Amazing people! Now I'm really motivated to fly and explore the country and the lovely friendly people. Maybe hopefully be honoured by experiencing the kind of relationship you've found over there. I wish both of you many happy and loving years more! ❤️
@@The-Cat Thank you so much M M I highly recommend coming over and exploring and experiencing everything for yourself. I think it’s a wonderful place but of course it’s not for everyone.
I LVE IN JAPAN AND FOR 4 YEARS I WORKED ATTENDING ELDER JAPANESE PEOPLE, MOST OF MY PARTNERS IN THAT JOB WERE LADIES FROM THE PHILIPPINES , THEY ARE AMAZING, EVEN SOMETIMES THEY ARE DISCRIMINATED, STILL THEY TAKE CARE OF PEOPLE WITH SUCH A BIG KIND HEART AND LOVE, AND ALL OF THEIR MONEY ALMOST IS SENT TO THEIR FAMILIES IN THEIR COUNTRY, IM MEXICAN, WE DO THE SAME, THAT IS WHY I LOVE THEM SOO MUCH. ALL MY RESPECT TO LADYS FROM THAT BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY!!
The modern feminists do not have to like this if they don't want to. Who cares? This is a beautiful, meaningful love story. I was even emotional while watching. I wish this beautiful couple health, joy and happiness. This is a prime example of a true love, relation and marriage as it should be. This beautiful and devoted Pinay has shown, over many years, to the entire world that money is not everything, and LOVE STILL EXISTS. Thank you very much for sharing this happiness with us. Regards from Canada.
I know what you mean things changed here in the western world,ive stayed alone 6 years now. Iam going to the Philippines in hopes to find a blessing like you have. She is wonderful, a real woman.
Nice honest video. I can feel the real sincerity and love from both sides. I'm 62 & my wife is 38. Our age difference is not an impediment. We have 4 kids. I'm not broke, not even close, definitely not poor and not relying on social security. I can pay cash for a really nice home and live comfortably in the USA but prefer to live, and have my children raised in the Philippines. Racism and age discrimination are not a significant thing in the Philippines. Rather family values and respect for elderly are some of the societal norms. Violent crimes are very rare in the Philippines, whereas the USA has some of the violent crime capitals ranking in the top ten of the world. Everyday more and more unvetted people pour into the USA. 90% are looking for an honest and better life but its the 10% I am concerned with that can end or destroy the life of one of my children. Safety of my children is a top concern. But wait, there's more...The Philippines has 7000 islands, most of which have beaches and water with beauty that far surpasses any beaches in the USA. Unless you are talking about high cost southern Florida, i.e. Key West, Hawaii, or some of the territories, i.e. Puerto Rico, Guam, Saipan, etc...The beaches and water in the Philippines are incredibly more beautiful. Most islands also have mountains where people can live in cooler climates, go hiking or canyoneering, do outdoor sports etc... and still be minutes from the beaches. What is not to love about the Philippines ? Ok, electricity rates are high...but now solar systems ... with batteries are reasonably priced so connecting to the grid is optional. Healthcare is not the best in all locations. Ok, this means strive to make better choices when eating, be more active and just live a healthier, less stressful life... The narrow minded people who misperceive that all guys going to the Philippines are broke arse losers or predators are severely mistaken. I'm sure there are some but please don't stereotype. Many of us find deep, meaningful relationships. and yes with younger partners (not those few Filipinas being like vultures on a fence) and for whatever reasons, it works. We non-broke choose to live in paradise over living in the USA. Meet and talk to some of the people who live in the Philippines before stereotyping and please don't just spew hate because of misperceptions.
An uplifting, important presentation on just how nice people can be. So many vlogs are like 'chewing gum for eyes'..... something about nothing. In this and other videos, Shay succeeds in putting out quality rather than quantity . Less is more when it has a real message.
Great story and great relationship. What a mature and delightful wife you have Monty. I’m 63 and my Philippina wife Is 28. We live in Australia which is great for us. We met through Australian Philippino friends and became Facebook friends through Covid. Then after 12 months and a lifting of the travel ban, I went to the Philippines 2 years ago, spent 3 months there, then she moved to Australia with me. It has been the best 3 years of my life.We have enriched each other’s lives immeasurably.
When Shay lands on a topic, you just know it's a topic that runs deep! ♥ Another excellent piece of content freshly produced from 🇵🇭 Shay Travels productions
Cant't help but cry so happy for you Ponty, you found one genuine and precisous person, God bless you and your family. More love and more Goodhealth to both of you.
Nice story and exactly right i myself am leaving the us for philippines when im 61 which is 2 years away the culture and tradition is what I'm looking for no comment about the women here im hopefully going to be meeting someone special to be with for the rest of my life i subscribed today am grateful i did you make me feel so much better thank you so much have a wonderful day see you soon 😊
Aloha Shay, Sorry I'm late for the party.... I had to work today. But I just watched the interview. Great job and very informative.. Thanks for sharing this with us. God bless 🙏🫰
Your best video yet... not just the story (wonderful) but your production level, creative way you edited and helped the story along. As a media designer/filmmaker I know the work it takes to produce such a video. Well done Shay, I look forward to watching your creativity grow and thrive.
Hi, Good Job, I too married My husband and we now will be spending 35 years together. We had one son now going 33. I can relate to you as we have experience similar and much more. Now we are in our retiring age and now we are building our own home in the Philippines. Back in 2019 we sold our property as the money is getting short and my retirement money is not enough if we stay in Australia. We decided to live in the philippines but encountered a few challenges building our house. Until now our house is not finished. My husband is the only one doing the finishing touches . All tiling work is his forte. All the best and I wish you two can stay married like us another 31 years together.
Monte and Arigel, thanking to you 2 for sharing your wonderful story with us. It’s such a privilege to experience you Monte talking about your lovely wife being a true partner I know for certain it’s hard to find in this world we live in. I would not say you’re lucky to meet and have her as your wife, rather, you are blessed to have her. You are so blessed Monty. Be safe and be happy; love from Samoa in the Pacific.
Hi Shay Thank you for doing this video. It is a great video and I enjoy watching the videos you put on here. I find them very informative and helpful. Please don't ever stop doing them . Thanks again.
That’s awesome that you two have met. Even though I’m still in my 50s I can remember those good ole days growing up without all the bad. I may have to move some day.
Yes sir I definitely remember those days totally different than how things are now. Filipinos in general are very loving kind people and their family is number one always
I've seen him interviewed before but this one is different excellent, shay you brought a different angle on it well done ,it's so naturel and enjoyable to see how life is there and sharing of love with each other, I'm impressed, good luck to them both and thanks for bringing this to the world congratulations, excellent work
That was a really great interview Shay. The filming and editing, very profesional. You brought out all that Monty has inside of him. I agree with their thoughts on the average Filipina but I believe Monty's wife Aragel is one in a million
They seem both to be very nice person. I am glad they are happy. I married a Filipina lady, and there isn't a day that I regretted it. I love the traditional person in her.
Regardless of the age gap, the extreme quality of this incredible woman is beyond measure. Very few people I know in America (male or female) would be so incredibly dedicated and loving as she is. My only comparable example would be my grandfather. Because of a clotting disorder my grandma had 26 strokes in her life. After these strokes my grandpa would nurse her back to health, teach her how to walk, talk and do the basics of life again just for it to happen again another year or 2 later. Its a level of dedication that I don't see around my part of the United States anymore. So this story definitely brings tears to my eyes to see that there are still incredible people that are so dedicated to their partners in this world. Thanks much for sharing 👍
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother it seems as though your grandfather was very dedicated and loved her dearly. That generation was totally different in how they dealt with family. I am very blessed and thankful that I was able to find a wonderful woman to share my life with. Filipinas are amazing
I've got my cup of coffee but I should also have grabbed a box of tissues. The ending made me cry. Lets withhold judgement and appreciate their love. Unconditional love. What a beautiful way to sum it up. Thank you for bringing us this story.
You’re very lucky to find her let’s face it there are also bad Filipinas that are scammers.She’s a keeper for a 24 year old she’s very matured.That’s why if you want to be with your family for the longest time then stop smoking.
Great interview Shay. Monty is such a good guy, I’m so happy he has a good woman to share life with. I’m a new subscriber. I may not be an artsy guy, but your videos restore some faith in humanity for me. Thank you.
Great video ❤🤙🏽 I watch this couple and this is true ❤️ love. This young Filipina loves this guy . She is not here for his money. I wish them the best.🙏🏽
I have been thinking recently that such a wonderful relationship may not be possible in our time. So glad to see it is still possible. This video is number one on my list. Thanks for sharing. All the best for you both and your families.
I'm always telling my older clients I clean house for to go get a Philippines wife! Most of them are loyal & hardworking women! Look how happy this guy is🎉
I can relate with what you’re saying about the West. My husband was American from Michigan and lived in America in different States for 16 years, then we moved back here in Philippines I married Russ, he was broke, but we loved each other, 18 years gap. He mentored me, supported me and showed me the world. Russ passed away as we hold hands, we went through so many struggles, but so many victories too we helped each other grow and became stronger and better people over the years. Blessings guys. Stay blessed.
Thank you so much for this beautiful story of true love and the power of love over money and things. It's the struggles that either strengthen us, or beat us. You both were strengthened by them because of your love for each other. You made your own blessings together. Thank you for sharing! :-)
I have seen a couple videos with this couple and by far this is the best one ever of any couple in the Philippines. I pray for you every night Monty and your family. I hope when I get there I find a woman as half as loving and kind as your wife. God bless you 2 and thank you so much Shay for making this video. I know now I have a chance to not be alone forever and a chance to finally know what truly be loved would feel like.
i am a recent widow and stroke survivor. sticking with someone after that is really telling. not sure who to attribute this quote. probably from corinthians. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.
Thank you Shay for this video! Great interview illustrating some lessons in life! What is the purpose in life? Happiness!! Here we have a couple despite their differences have come together in a committed and loving way and have made a life together. Living life hearts full and happy together! Great life!!!🙏🙏🙏
As I wrote on your channel (i.e. Crew Family Philippines), I will always pray for your family. Although I am a Korean, I know a lot about the Philippines. I run a law firm & a couple of companies in Manila and have lots of Filipino friends. I have sledom watched a family happier than yours. Please stay happy & God will SURELY bless you and your lovely wife/daughter all the time. Thanks!
When I was 31 I dated a college girl in the Philippines for one year. She was the most descent human being I ever met. The Filipina women a just down-right good people. If you are struggling with the dating scene in the U.S.A., quit trying to sell ice to an eskimo. Go to the Philippines. There is someone for everyone there, since it is such a diverse country.
Great Video Shay. The presentation of this was high level Documentary style. Have been Following Monty and his family on YT for years Through his own and Paul Old Dogs channel and this was definitely one of the best portraits of his relationship with his Filipina wife and the true love and emotion that exists between them. With all the hate between men and women and East and west on YT on age gap relationships and western men and Asian women getting married. I think that this video is one of the best out there to show how real and genuine an age gap relationship between a Western Man and a Filipina can be and how the old fashioned stereotypes of "The dirty Old Man with the Young Gold Digger Filipina" are totally wrong and have always been more founded on myth and rumour than actual fact. Hope your dreams of becoming a full time journalist come true, you definitely have the talent for it.
Thank you so much FFP for your thoughtful comment! My dreams are to do what I'm doing - filming documentary style videos. I was a full time journalist already, but this is my dream and I'm finally on the journey :-)
Thank you so much for following us and Shay. I am very impressed with the video she did a wonderful job editing and made me look good and not foolish 😂 Thank you for all your kind words and it is true Filipinas are awesome partners and parents their love for their families is unconditional ❤❤❤️
Hi Shay great video. Monty and Aragel are very nice people. I have met them and talked with Monty a few times. In fact they helped me get my apartment before I even go to Dumaguete and I really appreciated what they did for me. Monty has a great lady who loves him very much and I believe she looks after him very well. I know a lot would have a very hard time to stay with someone that has health issues but if you really love someone you will do anything for that person. Keep smiling and stay safe
Thank you very much for your kind words Brian. Your are a great guy and we were happy to help you get your apartment. I’m very happy for you and I think you are enjoying your life here in this beautiful country ❤
Nice interview, Shay..... My filipina wife and I have a 20yr age gap... when I had a stroke, same as Monty, she told me the exact same thing.... no matter what, she would do whatever to support our family and me... Luckily, that was not required... Like Monty, I have been traveling to the Philippines since the 80's. In my opinion, it is a common trait and a true show of love filipina women have for their spouse and family. Very strong women used to dealing with hardships and moving forward...
It sounds like you have a lovely Filipina as well I'm very happy for you guys. I feel the same way about Filipinos they are super nice and very friendly people who love their families dearly
Tierra Alta is a busy place for RUclipsrs, I follow both of you guys channels, great interview. Monty has had a tough time, glad she's so strong for the family ❤
Hi Shay♥I'm also a Sub with The Crew Family and I'm So Proud of Monty because I'm 64 and like him I fell in Love with everything Filipino🥰. I also want too move to the Philippines from America because I feel not only Women but most of the Men are nice, of course I'm sure some are Not, but that's everywhere
@@reflections_with_Shay Hi Shay one of my goals is to go to the Philippines and I hope to have the Honor to meet you? I'm or was a Musician and know or met many Musicians and I always got Excited to talk with them but it's the same feeling I get if I have the chance to meet you🥰I would be like a school boy😁😍
Hey Shay, Crew family is a channel I follow and Monty & is wife a fantastic example of true love. Something that we all would want to have one day. Lovely interview ❤
come on bro, i am a white American man 61 years old, trust me now there maybe a few bad ones there, but there are more good ones then bad here ok, so do not waste time ok, get it while it is hot is what i always say ok :0
I'm 45 years old mexican in good shape, living in tx and i like to observe, not shy, Latino womans are getting very complex in 80% of cases and getting masculine, some times i feel like talking to a Men.
@@reflections_with_Shay No, I'm back in Melbourne Australia now. I'd like to come back to Dumaguete at some stage but I'm not sure when as I've just accepted a position of Director of Tennis Coaching at 2 venues here in Melbourne, so I'll have to wait a while. I'll keep following you guys though. 😉
I am a brand new sub and love the content from Life with Shay. I saw her on another video about "Western men are coming for Filipinas". Pretty good channel.
Thank you Shay for this video!!! My greatest regret in life was I never became a father. I always had a father's heart and this gives me hope that this will become a reality.
@@reflections_with_Shay Hi Shay, I totally agree with you, especially after watching some of your videos today. My mother was a single mother and much of what you mentioned touched me. I would have no problem of marrying a single mother and becoming the father figure for her children. That would my dream true of not only finding my wife but also a family.
A verg beautiful story Shay. Such a lovely couple, you can sense their true love for each other, as the saying is said, for better or worse. Montys wife has maturity beyond her years, an exceptional lady that many man look for in a relationship. I love they way Monty expressed that romance should be the forefront of a successful loving relationship, staying romantic in love, through the little gestures is enough. What a very touching story between two people very much in love. Thank you Shay for bringing the video to us. ❤😉
This video has given me renewed hope of one day finding love, i was beginning to get a little despondent. Ironically my Western wife left me after i had nursed her back to health from a stroke for five years.
I was single for 12 years after my ex wife ran off with a guy worth 22 million ( I'm sure he is worth a lot less now 😂) I am proof that you can start over and have a wonderful relationship. I hope that you're able to find that special person for you. Don't give up hope
Hi Shay, I want to thank you very much for the interview. You did a fantastic amazing job on editing and presentation ❤ Monty
Thank you Monty. Your story have touched many hearts.
Amazing people! Now I'm really motivated to fly and explore the country and the lovely friendly people. Maybe hopefully be honoured by experiencing the kind of relationship you've found over there.
I wish both of you many happy and loving years more! ❤️
@@The-Cat Thank you so much M M I highly recommend coming over and exploring and experiencing everything for yourself. I think it’s a wonderful place but of course it’s not for everyone.
Monty, you are truly blessed!!
@@richardhy6931 thank you Richard I truly am 😊
I LVE IN JAPAN AND FOR 4 YEARS I WORKED ATTENDING ELDER JAPANESE PEOPLE, MOST OF MY PARTNERS IN THAT JOB WERE LADIES FROM THE PHILIPPINES , THEY ARE AMAZING, EVEN SOMETIMES THEY ARE DISCRIMINATED, STILL THEY TAKE CARE OF PEOPLE WITH SUCH A BIG KIND HEART AND LOVE, AND ALL OF THEIR MONEY ALMOST IS SENT TO THEIR FAMILIES IN THEIR COUNTRY, IM MEXICAN, WE DO THE SAME, THAT IS WHY I LOVE THEM SOO MUCH. ALL MY RESPECT TO LADYS FROM THAT BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY!!
A fairytale relationship that every man wishes they had. You’re a very lucky man Monty, never stop appreciating what you have🙏🏼🥂
Thank you Gil! I agree, very special relationship. I think they are both lucky to have found each other.
Thank you Gil, believe me I do appreciate Aragel, she's a wonderful lady 😊
The modern feminists do not have to like this if they don't want to. Who cares? This is a beautiful, meaningful love story. I was even emotional while watching. I wish this beautiful couple health, joy and happiness. This is a prime example of a true love, relation and marriage as it should be. This beautiful and devoted Pinay has shown, over many years, to the entire world that money is not everything, and LOVE STILL EXISTS. Thank you very much for sharing this happiness with us. Regards from Canada.
Every person has a story, and this man's story is the best moving story of all.
So true very touching story
Thank you Kevin!
Yes, it is very moving Gary!
I know what you mean things changed here in the western world,ive stayed alone 6 years now. Iam going to the Philippines in hopes to find a blessing like you have. She is wonderful, a real woman.
Nice honest video. I can feel the real sincerity and love from both sides. I'm 62 & my wife is 38. Our age difference is not an impediment. We have 4 kids. I'm not broke, not even close, definitely not poor and not relying on social security. I can pay cash for a really nice home and live comfortably in the USA but prefer to live, and have my children raised in the Philippines. Racism and age discrimination are not a significant thing in the Philippines. Rather family values and respect for elderly are some of the societal norms. Violent crimes are very rare in the Philippines, whereas the USA has some of the violent crime capitals ranking in the top ten of the world. Everyday more and more unvetted people pour into the USA. 90% are looking for an honest and better life but its the 10% I am concerned with that can end or destroy the life of one of my children. Safety of my children is a top concern. But wait, there's more...The Philippines has 7000 islands, most of which have beaches and water with beauty that far surpasses any beaches in the USA. Unless you are talking about high cost southern Florida, i.e. Key West, Hawaii, or some of the territories, i.e. Puerto Rico, Guam, Saipan, etc...The beaches and water in the Philippines are incredibly more beautiful. Most islands also have mountains where people can live in cooler climates, go hiking or canyoneering, do outdoor sports etc... and still be minutes from the beaches. What is not to love about the Philippines ? Ok, electricity rates are high...but now solar systems ... with batteries are reasonably priced so connecting to the grid is optional. Healthcare is not the best in all locations. Ok, this means strive to make better choices when eating, be more active and just live a healthier, less stressful life... The narrow minded people who misperceive that all guys going to the Philippines are broke arse losers or predators are severely mistaken. I'm sure there are some but please don't stereotype. Many of us find deep, meaningful relationships. and yes with younger partners (not those few Filipinas being like vultures on a fence) and for whatever reasons, it works. We non-broke choose to live in paradise over living in the USA. Meet and talk to some of the people who live in the Philippines before stereotyping and please don't just spew hate because of misperceptions.
Thank you Ted!
An uplifting, important presentation on just how nice people can be.
So many vlogs are like 'chewing gum for eyes'.....
something about nothing.
In this and other videos, Shay succeeds in putting out quality rather than quantity .
Less is more when it has a real message.
I agree Laurence she does a great job on her videos 😊
This is one of the best comments I got today. Thank you so much, Laurence.
Ms Shay great video it's good to see two people in love like them
Yes, it is Ervin.
Great story and great relationship.
What a mature and delightful wife you have Monty.
I’m 63 and my Philippina wife Is 28. We live in Australia which is great for us.
We met through Australian Philippino friends and became Facebook friends through Covid. Then after 12 months and a lifting of the travel ban, I went to the Philippines 2 years ago, spent 3 months there, then she moved to Australia with me.
It has been the best 3 years of my life.We have enriched each other’s lives immeasurably.
Wonderful couple! Easy to see it is real love. Dont listen to any negatives. No one has the right to tell anyone who to love.
WoW! Monty you are a blessed man to found such a wonderful wife! I will be coming soon for a visit myself to see in person what you are talking about.
Thank you Michael for your comment! Yes, come see for yourself.
Thank you so much Michael. I pray that you find a wonderful lady 😊
Man Mr. Crew rob the bank.... she is a true keeper...Many blessing to the Crew Family...
Thank you!
Thank you very much and you are correct I found a wonderful lady
When Shay lands on a topic, you just know it's a topic that runs deep!
♥ Another excellent piece of content freshly produced from 🇵🇭 Shay Travels productions
Thank you MM for all your encouragement!
I'm in Bohol married to a beautiful filipina. Hats of to you Monty! Your wife is absolutely adorable.
USA
Love will always hold you together because God is love.
Excellent job Shay! This is a true love story written by God for you to share and bring glory to him. Can’t wait for more so I can cry with Monte
I experience heartfelt surprise and emotion of her care for him. I appreciate your work and edit.
Thank you so much Bob! Coming from you, that's so encouraging.
It is so nice to see two people from vastly different backgrounds and in this case ages, who are so totally dedicated to each other. Congratulations 😊
Cant't help but cry so happy for you Ponty, you found one genuine and precisous person, God bless you and your family. More love and more Goodhealth to both of you.
Nice story and exactly right i myself am leaving the us for philippines when im 61 which is 2 years away the culture and tradition is what I'm looking for no comment about the women here im hopefully going to be meeting someone special to be with for the rest of my life i subscribed today am grateful i did you make me feel so much better thank you so much have a wonderful day see you soon 😊
She is a very, very beautifully hearted woman. So sweet 😊😊
She is Kevin!
Sure looks like true love to me. Thank you all so much for sharing the story. Made me cry to. 💘💘💘
It is love Joe! Very special.
Aloha Shay, Sorry I'm late for the party.... I had to work today. But I just watched the interview. Great job and very informative.. Thanks for sharing this with us. God bless 🙏🫰
Thank you 😊
I hope you had a great day at work, LIP. And as usual, thanks so much for being a fan.
Your best video yet... not just the story (wonderful) but your production level, creative way you edited and helped the story along. As a media designer/filmmaker I know the work it takes to produce such a video. Well done Shay, I look forward to watching your creativity grow and thrive.
Thank you so much J David! I appreciate your kind words of encouragement!
Incredibly well done, Shay. Such professional work. Bravo!
Thank you Brian!
Monty is truly blessed by God. Thank you, this shows there are still genuine and loving Filipina left, God Bless this family 🙏😊💞
Amazing video thank you !
Hi, Good Job, I too married My husband and we now will be spending 35 years together. We had one son now going 33. I can relate to you as we have experience similar and much more. Now we are in our retiring age and now we are building our own home in the Philippines. Back in 2019 we sold our property as the money is getting short and my retirement money is not enough if we stay in Australia. We decided to live in the philippines but encountered a few challenges building our house. Until now our house is not finished. My husband is the only one doing the finishing touches . All tiling work is his forte. All the best and I wish you two can stay married like us another 31 years together.
Monte and Arigel, thanking to you 2 for sharing your wonderful story with us.
It’s such a privilege to experience you Monte talking about your lovely wife being a true partner I know for certain it’s hard to find in this world we live in.
I would not say you’re lucky to meet and have her as your wife, rather, you are blessed to have her.
You are so blessed Monty.
Be safe and be happy; love from Samoa in the Pacific.
Hi Shay
Thank you for doing this video. It is a great video and I enjoy watching the videos you put on here. I find them very informative and helpful. Please don't ever stop doing them . Thanks again.
I promise Steven!
and is not about jealousy it's reality..I have never seen the same philipina women born in United States dating old men
I'm 62 and my filapina wife is 23 we have been married 4 years and have a 3 year old daughter and we live in the mindinao provice
Congratulations on 4 years Steven! If you are happy, that's all that matters. :-)
I'm glad you found yourself a nice woman and you have a lovely child I wish you all the best
Wow Shay. A very good video of Monty and Aragal I think the best I have seen so far. I love the way you edited it and presented it.
What an amazing couple. There are actually women like this….wonderful. Man is blessed with this lovely woman.
That’s awesome that you two have met. Even though I’m still in my 50s I can remember those good ole days growing up without all the bad. I may have to move some day.
Thank you Rod! :-)
Yes sir I definitely remember those days totally different than how things are now. Filipinos in general are very loving kind people and their family is number one always
Wooooooww!!!, what a beautiful hearted woman. Wooooooww!!!
God bless her abundantly.
She truly has a heart of gold.
He's a good man too
I have to agree with you Kevin she is a wonderful woman
She seems to be above average,even by Filipino standards. She is a rare gem.
I've seen him interviewed before but this one is different excellent, shay you brought a different angle on it well done ,it's so naturel and enjoyable to see how life is there and sharing of love with each other, I'm impressed, good luck to them both and thanks for bringing this to the world congratulations, excellent work
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement Jenny!
Great video, a real love story, a true inspiration for all of us men. Thank you Shay for all do.
Thank you very much for watching and your kind words Ed😊
Thank you also for supporting this channel by watching this video.. Ed. Have a great day ahead.
Shay, you make great videos, you are very articulate, and have a fantastic sound when you are speaking. I absolutely love watching your work...
@@eddie.5489 Thank you so much Ed.
Well this woman definitely passed the test for substance
Yes, she did. :-)
That was a really great interview Shay. The filming and editing, very profesional. You brought out all that Monty has inside of him. I agree with their thoughts on the average Filipina but I believe Monty's wife Aragel is one in a million
Thank you Alan for your kind words! She is special :-)
Good. I'm glad modern feminist's won't like this excellent video.
Not that they would ever watch it, of course.
Another great video Shay, I can’t say enough about the editing, awesome job.
A big thanks, Tony!
I agree Tony she did a wonderful job
Both of them are lucky to have each other.
They seem both to be very nice person. I am glad they are happy. I married a Filipina lady, and there isn't a day that I regretted it. I love the traditional person in her.
Thank you for that Stephane! So well put.
I see total love in this relationship and I for one hope to find the same. Congrats to both of you!!!!
Thank you U.S. Patriot.
Regardless of the age gap, the extreme quality of this incredible woman is beyond measure. Very few people I know in America (male or female) would be so incredibly dedicated and loving as she is. My only comparable example would be my grandfather. Because of a clotting disorder my grandma had 26 strokes in her life. After these strokes my grandpa would nurse her back to health, teach her how to walk, talk and do the basics of life again just for it to happen again another year or 2 later. Its a level of dedication that I don't see around my part of the United States anymore. So this story definitely brings tears to my eyes to see that there are still incredible people that are so dedicated to their partners in this world. Thanks much for sharing 👍
Yes she is F4S! A wonderful Filipina trait!
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother it seems as though your grandfather was very dedicated and loved her dearly. That generation was totally different in how they dealt with family. I am very blessed and thankful that I was able to find a wonderful woman to share my life with. Filipinas are amazing
I've got my cup of coffee but I should also have grabbed a box of tissues. The ending made me cry. Lets withhold judgement and appreciate their love. Unconditional love. What a beautiful way to sum it up. Thank you for bringing us this story.
Thank you Chris for your always kind words and support!
You’re very lucky to find her let’s face it there are also bad Filipinas that are scammers.She’s a keeper for a 24 year old she’s very matured.That’s why if you want to be with your family for the longest time then stop smoking.
Great interview Shay. Monty is such a good guy, I’m so happy he has a good woman to share life with. I’m a new subscriber. I may not be an artsy guy, but your videos restore some faith in humanity for me. Thank you.
I appreciate that. Welcome to Shay Travels S Chi.
So nice of you to showcase the Crews for this topic & so very well done...
It's like watching a beautiful 🌟 rising!
Thank you so much Lane!
Great interview. Funny seeing Mike, Janet and Jessel there also.
We were actually out together and had lunch.
Great video ❤🤙🏽 I watch this couple and this is true ❤️ love. This young Filipina loves this guy . She is not here for his money. I wish them the best.🙏🏽
Thank you for your kind words Darren!
Thank you for your kind words Darren 😊
Who can find a virtuous woman, for her price is far above rubies. Aragel is a gem and Monte knows how fortunate he is.
Yes I do know how fortunate that I am to have such a wonderful wife and daughter 😊
I have been thinking recently that such a wonderful relationship may not be possible in our time. So glad to see it is still possible. This video is number one on my list. Thanks for sharing. All the best for you both and your families.
Thank you so much DaWei! Yes, it is possible :-)
Thank you so much Shay did a wonderful job interviewing us I believe that's why it turned out so nicely. ❤
A very heartwarming video, Shay. You have a knack for doing great video presentations. Keep up the good work. ❤
Thank you so much Robert!
I'm always telling my older clients I clean house for to go get a Philippines wife! Most of them are loyal & hardworking women! Look how happy this guy is🎉
I've vacationed in the Philippines. The women are beautiful . Almost intimidating.
A lot of things change here in America when the government took away the responsibility from the parents to discipline our children.
Maintain your good relationships as husband & wife & always put God in between for a successful life. Kudos to both of you❣️
I can relate with what you’re saying about the West. My husband was American from Michigan and lived in America in different States for 16 years, then we moved back here in Philippines I married Russ, he was broke, but we loved each other, 18 years gap. He mentored me, supported me and showed me the world. Russ passed away as we hold hands, we went through so many struggles, but so many victories too we helped each other grow and became stronger and better people over the years. Blessings guys. Stay blessed.
Thank you so much for this beautiful story of true love and the power of love over money and things. It's the struggles that either strengthen us, or beat us. You both were strengthened by them because of your love for each other. You made your own blessings together. Thank you for sharing! :-)
Shay, thank you for this heartwarming and touching video. It's a perfect example of how true love conquers all!
I have seen a couple videos with this couple and by far this is the best one ever of any couple in the Philippines. I pray for you every night Monty and your family. I hope when I get there I find a woman as half as loving and kind as your wife. God bless you 2 and thank you so much Shay for making this video. I know now I have a chance to not be alone forever and a chance to finally know what truly be loved would feel like.
Ditto David. I plan to move to the Philippines this year from Southwest Florida..
You will David, because you are also kind. Many Filipinas here waiting for a good kind man.
i am a recent widow and stroke survivor. sticking with someone after that is really telling. not sure who to attribute this quote. probably from corinthians. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.
I'm so sorry to hear about your wife! Beautiful words!
As usuaal Shay,
Awsome material.
Your interview with the couple brought tears tomy eyes.
Thank you
Cliff
Thank you Cliff!
Thank you Shay for this video! Great interview illustrating some lessons in life! What is the purpose in life? Happiness!! Here we have a couple despite their differences have come together in a committed and loving way and have made a life together. Living life hearts full and happy together! Great life!!!🙏🙏🙏
So well said Ed! I agree, even with difficulties, they have love between them that's obvious.
As I wrote on your channel (i.e. Crew Family Philippines), I will always pray for your family.
Although I am a Korean, I know a lot about the Philippines.
I run a law firm & a couple of companies in Manila and have lots of Filipino friends.
I have sledom watched a family happier than yours.
Please stay happy & God will SURELY bless you and your lovely wife/daughter all the time.
Thanks!
Awesome couple. Monte is an awesome man and his wife Arigel is so sweet and loving. I think their marriage will last until death fo they part.
Great video Shay. Please Thank Both folks. And Thank You Dear Lady.
I will Jerry!
When I was 31 I dated a college girl in the Philippines for one year. She was the most descent human being I ever met. The Filipina women a just down-right good people. If you are struggling with the dating scene in the U.S.A., quit trying to sell ice to an eskimo. Go to the Philippines. There is someone for everyone there, since it is such a diverse country.
Great Video Shay. The presentation of this was high level Documentary style. Have been Following Monty and his family on YT for years Through his own and Paul Old Dogs channel and this was definitely one of the best portraits of his relationship with his Filipina wife and the true love and emotion that exists between them. With all the hate between men and women and East and west on YT on age gap relationships and western men and Asian women getting married.
I think that this video is one of the best out there to show how real and genuine an age gap relationship between a Western Man and a Filipina can be and how the old fashioned stereotypes of "The dirty Old Man with the Young Gold Digger Filipina" are totally wrong and have always been more founded on myth and rumour than actual fact.
Hope your dreams of becoming a full time journalist come true, you definitely have the talent for it.
Thank you so much FFP for your thoughtful comment! My dreams are to do what I'm doing - filming documentary style videos. I was a full time journalist already, but this is my dream and I'm finally on the journey :-)
Thank you so much for following us and Shay. I am very impressed with the video she did a wonderful job editing and made me look good and not foolish 😂 Thank you for all your kind words and it is true Filipinas are awesome partners and parents their love for their families is unconditional ❤❤❤️
Tell him not to feel bad about crying, I cried also listening to them
I will Dennis! :-)
Lump in my throat. Pray I will be as blessed as you Monty, soon!
Excellent interview and story from a great couple who understands what love means in a relationship.
Yes they do Napoleon.
Thank you very much Napoleon 😊
That was the best video it brought tears to my eyes. God bless you for making this amazing story of love
Thank you so much for joining and watching my videos, Larry! Yes, they are great people and their both lucky and blessed to have each other.
Hi Shay great video. Monty and Aragel are very nice people. I have met them and talked with Monty a few times. In fact they helped me get my apartment before I even go to Dumaguete and I really appreciated what they did for me. Monty has a great lady who loves him very much and I believe she looks after him very well. I know a lot would have a very hard time to stay with someone that has health issues but if you really love someone you will do anything for that person. Keep smiling and stay safe
Thank you Brian! I agree with all you wrote. I love to smile, and you stay safe too.
@@reflections_with_Shay Always do
Thank you very much for your kind words Brian. Your are a great guy and we were happy to help you get your apartment. I’m very happy for you and I think you are enjoying your life here in this beautiful country ❤
A heartwarming story told with the eloquence and grace that only Filipina Shay Travels could tell it.
Thank you for your kind words Randy!
I agree Randy she did a wonderful job on this video
Nice interview, Shay..... My filipina wife and I have a 20yr age gap... when I had a stroke, same as Monty, she told me the exact same thing.... no matter what, she would do whatever to support our family and me... Luckily, that was not required... Like Monty, I have been traveling to the Philippines since the 80's. In my opinion, it is a common trait and a true show of love filipina women have for their spouse and family. Very strong women used to dealing with hardships and moving forward...
Thank you so much Mark! I agree, it is a Filipina trait.
It sounds like you have a lovely Filipina as well I'm very happy for you guys. I feel the same way about Filipinos they are super nice and very friendly people who love their families dearly
Great insight Shay loved the information. 😊
Thank you Donald!
Thank you very much Donald 😊
What a moving story, thanks for sharing to all involved.
Thank you Babbling Along.
Thank you so very much for watching
Nice video Shay. I'll be there in a couple of weeks. Really looking forward to it. I hope Monty and his wife have a long and happy marriage. 😊
Thank you Robin! Enjoy your time here!
Great Job Shay
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Tierra Alta is a busy place for RUclipsrs, I follow both of you guys channels, great interview. Monty has had a tough time, glad she's so strong for the family ❤
Thank you Roadglide!
Hi Shay♥I'm also a Sub with The Crew Family and I'm So Proud of Monty because I'm 64 and like him I fell in Love with everything Filipino🥰. I also want too move to the Philippines from America because I feel not only Women but most of the Men are nice, of course I'm sure some are Not, but that's everywhere
Yes, Timothy, I agree. If you stay positive, you will find positive people.
@@reflections_with_Shay Hi Shay one of my goals is to go to the Philippines and I hope to have the Honor to meet you? I'm or was a Musician and know or met many Musicians and I always got Excited to talk with them but it's the same feeling I get if I have the chance to meet you🥰I would be like a school boy😁😍
Thank you very much for following both Shay and us. I hope that you’re able to come and enjoy everything Philippines 😊
Nice video, gives me hope!
Thank you Daryl! :-)
Yes believe me about 15 years ago I would have never believed I'd be in the place where I'm at now with a wonderful lady I'm with now
Hey Shay, Crew family is a channel I follow and Monty & is wife a fantastic example of true love. Something that we all would want to have one day. Lovely interview ❤
Very heartwarming video Shay.
Thank you so much David!
I'm a mexican in usa and majority of latinas, lost that long time ago 😥. But there's a hope. Im going to Philippines yeah
Thank you os gam!
Latinas in the US are all about wanting bad Bunny types and chico malos. They're damaged goods now bro. Latin dude here so I can attest to this
come on bro, i am a white American man 61 years old, trust me now there maybe a few bad ones there, but there are more good ones then bad here ok, so do not waste time ok, get it while it is hot is what i always say ok :0
All I'm going to say is my ex-wife is from Honduras
I'm 45 years old mexican in good shape, living in tx and i like to observe, not shy, Latino womans are getting very complex in 80% of cases and getting masculine, some times i feel like talking to a Men.
Very Nice Interview Miss.Shay
Thank you Bobby, as always!
Very entertaining...very insightful...great job Shay! God bless them both!
Thank you Ed!
Thank you very much Ed 😊
Great video Shay, keep up your good work.
Thank you, Brenden. How are you?
@@reflections_with_Shay I'm good thanks Shay. Glad to see you and Ann are both doing well.
Are you still here?
@@reflections_with_Shay No, I'm back in Melbourne Australia now. I'd like to come back to Dumaguete at some stage but I'm not sure when as I've just accepted a position of Director of Tennis Coaching at 2 venues here in Melbourne, so I'll have to wait a while. I'll keep following you guys though. 😉
Thank you so much she does a wonderful job
Wow, God Bless and Protect that Family , and You Shay 🫵🏼💎🪽
I am a brand new sub and love the content from Life with Shay. I saw her on another video about "Western men are coming for Filipinas". Pretty good channel.
Welcome to our channel Itree. Our content is different, but I hope you'll like the work we have here.
Great video,very professional...The difference with filipinas is christianity....it forms their culture unlike secularism/materalism.
Thank you for your comment dandonohill!
Thank you Shay for this video!!! My greatest regret in life was I never became a father. I always had a father's heart and this gives me hope that this will become a reality.
There are many ways to become a father figure if you really wish it. You will be a good father because you want to. :-)
@@reflections_with_Shay Hi Shay, I totally agree with you, especially after watching some of your videos today. My mother was a single mother and much of what you mentioned touched me. I would have no problem of marrying a single mother and becoming the father figure for her children. That would my dream true of not only finding my wife but also a family.
Wonderful interview. God bless the Crew family.
Thank you Charles.
Thank you Charles I agree Shay did a fantastic job interviewing us and asking great questions. God bless you Sir
A verg beautiful story Shay.
Such a lovely couple, you can sense their true love for each other, as the saying is said, for better or worse.
Montys wife has maturity beyond her years, an exceptional lady that many man look for in a relationship.
I love they way Monty expressed that romance should be the forefront of a successful loving relationship, staying romantic in love, through the little gestures is enough.
What a very touching story between two people very much in love.
Thank you Shay for bringing the video to us.
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You are very welcome Glenn, and thank you for your encouraging support.
Thank you very much for your kind words Glenn. Shay does a wonderful job on her videos and a very nice person 😊
I always enjoy your videos, thanks Shay 🙏
Thank you Grady!
Luv it! This is all about the Filipina
Wonderful couple.
Thanks for your insights and, Shay, thanks for doing the interview…❣️
Our pleasure, David! Be safe!
Thanks for the nice video
I appreciate the realism and heart felt truth behind it Lord bless you both
I’m 62 in US and coming there to retire soon
This video has given me renewed hope of one day finding love, i was beginning to get a little despondent. Ironically my Western wife left me after i had nursed her back to health from a stroke for five years.
I was single for 12 years after my ex wife ran off with a guy worth 22 million ( I'm sure he is worth a lot less now 😂) I am proof that you can start over and have a wonderful relationship. I hope that you're able to find that special person for you. Don't give up hope