Full Episode: The Biggest Secrets Men Keep | The Mel Robbins Show
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- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
- What are men really thinking and feeling? On today's episode, Mel explores the things that men don't like to talk about, with participation from a male-only audience.
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Now THIS is what you call a great daytime talk show..
Okay, it's ok. Not exactly, but it is a good effort.
Most man think woman want man's with so much money. It's not really true we just want a man that is responsible, protective and visionary. That's all
I only want men for the occasional sex but they can't spend the night. I make my own money just as all women are capable to do it.
My woman only wants my cock.
@@JackLondon12 You don't have a woman.
@@blondecat666 How the fuck do you know? 😂
@@blondecat666 Ha, ha, ha, great reply!
It takes courage to show vulnerability. May all vulnerability be rewarded with safety and liberation and may we free others of the story we have about them.
Thank you so much for putting men back on the map! Talk shows today seem to only care about women empowerment...
Amen!
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It's completely primal programming for a man to want to be the breadwinner, back when they used to be the hunter and gatherer. It's not society that makes men that way. It's instinctive, it's primal wiring.
Exactly.
Not sure about this. 80 percent of the food gathered was done by women. Grains, leaves, berries, small animals. I think it's more societal.
@@judithmclaughlin4635 Everyone wants to be the boss, men were bigger and stronger and weren't pregnant or nursing.
GO Mel!! 😃😺 1st woman talk show with a male audience. 👏
Oprah had one I think and Steve Harvey
Definitely not the first all male audience. Oprah and Iyanla for sure has had many all male audiences.
Nope. Oprah did and so did Iyanla Vanzant.
Orpha did this years ago
Men who don’t want to help in the home makes me wish I was attracted to women. Slaving at work and then coming home to be the only parent keeping the home up. Who wrote these rules
You make the rules
Men.
sadly you are not meeting the right man. i can tell you I do help at home.
Love this! Men and boys need a voice in this society. Rather than constantly just being told what’s wrong with them. This show was so HUMAN and that’s amazing in this day and age where everything is so FAKE.
It is a battle and because of Mel I have made serious strides in getting my mind right. The first step was admitting I can’t do it myself. The second was getting her book, and third was getting to see a therapist and addressing my fears and anxieties. I look forward to getting an update video for the Mel Robbins fans. Mel quite simply may have saved my life. Her ENTIRE staff made me comfortable and especially the amazing producers. I was totally impressed by their compassion. Thank you Mel Robbins and staff. I love you all and thank you for opening the door, not to mention my eyes. LYMI
You're an inspiration for speaking your truth.
Thank you for sharing your story. It's something that so many people can identify with and really helps to let people know they're not alone and there is help and hope. Wishing you only the very best
You are always stronger than you think and you don't know how many you have inspired just by being publicly honest about your own truth. Well done and good luck!
Sorry i am a non_native you _tube viewer . Please tell me what does LYMI stands for
Shiva Gh69 It means love you mean it
I liked the energy of the audience! More all male shows please! Lots of important stuff to talk about.
The energy was great. Us men love Mel also!
Ikr.. 😍💛
@@khill3524 US men or us men?
When the gender roles get reversed, the masculine and feminine energies get thrown off balance and it's hard to maintain stability and emotional happiness. It's more important than people realize.
100% agreed. Men are meant to have drive, work and provide. They KNOW this and that is why they feel so off balance when they cannot.
@@adj5767 Exactly. And that is the same in most societies
When society pushes gender roles and someone isn’t living up to those bogus rules that we enforce on them is when issues arise
Yup.
Gender is a social construct and just nah. its the expectations and rigid roles that create that
Thank u for putting full episodes on RUclips!!
Chantaul burgess
This is such a rich subject. Mel you can do lots of shows like this.
Wonderful show! So I just hit the part with the fellow who's expressing concern about getting older and having no friends, just being overall lonely. If this is something anyone reading this is concerned about, and you're 65 or over (or younger honestly. I'm in my 30s and have gone to help out) I just want to suggest Senior centers. Senior centers are amazing! I have seen 1st hand the good that they can bring to the older communities' lives. They provide meals, companionship, sometimes there's outings and what not, they're worth checking out, donating to, and/or volunteering at.
I like that they dedicated a show to men
If the comedian man's family is short on money and the bills are late, why shouldn't he find a way to make some money during the day? He apparently works the clubs at night. It's one thing if the wife makes plenty of money but another if they are having a hard time making ends meet. I don't feel that was addressed. And another thing, he could stop unnecessary expenses like traffic tickets.
agree... do what you need to do. gotta pay those bills & then do your "passion projects".
@@debonaire257 sounds like a boy in a man's body. Glad you separated. I know it isn't easy on your own but better that way than with someone who doesn't cooperate. Well done you
Somebody probably has to watch their kids when they aren’t at daycare or school sometimes
The entleman at 8:50 speaks truth and wisdom. spot on
I like that the red is making Mel stand out among the men.
Mel this is what separates you from those other shows on daytime tv. The other shows typically are just apologists for women. They talk about relationships but only from one perspective and don't get down to anything. And the men who they have on don't give real opinions from a man's perspective. Mel, keep showing that the same issues women have are the same issues men have with women and with themselves.
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yes its time for men to have their voice!! I know so many that have issues with problematic toxic women and im here for Mel!
Wow real guys are still out there.
I am a young unmarried man but harbour so much fears about these subjects most days. Funny enough I just had a discussion with a friend moments ago only for me to get this recommendation by RUclips minutes after. This was extremely helpful and I will come back to it over and over again until I work at being the best and most valuable version of myself to the benefit of my family, friends, loved ones and the society at large. I AM A CHAMPION. Thank you Mel and you had such a rich resource team.
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Can we clone Mel's husband? Men need more of this, please keep it up on issues affecting men. Happier men make for safer women.
Men Were happier when they had high paying jobs.
I love to learn & hearing from the men have the same feelings toward things.
Nice one Mel! A space for them. Men deserve a voice too. This is a great format as there are too many shows that focus on women. Men should be encouraged to seriously communicate EFFECTIVELY.
This was incredible!!! More men program!
I love Mel's show!!! I have been missing REAL talk shows that revolve around topics that everyday people face rather than celebrities. I have "cut the cord" and currently steam live TV on the RUclipsTV app, and this network is not available, so I come to RUclips to binge watch. RUclipsTV please pick up WTTA, so that I can enjoy this in real time.
wow. what an honest show
"structure without any depth" .... I have a young male relative who confided this to me, and it's definitely common and even age-related. It's the time your social life is directed by your wife, and those couples where she is close to the women. But, yet, men have to make an effort out there. The guy who joined the rowing club has the right idea.
What a great topic! How wonderful to hear these awesome men open up and get real. Makes me want to give them all great big giant hugs. We desperately want to respect the men in our lives and when they reveal themselves at a personal level, we can see and understand them along with their vulnerabilities and it makes us LOVE YOU GUYS ALL THE MORE!! We WANT to be connected with you on so many levels. XOXO 💋❤️ This is all we ever want..... besides shoes that is. (Even I don’t understand our addiction to shoes)
Chuck nice.. MUHAHAHAHA!! So on point.. Always love his comic sense.
We have a false belief that we “should” know what the other means if they love us. So wrong, we don’t even know what we think let alone assume someone else does. This one ASSumption realized can fix lots of relationship issues. Let’s just all assume we don’t know what the others meaning or thinking, and ask honest questions to grow deeper.
The fight with lust goes both ways honestly its naive to think otherwise.
I don't tell my boyfriend why I'm mad in that moment because if I do, I will bring old issues that we already discused and the conversation is pointless. It's better if i calm down first and then talk. This way we avoid screaming and we understand what is the issue and what we will do about it.
Elena Vaipan not many people understand this. Can’t control the mouth when the mind is running ramped
@@Smarie39 We can learn how to control our mouth, our emotions and do what is better for ourselfs and for our relationships.
Bringing up the past repeatedly is why i left my ex of 9 years. Eventually, i lost all attraction to him. Food for thought.
Old and alone! I can relate and I'm in this position because my ENTIRE life revolved around my husband and HIS family - I wasn't even on the priority list. Now divorced, I'm completely alone and am stuck in this solitary life. I just don't have the desire to make the effort because I've been so disappointed and let down time and again. Life's too short to live alone but at least I have peace and ZERO drama.
Communicating intelligently with others in all areas and emotional transparency should be something we sit an exam for or we can't leave school. Ever
Wow
Same
Agree, my efforts get drained...tired and done. But happier with no drama.
My one question: Why do men kick at you and use you like a doormat when you listen to their needs and you show them love and care because you genuinely care about making their lives better?
I just don't get it.
NiNi Na Men who are loving and respectful will empower women. I’ve known both types of men. If a man treats a woman like a doormat he is a Narcissist. Look up toxic relationships v’s healthy relationships. When I asked my grandpa the most kind man and who was married to grandma over 50 years - “Papa what does it take to be in a great marriage?” He thought about it and said “RESPECT.” He taught us love how he treated her, his children, and myself and my cousins.
I know what you mean. In my experience such men are a bit sick or not fully healthy or where they need to be emotionally or mentally. If someone offers you something good ( listening, caring etc) it's normal to say thank you and show kindness back. That is normal. So don't spend time puzzling on this for men who act abnormal with this. 🙂
They are broken. It is not you, it is them. My partner loves the fact that I respect his emotional side. It’s not men, it is (no offence) but probably the men you’re coming across who are the problem.
@@mslondonlove1435 exactly! Narcissists are good at hiding there true colours so women do a bit of digging and testing before any commitments or falling. Men carry wounds and will not hesitate to leave there nasty mark on you. Get in there first or get out at the first whiff of something being off.
Blessed And highly favoured Which is why you should truly take your time to get to know people and check for any red flags. It is easier said than done. However, once you see certain behaviours, you should question whether you really want to be in a situation like that. The problem is with most people, is that they stay in situations when they see red flags.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is an amazing book and puts this into perspective. The differences between men and women is phenomenal
And that is why there needs to be an independent nation of only women. Female nationalism!
There is a lot of research on debunking the theories of this book.
I have always played down my success and my earnings just to preserve my husband's ego. I just realized that listening to the show. Not that he's an ego driven person. Its just the way I am taking care of us.
suzanne bernard If you have an issue with that tell him and communicate it.
Young women should be taught to get an older man who is financially stable and not go for a man's looks and how romantic he is.
Great show! I also love that the audience is all male this time. It really helps me, as a woman, to hear what men have to say.
The comedian got it right! Men have nurture their “menships”. The guest said it himself, “if this one friend didn’t call me every three months, we wouldn’t be friends.” The guest admitted he doesn’t put forth the effort to maintain the friendship. My hubby is the same. He said if he had friends then he would feel “obligated “. In other words, he doesn’t want to do the work!!
Karen Swindell unfortunatly... my husband is like this Too
Now bis Best friend suddnly died... I told him.. this is a wake up call...
some people are introverts and really dont feel the need to have friends. I am this way myself and its not because I refuse to do the work to a detriment of myself. But rather I am content being a loner.
J James of you are Single that’s fine...but otherwise it’s claustrophobic for your partner and makes a relationship boring
@@ERNIE555 fortunately we are both that way!
J James lucky you
This is incredible, need more of this kind of talks, eye opening, very inspiring.
Amazing show, Mel is doing great job.
Well, this was refreshing! A talk show caring about men's opinion and inputs on matters. Enjoyed every second of it.
So many men get taken care of by their woman now in 2020 it’s challenging to find a man who wants to take care of his woman.
Man #1; he is right .
He may be feeling inferior to his wife .
I used to make more money than my husband. He felt less then and became more and more controlling . He would take my earnings ( I have my own business). He would control where I buy anything including food . I felt that even though it is our money I should not be controlled and I'm living within our own means .
The common things were looked after by me and little extra I could spend as I please.
He wasn't a good partner so I needed to compensate with material things .
I divorced him .
Can't be controlled and manipulated . I took a male role of the household and my spouse didn't know how to find his place in the house . He should not complain that he is cleaning floor or folding laundry. I worked 12-14 -6 days a week he was working 8 -5days a week .
He wasn't a good father , never went to our son's parent teacher interview in our son's life , ever!
Don't marry a narcissist!
Gratitude , good to hear you are now at peace. Would you mind sharing the nature of your business? I am struggling to survive.TIA.
Yes instead of him channelling his energy to something that benefits your relationship as a whole, he decided to turn on you as if you were the problem.
Ha! I just realized that I feel somewhat unworthy because my dad was depressed for being a stay-home dad. He did many nice things for us kids but there was an emptiness that now I can see. In my case, now I can work those feelings. But, parents please put ❤ and soul in your relationships and towards your children. I guess it can start with what wise people say: "be grateful with what you have" enjoy your present and work towards your goals.
I'm watching this 4 years later....but Mel you're sooooo amazing hitting the subject matter head on and such upbeat way...luv ya sister ❤❤
Best show with the best advices from Mel❤️ Clever and strong!
Loved the all male show. Would like to see more of Chris, and the other three as an ongoing series! Chris has a heart for men so he can reach a lot on y'all's show! I was going to say your show, but it really is both of y'all's show! :) (In Texas y'all is a real word!) :)
I really appreciate Devon's advise about being a champion for your partner. I think that has to be a mutual practice when two people decide to make a life together.
This show just proved what an untapped market there is for men’s programming
Do they watch daytime tv?
So glad to see this show about MEN !my boyfriend died by suicide & he would never open up to me or express his feelings, I never saw him cry or get emotional unless it was anger. I felt like I never knew him & it breaks my heart 💔 . Now I will never know 😢
He was very depressed, trying to get help & he just gave up. He didn’t like going out & had only a couple acquaintances but no REAL friends- I’m sure he didn’t tell them his problems Bc he was intimate with me & couldn’t Even tell me.
just so sad that men are hurting inside & they can’t talk about it
Amazing show! more like this please! We love our men and want them to be happy.
Thank you for hitting the nail on the head. Helping men find themselves. Letting go of the matrix.
Such a good episode, thank you.
the way she high fived everyone at the end, really lifts the spirit of people and the overall ambiance of the room. 😌
I expect you to read my mind. So helpful . Thank you for touching on all the subjects
No friends? My Dad liked to hunt and fish, and he worked in an all male environment, so he had lots of men friends. That was in NW Quebec. Do some volunteer work -- lots of men at Habitat for Humanity, Rotary club, Lions club, Masonic Lodge. You will meet lots of nice people. Find a place to meet together that isn't a bar.
Thank you, Mary. I've given the Freemasons a lot of thought as my grandfather was a Freemason. Definitely on the horizon and agree wholeheartedly :)
This was really great and a first for me to see only men in the audience, really interesting and they were all totally into it!
Thank you so much for airing this! So enlightening and such sad statistics.
Structure without depth! I feel that.
Mel I’m so happy for you, how far you have come!!
I think the man who wants friends should start with his College class alumni and his fraternity brothers. Reach out again and make connections. Maybe many men would have similar interests.
One of the best shows online. Thanks Mel for this show. Thanks to all the experts that you had on there too. The world needs to stop pressing the stereotypes around men AND women and replace them with more realistic frameworks of the spectrum that humanity is found on. It begins at home with me. 🇺🇸🤙🏽
Also in Texas people are super friendly. I know because my dad's family is from there. In LA people are more competitive. Also I am from Oregon where it is easy to meet people and in California, in general, in my experience it is harder because a lot of people are transients. My husband and I would meet couples we liked and then they would always move to another state or country!!!
loved it!
This was great. I’d love to see more.
2 become 1 is the answer and it’s what Jesus told us to do. Love from Australia 🇦🇺💟✝️💟
Oooohh great show!!! 👏
I understand Tommy 100percent
So enjoyed this show
Thank you so very much for this special episode. I have shared it because it is super valuable for everyone.
this lady is a smart woman
Wow, super good!
Great show. I also leaned a lot .. thanks Mel and guests 👍
I just discovered your show today, I've watched 4 shows in a row! Your awesome Mel.
Hello Meta.
Wow! Incredible show. Incredible women ❤️!
Hassan is my cousin on my Dad's side of the family.
Great show, no sugar coating, loved it.
This show deserves global breakthrough
So important thank u for these topics!
Love your show...pertains to all common hearts.
Thanks and regards from Rome, Italy.
Fantastic show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a good one! Good job, Mel!❤
Very good job!!!
Excellent show!
Luv the 1st guy in the lavender sweater. Super brave! 💜
Great Show!
SO GOOD
THAT GUY IS GOOD AT WHAT HE DOESS HAHAHA HE IS FUNNNY!!!!! " THE ONLY TAP YOU WILL HAVE!"
Wow!! You Have DeVon In The
Audience, What A great treat 👍
That Show Is Sooo Good!!!
MeL husband Is A Cutie Pie lol
Mel taking the Kids to the
"doctors Office Is So "Not" Losing!!
You Are The Man!!!
I love this woman...what a great mind!
Lol yes men have lustful thoughts that never stop, its the same for women as well. Just have to find a logical partner and when the trust is broken the relationship is then broken in some way shape or form. From there its a choice of repairing or releasing it. Was definitely nice to have an all male panel and audience, this would and could go along way to helping break toxic issues in general.
Its definitely not the same for most women lol
Wow that was a great show ❤️ 😀
Just found your programs just watching them all ime hooked 😀
Sweet couple, and enlightening info. GREAT show!
Wow, I really enjoyed this show 💜💜👍🏾
The problem is when they think that because they provide, they don't need to do anything else
Hi Maria.
I am the sole breadwinner in the family and work as a healthcare professional in a foreign land. My husband and my 5 kids were solely dependent on me.I missed all those times when my kids were growing up and at school. By the time they graduated college, I have not even set foot and seen their Alma Mater. It was my husband who was with them all those times and this caused me personally a lot of pain as a mother but as human beings, we cannot have and cannot do everything as much as we wanted to and wished for due to our own individual or personal limitations. The financial situation adding the great distance between me and my family was the cause of this division; they are so far from me - they are on the day side on face of the world while I am on the night side of the Earth. Thanks be to God all five of them finished college and all became professionals.
Excellent show👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
LOVE THIS GREAT IMPORTANT POINT TO SHARE IN OUR CARING FOR MEN WONDERFUL SHOW BE BLESSED.