My Wife Left Me and Filed for Divorce, Believing My Son's False Accusations of Me SA'ing Our Dog,...
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- 00:0 1st story:
I think my teenage son may have sodomized our dog. I'm not sure what to do. Help me Reddit. (concerneddad1965 in r/AskReddit)
23:36 2nd story:
Caught my wife having and affair with her boss (Phoenixoriginal in r/survivinginfidelity)
To submit your story, kindly use the provided email. If you prefer exclusion, please notify us. secretvoices25@gmail.com
Gameplay by @ninakori
regret after cheating, when you are in a secret relationship, when your in a open relationship, how to be more open in a relationship, husband keeping secrets from wife, wife keeping secrets from husband, how to take care of your wife, narcissist and family relationships, toxic relationship story, reddit stories revenge on familyreddit stories entitled family, reddit stories family disowned me, reddit stories revenge on family, reddit stories entitled siblings, marriage revenge full story
podcast reddit, reddit storytime reddit top posts r/confession r/entitledparents r/tifu r/prorevenge r/maliciouscompliance r/choosingbeggers r/entitledpeople r/IDOWorkHereLady r/Idontworkherelady r/personalfinance r/AmITheA**hole r/AITA
It's sad that the son never got any real punishment for his disgusting behaviour. Poor dog.
Eh he seems to be the type that will Torpedo their life away.
He's not just a "sad awkward kid". He's a predator. OP should have taken the electronics away from his son as soon as he found out. Edit: I hope OP reports him.
Same here.
If son will SA an animal, he will eventually work up to SA a person. You should have called the police. At least that would force treatment. He committed a crime. Ever hear of cruelty to animals/abuse of animals?
Or he becomes a zoosadist... Don't look that up for your own sanity. Sometimes the easy access to information is a curse...
Possibly not. Serial killers torture animals as practice. This sounds like someone into beastiality.
Well said. The son will end up doing the same thing to someone's daughter, or another random girl, next.⚠️
Yeah he cared for that dog soooooo much he let the dog stay with the wife and pervert to be assaulted again, he and that freak need to be locked up
Son may not do the same stuff to girls if animals are his "thing" but he will definitely do worse things to more animals. In my mind it's a bit like paedophilia, they don't "get off" on doing stuff to grownups but will never stop abusing children.
the fact he forgave his son in the first place is deplorable.
I would treat this like a family member sa'ing a family member
i know people will say that hes a child and picking a dog over a child is stupid, but if hes DOING THAT TO A DOG SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH HIM. GET HIM HELP.
Yep. He will definitely escalate. Harming animals is usually the first step to even greater harm.
These parents failed their son and society at large.
Humans ae next.
If my son ever did that kinda thing to my dog he gonna be reaching hell
And we’re sending him to it with express ticket.
And not a warm trip. He'd be taking a hot express trip to the deepest pits of hell!
I'm pretty sure Satan doesn't even want him
Story 1: OP should have taken the dog back to the vet after the bite. This way he could get proof of any damage done to Colby. Then contacted his therapist to get a copy of his records. Taken everything to the police. File a report. A court can send him to an institution to get the in depth help he needs. What OP has done so far for his son isn't enough.
Serial killers and rpist are well known for starting with animal abuse.
You had 3 opportunities to disown / beat up / denounce to the police your sick son. You failed as a person. You didn't fail as a husband, you didn't fail as a father, you failed as the basic task of being a person with morals.
If you wanna protect a criminal, at least stick to it, and try to say you tried protecting the dog, because your incompetence got your dog SAed twice.
Story 1: OP’s was in deep denial about the extent of his son’s mental stability and should’ve immediately 1) informed his wife and 2) reported him to police to ensure that he underwent a complete psych eval. The kid was a very troubled teenager whose issues weren’t properly addressed, so god only knows what type of harm he’s causing to innocent victims now that he’s an adult. OP and his ex wife have done society a huge disservice by allowing such a dangerous person to go unpunished. SMH
I agree. The son should've been reported immediately. These things go unnoticed for too long because animals can't speak. The dog did a good job defending himself that time but should never have had to. Dad should've removed the son from their home, recorded and collected all evidence he found and left son and evidence at the police office the second he realized what his son did.
OP#1 meant well but was very wrong about hiding such things from his wife.
We're not talking about the son getting C in algebra. But about sexually assaulting an animal.
The son now lives on his own.... Alone or with pets/ victims ?
Does any one else find it weird or insane that he rekindled his relationship with his dog-f*king son, but let his wife spiral down a hole of insanity? She wasn't a great person either but he chose to keep in contact with an animal r*pist and it doesn't sound like the son got any therapy or help.
Dude and his wife taught that boy to mask the evil then set him loose on the world for the rest of us to deal with when he escalates.
Are you stupid?
as far as we know, the kid probably got into therapy, and that's how they managed to keep in contact, my guess is that wifey is the reason why he was so out of control, he can save his son, not that woman
Story 1 I don't know if he would've told the wife the first time the son sa the dog would have made any difference. After what she did and said to him then trust was irrevocably obliterated. So the best part for him was the divorce that happened. Also I would cut contact with that pervert son of his. Story 2 play stupid games win stupid prizes
Trust was broken on both parts tbh. He hid a very serious issue about their son, who btw might be a danger to others, not just animals.
She, blinded by anger, chose to believe her son, because she felt betrayed by her husband not coming forward.
Instead of interrogating her kid and ask her stbx some sorts of proof, at least have a convo with the therapist to understand what's going on
It's a domino falling shit sandwich.
That kid is a psychopath. He singlehandedly broke his family appart.
He needs serious help.
Yeah, OP was def not a saint but I’d have blasted her on socials after that dog effer rant, that’s a sin and a massive betrayal and needs to be met with full force retaliation to nip in the bud asap
I hate people who think kids can't be predators. The stupidest thing an adult can do.
Op in story 1 is a horrible dad. After the vet visit and the browser search on the kids computer he never got his child psychiatric help. Then he lets the wife and kid take the dog after they separated. Shitty dad.
But he did get help, and the wife made a huge fuss about him taking the dog!
Rock and hard place 😢
He got him into therapy almost immediately. It would be reasonably for him to assume that the therapist would refer him to a psychiatrist if necessary.
Yeah. If your kid is doing something like this, its not a "Well I gotta have a man to man with him". Its a tell your wife, and start planning immediate psychiatric visits, and scower his computer thing. Because if a child is doing this, it either came from some deep rooted issue within the kid, or someone was grooming them to do it. ANd seeing as he was on forums, I am actually leaning twards option b.
So good job OP, instead of doing something that might fix the kids problem: you created this nightmare.
I couldnt bother to watch the first story. Too disturbing for me. I watched on the last minutes. Glad colby was happy and safe. And i dont wanna know about his son.
We all know where Son is now, having "graduated". Yeah, that's what I think where he is now.
What the actual fuck is with the thumbnail title?! Out of all the Reddit stories i have heard from various channels with various names, this has to be the most disturbing and disgusting one i have ever heard in my life!
Only reason I stopped scrolling looking for music was to check the comments about the atrocity that is the title
This was a famous reddit story a few years ago. Justin Whang made a video about it
jesus christ man OP is such a doormat. “I forgive her” my ass I hate everything about this story. Glad his ex is his ex and the son should have been reported
Right??
"Hes just a kid in an akward situation" wake up.
Story 1: The dog i feel is just the first victim.
The dad “1st story” is also the problem. He was so blasé about the incident from the start, he didn’t take it seriously enough, and throughout he doesn’t take the dog’s welfare as seriously as he should, almost blaming the dog “a dog has destroyed our family.”
Right? That bothered me so damn much. Not only would I ensure that kid is allowed nowhere NEAR animals, I would've immediately reported him and have him committed. The fact the father is still associating with that creep while trashing his ex who's likely been traumatized after witnessing her son get freaky with the family dog...
@@jasminedavis3030 ikr, he’s an enabler and seems to place blame on the victims rather than his kid and himself.
I wasn't sure till he kept saying all this over a dog and that's when I believed it. He's more upset for himself than caring about the dog and that his child is the predator.
Story 1: Poor dog. 😳🥺
Why is no one condemning the little bastard in the first place!?
This is why you get evidence or proof before falsely accusing someone (referring to the wife)
The therapist and evidence on his computer but she chose to believe none of it, without even looking into it herself. Now she has no husband. Really wild.
Him and his wife are supposed to be a team there's not supposed to be any secrets between them his first mistake was not informing her about any of this stuff going on with her own son
Is the second mistake was not punishing his son the minute it happened and now he surprised that it happened again.
Is third mistake was leaving his son and his dog alone in the backyard again
Now he wants to tell his wife about it why you didn’t tell her about it the first time it happened and now he wants a divorce he’s the problem because he can’t tell everything up front
S1, op your son is showing serious deviant behavior. He needs serious help. Getting rid of the dog isn't going to make the problem go away. He'll just turn his attention to something or someone else. When he's arrested for a sexual crime, you had the chance to actually do something and instead did nothing.
1st story: that son is a nasty like ewwww, me personally I would have disowned him
This is what gentle parenting gets you. And OP is a pushover.. my mama would have knocked my head between the washer and the dryer
Once your son becomes that kind of furry there's no going back from that.
The furries don't claim him.
Yeah, not a furry. A sicko, yeah, and that's insulting the sickos.
S2: coworker reported AP and OP’s ex. Possibility that coworker is one of AP’s side piece or got harassed by him. There will be another update on the divorce.
Considering infidelity is 2 different UCMJ articles, it tracks.
@@flyboy6392 correct, exwife will face punishment, but AP likely get away if someone other than coworker got more dirty laundry
My heart seriously hurts for OP's kids, when they hit their teens, they'll disappear on/go NO CONTACT with their mother and her family (if OP's STBX-wife gets full custody) to couch-hop with fake friends, next, at 18, the daughter will stay with/marry a guy who cheats on her, and become homeless with a kid on the way (when her husband kicks her out), then move to another state, and stay temporarily with roommates until she finds an apartment, work two jobs to keep her one-parent household afloat and ask neighbors to babysit for her, drop her kid off at daycare. the son will stay with a girl who's not only a cheater, just like OP's STBX-wife is, but also a party fiend, have a kid with her, and have to care for their kid alone, when his baby mama disappears on them goes back to her partying sprees, and cavorting around with as many other guys as she wants, then, he'll move with his kid to another state to raise her in a stable home environment, and at the same time, keep her away from his mother and her family, find a cheaper apartment, work two jobs to provide for himself and his kid as a single father, and rely on neighbors as his support system because he won't have OP or other relatives in his new state to help out; all the son and his kid will have is each other.⚠️
OP was so painfully atrociously stupid to not tell his wife IMMEDIATELY. Teens don't normally rape animals due to puberty & that wasn't "Good father behavior", that was just idiotic. Not only was it horrible parenting, it was horrible pet owner behavior, letting your rapist son stay unpunished & allowed anywhere near the dog.
Like I obviously can't imagine being in his situation but how could he be so atrociously idiotic....
Dude should have recorded the discussion. The second was already too many
The first story pisses me off. Should have told the wife and rehomed the dog to protect it and got the son therapy to work on his obvious issues. I feel bad for the dog to be have been stuck in that situation for however long he was
I guess this guy has never watched any documentaries about how serial killers and rapists & how they start out and they usually start by abusing animals. I’m astounded at how he dealt with this situation because I would have beat the brakes off my son if he did what he did to the family dog and removed his access to the Internet. I would’ve also told my wife straight away I’ve realised that when people don’t get the narrative out there straightaway it gives people the chance to lie and manipulate the situation. Maybe the son has something going on mentally seeing as how the mother went off the deep end after the divorce.
Omg the son most definitely didn’t just stop n end that behavior, if he went to counseling n getting help, he might not be continuing the behavior, but if they just left it n didn’t do anything to get him help, he probably didn’t seek help on his own, he won’t until he hits a kind of rock bottom like any addict, he has to kno he has a problem to begin with n regret n feel guilt n ashamed but he honestly just seemed more upset that he got caught, n embarrassed in that way n not genuinely ashamed of it. That son of his is a predator n the fact they choose to be blind n ignorant about not knowing if his son still commits those acts is sad, tho his son is not under his responsibility anymore cus he’s an adult now, he should’ve acted n did more than just have him go to therapy unless he actually followed up with the therapist n communicate about the dog being abused n the web browser history, I kno it’s a lot n could be no help, but I wouldn’t feel right unless I did everything I could to get this kid help to protect others n animals from him, cus once the kid is legally adult n on their own there’s not much u can do, but if my kid is a danger to others including animals, I’d do wat I can to get him help or prevent him from hurting anyone or anything anymore, even if it means going to the police
"I'm sorry"?! After she screamed dog effer so the neighborhood could hear?
I'd told her to get stuffed.
The fact that he's now blaming the dog and wanting things to go back to normal and shit pisses me off to no end. I know he gets over that eventually, but still.
I'm annoyed that the kid pretty much gets away with everything, that he forgave his wife so easily, and the fact that he even considered getting back together with his wife- even for a second.
"Not to ruin his life" way to insure he continues to engage in this activity.
I don't believe the wife separated bc of the dog, She had other motives. Her anger seems a little much. Hearing the last update, I'm convinced she was not being faithful.
honsestly if you thought your husband lied abt your son sex7ally assaulting a dog while actually doing it to the dog, you would divorce someone. plus op said they had previous issues. people would rather believe their partner did that then their children
"I waited for my wife to go to bed"
TALK TO YOUR WIFE WTF. Your son is doing something that is both a massive sign of mental illness, AND is harming an animal in your care. This isnt a "Strong talk and then he stops" thing. This is a "My child needs therapy now" thing. Because either: He is/has been suffering some sort of abuse, he has some kind of underlying issue, or he was being groomed by those forums you saw. Maybe I'm overestimating old reddit, because this story is ancient, but like... did no one suggest this? Did no one say "Tell your wife what happened, then immediately take your son in for therapy because this is not normal, he will not grow out of it, and a strong talk isnt gonna fix it"? Wtf
You did NOT post the Colby reddit story in this format! No way! Hahahahahahaha! The story is just awful, but the circumstances of how you posted it are hilarious! I just cant!
WHAT???
Story1: OMG. One of the sickest things that I ever heard. First I can understand OP not going nuclear on his son. This is his kid and he instinctively wants to protect him. Not destroy him. He hopes that the son can be salvaged without damaging his reputation for the rest of his life. Problem is that he son is too far gone and nobody recognised it. The therapist might have given a heads up that she was getting nowhere but... nothing.
The mother's reaction was another iteration of the protection mode that OP showed. OP covered it up to protect his son. Mom threw OP under the bus (OP mentioned that the marriage was already rocky but didn't specify) in order to to protect her son. She found it easier to think the worst of her husband than her child. A Momma bear protecting her cub. Turns out to have been the wrong choice. So both parents kind of fooled themselves into believing what they wanted to believe.
Dad thinking that son was redeemable.
Mom believing her lying POS offspring.
Son sounds like a little psycho playing them both and putting an end to any slim hope for them as a family.
Glad that OP found a new life and family. Glad that Colby cannot be hurt any more.
Story2: OP didn't make it terribly clear but it sounds like his ExW was in the military and in an affair with her CO. Pretty serious stuff. That would explain the arrests he talked about. Can end in up to a year in the stockade. The threats of self harm may be a ploy to garner sympathy and lessen the consequences.
The wife lost respect when OP became a student and she became a bread winner. She started thinking of him as less than he guy she took orders from. No criticism of OP here. He was trying to better himself and be a better man for his wife and his family. She was being selfish and short sighted rather than a loyal partner.
I don't believe that the ExW leaving him would have ended up happening. Too much fallout. Her CO was stringing her along, making promises to keep her from spilling the beans, hoping she would get bored and quietly quit the affair of her own accord.
Story 2 pls 🙏 taking her back isn't going to end well for your mental stability. Walk away and be free from that toxicity
I can't believe op keeps saying all this over a dog. No all this over a sick messed up child you created. You're no better than the son and wife.
The dog story is weird ass fuck. But said in a sing songy voice. Also, you told the whole story like 5 times.
Nta sometimes forgiveness isn't the best call.she made her decision she got to stay 💯 live with it snd y'all never to have therapy as well
Story 2:
OP = NTA
The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for 304!EX-wife
Story 1:
OP = NTA
*John Wick Wants To Know Son's Location !!!*
*The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for OP’s Ex-Wife !!!*
If his wife wanted the trial separation and was a total bitch to him, she was probably cheating and wanted to cheat with less hassle.
What in the actually fuck
I skimmed the video for obvious reasons but this is first time I wish this was a fake story…
If that's how the wife ended up, there's a good chance she's the reason they not did what he did.
An affair in the military is a career ender.
Na if my son tried this he’s disowned he just lost his father cause hell no he tries to blame that on me
I knew this was the dog story the moment I heard the title.
Wtf i would sold that kind of son in the market for what he did what the hell 😭😭🫥
Why would one be attracted to someone who can't consent?
I almost got sick in my mouth twice. I can’t listen to this
Your son knows what he is doing, leave both of them to there own.
It starts off with animals, humans are next
Nah first time the boy is dead to me and if she is on his side so is she
Story 2: Barracks Bunny
I am not listening to this
what the hell did i read.....
It’s a whole lot of wtf going on in this title 😮
What the actual fuck???
Recocnile 😂
That poor dog.
Report
😮 😬 😳
Gods, this makes me feel sick how could someone do something like that to an animal?!
Story 2: NEVER get married in the army. It almost NEVER works out
Like lots of things, the stories of when it doesn't work are the ones that are told. When it does work, there's no "Story," just people living their lives. I know people several who succeeded in their marriages despite being in the military.
Lol now this is classic reddit
We live in interesting times
Yo, wtf is this story?
I am just shocked! 😮😮😮 What baffles me is that the father figured it out and didn't say s*** to his son about it or tell the mother. WHAT?!!!
And this idiot actually believe his son telling him that he stuck a brush and his finger up there!! Are you out of your mind?! I would have been a bit iffy about my own husband for keeping something like that from me once he found out. And the son is gay. It starts with the dog and it ends with a guy. Their son is a psychopath.
I've heard this story like 4 times. It's so messed up but it's also hilarious
What do you mean it's hilarious that's a dog that was getting sa'd and you find it funny
@@doesthisworkatleast Not that part. Just the entire situation as a whole. What happened to the dog was awful
I hope this is fake. I hope this is a karma farm.
Unfortunately there are people in the world that are that sick. If this was a karma farm, it had to have been a 10+ year karma farm attempt as this story was out in 2012 and we got all the updates from then to now.
I hate to break it to you but unfortunately it might not be,
And I hate it 😢🤢, I really hate people like this.
This screams European Caucasians so bad idk what else to think