If their brother wants to look after them, then that is best, they can't look after themselves, and your viewers can't tolerate them living off the money people kindly give you, the gentleman needs your help, he is living in the worst case scanario, and can't do it in his own
that was my same thought, his mobility seems limited, just looking at his hands you can see he'd have difficulty washing up and getting changed. ideally, he needs to be somewhere with a caretaker. 😢 he seems so gentle and good-humored ❤
I think the main issue is that he is too depressed and is so far gone that he doesn't care enough to put in the effort to change clothes. He probably has deep unworthiness and severe shame and has lost all desire to better himself or simply to live. It's almost as though he's waiting for the moment it's all over. His response about the infection was strange too "no sense talking about it now" when it actually does make sense because he asked him when it happened to get an idea of how bad it is. Just what I inferred
If Tanya does not want to help herself, then there is nothing you can do for her. She is not willing to change her life, nor is her sister. When/if she is ready, she will come to you. As for the poor man, I pray that you can help him. He is such a sweet soul.
It's time to abandon the two trashy sisters they're only using you for what they can get from you... I've noticed that from day one she's not worth your time neither is the sister... The time wasted on those loser mooches could be spent on someone more deserving that's my opinion!. Like that poor guy losing his hand you got a tough situation there good luck with getting him to accept help
@@TimothyWJohnson-m1x He should have done that a while ago. But I can understand him. When he first helped Tanya she really gave the impression that she could change. Can't forget her smile when he gave her a complete transformation. Sadly, she's just a junky who banks on this. As a former heroin addict, I can only advise him to drop it. I was no different and took advantage of everyone who meant well and wanted to help. I hurt and took advantage of good people who only wanted to do good even my own family. But one day the good people were over and I ended up at the bottom. In the sewers, figuratively speaking. That was the point where I started to think that things couldn't go on like this. I had no one who wanted to help me anymore, everyone dropped me back then and rightly so. The person has to take the first step themselves and then you can help Tanya. I can only say from my own experience that only a few will learn and change. Personally, I doubt she will ever learn....
I get your concerns and frustrations. Unfortunately the medical community hasn't found a cure yet and societies need to educate their populations better. You're a compassionate person for trying to help. With such brain diseases like dementia, sometimes the best we can do is to keep them clean and safe. I really liked that you're concerned about the cat!! 👍
How can Russia, with all this land and resources, not be able to contain the poor? Russia has all the ingredients to simply be the richest country in the world
It's the good, ordinary people who pay the price. And the idiots who are charged to commit massacres in the name of religion, race, or nation Just fuel for the demons that rule the earth from behind the scenes Heads of state, government, and political parties are just an illusion for the real controllers @@nic12344
Why are you investing donations into people like Tanya who are showing no signs of wanting to improve their quality of life? Invest it in others. Why has Tanya become a “pet project”. She’s using you and ripping off the $ being spent on her when others you come into contact with would be better choices.
Continuing to give money to or buy things for Tanya and her sister is wasting money and supporting their addictions. I bet it causes viewers to not want to donate. I don't want one penny of my money to go towards anything for either of those 2 horrible women.
I saw a situation like this in India and what they did was they just cut his clothes off right where he was in the street and shaved his head and poured water on him to get him clean then put new clothes on him and took him to the hospital. He wasn’t willing to get up because he had an infection on his foot even they offered to carry him and he would not get up so they began to just do what they had to do right there and then and I thought that was a good idea. Maybe you can convince him that you could just shave his head and clean him and take his clothes right thereat his house. I don’t know. It’s just a suggestion.
I often think of that poor man when I watch your videos and wonder what has become of him. I wish you could get him to have a 'makeover' like some of the ladies. I know he has mental illness but I still think he would feel so much better to be clean and out of those festering rags. It might give him a little self esteem, who knows. I hope you succeed Sergei, but I'm not very hopeful. The neighbour is correct, medical help is needed right now. 😥 Bless you for all that you do.
Are you even human? Do you not have any humanity left inside of you or is this nation in such a derelict state tht there is no humanity left? This country is ran by so much evil tht it seeps down to the lowest of the low. We wont last much longer tht is for sure. God help us.
@@hellooutthere8956 Don't assume it's lack of compassion. Empathy and compassion can only go so far here. People need to help themselves at some point, and these alcoholic girls refuse to. You going to supply their beer? Others need food and shelter.
😓😥 haircut,clean clothes, antibiotics,food and a good clean to that place would be good 4 him I think.this makes me feel really bad.i hope this man can smile soon and have hope.big hugs 🤗 to him.much ❤️to you wonderful people
Problem is: in Russia, the culture is It's every man for himself.😢🤦♂️ Plus, he lives in a nearly deserted village, so it is really hard to get folks together and help. And usually hundreds of kilometers to the nearest city. Sergej is literally a one in a million.
For people saying he needs to want help no-one likes living like that he will be frightened to accept help it has to be based on trust and no judgement. He Will Know it's a mess. With time if he lives long enough and consistency he will let people in
@@thevocalcrone yes of course, this is what i meant by saying he could get shocked. His change needs to happen slowly but surely, which is also harder to do if he doesn't even have some people to be together with. Hopefully he will accept and be accepted into a good care place.
Thank you Sergei 🙏 Prayers for Lesha. The woman is correct, I don't think he will last another year. I hope Tanya's brother can do something about his sisters.
So heart breaking, if poor Lesha had a nice clean room , clothes and food and some kind people to take care of him, I think he would be happy. It must be awful living in filth, he's bright but not able figure out how to take care of himself. I think if he was offered the chance to stay somewhere clean with kind people to help him, he might agree. Sending healing prayers for him and the sisters. Thank you for all that you do. oxoxxo
i hope to have good news about poor guy soon! maybe if you see him more often and made friend with him! each week maybe you go and repeat same thing, change clothes, he find that absurd because its not his priority, but it s the priority for now, try to explain to him clearly. why its important not just said because for you its obvious, it is not for him! big hug beautiful
My stepfather was the same way. He stopped showering and changing his clothes or anything. he went on like this for many years refusing help, until he died of a stroke last year. The only way to help these people is to have them removed and put in a care facility.
So sad. I’m sorry for your loss, before your stepfather passed away, and of course, his passing. 😔 I’m wondering because of personal reasons, but you don’t have to answer; was there an incident that triggered the change in your stepfather’s behaviour? A trauma? Did he hit his head or get a brain injury? A major illness? Again, my deepest condolences.
@@cincoy3679That is a blanket judgment. There are places that are equipped to help family members that are excellent. There are also terrible ones. “Putting them away” assumes the family members will ignore or dump them off. That is the family’s choice. In the case of this man, who is living completely alone with no care and in dire need, a care facility would be of great benefit. Also is beneficial, longterm care facilities that are truly caring, and families who encircle their loved one and participate in the care. It happens. 💝
Sometimes I think Sergey has to feel like he is Atlas, with the weight of the entire world on his shoulders. Helping homeless people isn't so much money as it is the time to track them down and figuring out what they need, whether groceries, clothes, a kind word or a good @ss chewing. At least that is what I see here at our rescue mission. We need more people to help, not more money.
I don't know the laws in Russia, but certainly in Australia, you can get a court order that allows you to have someone put into care for treatment if it is determined that the patient is unable to care for themselves. Certainly, in this case, such an order would be possible.
It's so refreshing to hear another human explaining that mental illness is not a choice, it's chemicals in the brain, that are too low or too high, dopamine affects brain chemistry. I have two people close to me with mental health issues. They are both amazing strong individuals. It hurts me when others think mental illness is a choice, and judge my loved ones xxx
Please don't give up on this man! Keep trying to convince him that he needs help! He not only needs clothes and food but he desperately needs a bath and hair cut. There's got to be a way to convince him.
The worst thing that happened to Tanya after losing Dima, was her sister moving in. Why is Natasha living there now with a bunch of drunks and Tanya has been moved somewhere else? I hate to say it, Sergei, because we know you don’t want to give up on anyone, but maybe the funds you receive would be put to better use elsewhere.
Keep up the awesome work with the channel! On a side note, my name is also Sergio but I am from Mexico. Blessings onto Russia and its beautiful people ❤
Sergio, although people want to “give up” on Tanya & her sister, none of us know “when a light will turn on”, however, I do think that it’s best to reserve the finances for families & people who are not addicted. Give them moral support, always, but not money. As for the elderly mentally challenged man, he is in such a despairing condition, and, likely the rest of the finger can become a systemic sepsis which he will die a horrible death all alone. Please. 🙏 Intervene. An ambulance must come & convince him that they will help him. So very sad. My heart 💓 feels for people in this appalling condition. Thank you, Sergei, for the good work that you do. Blessings.
I'd love to see another video of the guy at the beginning of this video he's a difficult character to deal with but he deserves help. Thank you Sergei for what you do.
aww god bless lesha i wish i could magically bring him here so as i could take care of him. If only he could see he is worth so much more. As for them 2 young madams its time you walked away for good they are not worth another precious minute of your busy and caring time.
Mental illness is such a tragedy to deal with alone. Thank you for not giving up on this gentlemen Sergei. As for Tonya, unfortunately her and her sister don't seem to be good for each other, and her brother sounded possibly violent, in my opinion. It's going to come down to her loving herself enough to stop drinking and change her lifestyle.
You are such a good kind person. All the effort you out in to help these people..and they are in such a bad mental or addictive state. Why to Never start drinking! Keep up the wonderful work and support you give. Amazing.
Sending positive healing hugs to Lasha; Poor Man, he's completely broken inside 💔a part of me can relate; having lost all i had, but I had at least, my partner and my kids...to be completely alone with no one to even share anything with is hell
Please help Lesha, poor guy needs some intervention. How does he havr capacity? He needs assessment and even with clean clothes and a bath and haircut, his house is filthy! He needs help, please help him! I feel so sorry for him, when i first saw him standing in the street in the cold my heart cried for him... Sergei please fo your best, and try to get some medical assistance too. Thank you for all you do Sergei, please look after yourself too. Tanya needs help too, but in the form of a drying out clinic... But she probably wont want to go. I pray for Lesha 🙏please update us soon 🤞🏼❤️
*That's very badly infected* . He needs antibiotics or he will get sepsis.Sepsis is deadly! *Maybe could some Americans mail Sergei some Neosporin* or the Walmart version for the old pensioners and villagers who can't or won't go to the doctor! That Neosporin stuff is amazing! 👌❤️
Some people just do the same things over and over again like that young lady. At this point, she’s beyond hope. Please,sir do everything you can to help that poor man..God bless✝️🙏🏻
Are you taking good care of yourself, Sergei? Are you eating enough? I’m afraid Tanya and her sister have chosen a disreputable way. The poor gentleman has retreated into his mental illness. I don’t know what you can do about it in your country. If something could have been done to help, you would have done it. God Bless you for trying to help anyway, both of you. Be Well!!💙💙
Sergei, I think Lesha has a major depression condition. I suffer clinical depression, and some days I just don't want to go out or do anything. I am on an anti depressant, and it helps, but nothing helps to make me feel "normal." If you could get him to a Dr. and put him on meds, it would improve his mind and he may be able to help himself. Poor man, he seems hopeless, and I think he knows he is suffering, but is either too proud to accept help, or feels it won't help. Please do all you can to get him to a Dr. And, Sergei, Tanya is a lost cause, she will only drink up any help you give her. Sorry, but I feel she doesn't want to give up drinking. Thank you for helping some, and trying to help others. Sergei, you are an angel. Stay safe.
@@nanmattingly6402Depressions are common for Schizophrenia, especially for Schizophrenia with "minus symptomatic" - but he's clearly a schizophrenic with or without productive symptoms
If his fingernails are that bad, imagine his toenails, muxh worse, preventing his shoes from fitting well. This man needs help, much more than clothes and groceries. 😢
OMG 😭 this poor man needs urgently a completely makeover and urgently HELP for his healthiness😢 SOS Please, someone must take responsability for him, it urges.
I was just wondering what happened to Lesha and this update popped up. My gosh, for his finger to have fallen offf and he doesnt know what happened. He could still have some infection in his body possibly. Please try to help this man if you can. I know some people may think this is cruel but he needs to be taken to the hospital even forcibly if it possible. He is in dier straights for sure.
His going to go gangrenous and die, please explain to him that side of infection. He is not healing, he is fighting an infection that's winning over time.
Lesha seems like a sweet man. He doesn't want you to spend money on him even though his shoes are tattered, "some glue" will get them to working good. I hope he accepts the help you give him ❤
Lesha needs all that nasty filthy matted hair shaved off, needs regular bathing, won't care for himself, likely needs cleaned up against his will, but he might like how much better he feels after hair shaved, bathing regularly and wearing clean clothes. I hope he might then be cooperative to accept regular bathing, shampooing, haircuts, clothes washing, etcetera. Hand needs medical care. Meanwhile, those alcoholic twins Natasha and Tanya have no excuse for their behavior. They are purposeful alcoholics, they drink by choice. At least in this video they are in separate apartments. Together they are much worse than either alone. They always have spongers hanging out in their apartments. They don't even try to stay sober. With less funding they might drink less. They should NOT be kept together anywhere.
In the US there is some kind of a hold that people with mental illness who are a danger to themselves can be put on and taken into custody. Is there anything like that in Russia? The poor guy needs that to break the cycle of mental illness. Hopefully it would give him a chance to see clearly
Being a retired software engineer, this hurts deep, he needs all the help he can get. Tonya and her sister, are a lost cause, and help provided to them should be redirected to the programmer
Thanks for trying to help. In my experience, alcohol addition knows no boundaries. No matter how smart you are, you can be fooled by alcohol. Poor Lesha, his brain is so scrambled. My heart goes out to him, he is running in circles.
It would be even worse if Sergei and others didn't care for him. Don't think your efforts for Lasha are wasted; they are NOT wasted. You are helping him to stay connected even that little bit. He strikes me as a very sensitive intelligent soul who appreciates you. I notice you are able to communicate with him better than the first time. The neighbour lady is correct - he should be cared for in a facility. Somewhere he could be kept on appropriate medication, fed and washed and then left in peace.
A hundred times more effective to PREVENT broken people. Focus on the small children, so that they can fly above all of this destruction to build a new Civilization.
As harsh as it may sound, I think the resources used to help Tanya would be used better on someone else. There is no point in helping someone who clearly does not want to change. What happened to the lady who had smoke in her house? I wish the old man would accept help for his condition. Medication may help him.
Help the poor old man bless him Tanya n her sister leave them to do what they doing as they. Not going to stop they totally taken advantage of you everyone else is so grateful to u any news on dimas passing yet
Lesha needs help, maybe start slow clean the outside and fumigate the house while he’s out so it can be cleaned. He may need to be baker Acted to be treated and started on a treatment regime. A group home, his brain works , a job which he can grow into- he loves computers something along that line. , there must be some thing
Tanya and Natasha won’t be ready for help until they hit rock bottom. If they no longer have shelter, can’t afford alcohol, etc., maybe they will be willing to try-for a while at least. Why do so many women believe they have to have a man in their life? If you are sober and want a male companion that is different. If you can’t think straight and feel the need to bring in people to leach off of you that is beyond sad.
There has to be a housing facility for men he can live at-after he is given medical treatment. He is intelligent, but certainly not in his right mind to be making decisions regarding his own welfare.
It seems like he is really depressed. No wonder living like that with no hope. People with depression will not make changes unless they are forced to or get treatment. I wish someone would cut his hair. He would feel so much better. Thank you for doing your best to help him.
There is a man younger than Lesha in my neighborhood who is also mentally ill and with Schizophrenia. He lives in a mobile home all torn up with no windows and outside walls missing because he tears it up. the yard looks like Lesha's. The police arrested him and he tried to take the gun from the policeman. After spending 3 months in jail he was released. He is up all night hollering and cursing walking down the street swinging a machete. He needs to be in a mental institution because he will not take his medications. Even here in the US nobody can do anything with him, he will not accept help. He is also a ticking time bomb and one day he is going to hurt someone really bad.
Call a united Pentecostal church, they will set him free! Guaranteed! Just do it. I don't belong to that church, I used to many years ago, but moved around; but they are powerful in helping hopeless people. At least ring one up and tell the minister what's going on and see what he says. Please do it before you give up. Thank you.
Hello from Estonia, Vasya! I can completely understand how someone could end up like this...I've also worked with computers for most of my life and even now when I have a wife and a kid, I am struggling very hard from lifelong depression. Often it feels like impossible task to even go take a shower or get haircut...and there is nothing rational behind it. Severe depression just makes you give up on life even though from the outside the life looks great, but if your brain circuits are not firing correctly you will get worse and worse to the point where you end up like him... It's very sad to see.
I wonder if there would be enough Good Samaritans in the village willing to help lesha for a day to improve things a bit.. if a group of villagers turned up on a day to clean out his house of rubbish and disinfect and clean the rooms he may well feel enlightened enough to get a warm shower or bath and haircut and don some good hard wearing cloths and boots.. you do see instances of mega hoarders who end up living surrounded by garbage and filth to the point that cleaning up becomes such a mammoth task it becomes beyond them and that makes their situation spiral out of control. If well wishers or locals with good intentions ( or worse case paid extreme cleaning company) could come with a skip and clean and clear out the house I’m sure he would feel a lot better for it and boost his esteem and lift his spirit and help his depressive state.
I was thinking the same. Everything seems hopeless to him right now, but with care and help of the bigger things, he may start to care for himself more. He seems so humble and he is grateful that someone cares, but doesn't think he is worthy.
Sergei maybe wild idea but I'm grasping at straws here : maybe if you approach Lesha like this, and tell him, “please I'm asking you as a favor to me will you at least let me get you treatment? Just for my own peace of mind?” If you present it as letting him help you for *your* sake, maybe he might see himself as helping *you* and that might make him more open to it?
I can only wish you good luck in all your work, I hope you never lose your courage and hope. Never take your efforts as pointless because your efforts even though they may not be as successful as you wish, you are still one of the brightest lights in this world.
Tanya doesn't understand that she has a problem. She is helpless and I fear hopeless. As for that dear gentleman... Yes,if His mind is chemically imbalanced the only thing that will make him see clearly Is with the right medications. I don't know if you can Get him into a fit state that he realizes he needs help.. That's pretty obvious from the fact that It did not phase him that his finger just fell off 1 day. I can only imagine the stench From his clothing and not bathing. I hope and pray that you can get him the help that he needs and he needs to be cognitive enough so that he understands it is for his benefit. Mental illness From chemical imbalance is very hard to get them to see the reason Behind taking the medication. They think that they are fine As you are obviously aware of.🙏🙏🙏🙏 Bless you and your family. You are an amazing man.
Maybe he has severe depression or some other mental illness.Maybe alcohol. He may not be able to understand how bad it is. It happens very slowly over time. If he is depressed he may also think he doesn't deserve anything. Also a fear of change, no matter how bad the situation. Depression is terrible to deal with in good conditions with medical treatment and resources, I cannot imagine in this case. I hope he can find a way to a better place.
He did say he'd like help giving his place a good cleaning. What kind of help is he asking for from the government? Was there some kind of accident or incident in which he was injured by someone or something?
8:57 I’m crying for this sweet man Lesha who clearly has a disorder (possibly a form of OCD or definitely a paranoia) and such a fear of change (quite literally, with his clothing) and fear of losing the tiny bit of familiar things he has. I wonder what happened to him? I wonder how he was before. She should be saying serotonin, not sertraline. Sertraline is a medication. Serotonin is the hormone. But the premise, yes. I am so sad for him.
We have many similar situations in the US. The laws work against getting help for people in these situations. Some states in the US have a statute commonly known as the Baker Act. A person can be arrested and be taken into hospital custody and treated/observed for 72 hours if family/neighbors deem them a danger to themselves or others. Rarely is this enough in cases of addiction. Thank y'all for your work. It is frustrating.
Without knowledge of his specific mental illness, I sure can't comment. I wish it were as simple as getting them out of the premises long enough to deep clean and make safe... then bring him home. I suspect that would be a trigger that would blow up. As for the sisters, what strikes me is how much thought, money and effort has been spent on them. What hurts more is a sense Tanya's young husband was "spent". Wasted on efforts to provide a good life for her, only to end up dead. Somehow caught up in something because of the sort of lifestyle she's lead. Harsh but a sense of truth because he appeared to absolutely know right from wrong and worked hard to make good use of the help he was given. I absolutely hate thinking people are "right offs" but these women seem to be hell bent on self destruction, no matter of any help they get Best of luck, sincerely, helping this complex old man.
Please don't think badly of yourself when you cannot help someone, your heart is in the right place, and it's better to remain on good terms with these people instead of forcing the help on them because you may be able to help later on when they're ready to accept it. I just hope that as depressing and heartwrenching everything is....that it doesn't break your spirit, the world needs more people like you.
Help the gentleman please, he doesn't deserve his life as it is. As for tanya, walk away , she is a lost cause.
I agree. Help the man. He needs assistance. He is totally lost. As for Tanya and her sister, give up; they don't deserve your help and kindness
You can't help a person who doesn't want your help.
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If their brother wants to look after them, then that is best, they can't look after themselves, and your viewers can't tolerate them living off the money people kindly give you, the gentleman needs your help, he is living in the worst case scanario, and can't do it in his own
@DimiHard that applies for Lesha and Tanya, he can't do anything by law.
I think about that poor man quite often and wonder what has happened to him. He may be embarrassed to tell you he can't get dressed by himself.
Mental illness.😢
that was my same thought, his mobility seems limited, just looking at his hands you can see he'd have difficulty washing up and getting changed. ideally, he needs to be somewhere with a caretaker. 😢 he seems so gentle and good-humored ❤
Exactly!
I think the main issue is that he is too depressed and is so far gone that he doesn't care enough to put in the effort to change clothes. He probably has deep unworthiness and severe shame and has lost all desire to better himself or simply to live. It's almost as though he's waiting for the moment it's all over. His response about the infection was strange too "no sense talking about it now" when it actually does make sense because he asked him when it happened to get an idea of how bad it is. Just what I inferred
If Tanya does not want to help herself, then there is nothing you can do for her. She is not willing to change her life, nor is her sister. When/if she is ready, she will come to you. As for the poor man, I pray that you can help him. He is such a sweet soul.
I completely agree. That poor man is so humble. He is deserving of help.
It's time to abandon the two trashy sisters they're only using you for what they can get from you... I've noticed that from day one she's not worth your time neither is the sister... The time wasted on those loser mooches could be spent on someone more deserving that's my opinion!. Like that poor guy losing his hand you got a tough situation there good luck with getting him to accept help
I wonder if the girls suffered from fetal alcohol syndrome? It is a shame.
@@TimothyWJohnson-m1x He should have done that a while ago. But I can understand him. When he first helped Tanya she really gave the impression that she could change. Can't forget her smile when he gave her a complete transformation. Sadly, she's just a junky who banks on this.
As a former heroin addict, I can only advise him to drop it. I was no different and took advantage of everyone who meant well and wanted to help. I hurt and took advantage of good people who only wanted to do good even my own family. But one day the good people were over and I ended up at the bottom. In the sewers, figuratively speaking. That was the point where I started to think that things couldn't go on like this. I had no one who wanted to help me anymore, everyone dropped me back then and rightly so. The person has to take the first step themselves and then you can help Tanya. I can only say from my own experience that only a few will learn and change. Personally, I doubt she will ever learn....
I get your concerns and frustrations. Unfortunately the medical community hasn't found a cure yet and societies need to educate their populations better. You're a compassionate person for trying to help. With such brain diseases like dementia, sometimes the best we can do is to keep them clean and safe. I really liked that you're concerned about the cat!! 👍
This is beyond terrible. That poor human being.
You are a good man . One day i hope to visit russia and meet people like you. True gentleman. Serbia russia brothers forever. Bless you
thank you for your support! Сome to Russia, I would love to chat with you over a cup of tea
How can Russia, with all this land and resources, not be able to contain the poor?
Russia has all the ingredients to simply be the richest country in the world
@@heshamabdou5259 They just need to stop spending all their GDP attacking other countries...
It's the good, ordinary people who pay the price.
And the idiots who are charged to commit massacres in the name of religion, race, or nation
Just fuel for the demons that rule the earth from behind the scenes
Heads of state, government, and political parties are just an illusion for the real controllers
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@@nic12344 Like USA right ?
Why are you investing donations into people like Tanya who are showing no signs of wanting to improve their quality of life? Invest it in others. Why has Tanya become a “pet project”. She’s using you and ripping off the $ being spent on her when others you come into contact with would be better choices.
Continuing to give money to or buy things for Tanya and her sister is wasting money and supporting their addictions. I bet it causes viewers to not want to donate. I don't want one penny of my money to go towards anything for either of those 2 horrible women.
Please help this poor man, he needs you very much. Tanya doesn't want help, forget about her. Thank you.❤❤
I saw a situation like this in India and what they did was they just cut his clothes off right where he was in the street and shaved his head and poured water on him to get him clean then put new clothes on him and took him to the hospital. He wasn’t willing to get up because he had an infection on his foot even they offered to carry him and he would not get up so they began to just do what they had to do right there and then and I thought that was a good idea. Maybe you can convince him that you could just shave his head and clean him and take his clothes right thereat his house. I don’t know. It’s just a suggestion.
That poor guy needs a long needed shower, shave & haircut. Thank you for helping him.
I so thought that's what they were going to do lol I was anticipating the before and after shots
you need to stop giving to these two woman they are making a fool of you ..only out to get money off you
I often think of that poor man when I watch your videos and wonder what has become of him. I wish you could get him to have a 'makeover' like some of the ladies. I know he has mental illness but I still think he would feel so much better to be clean and out of those festering rags. It might give him a little self esteem, who knows. I hope you succeed Sergei, but I'm not very hopeful. The neighbour is correct, medical help is needed right now. 😥
Bless you for all that you do.
cleaning up the house and garden would also help
These 2 girls are an absolute waste of your time and kindness. STOP wasting Patron funds on helping them please!!!
Are you even human? Do you not have any humanity left inside of you or is this nation in such a derelict state tht there is no humanity left? This country is ran by so much evil tht it seeps down to the lowest of the low. We wont last much longer tht is for sure. God help us.
How can you have no compassion in your soul? Not everyone has lived such a blessed life.
@@hellooutthere8956 Don't assume it's lack of compassion. Empathy and compassion can only go so far here.
People need to help themselves at some point, and these alcoholic girls refuse to.
You going to supply their beer?
Others need food and shelter.
Give up on Tanya! Don't waste your time anymore.
Rest in peace Dima. We still don’t know what happened to that poor man.
@@unknownorigin9517 Almost certainly murdered and she knows more about it.
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Perhaps that is why she is drinking so much.
@@sharong8511 She was an alcoholic before she met Dima, she is an addict and should be left to her own devices.
@@pooooornopigeonwhy was he murdered?
😓😥 haircut,clean clothes, antibiotics,food and a good clean to that place would be good 4 him I think.this makes me feel really bad.i hope this man can smile soon and have hope.big hugs 🤗 to him.much ❤️to you wonderful people
yes but he needs to want it too. seems he could easily get shocked
And a bath
Problem is: in Russia, the culture is It's every man for himself.😢🤦♂️ Plus, he lives in a nearly deserted village, so it is really hard to get folks together and help. And usually hundreds of kilometers to the nearest city. Sergej is literally a one in a million.
For people saying he needs to want help no-one likes living like that he will be frightened to accept help it has to be based on trust and no judgement. He Will Know it's a mess. With time if he lives long enough and consistency he will let people in
@@thevocalcrone yes of course, this is what i meant by saying he could get shocked. His change needs to happen slowly but surely, which is also harder to do if he doesn't even have some people to be together with. Hopefully he will accept and be accepted into a good care place.
Thank you Sergei 🙏 Prayers for Lesha. The woman is correct, I don't think he will last another year. I hope Tanya's brother can do something about his sisters.
"He hasn't changed clothes in 6 years" typical programmer there
So heart breaking, if poor Lesha had a nice clean room , clothes and food and some kind people to take care of him, I think he would be happy. It must be awful living in filth, he's bright but not able figure out how to take care of himself. I think if he was offered the chance to stay somewhere clean with kind people to help him, he might agree. Sending healing prayers for him and the sisters. Thank you for all that you do. oxoxxo
Leave the ladies to their fate. Some bums will always take away everything you give them. Lesha needs to be put in a care home before he passes away.
I’m ready for the follow-up …
what horrific things happen to those with mental health issues … 😔
Some are born with it.
Love and respect from Denmark 🇩🇰❤️🇷🇺
i hope to have good news about poor guy soon! maybe if you see him more often and made friend with him! each week maybe you go and repeat same thing, change clothes, he find that absurd because its not his priority, but it s the priority for now, try to explain to him clearly. why its important not just said because for you its obvious, it is not for him! big hug beautiful
Excellent advice.
My stepfather was the same way. He stopped showering and changing his clothes or anything. he went on like this for many years refusing help, until he died of a stroke last year. The only way to help these people is to have them removed and put in a care facility.
Feel so bad for Tanya’s brother
sorry but true. he needs medication
Not sure putting someone in a care facility is helping them
So sad. I’m sorry for your loss, before your stepfather passed away, and of course, his passing. 😔 I’m wondering because of personal reasons, but you don’t have to answer; was there an incident that triggered the change in your stepfather’s behaviour? A trauma? Did he hit his head or get a brain injury? A major illness? Again, my deepest condolences.
@@cincoy3679That is a blanket judgment. There are places that are equipped to help family members that are excellent. There are also terrible ones. “Putting them away” assumes the family members will ignore or dump them off. That is the family’s choice. In the case of this man, who is living completely alone with no care and in dire need, a care facility would be of great benefit. Also is beneficial, longterm care facilities that are truly caring, and families who encircle their loved one and participate in the care. It happens. 💝
Sometimes I think Sergey has to feel like he is Atlas, with the weight of the entire world on his shoulders. Helping homeless people isn't so much money as it is the time to track them down and figuring out what they need, whether groceries, clothes, a kind word or a good @ss chewing. At least that is what I see here at our rescue mission. We need more people to help, not more money.
He needs to be taken to hospital by force 😮😮 SICKENING
You can't force him.
Have you SEEN the hospitals? If you had, you might keep your FeELiNgS in check...jfc, YOU send a family member FIRST and report on your findings...
Are you fuc.... serious ? Hospital has to be better than where he is now !!! Wake up ,,
I don't know the laws in Russia, but certainly in Australia, you can get a court order that allows you to have someone put into care for treatment if it is determined that the patient is unable to care for themselves. Certainly, in this case, such an order would be possible.
@@divahc1 I bet, it's not that easy as you think, but please hook us up with a link.
i just think about him yesterday! its time to help this gentle men. new life for him if he let go past.
It's so refreshing to hear another human explaining that mental illness is not a choice, it's chemicals in the brain, that are too low or too high, dopamine affects brain chemistry. I have two people close to me with mental health issues. They are both amazing strong individuals. It hurts me when others think mental illness is a choice, and judge my loved ones xxx
He probably never washes himself , his clothes are filthy rags 😮😮😮
Please don't give up on this man! Keep trying to convince him that he needs help! He not only needs clothes and food but he desperately needs a bath and hair cut. There's got to be a way to convince him.
The worst thing that happened to Tanya after losing Dima, was her sister moving in. Why is Natasha living there now with a bunch of drunks and Tanya has been moved somewhere else? I hate to say it, Sergei, because we know you don’t want to give up on anyone, but maybe the funds you receive would be put to better use elsewhere.
I think she had something to do with his death
Keep up the awesome work with the channel!
On a side note, my name is also Sergio but I am from Mexico. Blessings onto Russia and its beautiful people ❤
Omg this is terrifying condition so sad😢😢
Lesha, you are loved brother, in ALL you do. God loves you brother. 😊❤
Sergio, although people want to
“give up” on Tanya & her sister,
none of us know “when a light will turn on”, however, I do think that it’s best to reserve the finances for families & people who are not addicted. Give them moral support, always, but not money.
As for the elderly mentally challenged man, he is in such a
despairing condition, and, likely the rest of the finger can become a systemic sepsis which he will die a horrible death all alone. Please. 🙏
Intervene. An ambulance must come & convince him that they will help him.
So very sad.
My heart 💓 feels for people in this appalling condition.
Thank you, Sergei, for the good work that you do. Blessings.
Yes 😢
His hand is swollen. He has to have a major infection for his finger to have fallen off.
Never mind those who you cant help anymore. Those women cant be help. Save the cats
I'd love to see another video of the guy at the beginning of this video he's a difficult character to deal with but he deserves help. Thank you Sergei for what you do.
aww god bless lesha i wish i could magically bring him here so as i could take care of him. If only he could see he is worth so much more. As for them 2 young madams its time you walked away for good they are not worth another precious minute of your busy and caring time.
That's lovely of you Anne,to want to take care of the man.
Walk away from alcoholic people after they proved that your help was for nothing.. they didn’t deserved your time.
Is he an alcoholic ??
@@jean2740No. Tanya and her sister are alcoholics.
Anna you are a cruel human being.
@@patrickbaron6921why?!
Mental illness is such a tragedy to deal with alone. Thank you for not giving up on this gentlemen Sergei. As for Tonya, unfortunately her and her sister don't seem to be good for each other, and her brother sounded possibly violent, in my opinion. It's going to come down to her loving herself enough to stop drinking and change her lifestyle.
I would assume people like this would only stop doing something out of fear, you can't reach their conscious, unfortunately (I mean those women).
You are such a good kind person. All the effort you out in to help these people..and they are in such a bad mental or addictive state. Why to Never start drinking! Keep up the wonderful work and support you give. Amazing.
Sending positive healing hugs to Lasha; Poor Man, he's completely broken inside 💔a part of me can relate; having lost all i had, but I had at least, my partner and my kids...to be completely alone with no one to even share anything with is hell
I’m glad you have family. I hope your situation is improving.
Please help Lesha, poor guy needs some intervention. How does he havr capacity? He needs assessment and even with clean clothes and a bath and haircut, his house is filthy! He needs help, please help him! I feel so sorry for him, when i first saw him standing in the street in the cold my heart cried for him... Sergei please fo your best, and try to get some medical assistance too. Thank you for all you do Sergei, please look after yourself too. Tanya needs help too, but in the form of a drying out clinic... But she probably wont want to go. I pray for Lesha 🙏please update us soon 🤞🏼❤️
Guys of that severe condition need physical intervention. When the hole is so deep they can no longer climb out by themselves.
*That's very badly infected* . He needs antibiotics or he will get sepsis.Sepsis is deadly!
*Maybe could some Americans mail Sergei some Neosporin* or the Walmart version for the old pensioners and villagers who can't or won't go to the doctor!
That Neosporin stuff is amazing! 👌❤️
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Hello from Ireland 🇮🇪🇮🇪💚
Some people just do the same things over and over again like that young lady. At this point, she’s beyond hope. Please,sir do everything you can to help that poor man..God bless✝️🙏🏻
this is sad this man as given up he just needs someone to give him hope
Hi amazing Earth Angels! ❤❤❤❤! Praying for this man!
Cringe.
@@shadowbanned1999not cringe at all. That’s the only thing that will set him free from this mental bondage he is in.
Amen. 🙏 ❤
Are you taking good care of yourself, Sergei? Are you eating enough?
I’m afraid Tanya and her sister have chosen a disreputable way.
The poor gentleman has retreated into his mental illness. I don’t know what you can do about it in your country. If something could have been done to help, you would have done it.
God Bless you for trying to help anyway, both of you. Be Well!!💙💙
Sergei, I think Lesha has a major depression condition. I suffer clinical depression, and some days I just don't want to go out or do anything. I am on an anti depressant, and it helps, but nothing helps to make me feel "normal." If you could get him to a Dr. and put him on meds, it would improve his mind and he may be able to help himself. Poor man, he seems hopeless, and I think he knows he is suffering, but is either too proud to accept help, or feels it won't help. Please do all you can to get him to a Dr. And, Sergei, Tanya is a lost cause, she will only drink up any help you give her. Sorry, but I feel she doesn't want to give up drinking. Thank you for helping some, and trying to help others. Sergei, you are an angel. Stay safe.
@@amoxziim almost sure he suffers from schizoaffective disorder.
@@amoxzi I know, but he doesn't have those symptoms, that's why I commented about clinical depression.
@@amoxziI didn’t pick up on that. 🤷♀️
@@nanmattingly6402Depressions are common for Schizophrenia, especially for Schizophrenia with "minus symptomatic" - but he's clearly a schizophrenic with or without productive symptoms
Alcohol has ruined many lives
If his fingernails are that bad, imagine his toenails, muxh worse, preventing his shoes from fitting well. This man needs help, much more than clothes and groceries. 😢
Yep I would Help The Old Guy Sergei and let Tanya Go There is Services out there that they can Contact If They want Help Tc Charlie
OMG 😭 this poor man needs urgently a completely makeover and urgently HELP for his healthiness😢 SOS Please, someone must take responsability for him, it urges.
Too smart for this world.
Yes. Has he been driven mad in this world? Probably a tortured genius.
I was just wondering what happened to Lesha and this update popped up. My gosh, for his finger to have fallen offf and he doesnt know what happened. He could still have some infection in his body possibly. Please try to help this man if you can. I know some people may think this is cruel but he needs to be taken to the hospital even forcibly if it possible. He is in dier straights for sure.
You've done enough for the sisters....Let the brother take over. Not you responsibility anymore....Help the old man.
Is there no way he can be sectioned to a hospital he needs help really bad 😕
His going to go gangrenous and die, please explain to him that side of infection. He is not healing, he is fighting an infection that's winning over time.
That man needs some serious antibiotics
The infection is still visible in the hand with the swelling and reddening! 😮
And meds schizofreni
Lesha seems like a sweet man. He doesn't want you to spend money on him even though his shoes are tattered, "some glue" will get them to working good. I hope he accepts the help you give him ❤
Lesha needs all that nasty filthy matted hair shaved off, needs regular bathing, won't care for himself, likely needs cleaned up against his will, but he might like how much better he feels after hair shaved, bathing regularly and wearing clean clothes. I hope he might then be cooperative to accept regular bathing, shampooing, haircuts, clothes washing, etcetera. Hand needs medical care. Meanwhile, those alcoholic twins Natasha and Tanya have no excuse for their behavior. They are purposeful alcoholics, they drink by choice. At least in this video they are in separate apartments. Together they are much worse than either alone. They always have spongers hanging out in their apartments. They don't even try to stay sober. With less funding they might drink less. They should NOT be kept together anywhere.
In the US there is some kind of a hold that people with mental illness who are a danger to themselves can be put on and taken into custody. Is there anything like that in Russia? The poor guy needs that to break the cycle of mental illness. Hopefully it would give him a chance to see clearly
Being a retired software engineer, this hurts deep, he needs all the help he can get. Tonya and her sister, are a lost cause, and help provided to them should be redirected to the programmer
Would like to see the makeover of that dude with new clothes and a new haircut
Thanks for trying to help. In my experience, alcohol addition knows no boundaries. No matter how smart you are, you can be fooled by alcohol. Poor Lesha, his brain is so scrambled. My heart goes out to him, he is running in circles.
Sergei.. You can only help people for so long than you gotta let go. Forget about Tanya. Help the computer guy. He deserves lots of help.
Giving this man a day or moment of comfort in his days of pain and hell, is a beautiful thing. Dont give up your mission.
Those sisters are really something.
This is gonna be Asmondgold in a few years time.
Just sad, all around. You're a strong man, I don't know that I could stomach this suffering and hopelessness.
It would be even worse if Sergei and others didn't care for him. Don't think your efforts for Lasha are wasted; they are NOT wasted. You are helping him to stay connected even that little bit. He strikes me as a very sensitive intelligent soul who appreciates you. I notice you are able to communicate with him better than the first time. The neighbour lady is correct - he should be cared for in a facility. Somewhere he could be kept on appropriate medication, fed and washed and then left in peace.
He needs to be taken away in a sanitarium , bathe ,groomed and be broth back to life and health , very sad 😢❤
Do you have any idea about russian psych wards?
Very difficult to fix broken people. Helping them live a little longer is all we can do.
A hundred times more effective to PREVENT broken people. Focus on the small children, so that they can fly above all of this destruction to build a new Civilization.
As harsh as it may sound, I think the resources used to help Tanya would be used better on someone else. There is no point in helping someone who clearly does not want to change. What happened to the lady who had smoke in her house? I wish the old man would accept help for his condition. Medication may help him.
Help the poor old man bless him Tanya n her sister leave them to do what they doing as they. Not going to stop they totally taken advantage of you everyone else is so grateful to u any news on dimas passing yet
Sergei please walk away from those sisters. They do not want your help to recover. They only want money to drink. Time to close the door on them.
Sending prayers 🙏 to this man situation is so sad 😞 Ty Sergei for all you do God bless you and your camera man. Watching from Colorado 🇺🇲
Lesha needs help, maybe start slow clean the outside and fumigate the house while he’s out so it can be cleaned. He may need to be baker Acted to be treated and started on a treatment regime. A group home, his brain works , a job which he can grow into- he loves computers something along that line. , there must be some thing
Sergei shouldn’t even bother with the sisters, they don’t want to change their life style
Please help the Cat for real the Cat doesent deserve to be there and is cleary depressed doesent even look at you
Be safe too Brother. 🙏
leave them alone, you going to get them sent to be fodder
This is the most saddest man I’ve ever seen😢 god bless his soul 😢🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tanya and Natasha won’t be ready for help until they hit rock bottom. If they no longer have shelter, can’t afford alcohol, etc., maybe they will be willing to try-for a while at least. Why do so many women believe they have to have a man in their life? If you are sober and want a male companion that is different. If you can’t think straight and feel the need to bring in people to leach off of you that is beyond sad.
It's called 'co-dependency'.
There has to be a housing facility for men he can live at-after he is given medical treatment. He is intelligent, but certainly not in his right mind to be making decisions regarding his own welfare.
It seems like he is really depressed. No wonder living like that with no hope. People with depression will not make changes unless they are forced to or get treatment. I wish someone would cut his hair. He would feel so much better. Thank you for doing your best to help him.
There is a man younger than Lesha in my neighborhood who is also mentally ill and with Schizophrenia. He lives in a mobile home all torn up with no windows and outside walls missing because he tears it up. the yard looks like Lesha's. The police arrested him and he tried to take the gun from the policeman. After spending 3 months in jail he was released. He is up all night hollering and cursing walking down the street swinging a machete. He needs to be in a mental institution because he will not take his medications. Even here in the US nobody can do anything with him, he will not accept help. He is also a ticking time bomb and one day he is going to hurt someone really bad.
Just say you seen him chasing someone with the piece. But the prison system will probably kill himm
Call a united Pentecostal church, they will set him free! Guaranteed! Just do it. I don't belong to that church, I used to many years ago, but moved around; but they are powerful in helping hopeless people.
At least ring one up and tell the minister what's going on and see what he says.
Please do it before you give up. Thank you.
@@shadowbanned1999how can you put a mentally ill (like a schizophrenic) in a prison?!
Hello from Estonia, Vasya! I can completely understand how someone could end up like this...I've also worked with computers for most of my life and even now when I have a wife and a kid, I am struggling very hard from lifelong depression. Often it feels like impossible task to even go take a shower or get haircut...and there is nothing rational behind it. Severe depression just makes you give up on life even though from the outside the life looks great, but if your brain circuits are not firing correctly you will get worse and worse to the point where you end up like him...
It's very sad to see.
I wonder if there would be enough Good Samaritans in the village willing to help lesha for a day to improve things a bit.. if a group of villagers turned up on a day to clean out his house of rubbish and disinfect and clean the rooms he may well feel enlightened enough to get a warm shower or bath and haircut and don some good hard wearing cloths and boots.. you do see instances of mega hoarders who end up living surrounded by garbage and filth to the point that cleaning up becomes such a mammoth task it becomes beyond them and that makes their situation spiral out of control.
If well wishers or locals with good intentions ( or worse case paid extreme cleaning company) could come with a skip and clean and clear out the house I’m sure he would feel a lot better for it and boost his esteem and lift his spirit and help his depressive state.
I was thinking the same. Everything seems hopeless to him right now, but with care and help of the bigger things, he may start to care for himself more. He seems so humble and he is grateful that someone cares, but doesn't think he is worthy.
Sergei maybe wild idea but I'm grasping at straws here : maybe if you approach Lesha like this, and tell him, “please I'm asking you as a favor to me will you at least let me get you treatment? Just for my own peace of mind?” If you present it as letting him help you for *your* sake, maybe he might see himself as helping *you* and that might make him more open to it?
This poor man must have suffered incredible pain. How horrible that no one can step in and put him in a safer environment.
I can only wish you good luck in all your work, I hope you never lose your courage and hope. Never take your efforts as pointless because your efforts even though they may not be as successful as you wish, you are still one of the brightest lights in this world.
There are so many people globally living in these conditions.
Please continue helping and sharing videos of the programmer guy. God bless you
Omg terrible 😢
Tanya doesn't understand that she has a problem. She is helpless and I fear hopeless.
As for that dear gentleman... Yes,if His mind is chemically imbalanced the only thing that will make him see clearly Is with the right medications. I don't know if you can Get him into a fit state that he realizes he needs help.. That's pretty obvious from the fact that It did not phase him that his finger just fell off 1 day. I can only imagine the stench From his clothing and not bathing. I hope and pray that you can get him the help that he needs and he needs to be cognitive enough so that he understands it is for his benefit. Mental illness From chemical imbalance is very hard to get them to see the reason Behind taking the medication. They think that they are fine As you are obviously aware of.🙏🙏🙏🙏 Bless you and your family. You are an amazing man.
Tanya and her sister are lost causes, leave them to their own ruin. Useless
Bless you for all you’re doing…🙏🙏🙏🥰
I really wish you could get him to go with you. So sad 😢 why does he want to live like that 😞
Maybe he has severe depression or some other mental illness.Maybe alcohol. He may not be able to understand how bad it is. It happens very slowly over time. If he is depressed he may also think he doesn't deserve anything. Also a fear of change, no matter how bad the situation. Depression is terrible to deal with in good conditions with medical treatment and resources, I cannot imagine in this case. I hope he can find a way to a better place.
When you lose everything you care about you don't care anymore.
He did say he'd like help giving his place a good cleaning.
What kind of help is he asking for from the government? Was there some kind of accident or incident in which he was injured by someone or something?
8:57 I’m crying for this sweet man Lesha who clearly has a disorder (possibly a form of OCD or definitely a paranoia) and such a fear of change (quite literally, with his clothing) and fear of losing the tiny bit of familiar things he has. I wonder what happened to him? I wonder how he was before.
She should be saying serotonin, not sertraline. Sertraline is a medication. Serotonin is the hormone. But the premise, yes. I am so sad for him.
We have many similar situations in the US. The laws work against getting help for
people in these situations.
Some states in the US have a statute commonly known as the Baker Act.
A person can be arrested and be taken into hospital custody and treated/observed for 72
hours if family/neighbors deem them a danger to themselves or others.
Rarely is this enough in cases of addiction.
Thank y'all for your work. It is frustrating.
Without knowledge of his specific mental illness, I sure can't comment. I wish it were as simple as getting them out of the premises long enough to deep clean and make safe... then bring him home. I suspect that would be a trigger that would blow up.
As for the sisters, what strikes me is how much thought, money and effort has been spent on them. What hurts more is a sense Tanya's young husband was "spent". Wasted on efforts to provide a good life for her, only to end up dead. Somehow caught up in something because of the sort of lifestyle she's lead. Harsh but a sense of truth because he appeared to absolutely know right from wrong and worked hard to make good use of the help he was given. I absolutely hate thinking people are "right offs" but these women seem to be hell bent on self destruction, no matter of any help they get
Best of luck, sincerely, helping this complex old man.
Please don't think badly of yourself when you cannot help someone, your heart is in the right place, and it's better to remain on good terms with these people instead of forcing the help on them because you may be able to help later on when they're ready to accept it. I just hope that as depressing and heartwrenching everything is....that it doesn't break your spirit, the world needs more people like you.