Sarah was like, “I went through my child’s phone because the internet was new and we didn’t know the implications.” And in the same breath share that she was a mummyblogger and shared private details of her children’s lives? Mmkay.
It’s only excuses excuses excuses with that one, it’s clear Izzy can’t take up the space she needs, her mom seems like a full on narcissist. Aside from the content of what she said, she seemed performative and not authentic EVERY step of the way. Like there was no real moment with her at all.
And the way the mother was like “I needed an outlet” - well you don’t need to bring your child into this when it’s in a public space. Your daughter probably needed an outlet too but you didn’t even let that happen. Also I don’t understand why she doesn’t edit to remove the name or private the blog now
The mother justifies herself by saying that she called her daughter a b** because she was expressing a “younger sister view”, which is just terrible gaslighting. All she did was project her childhood grievances onto her daughter and this unhealthy relationship, and it’s a pity that even at such an adult age she did not understand this.
She said it was a click bait-y title. In her defense, it's an incredibly engaging title that probably did very well as an article. She's not projecting her childhood grievances, she's offering her view on a sibling relationship.
@darrylransier7231 nah she said she felt for the younger sister bc the mother herself is a younger sister, blatantly admitting to resenting her daughter for stuff HER sister did to her AGES ago is horrible behavior towards her daughter and to publicize it with such vulgarity is humiliating to the daughter.
because partnership and parenthood are different features entirely . i love my eldest child and i hated her mother long after we've separated ( feeling was 100% mutual ) . and er.. we fought a lot ( not just with words ). it is nice to be picture perfect on both fronts but reality is different for some of us.
@@PHlophe Partnership and parenthood go hand in hand, especially in terms of the environment you are fostering for your child. This environment can set them up to either fail or prosper. Disagreement among partners is normal and fine, but fighting (not just with words) is not. Reality is objective, not relative-in every partnership, it is wrong to be abusive.
The risk of her chosing a partner for herself like her father was to her mother is a great risk. Thats why i agree with you you cant possible see them individually especially if its something she even experienced! Would it be a "only" story of the experience it could have been different(i personally even dont understand it than)
@@jada39748 They do not. That’s why so many marriages fail after having a child. You can be an amazing partner and a horrible parent, a horrible partner and a wonderful parent, horrible for both, or great for both. As a child of divorce, not every couple is meant for children, and not every child is meant for parents who are married.
She was so quick to admit and didn’t even try to play it down! That surprised me. Definitely an invasion of privacy. I think it’s pretty standard for parents to check on on their kids phones occasionally until a certain point, but monitoring every text, photo, web search, etc, is so intense.
@@Al-gg4mmimo she def doesn’t regret what she did bc if i were her and i was that horrible of a mum, i would be humiliated to even think of coming online showing my face and saying yes i was such a horrible mother. shame on her honestly for still trying to justify her horrible actions.
she was pretty obviously ashamed of her actions, they had obviously discussed the issue and come to some forgiveness. I hope you offer the same sort of grace to your own mother, who has surely made mistakes in her parenting of you, as Izzy did to her mother.
My speculation is that when she says "he's a great dad but a terrible husband" is code for "he's a great manipulator who has convinced my daughter he's a great dad and I'm too scared to rock the boat".
Coming from a dynamic where my father is this way its very complex. The dad and the husband are two different entities. & while they do overlap eliminating the existence of a parent in your life is hard. Especially when they have changed and are working on being a better version of themself. If we cut off our parents for every mistake many of us would not have any interaction with them at all. It hurts us and of course you want to stand in solidarity with your mother and there is resentment that is built when you may learn the things that she went through as a woman. It’s soul crushing but it also would have been soul crushing to be a little girl growing up without a father who showed up for her. It’s hard and I’m still processing the forgiveness for him and mourning the young woman for her. & I’m almost 30
Agreed. I think beating your child's mother disqualifies you from the "Amazing Father" description. I understand mental health was a part of it, so maybe there's been some healing and forgiveness and all that now that the issues been addressed. But still.. I don't know if I could get past that.
My dad use to beat my mom but now he has stop but still yell at her when he get angry, he use beat me and my siblings often but I have moved out I remember one time my younger brother stole money he beat him till blood coming of of his head but still my mom is with him, I feel like she's scared about what other family members and friends would say
I would really wish someone as therapist would come there and explain to the moms why invading privacy is such a harmful thing to do and the way it affects their trust in the future, and also to validate daughter's feelings. 😢
@@crystaldufour4719so your telling me that you would be ok with your parents checking ur phone everyday just because u have nothing to hide???Everybody deserves privacy
The story about the mom writing a story about her daughter and calling her the b word made me so emotional. The mom should be ashamed of herself and its nothing to laugh about. I'm so glad the other mom asked if her daughter was okay.
You can see exactly what kind of parent that mom is. She used her daughter for content and quick clicks and her daughter has to live with forever having that piece follow her. In job searches, relationships, if she has kids. The girl was nervously looking around the room when she shared it and that whole display of a hug… I hope the daughter can heal and find peace
AND it infuriates me that the daughter is literally forced to emotionally soothe HER, and she still can’t say sorry or take accountability. It was all ‘maybe I shouldn’t have BUT’ 🙄
Totally get ur side but I will admit that her reasoning for writing the article was to show the sides of motherhood and many mothers feel this way at times. Not saying it’s ok to call your daughter a b but she should be able to write her experiences.
@@Hoochiemamaxoshe literally says sorry and hugs her and said it haunts her. You are either so chronically online or have your own issues your pushing onto these people if 10 minutes of scree time makes you think you know this entire relationship. You clearly have issues
@@Hoochiemamaxo did u even watch the video? ur so chronically online go outside and touch grass. the mom literally apologized to her daughter and hugs her , the daughter clearly loves her mom and said dont worry about it. stop pushing ur issues onto other people.
The first mom who admitted to putting spyware on all of her kids' devices is out of control. You're looking at her images, texts and browsing history?! That's a massive no no! If I was her daughter I'd want to get out of her household asap. That's too far. Update: Just heard the part when Artista explains that her kids' father beat her so bad that she was almost UNALIVED and the daughter says he's her best friend...each to their own ig but there's no way I could refer to someone who did that as my "bestie".
My mom did this many times to me and she never did so to my brother. Her idea was that she didn't need to control him, only me cuz girls are "naive" and "need to be controlled and kept pure"
@@tramarthomas6105 probably means some of their conversation got heated or revealed things they didnt want aired in the ep. happens more often than youd think
@@mirayoon1992the daughter acts like a psychopath that believes her mom should’ve gone through the abuse just to enable them to be able to afford more expensive, designer clothing. Did you even listen to her talk? Did you even pay attention to how she reacted to her moms recounting of events? Ffs…
How does your dad beat your mom and you're still "besties"?!?!?! I could neverrr and I will never. Whoever lays a finger on my mother is absolutely dead to me forever.
I rewatched that part now and it sounds like forgiveness there after they learned that the dad has schizophrenia... even though it's not easy to forgive someone who is abusive 😬
Dude the fact that she didn't take it down after she felt "bad about it" is really not cool. I also think the fact that she used the "mommy blogging" as an "outlet" to make money online and her kid has been clear it's harmful to them that people can still see it, is just really the definition of exploitation
lmao every argument with my mom ends with me saying "you're so dismissive" and her saying "no i'm not".... and then me saying "THAT response was dismissive" ....
I think they were joking about the job thing. Also she mentioned in the comments that she did take it down, but other places (like the LA times) wrote about it so she can't take it down from those places.
the mother-daughter dynamic is so sacred yet can be so toxic. especially when a mother is envious of her daughter, usually in regards to beauty, opportunity, or her father’s unconditional love.
notice how that mom also her body language was facing away from the other mothers aswell, and how the mother and daughter felt safe enough to talk about problem, but the other mothers and daughters didn’t feel safe enough to do that
You can see through Sarah. The run up to her daughter was so performative. And the article’s still up… Who would write something like that regardless of clickbait?🤦♀️
This happened 15 years ago .allot of stuff was different back than. It's messed up but she isnt that person anymore .like what did you do 15 years ago ? What if people still judged you based on who you were back than? Like come on lol
@@maddiemaryanne426 Even in the video you can see that her mom still seems unruly. She definitely hasn't changed and she should be criticized rightfully so for making that article. Trying to embarrass or humiliate your daughter online even if it was long ago is pathetic, even more so since it hasn't been taken down.
@@gloriazduran2556 she doesn't have the rights too take it down .see you dont even know what's going on .youre walking blind with hatred 😅 grow up. An the story didnt even seem bad if you fully listened. Its a bad mistake .you can recognize it was wrong an also be mature enough too see people grow an change an you dont get to decide that off one video of a whole person like youre weird
The mum that called her daughter a b!tch online is actually insane the fact that her daughter will have to live with that online for the rest of her life is horrible in my opinion I think that is such a arrogant and irresponsible thing to do as a mother to ur own child……
My problem with it was how she chose to respond to her daughter about it. It was very invalidating and a "well it was a past mistake so it doesn't matter" type of angle. Yes mistakes happen, but you never learn from them when you don't take accountability. She never (truly) apologized for the way that affected her life. You can literally hear the loathing behind the "I'm sorry😒"
The first girl afraid of writing in her journal due to some one reading it, I found out my step father had cameras in all our rooms and a bug on our phones and would listen and watch, I will never be the same, I feel like someone is listening or watching me all the time, like I don't have the ability to be myself even by myself because of this. You need to heal this part of you before it gets out of control. I've been working for years.
Hopefully he isn't in your family's life anymore. That feels so much more intrusive, that it might also be illegal, depending on how much he's watching. Did he see you changing? There's a law based on a girl whose stepfather was spying on her changing in her room through her webcam years ago. I believe he got arrested after they made the law.
@girlofanimation yes I saw this too, I know they were in our rooms and I always thought other places, there is no way too know, my mom told me and my sister, but know way to prove it now, I've been out of that house since 15 I'm 32 now, Thank you though I appreciate your words. Unfortunately he is in my life he is my little sisters father but I distance myself from him as much as possible.
"My daughter is a b-tch, and it's not my fault." WT actual F. Who would say that about their child?? Jeez. I don't care if it's clickbate. It is totally NORMAL for older siblings to be annoyed with younger siblings. Poor kid. What mom would put that out there.... It's wrong on many levels.
The privacy prompt triggered me because my mom always tells me that I'll only have it when I'm in my own home. I'm 19 and moving out for college for that reason.
Well then your mom doesn't seem to know about children's rights (not to mention that you're not even a child anymore) I hope your move will be everything you hope for ❤
see, and that's why i like the black mom's approach (granted she is raree) she tried to teach her daughter the lesson but didn't go too far in invading her privacy
Notice how the one mom only thinks about her own feelings. *I* was going through a lot when you needed physical therapy. *I* needed this (public and permanent) outlet to talk about *my* experiences. *I* felt bad about calling you a b1tch. It hurt *me.* Not even mentioning that title.
I'm not trying to excuse her actions but 15 years ago it didn't feel permanent at all and also it was way harder to find anything on the internet. Like nowadays we KNOW. Back then people put anything online without hesitation. It felt more like a diary nobody you know will ever seen lol
Ok but the way the mom that wrote the article switched things to where the daughter was the one hugging and telling her it was ok at the end? Dude what
i relate a lot to izzy’s relationship with her mom. izzy is so strong for forgiving her mom and still trying to have a relationship with her even after those invasions of privacy. her mom is definitely projecting her youngest sibling trauma and i wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t processed that still
@@DGen7if thats how u do it its fine, personally as someone whose phone has never been looked through.. i would do things like age restrictions for apps, teach them toxic or bad friends ane dealing with it, stranger danger and teach them how to deal with certain things in life. Its always great to give a safe space and privacy for them
@@rose-gl4io Yeah, that's how the internet works. Many people regret the things they've put on the internet. Also, the internet and blogging were new when her mom did that. Also, it's just me, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Maybe it's my sense of humour, but it wouldn't be a big deal if my mom did that. The article is also pretty hidden, it doesn't even show up unless you dig for it. So, yeah it's in the past and we are in the present.
The mom who called her daughter a b**** online seems hella toxic. She's continually downplaying her behavior, making excuses and the daughter seems like she's drinking the tea. I hope that the daughter has the energy to unpack that and find closure because it clearly still bothers her despite her saying it doesn't.
they think that resentment and discomfort their child feels will dissipate overtime, + they think they own their children so they deserve no privacy, its gross
Because no one should have access to every move you make in your own life. That's called being controlling or living vicariously through your child. Your children are your their own people. Constantly monitoring them is dictator like and makes them appreciate you less as a person because they don't even act like they trust you or care about your own rights. This is coming from someone who has parental monitoring on everything. No child should only have the bathroom or shower as a source of privacy.
I had to pause when she said "black people never think about owning people. That's my baby." powerful! Wish I could share an experience like this with my mom
Listening to lizzy not liking her mother blogging about her as a child bc now that info is out there for literally EVERYONE to see & she couldn’t consent to it bc she was a CHILD- no wonder many influencers are deciding to not show their children online!! Privacy is a key part in allowing children to grow up safely
@@MissingYouser being a growing teenager and child? a parent that does that is cutting their child off from needed social interaction that other children are getting. its creepy, and itll only lead to the child abandoning their parent eventually, not to mention how parent/child relationships like that paints their future relationships. very gross
@@tramarthomas6105 Those parents are probably trying to only cut their child off from the bad social interaction which is extremely common. A large amount of school children are either bullies, sexually irresponsible, mentally unstable, substance abusers, or just inappropriate in general. All of those kinds of people want friends and they may be friendly to your child while also getting them wrapped up into bad stuff.
Just from watching the video, she's obviously been through a lot and who knows what else she's been through that we haven't seen in the video. It's likely she's lived through several traumatic experiences and is doing what she thinks will help prevent her kids from similar experiences. I don't think it's her trying to be controlling, but a trauma response she likely needs to work through. Just an assumption and obviously not a justification. Hopefully one day they can all get support and heal.
@@tramarthomas6105 almost being beat to death and having to still have somewhat of a relationship with that person because he's the father of your children (and evidently your daughter's bestie) is pretty damn traumatic... i'd say that's a fair impression given that story alone
@@sarahgonzalez01 I like that these are the types of comments you find on Jubilee videos. A lot of reflexive stuff, yes, but compassionate and understanding comments like this too.
Whew, when that daughter who called her dad “bestie” really sits back and thinks about what she saw her mother go through… Lord have mercy. At least she has her mother to help her through.
the mom in the green dress with her onyx colored hair inspires me, i hope i look like that when i am older. she has such an elegant, cool and caring vibe!
poor Izzy was socialized by her mom to accept that things that happen to her are her fault. she was accepting apologies that were never given to her. this will affect her for the rest of her life, and in all her relationships, romantic, friendship, even work relationships. and Sarah DOES NOT CARE about the lasting damage she’s done. Izzy you deserve love. the things that happened to you were not your fault and it is OK to stand up for yourself and insist on boundaries. I’m so sorry.
i feel really bad for izzy, i think that article situation is really crazy and she seems super sweet so she probably doesn’t want to not have a relationship with her mom
As asian American, that would be hard for me with mom since mom scoffed at some of my decisions. I sense my mom doesn't want to get in trouble with my therapist while my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult 😓
@@AlignWithJesus but therapy is an outlet, everybody needs an outlet + it’s a great way to receive diff perspectives/tools!!!! self awareness + critical thinking is so important
Bro. The mom that wrote that article about her daughter didn't really stick well with me. Like yeah, that past is in the past, but it's STILL going to be there and be on the Internet. Not to mention, it will stay with her daughter, Izzy, for a long time. It will be that one thing that's in the back of her mind. How would **you** feel if your mother wrote an article about you, titled, "My daughter's a b***h"?
yeah, makes me so sad the mothers think they have to 'protect' their children from the truth of their dad's so they still have a relationship with him, those dad's deserve nothing
After listening to the abuse Artista experienced with her husband tbh it makes sense she went into control over drive with her kids. Not healthy or okay, but it makes sense.
Me screaming no when Irene asked if she should talk to her child about her divorce. Like as someone who has gone through my parents divorcing when I was an adult, I wish more than anything that they would leave me out of it. Of course there’s levels to honesty, but keep that between you and your friends. The stress it puts on your child sucks
I would have appreciated some discussion when my parents decided to divorce. My parents basically spoke to us for 3 minutes: "We're getting divorced. Don't be upset, this has nothing to do with you. Stop crying. Go to your room."
The mom seeking consolation from her daughter after silently being ridiculed by the room after saying she wrote that article, is sickening behavior. You should not be consoled after feeling the tension in the room after admitting you wrote that about your 9 y/o daughter
I really hope izzy is like an adult and living in a different home or sum.. or else the car ride would be so akward and i can tell by izzys mom's strares (personal expirience) after she talked about certain things she was NOT HAPPY
@@HenriCobbsshe is weird who calls there own child a B1CH ?!!?? How does that even cross one’s minds oml the way she justified it like listen to the ‘context’ and she proved NOTHING all that gaslighting is really nasty. All this time she was finding excuses every sentence like those aren’t your 9yo fault tf
My mom had no boundaries. Went through diaries. Put hidden recording devices around the house, went through my phone that I bought, while I was working full time, buying my own groceries and school supplies then used photos I had as blackmail. Now she knows nothing of my life as she is not in it.
Wow. Shame shame shame on you for having first thoughts like that. Yes that happens for no reason, parents (a lot of them) are and can be toxic af. Speaking from experience. So do your reaserach first bud. @@ChaseBurns-kc7xg
@@Al-gg4mm You've replied to a large proportion of the comments under this video and all you comments are about Sarah. I'm fully convinced that you are Sarah at this point tbh. You're outing yourself.
Jubilee, please thoroughly review any sponsorships you take. Better Help has been known to be incredibly harmful and toxic!! Edit: y’all please stop fighting in the replies 😭
The mother in green just keeps talking about herself and her perspective and how she felt. Meanwhile completely ignoring how her actions have affected her daughter. Disgusting behaviour and absolutely no laughing matter. She should be ashamed of herself as a person and a parent. Show your child some respect and love smh
Jubilee, I am kindy requesting a "extended/unseen scenes" portion of this vid. There are some answers that I would love to hear that were not included.
the fact that artista didn't talk poorly about her ex husband toward her kids is sooooo mature and important. so many parents who split up act so negatively and toxic toward one another, and it shows a lot of strength to go through a bad relationship and not put it on your kids. MAD RESPECT for her.
Yep, she's extremely manipulative and disgusting, she goes in for the hug as a get out of jail free card pretending to be emotional about the situation, when her eyes don't have a single ounce of regret. Just social acceptance pr.@@j_me
@@Al-gg4mmAre you Sarah?? Because you’re commenting under every person complimenting Sonya like a jealous Karen. Sonya looked a trillion times better than Sarah plus she’s a way better mother. She’s also not youthful at all so stop lying. Weirdo.
Izzy - the answer to your mom's passive aggressive bull$#!t question of "how often?".... is "too often". Sarah is going to have to do some serious digging out for me to have any respect for her and I'm only 7m in. Dude... you need to set boundaries.
Would not go well for so many 😅 Daughter-in-laws don’t have to have the filters that the sons do. They’ve also heard the deep side of childhood from those husbands.
@@Charlottefwyou I mean what were your thoughts on how she seems? Also I don’t know why she wanted me to compliment her style but any thoughts on that too?
@@Charlottefwyou yeah but she told me that those jeans were designer jeans, and same goes for her top but then again I don’t really know, people were out to call her on that and say they were mom jeans 😂
Why are you so obsessed with her. You give me weird vibes. Commenting on lots of comments talking her up and putting the others down at the same time @@Al-gg4mm
I relate alot to Taia and Artista. I also grew up in a home where domestic abuse was happening and we had to leave home alot, but my mom really wanted us to have a two parent home. My dad eventually got disgnosed with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and ptsd and once he got the help he needed it did get a lot better and they’re both amazing parents to this day. ❤
That's amazing 💜 so glad your dad was able to get help too. Noone deserves to suffer abuse from someone they love. But we were young and he had an undiagnosed mental illness and was overlooked by healthcare professionals. Sad that people who just need help, often go so long before receiving diagnosis's that can explain and get much needed treatment. Taia's Dad is so much better on his medication and I'm grateful he got the help he needed so he could be there for the kids when they were older.
Lowkey I can respect Sonya for wanting to remain true to her beliefs while also wanting to embrace her daughter heather even when the things heather does may go against it
@@heyspeckle8782she’s clearly not homophobic, there’s no hate, it’s okay to believe that love is between men and women if you don’t mistreat other for your believes
As someone from the same generation as these girls and who had a mom who invaded my privacy, now that I’m older and I’m thinking about having my own kids and thinking about all the scary things that have happened to me on the internet and just with my cell phone, I don’t blame my mom as much anymore. And I will probably have a level of monitoring on my own children, because you can teach your child over and over stranger danger but just like the girl in this video curiosity got the best of her and she was going to meet a random stranger. If anyone sits here and thinks “my child would never do that” you are wrong. Children have to have the privacy invaded to a certain level to ensure their safety.
When I was underage I had someone say they will come get me and help me etc when I wasn’t getting along with my family. They kept pressuring me and manipulated me into it , I don’t blame parents who don’t give children privacy
Yes I grew up with online chats in middle school and cell phones in high school. Now I am a parent and I read everything my preteen does online. Everything. I knew too many kids my age whose parents were completely clueless what they were doing online.
I wasn't allowed to have social media as a kid without my parents, also being able to access it whenever. It was told to me that they could check it. I do not think it's unreasonable for parents to check that and to monitor their child's exposure to things online. I do think it's unreasonable to put spyware on your families items. That's wild.
Having an open and honest dialogue about doing this is totally fine, then the child knows that's what you intend to do. Doing it behind their back is a whole other story and breaks that trust between parent and child
@@emilychiasson5290I feel being open about it and telling them they will look through it from time to time will also help the children make conscious decisions about what they want to do on the Internet.
As korean American, it would be hard for me as well. When I told mom that my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult, she scoffed.. ☹️ my parents have dementia
I skip Jubilee ads and sponsors until they actually address their bad behavior and apologize with actionable steps going forward to establish what expectations are for their staff. Love you, mean it.
@Random_Being1 there's a lot going on behind the scenes that they never address like attacking black creators (Aba and Preach) then trying to strike their channel down with false copyright claims on the same exact content Jubilee will celebrate and encourage from white creators. They've never given Thoraya credit for her video formats and they've never invited her on to host. The people they promote and work with are no different from the people they're ignoring or attacking except for their race. Even when it comes to followers Jubilee works with smaller and bigger creators BUT only white and Asian. They've worked with PewDiePie, Cody Ko, Nut, and Gen on things they've attacked Aba and Preach for while copying Thorayas secrets series with no credit or even allowing her to host an episode.
@@Al-gg4mmdidn’t seem genuine the way she kept trying to justify her actions of exploiting her own child for some mere clicks. Crazy. Izzy apologized more than that thing did it’s really saddening I hope Izzy gets better it seems like she’s used to the gastlighting she got that extremely apologetic mannerism that what that thing should be doing not her.
As someone who lost their mom 3 years ago at 23 I really needed to hear a lot of what these moms said. People always agree the obvious and the emotional connection that their child is their mom’s baby, but my mom was my baby. She was my best friend and was forever in my corner. These girls were great
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bangers with 98% of the conversations spliced out
@@sadafmo7363 That's very nice of them to give it for free. Soldiers suffer some of the most traumatic experiences known to mankind.
@@sadafmo7363yeah they’re overall a shitty company and so is jubilee
Sarah was like, “I went through my child’s phone because the internet was new and we didn’t know the implications.” And in the same breath share that she was a mummyblogger and shared private details of her children’s lives? Mmkay.
It’s only excuses excuses excuses with that one, it’s clear Izzy can’t take up the space she needs, her mom seems like a full on narcissist. Aside from the content of what she said, she seemed performative and not authentic EVERY step of the way. Like there was no real moment with her at all.
what private details?? It was one story
there’s no reason why her daughters name needed to be included
@@ashercortes9794 Agreed!
And the way the mother was like “I needed an outlet” - well you don’t need to bring your child into this when it’s in a public space. Your daughter probably needed an outlet too but you didn’t even let that happen.
Also I don’t understand why she doesn’t edit to remove the name or private the blog now
The mother justifies herself by saying that she called her daughter a b** because she was expressing a “younger sister view”, which is just terrible gaslighting. All she did was project her childhood grievances onto her daughter and this unhealthy relationship, and it’s a pity that even at such an adult age she did not understand this.
seriously and this is why i hate anything for views parenting do to kids. and then when the kid is emotionally estranged, you blame the kids.
She said it was a click bait-y title. In her defense, it's an incredibly engaging title that probably did very well as an article. She's not projecting her childhood grievances, she's offering her view on a sibling relationship.
@darrylransier7231 nah she said she felt for the younger sister bc the mother herself is a younger sister, blatantly admitting to resenting her daughter for stuff HER sister did to her AGES ago is horrible behavior towards her daughter and to publicize it with such vulgarity is humiliating to the daughter.
You’re too soft
Do you have multiple kids?
I don’t understand how someone can be both a really bad partner and an amazing parent. If you’re beating your partner, you’ve failed as a parent.
because partnership and parenthood are different features entirely . i love my eldest child and i hated her mother long after we've separated ( feeling was 100% mutual ) . and er.. we fought a lot ( not just with words ).
it is nice to be picture perfect on both fronts but reality is different for some of us.
@@PHlophe Partnership and parenthood go hand in hand, especially in terms of the environment you are fostering for your child. This environment can set them up to either fail or prosper. Disagreement among partners is normal and fine, but fighting (not just with words) is not. Reality is objective, not relative-in every partnership, it is wrong to be abusive.
The risk of her chosing a partner for herself like her father was to her mother is a great risk. Thats why i agree with you you cant possible see them individually especially if its something she even experienced! Would it be a "only" story of the experience it could have been different(i personally even dont understand it than)
Exactly …
@@jada39748 They do not. That’s why so many marriages fail after having a child. You can be an amazing partner and a horrible parent, a horrible partner and a wonderful parent, horrible for both, or great for both. As a child of divorce, not every couple is meant for children, and not every child is meant for parents who are married.
they skipped over the part where the mom says she has extreme privacy blockers on her childrens devices way too quickly
She was so quick to admit and didn’t even try to play it down! That surprised me. Definitely an invasion of privacy. I think it’s pretty standard for parents to check on on their kids phones occasionally until a certain point, but monitoring every text, photo, web search, etc, is so intense.
It's no big deal.
@@denarendall No it isn't intense.
@@ArranVidwe found the mom in here
The internet is full of content that children should not see. As a girl growing up with unmonitored internet access I can say that with confidence.
Izzy’s mom justifies every wrong parental decision she makes. Omg I couldn’t imagine having her as a mom.
She seems like a caring mother and she regrets what she did, she’s the best one there and the most stylish
@@Al-gg4mmimo she def doesn’t regret what she did bc if i were her and i was that horrible of a mum, i would be humiliated to even think of coming online showing my face and saying yes i was such a horrible mother. shame on her honestly for still trying to justify her horrible actions.
@@Al-gg4mmYou couldn’t pay me millions to believe this wasn’t written by herself.
@@Al-gg4mmshe’s smiling and laughing talking about how much she hurt her own daughter
she was pretty obviously ashamed of her actions, they had obviously discussed the issue and come to some forgiveness. I hope you offer the same sort of grace to your own mother, who has surely made mistakes in her parenting of you, as Izzy did to her mother.
Daughter: she called me a btch
Mom: context matters
Proceeds to explain the context that didnt change anyones perspective
😂😂
She was probably the best mom there and most stylish
@@Al-gg4mmahahaha you are her, aren’t you? 😂
@@inescatarina6337 hjahahahahahah
And how she tried ro hug her daughter at the end . Like you can see how she's uncomfortable with hugging her mom
She just tried to justify....
Hearing that mom say she put privacy blockers on all her kids computers, phones, everything is absolutely CRAZY!! She has serious control issues.
Trying to save her from online creeps
Welp
Yeah it sounds crazy until the FBI shows up at your door because someone is trying to sex traffick your daughter online.
yeah it's a bit much ☹️
@@Digital_muse and it's not easy to make friends or connecting with friends
Calling an abuser ‘bestie’ and ‘the best dad’ is WILD. That poor mother
My speculation is that when she says "he's a great dad but a terrible husband" is code for "he's a great manipulator who has convinced my daughter he's a great dad and I'm too scared to rock the boat".
@@FROOB202or maybe it means he’s a great dad and a horrible husband
@@jesusornothing3231or both
Coming from a dynamic where my father is this way its very complex. The dad and the husband are two different entities. & while they do overlap eliminating the existence of a parent in your life is hard. Especially when they have changed and are working on being a better version of themself. If we cut off our parents for every mistake many of us would not have any interaction with them at all. It hurts us and of course you want to stand in solidarity with your mother and there is resentment that is built when you may learn the things that she went through as a woman. It’s soul crushing but it also would have been soul crushing to be a little girl growing up without a father who showed up for her. It’s hard and I’m still processing the forgiveness for him and mourning the young woman for her. & I’m almost 30
@@Zbandsz weirdo
I couldn’t imagine calling my dad “bestie” knowing that he almost beat my mom to death.
Agreed. I think beating your child's mother disqualifies you from the "Amazing Father" description. I understand mental health was a part of it, so maybe there's been some healing and forgiveness and all that now that the issues been addressed. But still.. I don't know if I could get past that.
Truly disturbing
I is truly traumatising. The fact she had to call 911 yet she still thinks of him as a close person. Nothing could make me forgive that.
My dad use to beat my mom but now he has stop but still yell at her when he get angry, he use beat me and my siblings often but I have moved out I remember one time my younger brother stole money he beat him till blood coming of of his head but still my mom is with him, I feel like she's scared about what other family members and friends would say
They admitted that he got diagnosed with schizophrenia. Chances are he didn't know he had it during the events they mentioned.
I would really wish someone as therapist would come there and explain to the moms why invading privacy is such a harmful thing to do and the way it affects their trust in the future, and also to validate daughter's feelings. 😢
Agreed!
1000 percent agreed!! but they need release of information first if therapists involve
If your mad about invading privacy it’s because they are doing stuff they shouldn’t
@@crystaldufour4719so your telling me that you would be ok with your parents checking ur phone everyday just because u have nothing to hide???Everybody deserves privacy
@@Bree0n3yes because as a child you don’t have half the info you do as an adult. So yes as many blockers as possible.
The story about the mom writing a story about her daughter and calling her the b word made me so emotional. The mom should be ashamed of herself and its nothing to laugh about. I'm so glad the other mom asked if her daughter was okay.
You can see exactly what kind of parent that mom is. She used her daughter for content and quick clicks and her daughter has to live with forever having that piece follow her. In job searches, relationships, if she has kids. The girl was nervously looking around the room when she shared it and that whole display of a hug… I hope the daughter can heal and find peace
AND it infuriates me that the daughter is literally forced to emotionally soothe HER, and she still can’t say sorry or take accountability. It was all ‘maybe I shouldn’t have BUT’ 🙄
Totally get ur side but I will admit that her reasoning for writing the article was to show the sides of motherhood and many mothers feel this way at times. Not saying it’s ok to call your daughter a b but she should be able to write her experiences.
@@Hoochiemamaxoshe literally says sorry and hugs her and said it haunts her. You are either so chronically online or have your own issues your pushing onto these people if 10 minutes of scree time makes you think you know this entire relationship. You clearly have issues
@@Hoochiemamaxo did u even watch the video? ur so chronically online go outside and touch grass. the mom literally apologized to her daughter and hugs her , the daughter clearly loves her mom and said dont worry about it. stop pushing ur issues onto other people.
Nah you’ve gotta appreciate the host’s ability to manage the situations even when they get really awkward😭 Takahashi my goat 🐐
And he cute too
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@@Aubrey2004-j4k.
@@Astroduck44 🤓
@@Aubrey2004-j4k 👴🏻
The first mom who admitted to putting spyware on all of her kids' devices is out of control. You're looking at her images, texts and browsing history?! That's a massive no no! If I was her daughter I'd want to get out of her household asap. That's too far.
Update: Just heard the part when Artista explains that her kids' father beat her so bad that she was almost UNALIVED and the daughter says he's her best friend...each to their own ig but there's no way I could refer to someone who did that as my "bestie".
and I also feel sorry for the daughter that it's not easy for her to connect with friends in phone and social media account way😥
My mom did this many times to me and she never did so to my brother. Her idea was that she didn't need to control him, only me cuz girls are "naive" and "need to be controlled and kept pure"
monster parent behavior, but also Jubilee barely gave them any screen time, I wish we could have heard more from them.
@@tramarthomas6105 probably means some of their conversation got heated or revealed things they didnt want aired in the ep. happens more often than youd think
@@mirayoon1992the daughter acts like a psychopath that believes her mom should’ve gone through the abuse just to enable them to be able to afford more expensive, designer clothing. Did you even listen to her talk? Did you even pay attention to how she reacted to her moms recounting of events? Ffs…
How does your dad beat your mom and you're still "besties"?!?!?! I could neverrr and I will never. Whoever lays a finger on my mother is absolutely dead to me forever.
The love you have for a parent can be crazy sometimes
THANK YOU!!! I was waiting for someone to speak on it.
I once experienced this as a child> my childhood trauma
I don't trust my dad after that even though he apologized
ikr i cant also.
I rewatched that part now and it sounds like forgiveness there after they learned that the dad has schizophrenia... even though it's not easy to forgive someone who is abusive 😬
WOW - the mom that called her daughter a b1tch online for people to see is absolutely awful. It's still online with her real name.
Yeah seriously
where
@@Nateaue 8:45
yeah even as clickbait that's effed to exploit ur children that way....
Dude the fact that she didn't take it down after she felt "bad about it" is really not cool. I also think the fact that she used the "mommy blogging" as an "outlet" to make money online and her kid has been clear it's harmful to them that people can still see it, is just really the definition of exploitation
I feel like if I would do this with my mom we would argue and cry
real
same
lmao every argument with my mom ends with me saying "you're so dismissive" and her saying "no i'm not".... and then me saying "THAT response was dismissive" ....
My mom would walk off 😂
Same🥲🥲🥲
Can’t that mom just take down or private the blog post? If it’s even effecting her daughter get jobs because she used her real name, that’s not okay!
She mentioned she worked for the LA times so i dont believe she owns the story anymore, so most likely doesnt have the rights to take it down
I think they were joking about the job thing. Also she mentioned in the comments that she did take it down, but other places (like the LA times) wrote about it so she can't take it down from those places.
@@apple-qx4qi Oh thank you so much for explaining!
@@apple-qx4qiactually it's not a joke, but more like "how if ..."
It's definitely not easy to find. I searched the title but nothing pops up related to this family. It's probably not as big of an article anymore
the mother-daughter dynamic is so sacred yet can be so toxic. especially when a mother is envious of her daughter, usually in regards to beauty, opportunity, or her father’s unconditional love.
true 🥺
Unfortunately this is so accurate
It is SO crazy that this is actually more common than other ppl realize
Imagine your mom being jealous of 3 out of 5 of her daughters 🤦🏾♀️
Look up “narcissistic mothers” it’s a whole phenomenon. Probably one of the most toxic mothering types.
the last mom and daughter (the ones closest to the camera) have such a sweet relationship, it makes me so happy for them. :) !!
Who Sarah? She’s the best plus she’s got a great style
@@Al-gg4mmRachel and irene
notice how that mom also her body language was facing away from the other mothers aswell, and how the mother and daughter felt safe enough to talk about problem, but the other mothers and daughters didn’t feel safe enough to do that
Their relationship reminds me of mine and my daughter’s relationship.
@@Al-gg4mmbro who tf are u u keep bringing her up and her style 😭
You can see through Sarah. The run up to her daughter was so performative. And the article’s still up… Who would write something like that regardless of clickbait?🤦♀️
What’s the articles link?
This happened 15 years ago .allot of stuff was different back than. It's messed up but she isnt that person anymore .like what did you do 15 years ago ? What if people still judged you based on who you were back than? Like come on lol
@@maddiemaryanne426 Even in the video you can see that her mom still seems unruly. She definitely hasn't changed and she should be criticized rightfully so for making that article. Trying to embarrass or humiliate your daughter online even if it was long ago is pathetic, even more so since it hasn't been taken down.
@@gloriazduran2556 she doesn't have the rights too take it down .see you dont even know what's going on .youre walking blind with hatred 😅 grow up. An the story didnt even seem bad if you fully listened. Its a bad mistake .you can recognize it was wrong an also be mature enough too see people grow an change an you dont get to decide that off one video of a whole person like youre weird
another body language expert
The mum that called her daughter a b!tch online is actually insane the fact that her daughter will have to live with that online for the rest of her life is horrible in my opinion I think that is such a arrogant and irresponsible thing to do as a mother to ur own child……
My problem with it was how she chose to respond to her daughter about it. It was very invalidating and a "well it was a past mistake so it doesn't matter" type of angle.
Yes mistakes happen, but you never learn from them when you don't take accountability. She never (truly) apologized for the way that affected her life. You can literally hear the loathing behind the "I'm sorry😒"
@@SipMyCharlatteher response was pretty wholesome, she seemed remorseful and you can tell they’ve gotten over that, plus she has the best style
The internet and knowledge of it was different when it first rolled out. You have to give that mother grace.
@@Dash2bklyn true! Those articles were viewed by moms for the most part until years later.
@@Dash2bklyn grace is reserved for people who repent and acknowledge their mistakes.
The first girl afraid of writing in her journal due to some one reading it, I found out my step father had cameras in all our rooms and a bug on our phones and would listen and watch, I will never be the same, I feel like someone is listening or watching me all the time, like I don't have the ability to be myself even by myself because of this. You need to heal this part of you before it gets out of control. I've been working for years.
😢 that is awful! I'm so sorry you experienced that level of intrusion.
I hate that... I'm so sorry that happened to you. Praying for the best to you ❤️
Hopefully he isn't in your family's life anymore. That feels so much more intrusive, that it might also be illegal, depending on how much he's watching. Did he see you changing? There's a law based on a girl whose stepfather was spying on her changing in her room through her webcam years ago. I believe he got arrested after they made the law.
@girlofanimation yes I saw this too, I know they were in our rooms and I always thought other places, there is no way too know, my mom told me and my sister, but know way to prove it now, I've been out of that house since 15 I'm 32 now, Thank you though I appreciate your words. Unfortunately he is in my life he is my little sisters father but I distance myself from him as much as possible.
@MAKEMEASANDWICHES thank you I appreciate that more than you know, I am healing 💖
"My daughter is a b-tch, and it's not my fault." WT actual F. Who would say that about their child?? Jeez. I don't care if it's clickbate. It is totally NORMAL for older siblings to be annoyed with younger siblings. Poor kid. What mom would put that out there.... It's wrong on many levels.
Calling your dad your 'bestie’ knowing he nearly beat your mum to death is sickening. I think that daughter needs to reflect on that.
American house holds by wilding
Truth! I have waited and kicked my dad's teeth in for that. It's disgusting
GHANK YOU I was searching for this comment
Yeah, she's heartless
not them justifying the privacy prompt...
yeah it was pretty bad, but i can understand Sarah's responses
@@tramarthomas6105she was the best mom there, she seemed caring and she had the best style
was it that bad? parents need to monitor if creeps are texting them or if their kid is getting bullied or something
It's necessary to an extent. As an adult who grew up with the advent of the internet, parents need to be involved.
Oh
The privacy prompt triggered me because my mom always tells me that I'll only have it when I'm in my own home. I'm 19 and moving out for college for that reason.
Well then your mom doesn't seem to know about children's rights (not to mention that you're not even a child anymore) I hope your move will be everything you hope for ❤
Nothing to hide nothing to fear
@@omerkarakaya6212 this is an INCREDIBLY dangerous way of thinking.
@@omerkarakaya6212not about fear, simply about having privacy. which every human needs
see, and that's why i like the black mom's approach (granted she is raree) she tried to teach her daughter the lesson but didn't go too far in invading her privacy
Notice how the one mom only thinks about her own feelings. *I* was going through a lot when you needed physical therapy. *I* needed this (public and permanent) outlet to talk about *my* experiences. *I* felt bad about calling you a b1tch. It hurt *me.*
Not even mentioning that title.
I noticed that too! That woman def rubbed me the wrong way.
I really think that mom is a narcissist.
Narcissist
Her daughter's reactions were also so jumpy because she's always had to walk on eggshells around her mother.
I'm not trying to excuse her actions but 15 years ago it didn't feel permanent at all and also it was way harder to find anything on the internet. Like nowadays we KNOW. Back then people put anything online without hesitation. It felt more like a diary nobody you know will ever seen lol
I hope that girl writes a book called, "my mom is a narcissist and I couldn't save her". I would buy ten.
Moms admitting to war crimes within the first 10 minutes 🚩
Wut?
All four of them divorced too?? Yo the US seems like a failed state to us outsiders at this point 😂
@@DChris3 50% of marriages end in divorce it's nothing new
@@DChris3would u rather they stay married and miserable?
@@user-tw5fz8th8k He prolly is moreso talking about the carefree attitude towards marriage and relationships as a whole over here.
Ok but the way the mom that wrote the article switched things to where the daughter was the one hugging and telling her it was ok at the end? Dude what
She seemed remorseful for what she did, she’s probably the best mom there, and most stylish
@@Al-gg4mm Stoooop did she pay you to defend her because you're in every comment about her
@@oumaimahamzaoui7042it’s probably her
i relate a lot to izzy’s relationship with her mom. izzy is so strong for forgiving her mom and still trying to have a relationship with her even after those invasions of privacy. her mom is definitely projecting her youngest sibling trauma and i wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t processed that still
Moms should definitely be going through their kids phones until they move out or become an adult
@@DGen7if thats how u do it its fine, personally as someone whose phone has never been looked through.. i would do things like age restrictions for apps, teach them toxic or bad friends ane dealing with it, stranger danger and teach them how to deal with certain things in life. Its always great to give a safe space and privacy for them
well, It's not that big of a deal and it's way in the past.
@@HenriCobbs even if it was the past it's still on the internet.....
@@rose-gl4io Yeah, that's how the internet works. Many people regret the things they've put on the internet. Also, the internet and blogging were new when her mom did that. Also, it's just me, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Maybe it's my sense of humour, but it wouldn't be a big deal if my mom did that. The article is also pretty hidden, it doesn't even show up unless you dig for it. So, yeah it's in the past and we are in the present.
The mom who called her daughter a b**** online seems hella toxic. She's continually downplaying her behavior, making excuses and the daughter seems like she's drinking the tea. I hope that the daughter has the energy to unpack that and find closure because it clearly still bothers her despite her saying it doesn't.
It makes sense that people want privacy why do parents think that is wild???
😓 yeah...
Fr 😞
they think that resentment and discomfort their child feels will dissipate overtime, + they think they own their children so they deserve no privacy, its gross
I get their intentions in keeping their child safe but the whole spying thing with software is insane.
Because no one should have access to every move you make in your own life. That's called being controlling or living vicariously through your child. Your children are your their own people. Constantly monitoring them is dictator like and makes them appreciate you less as a person because they don't even act like they trust you or care about your own rights. This is coming from someone who has parental monitoring on everything. No child should only have the bathroom or shower as a source of privacy.
I had to pause when she said "black people never think about owning people. That's my baby." powerful! Wish I could share an experience like this with my mom
Listening to lizzy not liking her mother blogging about her as a child bc now that info is out there for literally EVERYONE to see & she couldn’t consent to it bc she was a CHILD- no wonder many influencers are deciding to not show their children online!! Privacy is a key part in allowing children to grow up safely
I’m sorry but if my parents ever put spyware on my devices they wouldn’t have a child anymore I think that’s so embarrassing
It's on everything for me and it sucks. They act all high and mighty keeping you "safe."
@@RaxeOnYT 🥺💙 same and we need to stay strong as much as we can till we can moveout from parents' home
What are you doing that would make it embarrassing?
@@MissingYouser being a growing teenager and child? a parent that does that is cutting their child off from needed social interaction that other children are getting. its creepy, and itll only lead to the child abandoning their parent eventually, not to mention how parent/child relationships like that paints their future relationships. very gross
@@tramarthomas6105 Those parents are probably trying to only cut their child off from the bad social interaction which is extremely common. A large amount of school children are either bullies, sexually irresponsible, mentally unstable, substance abusers, or just inappropriate in general.
All of those kinds of people want friends and they may be friendly to your child while also getting them wrapped up into bad stuff.
4:53 The way she sounded so proud and kept going on and on
Just from watching the video, she's obviously been through a lot and who knows what else she's been through that we haven't seen in the video. It's likely she's lived through several traumatic experiences and is doing what she thinks will help prevent her kids from similar experiences. I don't think it's her trying to be controlling, but a trauma response she likely needs to work through. Just an assumption and obviously not a justification. Hopefully one day they can all get support and heal.
@@sarahgonzalez01lol is this her burner account?
@@sarahgonzalez01 they barely had screen time, so i dont know how you got that impression. regardless, it doesnt matter if it was her intent
@@tramarthomas6105 almost being beat to death and having to still have somewhat of a relationship with that person because he's the father of your children (and evidently your daughter's bestie) is pretty damn traumatic... i'd say that's a fair impression given that story alone
@@sarahgonzalez01 I like that these are the types of comments you find on Jubilee videos. A lot of reflexive stuff, yes, but compassionate and understanding comments like this too.
Whew, when that daughter who called her dad “bestie” really sits back and thinks about what she saw her mother go through… Lord have mercy. At least she has her mother to help her through.
he probably had a separate loving relationship with her and has probably turned his life around.
My dad nearly beat my mom to death but he's my bestie story feels like it could be its own hour long episode because that was brushed over
time stamp?
@@Bri.Loves.Food8 Around 26 min
Artista: great dad, phenomenal person, won’t say anything bad about him. But he almost beat me to death multiple times…😅What?!?
yes that's wrong in so many levels while I think she forgive him for abusing her
Where?
@@masochistic_lele4414 26:44
Sarah was the best mom here, and most stylish one
@@Al-gg4mmis she paying you to write these comments? 😭 no one is even mentioning Sarah
the mom in the green dress with her onyx colored hair inspires me, i hope i look like that when i am older. she has such an elegant, cool and caring vibe!
♥️
Absolutely. Her daughter will appreciate her more and more over time
@@queenj.8i895I’d say Sarah looks the best for her age there plus her style helps her
“onyx-colored” jeez
@@Al-gg4mmwhat’s your deal ? you commented this like 20 times replying to every comment lmao
4:53 SPYWARE?! And she said it so proudly too??!! Are you not embarrassed??? Are you not embarrassed, because this is very embarrassing😭💀💀
poor Izzy was socialized by her mom to accept that things that happen to her are her fault. she was accepting apologies that were never given to her. this will affect her for the rest of her life, and in all her relationships, romantic, friendship, even work relationships. and Sarah DOES NOT CARE about the lasting damage she’s done. Izzy you deserve love. the things that happened to you were not your fault and it is OK to stand up for yourself and insist on boundaries. I’m so sorry.
Can't believe they all said they can be 100% honest with each other.. I def can't say that
Yes I found that so surprising! Tho Heather seemed to be hinting at kinda/not fully but getting there
Yea I can’t say that either with both parents.
Because they’re lying, ask them to share bank info and they’ll politely decline
Same
@@Malally2why would u think of that..
Beating the mother of his children is not “being an amazing father”. It’s being the worst kind of father there is.
Dads gotta be next
Gonna be awesome
Nop never
emotionally intelligent dads who actually spend time with their kids
@@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 why?
@@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256why
i feel really bad for izzy, i think that article situation is really crazy and she seems super sweet so she probably doesn’t want to not have a relationship with her mom
i love heather and sonya talking about therapy, i really want my mom to talk to a therapist too
As asian American, that would be hard for me with mom since mom scoffed at some of my decisions. I sense my mom doesn't want to get in trouble with my therapist while my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult 😓
Bruhhhh, believe it or not, not everyone needs a therapist
@@AlignWithJesus but therapy is an outlet, everybody needs an outlet + it’s a great way to receive diff perspectives/tools!!!! self awareness + critical thinking is so important
Bro. The mom that wrote that article about her daughter didn't really stick well with me. Like yeah, that past is in the past, but it's STILL going to be there and be on the Internet. Not to mention, it will stay with her daughter, Izzy, for a long time. It will be that one thing that's in the back of her mind.
How would **you** feel if your mother wrote an article about you, titled, "My daughter's a b***h"?
My problem is mostly that it was super long ago and she still doesn't look actually sorry. The hug really gave me the ick lol
i feel so bad for the daughter im usually not the softie type but she really seems psychologically abusive and manipulative
because it's not that deep and they've worked it out. She already apologized and is very sorry about it.
you could tell izzy was trying to push it away, she’s used to trying to excuse her moms actions. it’s so sad.
id never look at my dad the same if he almost beats my mother to death
same
I’d never look at him again point blank period.
yeah, makes me so sad the mothers think they have to 'protect' their children from the truth of their dad's so they still have a relationship with him, those dad's deserve nothing
14:17 I love how casually Sonya said "black people never think about owning people" and I absolutely love this statement, so strong and powerful
Smh🤦♂️. Take one f|~|king history lesson about slavery and not just the north American one.
After listening to the abuse Artista experienced with her husband tbh it makes sense she went into control over drive with her kids. Not healthy or okay, but it makes sense.
Me screaming no when Irene asked if she should talk to her child about her divorce. Like as someone who has gone through my parents divorcing when I was an adult, I wish more than anything that they would leave me out of it. Of course there’s levels to honesty, but keep that between you and your friends. The stress it puts on your child sucks
Agreed, they should suffer in silence and then hear their child calling the guy who nearly ended them "bestie"
I would have appreciated some discussion when my parents decided to divorce. My parents basically spoke to us for 3 minutes: "We're getting divorced. Don't be upset, this has nothing to do with you. Stop crying. Go to your room."
@@FROOB202 so trauma dump on your child and let them suffer with you?
@@jesseb5710 Humans are not dichotomous. Learn how to give and take and be a family.
ah... nothing better than being parentified as a teen because of your parents rocky relationship. I know way, way too much about my mom's sex life now
The mom seeking consolation from her daughter after silently being ridiculed by the room after saying she wrote that article, is sickening behavior. You should not be consoled after feeling the tension in the room after admitting you wrote that about your 9 y/o daughter
what’s a sorry gon do? that article still there for everyone & their mother to see 😭😭
izzy’s mom is weird af😬
I really hope izzy is like an adult and living in a different home or sum.. or else the car ride would be so akward and i can tell by izzys mom's strares (personal expirience) after she talked about certain things she was NOT HAPPY
She seemed like the best mother there, plus she had the best style
@@jadesimone_ you shouldn't judge someone you don't know on something they did a long time ago. Calling someone's mom weird is disrespectful.
@@HenriCobbsshe is weird who calls there own child a B1CH ?!!?? How does that even cross one’s minds oml the way she justified it like listen to the ‘context’ and she proved NOTHING all that gaslighting is really nasty. All this time she was finding excuses every sentence like those aren’t your 9yo fault tf
I'm very surprised that Jubliee didn't upload this last Sunday when it was Mother's Day.
Honestly
they had to secure that betterhelp sponsorship. jubilee keep outdoing themselves with their shitty behaviour
probably after what they did for international women's day
Irene and Rachel have such a healthy relationship ❤
I loved how real and elocuent they both were.
My favorite mom/daughter pair
True ❤️ 👍
My mom had no boundaries. Went through diaries. Put hidden recording devices around the house, went through my phone that I bought, while I was working full time, buying my own groceries and school supplies then used photos I had as blackmail.
Now she knows nothing of my life as she is not in it.
how abt u tell the full story as to why she did that. its never for no reason
@@ChaseBurns-kc7xgway to victim blame. Why is your response to her privacy being constantly violated, what did she do to make her mon violate it?
@@NiMissNithat's easy my house my rules. She choses to leave the mom out of her life. Again we don't know the full story.
she's too controlling 🥺💙 I want to have a moveout home to avoid conflicts with my parents cause they don't accept alot of my decisions as an adult
Wow. Shame shame shame on you for having first thoughts like that. Yes that happens for no reason, parents (a lot of them) are and can be toxic af. Speaking from experience. So do your reaserach first bud. @@ChaseBurns-kc7xg
I love that the mom in the green dress asked Izzy if she was okay. So kind.
Seeing other moms always makes me appreciate mine more bc Spyware is absolutely incredibly insane 😭
my parents never do this either while they invade my privacy in a different way
LITERALLY. my mom used to read my text messages and watch the videos i made and i thought that was overbearing, boy was it the least of it
Sarah, there's so much I want to say but I'll say this instead, take responsibility and be a mother. To Izzy, I hope you heal honey ♡ you deserve more
The way she’s dressed, she’s probably going through a mid life crises
@@Al-gg4mm You've replied to a large proportion of the comments under this video and all you comments are about Sarah. I'm fully convinced that you are Sarah at this point tbh. You're outing yourself.
@@fairyberry444 no she’s actually paying me to do this
@@Al-gg4mmwhat lol I thought you thought she had the best style?
😂😂😂😂@@Al-gg4mm
poor izzy. there are still emotions in every sentence she said. i hope she’s fully healed…
Jubilee, please thoroughly review any sponsorships you take. Better Help has been known to be incredibly harmful and toxic!!
Edit: y’all please stop fighting in the replies 😭
provide evidence?
Plus they give free therapy to IDF soldiers
Just like Jubilee itself lmao
@@Johan590 go look it up bruh. its a well known fact.
@@bummer7736do you know similar ones?
The mother in green just keeps talking about herself and her perspective and how she felt. Meanwhile completely ignoring how her actions have affected her daughter. Disgusting behaviour and absolutely no laughing matter. She should be ashamed of herself as a person and a parent. Show your child some respect and love smh
Are you talking about the one wearing oversized jeans?
@@Al-gg4mm Yes.
Rachel and irene was match made in heaven
💯💯💯💯💯💜💕💜💕💜💕
Jubilee, I am kindy requesting a "extended/unseen scenes" portion of this vid. There are some answers that I would love to hear that were not included.
Izy is such a forgiving daughter, so sweet.
its because she is still super young. give it 5 years when her brain has re-examined the toxicity .
@@PHlophe Nah. You barely change after that. It's only "up" from that point onwards.
Need to do this with Dads + Sons/Daughters and Moms and sons too!
the fact that artista didn't talk poorly about her ex husband toward her kids is sooooo mature and important. so many parents who split up act so negatively and toxic toward one another, and it shows a lot of strength to go through a bad relationship and not put it on your kids. MAD RESPECT for her.
Sarah was the best mom here and the most stylish
@@Al-gg4mmdude shutup
Rachel & Irene has a beautiful nd strong mom daughter bond :) nd the best one so far among most of others in the video...
No I’d say Sarah is the best mom in this and the one with the best style
@@Al-gg4mmSarah is that you
@@crisp_rat I've seen all of her comments on this video so far, I think she is either the mother Sarah or her daughter
Taia’s mom put her through so much oh myyy 😭
Lidia, when Taia grows a bit older she'll realize the depth of it it wont be pretty
Not really though
Why did you skip the mom's responses to the bad habits prompt?
yeah, i was wondering about that
maybe it's too private to share
I'd assume it's about drugs or alcohol and they wouldn't necessarily want that out in public.
probably about boys/sex/alcohol/drugs
substance (ab)use, I guess.
Irene, thank you for being you. Rachel is lucky to have you and she sure shows how grateful she is ❤
“If our example of a strong female role model is that you can’t be vulnerable then we’re doing something wrong” UGH LOVE THIS!
Poor Izzy, Mom can’t even take full responsibility. Just continually justifying and rewriting. Ick.
I feel so bad for Izzy. Her Mom is a total narcissist. I hope Izzy is able to get away from her.
the mum in the green dress is so cool
And the one in the green shirt is nasty LOL
Yep, she's extremely manipulative and disgusting, she goes in for the hug as a get out of jail free card pretending to be emotional about the situation, when her eyes don't have a single ounce of regret. Just social acceptance pr.@@j_me
dude she totally beat on her kids in the past and was side eyeing her daughter to keep quiet abt it lmfaoo
@@j_meagreed
No really she wrote an article about her daughter which is incredibly weird
Mama in the Green dress serving Body!
♥️
@@sonyakaye9081you looked stunning in your outfit! But I think Sarah look even more spectacular in her outfit
@@sonyakaye9081where is your dress from?
@@Al-gg4mmAre you Sarah?? Because you’re commenting under every person complimenting Sonya like a jealous Karen. Sonya looked a trillion times better than Sarah plus she’s a way better mother. She’s also not youthful at all so stop lying. Weirdo.
Izzy - the answer to your mom's passive aggressive bull$#!t question of "how often?".... is "too often". Sarah is going to have to do some serious digging out for me to have any respect for her and I'm only 7m in. Dude... you need to set boundaries.
Now I wanna see "Daughter-in-Laws Finally Open Up to their Mother-in-Laws"
police need to be hired
Would not go well for so many 😅 Daughter-in-laws don’t have to have the filters that the sons do. They’ve also heard the deep side of childhood from those husbands.
not finished yet so dont come at me but that mum with the green dress is such a cutie
Facts
Sonya is giving me mother theresa vibes I feel like I could tell her all my secrets and she’s so pretty omg
green blouse lady is mad manipulative
in general..makes me feel grateful abt my mom😭
Are you talking about the woman with jeans? She seems like a caring mother plus she has a nice sense of style, the best there
@@Al-gg4mmare you her or something cause why you all up in the comments defending her 😭😭
@@Charlottefwyou I mean what were your thoughts on how she seems? Also I don’t know why she wanted me to compliment her style but any thoughts on that too?
@@Al-gg4mm what style really?? S green shirt and jeans?? That's basic af
@@Charlottefwyou yeah but she told me that those jeans were designer jeans, and same goes for her top but then again I don’t really know, people were out to call her on that and say they were mom jeans 😂
If me and my mother do this, I'd end up in tears :/
I’d end up in jail 🤣
@everythinger1ca lmao what could you have possibly done that could land you in jail, I'm kinda concerned 😳
@@-Mochi_Rose- Think they may be joking about how they *would* respond to hearing about what they'd done?
Fr
I'd probably lose 2 limbs
Sonya. I repeat. You are a great mother
Thank you ♥️🙏🏿
She is but I think Sarah was a better mother and she overall had a better relationship with
She didn’t used to be but she changed
Why are you so obsessed with her. You give me weird vibes. Commenting on lots of comments talking her up and putting the others down at the same time @@Al-gg4mm
@@bearclairei think it’s sarah’s alt account 💀
I relate alot to Taia and Artista. I also grew up in a home where domestic abuse was happening and we had to leave home alot, but my mom really wanted us to have a two parent home. My dad eventually got disgnosed with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and ptsd and once he got the help he needed it did get a lot better and they’re both amazing parents to this day. ❤
That's amazing 💜 so glad your dad was able to get help too. Noone deserves to suffer abuse from someone they love. But we were young and he had an undiagnosed mental illness and was overlooked by healthcare professionals. Sad that people who just need help, often go so long before receiving diagnosis's that can explain and get much needed treatment. Taia's Dad is so much better on his medication and I'm grateful he got the help he needed so he could be there for the kids when they were older.
Can you relate to Taia calling him her bestie and an amazing dad?
Whoever came up with this concept, amazing
If mom and I got brutally honest with eachother, we would never speak again.
Lowkey I can respect Sonya for wanting to remain true to her beliefs while also wanting to embrace her daughter heather even when the things heather does may go against it
High key for me
if your beliefs are homophobic, that's nothing to respect tho
@@heyspeckle8782no frrr. These ppl are brain dead
@@heyspeckle8782she’s clearly not homophobic, there’s no hate, it’s okay to believe that love is between men and women if you don’t mistreat other for your believes
heather is annoying "I hate my mom reading my messages..... at 6 I was going to go off with a stranger" GIRLL GIMMIE THAT DAMN PHONE
Y am I laughing so hard at this comment 😭😭
I agree ☝️
😂😅
I love heather and Sonya’s relationship. They’re growing 🥰
I thought Sarah and Izzy had the best relationship plus Sarah seemed like a down to earth mom, plus she had the best style
@@Al-gg4mm she payed for how many comments because I think she needs to pay you more with all the riding you're doing
Okay but why couldn’t you just leave your daughter’s name out of the article 10:35 ?
As someone from the same generation as these girls and who had a mom who invaded my privacy, now that I’m older and I’m thinking about having my own kids and thinking about all the scary things that have happened to me on the internet and just with my cell phone, I don’t blame my mom as much anymore. And I will probably have a level of monitoring on my own children, because you can teach your child over and over stranger danger but just like the girl in this video curiosity got the best of her and she was going to meet a random stranger. If anyone sits here and thinks “my child would never do that” you are wrong. Children have to have the privacy invaded to a certain level to ensure their safety.
Glad someone understands this concept
When I was underage I had someone say they will come get me and help me etc when I wasn’t getting along with my family. They kept pressuring me and manipulated me into it , I don’t blame parents who don’t give children privacy
Yes I grew up with online chats in middle school and cell phones in high school. Now I am a parent and I read everything my preteen does online. Everything. I knew too many kids my age whose parents were completely clueless what they were doing online.
5:10 that is way too far. Number 1 way to ruin trust
a lot of people dont deserve to be parents. they view them more as property rather than growing people
fr. and the way she was proud of it, so gross.
She’s protecting her kids
@@queenofhearts7503 It's not even being protective at this point, it's literally controlling
I wasn't allowed to have social media as a kid without my parents, also being able to access it whenever. It was told to me that they could check it.
I do not think it's unreasonable for parents to check that and to monitor their child's exposure to things online. I do think it's unreasonable to put spyware on your families items. That's wild.
agree 🥺
Having an open and honest dialogue about doing this is totally fine, then the child knows that's what you intend to do. Doing it behind their back is a whole other story and breaks that trust between parent and child
@@emilychiasson5290I feel being open about it and telling them they will look through it from time to time will also help the children make conscious decisions about what they want to do on the Internet.
If my daughter became besties with her Dad, who was abusive and unfaithful
then I would have no choice to distance myself from them both.
Cries with asian/Indian parents😂😂😂
If I answer any of this honestly- I would have to face a flying chappal!!
Africans too 😂😂😂
As korean American, it would be hard for me as well. When I told mom that my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult, she scoffed.. ☹️ my parents have dementia
I’m sorry your parent is too immature to accept honesty. Must be pretty frustrating
me with my chinese parents, i can def relate to this🥲
@@ziporahanaa 🥺💙
I skip Jubilee ads and sponsors until they actually address their bad behavior and apologize with actionable steps going forward to establish what expectations are for their staff. Love you, mean it.
What?
Could you explain this?
Did I miss something??
I just skip them because they’re boring
@Random_Being1 there's a lot going on behind the scenes that they never address like attacking black creators (Aba and Preach) then trying to strike their channel down with false copyright claims on the same exact content Jubilee will celebrate and encourage from white creators. They've never given Thoraya credit for her video formats and they've never invited her on to host. The people they promote and work with are no different from the people they're ignoring or attacking except for their race. Even when it comes to followers Jubilee works with smaller and bigger creators BUT only white and Asian. They've worked with PewDiePie, Cody Ko, Nut, and Gen on things they've attacked Aba and Preach for while copying Thorayas secrets series with no credit or even allowing her to host an episode.
11:10 Izzy is so uncomfortable in this situation that her mom is sharing it ❤❤❤❤ I feel so bad for her
Well Sarah felt remorseful and caring, she was the best mom there and most stylish
@@Al-gg4mm oh!
@@jaleahmckinney7828 yeah?
@@Al-gg4mmdidn’t seem genuine the way she kept trying to justify her actions of exploiting her own child for some mere clicks. Crazy.
Izzy apologized more than that thing did it’s really saddening I hope Izzy gets better it seems like she’s used to the gastlighting she got that extremely apologetic mannerism that what that thing should be doing not her.
As someone who lost their mom 3 years ago at 23 I really needed to hear a lot of what these moms said. People always agree the obvious and the emotional connection that their child is their mom’s baby, but my mom was my baby. She was my best friend and was forever in my corner. These girls were great