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  • @TheQueerKiwi
    @TheQueerKiwi  Год назад +558

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    • @Summerman000kesamies
      @Summerman000kesamies Год назад +2

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    • @MossMothMyBeloved
      @MossMothMyBeloved Год назад +15

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    • @watermelon..
      @watermelon.. Год назад +2

      the fact that you even have someone who writes your captions properly is already amazing to me and greatly appreciated

    • @oddlemone
      @oddlemone Год назад +1

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  • @anironsidh
    @anironsidh Год назад +807

    "Being queer is self obsessed" says the self obsessed man

    • @cherrycola6736
      @cherrycola6736 Год назад +1

      It's okay, straight white men are allowed to be self obsessed! Only them tho, no one else can even have a sense of identity they remotely feel comfortable with and pride themselves in (according to them)

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      Then why make everything gay?

    • @oculusquest2460
      @oculusquest2460 Год назад +16

      Real

    • @summerwolf7197
      @summerwolf7197 Год назад +32

      Funny coming from the man who made his wife being uncomfortable with having sex every once in awhile about him.. real interesting paul

    • @GOUdamn
      @GOUdamn Год назад +16

      Their relationship is so sad 😢
      I feel sorry for that girl

  • @fallenbee
    @fallenbee Год назад +800

    They call us "snowflakes" meanwhile they're calling pronouns dangerous 💀💀

    • @Caterpillarnook
      @Caterpillarnook Год назад +42

      Oh no!! Grammar!/s

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад +1

      Everyone’s too emotional these days

    • @skyeguy7914
      @skyeguy7914 Год назад +19

      This makes me think of that meme about changing a transphobic person’s pronouns to “was/were”

    • @zyerkos
      @zyerkos Год назад +25

      @@skyeguy7914 "you better respect trans peoples pronouns before i make yours 'was/were'"

    • @skyeguy7914
      @skyeguy7914 Год назад +13

      @@zyerkos yep, that one. The most dangerous pronouns.

  • @femboygaytheist471
    @femboygaytheist471 Год назад +1725

    I'm a trans man, and I'm not on T anymore. I felt pressured to be on hormones early on even though I didn't really want them. You know who I felt pressured from? It wasn't other trans people. It was cis people who couldn't comprehend a trans man embracing his femininity. Trans people are not trying to "trans the youths".

    • @ohshiditsgriff2793
      @ohshiditsgriff2793 Год назад +211

      @Ville i feel sorry for your mother. She must really regret you

    • @katattack5793
      @katattack5793 Год назад +118

      @@ohshiditsgriff2793 i love you for that comment. It's beautiful

    • @femboygaytheist471
      @femboygaytheist471 Год назад +115

      @Ville Because I'll never have to wreck it giving birth to a baby I don't want? Weird.

    • @ohshiditsgriff2793
      @ohshiditsgriff2793 Год назад +44

      @@katattack5793 no problem 💕

    • @femboygaytheist471
      @femboygaytheist471 Год назад +139

      @Ville Making an informed decision about my body and my health = something wrong with me. Ok, honey. Whatever you say. Lol

  • @ssnekky
    @ssnekky Год назад +1086

    Pronouns are so easy. It’s not that people don’t understand, it’s that they don’t *want* to understand. They choose to be ignorant, and that makes it even more infuriating.
    Edit: I completely forgot to mention that slip ups can happen, and it’s okay as long as you’re trying! But going “oh my gosh it’s just soooooo hard and confusing” in that one tone is a real dick move. It shows you aren’t trying.

    • @ssnekky
      @ssnekky Год назад +58

      @Ville wow you actually didn’t use a pronoun in that sentence. Normally people use “I” in sentences like that. You did it right, congrats first time I’ve seen that.

    • @VexRavenhardt
      @VexRavenhardt Год назад +37

      @Ville I see your comments everywhere, and you might not have pronouns but you don't really have anything else either. Just hate and a lot of free time 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад +23

      @Ville Don't breathe.

    • @adalunar1550
      @adalunar1550 Год назад +24

      @@TrollDecker love your respond^^. But it'd be better for you to try to ignore and/or report Ville cos that person is spreding all kinds of lgbtqia+ phobias, doesn't listen to any valid arguments and prob'ly feeds of our replies cos Idk why else are they constantly on social media typing hate comments :p

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      It its easy then a male should be using he and a female should be using her. Gender is an easy thing since there are only 2 genders

  • @user-ji9if5gh2p
    @user-ji9if5gh2p Год назад +715

    changing your pronouns is only dangerous when you’re around transphobic people

    • @cantinasmile
      @cantinasmile Год назад +60

      My trans friends trying different pronouns and names to see what fits: 😭😕😊😬😀
      Me, cis and loving them no matter what: 🤗

    • @user-ji9if5gh2p
      @user-ji9if5gh2p Год назад +25

      @@cantinasmile i appreciate this comment because i really wanna change my name and i’ve been out as trans for over a year and i’m worried how people are gonna receive that

    • @cantinasmile
      @cantinasmile Год назад +26

      @@user-ji9if5gh2p If your friends have a problem with it, you should reassess if these are the people you want to spend your time with. Sure, it can be difficult to keep up sometimes if it changes a lot but if they don't even try they may not be the people you want in your life

    • @user-ji9if5gh2p
      @user-ji9if5gh2p Год назад +10

      @@cantinasmile it’s mostly my family, and my boyfriend. i think it’s just that they are more attached to my current name then i am and it would make them sad

    • @user-ji9if5gh2p
      @user-ji9if5gh2p Год назад +2

      @@cantinasmile i really appreciate your comments tho

  • @jz-meister5343
    @jz-meister5343 Год назад +403

    “He created them male and female.” I really wonder how Paul would explain the fact that intersex people exist 🤣😂

    • @jittercritter
      @jittercritter Год назад +65

      He probably thinks they’re the spawn of Satan or something equally cult-like

    • @khunt5336
      @khunt5336 Год назад +40

      No joke, early Jewish tradition had it that this line was _literal._ Male and female he created _them,_ meaning a single individual with both genders, which would be separated out later.

    • @brightsmoke6106
      @brightsmoke6106 Год назад +15

      YOU READ MY MIND
      Literally I was thinking this, I am a Christian but I'm not one who lies and twists the words and reasearch, Some people really still think Jesus was white smh G E O G R A P H Y love the comment btw

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад +3

      There’s a very simple example

    • @amandamandamands
      @amandamandamands Год назад

      I had someone on Facebook tell me that intersex people don't exist

  • @loganscottcolton4703
    @loganscottcolton4703 Год назад +241

    12:41 "They/them... I was flabbergasted" wait til he hears about their, there, and they're. Hes gonna go into shock. Since hes clearly so worked up about grammar.

    • @saige81711
      @saige81711 Год назад +7

      For real 😂😂

    • @superfacch
      @superfacch Год назад +30

      I wonder how flabbergasted he was the first time he used "you" to refer to one person! GASSPPPPP

    • @lazyperfectionist3978
      @lazyperfectionist3978 Год назад +14

      or how some words in the english language are both singular and plural. Dude probably thinks "fishes" is the plural version of "fish"

    • @audreytwo
      @audreytwo Год назад +3

      You're gonna kill the guy.

  • @loganjackson637
    @loganjackson637 Год назад +371

    It infuriates me when people use the “They/Them is a plural” argument, because I KNOW that anytime there is a situation that comes up in conversation where the person’s gender isn’t explicitly stated, these people 100% use they/them to describe that person. Then they conveniently forget about all of that when somebody actually wants to be referred to in that way.

    • @lazyperfectionist3978
      @lazyperfectionist3978 Год назад +58

      not to mention singular they/them is way older than singular you, shit's older than Shakespeare by 400 years, and it's not like people haven't attempted alternatives like thon/thons and figured out they/them was just way easier in the long run
      also, paul seems like the type of individual who believes "fishes" is the grammatically correct term for the plural version of "fish"

    • @complainer406
      @complainer406 Год назад +26

      Not to mention that they'd be the first ones to object if someone wanted to use neopronouns

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 Год назад +14

      @@complainer406 well of course, everyone knows you can't just make up words [/sarc]

    • @ahumanbeingfromtheearth1502
      @ahumanbeingfromtheearth1502 Год назад +19

      @@lazyperfectionist3978 hell, some guy in the 16th century wrote a massive treatise on how using "you" to refer to a single person was stupid and wrong.

    • @ratboy2
      @ratboy2 Год назад +1

      Or worse, they acknowledge this and then work to *change* that to “he or she” specifically to spite trans people 🫣

  • @industrialalliance9905
    @industrialalliance9905 Год назад +198

    Alternative Title : " Christian RUclipsrs perplexed by third grade grammar"

  • @VayliraKayvex
    @VayliraKayvex 2 года назад +1456

    Paul and Morgan have strong "I'll adopt your baby" vibes

    • @lolno6592
      @lolno6592 Год назад +35

      i was so confused by the uploaddate of this comment lmaoo

    • @possums154
      @possums154 Год назад +6

      @@lolno6592 lol same

    • @teeniegroup5488
      @teeniegroup5488 Год назад +17

      How is that possible? Someone broke the Matrix...

    • @WannaAstro
      @WannaAstro Год назад +24

      @@teeniegroup5488 maybe it was released earlier to people who pay?

    • @moonlighthowling666
      @moonlighthowling666 Год назад +124

      Morgan would 100% coerce someone out of wanting an abortion by guilting them with her difficulties getting pregnant

  • @NeoRena
    @NeoRena Год назад +234

    I think the point Paul was trying to make is that he is so incredibly fragile in his gender identity that any amount of ambiguity threatens it. He also seems easily influenced by others, sign of a weak inner voice. I'd almost feel bad for him if he wasn't actively making the world a worse place with his platform.

  • @sunflowerspirited4974
    @sunflowerspirited4974 Год назад +317

    I think it’s really cool that Demi Lovato is experimenting with pronouns. We should normalize changing them as you discover yourself and it’s really important that she’s done this on such a big stage! She received so much online hate for changing to they/them, it’s ridiculous that people are mad she’s going back to she/her again. There’s no winning. Trans people make conservatives mad just by existing, it has nothing to do with the pronouns smh
    Edit: I would also like to acknowledge that Demi is Latin, and historically speaking we (speaking as a fellow Latin nonbinary person) have not always shared the white colonizer’s strict ideas of gender anyways >:/

    • @packrat2004
      @packrat2004 Год назад +29

      To be clear Demi it's not going back to using she/her, she is using they/she

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      Lgbtq community fails at english lol

    • @kryokin9771
      @kryokin9771 Год назад +29

      @@condorlegion231 You fail at English.

    • @cantinasmile
      @cantinasmile Год назад +35

      @@condorlegion231 Oh no! Someone dropped their wallet. I'll leave it on the side so they can pick it up.
      That sentence makes perfect grammatical sense, singular they/them pronouns have been around for centuries

    • @wren_.
      @wren_. Год назад +13

      @@condorlegion231 says the one who doesn’t understand 1st grade english class

  • @juliawolf156
    @juliawolf156 Год назад +122

    I love how Paul and Morgan said "The kids are gonna see Demi embracing herself and then decide to also embrace themselves." She basically spelled out the mindset driving conservatives :D

    • @nio804
      @nio804 Год назад +9

      Yeah I can't understand how you can say that aloud and not realize how unbeliveably stupid it sounds.

  • @nikkiviolanti4477
    @nikkiviolanti4477 Год назад +301

    I’m a “masc presenting” non-binary person and people argue my identity all the time. Funny thing is, everyone argues something different. All these arguments compiled together just validate my non-binary experience even more.
    Usually I get the “well you don’t look feminine” statements . I tell them I dress how I feel comfortable in public and that if they saw me on a night out they’d actually see my insides reflected to my outsides.
    My entire life I’ve been told I’m not manly enough. Now that I identify as non-binary people are so quick to invalidate me and say I’m actually a man now. 🙃

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Год назад +19

      You are exactly who you say you are.
      🙏❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @Angela1111122222
      @Angela1111122222 Год назад +20

      I had the opposite experience where I wore male clothes for people to treat me as masculine as possible. And it worked. But I was so so so miserable wearing those clothes that don't fit me and don't represent anything creative (because anything that isn't the most basic design is not masculine anymore). I got tired, I wear dressed again, I rock them, just wish ppl would be nicer.

    • @Skrill99
      @Skrill99 Год назад

      Clever

    • @Pesciolotto
      @Pesciolotto Год назад +11

      recently a girl who i don't even know texted me saying that her sister saw me on social media and they started arguing about the fact that i use they/he/ləi pronouns while wearing make up and dressing feminine. i don't understand why someone would "care" so much about the identity of a person they've never even seen before.

    • @MoonlitBookworm73
      @MoonlitBookworm73 Год назад +3

      @@Pesciolotto How do you pronounce the last pronoun you use? I’ve never heard of it before, so I’m really curious!

  • @clawd_not_cloud
    @clawd_not_cloud Год назад +670

    I will say, as a writer, yes, writting about two people in the same sentence who use the same pronouns is always confusing. I usually just write the sentence using their names

    • @orangentage
      @orangentage Год назад +26

      English is not my first language but isn't it also difficult to write the sentence with two people having the same pronouns in general? Just curious hahah :)

    • @clawd_not_cloud
      @clawd_not_cloud Год назад +44

      @@orangentage it is, I usually end up just using their names that way it actually makes sense, ha ha

    • @hdbordercollie
      @hdbordercollie Год назад

      absolutely.

    • @spacecase2493
      @spacecase2493 Год назад +23

      also, a lot of the time i find that as long as you’re following proper grammar, even if i put pronouns in the one sentence, i can still distinguish between both characters or people

    • @lizzietemple5449
      @lizzietemple5449 Год назад +35

      I'm bilingual English and Spanish and can also understand Portuguese and I can attest that yes, when two people have the same pronouns it's difficult to write them in sentences without using their names, regardless of the language. However, it is also true that good grammar and punctuation helps A LOT to distinguish them

  • @elaexplorer
    @elaexplorer Год назад +150

    It amuses me that two people, who I didn't even remember existed, and most definitely couldn't have named, are asking if this celebrity is relevant.

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад

      Normal people can’t talk about celebrities because we’re not famous?

    • @meowiestwo
      @meowiestwo Год назад +5

      @@jasonpickles2576 normal people questioning a celebrities relevance is ironic though

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад

      @@meowiestwo and something people do every day

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +446

    Cis-Hets think surgery is like walking up to a chemist and asking for off-the-counter drug. It’s a whole process. Also, not every Trans person needs invasive surgery, which is bio essentialism which is a separate video essay.

    • @dani-8013
      @dani-8013 Год назад

      @Ville get a life

    • @meantforlove
      @meantforlove Год назад +48

      @Ville it is NOT mutilation. it is a safe surgery.

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад +38

      @Ville You weren't, and will never be asked.

    • @femboygaytheist471
      @femboygaytheist471 Год назад +31

      I'm fortunate to have found a doctor who does no questions asked hysterectomies, but most people do not have that experience. Most people have to jump through a thousand hoops, and even if you could just walk up to a surgeon and ask for surgery, people aren't deciding to have surgery without thoroughly thinking it through. It may happen in rare cases, but acting like it's the norm is extremely dishonest.

    • @liviwaslost
      @liviwaslost Год назад +20

      @Ville it’s not mutilation. It’s surgery and not every trans person gets surgery. Plus, surgery is safe. When you say mutilation you imply it to be something that’s dangerous and brutal when in actuality it is very safe, healing, and recommend by doctors and many other professionals in the medical field.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +169

    13:15 I’m thoroughly flummoxed too at the fact that an person who has probably studied English is blissfully unaware that ‘they’ can be used to refer to one person. Flummoxed/Flabbergasted/Gobsmacked/Amazed/Speechless indeed.

    • @genera1013
      @genera1013 Год назад +43

      And I guarantee you they will use "they" in the singular without even thinking about it. They're not unaware, they just want to be disrespectful.

  • @fruitykiwiw5869
    @fruitykiwiw5869 Год назад +72

    "How can THEY use a plural pronoun for one person, THEYRE so weird for that" like they're so close to getting it😭😭😭

  • @crazyratlady3115
    @crazyratlady3115 Год назад +323

    My house spouse has a lounging skirt and it's easily the most frequently worn thing in their closet. Has long hair, and a big bushy beard and is built like a brick shithouse. For their birthday, I got them a pamper sesh, exfoliating and moisturising hand massage and shellac manicure. They chose glittery blue and purple. I'm the breadwinning spouse, and for my birthday we're going wall climbing to learn how to belay, and then we're going for burgers and a ghost tour. Literally what do genitals have to do with anything how is gender not completely fake.

    • @adalunar1550
      @adalunar1550 Год назад +40

      Awww. Wish you two all the best^^

    • @frownyclowny
      @frownyclowny Год назад +27

      That's so cute. Goals!

    • @littlechickenman
      @littlechickenman Год назад +48

      "House spouse" I AM IN LOVE THAT PHRASE IT IS AMAZING

    • @audreytwo
      @audreytwo Год назад +12

      That sounds like a dream.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Год назад +31

      I'm a cis mama. My firstborn is a young adult non-binary bean. Hearing this sweet story helps strengthen my hope that they will find a life partner that accepts them as they are. Blessings to you and your family. 🙏💛🤍💜🖤

  • @leslyalvarez3760
    @leslyalvarez3760 Год назад +79

    Imagine when they figure out that some people are gender-fluid

  • @roykoopa4real
    @roykoopa4real Год назад +288

    personally i dont much like demi, but since i am a normal human being- i can respect pronouns

    • @roykoopa4real
      @roykoopa4real Год назад +21

      @Ville ‘he’ ‘her’ ‘they’ ‘it’ ‘we’ etc, etc

    • @LittleFrogman
      @LittleFrogman Год назад +18

      Same. I'm not the biggest fan of Demi, but I would never go around and misgender them on purpose just because I didn't like them

    • @Andreaa_-_
      @Andreaa_-_ Год назад +6

      Same, I don't go around calling cis people a gender they aren't if I don't like them so the same applies to everyone else.

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset Год назад +7

      me too. regardless of my feelings towards you, i'd always use the correct pronouns cuz im a decent human being

  • @strxwbxrry_420
    @strxwbxrry_420 Год назад +93

    I like how they assume teens are getting surgeries to transition when surgeries are incredibly difficult to get as a teen and even more expensive. It’s so assuming how little they know about the topics they talk about.

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 Год назад

      Well, that's always the point that conservatives (especially the fundies) use. They have a fundamental misunderstanding of how everything works when it comes to anything outside of the cis binary, and absolutely no interest in educating themselves. Basically, if it says so on their right wing ting foil hat anti-vax fb group... it must be true.

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      The end times are near. Sinful acts are more open now

    • @budgie463
      @budgie463 Год назад +15

      @@condorlegion231 lmaooo cry abt it

    • @sitanddrink
      @sitanddrink Год назад

      @@condorlegion231 lol suck it

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад +1

      @@condorlegion231 Follow your leader 😎🔫

  • @mossypawprints
    @mossypawprints Год назад +87

    When I first realised I wasn’t cis, I used she/they. Now I use he/xey. This is just because I spent a year and a half figuring myself out and realising what I was comfortable with. No one pushed me to my position and despite the fact I’d been watching trans creators since the age of 11, I only realised I could be trans at 14. Seeing trans people didn’t make me trans, being trans made me trans (also, I still very much like makeup and dresses, my only problem is they make me look more typically feminine so people will identify me as a “girl” more easily. If my body reflected my gender I’d love them)

    • @sadowldad1382
      @sadowldad1382 Год назад +5

      ME TOO!!!! when I first realized I wasnt cis, I also used she/they, I now use he/him! it took me a while to see what fit and I finally found it! as soon as I start t and have top surgery, Ill wear dresses, then ones with the spinny skirts

    • @eliasnarcise7688
      @eliasnarcise7688 Год назад

      Hey would you mind telling me how to pronounce xey?

  • @aforcemorepowerful
    @aforcemorepowerful Год назад +171

    "If I didn't deliberately present masculine I'd want to transition" is big egg energy tbh

  • @loganscottcolton4703
    @loganscottcolton4703 Год назад +79

    Growing up I didnt really care for Demi Lovatos music (just not in my usual preffered genres) but I heard EAT ME recently and DAMN I've been listening to it every day. It's so good!! Also I hadn't heard about adopting she/her pronouns so I'd say Demi Lovatos relevance is based on talent and not gender lol. Also even if they weren't relevant, they're certainly more relevant than Paul and Morgan will ever be xD

  • @noname-ur4gr
    @noname-ur4gr Год назад +84

    I have a friend who keeps changing their pronouns from time to time... first he used she/her pronouns, then she/they pronouns, then all pronouns, then he/him, now they/he. Also, they look very very feminine. All of that doesn't change his gender 🤷🏻‍♀️ Also, not all trans people have/want surgeries...
    Also, somewhat silly and unrelated, but I have a digital bird with a traditionally feminine name who uses they/them pronouns and gets misgendered all the time 😅 The reason I chose those pronouns is that gender is made up and I found the idea of assigning a gender to them has been weird to me because birds don't have genders. (Yes, I'm an "adult" who gets easily attached to people and things 😅)
    And yes, I do identify as a cis woman, although I don't care what pronouns people use for me and gender is just generally a weird concept to me

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад +15

      @Ville oh, hi! Nice to see you boosting engagement on the videos of even more of my favourite creators! 💕

    • @VexRavenhardt
      @VexRavenhardt Год назад

      @@noname-ur4gr
      Ikr? This mf be everywhere, hating and boosting viewership at the same time.

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад +4

      @Ville most probably not, I just recognise you as the guy who seems to be obsessed with Summer Luk, it's hard not to when you're commenting under *every single* of her videos 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад +5

      @Ville I kinda doubt that I've put so much energy in arguing with you that you would have remembered must have been someone else. Anyway, I'm gonna go back to ignoring you, feel free to keep up the engagement and have fun with your miserable life 💕

    • @jammingshrimp
      @jammingshrimp Год назад +2

      digital bird?? is it from an app or something i want a bird friend

  • @phoenixthings
    @phoenixthings Год назад +39

    When it comes to people’s pronouns, here’s my take:
    *I’ll refer to you by whatever pronouns you go by*

  • @VexRavenhardt
    @VexRavenhardt Год назад +53

    I'm she/they nonbinary myself. It's not that difficult to grasp 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +63

    I mean, my blood boils when I hear Harry Styles and Timothée Chalamet Slander. Let them be themselves. They’re experimenting and doing their own thing. Let them. Men invented heels and wore them. Fashion is always changing.

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      Nope. Men have to be strong. Feminimity weakens the masculine power of males. That is why this generation is doomed because males dont know how to be strong but slowly becoming feminime day by day as they are influenced by feminist jezebel agenda

  • @monicabelladonna4626
    @monicabelladonna4626 Год назад +104

    Paul calling someone a narcissist is the biggest joke I've seen today...

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад +13

      @Ville He's basic.

    • @maapauu4282
      @maapauu4282 Год назад +6

      @Ville basic*

    • @audreytwo
      @audreytwo Год назад +18

      Paul is like boxed cake mix as a person.

    • @maapauu4282
      @maapauu4282 Год назад +2

      @@audreytwo best insult I've ever heard

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      @@audreytwo you are like a frog that jumped off a cliff and landed on a sharp rock

  • @properantagonist
    @properantagonist Год назад +26

    It's funny cause they won't see "hey, my name is James, but everyone calls me Buzz, so refer to me this way" as self obsessed, but "hey, could you use they/them for me?" is all of a sudden narcissistic.

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega Год назад +44

    People will say pronouns don't matter until they get misgendered. So if someone misgenders me on purpose over and over again I'll do the same to them so they feel what it's like. Might crack some eggs in denial along the way. I do seem to slowly reach the stage where people feel silly for misgendering me, though, because my voice has dropped a lot already and a bit of peach fuzz has grown.

    • @wintergray1221
      @wintergray1221 Год назад +3

      Could I be non-binary if I don't care if someone misgenders me? I just blink and correct them. Or is that gender neutral? I'm still learning the terms.

    • @Itri_Vega
      @Itri_Vega Год назад +7

      @@wintergray1221 Only you can know what gender you are. Everyone is different, and not everyone experiences dysphoria (gender related discomfort at being perceived the wrong way or your body not matching your internal identity).

    • @noaccount2494
      @noaccount2494 Год назад +5

      @@wintergray1221 might want to learn the terms gender euphoria and gender apathy along with dysphoria. Because it really can help you figure out how you feel

    • @wintergray1221
      @wintergray1221 Год назад +3

      @@noaccount2494 Will do, thanks!

  • @beans7448
    @beans7448 Год назад +22

    8:24 the way she says it is basically "this celebrity is expressing themselves truly, so im going to express myself truly" and shes acting like thats a bad thing ??? like do we not want people to express themselves

  • @Pensive_Scarlet
    @Pensive_Scarlet Год назад +52

    Morgan has been "too high to comprehend spoken language" for so long that she looped back around to comprehending spoken language again.

  • @FIRXFLY
    @FIRXFLY Год назад +95

    you have so much patience to explain everything to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. i could never. i'd just scream at my screen if i were you

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  Год назад +55

      you should see me when i’m searching for content and writing the notes/scripts. i will just scream and then cat will appear or text me like “you good???” as i bash my head against my desk.

    • @jelliekitty
      @jelliekitty Год назад +25

      @@TheQueerKiwi lmao im so dumb i thought u meant an actual cat and i was way too confused on how a cat could text u 😭😭

    • @audreytwo
      @audreytwo Год назад +5

      @@jelliekitty Same.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +147

    Paul and Morgan are giving ‘Meghan Markle is a narcissist because her head is aligned in a way that signifies control’ Energy.

  • @rousselalex1070
    @rousselalex1070 Год назад +37

    I'm transmasc (a bit agender) and I've been considering using he/they instead of just he/him. I am kinda scared that no one will use them and that I will have to constantly explain stuff. Honestly seeing you casually use dual pronouns really made me feel a lot better about that. I think I will switch on the internet in my nice groups.

    • @ohshiditsgriff2793
      @ohshiditsgriff2793 Год назад +5

      Hi, he/they transmasc here! Can confirm that it is difficult sometimes to get people to use both, but people who love you and get you will put the effort in to use all your pronouns properly. It's not much more complicated to pick up than any other change to people's pronouns, so please don't be afraid to ask people who already know that you're trans! They'll get it 💕

    • @ShiftylittleDemon
      @ShiftylittleDemon Год назад +2

      I go by she/it/they
      And yea, depending on the people it can be hard. Hell, even I forget to use them for myself sometimes
      I do have a friend group that consistently switches between all three though, so I'm sure you'll find those kinds of people out there ^^

  • @thatcreepyfangirlstalkerch3572
    @thatcreepyfangirlstalkerch3572 Год назад +40

    People like Paul and Morgan just don't want to care about others tbh

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 Год назад +4

      Honestly, most of the time Idk if they even care about each other.

    • @woerm_luvr
      @woerm_luvr Год назад

      @@hawkeyescoffee6399 I'm 99.9% they don't ☠️ you can watch greenisnotnick's vid here: ruclips.net/video/zAbNHnOY7xw/видео.html and it's so evident to me that their relationship is awful, it's actually kind of sad

  • @sandracordova9376
    @sandracordova9376 Год назад +24

    Fun pronoun story! I work with kids and one of my kids is a little one who isn’t in school yet and his only interaction with other people is his brother. Thus he will refer to everyone as he. When he asks his mom “is he leaving?” Because our time is up, I genuinely don’t care, I go with it and say “bye my little friend”

  • @vipperblaze8923
    @vipperblaze8923 Год назад +27

    the same argument also extends to binary trans people (or even cis people for that matter)
    using they/them pronouns doesn't mean you're non-binary
    I'm a she/they binary trans girl
    there are many more like me

  • @polydactylblackcat2218
    @polydactylblackcat2218 Год назад +16

    The irony of Paul calling Demi "narcissistic" for exploring their pronouns when he and Morgan made an entire video about Demi's self exploration all about themselves 🤣🤣🤣

  • @oliviawilliams8418
    @oliviawilliams8418 Год назад +28

    Things I need people to know about the Bible’s intended messages about non-binary people:
    1. God created non-binary people before men and women. The first human in Genesis was an intersex, ungendered person, who was then separated into Adam and Eve. Hebrew is a gendered language, so because the term ‘person’ is masculine, translators took it to mean ‘man’. Also, Eve was most likely not created from Adam’s rib but his side, indicating they are equal halves of the same original being.
    2. God is described as a mother figure, father figure, or both simultaneously at various points. For some examples, they have been described as a birth-giver, a protector, and a mother bear (which combines the role of ‘mother’ with masculine-coded traits of strength and danger). Also, because Hebrew is gendered, God’s masculine pronouns may have been originally understood as gender-neutral.
    3. Rabbinic literature references tumtums several times, who are distinguished from men, women, and intersex people. Although they are not referenced in the Bible (as far as I know), they suggest that Israelite society had a social group for non-binary people at the time the Bible was written. If they were seen as unnatural or sinful, the Bible probably would have mentioned them as targets for condemnation.
    I’m not Christian, I just like studying ancient mythologies/religions, but I want Christian enbies to know that their gender is not contradictory to the Bible. I wish people like Paul and Morgan actually cared about analyzing religious texts in their original context, instead of mindlessly regurgitating the bias of older translations.

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      NO. GOD CREATED ONLY MALE AND FEMALE. THERE IS NO PROOF OF INTERSEX PEOPLE ON THE BIBLE AND HISTORIC RECORDS.

    • @duanewilkinson9739
      @duanewilkinson9739 Год назад +4

      Thank you for this , it’s so important to understand things like this …. Love how you say your not Christian yet you have more understanding of the Bible than Paul and Morgan !!!

    • @DayDreamingWriters
      @DayDreamingWriters Год назад +2

      Wow
      Thats cool to know that 😁

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад

      I have a hard time believing this when the Bible said that god created man, he was named Adam, if the Bible never mentioned Adam until after Eve was take from his rib I would be more inclined to believe this but it doesn’t. I would really appreciate a source if you’re going to say stuff like this.

    • @oliviawilliams8418
      @oliviawilliams8418 Год назад +1

      @@jasonpickles2576 Adam isn’t actually named in the Bible until after they leave Eden (in the original Hebrew at least). The name is derived from the word used for the first human, ‘adam (meaning ‘person’), but that doesn’t mean that Adam = ‘adam. My information comes from chapter 2 of Carol Meyer’s book, “Rediscovering Eve: Ancient Israelite Women in Context”, and I can provide sources for my other points if you want. Genesis can be interpreted differently because we can never know for certain what the original authors’ intentions were, but it’s important to know that this interpretation exists and has legit evidence behind it.

  • @thelittlestpika
    @thelittlestpika Год назад +26

    I love that Savannah uses both of Demi's pronouns throughout the video. It's so sweet and respectful.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +28

    I want to be “7 BOXES OF K-POP ALBUMS” level of iconic. Also, when are we not happy to hear a life update?

  • @chaoticneutralsheep
    @chaoticneutralsheep Год назад +17

    5:45 6:26 So Demi went from irrelevant and no one knows them after leaving Disney to a danger to the children with her huge platform. Paul and Morgan can't even set the narrative they want to push, how fluid of them.🤣

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +33

    Omg it’s so cool that you got to present a paper on Demi Lovato. That would’ve been considered frivolous in my school, which is best encapsulated in the words of Mariah Carey: “That sucks.”

  • @JhericFury
    @JhericFury Год назад +13

    I love the guy trying to say how they/them is confusing, saying an example of "Demi now says that they are-" and pausing because it's obvious in his own sentence that it made grammatical sense and wasn't weird

  • @shierpa6566
    @shierpa6566 Год назад +24

    Idk if this is true but it would be cool if Demi Lovato was a demigirl lol

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад +10

      I'm sorry, but I just imagined that someone named their child "Demi" and the child turned out to be a demiromantic, demisexual demigirl as if it was a prophecy 😂

    • @DayDreamingWriters
      @DayDreamingWriters Год назад +2

      @@noname-ur4gr Lol I actually have Character who is all three xD

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад

      @@DayDreamingWriters 🤣🤣🤣 tbh, I'm sure there are people who are also all three irl, soo 🤷🏻‍♀️ But is that character also called Demi?! 😆😂

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +36

    5 seconds in and I would like to say that you look absolutely fabulous. I want to be rainbow on rainbow at some point. Also, shoutout to the earrings!

  • @EnbyAxolotlOfficial
    @EnbyAxolotlOfficial Год назад +21

    I think Paul came out as gender fluid guys: Him saying he could totally become trans just by wearing dresses... Yeah it sounds like an excuse to come out lol (I'm not saying whether or not he is, but simply saying it's funny that he worded this like this because that's what it makes it sound like to people who actually understand the concept of gender)

    • @jasonpickles2576
      @jasonpickles2576 Год назад

      Once I finished reading the explanation of the joke I laughed so hard

    • @EnbyAxolotlOfficial
      @EnbyAxolotlOfficial Год назад

      @@jasonpickles2576 And You've got a kick ass name, Mr.Pickles. Genuinely? Love it.

  • @anironsidh
    @anironsidh Год назад +28

    I don't know if they're actually that dense or just pretending 🤣

    • @meantforlove
      @meantforlove Год назад +10

      @Ville you're under so many comments. say you're obsessed with kiwi and leave.

    • @noname-ur4gr
      @noname-ur4gr Год назад +4

      @@meantforlove not only with her, they're also obsessed with Summer Luk....

    • @elaexplorer
      @elaexplorer Год назад

      I don't know if I'd call it being dense but I believe they are literally unable to grasp it. They're completely surrounded by people who think like they do that they never heard dissenting opinions, so now that they do they can't understand them. Like their brains literally can't wrap around an idea outside of their belief system. Indoctrination, maybe?

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад

      They're antivaxx too, so I would be tempted to suggest they're straight up evil.

  • @fenderqueer
    @fenderqueer Год назад +9

    paul saying its narcissistic to use pronouns lol. If I talked to him and only referred to him with she/her pronouns he would correct me and be like hey stop and would feel disrespected. EVERYONE HAS PRONOUNS its just basic human decency to respect them.

    • @lemontree6683
      @lemontree6683 Год назад +1

      @Ville You just want to be referred to by your name? That's valid, dude! :D

    • @byronius7012
      @byronius7012 Год назад

      @Ville becoming agender to own the libs

    • @rookideetrainer1635
      @rookideetrainer1635 Год назад +1

      @@lemontree6683 *Ville just wants to be referred to by Ville's name XD /j (doubt the troll/bully you replied to knows that "you" is a pronoun, just not a gendered one lol)

  • @eduardoalexanderoliveirade9112
    @eduardoalexanderoliveirade9112 Год назад +17

    Wait until they discover that there are people who use any pronouns lol

  • @Azurejam
    @Azurejam Год назад +12

    It’s so brave of Paul and Morgan to put their idiocy onto the internet

  • @NotaArtist
    @NotaArtist Год назад +7

    Me:
    "hi i wanna be respected as a person"
    Christians :
    "YOUR SO SELF OBSESSED AND THATS SO CONFUSING NO"

    • @NotaArtist
      @NotaArtist Год назад +5

      @Ville for wanting - respect...?

    • @rookideetrainer1635
      @rookideetrainer1635 Год назад

      ​@@NotaArtist
      "obviously!"
      -people like Ville probably

  • @claratalbot7613
    @claratalbot7613 Год назад +10

    When I was younger. I did question my gender identity because I didn't feel like a girl only to realize that it was due to some of the people of my community trying to force me into a stereotypical box of wearing makeup, wearing really feminine clothes, & dating only guys. Once I embraced myself I realized I was perfectly happy being a bi woman who dresses in graphic tees, pants or short, & either tennis shoes or boots. And if I need to dress up a bit I'm more comfortable in a gothic style button shirt, pants, & boots then a dress & heels or flats. This is why we need to let people explore & find themselves rather then trying to force them into stereotypical gender roles so people do have to feel pressured to be something they're not

  • @rhuze9747
    @rhuze9747 Год назад +8

    These two really said "is Demi Lovato even relevant" as if I'd ever heard of them before now

  • @panjic9944
    @panjic9944 Год назад +5

    Oh dear pronouns. What a travesty… I will take your entire stock of pronouns

    • @panjic9944
      @panjic9944 Год назад

      I am going to explain the joke because I hate funny. I use all pronouns

  • @Sarah-ce5nx
    @Sarah-ce5nx Год назад +34

    k can we just appreciate her hair today tho??

    • @nest_avadavat
      @nest_avadavat Год назад +8

      Absolutely, it rocks

    • @nest_avadavat
      @nest_avadavat Год назад +11

      @Ville somebody is bitter waaaa waaa, move on and watch something youd enjoy

    • @livelaughsol7066
      @livelaughsol7066 Год назад

      @Ville you know damn well calling someones hair disgusting is rude. stfu. btw, you are entitled to your own opinions, but you arent entitled to share them.

    • @nest_avadavat
      @nest_avadavat Год назад +13

      @Ville you’re absolutely entilted to your own opinion! That doesn’t mean you gotta spread it around like some foul plague. If you dont like her hair thats a you problem because its stunning, but whatever.
      I dont see why you feel the need to bring age into this but it’s probably because you yourself are immature, and it shows with the way you’re calling someone’s appearance disgusting and then getting all butthurt when someone tells you to move on and go watch something else if you obviously aren’t here to enjoy her content, lol

    • @meantforlove
      @meantforlove Год назад +12

      @Ville you were being mean, you can be honest AND mean. if you don't have anything nice to say keep it to yourself. learn to work through your own insecurities before projecting onto other people.

  • @idiomasentusiasticos7954
    @idiomasentusiasticos7954 Год назад +10

    Morgan is a she. Paul is a he. And not everybody needs to be! They/them just completes the “we”.
    Just because Paul and Morgan are the perfect cisgender heteronormative couple does not mean that everybody else can’t exist. Us as human beings are complex and have different brains and emotions that vary not just by person, but by day, week, month and year. If somebody wants to use multiple sets of pronouns, what’s the issue? Is it physically harming you? Is it spanking your child or burning your mother alive?
    No?? Then shut up.

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      THERE ARE ONLY 2 GENDERS. IT IS NOT OKAY FOR PEOPLE OTHER THAN CISGENDERS TO EXIST SINCE THEY WILL TELL CHILDREN THAT IT IS OKAY TO BE AN ANIMAL OR WHATEVER.
      I IDENTIFY AS AN ATTACK HELICOPTER LOL

  • @laurawillis1542
    @laurawillis1542 Год назад +4

    I find it amusing that he uses a "biblical mandate" as a reason to not respect people's pronouns. The bible also says that tattoos are bad (Leviticus 19:28), yet his wife has tattoos?

  • @lumnisvoid
    @lumnisvoid Год назад +7

    Paul really said pronouns are too hard after dropping flabbergasted in the previous sentence

    • @viviennelee2215
      @viviennelee2215 Год назад +2

      He learned a new vocabulary word that week

  • @khyrachism401
    @khyrachism401 Год назад +8

    I think it’s important to note that people use they/them pronouns when talking about one person like all the time. ESPECIALLY if you don’t know what gender the person is when they’re brought up (for example: my friend has a significant other, and they are about to have a birthday) like. Guys it’s only confusing because you aren’t using your big boi brains

  • @ItsGlennAgain
    @ItsGlennAgain Год назад +10

    I’ve been using they/them pronouns for 2 years now and really guys it’s not that hard at all

    • @hlynurelli
      @hlynurelli Год назад +6

      @Ville Literally nobody asked

    • @rookideetrainer1635
      @rookideetrainer1635 Год назад

      @Ville clearly they are not, so like... No, you're just so obviously wrong and probably should just stop drinking water permanently

    • @DayDreamingWriters
      @DayDreamingWriters Год назад

      @@hlynurelli Do not talk with them.
      Just report and move on.

  • @SadBlueGirl
    @SadBlueGirl Год назад +9

    They seem like the type of people who say “smashed avocado” instead of Guacamole lmao

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +13

    I remember watching Demi Lovato in their Disney Channel Era. You cannot tell me ‘Camp Rock’ and ‘Sonny with a Chance’ are not iconic.

  • @puraidoeustass
    @puraidoeustass Год назад +13

    Good for Demi if she found out more about herself! (I'm now going to listen to their songs, you've intrigued me. I'm not really up to date with Demi.)
    I don't get it. Native English speakers can't tell me, pronouns are hard to understand. That was one of the easier things while learning English.
    Those two would be so shocked if they saw my life. I've switched quite a lot.
    from female with she/her to momentarily wishing to be male (I'm not trans, but for a few months when I came into the queer community, I thought I might be, because I just didn't want to be female) and going by he/him. To identifying as non-binary with they/them and then identifying as agender with they/them. And I recently updated it again, any pronoun is fine with me!
    I really wish to be both, with both sets of genitals and all. But I guess I need more money to make this happen. Maybe one day I get the missing piece. Until then, I'm simply neither.
    I kinda collected all the A's for me.
    Atheist
    Agender
    Any Pronouns
    Aego Aro Ace
    I like it.

    • @ace.of.space.
      @ace.of.space. Год назад +3

      you've got even more A's than me! love that for you. I've got atheist, aro, ace, and agender!

    • @puraidoeustass
      @puraidoeustass Год назад

      @@ace.of.space. Haha nice!

    • @gabbys4258
      @gabbys4258 Год назад

      I also have all those! And my name starts with A, as well

  • @user-bx4fc2tz9s
    @user-bx4fc2tz9s Год назад +6

    i will never understand how these type of people expect lgbtq+ people to just “find god” like there aren’t religious people in the community and if they aren’t, they probably grew up in a religious household and didn’t feel welcome in that religion anymore because they couldn’t be who they are. like ,,, all we ask is to be respected and they act like we’re asking them to chew off their own toes. it’s not that hard. i have religious trauma and i can still respect christianity.

    • @audreytwo
      @audreytwo Год назад

      @Ville sounds like projection. are you okay?

  • @kimcarter129
    @kimcarter129 Год назад +3

    I have news for him, during the 80’s and 90’s, rock bands wore nail polish and had long hair. Some wore makeup. The ones in the US, anyway. They were not trans. No one cared, heck , there fans did too.

  • @robyns5977
    @robyns5977 Год назад +6

    I have a feeling Paul slept through English class more than once.

  • @luxshine
    @luxshine Год назад +3

    Grammatically, They/them is both plural and singular. They have been used in both ways since BEFORE the plural You. I always find it puzzling when people have NO issue with you being both plural and singular without confusion, but They/them is somehow a line too far despite books like the BIBLE using singular They.

  • @kadde7307
    @kadde7307 Год назад +7

    I love how you ramble about stuff you're passionate about because I'm just like that myself❤

  • @jenniferbelveal4331
    @jenniferbelveal4331 Год назад +3

    Morgan: Demi who? Lol is she even relivant?
    Morgan a few seconds later: She's so dangerous because of her huge influence!
    Pick one, lady; also, influencing people to respect each other with the bare minimum- grammar- is soooo scary, you guys, these two are shooketh!

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      DEMI LOVATO IS A FLOP AND YOU PEOPLE ARE A DISEASE

  • @Beto_Serrano
    @Beto_Serrano Год назад +4

    I love how the far-right type call us "snowflakes" yet they melt down at pronouns, short 1-4 words xD

  • @skylerlove7273
    @skylerlove7273 Год назад +3

    paul & morgan: *attacks demi*
    me: 😠😤
    paul & morgan: *attacks halsey*
    me: 😡🤬

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  Год назад +1

      they mentioned halsey and my eyes flashed red. had to take deep breaths and try to keep it composed.

  • @ArdenRachelArt
    @ArdenRachelArt Год назад +4

    I'm a femme nonbinary woman who exclusively uses she/her pronouns. That doesn't make me any less nonbinary. It's about how I feel on the inside!

    • @ArdenRachelArt
      @ArdenRachelArt Год назад +1

      I'm glad I've successfully tricked you into thinking I'm a woman. Thank you for helping to affirm my gender.

  • @WillyWONT
    @WillyWONT Год назад +4

    Christian here! We're sorry for the stupid part of our fandom. God loves everyone, plus he gave you gender so you might as well fuck around with it, have fun, love and forgive, take care. Good night

    • @kat9866
      @kat9866 Год назад +2

      something about christianity being called a fandom is so incredibly funny to me and i cannot explain it

  • @LunaWitcherArt
    @LunaWitcherArt Год назад +5

    Everytime I'm reminded Morgan exists, I just want to pray for her. She was so amazing and then FREAKING NARCISSIST PAUL came into her life and dimmed her light to mold her into who he wanted her to be.

  • @spaceartiste2496
    @spaceartiste2496 Год назад +2

    These two must refer to multiple people in second person as "yous", because "you" is for a single person, and clearly a pronoun cannot be both singular and plural

  • @eighmii
    @eighmii Год назад +3

    I feel like the ‘celebrity’ part is also relevant for the gay community. I’m old (relatively speaking - I’m 33) and I’m currently a married fem lesbian, and my wife looks like Justin Bieber and will sometimes go by they/them but predominantly just uses she/her with people who’ve known her longterm. Anyway to make a long story short, I knew I was attracted to girls but I’d never seen a lesbian who looked like me and had been rejected by a lesbian crush who thought I was just attention-seeking which caused me to regress. HOWEVER, when I saw the show ‘South of Nowhere’ (which aired after Degrassi in its earlier seasons) and saw fem lesbians, it made me REALIZE I was gay. It didn’t MAKE ME gay. I finally saw myself represented in the media and finally understood myself. I was 16 years old - that’s when you’re supposed to be figuring stuff like that out. I never ‘de-gayed’ - clearly - as I’m now married to a woman and have been for 7 years. So no, it didn’t brainwash my poor young brain, it HELPED me realize I wasn’t weird because I liked girls yet still loved makeup and high heels and long hairstyles and dresses and fake eyelashes etc etc etc.
    Sorry, it’s 7am and I haven’t been to bed yet and I could’ve worded this better but I’m falling asleep as I type and I couldn’t lay down without trying to get my thoughts out about this subject. Paul and Morgan are in no position to be ‘educating’ anyone about gender or sexuality and can have several seats and get over their weird obsession with the LGBTQ+ community, especially as our lives don’t affect them at all, whatsoever.

  • @jongkittae
    @jongkittae Год назад +2

    this is very much beside the point but whatever you can say about demi as a person, they are SO FUCKING TALENTED holy shit dude, I'm forever in awe of their vocals

  • @caitlin228
    @caitlin228 Год назад +4

    I find it so funny that Paul rants about how weird it'd be for him to present feminine while his wife (?) presents more masculine than he does

  • @sandracraft517
    @sandracraft517 Год назад +2

    Something Paul said pinpointed the "talking past each other spot" for me. He was going on about how, if he wore pigtails and dresses, etc, he'd eventually become trans, which I think he honestly believes since it explains a lot. I wouldn't be surprised if it was common for people frightened by pronouns to believe that actions create feelings, vs. people OK with pronouns believing that feelings create actions. It's no wonder we can argue for hours without ever grasping the others' point.

  • @raylynne5280
    @raylynne5280 Год назад +3

    To anyone who's been hurt by the church/religion or just needs to hear it, God loves you! If you don't believe I absolutely respect that but if you've pushed away your faith because of the hate spread by some "Christians", just know love and truth are everything and as long as you're honest with yourself and God and live your life with love, you're doing it right!

    • @duanewilkinson9739
      @duanewilkinson9739 Год назад +1

      Love your post Ray because it’s so true, God loves us no matter what pronouns we use …
      And especially thank you for making the point about ‘other Christians’ hurting people… I was hurt by people like that but always knew God loved me …

    • @Cheesecake_666
      @Cheesecake_666 Год назад

      Hail Satan, sweetie.
      Go stink up somewhere else with your cult stuff.

  • @yuuriahl
    @yuuriahl Год назад +2

    My youngest sibling came out as non-binary and its confusing using they/them
    not because of the pronouns
    because I've known them for 15 years under completely different pronouns and still use them out of habit sometimes
    (They dont care when its a messup cause its not intentional and they get that its rough as their older brother)

  • @Bishook
    @Bishook Год назад +5

    i can safely say i wasn’t expecting them to actually use the word ‘flabbergasted’

  • @BahamutEx
    @BahamutEx Год назад +2

    I'm not a native speaker and even I can understand and easily use the single they/them. I don't get what's supposed to be so hard or confusing about it. I also wish my native language (german) would have an option like that for all of those who don't identify with the binary.

  • @ferninthehouse
    @ferninthehouse Год назад +3

    Nah I blame RUclips algorithm for you not getting as many views, I think your videos are great and I think all of us agree

  • @lilyroseheart
    @lilyroseheart Год назад +2

    "You could put on dresses and paint your nails, but you don't want to do that"
    You know, from the way he was talking about it it kinda sounds like he DOES want to do that.

  • @Mooskym
    @Mooskym Год назад +6

    Non-binary people who speak only English likely don't know how lucky they are... I live in a country whose main language has no gender-neutral terms such as pronouns, verbs and numbers (yes, in some languages EVEN NUMBERS have different spelling and pronunciation depending on the sex of the subject!). I came out as non-binary over two years ago, but I still have to speak and be spoken of as male (unless I'm speaking English). I have a close friend who's also NB, and ey decided to introduce emselves as someone of the opposite sex, because ey noticed that results in about half the people talking to em with male terms and the other half in female terms, so it evens out. Meanwhile in English I can write the previous sentence about my friend without giving any indication of what biological sex ey was born with!

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      BECAUSE THERE ARE ONLY 2 GENDERS. STOP CREATING UNNECCESSARY PROBLEMS FOR PEOPLE AND YOURSELF OFF THIS IMAGINARY GENDER THING!!

    • @TrollDecker
      @TrollDecker Год назад

      ☹️

    • @condorlegion231
      @condorlegion231 Год назад

      @@TrollDecker yea be sad because your mom birthed you

    • @oculttheexegaming2509
      @oculttheexegaming2509 Год назад +1

      Tell me about it. In my language, there are no neutral third person pronouns. The neutral grammatical gender is only reserved for objects and in Romanian (my mother tongue), it goes likes this: "un creion" (we use the masculine form when we refer to a single object of neutral gender, in this case "a pencil") - "două creioane" (we use the feminine form when we refer to more than one object of neutral gender, in this case "two pencils").

  • @T0ya
    @T0ya Год назад +2

    Was anyone else amused that this couple was arguing that "Demi's pronouns must be she/her because she's a woman", but Paul then called Demi an actor not an actress...

  • @RatsPicklesandMusic
    @RatsPicklesandMusic Год назад +3

    I decided to adopt she/they pronouns because I (AFAB) feel very fluid on the feminine to masculine spectrum. I also feel mostly just human than anything else. I consider myself to be a librawoman (meaning mostly agender but partially woman) as a microlabel but broadly speaking I'm just genderqueer. 🥰

  • @ajaxwillis3962
    @ajaxwillis3962 Год назад +2

    Vera Wylde is genderfluid. She uses she/they. I don't get why people are so confused about this.

  • @harleyvancouver1831
    @harleyvancouver1831 Год назад +4

    THOU FAIR QUEER KIWI. I MUST SAY THAT YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY DROP DEAD GORGEOUS TODAY AND YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOURSELF. (Also, please make sure that you are drinking water and eating some good food! Stay safe

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Год назад +6

    12:05 It’s ‘androgyny’.

  • @icchasaki
    @icchasaki Год назад +3

    14:14 SOMEONE SAID IT. YES. This is one of the biggest things I struggle with as a writer. Which drives me insane, bc it’s such a small detail, but it can completely derail a sentence/paragraph SO FRICKEN’ EASILY. AAACK.
    I actually tend to use characters w multiple pronouns to my advantage here by using smth different to whatever other character they’re sharing the spotlight with. E.g. If one goes by he/him and another goes by any, I’ll use more she/they and when around a they/them I’ll emphasize the he/her, etc. Makes life so much easier.

  • @warlocket5326
    @warlocket5326 Год назад +5

    “I dOn’T hAvE pRoNoUns”
    BRUH EVERYONE DOES GET OVER IT

    • @Noxinq
      @Noxinq Год назад

      Omg… HE USED I!! HE USE PRONOUND! OMG!!!

  • @nelos_cii
    @nelos_cii Год назад +4

    “I’ve never questioned my gender”
    You lucky duck :’j
    Omg, the whole time I watched this, listening to paul and morgan pained me
    Also, if you don’t mind me asking, where’s the wolf plush in the back from?
    Wow I crammed like three comments into one