Summary : 1) Talk nicely about other people. 2) Be aware of ur body language. 3) Be aware of their body language as well. 4) Try not to judge anyone. 5) Ask them questions about their lives. 6) Spread happiness And positivity. 7) Let them know u like them. Hope i could help. Stay safe y'all 😄 Also, thanks a lot psych2go for all ur efforts. I will never regret subscribing this channel. Love ya so much 😘
I highly recommend Vanessa Van Edward’s book entitled “Captivate”. It states that studies have shown that the most likable people are the ones who like more people. In other words, if you like more people, people tend to like you back.
i don't believe that if you like people, people tend to like back, it's pretty relative tbh, people bend to carisma...i know it because my partner is very carismatic but he hates everyone and just wants ppl to go ded in a ditch, but people like him very much still :/ and he still gets more public than me, who likes people more and try my best
@@Suveramort I don't know, that sounds like a special case. Your partner is skilled at manipulation. They are actively deploying their charisma. This post is saying that, for the average person not trying to affect a result, people will respond positively to people they perceive as genuinely positive. You compared yourself to your partner when saying they get more public (attention?) than you, but let's ignore that. When you say you try your best, are you saying you try your best to be likeable? Do you feel like too few people respond positively to your efforts? You mentioned your partner dislikes humans but many people are drawn to them. Does this mean you are impressed and fascinated and care about others and their interests and goals, but still feel most people dislike you? It's possible that your feeling of being disliked is creating a distrust that you don't recognize, which is actually pushing people away. Just something to think about. Don't hold yourself to a quota, especially one based on such disingenuous behavior as you described from your partner. If you want to smile at others, do so. If they don't smile back, that's fine. It didn't stop you from smiling and being kind, and that's all you wanted to do so you succeeded. Maybe it caught them off guard, but it'll make them smile at the next person. Just assume your positive efforts have positive impacts you don't see, and hopefully you'll begin trusting them again. 😊
7 ways to make people like you MORE 0:25 Talk nicely about other people 1:03 Be aware of your body language 1:38 Be aware of their body language, too 2:16 Try not to judge anyone 2:59 Ask them questions about their lives 3:46 Spread happiness and positivity 4:28 Let them know you like them
Here’s some tips for being happier so you can spread joy: - every ngiht just write down 3 things that went well for you today -focus on what you have, not what you don’t -be empathetic -do random acts of kindness
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 no one is bad, I had thought these same stuffs about myself. But I know deep inside, nobody wants bad for others. Do u need that? Okay tell me, can u see a person suffering with that evil smile on ur face like Hitler.
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 and i can feel kind of politeness and bunch of insecurities in ur thoughts, it's okay to take time and reflect on ur thoughts. The universes have magic for u🌼 And also if u don't feel like socializing it's also okay. Have a great life AHEAD 🍃
So basically be a nice person and spread your happiness to others when you can....... I've been doing that for the past....... 3 years now and can confirm it does work. I've had a lot of people I work with say they just feel like I'm easy to talk to and my manager says I'm about the easiest person they know to get along with.
No.7 is a wild card that needs to be threaded carefully. After letting someone know you like them, if you give off hints of wanting romantic relationship but the other party wants to friendsone you instead = whatever enjoyable time you till then can go south, where the other party can ghost you out.
Idk what shitty people you hang around but I've told every one of my crushes that I've liked them. Sometimes it worked out. Sometimes it didnt. But i never got ghosted by them and we never stopped being friends for that reason
@@ezra5737 good for you, dear. How I wish the other 7.7+ billion of the world population would think & behave like your crushes would back to you. Or else, we wouldn't have experienced awkward meetings post-confession & the death of friendship overtime after the rejection.
Well i think its how you'd phrase it. You dont need to exactly say "i like you" you could also say Things like: you're a good friend, i enjoy being around you, i have so much fun with you. Or say things you like about them/with them directly. Like: playing video games with you is fun, i like the way you always have ideas for stuff.... Of course this COULD still imply feelings of love. But of you really anjoy being around someone and they Ghost you after telling them that, without ever stating why or see if they're right.... I dont think i'd want a friend like this anyways xD
There is one problem related to being happy about what other people are being happy about. If you're feeling not happy about what the others are being happy about but being forced to go along with it such as being forced to attend some loud and lawless parties where everyone goes wild with endless liquors, you won't feel happy because you're being forced to just to fit in with the others.
I’m honestly trying very hard to be more social. I’ve improved some which I’m proud of myself but I know there is always room to grow so thank you for this video!!
Ayo same here. I stay in a shell until someone talks to me. Then I might slowly get comfortable talking but that’s rare and that’s what I need to be better at - ( as well as reading emotions )
For the past while I've been on autopilot and distancing myself from others and staying isolated to the point where going to the mail box feels like a weight of bricks. But recently, I started to get myself out there by dressing up in my homemade Spider-Punk outfit and cruising around the streets on my long board and handing homemade stickers of my artwork. In addition, I enjoy hearing people tell me that I've made their day, it just makes feel true happiness. My father once told me, "Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys comfort and misery." And he continued how I was able to make people's day and at the same time feel happy with myself is something that can't be bought. Finally, Psych2Go has made me feel more confident about myself about who I am as a person. Thank you 💖😊
Note chameleon effect means matching other people's energy or body language, however, don't let it get too far. let them know when you're uncomfortable as well. You don't have to be friends with everyone especially if they do things you don't like. If you like being a listener that's cool, but if you like to talk about yourself, you can do that. If a person really likes you they want to get to know you. Do let them talk, no one likes it when someone only talks about themselves. Don't be judgemental doesn't mean don't have an opinion. They clearly said that so don't misunderstand. You don't have to fake it just learn that other people's views matter. THIS IS SO DAMN LONG. I feel like no one will read it, but try to. Hope it helps a bit
What it comes down to is to just be yourself. Work on yourself and truly refine yourself as a person. Anybody who doesn't like who you truly are isn't worth being liked by. I used to adapt to the people near me to be more likeable, but I'm more liked nowadays without giving a single care in the world about how people perceive my personality as. Obviously though don't treat hygeine the same way, be clean and work on your physical health. Just because you shouldn't value others' opinions on how you look/act doesn't mean you get to be a slob or an asshole. That's just my take on life anyways.
This is all amazing and totally true, but I still have the mental mindset of, “If I never show any signs of negativity, if I never show anger or sadness, if I just stay a happy bubble of joy forever, then they won’t hate me.” I always feel like my friends hate me, but are too nice to tell me so, so they just act like they like me. They’re good people, I know that, but my insecurities and overthinking make me feel that way. We have been getting more and more distant, especially with one of my friends, and the silence between us isn’t comfortable in the slightest. I only have one friend I truly, truly, believe actually likes me, and that’s my newest friend. She makes me feel TRUELY happy and supported, and I’m so thankful to have a friend as great and rare as that. Oh shoot I started venting, I’m sorry-
@@ArtemisLizzy I have 2 friends only it's ok to only have a few actual friends lol, cause they are honestly more important than anybody who may like your content online.
@@CashySwanson I have 1 100% real friend, who is the newest one I mentioned, 1 friend who is good but not the best, and then 1 friend where she and I are drifting away from each other. But, yes, you’re right. I also like to have a few close friends instead of tons of regular friends. Thanks.
Personally, I’ve mentally been using these tips on my own and I would say it’s been good! But one thing is make sure that person you want to befriend doesn’t end up relying on you. Like for example they end up always wanting something from you and never give you anything back (different if they just don’t bring supplies and genuinely talk to you as a friend outside of asking for supplies). Or maybe they only come to vent to you (sometimes asking or maybe not asking if it’s an okay time to do that) instead of actually talking. But don’t forget not everyone is like that, there’s a lot of good people in this world but don’t let the person rely on you to the point it drains you. You deserve to feel good in that relationship too!
you dont understand how much i love this channel im currently studying psychology because i wanna be a neuropsychologist now this channel is the main reason for it lol
getting ppl to like u seems like so much work when you’re not a happy or naturally bubbly person. i’m quiet, have dry humor along with drawing half for comfort and half for fashion so i guess i don’t have much to be attractive from. i also find it hard to genuinely care abt someone else and what they do like their hobbies or how their day went, idk why i’m like that :/
Honestly, if you're in any way different or a little more complex, not seen as the fun person 24/7 than people often don't have interest or patience for you nowadays.
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
*Remember, the moment you accept total responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you claim the power to change anything in your life...*
This really does work (at least for me personally)! I've been doing it for years now and have felt less disappointment, don't hold grudges as much as I use to, and have felt more positive and happy after realizing that I have the power to surround myself with positive things in life c: of course, there will be situations you go through that you feel you had no control over (maybe being born with toxic parents for instance), but I believe what he means is that you choose to put yourself or keep yourself in certain situations and thus, you have the responsibility of owning up to your mistakes while also having the power to take yourself out of toxic situations and surround yourself with a healthy environment. With parents for instance, you might not be able to get away from them, but you can choose not to believe the toxic comments they make. Life is hard but we're all trying our best and I hope things get better for those of you who are having difficulty in life ❤️ I am rooting for you! 💪🏼😌
im always a chill, helpful, friendly guy, that cracks some dumb and wierd jokes sometimes, im not really good looking at all, anytime i get the "wow ur really that friendly how i thought you would be" compliment. 😂 Im getting closer to real relationships lately, I'm more confident since a while and all around just happy. it randomly came to me, that more and more people start to like me or wanted to get in contact with me. this sudden turn is weird but ill take it
Finding this channel is one of the best things that could had happen in this pandemic. I really love this content and helps me self improve, specislly in social skills, which I feel I didn't care much for it before
i don’t ask people about their lives, but if they mention anything they like i ask them to tell me more and it’s so nice to hear them talk. i like hearing about what makes people happy, because they get happy just talking about it :)
low-key goes opposite of the video but the best advice you can get! It is okay to want to be more kind and stuff, like in the video, but never change who you really are
@@bee1771 I mean it's sounds like they were being rude in reference to you mentioning your autism because you mentioned it but I think it's totally fair enough to mention it because autism obviously affects you in this area! I'm glad the video might've been able to help a little as a reference point to thinl.about when around people :)
as someone who would love to be a therapist someday, these videos bring me so much joy (i know this video isn't about mental health but just wanted to put it out there)
It's amazing to see what kinds of topics a lot of youtubers and channels can come up with based on the kind of research that they find from college and university studies. Definitely a lot of interesting topics available for class and dinner discussions covered by channels like this one.
I love these videos! Thank you so much for them, I always try to be positive, it gets hard sometimes. Keep up the great work, you guys, it helps a whole lot♥️💙💜
Your voice relaxes me more than Lofi and relaxing ASMR, your art makes me want to sleep and cuddle my blanket. You have to be one of the nicest and most calm person in the world. I hope u keep making content like this, even though I’m not super stressed but I become happy when I watch your videos!
Your videos always look and feel so clean and polished, and the artwork is so pretty. Thank you for these videos, they're truly helpful to some people.
Interesting, especially for me who cannot really tell anything from facial expressions or gestures. Also I love a good, intelligent debate, for me it is fun. I can debate without judging others... some people are just a bit too sensitive in my opinion. It takes a while for me to make friends... Also I once tried mimicing the others movements and speech pattenrs to make myself more likeable, they noticed it and were confused. Its hard to do without them noticing
Great video! My idea for your future youtube videos are about 16 types of personality, because I think they are not really helping me finding "the one" after taking the test. Keep it up!!
I’m a pretty extroverted person who likes talking to everyone but I’m not always successful because their not comfortable enough with me. So maybe this will help. Anyone else feel the same?
@@florin9243 me too, am introverted, but I can talk to people who approach first... I believe I am a good listener, if anyone want to share their problems or something.
@@yj_holic4590 i like it too when people approach first. I don't how to start a conversation. I usually start with "hello" or "how are you" then after i don't know what to say anymore. Now ik someone will say that we both made an approach, but let's not compare the ease of tapping with real life.
Psych2go, I’ve been watching you guys for a while now and you’ve helped me understand so much, these videos help me change my point of view and even how I act. I have disingenuous A.D.D and with your videos describing how others act with certain disorders like PTSD or OCD, it lets me know how they feel and how they want to be treated, I try to be a likable person most of the time so these tips really help me! I just wanted to say thank you for your amazing videos.
I really like this channel and your work. But honestly, I don't know if my point of view isn't right but I don't feel that it's really important to "make people like you". It's like it send 2 wrong messages : 1. You need people to like you as if it was a goal in life and 2. You need to consciously act a certain way to make others like you wich in my opinion suppress a part of authenticity. I'm not saying that it's bad to make people like you more or to want to be more likeable. Just that there is so many vidéos just on this channel like that (how to know if someone like you offline and online and those stuff). We are not all the same and the way we express our emotion can be so wide. Don't forget as they say themselves, those videos are for educational purpose only.
Everyone wants people to like them. I think these tips are meant to help people who maybe don't have very good social skills and just want to improve in that area. I agree that you should always be authentic and not try to be someone you're not. But I don't think that's what they're saying. For the most part these are just tips for being a better person.
I think we should all want to be a likable person while also being okay and at peace with the fact that not everyone will like you. Sometimes being “authentic” to “who we are” becomes a road block to bettering ourselves, and can easily promote the excuse “that’s just how I am” when in actuality it’s “that’s just what I know” & good genuine people that care about themselves and others will do better when they know better.
I think doing anything (well, most) of these things contrary to what the video says, it was high time to change anyway. These things is just about being nicer, it has nothing to do with actually changing your personality.
This video helps so much! Learning about other peoples body language and realizing how you talk about others helps you be so much more positive with others!😄 thanks!
Same here buddy, and I'm introverted. So, it may to be hard to get out of the house sometimes, but we'll get there at some point. We'll have a chance to hangout with our classmates after school and on the weekends.
simply asking "hey, what's up?" or "what did you do today" can be the start to an interesting conversation! if there is an awkward silence, let it stay that way for a bit, and ask them another question (it could be anything at all). remember to smile and be positive! also, avoid asking questions where the answer is just a yes or no. for example, "do you like carrots?" can be replied to as "yes", but that's it. instead, maybe try "what is your favourite vegetable?" which can be replied to as "I like carrots! what about you?" which then allows you to answer back, and you both have something good to talk about. also, choose common ground. they may play basketball, and you do too. so talk about that! hope this helps! :)
"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know if your going to be given to someone and eaten alive." A famous quote for valentine's day soon! (I promise I didn't change it)
This so helped and it made me realize who feel comfy around me and who does not! Like the other day my gfs sisters bf was with me and while me and him where running for fun next to each other he said to me “you know I think we are going to be great friends” and that mad me feel more connected to him
I like that when the person in the beginning is gossiping they have a bad/dead leaf on their head but when people are being nice they have a good leaf or a healthy flower on their head
1- Talk good about other people compliments 2- be aware of your body language 3- be aware of other's body language 4 - try not to judge anyone 5- ask them questions about their life 6- be positive and goofy 7- let the people know that they like you
Alr this will totally help ppl still in school like me. I may be introverted and don't talk much during school, but I can still use these tips at my advantage.
I tried talking nicely about everyone else around me, no matter how they behave around their surroundings and I'd try my best to spread joy everywhere, but the more I do the more my friends would think I'm weak, or just stupid, or a freak. People just dislike me even more. I don't know anymore if I'm a good or a bad person anymore. Although thanks for listening! I appreciate. C:
Same here. I honestly tried all these tactics before and recently and still notice how people dislike me. I’m at the point too where I feel as if those around me truly hate me but just refuse to say it. I’m comfortable with that thought now tbh, but I wonder what’s actually causing this at this point. I’m doing something wrong or is it just how I carry myself? I may never know honestly.
Oooh and to add to this they do visible body language that shows they aren’t a fan of me yet say they like me to my face so I don’t know. Been told it’s anxiety or whatnot but I swear there’s something to it. Never doubt your feelings as horrible as they may be, gut feelings may be right.
@@hno6159 @H No I'm so sorry to hear that, I can relate in both ways. In all honesty, I appreciate that you spend the time to share some sympathy, I never thought anyone would, you're genuinely very sweet! I think those people are just going along with the trends, and how they think it's "cool" to hate on everything, don't let that get you though! People here on earth here do care about you, they love you (including me), and a group of people like them in your life wouldn't change that. :) I also do agree with how you pointed out that our gut feeling is very important, I agree that we shouldn't expose it to ignorance, shame, or due to anything else. If you do feel them hitting your chest that aggressively, like a hammer, they must be true. I also believe you're a very warm-hearting person, and your heart feels heavy suddenly when you think you've done something wrong, but you know you haven't, and there is clear evidence. I just think these people can't see the sun shining so magnificently like you do, they might pretend to see it rain instead. But hey, don't let that bother you! Your lovely sunshine shines on certain plants, and it benefits certain ones. And you try to make everyone happy, so you spread that sunshine everywhere. Although many people find it annoying or weird how anyone would be positive all the time (don't get it wrong, it's an awesome thing to be positive. :) ) they just don't deserve the love you give them. I also hope I didn't type too much, I hope this kind of helped though, even if it didn't, I hope at least you felt some sympathy from a random person on the internet. I'm not a bad person, I come for no harm, but to share some empathy. Thanks for having to spend your time on this! I truly appreciate! Remember that people here, weather they know you or not, they care lots about you, and from now on, I will clasp my wish for you the best in the future. :D
I love these videos you make and how you make your art but still I love the things you do with showing these to help people your a great/wonderful person
i honestly just realized i’m kind of a “likeable” person already because earlier today, me and my friends were all challenged to say something bad about every one in the group. when it came to my turn, i really couldn’t bring myself to say anything that would truly hurt their feelings or be offensive, unless it was something they knew about and accepted happily. (ex: my friend knows she has very strong opinions, so that was the thing that i said i didn’t like about her, and she just said, “yeah, that’s very true. i am very confident in my opinions) also i love the vid, thanks for the advice!
I’m that one guy in my friend group at school who sits by myself and does my work. I never give myself the chance to get up and talk to my crush because I can’t muster the courage to talk to them. It really sucks. I’m guessing I have some sort of social anxiety or just extreme shyness.
Funny fact about the shaking legs thing. My dad usually lets me sit on his thigh when I was a little kid and he would shake his leg as a joke. Well now I'm 16 with that habit, hoping that one day I get to take care of children, I get to be like my dad.
I feel really judgey sometimes it's just that me and my best friend find ourselves easily drained by those around us that are constantly spreading depressive thoughts. There are some cases where I think I should be kinder about a person and especially when I'm talking about them to make sure that I specify I understand what they're going through. I don't know how to help those people and plus they reject it whenever I offer so I distance myself. But I should spread more positivity about people regardless and this really did shed light on that.
I have always found that when someone tells them they like me I end up liking them back even if I had little to no feelings for them before, so if you really do like someone, don’t be scared of rejection because it will most likely be completely fine.
Summary :
1) Talk nicely about other people.
2) Be aware of ur body language.
3) Be aware of their body language as well.
4) Try not to judge anyone.
5) Ask them questions about their lives.
6) Spread happiness And positivity.
7) Let them know u like them.
Hope i could help. Stay safe y'all 😄
Also, thanks a lot psych2go for all ur efforts. I will never regret subscribing this channel. Love ya so much 😘
how..
Time traveler much
The heck?-
One day ago wtf?
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I highly recommend Vanessa Van Edward’s book entitled “Captivate”. It states that studies have shown that the most likable people are the ones who like more people. In other words, if you like more people, people tend to like you back.
@@mitsuha4788 People can sense if someone is being fake. So people who genuinely like others will be liked back genuinely too 😉
@@blanchespinkblossom I'm doomed 😂 I don't like most people because I sense fakeness amongst many 🙃
i don't believe that if you like people, people tend to like back, it's pretty relative tbh, people bend to carisma...i know it because my partner is very carismatic but he hates everyone and just wants ppl to go ded in a ditch, but people like him very much still :/ and he still gets more public than me, who likes people more and try my best
Accurate
@@Suveramort I don't know, that sounds like a special case. Your partner is skilled at manipulation. They are actively deploying their charisma. This post is saying that, for the average person not trying to affect a result, people will respond positively to people they perceive as genuinely positive.
You compared yourself to your partner when saying they get more public (attention?) than you, but let's ignore that. When you say you try your best, are you saying you try your best to be likeable? Do you feel like too few people respond positively to your efforts? You mentioned your partner dislikes humans but many people are drawn to them. Does this mean you are impressed and fascinated and care about others and their interests and goals, but still feel most people dislike you?
It's possible that your feeling of being disliked is creating a distrust that you don't recognize, which is actually pushing people away. Just something to think about. Don't hold yourself to a quota, especially one based on such disingenuous behavior as you described from your partner. If you want to smile at others, do so. If they don't smile back, that's fine. It didn't stop you from smiling and being kind, and that's all you wanted to do so you succeeded. Maybe it caught them off guard, but it'll make them smile at the next person.
Just assume your positive efforts have positive impacts you don't see, and hopefully you'll begin trusting them again. 😊
7 ways to make people like you MORE
0:25 Talk nicely about other people
1:03 Be aware of your body language
1:38 Be aware of their body language, too
2:16 Try not to judge anyone
2:59 Ask them questions about their lives
3:46 Spread happiness and positivity
4:28 Let them know you like them
thank you! :)
Thank you 😊
thank you for the short version
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Here’s some tips for being happier so you can spread joy:
- every ngiht just write down 3 things that went well for you today
-focus on what you have, not what you don’t
-be empathetic
-do random acts of kindness
Thank you!
First one wont change anything, others are useless
For me it would be 3 things that went well in a week lmao
What if nothing went well? Everything is going bad
@@yukk9481 wanna talk ab it?
As a social introvert these tips are so helpful but I think it’s helpful for everyone to follow these guidelines ☺️
no not for me , im alone and i dont really need other people , better for them when they hold distance
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 people's are good too. Just a suggestion ✨
@@avec.amore_ ye but im bad , and dont really feel needs to spend time with others
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 no one is bad, I had thought these same stuffs about myself. But I know deep inside, nobody wants bad for others. Do u need that?
Okay tell me, can u see a person suffering with that evil smile on ur face like Hitler.
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 and i can feel kind of politeness and bunch of insecurities in ur thoughts, it's okay to take time and reflect on ur thoughts. The universes have magic for u🌼
And also if u don't feel like socializing it's also okay. Have a great life AHEAD 🍃
So basically be a nice person and spread your happiness to others when you can....... I've been doing that for the past....... 3 years now and can confirm it does work. I've had a lot of people I work with say they just feel like I'm easy to talk to and my manager says I'm about the easiest person they know to get along with.
Just to get used, great job buddy. At the end no one will cate about a guy.
good job!!
Cool!
niceeeee
i made a lot of frens just by being hella extroverted lmfao
No.7 is a wild card that needs to be threaded carefully. After letting someone know you like them, if you give off hints of wanting romantic relationship but the other party wants to friendsone you instead = whatever enjoyable time you till then can go south, where the other party can ghost you out.
Whys that?💜💜💙💙💔💔❤❤
so truuue
Idk what shitty people you hang around but I've told every one of my crushes that I've liked them. Sometimes it worked out. Sometimes it didnt. But i never got ghosted by them and we never stopped being friends for that reason
@@ezra5737 good for you, dear. How I wish the other 7.7+ billion of the world population would think & behave like your crushes would back to you. Or else, we wouldn't have experienced awkward meetings post-confession & the death of friendship overtime after the rejection.
Well i think its how you'd phrase it. You dont need to exactly say "i like you" you could also say Things like: you're a good friend, i enjoy being around you, i have so much fun with you. Or say things you like about them/with them directly. Like: playing video games with you is fun, i like the way you always have ideas for stuff.... Of course this COULD still imply feelings of love. But of you really anjoy being around someone and they Ghost you after telling them that, without ever stating why or see if they're right.... I dont think i'd want a friend like this anyways xD
There is one problem related to being happy about what other people are being happy about. If you're feeling not happy about what the others are being happy about but being forced to go along with it such as being forced to attend some loud and lawless parties where everyone goes wild with endless liquors, you won't feel happy because you're being forced to just to fit in with the others.
thats true, but i think theyre talking about some lighter matters that can be easily liked
I’m honestly trying very hard to be more social. I’ve improved some which I’m proud of myself but I know there is always room to grow so thank you for this video!!
I wanna be more social too but i don't like most people in my school which is kinda a problem
Ayo same here. I stay in a shell until someone talks to me. Then I might slowly get comfortable talking but that’s rare and that’s what I need to be better at - ( as well as reading emotions )
@@UwU-ok2jr what ab the people that u like?
@@kfccaleb its a hard process but honestly small steps go a long way. i believe in you!!
@@userm180 im pretty social with my friends but not social enough to yell across a hall to them unless im like really hyped up for something
For the past while I've been on autopilot and distancing myself from others and staying isolated to the point where going to the mail box feels like a weight of bricks. But recently, I started to get myself out there by dressing up in my homemade Spider-Punk outfit and cruising around the streets on my long board and handing homemade stickers of my artwork. In addition, I enjoy hearing people tell me that I've made their day, it just makes feel true happiness. My father once told me, "Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys comfort and misery." And he continued how I was able to make people's day and at the same time feel happy with myself is something that can't be bought. Finally, Psych2Go has made me feel more confident about myself about who I am as a person. Thank you 💖😊
That's a very wise thing your father said
haha i would love to see you on the streets
Note chameleon effect means matching other people's energy or body language, however, don't let it get too far. let them know when you're uncomfortable as well. You don't have to be friends with everyone especially if they do things you don't like. If you like being a listener that's cool, but if you like to talk about yourself, you can do that. If a person really likes you they want to get to know you. Do let them talk, no one likes it when someone only talks about themselves. Don't be judgemental doesn't mean don't have an opinion. They clearly said that so don't misunderstand. You don't have to fake it just learn that other people's views matter.
THIS IS SO DAMN LONG.
I feel like no one will read it, but try to. Hope it helps a bit
thank you!!
i read it
What it comes down to is to just be yourself. Work on yourself and truly refine yourself as a person. Anybody who doesn't like who you truly are isn't worth being liked by. I used to adapt to the people near me to be more likeable, but I'm more liked nowadays without giving a single care in the world about how people perceive my personality as.
Obviously though don't treat hygeine the same way, be clean and work on your physical health. Just because you shouldn't value others' opinions on how you look/act doesn't mean you get to be a slob or an asshole.
That's just my take on life anyways.
This is all amazing and totally true, but I still have the mental mindset of,
“If I never show any signs of negativity, if I never show anger or sadness, if I just stay a happy bubble of joy forever, then they won’t hate me.”
I always feel like my friends hate me, but are too nice to tell me so, so they just act like they like me. They’re good people, I know that, but my insecurities and overthinking make me feel that way. We have been getting more and more distant, especially with one of my friends, and the silence between us isn’t comfortable in the slightest. I only have one friend I truly, truly, believe actually likes me, and that’s my newest friend. She makes me feel TRUELY happy and supported, and I’m so thankful to have a friend as great and rare as that.
Oh shoot I started venting, I’m sorry-
@@ArtemisLizzy I have 2 friends only it's ok to only have a few actual friends lol, cause they are honestly more important than anybody who may like your content online.
@@CashySwanson I have 1 100% real friend, who is the newest one I mentioned, 1 friend who is good but not the best, and then 1 friend where she and I are drifting away from each other. But, yes, you’re right. I also like to have a few close friends instead of tons of regular friends. Thanks.
@@ArtemisLizzy 🫂🥰 I'm glad you have even one friend that makes you feel sincerely cared for.
@@CashySwanson sure, but those were never friends anyway. They're fans, and that's okay. We only have room for 4-5 friends in our heads anyway 😝
Personally, I’ve mentally been using these tips on my own and I would say it’s been good!
But one thing is make sure that person you want to befriend doesn’t end up relying on you. Like for example they end up always wanting something from you and never give you anything back (different if they just don’t bring supplies and genuinely talk to you as a friend outside of asking for supplies). Or maybe they only come to vent to you (sometimes asking or maybe not asking if it’s an okay time to do that) instead of actually talking.
But don’t forget not everyone is like that, there’s a lot of good people in this world but don’t let the person rely on you to the point it drains you. You deserve to feel good in that relationship too!
you dont understand how much i love this channel
im currently studying psychology because i wanna be a neuropsychologist now
this channel is the main reason for it lol
getting ppl to like u seems like so much work when you’re not a happy or naturally bubbly person. i’m quiet, have dry humor along with drawing half for comfort and half for fashion so i guess i don’t have much to be attractive from. i also find it hard to genuinely care abt someone else and what they do like their hobbies or how their day went, idk why i’m like that :/
You're cool 😎
Hey I'm with you there, I don't speak much at school and I'm pretty introverted too, I think we'll be good friends.
Same :(
Honestly, if you're in any way different or a little more complex, not seen as the fun person 24/7 than people often don't have interest or patience for you nowadays.
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
Zzzzzzzz do you have any new messages or are you going to repeat this 💩 for the foreseeable future?
Ty and same as you at everyone too
@@somerandomfella wdym for the foreseeable future?
*Remember, the moment you accept total responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you claim the power to change anything in your life...*
Law of assumption beeeetchhhhh
nice lie
Shut up man everywhere spamming guru cope
This really does work (at least for me personally)! I've been doing it for years now and have felt less disappointment, don't hold grudges as much as I use to, and have felt more positive and happy after realizing that I have the power to surround myself with positive things in life c: of course, there will be situations you go through that you feel you had no control over (maybe being born with toxic parents for instance), but I believe what he means is that you choose to put yourself or keep yourself in certain situations and thus, you have the responsibility of owning up to your mistakes while also having the power to take yourself out of toxic situations and surround yourself with a healthy environment. With parents for instance, you might not be able to get away from them, but you can choose not to believe the toxic comments they make. Life is hard but we're all trying our best and I hope things get better for those of you who are having difficulty in life ❤️ I am rooting for you! 💪🏼😌
THE TIMING I SWEAR TO GOD-
Yep
YES
im always a chill, helpful, friendly guy, that cracks some dumb and wierd jokes sometimes, im not really good looking at all, anytime i get the "wow ur really that friendly how i thought you would be" compliment. 😂
Im getting closer to real relationships lately, I'm more confident since a while and all around just happy.
it randomly came to me, that more and more people start to like me or wanted to get in contact with me. this sudden turn is weird but ill take it
based
Finding this channel is one of the best things that could had happen in this pandemic. I really love this content and helps me self improve, specislly in social skills, which I feel I didn't care much for it before
i don’t ask people about their lives, but if they mention anything they like i ask them to tell me more and it’s so nice to hear them talk. i like hearing about what makes people happy, because they get happy just talking about it :)
Most important thing:Be yourself,be true to yourself,and don't change so that folks will like you.
low-key goes opposite of the video but the best advice you can get! It is okay to want to be more kind and stuff, like in the video, but never change who you really are
Me hoping someone nice would like my comment ☺
2 years and stilll nothing
Dam that’s sad
Ngl I feel bad
@@Your-average-sans-i5g lmao what?
@@Your-average-sans-i5g for what
This videos are gonna be liked by many people for this month.
I really love how caring and sweet Psych2go community is.
2 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU MORE:
1. BE YOU
2. FOLLOW TO NUMBER 1
That's why they don't like me
@@cristaljustice4534 Don't worry, right people will find you.
thx i dont need this , im alone and better for people when they hold distance
HARDLY AGREE.
@@cristaljustice4534 right ppl will find you 😌 also, why would you be liked by everyone?
I LOVE THE ART IN THIS VIDEO SO MUCH AHHHH
As an autistic person this helps so much cuz I'm not the best at adhering to social normativity and don't want to come off as scary
@@Itz_Rubayet I'm confused sorry
@@bee1771 I mean it's sounds like they were being rude in reference to you mentioning your autism because you mentioned it
but I think it's totally fair enough to mention it because autism obviously affects you in this area! I'm glad the video might've been able to help a little as a reference point to thinl.about when around people :)
@@wuhoho4687 oh thankyou sorry I didn't understand that comment thankyou
@@bee1771 it's no problems
@@wuhoho4687 :3
as someone who would love to be a therapist someday, these videos bring me so much joy (i know this video isn't about mental health but just wanted to put it out there)
It's amazing to see what kinds of topics a lot of youtubers and channels can come up with based on the kind of research that they find from college and university studies. Definitely a lot of interesting topics available for class and dinner discussions covered by channels like this one.
I love these videos! Thank you so much for them, I always try to be positive, it gets hard sometimes. Keep up the great work, you guys, it helps a whole lot♥️💙💜
P2G: "every opinion matters"
that one guy: "stan lee wasn't that great."
me: "i won't judge you. i'll just let god do that."
The same applied to Keanu Reeves, every opinion matters, just that some of them suck ass
Your voice relaxes me more than Lofi and relaxing ASMR, your art makes me want to sleep and cuddle my blanket. You have to be one of the nicest and most calm person in the world. I hope u keep making content like this, even though I’m not super stressed but I become happy when I watch your videos!
Your videos always look and feel so clean and polished, and the artwork is so pretty. Thank you for these videos, they're truly helpful to some people.
Amanda's voice is soothing. Thank you for these helpful tips.
Interesting, especially for me who cannot really tell anything from facial expressions or gestures. Also I love a good, intelligent debate, for me it is fun. I can debate without judging others... some people are just a bit too sensitive in my opinion. It takes a while for me to make friends...
Also I once tried mimicing the others movements and speech pattenrs to make myself more likeable, they noticed it and were confused. Its hard to do without them noticing
Whoever does these illustrations is awesome! It helps keep interest in the topic so much!
Good advice as usual, but i just watch these because of how soothing Amanda Silvera's voice is.
Great video! My idea for your future youtube videos are about 16 types of personality, because I think they are not really helping me finding "the one" after taking the test. Keep it up!!
I’m a pretty extroverted person who likes talking to everyone but I’m not always successful because their not comfortable enough with me. So maybe this will help. Anyone else feel the same?
I am very introverted and i'm not confortable enough with anyone 🤣. I feel the same, sort of.
@@florin9243 lol
@@florin9243 me too, am introverted, but I can talk to people who approach first... I believe I am a good listener, if anyone want to share their problems or something.
no im oposite of you i dont like other people so i dont talk to them at all and better for them when they hold distance
@@yj_holic4590 i like it too when people approach first. I don't how to start a conversation. I usually start with "hello" or "how are you" then after i don't know what to say anymore. Now ik someone will say that we both made an approach, but let's not compare the ease of tapping with real life.
Look at how much you’ve grown, been here for six years and still watching to this day!
Psych2go, I’ve been watching you guys for a while now and you’ve helped me understand so much, these videos help me change my point of view and even how I act. I have disingenuous A.D.D and with your videos describing how others act with certain disorders like PTSD or OCD, it lets me know how they feel and how they want to be treated, I try to be a likable person most of the time so these tips really help me! I just wanted to say thank you for your amazing videos.
proud of you
Thank you P2G for this amazing content to help me and others! 🤗
I just love this channel it helps me so much
The fact that I already do most of these things has given me a huge confidence boost
Hey psych2go! I must ask, can you do a video over ASD vs ADHD? I'd love more knowledge to be spread about them and the difference between them!
I really like this channel and your work. But honestly, I don't know if my point of view isn't right but I don't feel that it's really important to "make people like you". It's like it send 2 wrong messages : 1. You need people to like you as if it was a goal in life and 2. You need to consciously act a certain way to make others like you wich in my opinion suppress a part of authenticity.
I'm not saying that it's bad to make people like you more or to want to be more likeable. Just that there is so many vidéos just on this channel like that (how to know if someone like you offline and online and those stuff). We are not all the same and the way we express our emotion can be so wide.
Don't forget as they say themselves, those videos are for educational purpose only.
Everyone wants people to like them. I think these tips are meant to help people who maybe don't have very good social skills and just want to improve in that area. I agree that you should always be authentic and not try to be someone you're not. But I don't think that's what they're saying. For the most part these are just tips for being a better person.
I think we should all want to be a likable person while also being okay and at peace with the fact that not everyone will like you. Sometimes being “authentic” to “who we are” becomes a road block to bettering ourselves, and can easily promote the excuse “that’s just how I am” when in actuality it’s “that’s just what I know” & good genuine people that care about themselves and others will do better when they know better.
I think doing anything (well, most) of these things contrary to what the video says, it was high time to change anyway. These things is just about being nicer, it has nothing to do with actually changing your personality.
Just the right timing!!
I have my new class starting from today.
Good luck to me.
This video helps so much! Learning about other peoples body language and realizing how you talk about others helps you be so much more positive with others!😄 thanks!
I got a problem with all this advice that prevents me from putting it to use: Not getting out of the house enough
Same here buddy, and I'm introverted. So, it may to be hard to get out of the house sometimes, but we'll get there at some point. We'll have a chance to hangout with our classmates after school and on the weekends.
I definitely need this.
Same😭
PLS YOUR DRAWING STYLE IS SO CUTEEEEEE 😭😭😭
and btw this video helped me very much ty!
Sometimes im a bit mad,sometimes im calm, thx for this video
Tips on starting conversation to avoid that awful silence?
simply asking "hey, what's up?" or "what did you do today" can be the start to an interesting conversation! if there is an awkward silence, let it stay that way for a bit, and ask them another question (it could be anything at all). remember to smile and be positive! also, avoid asking questions where the answer is just a yes or no. for example, "do you like carrots?" can be replied to as "yes", but that's it. instead, maybe try "what is your favourite vegetable?" which can be replied to as "I like carrots! what about you?" which then allows you to answer back, and you both have something good to talk about. also, choose common ground. they may play basketball, and you do too. so talk about that!
hope this helps! :)
"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know if your going to be given to someone and eaten alive."
A famous quote for valentine's day soon! (I promise I didn't change it)
@Regina George LMAO
thank you for this video! i really like your channel, it helps a lot. And your voice is calming
I love the audio! It's so nice and calming 😊 and I love the tips as well
I love this channel, it's helpful. These animations and the voice are amazing ૮₍ ˃ ⤙ ˂ ₎ა
Glad you like it :) What topics would you like us to cover next?
The evolution of the animation ♥️
Do you like this animation?
@@Psych2go yes 👍
This so helped and it made me realize who feel comfy around me and who does not! Like the other day my gfs sisters bf was with me and while me and him where running for fun next to each other he said to me “you know I think we are going to be great friends” and that mad me feel more connected to him
Tbh, I love this art style SOOO much.
3:14 Excuse me, HAVING SEX??? 😭😭😭
anybody else see Encanto characters?
This gave me more confidence. Thank you❤
i like how u add anime/movies/games referrences in ur vids,, its so nice ^^
I've been doing this for a while now! Its true I am friends with a lot of kind people now and Im considered nice.
I like that when the person in the beginning is gossiping they have a bad/dead leaf on their head but when people are being nice they have a good leaf or a healthy flower on their head
AHHH I LOVE ALL THE REFERENCES AHHH
1- Talk good about other people compliments
2- be aware of your body language
3- be aware of other's body language
4 - try not to judge anyone
5- ask them questions about their life
6- be positive and goofy
7- let the people know that they like you
Alr this will totally help ppl still in school like me. I may be introverted and don't talk much during school, but I can still use these tips at my advantage.
I tried talking nicely about everyone else around me, no matter how they behave around their surroundings and I'd try my best to spread joy everywhere, but the more I do the more my friends would think I'm weak, or just stupid, or a freak. People just dislike me even more. I don't know anymore if I'm a good or a bad person anymore. Although thanks for listening! I appreciate. C:
Same here. I honestly tried all these tactics before and recently and still notice how people dislike me. I’m at the point too where I feel as if those around me truly hate me but just refuse to say it. I’m comfortable with that thought now tbh, but I wonder what’s actually causing this at this point. I’m doing something wrong or is it just how I carry myself? I may never know honestly.
Oooh and to add to this they do visible body language that shows they aren’t a fan of me yet say they like me to my face so I don’t know. Been told it’s anxiety or whatnot but I swear there’s something to it. Never doubt your feelings as horrible as they may be, gut feelings may be right.
@@hno6159 @H No
I'm so sorry to hear that, I can relate in both ways. In all honesty, I appreciate that you spend the time to share some sympathy, I never thought anyone would, you're genuinely very sweet! I think those people are just going along with the trends, and how they think it's "cool" to hate on everything, don't let that get you though! People here on earth here do care about you, they love you (including me), and a group of people like them in your life wouldn't change that. :)
I also do agree with how you pointed out that our gut feeling is very important, I agree that we shouldn't expose it to ignorance, shame, or due to anything else. If you do feel them hitting your chest that aggressively, like a hammer, they must be true. I also believe you're a very warm-hearting person, and your heart feels heavy suddenly when you think you've done something wrong, but you know you haven't, and there is clear evidence. I just think these people can't see the sun shining so magnificently like you do, they might pretend to see it rain instead.
But hey, don't let that bother you! Your lovely sunshine shines on certain plants, and it benefits certain ones. And you try to make everyone happy, so you spread that sunshine everywhere. Although many people find it annoying or weird how anyone would be positive all the time (don't get it wrong, it's an awesome thing to be positive. :) ) they just don't deserve the love you give them.
I also hope I didn't type too much, I hope this kind of helped though, even if it didn't, I hope at least you felt some sympathy from a random person on the internet. I'm not a bad person, I come for no harm, but to share some empathy. Thanks for having to spend your time on this! I truly appreciate! Remember that people here, weather they know you or not, they care lots about you, and from now on, I will clasp my wish for you the best in the future. :D
I love these videos you make and how you make your art but still I love the things you do with showing these to help people your a great/wonderful person
WOW I MEAN- it was so fun watching the video since i related to each point u discussed about like i feel more happy about myselfff omg
Oh my lord your drawing style is so cute and your videos help so much thank you ❤
This was so helpful! Thank you so much
I really like your voice, make me relax and feel warm
Love this video it's so chill and educational
thank you, this actually helps so much to me
I tried this out and now I have a lot of friends! Thank you so much!!!
your so calming i just love it
this art style is soo adorable 💖💖💖💖🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I have trouble socializing in school a lot so this really helps🥰
That chameleon animation made my day because my chameleon died just before Christmas :(
why is your voice so calming?
“If you don’t have anything nice to say then just don’t say it”
-My grandma
I founded this channel to help me not only with my mental health, but also to help me escape life a little-
Your voice is so soothing. I love it 🥰
i honestly just realized i’m kind of a “likeable” person already because earlier today, me and my friends were all challenged to say something bad about every one in the group. when it came to my turn, i really couldn’t bring myself to say anything that would truly hurt their feelings or be offensive, unless it was something they knew about and accepted happily. (ex: my friend knows she has very strong opinions, so that was the thing that i said i didn’t like about her, and she just said, “yeah, that’s very true. i am very confident in my opinions) also i love the vid, thanks for the advice!
I’m that one guy in my friend group at school who sits by myself and does my work. I never give myself the chance to get up and talk to my crush because I can’t muster the courage to talk to them. It really sucks. I’m guessing I have some sort of social anxiety or just extreme shyness.
Your voice keeps me calm thank you😊
Funny fact about the shaking legs thing. My dad usually lets me sit on his thigh when I was a little kid and he would shake his leg as a joke. Well now I'm 16 with that habit, hoping that one day I get to take care of children, I get to be like my dad.
I feel really judgey sometimes it's just that me and my best friend find ourselves easily drained by those around us that are constantly spreading depressive thoughts. There are some cases where I think I should be kinder about a person and especially when I'm talking about them to make sure that I specify I understand what they're going through. I don't know how to help those people and plus they reject it whenever I offer so I distance myself. But I should spread more positivity about people regardless and this really did shed light on that.
these videos always come out at the right time lol
kind of worked! Thanks for the tips!!
Thanks again for this being SPECIFICALLY RECOMMENDED TO ME
Okay number 4 actually made me feel better, also i like the drawings I’m this ☺️
It’s great to see this video even though it’s about 3 days late for me
I have always found that when someone tells them they like me I end up liking them back even if I had little to no feelings for them before, so if you really do like someone, don’t be scared of rejection because it will most likely be completely fine.
Thank you for helping us work our way through life😊