Married Couples Get Brutally Honest | Split Decision

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  8 месяцев назад +83

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    • @buttpaste
      @buttpaste 8 месяцев назад

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    • @DRMZ9999
      @DRMZ9999 8 месяцев назад +1

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    • @Ninas3rafina
      @Ninas3rafina 8 месяцев назад +1

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  • @evapanta
    @evapanta 8 месяцев назад +5223

    "This is a safe space"
    uploads for millions of strangers to watch and judge

    • @christinescorner111
      @christinescorner111 8 месяцев назад +122

      LMFAOOO realest comment

    • @CaptMoo
      @CaptMoo 8 месяцев назад +44

      THANK YOU hahaha I was about to write that, Im like, somebody must already said that... pff...

    • @kashifibr4606
      @kashifibr4606 8 месяцев назад +17

      when I heard that, I thought the same 😂

    • @sphephelombhamaly173
      @sphephelombhamaly173 8 месяцев назад +17

      safe space doesnt mean no posting and you are made aware of posting before hand

    • @robjohnson2749
      @robjohnson2749 8 месяцев назад +10

      It is a safe space cuz the space there in not a judgmental space the posting on the internet is really irrelevant

  • @Michelle-uh7qi
    @Michelle-uh7qi 8 месяцев назад +3106

    Would have been nice to see a much older couple that has been married more than two years. These newlyweds could have learnt a lot from them too.

    • @mikal6376
      @mikal6376 8 месяцев назад +6

      Facts!

    • @gaminglegend
      @gaminglegend 8 месяцев назад +8

      2 years = newlywed??

    • @samhayet4286
      @samhayet4286 8 месяцев назад +25

      @@gaminglegend Maybe not "newlywed," but could still in the honeymoon stage.

    • @heyhowareyou7777
      @heyhowareyou7777 8 месяцев назад +14

      @@gaminglegend yes??

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@gaminglegendyes. You’re a newlywed for the first 2 years

  • @mithileshlokhande
    @mithileshlokhande 8 месяцев назад +5468

    same episode but with couples married for more than 10 years

    • @yulelog22
      @yulelog22 8 месяцев назад +304

      to be fair no happy married couple of 10+ years would put their entire relationship history on a RUclips video

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 8 месяцев назад +43

      ​@@yulelog22also would be a really difficult panel to get together

    • @mamunoz41
      @mamunoz41 8 месяцев назад +92

      It wouldn't be difficult. But it might be boring. My wife and I have been together 15 years since highschool. Married 9. Most of these questions there would be no deviation from what we already expect, thus no shocking moments that would make the video interesting. Just a theory though.

    • @PrincessLioness
      @PrincessLioness 8 месяцев назад +11

      @@mamunoz41True but this video is pretty tame for these types of videos.

    • @bhopemr
      @bhopemr 8 месяцев назад

      Up

  • @annamess
    @annamess 8 месяцев назад +3034

    “It’s just a season” is such a reassuring thing to say, beautiful!!!

    • @andrewcyber4
      @andrewcyber4 8 месяцев назад +94

      Also loved that as someone struggling with a career change and more! Very gentle encouraging way of speaking!

    • @pamelaleannefreeland9025
      @pamelaleannefreeland9025 8 месяцев назад +69

      Extremely kind and empathetic. Made my heart squeeze. 💜

    • @eandroid5483
      @eandroid5483 8 месяцев назад +1

      Timestamp?

    • @michellestella7477
      @michellestella7477 7 месяцев назад

      Around 12:00 ​@@eandroid5483

    • @elenacasali7172
      @elenacasali7172 7 месяцев назад

      @@eandroid548311:54

  • @dianapatricia4280
    @dianapatricia4280 8 месяцев назад +1143

    i wish they would’ve gotten older couples/couples who’ve been married longer as well

  • @sydslair
    @sydslair 8 месяцев назад +1423

    Usually in split decision videos there’s people that I just don’t personally like their demeanor or attitude but everyone was beautiful and respectful in this one.

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 8 месяцев назад +9

      Shani gave me a bad vibe

    • @bibimbap5917
      @bibimbap5917 8 месяцев назад +55

      ​@@MarcoAce13 Shani was very respectful and empathetic towards the other two participants. She's fine you're seeing things

    • @hannahjones8115
      @hannahjones8115 8 месяцев назад +13

      You're projecting ​@@MarcoAce13

    • @jackcable1028
      @jackcable1028 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@bibimbap5917 sure when the cameras are on u. Her thing about the religion doesn’t make sense at all lmfao

    • @bibimbap5917
      @bibimbap5917 7 месяцев назад +35

      @@jackcable1028 her thing about religion is her personal belief and not for anyone else to judge. If her partner is okay with it then who are you? And I say this as an agnostic

  • @marileeb288
    @marileeb288 8 месяцев назад +492

    This one definitely should've been called "Newlyweds Get Brutally Honest." My husband and I have been married for 12 years, my parents for 47 years... I agree with others and I think some answers definitely would've been different for marriages that have passed the 10 year mark.

    • @hannahneal9925
      @hannahneal9925 6 месяцев назад +4

      I agree! I’ve been married for 10 years and we have 2 kids. I just think that early in marriage things were so different. They should have a newlywed and like 8+ years married

  • @noone7989
    @noone7989 8 месяцев назад +751

    "I think we're alive because of each other." is such a strong statement... it hit me to the core

    • @Noneofyourbusiness194
      @Noneofyourbusiness194 8 месяцев назад +53

      Sounds toxic to an extent if I'm being honest

    • @eseodigie9022
      @eseodigie9022 8 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Noneofyourbusiness194I would really like to learn, could you explain why you think so.

    • @Noneofyourbusiness194
      @Noneofyourbusiness194 8 месяцев назад +20

      @@eseodigie9022 my own opinion with this particular phrase "being alive because of each other" hence i said toxic to an extent sounds like they are not familiar with exploring their senses of self individually, so in all aspects of their life something nor someone who may come into their lives they hold on to them (individually) as to say they somehow aren't dependent on themselves but others coexisting with the "i can't live without you" phrase, not saying them particularly but such people struggle with their own solitude and sense of individuality they tend to be dependent on romantic partners, romantic relationships, friendships except being dependent on themselves, their own solitude and individuality, self exploration.

    • @eseodigie9022
      @eseodigie9022 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@Noneofyourbusiness194 alright thank alot, I think I understand now.

    • @myllomaiga5702
      @myllomaiga5702 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Noneofyourbusiness194 wrong

  • @thechosenmalfoy1805
    @thechosenmalfoy1805 8 месяцев назад +940

    Randal and Shani are great. Shani is so articulate, her emotional intelligence shines very strong

    • @OliveInfinity
      @OliveInfinity 8 месяцев назад +58

      and they were the people who said faith comes in as the strongest and most important part

    • @PrincessLioness
      @PrincessLioness 8 месяцев назад

      I didn’t like that Shani implied that women back in the day didn’t work/contribute back in the day. Not working was a luxury reserved a minority of women typically upper class white women.

    • @markc9847
      @markc9847 8 месяцев назад

      emotional intelligence is not a real thing. You probably believe in toxic masculinity as well. Woke garbage lolllll

  • @evelynarquette
    @evelynarquette 8 месяцев назад +287

    The couples who easily voiced their own communication style errors and held themselves accountable were so great to see!

  • @daenerystargaryen1440
    @daenerystargaryen1440 8 месяцев назад +570

    Wish there was an elderly couple in this

  • @jordanwynn2000
    @jordanwynn2000 8 месяцев назад +336

    split decision is def my fav series to come out of Jubilee! plssss continue thissss

  • @lauraarcilagonzalez460
    @lauraarcilagonzalez460 8 месяцев назад +312

    These people were the most wholesome I’ve ever seen in one of these videos, love them

  • @zara2634
    @zara2634 8 месяцев назад +167

    the three way answers were so weird bc why is it always another woman and they’re considered “tools”. it’s like the 2nd woman is just being objectified and used for them

    • @dycemcstuffiins6586
      @dycemcstuffiins6586 8 месяцев назад +45

      I'm glad someone pointed this out because wtf.

    • @Scelestious
      @Scelestious 7 месяцев назад +36

      Because when it gets emotional it can get messy. You don’t want an emotional relationship with a one time threesome situation. If you want an emotional relationship then thats a poly relationship and thats a whole different thing. As long as the other woman understands shes just a play thing and that it’s not an emotional relationship and is ok with that then thats ok. If thats not for you thats fine but you don’t need to judge others for what they like to do behind closed doors.

    • @dycemcstuffiins6586
      @dycemcstuffiins6586 7 месяцев назад

      @@Scelestious it's weird imo to talk about women like they're just tools to get off. It's objectification. I'm not saying it's wrong to have threesomes with no feelings for the third person but it's not okay to objectify someone or talk about them that way.

    • @shake4259
      @shake4259 6 месяцев назад +14

      What's the problem if they're consenting

    • @zara2634
      @zara2634 6 месяцев назад

      @@shake4259 it’s just shallow and weird to use someone. i guess it’s fine but in the end of the day you’re allowing other ppl to use you and for what? mid sex w doo doo looking ppl? ok

  • @fah8049
    @fah8049 8 месяцев назад +55

    Loved how Shani reassured Llaina that its just season, so comforting ❤

  • @taylo652
    @taylo652 8 месяцев назад +510

    The Christian couple and the gay couple are so mature

    • @monikaedithschulz6986
      @monikaedithschulz6986 8 месяцев назад +43

      you think? They Christian guy is heavily tone-policing his wife. Not really mature, or sign of a balanced relationship in my book.

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 8 месяцев назад +44

      ​@@monikaedithschulz6986that's the book they're following. I'd say its garbage also, but theyre both consenting adults

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 8 месяцев назад +145

      @@monikaedithschulz6986 How you talk to your partner matters. This goes both ways. You should be tone-policing each other so you can communicate in a healthy manner and aren't automatically turning problems that need to be handled into arguments.

    • @kaylany74
      @kaylany74 8 месяцев назад +93

      @@monikaedithschulz6986a lot of black men are a bit more passionate when they speak… y’all judge so easily and its weird.. there’s nothing he said that was wrong and he spoke about how much he loves his wife, it seems like they have a great marriage that suits them. It seems like they’re very aware of their relationship and y’all think its imposing..

    • @kaylany74
      @kaylany74 8 месяцев назад +19

      @@tramarthomas6105 what.. how has that have anything to do with how he’s talking? They’re both very aware of their marriage.. its giving implicit bias on black people

  • @AprilT72
    @AprilT72 8 месяцев назад +196

    I wanna give Llaina a hug I remember being home for a while after I had my baby, I was so depressed. It is a season, sending ❤.

  • @judithgraham4531
    @judithgraham4531 8 месяцев назад +52

    I loved watching how respectful Randy is of Shani. That's what we need more of!

  • @ElleRosexoxo
    @ElleRosexoxo 8 месяцев назад +73

    The nail conversation made me feel so lucky and fortunate of my partner….
    Back at the end of 2023 I went through a really bad mental health crisis (nearly committed & tried to end own life) and through a therapy program I went through & what not really started focusing on self care and small things to look forward to
    Getting my nails done once a month has definitely been one of those important things to me…. My partner actually came up w/the idea of me getting my nails done once a month using his credit card as a treat for me & now for the past 4-5 months he’s been like “hey babe take my card and treat yourself to your nails & get em done at the salon you like”

    • @musiclover6842
      @musiclover6842 5 месяцев назад

      Do you think your relationship with your partner would have been different if he didn’t create that space for you to spend time and his money on self care?
      Like.. if you had to pay for it yourself or if he would pay for it but was doing it begrudgingly instead.

  • @JANETHEJAWN
    @JANETHEJAWN 8 месяцев назад +229

    The only thing I didn’t like about this episode is that it’s not long enough! I loved each couple 🥹

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb 8 месяцев назад +213

    Hearing the half-white lady and the white guy's story about the race problems they had from a small town was sad, but it wasn't a surprise.

    • @Sinheart1
      @Sinheart1 8 месяцев назад +39

      @Health1FirstWe can tell brodie

    • @vacnyc
      @vacnyc 8 месяцев назад

      @Health1FirstBruh if she looks like that there’s no way she is 100% black

    • @gaminglegend
      @gaminglegend 8 месяцев назад +9

      @Health1First Shani also looked racially ambiguous

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 8 месяцев назад +11

      @@gaminglegend Yeah I thought she was Blasian or perhaps part Filipino/Cambodian

    • @kaylao.3326
      @kaylao.3326 4 месяца назад +1

      Ikr…the girl is half white herself so I fail to understand the issue with her dating a white person

  • @nicholashoang-qc3xr
    @nicholashoang-qc3xr 8 месяцев назад +18

    "ay what was that over there"? ***switches to *no* LMFAOOOOO*******

  • @crazyshelly08
    @crazyshelly08 8 месяцев назад +165

    I was hopping for people who had longer marriages. Like I've been married for 12 years and in all honesty 2 and 3 years you are still in the honeymoon phase I was hopping for 6 or 7 year marriages or at least 5 years.

    • @ilaina.
      @ilaina. 8 месяцев назад +10

      We did too. We were kinda bummed we couldn't meet more seasoned couples.

    • @32Theresa
      @32Theresa 8 месяцев назад +20

      It would’ve been nice if they stated how long they’ve been together including b4 marriage

    • @avacadocap9591
      @avacadocap9591 8 месяцев назад

      Oh brother

    • @AvaF1919
      @AvaF1919 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@32Theresa My thoughts too. I've only been married 2 years, but been together for six.

    • @ArthurArtistry
      @ArthurArtistry 4 месяца назад

      What does the honeymoon phase even mean tho

  • @robynmcmillan5048
    @robynmcmillan5048 8 месяцев назад +37

    When Shani said It’s just a season. I felt that!!

  • @LeonardEarnshaw
    @LeonardEarnshaw 8 месяцев назад +195

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 8 месяцев назад +2

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @LeonardEarnshaw
      @LeonardEarnshaw 8 месяцев назад

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for this info. I will check her out online. thanks

  • @boipelomohlakoane7959
    @boipelomohlakoane7959 8 месяцев назад +76

    Luca is a real lover omg. Jai is so lucky ❤

  • @oliviabowen1032
    @oliviabowen1032 8 месяцев назад +8

    watched most of the Split Decision episodes and this is hands down the best! I feel like they all have the potential to stay together. Randal is too cool lol

  • @huxleyginsberg13
    @huxleyginsberg13 8 месяцев назад +152

    Healthiest episode by far

  • @kellyann4073
    @kellyann4073 8 месяцев назад +25

    Shout out to everyone affected by the medicine shortage. It’s unbelievable what’s actually happening to us when you’re one of the ones in it. It has completely deconstructed and reconstructed my worldview.
    All of these couples are really great.

  • @robynmcmillan5048
    @robynmcmillan5048 8 месяцев назад +61

    Randy and Shani, your authenticity shines through in every moment of the episode. Thank you for being such a positive example!

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 8 месяцев назад +4

      True, but I got the vibe that he loves her way more than she loves him. Could be wrong.

    • @Playsch00l
      @Playsch00l 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@lejamesbron5880 people always say this about articulate women lmao. to me it was completely evident that shes probably even more thoughtful than randy in their relationship. a calm woman is a happy one!

  • @Owens777
    @Owens777 8 месяцев назад +62

    Whoever casts the people should get a raise. These guests did all the work with shoddy questions that had little to do with love and all to do with enticing controversy.

    • @kaitek666
      @kaitek666 8 месяцев назад +9

      they should get a raise? for what, doing their job properly once? 💀💀 Jubilee has a track record of MANY bad choices for participants

  • @Bringmethehorizondude
    @Bringmethehorizondude 8 месяцев назад +31

    Shout out to Kot, he’s such an astute and empathetic host and he sets such an awesome tone for these sensitive subjects.

  • @gakailyn9249
    @gakailyn9249 8 месяцев назад +59

    The overt unicorn hunting expressed in the 3way question was kind of distasteful. The one woman would obviously get aggressively jealous and the other woman literally called this hypothetical second woman a tool. Idt either of them would be able to have a 3some ethically.

    • @zara2634
      @zara2634 8 месяцев назад

      honestly. plus what about a threesome w another guy? it just sounds creepy to watch and video tape

    • @NerdilyDone
      @NerdilyDone 7 месяцев назад

      There is no ethical way to have a threesome. Someone, or possibly all, are being used as tools.

    • @adrianna7
      @adrianna7 7 месяцев назад +16

      agreed as a queer woman i’d hate to have a male partner so adamant about watching… and the objectification was gross

    • @Courtannica
      @Courtannica 6 месяцев назад +3

      I've heard of this though. I knew a couple that thought just like that. That the 2nd woman was a "toy"
      Like wtf

    • @ArthurArtistry
      @ArthurArtistry 4 месяца назад +1

      This was my point cuz I'm poly and like what was that and it's so common and normal with that handshake and everything ew

  • @gaminglegend
    @gaminglegend 8 месяцев назад +29

    Randal does not like 43 at all! He definitely doesn't look 10 years older than his wife

  • @caspianglory3166
    @caspianglory3166 8 месяцев назад +17

    I need to see this with an arranged marriage couple!!!

  • @_nikkadom_
    @_nikkadom_ 8 месяцев назад +6

    I just finished this episode and I actually agree with the comments. This was def the most calm/wholesome video in the series.

  • @Lakey4
    @Lakey4 8 месяцев назад +23

    I would love to watch the uncut version where I hear everyone's responses

  • @meredithhowerton202
    @meredithhowerton202 8 месяцев назад +2

    More of this Jubilee and loved how they all came across as honest and genuine with each other.

  • @laurenplummer2306
    @laurenplummer2306 8 месяцев назад +3

    Loved it. Go Ilaina with being vulnerable to the world. It was very impactful. Randal could have had any woman he wanted and he picked the perfect one with Shani. Daniel and Hayley love that you stood up for yourselves even though some in your community didn’t approve.

  • @alayabaker3944
    @alayabaker3944 8 месяцев назад +249

    Contemplating if I should watch this now or wait for Cody’s reaction 🤔

    • @krishduayt
      @krishduayt 8 месяцев назад +2

      wait

    • @TheGorgeousGretchen
      @TheGorgeousGretchen 8 месяцев назад +32

      Both

    • @urbanzs
      @urbanzs 8 месяцев назад +4

      Who’s cody

    • @nuri7538
      @nuri7538 8 месяцев назад

      @@urbanzscody co he does reaction videos to jobbele

    • @asophigus
      @asophigus 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@urbanzs cody ko

  • @annarandall6468
    @annarandall6468 8 месяцев назад +21

    seeing how these couples are able to communicate and help each other is so nice to see

  • @Hollybythesea-q3l
    @Hollybythesea-q3l 8 месяцев назад +3

    I could see all these couples being close friends. Great job matching up the couples to share openly.

  • @lauralogan9819
    @lauralogan9819 8 месяцев назад +2

    Great episode. Loved the maturity of the gay couple. Randy and Shani seem like they went into the marriage knowing exactly what they wanted in a partner. Daniel and Hayley rooting for you both. Ilaina and her husband have such a genuine story.

  • @skylerpaulsen5609
    @skylerpaulsen5609 8 месяцев назад +2

    I'd like to see this again but with couples who have been together for 5+ years and see how my boyfriend and I relate because we've been together for 7 years and it's hard to relate to this! We kept being like "JUST WAIT" while watching this hahah

  • @lobmob3235
    @lobmob3235 8 месяцев назад +23

    Anyone else realize when Hayle was talking about being unappreciated that she’s never actually communicated to Daniel what she wanted?

    • @gwen6937
      @gwen6937 8 месяцев назад +18

      to me it seems like daniel isn't willing to listen, not giving her a safe space to express what she wants. she probably feels like she can't share things with him because he will just shut her down - like he's doing in this video.

    • @Noneofyourbusiness194
      @Noneofyourbusiness194 8 месяцев назад +14

      Oh trust she did mention it but the guy seems so stubborn not necessarily making him a bad partner but it seems it's an issue that's being brushed off by him he knows she knows 💀

    • @lobmob3235
      @lobmob3235 8 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@gwen6937just curious where did he cut/shut her off in the vid? The reason I made the original statement is because Daniel said he’s willing to learn how to do her nails which is a GREAT option/idea financial wise and relationship wise bc your taking time to learn a skill to help your partner. But then it took the host to say “Oh but you want to go OUT and get it done”” and Shani to further elaborate that it makes her feel like a woman for her to agree with. That’s why I said it seems like poor communication on her end.

    • @lobmob3235
      @lobmob3235 8 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@Noneofyourbusiness194how are you so sure?

  • @Codetrooper1
    @Codetrooper1 8 месяцев назад +34

    It's so interesting how dynamic individual experiences are versus regional stereotypes. I'm a white gay guy from Alabama who married a black gay guy from Georgia. The only familial issues we ran into was on his mother's side because they are Jehovah's Witnesses. My entire family and his dad's side accepted us from the gitgo. We've encountered very little homophobia or racism in our decade of being married and we're both from small towns.

  • @UnnTHPS
    @UnnTHPS 8 месяцев назад +25

    I like hayle ane daniel they seem chill and fun to be around

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      Thanks

  • @ellablacklow
    @ellablacklow 8 месяцев назад +8

    randal looks at his wife so sweetly

  • @stardust6870
    @stardust6870 8 месяцев назад +6

    I get it that Gen Z and younger Millennials will be more open to participating. However, I'm honestly tired of only hearing experiences and perspectives of the same age group, regardless of the video topic. People above 35 exist and they likely have much more to share than young people.

  • @andrejamal8339
    @andrejamal8339 8 месяцев назад +4

    It's just crazy to me that we live this life where we wanna pour our every being into strangers that's not from under our umbrella meaning (family) and hope we could be our complete selves with these people.

  • @maameserwahdonkor
    @maameserwahdonkor 11 часов назад

    this has been by far my favorite episode,because there was so much love and kindness and affection from everybody.

  • @matildefalardogarcia6637
    @matildefalardogarcia6637 8 месяцев назад +38

    Some couples seem very young to get married. I wish them the best.

    • @Emmanuel_EEE
      @Emmanuel_EEE 8 месяцев назад

      What age would you recommend them to get married? Their 30s?

  • @lauralogan9819
    @lauralogan9819 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this! Wish it were longer though.

  • @Ayebaybay.
    @Ayebaybay. 8 месяцев назад +29

    Having people my age and younger is weird for a marriage type video. Not many people 20-30 are married fr..

    • @Emmanuel_EEE
      @Emmanuel_EEE 8 месяцев назад +1

      Not really weird, this was the norm 50 years ago.

    • @nameless.faceless.
      @nameless.faceless. Месяц назад

      Many people are married from that age group. Also one couple is 30-40 so..

  • @manilkasheran2934
    @manilkasheran2934 8 месяцев назад +32

    Randall and Shani are like the mom and dad of the other couples! lol!

  • @chloegracetv7344
    @chloegracetv7344 8 месяцев назад +15

    Shani is the boss boss I can just tell! Structured, organized etc

  • @pitalovr
    @pitalovr 8 месяцев назад +24

    It really gives me the ick to hear Hayle refer to other women as “females”

  • @randomgirl2994
    @randomgirl2994 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love how beautiful and safe this video was made. This was more on the "newly-wed" side. Thank you for your time to produce this. May we please have a video of more seasoned marriages? Maybe by the decades (10 years, 20 years, 30 years, etc.)?

  • @jenniferneustedt5093
    @jenniferneustedt5093 8 месяцев назад +1

    Me and my husband have been together for 21 years. Hoping to see one of these episodes with older couple

  • @blaze14ZX
    @blaze14ZX 8 месяцев назад +2

    I really liked this episode, I'm glad they had a very diverse cast and did not highlight thar in the video title. Too often those titles can sound hollow of surface level and this definitely was not surface level.

  • @lobmob3235
    @lobmob3235 8 месяцев назад +56

    Randall and Shani are the model/example that the black community should strive for. Beautiful (and yes I’m a brother/black 😂)

    • @keysersoze5032
      @keysersoze5032 8 месяцев назад +7

      These channels never want to show positive blk couples for some reason.

    • @alchemicalnurturer
      @alchemicalnurturer 8 месяцев назад +1

      They are beautiful. How it should be. Mutual respect, boundaries, principles. Just healthy and that’s what thrives. ❤️🌞 I hope this sort of peace for everyone 👍🏼

  • @saggilennox9788
    @saggilennox9788 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love how into it yall were and catching the slick lines! Song is 🔥

  • @simongamez
    @simongamez 8 месяцев назад +2

    I cried the whole time. These couples are wholesome.

  • @trba7996
    @trba7996 8 месяцев назад +23

    How are yall commenting if the runtime of the video is longer than the time the video has been released 😭

    • @malice4422
      @malice4422 8 месяцев назад +4

      Because prejudice does not wait

    • @angiew2324
      @angiew2324 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@malice4422 Prejudice? People are just responding as things come up, that's all.

    • @malice4422
      @malice4422 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@angiew2324do u see the amount of comments referring to the “unequal” proportion of gay and biracial relationships

    • @angiew2324
      @angiew2324 8 месяцев назад

      @@malice4422 Yes, but there are only a couple of those - most are kids leaving the "it's illegal to be this early" kind of comments.
      I don't think the ones you're talking about are necessarily prejudice though, but rather an observation. Someone doesn't have to dislike black or gay people to recognize that some companies/commercials/TV shows/movies/etc., are going overboard trying to represent certain people; many black & gay people recognize it themselves.
      It's been taken to an unnatural extreme, it would be offensive to me if I were gay or a minority.

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms 8 месяцев назад +3

    I'm glad the black women or mixed women didnt let family push them around and dictate who they should or shouldn't marry. Way to go! 👏

  • @jlopzzz9000
    @jlopzzz9000 8 месяцев назад +11

    LOVED this video and these couples

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads 8 месяцев назад +3

    All the couples seemed in very fulfilling marriages. I, too, wouldn’t accept it if my partner had had a relationship outside ours. As for religion, we’re both atheists.
    Fifty years ago, many young women were becoming feminist (I was one), and many women were working outside the home. Her question applies much more to women of seventy years ago and before that.

  • @ElleDiablo
    @ElleDiablo 8 месяцев назад +3

    Daniel seems anxious talking about his family. He's switching from one foot to the other constantly when she started talking about them. Idk what happened but really hope he's more at peace with and comforted by his new family.

  • @LizzieMcgraw
    @LizzieMcgraw 8 месяцев назад +34

    just had to drop a comment to say how amazing this video was.

  • @OliveInfinity
    @OliveInfinity 8 месяцев назад +8

    the clickbait thumbnail of him asking if they should get a divorce

  • @DanTheMagnusMan
    @DanTheMagnusMan 8 месяцев назад +7

    The editor(s) of this video should improve somethings. The studio background is white so the Jubilee logo, topic they are discussing etc should be in a different color.

  • @WhatAlex
    @WhatAlex 8 месяцев назад +4

    Hoping all these couples have a happy and successful journey together :)

  • @josilync4699
    @josilync4699 8 месяцев назад +2

    The “I Have 5 senses” literally everyone 😂

  • @ztarr
    @ztarr 8 месяцев назад +31

    Aww that ended way too soon 🥲

  • @laurenplummer2306
    @laurenplummer2306 8 месяцев назад

    Sat down to watch this one especially. I so want to see more love and marriage in the world. I love to see how diverse you put everyone together. From the Christian couple to the gay couple.

  • @ahazzy2314
    @ahazzy2314 8 месяцев назад +5

    I love these couples wow. I feel like I learned a lot from all of them

  • @lokiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    @lokiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 8 месяцев назад +15

    WEST VIRGINIA MENTIONED RAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • @Samanthah1614
    @Samanthah1614 4 месяца назад +1

    This video was so sweet ❤ what lovely humans

  • @lizmassey6055
    @lizmassey6055 7 месяцев назад +9

    absolutely disgusted at the answers and reactions to the threesome question

  • @mckenzpace3710
    @mckenzpace3710 8 месяцев назад +3

    Shani and Randal are goals!

  • @doctorstephenstrange5689
    @doctorstephenstrange5689 8 месяцев назад +17

    Shani seems like such a girls girl and i love that

  • @Kijahlovex
    @Kijahlovex 3 месяца назад

    That tone talk..I needed to hear ❤

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain 8 месяцев назад +1

    Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals, a bond of love and commitment that signifies a lifelong journey together. A wedding is a celebration of this union, a joyous occasion where family and friends gather to witness and support the couple as they embark on this new chapter in their lives.

    • @gugulethu4155
      @gugulethu4155 4 месяца назад

      Well said....and personally it makes no sense to even consider a 3 Some in such union

  • @tik4toks
    @tik4toks 8 месяцев назад +73

    it feels illegal to be this early

  • @Bribreezzzyy
    @Bribreezzzyy 8 месяцев назад +1

    Aw they are so cute! Marriage is such a beautiful thing ❤

  • @robynmcmillan5048
    @robynmcmillan5048 8 месяцев назад +1

    Randy gives me George Clooney vibes! Gonna be cool forever dude.

  • @silveryfeather208
    @silveryfeather208 8 месяцев назад +4

    Jubilee you should do a range of ages for whatever. Like say 'senior (65+) conservatives vs young conservatives etc' Middle ground or whatever

    • @Mila76778
      @Mila76778 8 месяцев назад +1

      Probably hard to get older people since they aren’t on social media as much to be able to respond to casting calls

  • @scotul
    @scotul 8 месяцев назад +5

    def one of my fav episodes

  • @oliviabowen1032
    @oliviabowen1032 8 месяцев назад

    Great series and this may be the best of Split Decision. They all seem genuine about life and each other. Luca and Jai y’all are so great together. Randy and Shani are like the perfect Hollywood couple and they put their Faith first. Joshua and Ilaina have so many inspiring stories to tell and Hayley and Daniel are winners no matter what challenges come their way.

  • @loveparadise444
    @loveparadise444 8 месяцев назад +3

    this was such a beautiful episode ❤

  • @adellstewart2274
    @adellstewart2274 8 месяцев назад +11

    Randal and Shani, your honesty and vulnerability in the episode were truly inspiring! Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @fanymeows4512
    @fanymeows4512 3 месяца назад

    I loved this video! It was wholesome ❤

  • @theresacarroll1470
    @theresacarroll1470 8 месяцев назад

    Beautiful celebration of love and partnership. Shani and Randy, goals!!

  • @chloegracetv7344
    @chloegracetv7344 8 месяцев назад +7

    I reallllyyyyyy love the diversity in all these couples 🔥🔥🔥💚💚💚

  • @_yahir_7673
    @_yahir_7673 8 месяцев назад +2

    Missed opportunity to make their names goldish-yellow like the Jubilee logo, the white text containing their names blends in with the white background.

  • @nameless.faceless.
    @nameless.faceless. Месяц назад

    Shani is incredible. I love her energy

  • @morongoamasebe8030
    @morongoamasebe8030 6 месяцев назад

    The wisdom that oozes so easily out of Jai. Love to see it.

  • @LaToyaColeman-lm6uz
    @LaToyaColeman-lm6uz 7 месяцев назад +4

    I want a 5 and 10 year follow up

  • @BlueberrySummertime
    @BlueberrySummertime 8 месяцев назад +30

    I love the mixed representation in this! So many gorgeous faces