I had an ex years ago that provided me with the four P's. I truly believe that he and I could have stood the test of time. But we were young in our early 20's. It was a six year relationship. But we didn't know how to handle our problems properly. As a result he did bad things that I couldn't forgive. It's to bad because if things went differently we would still be together. However, the truth is I could count on him more than anyone I knew. including most of my family. One of the things I'll never forget about him. Is he NEVER made me feel like any other women was better than me. I felt so confident with him, that even if we were out and women openly flirted with him. Which was often! I didn't even get jealous and would let them do it. ha I would just smile at them because I knew it wasn't going no where. It truly make ALL the difference in the world when "your man" makes YOU number one!=)
I LOVE this Iyanla! It's about time a woman speaks up about the "old school" ways women love to be treated. You spoke the truth, and left me all excited! 😀. Thank you love!
OMG Mother Queen... In agreement with Lala and NNicole I truly appreciate and love you for being YOU and for being REAL. The four P's is right on point!!
Yolanda Williams This woman took my hand when I was in complete darkness. She took the first step to recovery with me 3yrs ago and she didn't even know it. she is a beautiful part in the making of this new woman I am today. The mother I lost I found in her and she didn't even know about. 💅👄💋💗💖💕
Killing a relationship is "living together", especially for women that ends up asking too much, acting like a mother for trying to educate and change him etc. Nowadays we don't need papers or live together to validate this love.
lol I'm so tickled because I'm at the Home Depot often and it will never be the same. Another great video. I've been single for at least 6 years but this confirms my views.
I so appreciate your openness regarding relationships... the 4 P'S are crucial... I thank God for you and opening my eyes and confirmation that Love conquer ALL...
Thank you so much for this video, you are truly my soul sister, I watch everything you do, read every book and you helped me loved myself and respect myself thank you Queen Iyanla
All the way from little Holland......! 😊 I really like what you are doing. I see your passion and feel your soul mission. Thank you for being your true self and helping others to become so as well. It is also my soul mission in Holland and you do inspire me. Thanks. With love ❤️
I don't understand it either,things will flow so smoothly most of the time if the man keeps these things in mind....but most times it's the way they were raised...
HAPPY NEW YEAR AGAIN. NEW BEGINNING. I can't wait to get the information to order the product. I will come get it if you want, I need a road trip. I don't need fixing, I'm so fixed I scare me. "TAKIN NO TEA FOR THE FEVER".
👏 Incredible incredible, the four P's I like. And the Home Depot part lol I'm guilty smh great personality you have I'm cracking up will continue to watch New Sub here !!!.. Great talk 💚💜💛
Hello lyanla, Can you do a video about dealing with a world that doesn't appreciate black women, and to deal with the fact that we have a low marriage rate?
karama justice Hi my dear, i found the Video so great that i asked my husband to see it with me. it was the opportuinity for me to tell him indirectly what i want and expecte of him. he was so positiv suprise. :-)
karama justice Yes indeed. Watch, share, discuss with your significant other. Then watch the companion video... Stepping up your "A" game. Covers all the A's to keep him happy as well...Providing that you are with the RIGHT partner. It is still true... you can't fit a square into a circle. If it don't fit, you must acquit! (Shout out to the late, great Mr. Cochran!)😃😃😃😃
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You're my soul mother on earth! I love you and thank you for being you!
I feel the Same way! Happy New Year to you!!!
Lala Alin Ditto 💖.
Thriller
I WISH I'd found you sooner! I discovered your channel by accident this morning and I've been hooked for hours!
You were cracking me up talking about Home Depot 😂
sashsweets lmao ikr she's jus too much .... lol
Jerleah Koerts girl I was in my kitchen listening it again and burst out laughing everytime. isn't her laugh equally as funny too? 😂😂
Hell yeah it sure is lol
Me too, I was giggling lol
Hahahaha! I was laughing so hard my son kept asking me what is going on? 😂🤣
Whose watching in January 2020. So happy I came across this video. Boy, do I feel empowered.
2020!
Dec 27, 2020!
January 2021! Whats good
Watching in 2021🤣🤣🤣
@@kate1143 me too. Nov 2021
I TOTALLY AGREE...THE FOUR P'S IS RIGHT ON POINT
I had an ex years ago that provided me with the four P's. I truly believe that he and I could have stood the test of time. But we were young in our early 20's. It was a six year relationship. But we didn't know how to handle our problems properly. As a result he did bad things that I couldn't forgive. It's to bad because if things went differently we would still be together.
However, the truth is I could count on him more than anyone I knew. including most of my family. One of the things I'll never forget about him. Is he NEVER made me feel like any other women was better than me. I felt so confident with him, that even if we were out and women openly flirted with him. Which was often! I didn't even get jealous and would let them do it. ha I would just smile at them because I knew it wasn't going no where. It truly make ALL the difference in the world when "your man" makes YOU number one!=)
True
What happened if you don't mind me asking?
Provider
Protector
Pleaser
Performer..... Yessssss,lord where is he... I love it Iyanla 😉
Do you know what the equivalent is for a woman? I may not be far enough in the video but I’ve heard her mention it before
I LOVE this Iyanla! It's about time a woman speaks up about the "old school" ways women love to be treated. You spoke the truth, and left me all excited! 😀. Thank you love!
One day, i will come to USA only to see you ! I live in Paris. I love you so much ! Yours advises, your book help me alway in my life !
This video needs to be protected for ever, for present and future generations! This is crucial information for every man to know and understand!!!
Iyanla you put a smile on my face just listening and watching you no matter the topic or my mood. Thank you for your presence.
Can't wait for the "What a man Wants" video!
WOW Mama!!! Break it down with the wisdom of the elders!!! Still works for me lol Thank you!!!
Gold...pure gold! Modern times or not. All women want these things. Blessings and light to you my favorite teacher
I’m still here in 2021. I love to rewatch most of Iyanla videos. You will learn something new every time. Thank you so much, love you Iyanla. ♥️🌹
OMG Mother Queen... In agreement with Lala and NNicole I truly appreciate and love you for being YOU and for being REAL. The four P's is right on point!!
Yolanda Williams This woman took my hand when I was in complete darkness. She took the first step to recovery with me 3yrs ago and she didn't even know it. she is a beautiful part in the making of this new woman I am today. The mother I lost I found in her and she didn't even know about. 💅👄💋💗💖💕
Killing a relationship is "living together", especially for women that ends up asking too much, acting like a mother for trying to educate and change him etc. Nowadays we don't need papers or live together to validate this love.
lol I'm so tickled because I'm at the Home Depot often and it will never be the same. Another great video. I've been single for at least 6 years but this confirms my views.
Amen!!! Preach!! This is so true!!!
Still here in 2021..this man learning
I so appreciate your openness regarding relationships... the 4 P'S are crucial... I thank God for you and opening my eyes and confirmation that Love conquer ALL...
thank you iyanla.happy new years.god im so grateful for your love and wisdom .
I love you. Thank you so much for your help.
Happy new year and all the best wishes for you, dear Iyanla!
Greetings from Germany, Cristina
I love this woman!
All I have to say, at 53, is Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Ms. Iyanla!
U R SPOT ON!!!!THANK YOU!!!
As always Iyanla you're so insightful
i love you iyanla and all people
please keep these coming...I shared with a friend and she said these msgs were life changing!
Thank you so much for this video, you are truly my soul sister, I watch everything you do, read every book and you helped me loved myself and respect myself
thank you Queen Iyanla
hit every single point
thank you! Love the Home Depot story! Also MJB!
It's so relevant to me Iyanla and am of this generation. You just gave all time secrets and truths🙏
11:55-12:01 😂 I’m dying
Yessss, i luv this. you are sooo on point. Thank you. i luv it. this is sooo exciting to hear, thanks for your help.
Thank you so much for this video Mrs Vanzant... I needed to hear this.
talk that talk wow we need this thank u
100% correct for me.
😂😂 I just love you Iyanla! this is all so true
A man that knows how to lighten my load, bring peace and stability and be my rock of Gibraltar chile he’s the one. #whatshesaidinthevideo
All the way from little Holland......! 😊 I really like what you are doing. I see your passion and feel your soul mission. Thank you for being your true self and helping others to become so as well. It is also my soul mission in Holland and you do inspire me. Thanks. With love ❤️
Thank you Ms. Iyanla! This tickled me.😊 I'm single, and I'm going shopping at Home Depot.😄😉
Mama Iyanla is cray! lol Home Depot!!!!
Everything she says is truth!!!!
Yeaaaaas! That she is number 1️⃣
This is the very reason. Why I walk away from my relationship...tired of the neglect..
totally awesome "Queen mother" always my inspiration....Love you!
I think the information you have just shared with me will help my relationship a lot. Thank you.
Thank you Iyanla!
Thank you so much for all these work OMG.
I absolutely love this video! Iylana you are AMAZING!!! Thanks for sharing! Many blessings!
I'm on that path today new year my 26 yrs. Anniversary don't get it going be left behind!!!
Yes! Right on the money Ms. Iyanla!
I love you and your energy
I was laughing through the whole video with her examples but she's right on point with what a woman wants.
That "Home Depot Orange" colored blouse looks great on you by the way. Preach Queen!💯💯💯💯
omg love this! and the "what men want" video. watching these with my partner for sure! x
Awesome!!!
Miss Iyanla, I wish all men would see this. I will be offering this very true, important message to my future partner.
I'm heading to Home Depot!
"That's why Home Depot is so successful" AMEN sister, i love you, laughs and wisdom :)
Good wisdom for men. You go girl.
Fiddling in his "man purse" ...my giggle for the day!
Why men just refuse to get this! It's not hard.
I don't understand it either,things will flow so smoothly most of the time if the man keeps these things in mind....but most times it's the way they were raised...
HAPPY NEW YEAR AGAIN.
NEW BEGINNING. I can't wait to get the information to order the product. I will come get it if you want, I need a road trip.
I don't need fixing, I'm so fixed I scare me. "TAKIN NO TEA FOR THE FEVER".
we thank you for this video. and for your great great advices...
Omg I love her perform section lol I almost died haha she keeps it real 😂😂
Yes! On point ☝️ on point!
Thank you soo much for this article. Really informative as well as entertaining. I love you Iyanla.
Iyanla I love you so much! Your Home Depot mess is hilarious! I love my Manly Man!
When he puts on that tool belt 😂😂😂
Guess I need to go to Home Depot LOL.. Awesome Video!!!
Yesssss Iyanla!!!👏👏👏
Omg! I love this video! Go to Home Depot and peep a look - yassssss Ms. Iyanla!
Ha Haaaa! I think I need to go to Home Depot!
Amen! Some men are so clueless..... Thank you!
👏 Incredible incredible, the four P's I like. And the Home Depot part lol I'm guilty smh great personality you have I'm cracking up will continue to watch New Sub here !!!.. Great talk 💚💜💛
I love you Iyanla ! 💚😘
So true
Hello lyanla,
Can you do a video about dealing with a world that doesn't appreciate black women, and to deal with the fact that we have a low marriage rate?
he is not emotionally supportive thats why im feeling like letting him go .....
Genevieve Vickers I know the feeling and it hurts a lot I cry when my husband don’t listen to my inner feelings it hurts so bad
I'm not sure if I should send this to my man or just stroll around Home Depot !?
karama justice Hi my dear, i found the Video so great that i asked my husband to see it with me. it was the opportuinity for me to tell him indirectly what i want and expecte of him. he was so positiv suprise. :-)
I agree sit down with your significant other and let him listen to the video...brilliant!
karama justice Yes indeed. Watch, share, discuss with your significant other. Then watch the companion video... Stepping up your "A" game. Covers all the A's to keep him happy as well...Providing that you are with the RIGHT partner. It is still true... you can't fit a square into a circle. If it don't fit, you must acquit! (Shout out to the late, great Mr. Cochran!)😃😃😃😃
love your comment! Also I always say "you can't fit a square in a circle". Let's learn these lessons and do better!
4 P’s! ❤️ Provide Protect Perform Please
i love you iyanla
Bravo. Blessings my friend. xoxo
Haven't watched all of these... but this is My FAV 1 so far.
But i thought we weren't supposed 2 boste about our relationship 2 out friends...
I know that's right Mother Iyanla...I approve this message...lol & @11:58 really tickled me! #GoodStuff
so funny , this was quite informative though, thank you
Thank you
God bless you ma
Love this
Amen, sister!
Girl ... I am headed to Home Depot Right Damn Now!!!!!!!! 💯
lol. home Depot. too funny
PREACH!!! 👏🏼
I love this 😍😍😍
Thannnnnnnnnnk Youuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes....
I love this ❤❤❤❤
Thank you. Will you ever put the spirit of a man on audible?
....and the four reasons I'm single lol 😁