My stalker is making my life a misery; he got me evicted, made me lose my job, any social life, a...
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
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I caught my wife with her co worker while she said she was doing therapy. (Popular_Problem4565 in r/offmychest)
16:46 2nd story:
Anyone had success with private investigators? (u/ItsMissesStealYoCat in r/self)
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"We can't do anything because he hasn't done anything" This is one of the many reasons people have lost faith in Law Enforcement. The guy has done so many things, and threatened to kill the OP. Either get off your ass and do what is printed on your car, or quit.
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That's because a lot of the time,, there are no laws on staking, or they are so vague that police don't know what they can do. Even when you have cops who want to help, without the laws on how to deal with stalkers, they can't do anything.
@@RoseWolf_Of_The_BDH Life of civilian is threatened, there is proof. They can figure something out. They are supposed to be functioning adults that want to protect people. Hell, just find the Cop that wants to kill people at that point. The system is already fucked up, so he'll likely get pardoned.
@@Olimar92 i know, but unless they have actual proof that it's a threat, then it's just words. I know that is stupid, but that is how the laws work. This is stuff we have gone over in Criminology classes.
Wonder what happened to the detective that seemed so certain it was just a misunderstanding. I'd like to think he was fired but was probably 'retrained' and promoted.
It's "To protect (corporate interests) And Serve (the powers that be)." Regardless of how idealistic the officer was when they joined. The supreme court has declared years ago that they are NOT obliged to protect. Think about where all the non-tax money they get comes from, police balls with the rich, farming for traffic violations or civil forfeiture. Either they're palling around with the rich with the implied favors that come with it or they are exploiting the very people they are supposed to be serving.
The police failed this woman
Yes. I would also argue that police have failed society at large.
The police aren’t the end of law, they nearly hold him, what can a judge charge him with, what evidence can a prosecutor gather
The police aren’t the end of law, they nearly hold him, what can a judge charge him with, what evidence can a prosecutor gather
@Storymaker1316 The police should have taken her seriously. She gathered evidence of the guy threatening to k*ll her and they did nothing. That warrants something.
@@Storymaker1316Except he was harassing her, threatened her etc
They said he did nothing wrong but everything he did was wrong, so they failed her, they could have arrested him for the threats alone but couldn’t be bothered to fill out paperwork.
It sounds like OP kept getting number two, with a smile, from law enforcement: "You're a pretty girl, he just likes you", followed with a little dose of number five, "Stop being so pretty and maybe he'll leave you alone".
This is the main reason the 2nd amendment is so important, when the government fails to protect you, then it’s up to you to protect yourself.
The 2nd story made me think of another stalker story where one man terrorised a family for months. Creepy driveby's, threatening phone calls, peeping through the windows and bolting before could be caught and even killed the family dog.
Countless times they had called the police about him and they did nothing. It got so bad that one night where OP went to get some water, they found their dad sitting at the kitchen table with a gun in hand as he was tired of the police waiting until he 'tried something' and he was tired of his family living in constant fear.
Dad was tired. Yep. One of the most dangerous people is the one who doesn't care what the cost is. This is also the one who can "taste it."
From story 2, it's no wonder people are losing faith in law enforcement. In stalker cases like this, it really angers me that law enforcement won't do anything about it unless the stalker does any physical harm to their victim, or worse kill them. Like really dude!? It will take someone possibly losing their life at the hands of a stalker for ya'll to do something!?
Not won't. Cant.
People are really blaming police 100% on this , why ? they can’t arrest people for breaking the law if there is no law in place based on actions . We all know criminals screaming….i know my rights you can’t arrest me ,and the lawsuits that ensue. They can only arrest,they can’t set bail ,prosecute ,nothing . They have to follow the law ,she did what all of us should do knowing this , protect ourselves. She bought a gun legally and used it , cops came and arrested him, the courts and prosecutors finally did their job. We the people need to get together and make sure laws are in place to protect us ,not the criminals.
And that ladies and gentlemen, is the reason why it is so important to learn to handle a gun and practice. Op tried to get help from the Police and he did nothing until it was almost too late.
If OP called the police instead of training with a firearm, it would take them at least 5mins. In 5mins stalker would have done the unimaginable.
If you are scared of a person like this stalker, go and get train to protect yourself asap! People at the gun shops/range are more than happy to help you find a firearm that fits your needs and help you train, some even host classes for you to join.
If there are women out there too nervous to join a class like that, ask if there are women's only classes! It's all women, including the instructor! I been to a dozen ranges and every one has a women class at least 2 times a month. They will happy teach you the basics of firearms, including the 5 rules of handling, shooting practice, and learning how to properly holster your weapons when in public (especially conceal carry if it's legal in your state).
Remember, it takes an average of 5mins for police to show up vs 1200 ft per second of a 9mm
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Story 2 checks out, went to search up the name Eugene Jackson Las Vegas and found it to be true
You can never know which stories are real or fiction.
Except when they appear on the news. Then no one can call it fake.
@@mill2712 yeah. Usually I read these kinds of stories out of interest and boredom, even if its fake or real I would pass the time to listen in
It just seemed odd to me that him sending her a picture of the notice and confirming he knew what it was about, wouldn't be proof enough that he had in fact been served /made aware of the RO
@@sofienielsen4608you’re talking about police incompetence lmao
This is a first! A reddit story with evidence!!
I did hear a reddit story about an HOA trying to make someone remove their WW2 tank from their property and found a news story about it
Yeah. Multiple news stories... like real news, not social media. 😮 Whew. WoW.
Proud of OP 🤠
It's important to properly handle guns. OP in story 2 sounds like a responsible gun owner. She was right, it's not the wild west, if you use a gun, you mean to cause harm. Having guns avaliable without this proper common sense and licensing is why people are calling for gun reform because people keep wanting guns to be easier to get.
I know it's a weird thing to use as a philosophy, but I follow what Shanks from One Piece says, "Guns are for action, not threats, and now that you've drawn your weapon, are you going to use it?"
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Because the constitution clearly says the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed. The founding fathers thought that was so obvious they weren't even going to add that amendment until someone decided to put a stop to exactly what you're doing right now
@@lithuaniaballyou’re correct but I’d like to expand on that point a little. The federalists feared that by listing out certain rights it would lead to people concluding that no other rights existed as they weren’t listed. They believed the rights the antifederalists wanted to add to the constitution were so blatantly obvious that specifically mentioning them would do more harm than good. We now know this to be untrue and in the words of Thomas Jefferson:
“If men were angels, no government would be necessary. If angels were to govern men, neither external nor internal controls on government would be necessary.”
Needless to say, the people in power are far from angels.
The right to bear arms was inserted not only for personal protection but to protect the citizens from the goverment. They had the very recent bad memories of the Brittish confiscating arms to control the population and wven locking civilians, men women and children inside churches and torching them under the suspicion that some might be rebel sympathizers.
If LV stands for Las Vegas it’s open carry I filed a police report for a guy who didn’t handle rejection well he went psycho saying similar threats. Even if the police don’t take you seriously still get a report stating you fear for your life due to threats made by this person because when you have to use your second amendment especially if he just pops up at your house or job you want no doubt it’s self defense and after you exercised your right call the police then call your lawyer and shut up 🤐. I can say this from experience because the cops will twist every event like that’s not how that happened. Once of my favorite gems was why did you shoot he didn’t have a weapon he’s smaller than you? Me 6’2 220 him 5’10 180 just wow had to sit silent for that and let my lawyer share the test where he said he would hang r@p# and skin me plus the revenge porn he sent of other women. Idk 🤷🏽♀️ they thought I should just fight like I’m in the ufc.
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Not addressing this commenter, specifically, but generally…
If your state is “open carry”, there are plenty of places which will post NO GUNS signs, demand that you leave, or (this one is REALLY fun) some Karen will call 911 and claim that you are waving your gun around threatening to shoot people. So don’t tell me some locale is “open carry”, OK?
(Just try going into a casino with a gun openly; let us know how that turns out.
The philosophy of being “anti-gun” disappears real quick when you realize
You face a real threat to your life or family.
Pretty hypocritical on the cops part considering that in most cases they will think of using their guns first not their fists.
That absolute insanity they just adviced you to wrestle with a dude. I'm your size and would never fight with another dude at 5'10" wtf, size doesnt mean you'll win a fight with a crazy person. Keep safe, that's fucked up dude.
"Stay strapped or get clapped."
~George Washington
Apparently there's a decent number of law enforcement who are abusers or toxic partners themselves, so it makes sense why they wouldn't do anything in cases like this. It's unfair and what makes it worse is that people will keep telling victims to "just go to the police" 🤦🏽♂️
At this point we might as well pass a law just letting victims handle stalkers how they see fit, be it physical assault or worse.
Unfortunately its true. You can typically spot the nontoxic ones very easily out of them.
“I realised it was him or me and I chose me”. Such a badass quote!
The police department in the 2nd story sounds so dumb. No logic at all. 😂😅
Why do every male Redditor always travel a lot for their job like is it just me who noticing this
In for story 2 this is the first time a Reddit have been proven to be actually real
Being a younger male with little responsibilities in the way of family or relationships makes you a prime candidate to travel for work if your company has that available to you. You get paid more and are allowed to travel and see the world at the same time, and the only major drawback is being away from home.
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I get the point you're trying to make but how many dudes are actually qualified for those type of job it's like every male redditor who had a cheating wife always travel a lot
It is also because it is easier for cheaters to cheat if OP is out of town.
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@@lux3989how are so many people able to get such good jobs. Everyone I know is out here struggling to even survive
Im a resident in Nevada and this is nutss😢😮 im glad op got justice. I prob would be swinging at stalker if he kept pulling this bs or worst . Las Vegas law enforcement needs to step up and address this 😢😢😢
Story 2: See how often this simple solution will elude us.
Story 2: If this isn’t the most compelling argument for the 2nd amendment, idk what is.
I wish for the sake of all our families that when someone tells you someone is scaring them, remember this story. No, he's not a nice man, not if your friend or family member wants him to go away and he won't.
Oooo, the stalker goin vintage with the MySpace account.
I hate that there are actually people this unhinged just walking around.
So... how was he contacting her? Phone calls? they have record of that and could investigate. Emails/Text? Even better. paper trail. They could easily get him for threats this way. The cops in this story are freaking useless.
I’m happy Dasia is doing fine and is safe! Live your life girl.
I was molested in California in 2010. 17 and never had sex or wanted it. He’s an actor in Hollywood now. D list but still a charismatic and charming man. He is 11 years older than me, found out later. I’m still disgusted. I also stopped caring about his well being. Idk why I ever did.
Story 2: There are typically five signs of stalking.
1. Love bombing. Typically the stalker floods the victim with messages, be it online, phone calls, etc. These messages can range from sweet and kind one second to violent and threatening another moment.
2. Gifting. Similar to love bombing, the stalker sends an outrageous amount of money or extravagant gifts. They do this in attempt to make the victim feel that they “owe” them.
3. Blackmail. Usually the stalker resorts to emotional blackmail by threatening self harm or self ending to emotionally manipulate the victim. Other times they threaten the life or well being of the victim. Other times they will attempt to slander the victim by posting and photoshopping the victim’s face on a naked image and threaten to spread it online.
4. Manipulation. The stalker will typically try to manipulate the victim into thinking that they are in need of help, or anything they can to play on the victim’s sense of sympathy by claiming to have a terminal illness. Or they claim they will leave the victim alone but then come back like a demon in their life. Sometimes they will pull a “Max Cady” style campaign where it seems circumstantial when they encounter the victim, and often try to make the victim out to be the aggressor and themselves to be the victim.
5. Harming an animal or other living being. Often the stalker will harm a small animal and leave the remains to intimidate the victim. Other times they will buy animal carcasses or by products from a butcher shop and leave it for their victim to terrorize them.
Invest in dash cameras for your vehicles, home security cameras, doorbell cameras, and firearms (please be sure to take safety training classes and learn how to use it, practice often). Always gather evidence, document everything, and file a restraining order.
"3 Duolingo accounts"
Bruh, is he trying to steal the Owl's job?
"YoU'rE a SiMp FoR nOt BeAtInG wOmEn" men, it turns women on most of the time when you just use the brain part and not brawn 😅
Im really the last person to say this stuff, but the second story seems to be at least partially motivated by racism in her case. Im very glad shes taken up work at the range and is safe now :(
There are errors in the chapters that you should edit, i think you should be aware
This is why we choose the BEAR!
Yesh bear will totally help you and take care of you 😂 instead of eating you.
@@Lilomen__Uzumaki Only thing a bear would do IS eat you.
@Lilomen__Uzumaki pretty sure that's the point. You don't need to worry about manipulation and lies.
The bear will only kill and eat you, not stalk you for months Threatening you and your family while telling you what a nice guy he is@@Lilomen__Uzumaki
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Or the stalking
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