Which Shadow Complex Do YOU Have? (Self-Test)
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- Shadow complex is a concept that delves into the hidden facets of our personalities. Are you curious to uncover hidden aspects of your personality? This video offers a self-test and quiz to help you embark on a journey of self-reflection. Delve into concepts of the shadow self, dark traits, and the complexities of human personality. Whether you're intrigued by psychology, exploring your dark side, or simply curious about the intricacies of personality, this video provides valuable insights. Discover which type of shadow complex resonates with you and gain a deeper understanding of yourself. Watch now and start exploring your shadow complex today!
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: duckaloopa (new animator)
RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
Disclaimer: This quiz is designed solely for entertainment and self-reflection purposes. The results provided are not to be considered professional psychological advice or diagnoses. While the quiz may offer insights into certain personality traits or tendencies, it's important to remember that human behavior is complex and multifaceted. Therefore, the results should be interpreted with caution and not used as a substitute for professional guidance or treatment. Additionally, the quiz is not intended to pathologize or stigmatize any individual or group. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers; the goal is simply to spark curiosity and self-awareness. So, have fun exploring your shadow complex, but always prioritize your mental health and well-being above all else.
References:
Prof. Sam Vaknin. (2024, April 12). TEST YOURSELF: Shadow’s complexes - which ones have YOU got? [Video]. RUclips. • TEST YOURSELF: Shadow'...
Allarakha, S. & Uttekar, P. S. (n.d.). "What are the Different Complexes?" MedicineNet. www.medicinenet.com/what_are_the_different_complexes/article.htm
Benton, S. A. (2017 Feb 6). "The Savior Complex." Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-high-functioning-alcoholic/201702/the-savior-complex
Plumptre, E. (2022 Oct 18). "What is an Inferiority Complex?" VeryWell Mind. www.verywellmind.com/understanding-the-inferiority-complex-5186892
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it was
i got b and yes
how can i analyse having as many A than C and D? would it be like a subtle mix of the three?
Eh. I feel like none of these fit me and it's mostly a swirl or a mix.
I found an issue, I have a mixture equal A to B ratio due to also having some C answers though 0 of the D’s
I am fitting into nothing while fitting into something where am I lol.
"How do you handle rejection in romantic relationships ?"
Bold of you to assume I've ever gotten into one to begin with.
I had the same thought lol
Same
Yeah same 😅
I rejected one(she's being a meanie in my 7th grade,we're the only one that accept eachother(it's just everyone keep teasing me when i defended her)
Although i just defended her as a friend she keeps bullying or teasing me most of that time.
In my defense she's not just helping or anything they keep annoying me,
I was to exhausted and tired of that shat, man,i just wanna be left alone.(she confessed to me i didn't do anything about it after, as it would just be a bother to even do such thing as(relationships.)
Also I didn't respond to her after I rejected her I was too arrogant to be in the mood(as always.)
Sometimes you just stay away from An INFP just don't confess when I'm exhausted or even arrogant(or mentally frustrated.) she didn't wait for the right time, that's her mistake as i just need my personal space.
Full A and D.
*I MUST RIZZ AND SAVE THE WORLD. DOESN'T MATTER THE COST*
same
... Bards
Damn bro, fr fr
Whats funny is that i have a mixture of A, B, and C.
Usually results in me trying to save people to feel less inferior to them but being extremely paranoid that everyrhing i do will be a failure or taken the wrong way..
Right!!!
Same here 😭
Welcome to the club.
Yeah same here fellas. Literally any time I talk to someone I end up thinking about it like I didn't do good enough. Even though I rationally know that it's hardly the case I can't shake that feeling half the time.
This is exactly how I am! I always feel the need to help others but I also get really REALLY paranoid that if I do something wrong they’ll hate me, and therefore i feel inferior. Or when i’m helping someone and I don’t get any sort of response i’ll start thinking i did something wrong and i’ll feel bad and constantly try to fix the situation.
The chibi Black Butler characters were so precious! Made my day💕
I got inferiority complex
It's actually a valid answer cause no matter what there's always this nagging feeling of "I could do more if I really wanted to. I know I'm capable of it. SO WHY DON'T YOU DO IT YOU WASTE OF SPACE?!"
🤝🫂...
Unfortunately for me, I know the answer to that. I don't actually try hard enough. I keep procrastinating... Oh, and then there's RUclips and other social media and games. 🙂🙂
Chronic underachiever. Same deal.
Don't get the results and know their won't be, I left, f*** em all 😒😏
Dude, I got inferiority complex too and that is EXACTLY how I feel. My brain talks to me in the same way of, 'you COULD be better if you just sucked it up and actually tried harder, but for some reason you don't, which is why you SUCK'
ah, a fellow mediocre perfectionist i see
This „you are enough“ hit very hard
The D answers are something 💀
I know right cutie
@@enaskullsfound the casanova complex person 🫵
Oh, you’re intrigued by all the D in the vid? Dw, you’ll get it later ;)
hohoho, SOMETHING
Charming, like u
My answer is "none of the above" for most of them. I answered A on one of them, so I guess I'm the closest to a savior complex. I answered that on the question about achieving something significant. Yes, I'd feel proud and fulfilled in some way, especially if it helps others. Cause that's something I actively want to do, whether directly or indirectly.
As for my actual answers:
1. Try to figure out the situation, question them about it, and ask if they want some help. Or give suggestions, advice, but ultimately leave their choices up to them.
2. Only taken to heart if I find real value in their statements, and I use that to adjust myself carefully, filtering out information that doesn't work for me. And yes, I do look for validity in other people's claims.
3. Support. I'm the guy who suggests things, sometimes takes lead, but generally leaves people to their own devices if they are well off by themselves. I am content doing what I want.
3. My approach to relationships is chill and forgiving. I just go in and be there. I do things, I help when I want to, and I don’t when I don't. If I find myself being disregarded or otherwise sidelined, I simply move away and find something else to do. Not my problem if they don't wanna listen, I've got better things to do.
4. They're authority figures. No opinion, but I'm a little more cautious around them, just to be safe.
5. A
6. Didn't work out. Guess I'll move on. No point in despairing over it.
What do y'all think?
Yeah, for most questions it seemed that the answers were just re-phrased versions of answer A and all answers has the same POV on the specific question. At least if they can't get creative with answers then just give a 5th "none of these" option too. Because for a channe lwith lots of psychology related content it's weird to see this "you should see things in this specific way only" mentality as what the answers kinda reflects.
@@tovarishchfeixiao Usually it just means that you don't have any of the complexes it describes.
Good that I am not the only one who didn't choose anything.
And I totally agree with the first one, I thought that option was really important but missing
Surprisingly the 2. And 3. Are also what I do,
but I handle the 4th a bit different.
I straight up try to ignore authority figures in their presence, but I am aware of them.
For 5, I like it, but downplay it. However not because I don't think I don't deserve recognition, I try to pack it in a way that doesn't demoralise others. Like don't worry, it's not that big, you can do it too!
6. Is depending on the situation, if it's something small, I blame it on me.
If it's something unrelated to me, I move on
If it's something important and in my opinion not my fault, I blame it on the other. (Or move on without a word. If the other one lacks room for argumentation )
Honestly
@@-Lazy Understandable.
For me, I'm a mix of B and C. I always get defensive whenever something or someone upsets me and I always feel like I'm not good enough to anyone.
Same... I got 4 Cs and 3 Bs... And it quite accurate... After looking back at my journals I saw that my emotions and thoughts after something has happened really match the descriptions and it really is a good thing to keep in mind going forward
Me too I got cbbcabc
One day I'm B, next I'm C.. swings with my mood
@@Mk156same don’t know why
@@xyraella SAMEEEEEEEE
2:40 Bold of you to assume I’ve achieved anything significant...
I have both a savior and inferiority complex. It's something I've acknowledged and realized myself while going through therapy. It was interesting to see it actually pop up in this video as my results for both were tied for the most. I'm working on them. I can't save everyone, only myself. And there's nothing wrong with who I am, I'm trying to learn to love myself and be the best version of myself I can be. It's one hell of a struggle.
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I also tied on those >.>
for me A comes from being sent into a spiral for half a year by an awful attention seeker and I lowkey haven't healed fully but it's actually helped me help a depressed friend. C comes from being bullied for like my entire life and only now realizing that by improving my own life and becoming better I can, even if I'm not enough for others, be enough for myself.
Same... got 3 A's and 3 C's and 1 B... I feel like I lean more into inferiority complex because almost every day I wake up and think I'm not good enough or everyone else is better. 😔
I'm going through the same thing, and yeah, it's been one hell of a struggle.
However, I'm working on the self love and learning to let other people save themselves. Realizing that the issues my loved ones struggle with are issues only they can solve is really difficult for me. Meanwhile, I struggle to feel good enough for my own kindness. I struggle to see the value in myself that everyone around me sees in me. But I'm getting there, bit by bit.
Hang in there everyone, you've got this.
Got A and D at the end, got savior complex, just doing deeds man idk what else you want
omori reference located
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I got inferiority complex. It's so accurate because I always feel like I'm the only one struggling. I feel like I'm the only one that feels insecure about my looks, my hobbies, my style. I feel like I get everything wrong. I got really emotional once with my friends and they assured me that it was all in my mind and that I am so pretty and how everything I do turns out better than what they do. Even though I don't believe them, it was nice to hear that they care.
You're gonna be okay! Everyone struggles, and that doesn't make anyone's struggles less, but it does show that there are plenty of people who will understand what you're going through even if you don't feel like it! ❤❤
@@AutumnPinkyKat Aww! Thank you! That means so much to me
@@CozyQuilt28 you're very very welcome!!!
I got an equal number of A's and C's and it's funny, because I have both the saviour complex as well as inferiority complex depending on the situation.
I always love taking such quizzes to try to understand myself a little more.
Same here! I have both depending on the situation too
hahah bruh, me too
Same
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I feel obligated to take care of others/to not “be a problem” or “rock the boat”… even if I’m taking things too far. I’m trying to get that tendency under control
B/C
B is entirely accurate. Hearing everything I feel being put into words is comforting. Thank you for these quizzes/videos. Even if they’re not professional or meant to be used as a diagnosis, they definitely help reveal things about myself that I hadn’t realized was there.
I got the savior complex and ima be so real, it’s way too accurate, at a young age I was neglected emotionally by my parents and family. I was treated like the scapegoat of my family and to add on to it all I got bullied in middle and high school. These factors have led me to needing to feel like I’m important to others by trying to save them from their problems. I tend to experience lots of burn out due to the fact that I have issues with putting too much of my personal energy into helping others at the expense of my own. I usually struggle with feelings of overprotectiveness when it comes to people I care for deeply and tend to wanna take all their problems away from them for them so they don’t gotta worry at all.
You need to be carefull with the savior complex i realized that the people i thougt were "friends" for me in fact used me alot.
And this realtionship lasted for way too long time so i hope you will heal soon
I've parted ways with several Long term friends over the last few years because I finally realized I could never correct their course and that I had nothing left to give. When their silence showed me how they really felt about me I knew it was right to walk away but it didn't make it hurt less.
@@shiftybat7318 Don't worry friend i know it hurts and it will heal itself in some time.
But if our path is familiar then you already making new friends where you will fell respected/appreciated.
Remeber stay true to yourself and the right people will come into your life sooner or later
Damn first I was called out then hit with the relatable check
Same here, I too had been abuse from a young age.
OMG i love the black butler reference!! :D im currently obsessed with it and seeing this made my day to know the fandom isn't completely dead and also the secret alliance ily psych2go
0:00 intro
0:45 When faced with a friend's problem, how do you typically react?
1:06 how do you handle criticism?
1:28 what's your role in a group setting
1:50 what's your approach to relationships?
2:16 how do you feel about authority Figures?
2:39 When you achieve something significant, how do you react?
3:04 how do you handle rejection in romantic relationships?
3:28 result
3:35 mostly a's
4:04 mostly B's
4:47 mostly C's
5:30 mostly D's
6:04 outro
I’m mostly a mix of B and C, but mostly C. I have a severe inferiority complex, which I often use to mask my superiority complex. I often seem to downplay achievements because I don’t feel like I deserved it, but also get mad at myself for not achieving more. Even if others admire me or are proud of me for achieving something, it’s the feeling of coming second place that always has me feeling this way
I have a persecution complex. And for good reason.
I’ve been betrayed and screwed over by so many, I can’t trust anyone anymore.
I have the same complex as you^^ but me i think ot's more related to the half bullying i received in school and the fact i passed almost two years of my life without any social interactions and i never felt so alone in my life. I did all i could to make people like me and not put me away but they were just using me, so i prefered staying alone than crave for false friendship. But I still have those defense mecanism even now and it's hard for me to just say 'hello' to people around me.
i have the same complex too. people betray me and doubt me, so i did the same to them
@@mimigalaxy5 bruh you're me
Same
If you play a game called rust you would have trust issues too
Mostly C’s and yeah, super true. It’s a constant battle in my head to combat these negative thoughts about myself. The self hatred is so deep because of my upbringing. I have to give myself slack for that. But it’s so hard when there’s much I want and need to do, but that failure keeps on knocking at my door.
I think it’s extremely adorable that you used black butler characters in the beginning🥰
Black butler fan spotted
@@LoliPolice5 forever and always hon that was my first anime
BLACK BUTLER 🔥🔥🔥
@@kamrynhall3192same
BLACK BUTLER 🔥🔥🔥
I got an even split in A and C with the last one in D
This makes sense as I feel a need to help others but don’t feel like I’m good enough for the job. It’s tough sometimes but I try to use it to motivate myself to be better so I can help people. Self improvement is the way to go!
Casanova conplex is so real. I just want your love. And i want it because it makes me feel good. But anything more than that is scary. And i end up using people who get closer to me for validation and pleasure. 😢
I just am afraid of someone really knowing me. But i do want someone its just idk what im looking for.
You just explain me 😅
A...b...b....A...C.......C.....b...
A-2
B-3
C-2
4:19 😭 I can’t believe how can they be so accurate about me ! I’m really suffering from those things
And i hate it
It’s been 5 months from the last quiz, good to hear that is returned
I answered A almost every time, but I would go with D if there were no consequences later.
The Omori fandom has been summoned
Yes
Of course, we love HANGING AROUND these sorts of channels!
@@greenhydra10 hanging hehe
@@Navefy starting with you
exactly
Both A and B, with some occasional C. I have CPTSD, which stemmed from assorted childhood trauma that primarily had to do with grief and a parent that had anger management troubles.
I am someone who does what I can to save those I can, for I could not save the loved ones I have lost, I am acutely aware of potential dangers or liabilities in situations that would suggest it, and sometimes look out for potential warning signs of various matters, which often relates to A; I’ve memorised an array emergency response protocols, from resuscitation to [self-termination]-prevention.
This is due to the fact that I sometimes have a feeling of “In the past, there were some fear to me I could not save, so I will fight like hell to save those good souls I can.”
Growing up I struggled with self esteem in many ways, and so have sometimes been one to be self affirmative, to keep intrusive thoughts from steering into feelings of inadequacy. Again, trauma relates to this too.
A trauma complex, is what I’d call it; a complex built on childhood traumas, and that psychological need to prevent anything like them happening again.
Mostly B & C, dont see how the universe isnt conspiring against me considering how bad my life is and much unnecessary bs there is happening to me.
Even I got mostly b and c
Me too 😅
Why it's feel internet is mostly introvert and with self trust issue
I'm BBCCCA
Mostly answer As from the start and some Cs toward the end.
"You are enough, just as you are.."
damn that strike my heart, almost cry.
I had a lot of d answers but have always just wanted one person to share myself with. There were a couple A’s a few C’s I like to listen when people share problems and either try to help if I have something helpful to say or just say I’m sorry to hear that and hug them. I don’t know if I’d say flirty but I try to be happy and cheerful to make other people happy. Sometimes any simple thing to make someone else smile makes me smile. In the past when relationships haven’t worked it’s hit me very hard and I feel worthless. Recently I found my person and I’m so thankful for every heartbreak that led me to her. I really like your channel I’ve avoided psychology because I tend to over think things and it felt like fuel on the fire. As long as I can remember I’ve tried to understand people by figuring what would have to happen to me to become like them. Some how even to a scary degree im usually right. Anything I don’t like about myself I’ve always tried to look in the eye and understand the best I can. When I loose my temper I’m usually mad at myself and thinking how could I have fixed this or prevented it and then if anyone else is mad I’m instantly so concerned about them being okay that I completely forgot I was upset. I guess bottom line this quiz got me thinking and this channel feels very loving so I subscribed thanks for putting love into what you do ❤
1c
2a
3b
4c
5c
6b/c
7a/c (though I've never been in a relationship)
Mostly C's, with some sprinkle of B's. So, inferiority complex with persecution complex - a combo that reinforces itself by feeding off of each other.
I got pretty much the same...siiigh
Damn. I got C's and A's. And I've never been in a relationship.
Oh well.
The amount of references in just one video is actually amazing LOL!
It is worth noting that having attributes of one complex does nit exclude you from also experiencing another complex. I happen to have a degree of all four present in how i perceive myself and the world. Having a hybrid is just as real as having a singular dominant complex.
I screamed at the the black butler AND SPECIALLY the tqisted wonderland refrences (loved the quiz btw >:]❤)
IT HASNt been A DAY, this person must be the fastest uploader lol
They probably have a bunch of people working on videos
They are a team
@ziggyzoo9335 make sense, this person is uploading the same speed as light
@@Shawn34212 it isn’t just one person tho, that’s why it’s possible and makes sense lol
@@Shawn34212it’s a team of 6 actually, according to the description
I got both savior and infiroity and it makes me realize how complex humans really are , I’ve always known I felt these thing but it’s nice for it to be put into words
got savior complex with 5 As and yeah, that's fitting. always been the problem solver and unofficial therapist for my family and friends and i find solving this BS fun. don't always solve things directly though and do like to set them on the path to solve things themselves. often time the way a problem is framed makes all the difference when trying to solve it. so if it's not something i can fix directly then i try to get them to look at things in a different perspective to see the solution. one of my favorite methods for this is to pretend i'm having a similar problem later in the conversation and have them give me advice and in so doing they tell themselves what they need to do to fix their issue. psychology is neat~
True, got savior complex aswell here
Idk, saving people sound right tho its fun and also made you feel like a hero, idk how to describe it, its a nice feeling
About halfway through the quiz I already knew my savior complex was getting called out
I got persecution complex. I felt truly identified in the explanations
...would it be justified if I offered self-aware sympathetic mockery...?
I've got a mixture of B and C, and honestly- it's pretty true. I second guess literally everything, look back on every interaction. Everything I do is under immense evaluation, and I've lost myself to the person I've molded myself to be for each individual i interact with. And then the whole seeking praise thing, I long for someone to tell me im good enough, but i know that I'll never believe any of it. I just wanna feel like im doing something right, but I always am convinced ive gotta be that picture perfect image for people, and if i want people around me, they need to rely on me a bit more (savior/ persecution). I don't know man? 🤷♀️ I've got a lonely past, present, but maybe not future? Im hoping I can finally believe the good things I've been told.
I can definitely see myself with a bit of a Savior complex, but less on an individual by individual basis, but moreso in the grand scheme of things. I want my works to be published to bring hope and inspiration to people. To reassure them that good and evil exist in our world, and that we aren't as directionless as we had been led astray.
This video was fun!
I'm a mixture of A and C, oddly enough...wanting to save the world but never really feeling like I'm doing enough. It's exhausting. I love your videos, they're insightful and entertaining, especially for a Psychology major!
3:06 nyan neko sugar girls and psych2go is the crossover of the century. everyone else go home
I’m a mix of C and A, majority C. And man oh man, was I not expecting to tear up when you talk about how your good enough. I needed to hear that…kinda scary how accurate this is (at least for me)
I got tied between Savior Complex and Inferiority Complex. This feels accurate to me. I need to reflect on it more.
1)cheer them up by making them laugh 2)ignore them 3)idk i'm kinda the mom of the group but i stay quiet most of the time because idk how to react 4)nope 5)A 6)idk i just feel happy 7)nope
TWISTED WONDERLAND!
YEAHHHHHHHH
I Just got into the fandom! I LOVE it 💖😍❤️
The black butler characters were so cute!
I have had everyone of these. The most prevalent is A, but B and C haven’t gone away. I had for a short time Complex D but nowhere near the level I had with the others.
Same for me 3 A, 2 B and 2 C
(I have absolutely no idea why am I telling this)
@@warrison08 no worries man. It doesn’t have to be like this for us or anyone, we’re breaking the cycle
@@kytondeon8725 thanks man :)
My aspd be tweaking tf out awnsering A, B, C and D for every question 💀💀💀💀
What if i have a tie of A's and D's?
Same
The fact that one of my friends says I have a savior complex kinda blew my mind after this lol and the reason pretty much is 1 to 1 though I never really saw myself as overly helpful or that it would be because I never really grew up with anyone validating or saving me when i needed it, so i do it for others who need that
Heck of a volatile mix between Savior and Inferiority
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So true. I already knew I have persecution complex and savior complex cause in my childhood I had gone through a few things. I had no one to be by my side. I was not having a good relationship with my older brother back then and suddenly he passed away. That's why my family (especially my mom) ignored me like I'm sort of ghost. School and friends were even worse cause now they tried to bully me. I fought back and fought back. By myself. You can say I went through it finally, but the memories left a deep scar in me.
Fortunately, I'm 23 now and you can say I have learnt a few things. To forgive, to not let it weighs heavy on my heart. Now, I just want to recognize my past-self "hey, you know what, maybe now everyone don't understand you, but you will be recognized as much as you deserve. You are strong and talented. One day, you won't need compliments to know you're good. You already know it in your heart."
As some one with inferiority complex, developing and identity on principles is one way to not feel inferior.
You need to integrate activities that allow you to be selfish.
It is only when you are selfish that you value yourself above others.
You can be selfish when it comes to your health etc.
Do not compromise on these principles.
This is a real eye opener. When it comes to really looking with in yourself.
I am a mix of persecution and savior complexes.
I felt the answer options for most questions didn't quite fit so here are my own answers:
1. I really wanna jump in and solve it but I feel like I won't be able to and somehow make it worse so I just try to cheer them up bit not by flirting just by goofing off or something like that
2. Depending on what was criticised I either take it to heart and never try the thing again, or I just don't care or I act like I don't care but secretly it will always bother me.
3. Both B and C but like...I also try to get attention I think by again goofing off.
4. I don't feel worthy of love however I still "force" it out of other people in some way or form sometimes unintentionally. I also help them out in turn but im not always sure why... sometimes it's because it feels good and other times because I have to or feel obligated to? But I don't want to feel that way...
5. I think they're scumbags and controlling. If we're talking about parents, then I think most are trying their best but often fail to control themselves before they try to "control" their kids.
6. I play it down like it's nothing but secretly want others to say "Wow that's so cool!" but then I remind myself that probably dozens of ppl could do this thing much much better than me so I just think it's bad now and not worthy of any attention.
7.Never been in one so it doesn't apply.
I think I may have answered too honestly....now people can use this info against me in the future probably. Oh well whatever...they would go father then just reading a stupid yt comment if they really wanted to try something with me so...
While I got the Savior complex, I feel like I've some traits similar to the other complexes. I'll break down into percentages. So I've got I'd say 60% Savior, 10% persecution, 25% inferiority, 5% Casanova.
Same!
@@amsj2763 Glad to know I'm not alone on that one...😅LOL
I know i have inferiority complex but i keep internally denying it with reasons but this video and the explanations hits me hard, this couldn't be more true, i always feel like I'm worthless and could've done better if i tried a bit harder, i also take criticism at heart, like dwelling on it for a long time or even crying sometimes
0:41 GD REFERENCE? GD FONT!
Definitely B but it doesn't effect me as often I just act more secluded until I know the person better just the cautious type and rather have more rooted friendships so I know I can trust them 😊
Omori at the start 😂 lmao
My result is savior complex, and it defined me accurately. As an only child, I might get full of my parents attention, but since I'm a kid without a sibling, I didn't learn how to interact with others. As I grew, I tried and tried and tried to learn how to be with people, only to find out that I can't fit to their friendship, resulting to me, constantly seeking significance from others. I have batchmates of youths in the church, or at school, but even the same ages still makes me feel left out and unwanted by people. So, when I see people like me, looking out of place or people that are showing they need attention, I talk to them, even if I feel I'm out of place for them myself. My mind is telling me that I am "saving" them from losing their feeling of significance, so they will not get sad or disappointed of themselves thoroughly. Now, I found myself in a circle of 5 other friends, and I also got one friend who I think may have an inferiority complex based on her actions.
Can you guys please do a video about people living with a record? :( its wrecked havoc on my family and there was barely even a choice in the matter. Entire lives are changed. What are ways people with a record can live happily, good job opportunities, etc.
I'm begging you guys :( I'm seeing a professional, but itd be beneficial for a lot of people
A record? Like as in having the best time/score/etc in something?
2 A/C/D
I want to deny it but I think I see it. I like to feel important, to feel special. Cause everyone I see, has everything I'd ever want, while I'm left with scraps. So the chase is all I'm left with to feel special, like I have value
My results were A - Savior Complex, which is very true. I'm learning not to take everyone's problems as my own, always fighting between wanting to help them or letting them learn themselves.
Yeah I kinda figured I'd get Savior Complex, I realized that long ago and I know the root cause of it is losing two important people in my life to cancer when I was 18, for a long time I blamed myself for their passing even though there was nothing I could do to save them. While I've gotten better about it and don't run myself into the ground to help others I'm still gonna do what I can to support those I care about
For me it's a mix of a savior and inferiority complex , th3 feeling of never doing enough, wasting time , not spending enough time working towards plans of order and salvation of those around me , it really shows how honesty can help you reflect
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I feel like im mostly a persecution complex by the looks of things.Also,I was feeling a bit anxious just before writing this comment and watching some of your videos really helped,its like all day free therapy!
I got 4 As and 3 Cs, both of the descriptions for them were pretty accurate for me. They’re a very small part but the descriptions are accurate for when they do come up
1) C
2) A
3) B? Idk
4) A
5) A & B
6) A
7) B or D
Savior complex! Not just because I’m a perfectionist and a people pleaser but because I’m a Christian and therefore am tasked with treating others-both enemies and friends-with kindness
I understand, but none of these are positive. It’s great you’re a kind person, but a saviour complex can be damaging to any type of relationship. Again, I’m sure you’re a lovely person, but having a saviour complex can cause relationships to drift away due to the fact the other person may feel like you’re judging them or trying to boss them around (I’m not very good at phrasing these things).
I got Savior complex and honestly it's kind of accurate. I love helping people out, even if sometimes I keep saying "Why can't you do this yourself??".
I'm a mix between Savior and Inferiority.
I won't feel good enough, but my feelings to help other's make me push forward and try to improve in any way I can.
If I fail once I beat myself up, then get up and start improving in any way I can.
This test was actually weirdly accurate, I got mostly A's and Savior describes me pretty well
Mix of A and D
Damn... Ngl the "While your adventures make for great stories" mad me go "Ayo, wait" since the other day K was telling a friend about some stuff that happened to me, lol
I got the persecution complex and it’s so real it feels like everyone’s out there to get you or hurt you in some way and I’m really trying to work on that one
Same😭😭💔
@@freezyyyy- omg glad I’m not the only one in this it’s like I know it’s not true right but my mind forces me to believe it 😭
@@Sarah-ye7oc Yeah it’s like we don’t have control over our own mind 😭it’s really stressful
@@Sarah-ye7oc yeah I’m also Glad to see ur comments
Savior complex. I knew that because I felt so insecure before, I want to give help to other people.
However, I think it's SWEET that I want to be your hero.
...I haven't taken it upon myself to take care of someone else for real, though.
Beware if I actually become strong enough to do that.
How I realized this was that how I take care of myself is how I take care of others.
I think I SHOULD be strong enough, but I continue to deny it, not believing that I can be that strong.
I know I can't save the whole world.
I would love it if I can teach the world how to face your fears and become strong, too.
I'm too scawed?
first one C, second one B, third one B/C, fourth one i’d say C although i haven’t been in a relationship, maybe C for the fifth, probably C again for this sixth one, i’d have to say C for seven too
I definitely have had savior complex I used to panic when someone close to me made a mistake or chose poorly for their life took me a long time to understand that the best help to some is to let them make those mistakes.
Mostly C, but A is very close after. I remember when I organised a revision group with other college students. I made sure to give them the subjects they are best at and only that to revise, with the goal of explaining them everyday at 6 pm to the rest via a Discord server I created (covid times). The idea was that instead of all of us revising say, 9 subjects, we'd each revise 3 (we were 4 but one claimed her mic wasn't working so all she did was listen. I had my doubts but she wasn't harmful so I didn't pursue it, so basically we were 3). This plan worked better than I expected, giving us enough time to thoroughly cover the subjects as well as brush over the others to make sure we know what they're about, as well as ample time for relaxing and fun activities (something i learnt was a necessity after forcing myself to study none stop for a month only to collapse the day of the exam and miss it). We did our best for a whole month, and eventually passed the exams. Most of us succeeded. I even managed to clear out all of the past semesters' failed subjects. When I got news of my success, I was naturally ecstatic and wanted to talk to the ones I worked with. I remember talking to this girl and saying "I only ever passed due to luck and my mother's prayers.". She said "No, what are you talking about? You passed thanks to your own hard work and dedication. Sure, your mother's prayers had an impact but you have to recognise your own efforts". I keep keep thinking about that...also I realised late I'm in love with that girl.
Mix of Bs and Cs, but mostly C.
When you described the inferiority complex, it was like hearing someone talking about me like it was me
1 - A or C
2 - A, B, and C
3 - B and C
4 - A, C, and D
5- none of these, really. I guess maybe A would be the closes but still way off, a massive stretch. I'm not an authority figure, though I may have some expertise on some subjects. And otherwise people are just people and I just need to weigh how much sense they make in what they say and how their level of expertise makes them more or less likely that someone with a different level of expertise when they say something different, but seemingly equally sensible. And I am weary of what consequences I might face depending on power someone holds, what they could do to me in some situations (so kinda C-ish as well, but even less so than A).
6 - all depending on a given situation, leaning towards varieties of each that would be toxic to me, sadly
7 - depends, A, B, or C, but mainly C
Tally: A-6, B-4, C-7, D-2
The result being a mix of mainly inferiority and saviour (with aspects of persecution paranoia and attention seeking being probably a result of inferiority complex, the stronger component) seems quite accurate.
The three way tie was crazy
I had the Savior and the Persecution results.
Some answers were more difficult so I feel like it's 80% A and 20% B. (1 true B and one half)
As some were the closest I've been compared to the other answers that were too far away from me.
It's totally logical with my past actually and it vibrates with things I've done as well.
I will always remember wanting to save someone as a small child from a guy in school that was much older (6 years apart?) and that annoyed the other young child.
It was a bold move but I had a high sense of justice quite early.
It's funny how things are evolving but we're staying honest to our core with sometimes a sense of being lost then found again.
I would love more videos like this!
1. Depends on the problem, if i know how to solve it, A. If not, C
2. Usually A
3. C
4. C
5. C
6. B
7. Can’t really answer accurately due to lack of relationship experience, but probably A or C
Mostly C, so inferiority complex, which definitely checks out.
I feel like I’m very complex, I wasn’t able to decide on 1 answer for any of the questions, as most of the answers fit me. Thing is, I had an A and a C in all the questions that I couldn’t decide on
1) A/C
2) A/B/C
3) A/B/C
4) A/C
5) A/B/C/D
6) A/C/D
7) A/B/C/D
No a's, 3 B's, 2 C's, and 3 D's
Tbh, saving people sounds like a lot of work, especially when they don't appreciate it
A and C for me.
I try to do everything i can for people i love, and i think losing what i have lost has me feel like i cant help anyone or im a failure to those i cant help. I feel useless and like i could have done things better or if i had been something else i could have resolved it or saved someone
A is most dominating, but B is right there to fill in the gaps, and a touch of c. In rpg games i cannot force myself to be anything else then a good person that always helps those in need.
This test is very accurate.
savior complex. explains why i was very fixated on ' fixing ' others and wanted to save the world 🗿👍. but that was years ago. things have changed, I've learnt to take it easy :))
i have casanova complex and honestly i was shocked how much it described in every detail
OK... here I go...
1: A & C
It depends on the situation. IF I can help, I go for A.
If I can't, then I lean more to C
2: ABC
If it's from friends, then I take it to heart.
Due to my unstable nature and socially oblivious nature and bad past, I often see everything as an attack out of fear to get hurt again.
I dwell on it if it had serious consequences, like me getting axed from a role or job because of the critic given AFTER I got axed.
3: ABC
A: In my own server and friend group, I take charge!!!
B: If it's another server I joined, then I'm a wallflower, because I have social anxiety.
C: When I do something wrong in another server, for example getting a warning or having mods talk to me about something I did, I panic and get scared of not only them, but also talking to them or anyone in the server because I don't wanna accidentally break rules and lose my connection to the server, so I shut myself up and don't interact anymore.
4: ABCD
I do that often.
I have paranoia after I was betrayed and people WERE out to get me back in my past, so... yeah... I have trust issues because of it.
I don't feel worthy if I don't get validation from others. Why? In the past, I always got the silent treatment and I was too naive to understand that they hated me.
Yes. I want it.
5: ABC
I want to feel that sense of... leadership. To be in control and to help people.
Paranoia because of my past.
Again, Paranoia + feeling inferior.
6: ABCD
When it's helping people, I get full of myself to levels of the typical anime characters that have the "OOOHOHOHOHO~" laugh.
I downplay when I feel inferior. Example: "Yes I finally made this drawing, but it's not that good because you can draw prettier"
I struggle with acknowledging if others don't see my achievements.
If I get praise, I want more... So it motivates me to do more.
7: ACD
A: If my partner comes with the "we need to talk" stuff, then I blame myself.
C: I feel unworthy of love, ever since my last breakup.
D: I ONCE moved on very quickly because... OK to explain it. I was taken by Boyfriend1, I ran into Boyfriend2 and befriended him, BF2 confessed to me and was like "I would have dated you if you weren't taken", but then BF1 cheated on me and broke up. So I immediately ran to BF2 since I wasn't taken anymore and we clicked... Sadly this year... BF2 broke up with me against his will. His parents had dating preferences that I didn't fall into. It even drove me to attempting to end my life on my birthday that was a month away... But I failed to do the job because I grew ill...
*Results:*
7 A's: Savior Complex
5 B's: Persecution Complex
7 C's: Inferiority Complex
3 D's: Casanova Complex
...Why do they all resonate with me...?
I got a savior complex, but thanks to this video I can confirm I'm on the right path to healing
C, A, B, C, A, A, D ( I hope ), 3 A's gives me the saviour which is what I expected in a way, 2 Cs also makes sense as I am not that trusting of people outside my very close circuit, and even then I am not all that trusting. the one B is accurate to how I react to those settings, which I find annoying. I have missed any romantic encounters to get rejected so I am just holding out hope for that one, but I think I will role with the punches because already do that anyways.