LIFETIME RELATIONSHIPS - The R Spot Episode 1

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Iyanla Vanzant's - The R Spot - episode 1 -
    LIFETIME RELATIONSHIPS ~ You are related to by bloodline --
    Parents, Grandparents, Siblings and their offspring.
    Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, etc.
    People with whom you “create” other people. When you co-parent a child you have created a lifetime relationship.

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  • @dovetales3
    @dovetales3 8 лет назад +47

    OUR LOVE HAS CONDITIONS! We have to learn to love people for who they are and not who we want them to be.

  • @MsLadyP-nf9zt
    @MsLadyP-nf9zt 7 лет назад +11

    I tend to feel inspired when I listen to her.

  • @AmillionRays
    @AmillionRays 8 лет назад +44

    omg.... this message touched my soul. Lord knows Im the queen of holding grudges.

  • @BestHBCU
    @BestHBCU 8 лет назад +48

    I've been meditating about relationships for a long time, now. Yesterday, I received a clear understanding about relationship goals. (The goal of a relationship is to share experiences with mutual appreciation. Everything that happens is the journey to reaching that goal.) That is what I understood yesterday. I am also keeping in mind that the journey is not the destination. We may never reach the destination so it is the journey that makes things worth while.
    Iyanla, thank you for doing this series. It is an answer to prayers. Peace, Light, Love, and Blessings.

    • @Chasiraw
      @Chasiraw 7 лет назад

      Pamela Hamilton yaaaasss sister! Preach! and yes to meditation.

    • @BestHBCU
      @BestHBCU 7 лет назад

      Thank You and Be Blessed.

  • @MsLadyP-nf9zt
    @MsLadyP-nf9zt 7 лет назад +23

    I need Iyanla in my life. I need to just sit with her.

    • @aliciawesley1663
      @aliciawesley1663 5 лет назад

      i love it

    • @jojogolding8892
      @jojogolding8892 4 года назад

      Right at this moment I need her..

    • @labell5689
      @labell5689 4 года назад +1

      i would feel bless if I could sit with her. She has a 6 week course but its 200.00. i wish

    • @madonnar8424
      @madonnar8424 4 года назад +1

      La Bell where can we apply for this

  • @strethy
    @strethy 7 лет назад +19

    13:15 - we see them as the people they have always been but expect them to see us for who we are now! This just struck me, it is so true for my life

  • @aztecshaytwitch4224
    @aztecshaytwitch4224 8 лет назад +6

    Thank you! Spot on. I expect others to see change in me while I keep them in the same positions by judgment.

  • @ladytee3249
    @ladytee3249 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Iyanla! I'm dealing with a sister/niece issue and I appreciate this very much. I forgive myself for believing that this should not be the way. I forgive myself for every unloving, unkind word or thought I had about them. I AM FORGIVEN!

  • @onekatodd7480
    @onekatodd7480 5 лет назад +2

    The R spot. I enjoyed this episode 1 of lifetime relationships. I am needing this for my marriage. I wrote down my forgiveness for myself for believing that things should be different from the way they are. Forgiveness and acceptance, I am embracing those words. Sometimes I just don't know if I should let go. But this was very powerful, GOD knows I want to do what I should do. Praying for discernment to know when God is speaking to me!! Thank you again for this lesson Ms. Iyanla

  • @eubuda
    @eubuda 8 лет назад +3

    Iyanla, you've saved my soul here and there in the past couple of years. Thank you those moments. May you enjoy and benefit from all your efforts towards contributing to our lives.

  • @MsOba11
    @MsOba11 8 лет назад +2

    Love the theme song!!! Love u, Iyanla & all ur wisdom & knowledge!! TEACH!!

  • @1sava
    @1sava 8 лет назад +9

    Oh my goodness, you are back mama Iyanla! Soooooo happy! I really missed you uploading here! Welcome back mama! Love you sooooo much! Hugs!

  • @MaliakaBryceTV
    @MaliakaBryceTV 7 лет назад +2

    IYANLAAAAAA!!! IM SCREAMING... THANK YOUUU right now. You're saving my life. Thank you sister. I love you!

  • @surbhisanklecha1764
    @surbhisanklecha1764 8 лет назад +9

    U ARE A BEAUTIFUL HEALER. LOVE YOU FOR SO PRODUCTIVE VIDEO.
    THANK YOU IYANLA

  • @LINDISIMAHeredia
    @LINDISIMAHeredia 8 лет назад +1

    MAN, that is a HARD pill to swallow! You always know what to say, Iyanla! I am so thankful for you! 🙏🏽

  • @RioroseAsh
    @RioroseAsh 8 лет назад +3

    Excellent message!! Looking forward to more videos! Going to watch this again

  • @danar6950
    @danar6950 8 лет назад +4

    Loving this series. Please keep them coming.

  • @lydee0981
    @lydee0981 8 лет назад +2

    I really need this today. it helped me accept one of my principle lifetime relationships decision without judgment or expectation.I feel so much lighter. I am glad to learn these lessons through this challenge.I am grateful

  • @winnie122271
    @winnie122271 7 лет назад +2

    I need to watch this one daily! I struggle here and I am having several lifetime relationships that are breaking down...

  • @makeupbycandy1018
    @makeupbycandy1018 8 лет назад +1

    This was so right on time!!! Thanks so much .... I just had a big falling out with my daughter yesterday....

  • @1980LeaMarie
    @1980LeaMarie 8 лет назад +8

    I just love her and her wisdom. Greetings from Germany 😘 🙌🏻

  • @Maryam7580
    @Maryam7580 6 лет назад +1

    She went through so many openings - that’s so funny. I love it

  • @azucarmorena5000
    @azucarmorena5000 8 лет назад +1

    You should put these in a playlist so that when we miss we can watch them back to back

  • @brioche8123
    @brioche8123 8 лет назад +6

    I give them a chance to be different and they slide back into their old ways. I feel like she doesn't even deserve a place in my life.

  • @dorcasidowu6027
    @dorcasidowu6027 5 лет назад +1

    WOW!!!! You Betta Say it Miss V!!! CHANGED MY LIFE IN SECONDS💯💯💯

  • @galelynsullivan3802
    @galelynsullivan3802 8 лет назад +3

    Thank you Iyanla Vanzant for sharing your gifts.

  • @Meoli55
    @Meoli55 8 лет назад +5

    Thank you Iyanla for your work and sharing of your wisdom, thank you for making it available to us here. I am very grateful to you and for you.

  • @eye2eye33
    @eye2eye33 7 лет назад +4

    This was so uplifting. Thank you.

  • @mdiga515
    @mdiga515 8 лет назад +4

    love these videos. keep the good info coming.

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP7100 6 лет назад +2

    I love "acts of faith"
    I understand so much better.
    Love you. I hope to send you a praise report one day

  • @lynnettebond
    @lynnettebond 8 лет назад

    Look at the Process of Life in motion! I literally just prayed and asked God for confirmation to reach out to a "lifer." After finishing "TRUST" last night I subscribed to Inner Visions and today while preparing to listen to "Breakdown to the Breakthrough" I found your YourTube channel. Thank you for this word, it provided clarity!

  • @misspitters2766
    @misspitters2766 8 лет назад +4

    Thank you for this series, I'am listening!!

  • @minaciabattoni2065
    @minaciabattoni2065 8 лет назад +7

    💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗Thank you beautiful lady!

  • @mantronixtube
    @mantronixtube 8 лет назад +2

    thank you for this channel. how exciting and generous of you! :)

  • @Unikadanceevents
    @Unikadanceevents 7 лет назад +2

    love this! love you Iyanla - the new theme song - its a NO! lol still LOVE you and LOVE your content xxxxxxxxxxx

  • @Vdz33
    @Vdz33 7 лет назад +3

    Iyanla you are a blessing. Thanks for your message.

  • @993sps
    @993sps 8 лет назад +1

    what a great video! Thank you, Iyanla. :)

  • @29mathclass
    @29mathclass 8 лет назад +2

    I need more from Iyanla! lol Thanks a lot

  • @marivelramos4640
    @marivelramos4640 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Iyanla. That was on time and on target!!♥

  • @evodiaketsise601
    @evodiaketsise601 6 лет назад +1

    You are such a blessing.Thank you so much❤

  • @BAP4FMTSU
    @BAP4FMTSU 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much this is confirmation of what I need to fix and grow in myself

  • @Meoli55
    @Meoli55 8 лет назад +1

    OMG, Iyanla, I wanted to ask you the exact same thing, I am sooo amazed that this message came through for me in perfect timing!

  • @RiahjaysReality
    @RiahjaysReality 8 лет назад +5

    I had to come back. W my ears wide open yan yan #Loveyoubeloved 💕💕

  • @NeleKirsipuu
    @NeleKirsipuu 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you Iyanla! 🙏

  • @buzzwaffle
    @buzzwaffle 8 лет назад +2

    Wow: I finally understand forgiveness as you explain it. I was already onto acceptance, but could not understand forgiveness till now. Thank You - no wonder OWN gave you an opportunity to have a show!

  • @minafanelli8931
    @minafanelli8931 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you sweet and lovely lady, as always🌈🌺

  • @btheobsous4619
    @btheobsous4619 8 лет назад +1

    Iyanla God bless u. U speak to my soul. My spiritual teacher from distance. Great Video. keep up the good work -God's Work"

  • @sihleboqwana8306
    @sihleboqwana8306 3 года назад

    Powerful!!

  • @tishaslade5711
    @tishaslade5711 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @jujubee90275
    @jujubee90275 7 лет назад +4

    she is a great teacher!!?.❤👍

  • @GlennKramer
    @GlennKramer 3 года назад

    Excellent...First time watching 👌

  • @dolsydabs
    @dolsydabs 7 лет назад +1

    Very enlightening... Thanks a lot...

  • @shaz1121
    @shaz1121 8 лет назад +1

    Great message!!

  • @Divinelites1
    @Divinelites1 8 лет назад +6

    Your message came with perfect timing!!!! Namaste....Iris

  • @belindakae724
    @belindakae724 8 лет назад +2

    awesome truths 🙏 thank you

  • @evodiaketsise601
    @evodiaketsise601 6 лет назад +1

    You are such a blessing to the world❤

  • @reflectionprojection
    @reflectionprojection 8 лет назад +3

    Excellent- I like the song
    Pertinent- I am having massive lifetime relationship issues
    Sorry to hear about your sisters passing

  • @AngelWarrior_1
    @AngelWarrior_1 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you my Spiritual Mother Iyanla. I know this is for me! I emailed you and this definitely answers my questions. I'm going through my process of healing and you mam have definitely been a blessing 😘

    • @wyzeguyz44
      @wyzeguyz44 7 лет назад

      Hi Teisha, whatever you are going through I know "forgiving" is somewhere in your healing process. To learn more please visit us at www.fabslife.com

  • @mars1783
    @mars1783 3 года назад

    Thank you!!! I've kept in my mind what Iyanla said years ago, on Oprah, to listen with Love n speak with Love... I don't accomplish that all the time, haha... but, I am working towards that goal. Sending ether hugs to the families n friends experiencing strife!!! I also, feel some of my friends have distanced themselves from me lately n it hurts, but I understand. Thanks Iyanla n readers 4 being my example of excellence. God Bless

  • @rosemariepowell-williams8680
    @rosemariepowell-williams8680 4 года назад

    Enlightening

  • @ginsweet6042
    @ginsweet6042 8 лет назад

    I am so grateful and thankful that the answers I seek show up and come to me.. Thank you Ms. Iyanla Vanzant for allowing The Light to shine in and through you; thereby bringing us closer to our higher abundant selves.

  • @chloec8531
    @chloec8531 4 года назад

    Just found your channel and im so thankful i need this thank you jesus

  • @soulfullanguage5435
    @soulfullanguage5435 8 лет назад +1

    Amazing insight.... thank you.. brilliant... thank you... great for me... and great message to spread healing onto the universe ... I am so grateful for you on so many levels..

  • @madiselbeato9806
    @madiselbeato9806 3 года назад

    THANK YOU SOO MUCH. YOU ARE A LOVING SOUL. GOD BLESS YOU

  • @vincenttennell
    @vincenttennell 8 лет назад +78

    Theme song got to go

  • @Prissilla
    @Prissilla 5 лет назад +1

    woooow i love you!!

  • @talking.to.my.selfie.
    @talking.to.my.selfie. 4 года назад

    Reason, Season, Lifetime. Got it. Currently loving my sister from a distance.

  • @wandalipscomb-lee736
    @wandalipscomb-lee736 7 лет назад +1

    I thank you Iyanla Im working on myself and this is a great tool for Selffull healing At The Appointed time Confirmation

  • @cmontgomery0339
    @cmontgomery0339 7 лет назад

    An Eye Opener Thanks Iyanla

  • @madonnar8424
    @madonnar8424 4 года назад

    Madonna from Toronto Canada I have been following you and bought your books your amazing women and you have helped me in my life so much, thank you for you being you.

  • @Hebrewsista
    @Hebrewsista 5 лет назад +1

    Very good advice! 10/3/19

  • @Miztammik
    @Miztammik 8 лет назад +1

    im not holding a grudge, well i dont think i am anymore. At the end of the day ive chose to keep my distance with no hate in my heart. if she wants to reach out to me then ill communicate but im not doing it first. our dad doesnt even care,just keeps us all seperate.

  • @ayandandzobongo1
    @ayandandzobongo1 8 лет назад

    So happy to see this

  • @aefofie
    @aefofie 8 лет назад

    Thank you Miss Iyanla

  • @tsovka
    @tsovka 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you! Just in time! :-*

  • @thecocoachanels4414
    @thecocoachanels4414 5 лет назад

    So healing.

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 5 лет назад +2

    Omg!! My exact problem is with my SISTER she hit it right on the head.

  • @JDKelleherMusic
    @JDKelleherMusic 3 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @an-g6919
    @an-g6919 7 лет назад

    Hello with positive energies, to all. Although some of the advice given on this episode, is insightful, it doesn't apply to all life-long relationships. I do have much respect for Ms. Iyanla Vanzant & I'll continue to listen to her teachings.

    • @truthspeaker5834
      @truthspeaker5834 7 лет назад

      AN- G You begin your rant with positive energies but make a negative comment about Sister Iyanla not commenting on post and not having a focused discussion. Actually, the R spot is commenting on questions individuals write in to her. I believe to her address. Maybe you should post a video and give us the correct information instead of criticizing and critiquing. Sister Iyanla was nice enough to do a You- tube page that I am enjoying so please don't piss her off with your negative comments. You did say you respected her and you continue to listen. Now do just that... Listen
      RESPECT

  • @fatimagabriel7120
    @fatimagabriel7120 4 года назад

    I have learnt so many things about relationship here

  • @sharenward3478
    @sharenward3478 23 дня назад

    Keep it real

  • @sarahw6231
    @sarahw6231 8 лет назад +2

    Mrs. Iyanla, I NEED YOUR HELP....PLEASE!

  • @deepalin2481
    @deepalin2481 8 лет назад

    She is the best

  • @elemintefordyce3955
    @elemintefordyce3955 8 лет назад

    love it

  • @Niemanntv
    @Niemanntv 8 лет назад +6

    Why is it so hard to forgive one's self?

    • @wyzeguyz44
      @wyzeguyz44 7 лет назад

      Not going to sugar coat anything Nichole, forgiving is probably the most difficult act one must do. Honestly forgiving a person regardless of what they have done is really not for "them per say" but for you. Forgiving frees you from the jail cell you've been guarding. To learn more visit us at www.fabslife.com

  • @frenchydude00
    @frenchydude00 8 лет назад +11

    What on earth is that intro ? Your show deserves something much better.

    • @moirosalina
      @moirosalina 8 лет назад +2

      It's different in her next video :)

  • @ilovecindy8261
    @ilovecindy8261 7 лет назад

    Hi This Was a very good episode I'm working so hard on excepting others as they are and being excepted as I am, Allowing others without living in judgement.. Forgiveness always come into play.. I've had Iyanla Forgiveness Ecorse for SERVERAL months and still haven't stared it yet.. I'm not sure why I'm in Fear.....I'm a work in progress

  • @gregniceify368
    @gregniceify368 4 года назад

    me and my sister wasn't alway on the same page, and tell money change. us when kids came along, we had to do thing in spite of our differences. to keep our family together. we don't talk as much as we you too. the brownies are ready. can anybody can spare a little change of some milk, is that really what it is.

  • @aliciawesley1663
    @aliciawesley1663 5 лет назад

    do you feel this way? i always watch this one.

  • @LoChennai7
    @LoChennai7 5 месяцев назад

    Amen❤

  • @Shesirie
    @Shesirie 8 лет назад +2

    Love this but I don't know how to forgive and leave it there

    • @kimberleyalexa3116
      @kimberleyalexa3116 8 лет назад +1

      then u need to work on forgiving yourself...

    • @lidumama23
      @lidumama23 7 лет назад +3

      Shushana Bella I don't either! I cut my sister and mother off more than a yr ago.

  • @geoffsoper596
    @geoffsoper596 5 лет назад

    You're awesome and great! You're way better than Oprah! Said from New Zealand. My names Naomi not Geoff, just using my Broz phone because my screen is broken. You're a real life living Angel\Enlightened One. Nice to meet you.

  • @phenomenal_woman
    @phenomenal_woman 8 лет назад +3

    I tried to send a question to the gmail at the end of the show and got an automatic response about some kind of closed registration. Can we still ask questions?

  • @n.e.1inc920
    @n.e.1inc920 Год назад

    💜

  • @diamantidioro
    @diamantidioro 7 лет назад

    merci.

  • @albaisthebest
    @albaisthebest 4 года назад

    ❤️

  • @GigiU.
    @GigiU. 4 года назад

    💓👏👏👏👏👏

  • @trfrierson
    @trfrierson 8 лет назад +9

    i love and adore my brother. I just don't like him right now lol.

    • @sheilapoole8209
      @sheilapoole8209 8 лет назад +1

      What would happen if you suddenly got a call that your brother had died? How would you feel?

    • @fayetaylor1998
      @fayetaylor1998 7 лет назад +5

      Yeah, I use to feel that way about my youngest brother for a long time. The boy has issues! But I had to get to a place where I didn't allow his actions to hurt me anymore. I knew I would always love him. However, I decided to deal with him on "my terms" and not his anymore! Once he saw that I refused to deal with his shenanigans anymore he started to deal with me differently. There was a time when I use to blow off his disrespectful ways because he was my little brother. Then the time came when I had to let him know who big sis was! ha And I'm happier for it. There are still ups and downs with us but it's better than it was. But the most important thing is I realize now that what he does is "about him" and NOT me.

    • @sheilapoole8209
      @sheilapoole8209 7 лет назад

      Good inisight, Faye! Having strong boundaries is important.

    • @fayetaylor1998
      @fayetaylor1998 7 лет назад

      Thank you Sheila! :)

    • @wyzeguyz44
      @wyzeguyz44 7 лет назад

      Hi Faye sounds like you and I have sibling commonalities join the movement of "Forgiveness" and watch how your life increases at www.fabslife.com

  • @serenityhorsecoaching9709
    @serenityhorsecoaching9709 Год назад

    I hear you...but what about in the case of a child not talking to a parent because of parental alienation by the other parent?

  • @shebamooncat9162
    @shebamooncat9162 8 лет назад

    YES!!!!!!!