Approach Anxiety Cure - 3 Simple Steps

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2016
  • Destroy Approach Anxiety In 3 Steps Under 3 Minutes -schoolofattrac...
    Fear of walking up to and approaching beautiful women (otherwise known as approach anxiety) is a really difficult problem for any guy who struggles knowing how to talk to girls.
    In under 3 minutes, I'll show you how to cure your approach anxiety. It's really simple and just requires some regular consistent action over a few weeks.
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  • @juddbrady1825
    @juddbrady1825 3 года назад +39

    Women thinking, why Every man I encounter need a cash machine

    • @makhulu5013
      @makhulu5013 Год назад +4

      I just ased that to 10 women at store they were suprised by the question, and i notice womens are very scared when i start speaking they are anxious too

  • @imranasghar8690
    @imranasghar8690 2 года назад +20

    "You never lose the fear of approaching you just become bolder" - Jordan Peterson

  • @philagcaba8739
    @philagcaba8739 3 года назад +19

    Love your baby steps to compliment I also learned that when you don’t take it so seriously you will keep going.

  • @mikegaming4924
    @mikegaming4924 5 лет назад +9

    It is good to start with something easy. It is totally normal to ask for directions. You can ask for directions even when you know the streets.

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful 3 года назад +8

    This is awesome! I never thought 150 seconds video can offer so much. Thanks👌👌👍👍

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful 3 года назад +6

    one more idea is to watch Daygame videos. They are lots of them in RUclips. Daygame is the art of approaching and picking up girls in the streets/public.

  • @PickleJello
    @PickleJello 3 года назад +2

    Thanks RUclips algorithm for deciding I needed this video. I did.

  • @rickyticky3350
    @rickyticky3350 4 года назад +25

    You can't really get rid of approach anxiety fully but you can train yourself to just do it.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  4 года назад +5

      Yep absolutely

    • @theboldguy.
      @theboldguy. 3 года назад +4

      You lower it's intensity the more you approach and if you stop approaching for a while you will increase it's intensity back

    • @erxfav3197
      @erxfav3197 2 года назад

      @@theboldguy. really? Has this been your experience?

    • @theboldguy.
      @theboldguy. 2 года назад

      @@erxfav3197 yes it was

  • @ryanpeters801
    @ryanpeters801 10 дней назад +1

    I tried the compliment thing; I’m commenting from my jail cell. 😢

  • @markn9619
    @markn9619 3 месяца назад +1

    step 2 and 3 is too difficult for me, can i just keep repeating step 1?

  • @freedom2084
    @freedom2084 Год назад +2

    This is the best advice on this topic

  • @minoh97
    @minoh97 3 года назад +1

    Thank you haha. You have no idea how much this helped!!

  • @li-pingho1441
    @li-pingho1441 2 года назад +1

    This video helps me a lot

  • @dvt32
    @dvt32 6 лет назад +2

    This is good, thanks! :)

  • @danielmercado3091
    @danielmercado3091 Год назад +1

    the way he drew that superman torso a lil sus lol

  • @accountingfinanceplusfunny
    @accountingfinanceplusfunny Год назад +1

    Please tell us if any one tried these and worked?

  • @imnotmilton8591
    @imnotmilton8591 10 месяцев назад

    thank you

  • @Bluebarss
    @Bluebarss 3 года назад +1

    I’m gonna give it a try thank you

  • @li-pingho1441
    @li-pingho1441 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @elgranyotbey
    @elgranyotbey Год назад +1

    What if i still can not do step 3, despite have done the two previous steps?

  • @kayletvgaming7096
    @kayletvgaming7096 3 года назад +3

    This is FUCKING GOLD MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you!!!!!!!!

  • @theboldguy.
    @theboldguy. 3 года назад

    I really like your steps but i will suggest to get over it while you are in a set

  • @claudrebille178
    @claudrebille178 7 месяцев назад

    After 5 the nice smile compliment , what d9 you say?

  • @markn9619
    @markn9619 3 года назад +1

    i wanna try this at a mall or a target where it’s crawling with hot girls but i need help, is there any specific type of diet that will get rid of my approach anxiety? im on lexapro but its not really working, what would you suggest saying stuff in those places? asking where theres places good to eat sounds stupid to me when i can just look at the directory myself

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  3 года назад

      I mean, you can ask where the ATM is - or the bathrooms - it really doesn't matter honestly, not for the sake of just warming yourself up to approaching women.

    • @markn9619
      @markn9619 3 года назад

      @@SchoolOfAttraction well i actually have a date from bumble but the thing is im not attracted to the woman at all, is that a start? to get used to talking to women as practice and then to go on to cold approaching? wanted your thoughts

  • @LeeHur_Low
    @LeeHur_Low 4 года назад +2

    What is the apprach anxiety?

    • @dogguyful
      @dogguyful 3 года назад +5

      It's fear of meeting and facing a beautiful woman, especially the one you like. You fear rejection or getting humiliated by her in public. Most men are intimidated by a woman's image(beauty)exactly the same way they are scared by a muscular/strong man or grizzly lion🦁so(🦁=👩)

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 7 месяцев назад

    I guess this is as good as it gets for advice on this topic. However, even at its simplest level I have a problem. The first problem is how to pretend to be so dumb and vacuous that I need help finding an ATM. The second problem with that (don't say I'm overthinking this!) is that I consider anyone using an ATM to be poor at finances. I have not used an ATM in many many years, nor will I ever again use one. Same thing goes for asking other such questions, such as where to eat, etc. It's just impossibly hard to feign stupidity, plus it appears to be such a transparent ploy with an ulterior motive. The point is that having a brain is the first stumbling block to initiating any pointless small talk. --I might as well go up to her and ask "Excuse me. Can you tell me where the nearest simp is?"

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  7 месяцев назад

      I think you misunderstood the point about ATM's - it wasn't to use that as your pickup line - it was to use that as you learn to get comfortable talking to women on the street - you're not meant to actually try to date those women, just approach, get info, and leave - until you are comfortable to do a proper approach.

    • @KpxUrz5745
      @KpxUrz5745 7 месяцев назад

      @@SchoolOfAttraction Well I think I understood the point. And I just can't bring myself to ask anyone where an ATM machine is. I realize this sounds like I am nitpicking. My point is that there is often "something wrong" with most such suggestions.

    • @BarryBizzle
      @BarryBizzle 6 месяцев назад

      @@KpxUrz5745 You're missing the point. The ATM question is just an example. There are hundreds of things you could ask. The point of step 1, is to get comfortable approaching by asking a generic, trivial, non-suggestive question, in order to train your brain to become more comfortable. Then steps 1 and 2 up the difficulty.

  • @SonuSingh-mp3ss
    @SonuSingh-mp3ss 5 лет назад +1

    It wasn't that bad...!!!

  • @orange999
    @orange999 11 месяцев назад +1

    I don't think I have an approach anxiety, I just don't see the point of approaching a girl that might not be into me or maybe she has a boyfriend. I prefer Tinder and Bumble where both these excuses are non-existing.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  11 месяцев назад +1

      This is certainly true, and it's also why online dating is so popular these days - HOWEVER - for this reason the competition online is WAY higher - Also the most attractive women aren't on online dating. So there are benefits to leaving the online dating train as well.

    • @orange999
      @orange999 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@SchoolOfAttraction You top the competition by paying these apps.

    • @dblshotz75
      @dblshotz75 2 месяца назад

      ​@orange999 how's that working out for you? It's not because you're here. Online dating sucks. It's far better getting out and talking to women.

  • @bobdarbo7801
    @bobdarbo7801 6 лет назад +3

    Doesn't work if you're short

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  6 лет назад +9

      I get the impression you're a frustrated short guy :P Also, it does work if you're short, I've had a lot of short clients. Sure it would be ideal and easier if we could all be over 6 foot, but you have ot learn to work with your obstacles, not use them as excuses.

    • @DiegoGonzalez-go2qy
      @DiegoGonzalez-go2qy 5 лет назад +3

      Then ask them where you can buy elevator shoes.

    • @w.j.christophe8779
      @w.j.christophe8779 4 года назад

      What if you have a short penis?

    • @kayletvgaming7096
      @kayletvgaming7096 3 года назад

      haha

    • @KpxUrz5745
      @KpxUrz5745 7 месяцев назад

      Bahahaha. That is hilarious!

  • @robertukrow3329
    @robertukrow3329 День назад

    Well maybe for some men this would help. But it is not for everyone. Everyone makes his own life experiences. So this video is just bullshit, sorry to say it like this. This just prolongs men to think about approaching as being something mysterious, fearful, and prolongs them to make a deal out of it. Dislike from me