i had a friend, told her i did not like gossiping, assured me she wasn't like that, first thing she did when we hung out was talk mad about our other mutual acquaintances and friends. Wanted nothing to do with her shortly after, gives me the impression of "if they talk to you, they talk about you" whenever i see this behavior. And ever since I stopped hanging out, I was proven right, I was suddenly the target of many rumors soon after.
Jesus Christ loves you, repent of your sins and turn to him. Romans 6:23 23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
These things aren’t uncommon. It doesn’t mean that they are acceptable. You will meet all types of people from all walks of life while you’re here. I know, it feels like toxic waste on your flesh & makes you want to vomit when you encounter certain types. It’s your conscious telling you, no bueno. Calling people out on things helps you feel better but, unfortunately the majority of the time it continues on. Those are things they have to recognize on their own and fix. Dust it all off. Spit on the ground and keep moving forward. 🙌🏼✨🌟✨🌌
None of these matter as much as good looks though, you can do everything right but if you aren't aesthetically pleasing it doesn't matter and you will be flagged as having low social skills no matter what.
Something I think people mistake for charm is the "charm" they see in media, like being "hot and mysterious" when in reality someone might just see that person as creepy. Being charming is realistically about being kind and open to create those connections and keeping them once they're established. You're already enough, there's nothing you have to change to suddenly be charming, just know yourself and know the people around you.
All of these are tips on how to be a good person, basically it's saying being a good person is charming. None of these actually talk about character but rather habits. So yes you can do everything in the video and still be yourself, unless "yourself" is a jerk.
0:24 Backbiting 1:01 Masking brutality as honesty 1:51 Never keeping time 2:55 Control Freak 3:56 Self-centeredness 5:55 Pervasive negativity 6:43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 7:49 Always in competition with others 8:14 Lack of self-confidence hope that helps
Jesus Christ loves you, repent of your sins and turn to him. Romans 6:23 23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
This is actually really informative for me. As someone who isn’t doing great socially, I identified having 7 out of 16 of those issues (which is far too many for my liking). I could definitely relate in seeing most of those traits in other people or myself. This will probably help me improve myself so much easier now that I know what to look out for, thank you so much for making this video.
As someone with ADHD I struggle with time management and interrupting others. Sometimes I don’t notice I’m doing it, so my goal is to be more aware about it
Just gotta say: the things described in this video that are common with ADHD don't make anyone less "charming". Awareness is good but, I think, holding one's self to a neurotypical standard is futile and harmful.
Is poor time management an ADHD thing? Because I have an ADHD friend irl and his poor time management drives me crazy. If it's part of his condition I can learn to accept it.
I too don't think ADHD has anything to do with poor time management. Tardiness is almost always sign of neglected rebellion over something we kept denying we don't like.
Don't want to be rude, but searching for it led me to the conclusion you most likely are trying to scam people and using bots for like considering how much like you've got in such a short time, with such a nonesense scammy comment :/
i saw a bunch of ads for this book online and it retails for 12.99 on the internet and the website showed me 2 reviews from TikTok,I doubt if this thing is legit
I could have used this video a few years back- it was so confusing and frustrating trying to figure out why everyone instinctively avoided me. Now I know what I need to work on for my last year of high school! Thanks Psych2go 💕
I have mastered the art of being late, no matter how hard I try to be early. No amount of preparation helps. I'm not stressing about it anymore, if I make it I'm glad, if I don't it is what it is.
I just want to tell you , you are doing very good things, how can you upload daily videos with such amazing topic I literally love this I'm learning so much, thank you so much ❤ love from India 🇮🇳
I think it's important to also understand what is charming based on cultural context. In Western worlds, it's disrespectful to interject, but in other cultures, it's normal. Just a food for thought!
Some of these are literally out of my control because of my disorders. 😢 people will either like me for who I am, or they won't. Not to say this isn't good advice for folks, but I wanted to comment so that others who feel like I do, don't feel alone or alienated.
I think a lot of these "tips" don't account for other non-typical neurotypes. It seems largely like a grossly generalized set of social expectations. Many of which, when not met, have nothing to do with "charm". I usually like @psych2go videos and find them insightful. A significant portion of this one struck me as judgemental trash. "Charming" is defined by the person who is charmed.
Thank you for this comment! I also was feeling the same way, as I have ADHD and some other things that I’m working on trying to be more aware of. But some of these things can be traits of a person just because that’s who they are. I definitely think things like charm is subjective, so I don’t completely agree with this video 😭
8:43 Sorry, but that would only be the kind of toxic positivity that makes everything worse. "Just gaslight yourself into self-confidence." And if you fail at it and don't become self-confident then it's all your fault because you didn't lie convincing enough. A "You're not that bad after all, quite alright, if I may say so myself" can be better than a "You're cool and amazing" because it sounds more convincing when you don't feel cool and amazing. An ironic * flicks finger guns at own reflection * "You're pretty good" helped me more than any sort of serious pep talk.
To speak for fellow epileptics its not our fault we're unreliable due to being unable to control ourselves from imploding. We're aware that we are liabilities for others
"Masking brutality as honesty, never keeping time, constantly creating conflicts, pervasive negativity, lack of self confidence, not getting enough sleep" are a part of me.
What bugs me about my "personality" is almost all of it is subconscious. Then I'm left scratching my head about this or that when people act negatively towards me. Even though I don't think I'm doing anything that warrants such responses. Also, I don't get this idea of being "Exhausted" by others? When someone first told me that, I thought it was the stupidest thing I have ever heard. I have never met someone who made me feel "Emotionally drained". Happy, sad, and angry, but not "energy draining" or "exhausting".
I think I get most of these things right. Wouldn't exactly call myself call good looking or good smelling though. I am progressing information really slow so it often happens that I start talking over others and instantly apologize for it. Need to learn to be a little more patience again. Was way better at that when I was more shy few years back.
It's a little funny to me seeing overcompetitive and underconfident next to each other... it's hard to embrace your flaws while being surrounded by people who rub their version of success in
Ok this makes it a bit harder as an autistic.... It also could be the same with those who have ADHD. 1) We don't even notice what we're doing is wrong unless it's been gently pointed out and corrected. 2) We are brutally honest by nature. There is no off-switch for it. 3) Complete space cadet with punctuality.
@@noiJadisCailleachSHUT UP! YOU AREN'T BORN WITH PROBLEMS THAT CAN'T BE FIXED! I NEVER ASKED FOR IT! I AM AWARE OF MY OWN PROBLEMS! YOU DUMBA-- ARE NOT AWARE OF YOUR OWN FLAWS!
Whether or not it's true, not everyone can notice their flaws, diagnosed or not. Sure, maybe forcing to not do the bad habits can be hard because it just happens- but when someone already DOES point it out, THEN make the effort. I'm a hypocrite for saying this, I know (no, I don't have any sort of disorder). But when you KNOW you're doing something rude or insensitive and you've already EXPERIENCED someone calling you out on it, it becomes harder to justify not improving. And yes, as I've said, I am a hypocrite for advising this, but we can stop blaming thingsabout ourselves we can't control and focus on helping and improving parts about ourselves that we CAN
i havent made any friends since i started Uni (almost 3 years ago), i have my friends from high school and im happy about it cause without them i probably wouldnt be here but feels empty not having nobody to talk during breaks or talk about the class even in groupworks the people i work with just dont see me as something more than that i try to have conversations with them (im terrible at that) or send memes but it doesnt matter they usually ignore it. I tried some things this channel recommends i found a style to wear, ive been taking care of me, tried to be more open, and be less negative but i keep being a "shadow" in the classroom and at the Uni. I dont know if i have something bad in me but maybe make friends is not for me
MB it's because they're not the quality of friends that you deserve. Not everyone is meant to be your friend. I have 2 great friends, I don't want more. I hope you get a good friend soon.
Lacking self-confidence isn't a habit that you can just stop. I've had it my whole life and it's not going away. Impolite behaviour isn't an easy one either if you're prone to anger, especially if you're constantly surrounded by morons.
I suffered from the significant things mentioned in this video, especially from pervasive negativity and lack self-confidence. Are the solutions to them really that simple? How can I be sure that I am not walking into the traps of peoples who wanted to hurt me for their own sadistic enjoyments?
@@noiJadisCailleach Pardon me but it sounded as if being too cautious is a bad thing. After all, the word "stranger is danger" is a thing for a reason.
I have an ex who told me i was ugly af and that my voice was ugly and she literally said it was jst her being honest and that i shouldnt get angry at her for that. She'd also constantly back talk my own friends. And whenever me and her would meet up she'd be at least 30 minutes late for everything while i was always on time. Honestly that ex was basically everything in this list and yet she'd always say "oh everyone loves me I have so much charm"
My depression makes it extremely difficult to be reliable. I hate this, but instead of making excuses, I try to explain to them the situation and apologize for the inconvenience. Does this seem okay?
My biggest issues are personal grooming (i feel too ugly to even bother with it), talking over others (i am overly excited to relate to others and talk out of turn), pervasive negativity (not towards others but regarding myself), always in competition (i am not good at much of anything and it makes me jealous), and lack of self-confidence (almost nonexistent). I hope one day a woman will take pity on me and let me be their partner :(
Seems like the two things I don't do on this list actually do completely negate doing all the other things. Though I don't intend of acting those to 'appear' charming. That honestly feels deceptive to me...
like with everything, dont overdo these points. Like with arrogance and entitlement; I always listen to others and am interesting in their experiences, but I have trouble sharing my own, or any of my achievements and plans, this also steers people away.
i dont feel depressed i dont even hate myself anymore i'm just tired i feel like im underwater i feel nothing i dont have a desire anymore i dont feel interested in anything anymore games that made me happy and hobbies feels like chores now everything feels worthless i dont know anything else to do i step out of my comfort zone and reach out to everyone to make friends but it often fails if i wasnt here maybe life would be better
5:24 My crush's sister always does that to me when I talk to my crush 😭 At that point i feel so awkward so i just stop talking while my crush looks at me weird
0:01 Intro 0:05 Among us 0:24 Backbiting 1:01 Masking brutality as honesty 1:51 Never keeping time 2:55 Control Freak 3:56 Self-centeredness 5:55 Pervasive negativity 6:43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 7:49 Always in competition with others 8:14 Lack of self-confidence
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i had a friend, told her i did not like gossiping, assured me she wasn't like that, first thing she did when we hung out was talk mad about our other mutual acquaintances and friends. Wanted nothing to do with her shortly after, gives me the impression of "if they talk to you, they talk about you" whenever i see this behavior. And ever since I stopped hanging out, I was proven right, I was suddenly the target of many rumors soon after.
Should've told her to stop😢😮
What a ill person! 🙄
Jesus Christ loves you, repent of your sins and turn to him.
Romans 6:23
23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
These things aren’t uncommon. It doesn’t mean that they are acceptable.
You will meet all types of people from all walks of life while you’re here. I know, it feels like toxic waste on your flesh & makes you want to vomit when you encounter certain types. It’s your conscious telling you, no bueno.
Calling people out on things helps you feel better but, unfortunately the majority of the time it continues on.
Those are things they have to recognize on their own and fix.
Dust it all off. Spit on the ground and keep moving forward.
🙌🏼✨🌟✨🌌
Sorry to hear that. I can relate as I experienced something similar. But in my case, one of my other friends told me what the gossiper said about me
0:01 INTRO
0:24 1. Backbiting
1:00 2. Masking brutality as honesty
1:51 3. Never keeping time
2:20 4. Unreliable
2:55 5. Control freak
3:19 6. Impolite behavior
3:56 7. Self-centeredness
4:14 8. Constantly creating conflicts
4:46 9. Neglecting personal grooming
5:16 10. Talking over others
5:43 11. Pervasive negativity
6:43 12. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7:48 13. Always in competition with others
8:12 14. Lack of self-confidence
8:49 15. Breaking your promises
9:13 16. Not getting enough sleep
9:38 OUTRO
thank you
None of these matter as much as good looks though, you can do everything right but if you aren't aesthetically pleasing it doesn't matter and you will be flagged as having low social skills no matter what.
@@thesaddestdude3575gym
so basically being myself, okay, got it
Ah sounds familiar.
Something I think people mistake for charm is the "charm" they see in media, like being "hot and mysterious" when in reality someone might just see that person as creepy. Being charming is realistically about being kind and open to create those connections and keeping them once they're established. You're already enough, there's nothing you have to change to suddenly be charming, just know yourself and know the people around you.
Yeah, i mean being mysterious or acting hard to get makes you look more valuable but its annoying
so true, thanks for sharing :)
It’s good to drop bad habits, but if charm turns into an act, you might forget who you really are.
Ding, ding, ding!
Me who hasn’t figured out who I am:I don’t think that’ll be a problem
All of these are tips on how to be a good person, basically it's saying being a good person is charming. None of these actually talk about character but rather habits. So yes you can do everything in the video and still be yourself, unless "yourself" is a jerk.
What doesn't? Everything ruins your likability.
0:24 Backbiting
1:01 Masking brutality as honesty
1:51 Never keeping time
2:55 Control Freak
3:56 Self-centeredness
5:55 Pervasive negativity
6:43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7:49 Always in competition with others
8:14 Lack of self-confidence
hope that helps
Tysm!!
you missed the 4th:
2:22 Unreliable
oh also missed 3:19 Impolite behaviour
okey actualy there are 16 in total and only 9 here, you missed 7 others lol
Jesus Christ loves you, repent of your sins and turn to him.
Romans 6:23
23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
This is actually really informative for me.
As someone who isn’t doing great socially, I identified having 7 out of 16 of those issues (which is far too many for my liking).
I could definitely relate in seeing most of those traits in other people or myself.
This will probably help me improve myself so much easier now that I know what to look out for, thank you so much for making this video.
Same! I also got 7 and am NOT happy about it..
As someone with ADHD I struggle with time management and interrupting others. Sometimes I don’t notice I’m doing it, so my goal is to be more aware about it
Just gotta say: the things described in this video that are common with ADHD don't make anyone less "charming". Awareness is good but, I think, holding one's self to a neurotypical standard is futile and harmful.
Is poor time management an ADHD thing? Because I have an ADHD friend irl and his poor time management drives me crazy. If it's part of his condition I can learn to accept it.
@@roadkillsarny8045poor time management is often associated with neurodivergence, including adhd.
@@roadkillsarny8045it is. I have this problem, and from my perspective it is very annoying too
I too don't think ADHD has anything to do with poor time management. Tardiness is almost always sign of neglected rebellion over something we kept denying we don't like.
Finding the banned 'Magnetic Aura' ebook should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life
Don't want to be rude, but searching for it led me to the conclusion you most likely are trying to scam people and using bots for like considering how much like you've got in such a short time, with such a nonesense scammy comment :/
Elaborate?
Why is it banned?
is this a bot?
i saw a bunch of ads for this book online and it retails for 12.99 on the internet and the website showed me 2 reviews from TikTok,I doubt if this thing is legit
Timestamps
1). Backbiting 0:23
2). Masking brutality is honesty 1:00
3). Never keeping time 1:51
4). Unreliable 2:21
5). Control freak 2:54
6). Impolite behaviour 3:18
7). Self-centeredness 3:57
8). Constantly creating conflicts 4:13
9). Neglecting personal grooming 4:45
10). Talking over others 5:16
11). Pervasive negativity 5:43
12). Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6:43
13). Always in competition with others 7:48
14). Lack of self-confidence 8:13
15). Breaking your promise 8:48
16). Not getting enough sleep 9:12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙
1:19 some ppl are brutally DIShonest. those'll be the same ones who'll claim themselves to be the most honest person you'll ever meet
I could have used this video a few years back- it was so confusing and frustrating trying to figure out why everyone instinctively avoided me. Now I know what I need to work on for my last year of high school! Thanks Psych2go 💕
This is good. I needed this. Also, I love the thumbnail - Princess Jellyfish is an underrated anime.
Love the Team Fortress 2 references, especially Scout and Miss Pauling.
Can we just take a moment to apreciate the fantastic job the artist did for this video :D
We appreciate how well you've articulated your insights. Keep doing your best.
Sadly none of this compares to physical looks, people will think you are socially inept no matter what if you are unattractive
@@thesaddestdude3575 shower and a well-fitting haircut go a long way imo
Love these voices and animations, so soothing!❤
0:05 no you didnt
:O Among us
Nooooo😂
I have mastered the art of being late, no matter how hard I try to be early. No amount of preparation helps. I'm not stressing about it anymore, if I make it I'm glad, if I don't it is what it is.
Me too
I usually don't wanna stand out, so I usually throw away charm, so I could blend in and stay unnoticed
Don’t Dim your light 💡
@@yadant-m674Fax
Espescially in crowds. I would rather be grey
You might want to not accidentally make that result in isolating yourself. It's not good for your mental health
Copium
I just want to tell you , you are doing very good things, how can you upload daily videos with such amazing topic I literally love this I'm learning so much, thank you so much ❤ love from India 🇮🇳
I think it's important to also understand what is charming based on cultural context. In Western worlds, it's disrespectful to interject, but in other cultures, it's normal. Just a food for thought!
Some of these are literally out of my control because of my disorders. 😢 people will either like me for who I am, or they won't. Not to say this isn't good advice for folks, but I wanted to comment so that others who feel like I do, don't feel alone or alienated.
skill issue.
@@noiJadisCailleachskill issue? his/her disorder it’s out of his/her control, instead of being mean, why don’t u go touch some grass?
I think a lot of these "tips" don't account for other non-typical neurotypes. It seems largely like a grossly generalized set of social expectations. Many of which, when not met, have nothing to do with "charm". I usually like @psych2go videos and find them insightful. A significant portion of this one struck me as judgemental trash. "Charming" is defined by the person who is charmed.
Thank you for this comment! I also was feeling the same way, as I have ADHD and some other things that I’m working on trying to be more aware of. But some of these things can be traits of a person just because that’s who they are. I definitely think things like charm is subjective, so I don’t completely agree with this video 😭
7:13 yo are these the Scout and Ms. Pauling from TEAM FORTRESS 2?????
Bold of you to assume I have charm
Oh my gosh i didn’t even realize i do some of these things.. i’m glad i’m watching your video, I have to take notes😭
Me too!! Now I feel so bad for everyone around me😭😭 but I’ll do better from now on!
I'm in love with this style. Especially those mid-sections puppets!
Thank you for making this video 😩
8:43 Sorry, but that would only be the kind of toxic positivity that makes everything worse.
"Just gaslight yourself into self-confidence." And if you fail at it and don't become self-confident then it's all your fault because you didn't lie convincing enough.
A "You're not that bad after all, quite alright, if I may say so myself" can be better than a "You're cool and amazing" because it sounds more convincing when you don't feel cool and amazing.
An ironic * flicks finger guns at own reflection * "You're pretty good" helped me more than any sort of serious pep talk.
It's funny how relevant a lot of these habits are for a friend of mine.
To speak for fellow epileptics its not our fault we're unreliable due to being unable to control ourselves from imploding. We're aware that we are liabilities for others
FIRST? Btw I really love your vids! They really helped me and made me a better person!
Some people like me now cause of your videos i improved some of the thing people don't like about me so i became a better person
Love the videos, you guys are great 👍
I wanted this kind of video!❤
"Masking brutality as honesty, never keeping time, constantly creating conflicts, pervasive negativity, lack of self confidence, not getting enough sleep" are a part of me.
3 minutes ago is crazy
Amazing video :) great job!!
What bugs me about my "personality" is almost all of it is subconscious. Then I'm left scratching my head about this or that when people act negatively towards me. Even though I don't think I'm doing anything that warrants such responses.
Also, I don't get this idea of being "Exhausted" by others? When someone first told me that, I thought it was the stupidest thing I have ever heard. I have never met someone who made me feel "Emotionally drained". Happy, sad, and angry, but not "energy draining" or "exhausting".
This video is amazing, if you take those tips to your heart, it will really make a difference
I'm guilty of being brutally honest, this helps me a lot!
THERES A TF2 REF OMG anyways ty for the video its really nice
3:23 wait is that Childe?
It is 😭
I think it is😭😭😭
Hi
Hi!! You’re first!!
Thanks for your amazing videos
Here are the timestamps 1.Intro 0:00 2.Backbiting 0:26 3.Masking brutality as honesty 1:02 4.Never keeping time 1:52 5.Unreliable 2:22 6.Control freak 2:56 7.Impolite behavior 3:20 8.Self-centeredness 3:58 9.Constantly creating conflicts 4:15 10.Neglecting personal grooming 4:47 11.Talking over others 5:16 12.Pervasive negativity 5:45 13.Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6:44 14.Always in competition with others 7:49 15.Lack of self-confidence 8:14 16.Breaking your promises 8:49 17.Not getting enough sleep 9:14 18.conclusion 9:40
We love your videos... see how many comments in just 2 minutes 😅
I miss the old days.
Elaborate, i dont know what you mean
@@christiangavette4010 he is probably a bot
This is the best psych2go video. It gives problems and solutions
I think I get most of these things right.
Wouldn't exactly call myself call good looking or good smelling though.
I am progressing information really slow so it often happens that I start talking over others and instantly apologize for it. Need to learn to be a little more patience again. Was way better at that when I was more shy few years back.
Brutal Honesty is fun. The actual concerning parts of this list are about being too controlling or too negative, everything else... not as much
I love this
I do all except for 7 10 and 14. Now I know why I haven’t been dating anyone for 5 years…
sorry but dark circles can be quite attractive tbh! makes eyes look rounder❤ pls get enough sleep but dont be ashamed of them too much!!
It's a little funny to me seeing overcompetitive and underconfident next to each other... it's hard to embrace your flaws while being surrounded by people who rub their version of success in
Number 3 isn't fair, I have adhd and I struggle with time management because of it
0:05 why are the eyes amonguses?
S U S
BUT! can I be silly? 🍷🗿
yesss we love a silly goose
Let's be friends 😭
But would you be serious?
Nah id be goofy
goofy goober
Among all these habits, I'm just brutally honest.
Am I tweaking or is this who I think it is... 💀😨😨 5:00
Ok this makes it a bit harder as an autistic.... It also could be the same with those who have ADHD.
1) We don't even notice what we're doing is wrong unless it's been gently pointed out and corrected.
2) We are brutally honest by nature. There is no off-switch for it.
3) Complete space cadet with punctuality.
Excuses of a narcissist.
@@noiJadisCailleachSHUT UP! YOU AREN'T BORN WITH PROBLEMS THAT CAN'T BE FIXED! I NEVER ASKED FOR IT! I AM AWARE OF MY OWN PROBLEMS! YOU DUMBA-- ARE NOT AWARE OF YOUR OWN FLAWS!
@noiJadisCailleach that was not intelligent.
Whether or not it's true, not everyone can notice their flaws, diagnosed or not. Sure, maybe forcing to not do the bad habits can be hard because it just happens- but when someone already DOES point it out, THEN make the effort. I'm a hypocrite for saying this, I know (no, I don't have any sort of disorder). But when you KNOW you're doing something rude or insensitive and you've already EXPERIENCED someone calling you out on it, it becomes harder to justify not improving. And yes, as I've said, I am a hypocrite for advising this, but we can stop blaming thingsabout ourselves we can't control and focus on helping and improving parts about ourselves that we CAN
@@enigmatic2878 fair enough 👍🏻
Wow it was so complete ❤❤
i havent made any friends since i started Uni (almost 3 years ago), i have my friends from high school and im happy about it cause without them i probably wouldnt be here but feels empty not having nobody to talk during breaks or talk about the class even in groupworks the people i work with just dont see me as something more than that i try to have conversations with them (im terrible at that) or send memes but it doesnt matter they usually ignore it.
I tried some things this channel recommends i found a style to wear, ive been taking care of me, tried to be more open, and be less negative but i keep being a "shadow" in the classroom and at the Uni.
I dont know if i have something bad in me but maybe make friends is not for me
MB it's because they're not the quality of friends that you deserve. Not everyone is meant to be your friend. I have 2 great friends, I don't want more. I hope you get a good friend soon.
Lacking self-confidence isn't a habit that you can just stop. I've had it my whole life and it's not going away. Impolite behaviour isn't an easy one either if you're prone to anger, especially if you're constantly surrounded by morons.
I suffered from the significant things mentioned in this video, especially from pervasive negativity and lack self-confidence. Are the solutions to them really that simple? How can I be sure that I am not walking into the traps of peoples who wanted to hurt me for their own sadistic enjoyments?
You'll never run out of excuses
@@noiJadisCailleach Pardon me but it sounded as if being too cautious is a bad thing. After all, the word "stranger is danger" is a thing for a reason.
Thanks for the advice!
these would help if i had the confidence to talk to people in the first place
I have an ex who told me i was ugly af and that my voice was ugly and she literally said it was jst her being honest and that i shouldnt get angry at her for that. She'd also constantly back talk my own friends. And whenever me and her would meet up she'd be at least 30 minutes late for everything while i was always on time. Honestly that ex was basically everything in this list and yet she'd always say "oh everyone loves me I have so much charm"
Bro, im mastered charm of this video, good
My depression makes it extremely difficult to be reliable. I hate this, but instead of making excuses, I try to explain to them the situation and apologize for the inconvenience. Does this seem okay?
Great, another one my personal playlist♡
I sadly, unknowingly relate to too many of these. Got some major work to do.
Very good.
1:52 hmm that clock seems Oddly FAMILIAR could just be me but i could have sworn ive seen that exact company clock before...
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I'm definitely guilty of more than one of these...
HELP THE THUMB NAIL IT KILLED ME- 😭✋
My biggest issues are personal grooming (i feel too ugly to even bother with it), talking over others (i am overly excited to relate to others and talk out of turn), pervasive negativity (not towards others but regarding myself), always in competition (i am not good at much of anything and it makes me jealous), and lack of self-confidence (almost nonexistent).
I hope one day a woman will take pity on me and let me be their partner :(
Excuses.
Git gud.
@noiJadisCailleach what is the point. what are you doing bro.
Someone put the timestamps pls 😊
No😊
Seems like the two things I don't do on this list actually do completely negate doing all the other things. Though I don't intend of acting those to 'appear' charming. That honestly feels deceptive to me...
like with everything, dont overdo these points. Like with arrogance and entitlement; I always listen to others and am interesting in their experiences, but I have trouble sharing my own, or any of my achievements and plans, this also steers people away.
9:16 omg ralsei plushie!!!! if I had one I definitely would have a good sleep every time
Thanka im watching it at 5:17 after getting no sleep😅
I now have a list of things to work on!! 😂
7:14 a refrence that fits pretty damn well
Thank you so much 🌺🌸🌷✨
Way trueee
That thumbnail is lowkey hilarious
i dont feel depressed i dont even hate myself anymore i'm just tired i feel like im underwater i feel nothing i dont have a desire anymore i dont feel interested in anything anymore games that made me happy and hobbies feels like chores now everything feels worthless i dont know anything else to do i step out of my comfort zone and reach out to everyone to make friends but it often fails if i wasnt here maybe life would be better
womp womp
thats literally depression. ik bc i was dignosed that
SUMMARIZE PLEASE!!?
2:17 that senshi on the calendar ??
Y LI XUN IS LIKE THIS EXCEPT FIRST ONE AND HE WILL NEVER LOSE HIS CHARM IN MY HEART OR ZHU YUN'S HEART
Can we have the old speakers back please?
I think i needed this video.
Hii ❤
7:16 TF2 REFERENCE WOOOO
5:24 My crush's sister always does that to me when I talk to my crush 😭 At that point i feel so awkward so i just stop talking while my crush looks at me weird
Thank you!
0:01 Intro
0:05 Among us
0:24 Backbiting
1:01 Masking brutality as honesty
1:51 Never keeping time
2:55 Control Freak
3:56 Self-centeredness
5:55 Pervasive negativity
6:43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7:49 Always in competition with others
8:14 Lack of self-confidence
I'm sorry but can we just talk about how pretty this art style from Psych2go is🤩?
I barely talk to people, so i can't sure of these are things i need to improve on or not :/
14 and 16 for me
7:13 YOOOO IS THAT A TF2 REFERENCE