If Couples Were 100% Honest | Split Decision
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0:00 intro
0:31 I've faked an orgasm with my partner
1:38 I would eat the booty if my partner asked me to
2:26 I wish my partner were more kinky and would take more risks in bed
4:51 I'm better at sex than my partner
8:36 I think my partner needs to lose weight or exercise more
10:20 My partner us the most confident person I've ever dated
12:40 My family approves of my partner
15:10 There is a political issue that my partner and I will never agree on 
Развлечения
3:43 they’ve done a lot of WHAT…WHERE?!
Did anyone notice how they had every race in the video black white Hispanic and asain
Sex. In public. You should try it.
yeah bc it’s 2023 and you have to be “equal” it’s dumb asf
@@dsp4392what if u get caught
@@buffFrank195 not mine...helicopters
I feel like Shadi is passive aggressive and Anthony is defensive so they are making this so awkward
I don’t understand why I subjected my into watching this video
I do understand her. She’s clearly frustrated with his lack of initiative in sex and even outside of it. She says in her relationship they don’t adopt traditional values or roles but I think that plays a part to why she’s frustrated with him… because he doesn’t lead. You can see how he’s expecting and wanting her to lead in bed and even on the bases of income. Her being the breadwinner…. Idk. It’s just obvious that she’s expecting more from him and he’s not meeting those expectations
😂
I think they’re not meant for each other. And that’s okay!
I don't think they will last..
I don’t understand how Anthony and Shadi are compatible 😭
Honestly why are you dating a friends ex ? Like why would you be okay with being a back up like ?
It was so awkward to watch
I'm not all the way through but she seems terrible. Lmao
Ya idk what happened there. Anthony needs to gain some respect for himself and end things.
@@akhnatenpage4854RIGHT?!?! 😭😭😭😭
The way Antony said “Then they... Kinda broke up” reveals everything one needs to know about this relationship.
That’s exactly what I thought!! Lmao1
What u mean ?
@@abigailyalew1304 that she clearly hadn’t officially broken up with her ex boyfriend when she started dating Antony.
@@abigailyalew1304 ....he slept with his best friend's girl
IKR- I was kinda surprised by how they just said it so casually
the audacity of shadi telling anthony to lose weight is crazy
THANK YOU!
well, she said that they've both gained relationship weight and that Anthony had complained about gaining it, so that's why she said yes. Anthony could've said yes as well but didn't.
he probably didn't want to hurt her feelings.@@plamenasiniye
Yes … she’s chunky herself
Haha she’s like twice his weight!! 🤦
Shadi and Anthony aren't making it, I've gotta be honest
Fr, they're a bad day away from breaking up
@@asuryanI think that day was the day they filmed this video
I came here to say the same thing. They were not clicking at all 😭
Shadi was being shady 😂 but for real her communication is NOT good. Very passive aggressive and he clearly needs someone who can have open and accepting conversations
She started off dating his friend it was doomed from the start
why was shadi so passive aggressive with her answers 😭
She's shady...
Ong
I was kinda surprised to see she said Anthony needed more gymtime rather than her lol . She demands so much lol
i was so scared of her arghhh
I mean her name says it all.
Anthony is so valid. All he wants is for Shadi to express her boundaries so he doesnt end up hurting her and shes like 'just make a move' like what move 💀
Yeah thats the problem with that. Every dom says they need a complete breakdown of whats allowed and not allowed.
Shadi just seems like the type that has a fantasy in her head that she wants him to magically know. Without telling him what that would be. That is not exactly having someone lead you and take control. Thats just being a lazy leader that wants their followers to do everything on their own perfectly with no help lol.
Like any move? Is it that hard. How much hate does she get for being honest?
boundaries and consent to things are very much needed when it comes to power dynamics/bdsm/kink. its fine that she wants it to happen spontaneuonsly however it clear her partner is new to this realm and isnt natrually a sexually dominant person so in that case they should talk about her wants and what she doesnt want so that he doesnt cross the line (which can ruin the relationship altogether) OR she can simply find someone else who is more experienced and can meet her needs, which to be honest, im sure she will lol@@HfdguuUesv
Agreed. She’s just a classic toxic woman
@@HfdguuUesv and what happens if he fucks up because she refused to state boundaries before hand?
Vernice and Chun are a prime example of an honest and loyal relationship between 2 genuine people
100% they were the healthiest and balanced couple there. opposite of Devon and the asian girl, complete imbalance in dynamics (and he sets off my fetishizer radar)
they’re such cuties
Exactly I loved them the most they were able to communicate well with each other but knowing how and what to say at the same time
What I saw there was Blacks (as usual) accepting others who don't accept them. Always begging for acceptance.
yes hope everything goes well for them
Shadi is going to be disappointed when she finds out all countries have governments.
@R.E.Dizzle ikr? surviving on her own skills....yeah ok so you're just gonna live in the wilderness and survive off of rabbits and plants? build your house out of fallen tree branches? the list goes on
@@keys2467She’s in a survivalist dreamland (will she have many guns, too?).
Many governments waaaay worse than USA!!!
LMFAOOOO
Despite all the complaints Americans have against governments, the US government is by far one of the least interventionist governments. Let these people into India, Brazil or South Africa and let’s see how they like the govt there
Title: ruining Shadi and Anthony's relationship
Shadi’s a bit too different for my man lol
If communication ruin their relationship, then it's a good things they split because they weren't meant to be together
I was looking for this comment😂
How is this ruining if you don't talk to ur partner about this kind of stuff? Don't be surprised
She wanted to move to a forest to get away from the diversity, but it turned out the diversity was already in the house.
I'm rooting for Vernice and Chun. They're probably the most honest and compatible out of any of the couples.
That’s probably because they’ve been together for 4 years, and married for 2. The other couples haven’t been together for even a year. Most here probably won’t last passed a year and a half
That bar is a little low
I screamed internally when I saw them here, they have a yt channel, they re really cute
I like them too. Vernice is a very beautyfull choclate woman. Chun got to hold on to that.. she seems to be a great woman
@@murcianity don’t be weird about it now
I haven't seen much commentary on Ezequiel, but I just want to say I adore his shyness and really appreciate how vulnerable he was when expressing how confident Alondra is and how we inspire us to be like her. It was the most touching thing ever and you can really tell she brings him out of his shell!!
He's an angel
Unfortunately he doesn't seem resistent enough to exist in this world. He will get stepped on.
@@RacingPepeok toxic masculinity enjoyer
@@RacingPepe he can do this, theres always room for improvement and he will only get stronger and stronger with time, like all of us. i wish the best for him
ikr!!
Ezequiel tearing up while complementing Alondra is the highlight of this video❤🥺🥺🥺
Ugh honestly it felt cringy + cute to me, ngl... he's too passive
they’re so cutee
Favorite couple in the lineup
ayeeee dats me! It was the first question they asked and I was super nervous and I always get emotional talking about her lol. There were soooo many more questions they asked that were funny and lots of funny answers given by everyone(including your boy) but I guess they tried to set the tone here as more serious
Ezequiel is the person I would most like to talk to after watching this.
Shadi commenting on Anthony’s weight is crazy 💀
There’s no way they lasted after this. 😭
Since the beginning their way of communicating was uncomfortable, kinda passive aggressive
@@lunamartinezzz honesty. I don’t know how they were even compatible in the first place.
If he complained about his own weight then I don't see the problem, she wants what's best for him, and being uncomfortable in your body isn't healthy, no matter how fat/skinny you are
I don’t see the issue? She said they both gained relationship weight & he complains about his, so why not get to the gym?
at 7mins he also said like equally bad to her with the lasting shorter q
when anthony covered his stomach my heart actually broke
Felt that for him🥺😩🙏🏽
She was so mean to him honestly. But also, they seem so incompatible
lluv1punch: Same 😢, he looks great imo! He's perfect this way he is.
Curious to know why Shadi believes diversity has ruined our government. Lol
THISS i needdd her to expand on that, if it is what we think it is, I dislike her even more now lol
I thought she said diversity was a plus but the diverse people themselves cause more and more problem that the government is struggling to fix. I dno what I was hearing 😂
in america of all places
She literally sounds like she got boxed into a corner and then randomly said "i just wish i was out of america" as so to hide from her true answer 💀
Dont think too much about it I would say. She doesnt like people in general.
This would be great if you did this for couples married for 40 years or more. We’d see what REALLY matters in a successful marriage…
THIS!!!
Being married a long time doesn't not mean it is a good relationship
My exact comment on this video was the fact that these guys are too young to know anything
My husband and I have been married 21 years and I know we would be at different places on some of these questions. But we have learned and loved how to weather these differences. Marriage is work but work that yields so much love, respect, and fulfillment.
@amywallander8143 Yeah... I think the important parts are not what line you step on but instead the narrative or explanations provided for how the two function together, compromise, sacrifice, prioritize, etc. Some couples could be on the exact same answers each time and not have as healthy relationships as some who differ in various ways.
"the diversity is great but..." standing next to a black, asian, and hispanic person lmao.
I wouldn't necessarily say she's right or wrong though... diversity at the very least does seem to introduce complexity, diversity of thought and culture that is, which sometimes goes hand in hand with race.
Right??! I was lookin at sis like 👀 waiting to see what she was gonna follow up with
When she said that I gasped if I was there I was bouta throw hands💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂
can you give me a time stamp please??
im definitley rooting for Alondra and Ezequiel. First of all they are both so physically stunning and look great together. but it was also heart warming to see how highly they both think of each other. I can tell they really care about each other and I can see them lasting long term. I feel the same about Chun and Vernice. They have healthy communication and look great together physically and look at each other with so much love
how though.. she literally said that the abortion thing was a deal breaker for her but apparently not enough to break the deal..
It’s so weird to talk about your life so personally and detailed like this on RUclips
I don't think so, it's life 🤷♀️
almost as if they signed up for 😱
Everything is online now, we just watch other humans all day every day it's strange agree
100% agree. It's so funny because when they start talking about money in similar videos they instantly clam up. Weird to be so open about their personal lives like this
Agreed. I would never want to share with the public any of this information. Imagine how awkward this would be if your coworkers interviewers find it. Wild. But to each their own.
Anthony is asking her to tell him her boundaries so he can do what she wants and feel confident. You cannot just say "I want to be dominated" without talking about what "dominated" means to you. It seems like they have a communication problem. Shadi throws some serious digs that make no sense. It makes me wonder if she got with him to get back at the friend she broke up with.
She 100% Did She's Using Him As A Get Back Attack So The Ex/Best Friend Does Something To Get Her Back
she is and it’s obvious
💯 💯 💯
100% - she’s straight up toxic.
It's a stupid line nobody should ever walk on. He wants answers, she doesn't want questions. She can't expect him to be rougher and rougher until she says stop. He clearly doesn't have that in him and that's NOT a bad thing. She's just oozing passive-aggressiveness. Almost seems like a majority of her personality instead of just a small trait in certain aspects.
Why is no one talking about Ezekiel and Alondra? His response to the confidence prompt was so heart warming
He’s so sweet 🥹
It was soooo beautiful ❤
i was tearing up 😭
i literally cried
He's a gem
Venice and Chun, I pray your marriage is blessed and your families become 1 big unit. You guys look so sweet.
yeah by far the best couple - also the one dealing with very real issues with their families .
i also like the asian girl , she has too low of a self esteem , she is a solid 8 at least .
Ezequiel getting shy and nervous when talking about Alondra was so cute 😭😭😭 11:26
this is so messy do it again
with lgbt couples
@@tnago916no!
@@bbywiz why?
It's like softcore Jerry Spring.
@@bbywiz ye!
Anthony and Shadi didn’t even do an end interview 😂. I think the relationship has run it’s course and they’ll both be happier with other people.
they did it didn’t make the cut unfortunately, she’s my friend that i recommended for the show
@@planetveenus1tell shadi to stop being shady and move on from Anthony so she can be happy in a forest lol
@@trinityruelas3171 frrrr
@@planetveenus1 why would she say minorities cause issues 😭 she needs to stop watching vids on the unabomber and think critically herself
@@planetveenus1 Shadi don't pretend like this isn't you 🤣
Vernice and Chun have by far the best relationship here ever. I just feel like their both so wholesome and honest with one another without biting each others heads off 😅
10:05 that’s crazy she said her bf needs to exercise. I know he wanted to say it, but he held back.
I think for Anthony and Shadi, the initial lust/excitement has worn off.
yeah, both failed
In most relationships, the excitement always wears off but that’s normal, it’s all about moving the relationship forward without having to rely on that “excitement” all though this principle isn’t a one size fits all so correct me if I’m wrong, I’m sure there are relationships of all sorts including ones that entirely rely on that excitement but from what I’ve seen those relationships can end quite awful but again I could be wrong, this is just what I know and how my relationship is
i agree but they don't seem willin to do it that's why they failed@@GammaRayBill
Shadi wants to be told what to do and Anthony also want to be told what to do they both females
@@modelo4504what does that have to do with being a woman??
This definitely was some of these couples therapy that they needed
Yea definitely either make em or break em!
Plus they have to be careful what they say since others are watching
and a wake up call for shadi and anthony to break up lmao, they are so incompatible
@@christophernoble76 exactly! 😂
😂😂😂I see it now
11:21 aww🥹i wanna cry that was sad but sweet
Yes
the thought of not knowing my partner was anti-abortion is terrifying! watching this made me realize that there are a lot of dealbreakers for me lol
I felt so sorry for Vernice that Chun's family doesn't approve of her :( You could feel the sadness... it's absurd to me that there are still so many people who look at someone's culture, race, upbringing instead of someone's heart. Vernice seems like a wonderful person sweet
They are also already married. Crazy they still disapprove.
Asian people are very racist except towards whites which is super embarrassing (coming from an Asian)
Yea, and for two years😟
If she was white they would love her, it’s really sad
@@southeastasiandude racism is strong and generational
I like the host. He led the conversation but let them do the talking.
Agreed, definitely one of the better hosts I’ve seen from their new video series.
and is hella fine
@@you_are_welcome97LMFAOOO but legit
Should we bring him back for more eps? 👀
@@jubilee He was pretty chill, let the partners have the spotlight and was polite about asking them to expand on some replies they gave. I think for these type of videos it's very good qualities to have.
Ezequiel and Alondra are a genuinely bright couple, so caring and sweet with each other. You can see they have different personalities but they fit with each other so well
Edit: kinda bummed that she's so anti abortion, it probably comes from her upbringing that she can't even see the nuance in the topic. Ezequiel confirms he is a sweetheart tho
shadi and anthony made me cringe so hard and physically recoil. i will never leave my streaming dungeon again.
Hilarious comment, g00nstar!😂
The host is a top tier instigator 😂
He was kinda turning me on
Absolute menace to relationships.
"Do u wanna live in a forest?"🤣🤣
I feel so bad for Anthony, shadi makes it seem like everything he does is wrong, and like he’s stepping on eggshells every time he says something to her. I’ve had a relationship like that and it sucks. I don’t know if they can fix it or not, but if they do then I’d be suprised
He's weak its he's fault men tf up.
@@SusMaBite456😐
@@SusMaBite456 either trolling or irredeemable
She’s just a classic toxic woman
@@Emperorerror He slept with his "best friend's" girlfriend. He is weak and has no honor. This is why she doesn't respect him, because he is the type of guy who commands no respect.
8:48 the way Vernice and Chun both did the same hand thing is cute ngl😭
It made me sad Vernice wasn't accepted by Chun's family. She's so lovely and seems so nice.
She is not she is hypocrite
Agree n I love he went against his culture
@@AngadGrewal-df2txstop hating
If this was another non-host show I don't think this would work out so well. The host definitely made the contestants comfortable enough to answer way more honestly
can we talk about what a beautiful couple vernice and chun are! so cute!
Yeah they were super cool people! I added em after we were done filming
Yeah we can definitely talk about that 😍
@@rewipeaww you're so sweet Ezekiel
I love them, they seem like they have great chemistry too and just overall seem open to healthy communication.
My favorite by far!
We love you Ezequiel! You deserve to be confident!
I like Chun and Vernice. They have great vibes and communicate with each other super well
The lack of communication & honesty in people's relationships is absurd!
Ikr like my partner and I communicate a lot when it comes on to these things. Like we are so open and comfortable
They're super young couples. Gotta give em some time.
@@dsp4392One of the couples have been together for five years😭
@@haiIeyyyeah still young
@@dsp4392the younger you start that habit the better. Unfortunately most people who lack good communication maintain that through the rest of their life. That’s one reason why divorce rates are so high. Most relationships that I have witnessed around me have awful at commutation and the age range of that sample size is extensive.
Jubilee out here trying to end relationships
If you actually have a good relationship, this wouldn’t break you up.
Only the ones that aren't gonna last anyway...Anthony
Yeah they were like "our goal is to make at least one couple break up" before we started recording lol
straight couples
the host was a massive instigator😂
Whenever a couple answers a question while looking at each other, I feel there's more of a connection. Whenever someone answered and looked at the host, it was so awkward. It's important for your partner to know that what you're saying is meant for them and it's important for you to acknowledge their reaction to that information to see that they have heard you and are understanding where you're coming from.
Honestly whoever thought of this gold segment needs a bonus! I get that @Jubilee often hits the needle on the head most of the time but I just returned to watch this specifically and have been reminded why @Jubilee is a great channel overall. It must be hard to get couples willing to be completely honest (to a point) on RUclips regardless of the incentives they receive. I honestly hope there will be more conversations specifically centred around couples especially this type of content. honestly really enjoyed the conservations that were had, very rare, especially in a period where there was a lack of realistic situations/conversations being had online. Therefore, @Jubilee has an Amazing Team, a Great Host and a Phenomenal Channel! Continue to do the great work :)
Chun and Vernice were unexpectedly my favorite couple.
They definitely love each other and I hope they’re able to create a safe space in their relationship to have difficult conversations (especially with BLM for Vernice and Chun’s family not being supportive).
Pleasantly surprised to see that they’re married ❤
Same, I love them. They seem to have alot of chemistry 💞 you can feel the love they share with each other from through the screen
I disagree, I think Vernice shrinks herself, dims her light for the sake of that "relationship", in a way that I don't see Chun doing for her (Chun's energy just seems blah compared to hers in general). And from his racist family not accepting her and him not even calling it what it really is (dread to think if they have children, would the Asian grandparents reject the children too because they are Black?), Down to him saying she should be more "active" on a public platform, when he himself isn't active, without regard for her feelings as a woman. Then there is the fact that Chun isn't fully understanding of the racism Black people face (echoes back to how he is handling the situation of his racist parents), so much so that when it came to protesting for the human rights of Vernice and other Black people, instead of him understanding and supporting her 100% he is questioning her motives and her "head space" like she is crazy for protesting for her rights as a human.
She can do better, I think in some ways she's like Ezequiel (though not to the extent of Vernice, ps Ezequiel kind of has similar mannerism as Prince the singer lol), He and Vernice can do better than the people they are with but they have such low self esteem that they've chosen relationships less what they are worthy of. They both deserve to be in relationships where they are fully accepted and get to show up as their whole authentic selves, without fear they are not enough or can't even advocate for their human rights without being questioned because they really are beautiful and I think have more to offer than who they've chosen to partner with and because of that she's shrinking to match Chun's energy.
To sum it up, I think he is irrational when it comes to understanding and supporting her wants and needs, even the most basic ones like her needing to show up and be her full self without him treating her or allowing others to be treated like an alien. He even sometimes twists it so that she feels like she's the one who is being irrational for wanting and deserving those fundament needs met.
@@LA-cm9uo what do you mean by this?
I don't see what you see@@az1infin268
Shadi is like "I want HIM to do this without ME telling HIM that I want that"
Girl, he isn't a fortune teller, take the initiative and COMMUNICATE all that
Hope you figure it out
nah that kinda makes sense. you want someone to put forth effort without you asking them too. She probably gives hints. Not like she's thinking take me to cabo tomorrow without saying nothing
@@tnago916this why so many relationships fail tho. Stop dropping “hints” and just say what you want. When it comes to differences between the sexes, men are more literal. If you don’t say what you want we’re not going to guess.
@@Ray03595but she expressed that she wants him to explore more and do other positions with her but he’s kind of set in his ways. He also replied to her by saying that she should take the initiative… lead. A lot of women want to feel like they are being taught in bed or man handled, not her giving him directions on what they should next. He needs to take some initiative too and be willing to try new things without always being told too.
@@Ray03595 Guess that's why I date women. Nobody is out here expecting you to read their mind but instead put forth effort if they said certain things they'd like or want for the relationship without saying 'DO THIS DO THAT." Pretty simple to understand.
@eeesss23 Soooo Basically Read Their Minds Lmao
Edit: "put fourth more effort if they say certain things they'd like or want for the relationship without saying 'DO THIS DO THAT'"
So Yes Read Their Minds If They Didn't Say It You Have To Guess And Im Not On A Game Show
I like Chun and Vernice and they seem communicative. Especially Vernice is so cute.
Alondra and Ezequiel and Jennie and Devon are really lovely too.
Overall amazing choise with guests. Hope Shadi and Anthony work on their comunication problems too.
I LOVE the questions asked, those outside the intimacy ones though. They were proper questions that one could learn from and know more about their partner
When Vernice was saying how going to the gym is nerve wracking, I felt that. That's why I work out at home lol
Same, got a mini home gym and everything.
Home gyms are expensive though
The world doesn't revolve around you bro
@@vilecandy Not really, all you really need is a squat rack, a weight bench, a barbell, and weights. I spent less than $500 for everything. Of course it also depends on your goal, if you want to be a bodybuilder you'll probably want to spend on more.
As a guy I sometimes feel like girls are acting suspicious of me when I go near them to use a machine.
No sweetie I'm gay and I don't care about your fat ass. I won't jump you and undress you in front of everyone so please chill. But I cannot say that and I understand why they feel that way. I just dislike the fact I'm considered a potential threat when really I'm barely aware they're even here.
not me pretending to answer the questions with my deluluship
😂😂
and what he say 😭
being delulu is the solulu
Hey! Anyone can participate - we don’t judge!
LMFAOOO felt this to my core 💀🤣🤣
Devon and Jammie were my favorite couple followed by Chun and Vernice. And big respect to Devon and Chun for being so smart and matured in their response and how they protected their partners. Social and situational awareness they showed was 🔝🔝
They all was entertaining. Lovely episode
It's Jennie actually but I agreed on the couple rank
Vernice and Chun have a very common problem with the family thing. This is why I always have long talks with my friends especially of different cultures. So it wasn't shocking to me when Chun said his family felt that way because usually the most accepting race, outside their own, would be caucasian. And even then they sometimes don't even want that.
I love Vernice and Chun. Something about their vibe and communication reminds me of my husband and I's dynamic. They seem like they'd be fun to go on a double date with.
ikr they're by far the cutest couple here
“…my husband and *I’s*”????
I was literally thinking the same thing my husband and I are just like them too
It’s because they have the vibe where they can talk to each other about anything and be properly heard. The rest of the couples were all so passive aggressive
she basically my@@Ceerads
Ezequiel & Alondra are a beautiful couple.
aww thanks bestie c: We dont hate each other yet lol
@@rewipe Ezequiel was so shy but theyre a good couple
Frrr I was looking for more comments about them
Very wholesome
I love that Alondra stands her ground on the abortion topic and is not scared to voice her opinion even is honest with her partner about breaking up because that is also her child! Wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Can this be a weekly series please? With the same host, I love it!! I keep coming back to check for a new episode, but it isn't there 😭😭
I’d really like to see more of this series, very interesting watch
Wtf “diversity is causing more problems” even mean!? Girl, my blood boiled!
Must be the rainbow you're holding
I hope i misunderstood her and she didnt say what I think shes saying lol
Same and she said it in a very diverse room too. Like wtf
And The girl said that in a room with black,asians and latinos…😅
Shadi is my best friend, she explained further on it it wasn't shown, but i agree she worded it improperly, that with more diversity comes more complexities and we are opening the world up to new conversations new perspectives and people are talking about it but not doing anything to actually change how the world deals with the new dynamics and challenges that come with trying to get people to see a new mindset.
Anthony just needs to let Shadi go into the woods of some random place in Russia and find someone else.
He’s the issue
@Raja-fv1cr apparently it's diversity 😂
She’s just a classic toxic woman
Russia also has government. and she's not gonna like it when she learns there are many non-white ethnic groups in Russia as well.
lol Shadi would fight the US gov to be able to enter Russia and then start complaining once there
Anthony! Run bro RUN!
This is a relationship ender and I LOVE IT! More chaos regarding relationships!
Anthony: “I want to respect you and what you’re comfortable with and I also need a little direction”
Shadi: “oh so you’re scared to make that move?”
Anthony: “yes”
Shadi: “well I’ve been waiting for you to make that move”
How about….. we communicate with our partners what we want from them 😱😱 like bro is not a psychic, he can’t just know everything you want him to do without communicating it ??
also that bit about her wanting to be dominated....he needs to know what her actual boundaries are in that context, he can't just assume. like how hard is it to just say what you want?
@@keys2467because then you are being dominated, you’re holding someone’s hand teaching them everything. That’s an ick. Like it’s the complete opposite of being dominated.
@@JessieP07 What if he does something she doesn't want and shuts down because of it? Doesn't she have a mouth to speak? She didn't even tell him she wanted to be dominated, that's not something all couples do and not at the same level, there are so many other types of domination. Speak and make yourself clear, people can't read minds.
THIS!!! if she doesnt wanna "hold his hand" then find someone else OR accept that there may be a time the domination goes too far and at that point it will be nobody elses fault but her own. DOmination looks very different to different people.
@@LIMERAGE
She’s just a classic toxic woman
These questions are spicy. I hope everyone goes home with their partners the same way they came in😭😭😭
They started out swinging. At least one of these couples definitely went home angry and arguing. 😂
definitely not shani and anthony 😆😆
nah, you already know Anthony and Shadi did not walk out the same way they walked in
@kehlanijohnson8870 I think most did but I'm hoping they at least stay together
@@dollz2200 they might survive 😭
I really loved this episode. Everyone was really vulnerable. Those are some difficult things to be honest about with your partner even more so when it's broadcast to the entire world. It's really refreshing to see more than the surface of what people think and feel and want from a relation.
this felt like an awkward group therapy session 😭
It was a hard watch fs
The girl commenting on his partners weight should also be aware that she has the same problem
She is the only one who has that problem....
She can still talk about it. They were both talking about their weight gain or past weight gain. Kinda the topic
Literally like she’s bigger than him😭
I think he's been complaining about weight gain whereas she's comfortable with her body. I think she meant " well do it then"
She admitted that they have both gained relationship weight but he vocalizes his insecurities about it . She’s comfortable with herself. So the issue is the insecurity not his actual weight … there was nothing hypocritical about what she said … she’s just not likable so there’s an issue with everything she says
Chun and Vernice I relate to you about parents approving. My parents don't approve and his parents are chill with me and invite me places. It's been two years and it sucks, but I hope things begin to work out.
Chun don’t know how lucky he is
Chun and Vernice are couple goals! I love their connection, communication and honest support for each other
Shadi is lowkey delusional. Living off the grid like she wants does not suit with her personality at all.
Anyone and everyone can live off the grid and do their own thing 💀. What does personality have to do with anything
@@tnago916 because she thinks it's all la di da fantasy away from government when it really isn't. Living off the grid takes a lot of adjusting to, and especially in a forest??
She said that like she aint 25 lbs overweight with zero survival skkills@@casmithh
exactly, living in a forest isn't the same as being against the government
@@casmithh Exactly. And living like that requires some form of inner peace. And from what I’ve seen in this vid, she is has way too many demons inside to work through.
@9:08 " I don't find joy". Same. Same. They should try playing a sport together!
5:50 who gon tell her she’s the problem😂
I can easily see shadi cheating on Anthony.
It sounded like she cheated on his friend to get with him
@fresh_peche9366 is true, but if they cheated on a friend, they will also cheat on you.
@@tnago916 bro look at the video. Saying he needs to work out, implying he is not good enough in bed or adventurous
@@fresh_peche9366yeah peep how she quickly cut Anthony off when he was talking about how they met
Oh fuckin absolutely, she's not ready for a committed relationship right now, she wants novelty not security
this is so fun bc its extremely awkward please don't stop this series
😂😂😂😂😂
thanks for subtitles! amazing
This is so vulnerable omg
Shadi lives in denial. She rants about the government and sounds like a mad prepper yet she doesn’t realize that no other government would welcome her passive aggressive mentality.
thinking USA is the most democratic country
Not just that, but once she moves out of the us, her situation will not get better
@@CME-4575I’m just curious where this magical forest is where she can do whatever she wants. I don’t think she’s ready to lose all of the conviences of living in a first world country. Does she realize running water, plumbing, electricity, access to food etc. is much more difficult in many countries? Don’t take functioning governments for granted.
nah she has apoint
Apply some sub-par interpretation skills and you would understand that she was commenting on leadership styles, not whether she thinks less or more of people due to their race. She is more than entitled to criticize participative leadership due to diversity because it is absolutely true that it is slow and full of bureaucracy.
The moment Anthony walks away from his partner, his confidence will shine.
I don't think it will, if im being honest. He seems very weak and fragile. If he does somehow manage to get into another relationship after this one fails, he will be taken advantage of again. His only hope is to take a dose of reality and level up in all areas.
Kudos to yall for talking about this. Wouldnt be me. Dont like people all in my business but definitely all topics to be discussed within your relationship.
Need more of these omg
Vernice seems like such a positive person! Both Chun and Vernice express themselves so well even with difficult topics
I worry for Shadi and Anthony's relationship after this. I literally had to do a double take when they said she dated his best friend in highschool 🤣
Don’t worry. She’ll go into her woods somewhere and he’ll find a far more suitable partner.
@@Ceerads For about 3 hours till her iPhone battery runs out
Also when she said all the "diversity" was the problem...I was like "uh, oh! She may be a closeted racist/Karen"
She definitely did give off the sense of an overly paranoid white woman lol@@safiyahmurray3600
Yea sounds like she took him as rebound 😬
This format is revealing and exciting. The cadence of the answers, switching between each group and on to the next one is maximal content 🐐
Ezequiel I hope you gain that confidence!! I get you it's hard.
Btw your girlfriend seems amazing as well.
Chun and vernice are literally perfect
True
I love this couple, but Chun's family probably would like for Vernice to be more modest in her dressing. Although culture plays a big issue, I hate seeing women exposing themselves this way.
i dont think so
@@warreng5394 Good thing most women don't really care what traditionalist Asians think about what they wear.
@@warreng5394No one cares what you hate, she doesn’t even know you
The way Shadi brought up diversity and then said “…but” GIRLIE WHAT??? Also good luck living in the woods when mid life hits and you end up with aches pains and health issues. Lmao
Or when she menstruates….Methinks she hadn’t fully thought out this fantasy.
the lose weight question was too funny, those who said no were the ones who should've said yes
It looked like Vernice was about to cry when they discussed Chun's family not being accepting of her...
shadi n anthony definitely didn’t last after ts😭
Her bf is gay
@@rapdied2023 💀
@@rapdied2023for sure
@@rapdied2023You know this HOW?
@@rapdied2023shell probably leave him then. Cause diversity 😂
Chun and Vernice seemed to really fit like puzzle pieces and you can tell they have done a lot of work over the years. Both gorgeous as well
Alondra and Ezekiel are both so beautiful. But I don’t think they have the kind of compatibility to go the distance. I think Ezekiel puts her on too much of a pedestal. There’s a fine line between admiration and worship.
Jennie and Devon are adorable. They just remind me of like little Jack and Jill dolls.
I feel so bad for Anthony. Shadi seems like a difficult person to be with.
Agreed I feel bad for Anthony too
Imagine caring about the sanctity of life so much that you’d be okay with your adult partner dying to save a fetus 😅
we need more of this
I felt so seen when all the women nodded in agreement with Vernice about feeling uncomfortable going to the gym alone. I hate being perceived by men
I go to the gym almost every day. I'm from EU so I guess people are different here. There are many men and women in my gym that I go to, and trust me on this: most men, including myself, don't care about you. I just want to get my workout in and dip, I'm not perceiving anyone. I couldn't care less tbh
@@bobankefer828these girls out here act like all men are creeps. It’s so annoying… but then many of these same women show up to the gym wearing practically nothing. Not only are men gonna look at you when you do this, but everyone else too.. bc it’s a gym. High key, majority of men are there to work out. we ain’t studying you.
@@mrblackbondthey never said that.. they just said they dont feel comfortable going to the gym alone
Women never seem to assume other women may check them out too, which has always been an odd leap of logic to me. Make it make sense. Like an all women's gym wouldn't have the same potential issue ➡️ in any social and public space you may be seen and viewed as attractive.
But, most importantly, it behooves us all to humbly assume ➡️ no one GAF 🤷🏿♀️
@@NatashaVincent this ! 🫡💯
"the diversity is causing more and more problems" -Shadi
yikes
"Yikes" because? You don't think diversity introduces complexity? Maybe "problems" was a poor choice of words.
@@55CINCO55The way she said it in general was just not enough. “The diversity causes problems” just is a weird statement. She should say something like “sadly the fact we’re diverse here causes some social issues in this state and some intolerant people get riled up about it” or anything, whatever the hell her point was supposed to be. She was legit standing right by a bunch of racial minorities too as she‘s saying that.
Cringing hearing that. Americas openness to immigration has always been one of its biggest strengths. The risk takers, hard workers ping mentality that permeates throughout the country is from people coming here trying to make it. She really should leave and find a forest probably. American government is very hands off compared to a lot of other places around the world too so I’m not sure what she’s after.
@@55CINCO55 complexity isn't bad and doesn't cause problems lmao
@@Ray03595that and also she low-key sounds like she thinks everywhere outside the usa is a forest
this video is gold, there needs to be more
Ezequiel is fine. I hope he gets his confidence up!