hair I’ve ever seen ever in my life.
Dude my mind had to pause "LOOK AT THOSE STREAAAAKKKKKSSSSSSSSSS"
Some girl: ... I just wanted him to feel the pain that was caused to me!
The next dude: *i threw a burrito*
she literally turned into two different characters💀💀
what did that Burrito did too him
this made me fucking cackle
@@LeadYourDreamss SAME
sshhh im trying not to wake up my family with creepy laughter cuz its like 2am
5:40 "We went real slow... cause he knew that when we got back to the car, i'd just drive him home and that would be it."
My heart broke when she said that.
Fuck my heart felt that 😔
I only wished my ex did that. 3 year relationship thrown away with a text after I get home from a double shift at work 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Your username is fantastic
I'm so scared for my relationship to end, it's my first one, we've been together 2 years, we are still just teenagers, there are times I just get so sad & exhausted of him and his shit, but I'm so afraid of being alone, losing him and losing that part of me too but I don't know what I'm more scared about, I just wish one day I'll be brave enough to know what I'm actually wanting/waiting/expecting of my relationship and do something about it
Constanza Rojas it’s not a relationship ship unless you go through the toughest of times and if it’s real that love can only grow, but don’t wear it out take it slow, and you should know if your right for eachother or not, don’t be stupid and be humble and know when your in the wrong and don’t text everyday all day you’ll hate eachother, like imagine doing that with your sibling you would hate them
The worst kind of heartbreak is when everything was going great there was no cheating or nothing it’s just you guys just fell out of love
Bruh...
You rite. :/
Rhema McClure yeah Ik 🥺
this.
honestly in that situation i dont think there was genuine love from jump 😂 just my opinion though
Yah....
Suicide seems easier. Atleats maybe I'll get some sleep.
I’m going through my third break up, it was my most serious relationship to date- details aside, it’s been hell on my mental health but seeing this video, knowing that we aren’t alone in this pain, that others have been through worse and are still standing gives me hope! We will be okay! ❤
Bless your soul sweetie
Hey! I am too, and it really sucks, call out to Jesus and He will hold your heart as He is doing with mine.
How are you feeling? Breakup day one for me
💜💜💜
Same. This is extremely hard
"we went real slow" girl made me cry
Niloufar F 😢😢
fr i cant stop crying
fr she made me cry
Me too
Same 🥺💔
The girl that just came out of the 5 year relationship broke me. I wanted to cry with her so much, damn. I hope she has a support system around her
felt her so badly. Her emotion crushed my heart in pieces cuz i just got off a 5 year old distance relationship and it still hurts like hell.
Right 💔💔
Felt this.. it was a long and sad silent drive back
I kinda understand.. I just got out of relationship for 6 years only to find out he got another gf in just one month
@Skii Baby omg thats so unfortunate.. But you'll get through this.. U re amazing to be able to go such thing.. U re okay before him and u ll be okay after him //hugs
The girl who has been in a 5 year relationship like damn she needs a hug
Rea Jay bruh she broke up with him. HE needa hug. My girlfriend just broke up with me after 3 years, over the phone, i feel for him
I was that girl a year ago... my bf left me suddenly after 3 years :/
Thats me right now. I didnt want my relationship to end but how long can you stay with a liar and cheater? I had to end it because its killing me. Its making me depressed and drink too much. I couldnt do it anymore. I want to live and be healthy. I had to get him out of my life but i still love him. I just cant ever go back. Im afraid if i got back with him and he does it again ill end up hurting myself.
@@toddstevens3049 That doesn't mean she isnt in pain... I got out of a year long relationship recently and I cried even though I broke up with him. I loved him even though he was abusive towards me and I did not want to leave but I just knew i had to. I'm doing better now but i still get sad when i think of him.
Rea Jay but it’s different when the guys not abusive or doing anything wrong, but you’re right it’s hard on both ends. But sorry to hear about that, i hope you keep doing better!
I cant thank Elowen Rasmusov enough for helping me navigate the emotional turmoil of my breakup. Her expertise and empathy were truly life-changing.
“My ex wanted me to choose between him... and my kid”
my mouth LITERALLY DROPPED😧😧😧😧
Becks x o x o Guys have told that to my mom before. Child me was just like ‘Boi If you don’t stop-‘
It is true especially asian men
My ex boyfriend said to me “me or your family” i left i ruined my sistership and my relationship with my parents it was awful but it’s better now 💖
This is quite common (mostly indirectly tho). I don’t know anyone who actually likes their step kid.
@@salenzo8065 my stepdad does! I live with him after he and my mum broke up (my mum and dad already ran lol) and he loves me like his own. I could call him in the middle of the night if I needed help and he would come, no matter the distance. He saves up to pay for college so I do not have to get a loan and he is so open-minded about everything: from transgenders to sexuality or whatever you want. He would run the world for me and he gave me the home nobody else gave or could give me, without asking anything back for it.
"Her dog chased after me"
"You get bit?"
"No he wanted to go with me"
💀
😦😞Please help! This bully won't leave me alone on my channel😭😭
He told me if I don't get 5 views on each video by midnight he's going to post the nudes I thought I was sending to my ex-girlfriend!!
Somebody save me please!!!😟
@@theillustriouschosenone9267 Shut the fuck up.
Oof
Lol
@@mikqyla (yes! It's him)
“ she stole my dog and I still miss her but...
*”mY dOg!”*
😂😂😂
I'm glad someone commented about this gold moment hahahaha
OMG
anonymous User HAHAHAH IKRRR!!
your pfp made it ten times funnier.
Daeyun :’)
I'm here a year after a breakup and it hurts like it was yesterday. I know life goes on but it hurts like hell knowing he left without warning. I've moved forward, have had moments of happiness, good connections, and am healing. But that disregard, and just knowing he's moved on so completely and fully like an emotional hit and run... the pain feels like a small piece of glass in my heart.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!!!
I feel you, it has been 9 months for me and I am still finding myself crying at night. How are you doing now?
3 months, but I think it will take a year at least... I have no idea if this will ever completely disappear
"tell me your worst breakup"
"i threw burrito"
that's the man of culture right there
5:03
Rip that burrito
A true renaissance man.
I feel bad about the girl that said he didn’t wanna claim her because she was mixed with black. People still really be on about race.
Love is love why it matter at this point
Bria Newton i can’t believe thats even a thing. has to be a mental illness
I was like wtf how can people be this ignorant and the worst thing is that once something like this happens to you, you start thinking that you are the problem
What gets to me is that I saw that lady on another cut video (guess my sexuality) and she kept asking people if they found her sexy, now I feel for her because I’m starting to realize it’s an insecurity that person or other people probably caused
Is that what she said? I heard plaque 🤣🤣
Unfortunately, I’ve heard it before. I’m glad they told me so I could stop wasting my time and move on to someone who wasn’t trash
Lol "he left in the middle of the night"
"I just left in the middle of the night" coincidence ?😂
th3_xxan_man Is my ig I literally went searching in the comments to see if anyone else noticed 😂
@@tinkakira8382 lol same
Oh wait, I just commented about that...
Gotta delete my comment xD
🤣
Bruh just noticed that
Its no surprise that Elowen Rasmusov is a sought-after psychotherapist for breakup counseling. Her expertise and kindness are truly exceptional.
“How’d you get over it?”
“Smoked some weed.”
Wildsis only way to ease the pain lol
Felt that personally.
When the high goes away the pain comes back so I three six mafia that shit!!
6:05 🤭🤣💀
iconic.
When she said “We went real slow” that hit hard.
sorry I know the story was that they were walking and then went slow does thst mean something else? i don't understand
Niccolò Machiavelli The Prince It basically means that they both still loved each other but they knew that things weren’t working for them. I think they just wanted their last walk together to last.
@@a.t.9083 man that's so 😔 sad. it's sad when things don't work out with people you love. thank you
Almost made me cry... I can feel that 😭
Sad hours
"She stole my dog."
"I still miss her but-"
"MY DOG!"
Lmao
Lol that part was funny i replayed it 😏
Does anyone know who he is. Seems cool. Want to follow him on Instagram.
@@thethemichaelcheung SAME ❤
Id john wick any1 who took my dog no capperino
just got dumped with the words "I dont think i want to spend the rest of my life with you, but you're a amazing Person" when i asked for a reason she just repeated what she had already said ... thank you for not giving me a chance for closure. Little note to everyone out there, if you're about to break someones heart, at least let them know why, cause it hurts like frickin' hell to dont know why.
"she stole my dog"
"i still miss her"
"my dog!"
*AND A OOOOPP*
If someone ever stole my dogs, I would go absolutely crazy on them.
2:34
980
roseyoonlet // oof
Ooooofh! *sound*
I love the dude who looks like a robot for no reason
Dude be looking like that robot from undertale or whatever 😂💀
I love how he was so chill about it too, like he just be chilling 😂
Asa Mettaton
I have no idea who you're talking about lol
What time??
“She stole my dog. I still miss her, but... my DOG!” 🐕 🐾
Oh god lmao🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can relate though. I miss your doggies too.that was too hard.
Hi can i add you up?
Lmao means
yk what i agree completely. this really helps society in many ways. i feel very touched by this message of pure inspiration and that really brings joy to my soul. everything, down to the smallest detail, moves me so much in how much happiness this really brings to me. i cannot believe that you, yes you, have written such an eventful masterpiece. i am honestly so taken aback by this, i could go on and on.
I just broke up with someone I’d had a crush on for years. Dating him was like a dream come true, and I honestly feel gutted. This is the first breakup I’ve ever had, and compared to these, it was really seamless. We were both kind to each other, and we still talk. I still love him though so it’s hard
I'm in the same boat, same thing just happened to me. We can get through this :)
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!!!
Why did you do it
"He left in the middle of the night"
Next cut
"I left in the middle of the night"
Me, highly suspect.
Shane Black omg I was like what if that was the guy 😂
Hahahaha same
That guy's gay. He was in other videos.
They did it on purpose he's gay
@@sugamoppie I know it's not the boyfriend. I just thought it was funny.
4:32
“i broke up with somebody at a Wendy’s parking lot and she almost ran me over with her car. I got Frosty on my shirt.”
LMAOOO
God tier human
Guy dodged a bullet there. Crazy homicidal woman.
I read this while it happened
Big ups liquid richard
For some reason I love him
It’s weird but I needed this. It’s reassuring to see that the fuckery of break-ups is a shared human experience.
Haha .. true that
same
I think this sentence sits at the core of what makes these videos so popular
It's so morally conflicting man
So damn true
awe. Listening to other people going through a break up too feels comforting :')
Everyone: 😢😬😭😔
that one dude: sHe wOuLd tAkE mY bAlLs iF sHe cOuLd
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's killed me
😹😹😹
This one got me XD
🤣🤣😭😭
'cheated'
'cheated'
'cheated'
'she kicked me in the face...'
*oh okay then*
Damn
Lmaooo
lmaooooooooo
It’s sid
Sofy Madera when i saw him i went back and went😯
“he made me choose between my kids and him”
this- :(
Kavellion ikr what should she do? Leave her kids??....
All I have to say is I’m happy that she choose the kids - sadly some people do
anyone else the kid? no.. ok..
Like how the F is that even a question??? No women should have to choose between a men and their kids, if a men can’t accept her kids from the beginning then BYE
I felt that in a way because my mom had to choose between me and my step dad. In the end she chose him 🙂life sucks
Elowen Rasmusovs dedication to her clients well-being is evident in the transformation Ive witnessed in those who sought her help after a breakup.
“I threw a burrito “
“How could you leave these tiddies”
Best lines
Jose vega the tiddies 😭😭😭
don’t forget “she would take my balls if she could”
literally came to the comments for this
Not the tiddies!!!! 😭😂
Time stamp?
“She named her kid after me, I still don’t know why” NOOOO 😭😭
@NWOKOGU EMMANUEL what da fuck
For real 😂
Yeah like. What kind of zone is that? lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭
my mom actually has the same name as my grandfather‘s first girlfriend haha… he always refused to answer whether he named her after her (and why my grandmother was okay with that..)
Mostly everyone’s worst break up , is their FIRST breakup .
Ann Honey Very true. I don't think getting your heart broken ever gets easier, I think you can just go through the motions better after you've gained experience with it.
@@laney2773 yes , that be a whole different type of hurt.
As in "I make stupid decisions and don't know how to handle my emotions": Yes
As in "Hurts the most"? : Definitly No
Yeah, my first one was terrible, she was just a terrible person
i have always been the one that ends up the relationships, so I actually have never been that directly heartbroken (for saying it in a certain way) and well my worst relationship was my last one (the 3rd) because it was VERY toxic I just suffered the whole time but I was the one to break up with him so yeah. I can’t imagine being the one in that position or how could I feel... maybe i would feel kinda betrayed
I just got broken up with, for the first time, after almost 4 years of a relationship that I really really valued. I have to admit that I blame a lot of my emotional issues on the breakup, and I can't help wondering if things could have been different. It sucks, really. I also didn't get into this relationship until I was in my late 20s, so I feel so lost. I still really love him, but I recognize that his mind is made up. I feel like I'm losing my best friend and the person who I felt closest to in the world. I know people say it gets better and I can only hope it does because this is the worst feeling.
I really feel this right now. I’m sorry for all the pain you’re going through, and hope things have gotten better since posting that.
Same!!! I got broken up with my first ever relationship of almost 2 year, which I was in mid twenties. I was planning to move countries to live with her but she ended all our plans like it was nothing. I lost my best friend, no to share memes with, no one to share mundane daily things. I fear that I won't be able to find someone who cares as much about as she once did. We talked about getting married and having kids but towards the end, she wanted nothing of it.....
@ellie Lindsey I literally just got broken up with and have no friends and our stories sounds the same , he couldn’t handle me anymore so me broke up with me wanna become friends?? (Ik this sounds creepy)
I really feel this right now. I got into my first relationship ever at the age of 25 and it went on for 5 years. We broke up this April. I saw a long term future with him. I feel this emptiness in my heart that I haven't felt ever and it's like a a chunk of myself has been taken when he broke up, because he has. When a person was with you for that long and now they're not in your life like that anymore, it really feels like half your life just disappeared. Every little trivial thing reminds me of him now and I break down crying. I really hope that what people say is true and that time does heal eventually, because right now, it's so rough.
Are you better now ?
"She had been seeing someone else the whole time. I was basically a placeholder.
And she was perfect for me..."
Dude 💔💔💔
siyaneliswa shozi that kinda was happening to me
@@AM-op1ux I am so sorry you have to go through this. I hope you find strength through this tough time
I’m literally going threw this right now.
:(
lol Ikr obviously not...UNless he's a cheater too
"She stole my dog.. I still miss her but
MY DOG!" Lmao
That was insane to me nothing could be more horrible than that it's like she stole your best friend.
lanethelame okay but that sounds like something I would do
Priorities 🤣
Time?
I'm too late.
2:36
"she stole my dog, i still miss her, but my dog"
Totally me in this kind of situation 😂😂😂😂
No Name
He said “her” is his dog >_> he misses his dog, not the bitch who stole it.
@@margaritam.9118 uh no? he misses the bitch who stole it AND also wants his dog back
JoJo no he misses the dog
@@JoJo-zq6gb uh no? he misses the dog not his ex
JoJo holy fuck you’re dumb
Elowen Rasmusovs ability to create a safe space for healing is remarkable. She has a gift for helping people rediscover their strength after a breakup.
Worst type of break ups are the ones where u think you’ll truly spend the rest of your life with them.
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@@averyaubrey7613 you’re trying too hard
IKR
Or the other person thinks that...
the girl with the 5 yr relationship :-(( I felt her pain..
gp'art same. Omg, it was so painful, I thought I would never recover. I have so been there and my situation very much parellels hers. No contact since we broke up at all. It has been 3 years.
I'm worried that's about to be me :'(
Yeah this hit me so hard too :'((
We all did 😭
I just got out of a five year relationship. Shits hard.
The Asian lady had such beautiful and unique looking hair omg.
came for this !!! I wanna be her when I grow up 😍
I legit scrolled down as soon as I saw her to see if I was the only one taken aback by her hair omg
@TheSwoleBroscientist ew a troll 🤢
Kate Desingano I think they mean 3:50
She did an entire segment in Buzzfeed on her breakup, so brave
My worst breakup was when my first love and I were having to do a temporary long distance thing because of some financial and work issues. I was sending money back to him while setting up our new home in another state and getting things in order. It turned out he was using the money I was sending to help him to finance a relationship with someone else. He waited until I travelled 1000 miles back to pack him up and move him to tell me he wasn't going to be moving and that he had fallen in love with someone else. He tried to claim he waited to tell me because he thought I deserved to hear it in person but I know the real reason was that he wanted to keep our dog and he knew I'd be bringing him with me for the trip. He was truly a narcissist of the highest order. I was so mad at myself for a long time after because I didn't understand how I could have missed/ignored all the warning signs that were so obvious looking back. Even within the first couple months of our relationship, there were red flags. Moral of the story is to trust your gut and protect your heart because nobody else can!
“Turns out she was seeing someone else the whole time. I was a place-holder. And, she was perfect for me.” .....I feel that with every ember of my dead, worthless heart
frrrr. it’s happened to me too many times
dont feel that way, it do gets more bearable with time and since all you can do is cry and wait it out, know that it was never your fault :D stay strong
Its not the perfect / right person for u if you dont have the same feelings for each other.
I guess to realize that, it takes until u find the "right" one:D
Such a sad comment, I feel you
That broke my heart a little. So sad
“zach warner, you're a piece of trash” the positive vibes i love her, & she's so pretty
no fr it was so classy
That smile 🙂🙃🙂🙃
She's God's most magnificent creature- the Sassy Redhead
who is she？
@@kikilam2105 4:50
6:07
“How did you get over it”
*sᴍᴏᴋᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴡᴇᴇᴅ*
Lʏᴅɪᴀ Lᴇᴍᴍᴀ literally my favorite part. I WAS DYING
@Fuck You my nigaaa
Why you gotta type in the instagram "see translation" font?
@@shn4sty ?
On instagram whenever something is in a different language there's a little button that shows up at the bottom that says "see translation" so I was making a joke on how when you said "smoke some weed" the font looked the same as the button.
Excellent video; I'm still struggling to let go of my seven-year relationship. My former significant other, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can't seem to move on. I'm feeling irritated and powerless since nothing has worked to bring him back into my existence. I've tried to move on, but my heart still hurts for him, and I can't see myself with anyone else. I apologise for posting this here, but I just can't seem to move on from missing him.
It's difficult to say goodbye to someone you love; I know this from my 12-year relationship. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually had to seek help from a spiritual counsellor.
By the way, how did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in contact with him?
Father Obah Eze can get your ex back and is a great spiritual counsellor.
Father Obah Eze is who he is; he has incredible powers and can help you.
Thank you for sharing this crucial information; I've just done some research about him online. Startlingly, I looked up Father Obah Eze online and, whoa, he seems like a real guy. Once again, thank you so much ❤
0:32-0:46 has got to be the best cross-over between two storylines
@MLG Kaktus imagine if it _was_ though
*plot twist* they were talking about each other
how good
Too high to not like.
lmao he talks about being gay in another video 💔
"Never been in a relationship, so if anyone wants to hit me up... I'm ready!"
I feel this, I feel this hard.
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Lol i havent either bro loland im 20
@@iiTzLurks she was around 40s bro. Can you imagine being her?
You're lucky. Do yourself a favor and stay single. Relationships are great but they always end, and when it happens it's like hell on earth: painful, traumatic, devastating.
@@psngrl7677 yeah i decided that too, i just broke up
"he was like: I wanna go try heroin" I PISSED
Braco 😂😂😂
LMFAOOOO
The best drug in the world but also the worst thing you could ever do
Braco 😂😂😂
@@ryvr. so fucking true man its your best friend and your worst Enemy
H is kinda Like Love when you try it and you are Not addicted IT gives you the best Felling in The World but than with the Time it becomes normal and The Felling starts to get away but than when its realy gone and you are on Turkey IT becomes you worst fucking Nightmare and all you want is that great Felling comes Back again and all you feel is Pain you freezin and sweating like Hell and your skin feels Like IS going to rip you are over sensitive and i couldent even smell of a Ciggarette because you puke when you smeel IT you have Diarea that it Rips your Asshole in Half you cant sleep for Days and when you lay in Bed every Position feels uncomfortable and legs are Restless you have Depression and you feel Like you 90 years old
Im pretty Sure you know all that Shit but i Just want to explain it to keeps a Person away from it when He or she reads my Comment and wants to start using
THE GREAT FEELING ITS NOT WORTH IT BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TRU HELL WHEN YOU ARE A JUNKIE AND AT THE END YOU LOOSE EVERYTHING AND IN WORST CASE YOU ARE LOOSING YOUR LIFE
i Hope you understand me man because my english sucks
My ex broke up with me the day after my Nephew was shot 9 times sitting in his car. He died on scene, and she avoided all my calls cause she was partying. When I broke down crying at her decision when she finally heard me out, she cancelled me on Twitter warning ladies to watch out for crazy emotional men.
This was the next relationship I had right after my girlfriend of 4 years came out as gay. People complain about always being single, but don’t realize the luxury of it until they experience what relationships all about.
Damn bro- u had it rough 😔
Those are terrible, I'm sorry. Bur the first girl, what a blessing to be rid of that kind of person
Mgtow
“He just left in the middle of the night.”
*Oh :(*
“I just left in the middle of the night.”
*o h*
And I oop 👁👄👁
*big oof*
Oh boy...
Oooooor
Kadoos_0 OOOOOOF
"he was like *I'm gOnNa gO tRy hErOiN* " 😂 2:53
´lmfao
I cracked up there 😂
"He cheated on me"
"I left in the middle of the night"
"I ThReW A bUrRiTo"
Poor burrito now I’m hungry 🌯
poor burrito did nothing wrong
It had better been one of those cheap ass Taco Bell burritos!
Lolllll rip 🌯
I’m your 1000 like so hope I made your day
My worst breakup was with a guy who had 2 kids. I loved those kids like they were my own, helped raise them for years. We'd discussed what would happen if we ever broke up, and there was a mutual understanding and agreement that I could still be a part of their lives.
When we did break up, he changed his mind. Refused to let me speak to them, but would tell me how much they talked about me and that they were asking where I was and he really manipulated me emotionally. It was devastating and heartbreaking and required a LOT of therapy.
I haven't been in a relationship since, and this was in 2019. I've dated, but I'm just so guarded and hesitant. I don't think I could date somebody with kids ever again.
"he slept with my co-worker.... then him and my co-worker got married..............and thats when i decided to quit" 😂😂
That's me
@@gabriellealexander7511 amen haha
@Ashli B 2:55
What was going trough her head? I don't get it. Dude either had some issues or was an asshole. What do you chase after? Sweet lies, more damage?
Bruh wtf the guy just walked out after 4 years in the middle of the night 😂😂
That honestly scares the hell outta me...
J. E. lol why though
Maybe its the guy from Lumineers - Sleeping on Floor
ASMR potato thats what i thought lool😂
and then the other dude just said he left in the middle of the night lmaooo
“He has all his teammates pee on my fucking car”
EXCUUUUUUUUUSE ME?
That's crazy but at the same time I'm not too surprised. Us guys be wildin'
@@anonymousmadlad433 but it’s not ok?
@@starryeyedgirls it's not
What a legend
@Anthony Davis So tf that's fucking disgusting.
Elowen Rasmusovs therapeutic approach is both nurturing and insightful, making her an ideal choice for anyone seeking guidance during a difficult breakup.
Soooo no one is going to talk about the man who doesn’t know why she named her child after him??😂😂😂
I think she had a kid by someone else and that's why he's confused
do you recognise some of these people?
@@SavviiTuesday damn i'd be pissed off. Also i wouldnt want my kid to be a jr it kinda just triggers me when its infront of something.
I actually told my ex that I would do that when I broke up with him. It was because I will always have love for him and I wanted to still be friends but I knew I was never going to be in love with him. He’s married now🤣
😂😂😂
first breakups are the worst. it's like someone who told you they'd never leave you, they make you trust them, we give every single inch of our attention, love, priority to them. it literally changes the way you look relationships & love. but you have to keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.
Omg yess I was my exes first girlfriend I wanted to be with him forever but he said he wants his old life back and can’t be committed to me at all he brokeup with me atleast every time but i begged him to stay with me but at last he brokeup again and said I just wanted a reason to breakup because he can’t make efforts to be with me even though he wasn’t my first bf i was his so i never wanted to make him feel like relationship are shitty still he left me i still love him so much he blocked me everywhere but i wish him the best if he dates another girl i hope he gets happy
yes especially when he wants to marry for years, you finally give in and 7 months later (2 months after the honeymoon) he starts kissing another girl again and again and again, though you cry and beg not to do, he ignores your feelings, and 2 weeks after your first anniversary he breaks up, tells everyone that you both grew apart (I see that differently) and you're not allowed to tell anybody about what happend, but he runs through his town with the other girl just the week after the breakup. I'll never trust any guy again (and women either, that b*tch didn't care as well that he was married).
yeah. sadly i was the one to initiate the breakup because i lost feelings. we were long distance and i couldn’t handle it anymore. we haven’t talked in almost a year. i wonder how he’s doing.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
“He peed the bed a lot, found bottles of piss everywhere” GURRRRL WHT😭😭
i would be pissed if i was her
Erika Bierman You would be *pissed*, ba dum *pissss* ;)
TL TL LMAO 🤣 FORREAL WTF
*r e c y c l e*
She said “he peed the bed A LOT” like ?? Are you telling me the dude pissed the bed more than once and you still stayed? Lmfao
I got out of a 5 year relationship & its been a year of broken up & its been 6 months of him cutting me off. I've been trying to find songs, a movie, something to relate to, that makes me feel normal for grieving. This video was that comfort.
Hey man super sorry to hear about your situation. I just got out of a 3 year relationship. It sucks but I've been motivated on my goal in life which I had been during the relationship and its been 2 weeks since the break up. Haven't spoken to her since then. Just keep doing your best man.
Im going through the same. If it means anything to you, just know youre not alone.
@@mrvocal21 hey
how are you holding up now?
“How did you get over them?”
“sMokEd sOme weED”
That's the guy I truly relate to
karim Lmfaoooo that took me out 😂
Me now
karim frrrr.. that’s how you do it tho
Adeline Harrison 6:07
how did you get over it?
"SmOKEd sOmE WEEEEEEEeeed!"
picaisa picaisa Hahahah same
Sameeeeee
PERIOD🤣🤣🤣
Yesss brooo
Me lmao
“I just got into a relationship”
“What do you think it’s gonna be like?”
“The breakup?”
IM CRACKING TF UP😂😂
I’m the 1.1k like ;)
Orange Gacha i don’t get it
Ok but did you notice she thought about it for a split second?
TechTalk me either
Imani C They were asking her what she think the relationship is going to be like not the break up.
Going through a break up after 8 years. My first relationship that I got into when I was 19. This has been the hardest shut of my life, but I’m lucky that my ex is very respectful and really didn’t want to make it any harder on me than necessary. I feel like I lost my entire identity. I’m two months in and things are only just starting to feel a little better but everyday random things still destroy me. Sucks that my ex seems to okay as well after so many years. 😢
Fifth day and still shivering and 24h pain
It will hurt until someone new takes away the pain. Time is your friend
God bless you.. you are
Strong
@@gaoxiaomid4272 the shivering is so real. it’s been almost 2 years and i’m just shaking cold all the time. it’s so painful
@@gaoxiaomid4272 my first love dumped me almost 6 months ago and blocked me on everything after a 4 year relationship. DIdnt eat for 2 weeks and I stayed up till 4am crying every night for the first 4 months. even called the suicide hotline a couple of times. I would curl up in a ball at work in the bathroom floor and would cry for hourrrsss. These past 2 months I started working on myself and its gotten better. Dont get me wrong I still my best friend and I still have breakdowns here and there but its not as bad as it used to be. It does get better. Just takes time