MY FIRST SOLO VAN LIFE ROAD TRIP (emotional)

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  • Опубликовано: 28 май 2024
  • My first ever solo trip in the van was quite the rollercoaster!!!
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    Episode 801 | Nashville, TN to Dallas, TX | Filmed Nov. 10, 2021
    For those who are curious about sizing, below are the sizes of each outfit!
    White matching set: both size small
    Grey matching set: both size small
    Velvet pleated skirt: size 2
    White sweater: Size x-small (but could have done a small)
    Nate's sweater: Size medium
    Green Jacket: Medium
    Sweatpants: Small
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    0:00 Lonely mornings
    1:39 Why Nate and I are separated
    3:49 unexpected problem number 1…😫
    5:14 Winter fashion show😍
    6:44 FINALLY my solo van trip begins
    8:25 Why I never plan our travels
    11:05 problem number 2…I am a mess
    16:18 My first rap session
    20:36 what I eat when I’m alone
    21:24 Nightly routine in the van
    23:16 Making my OWN coffee WHAT🤯
    26:54 Why Nate and I don’t have kids
    27:15 back at BUCEE’S!
    29:13 FINALLY made it to Dallas!👶🏻
    #solofemaletravel
    Originally from Nashville, Tennessee, we got married June 2013 and quickly caught the #travel bug! We started “travel hacking” & finally decided we wanted to go travel for one year. After 2 years of saving $ and over 2 million miles and points, we sold our cars and apartment and left home January 10, 2016. We started this #travelvlog to share our experiences with friends and family, then decided we really liked vlogging and traveling, and we didn’t want to stop after just one year! After achieving our new goal of 100 countries and then all 7 continents (check out our documentary here: • 100th COUNTRY DOCUMENTARY , we had no plans to slow down, until 2020 decided to force us to ;) which is when we bought a converted Sprinter van to start exploring our own country for the first time. #Vanlife was a major adjustment and so different than flying every week like we were used to, but we are incredibly thankful to be able to continue doing something we love every day. 😊🎥🌎

Комментарии • 3,8 тыс.

  • @prestonmayton2214
    @prestonmayton2214 2 года назад +4474

    Hi Kara! So cool you stopped in Arlington. I live in Memphis and you stopped at my dad’s shop. Rusty is my dad! He called me after you came in and asked if I knew who you were and I said Yes, I follow them! Im so glad they were able to help you and get you back on the road so quickly so you can see that sweet baby! Safe travels!

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +1582

      Rusty is your dad?!?!? Wow! So crazy! I think he knew how much it meant to me based on my tears…but be sure to tell him thank you again for me. He did not have to do that but it was a beautiful reminder that one random act of kindness can have such a big impact on someone! I paid it forward and hope it encourages others to do the same!! 🥰❤️

    • @karinross66
      @karinross66 2 года назад +147

      What a small world! That's awesome.

    • @caseyoleary2212
      @caseyoleary2212 2 года назад +140

      Dang it...just when I stopped crying and then I read this....awesome!!

    • @wicketwick-oi1jg
      @wicketwick-oi1jg 2 года назад +76

      Kara & Nate should start a trend “Pay it Forward”

    • @gabewest9359
      @gabewest9359 2 года назад +22

      That's awesome

  • @stephxtravel
    @stephxtravel 2 года назад +764

    Dads really know there daughters, I love how he was like “here’s what you gotta do, don’t cry”

    • @alexstanley1185
      @alexstanley1185 2 года назад +4

      My dad is the exact same way

    • @sherrita80548
      @sherrita80548 2 года назад +1

      @@alexstanley1185 my daddy was like that 2 lol

    • @karenlockhart790
      @karenlockhart790 2 года назад +5

      My Dad is definitely not like that, he would just give me a lecture. Needless to say I don't call him for help.

    • @imjayhime
      @imjayhime 11 месяцев назад +1

      *their

  • @eamonandbec
    @eamonandbec 2 года назад +685

    Aweeeeee the combination of humans in this video is tooooo heart warming!!! The tire shop 😭 Peggy 😭 and HANK 😭!! Also, what does it say about me that I couldn’t guess any of your lip sync battle songs?!? Thank goodness you didn’t mute your raps. That was a little treat I didn’t know I needed today 😉. Love ya Kar Bear xx

    • @shaguftaperveen2920
      @shaguftaperveen2920 2 года назад +1

      Od

    • @GameGuy21312
      @GameGuy21312 2 года назад +1

      @@shaguftaperveen2920 od = From in Spanish

    • @charlottewhite6450
      @charlottewhite6450 2 года назад +5

      Hey its not about this video but I've seen your recent videos and may I just say that hearing you have cancer can be life crushing but you two have taken it in your stride so know you are my inspiration 💖💖💖💖💖

    • @kevineley5030
      @kevineley5030 Год назад

      @@charlottewhite6450 My name is charlotte Eley and I'm on my dad's account!,!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!THANK GOODNESS FOR ALL OF OF WANT YOU 😍

    • @unico_unifan
      @unico_unifan 10 месяцев назад

      Hi guys i like your videos❤

  • @Taylor.Wiseman
    @Taylor.Wiseman 2 года назад +278

    THIS is the news we need to see! A wonderful auto shop helping a young woman with her car, a women calling to check on a solo driver, an honor system store- what a wonderful world we live in

  • @nicolevanmeter9890
    @nicolevanmeter9890 2 года назад +748

    I live in Arlington and Rusty has taken care of our cars for years. Many times he hasn't charged us for small jobs. The staff is amazing!!

    • @kj2183
      @kj2183 2 года назад +7

      God bless Rusty

    • @dolphinluver
      @dolphinluver 2 года назад +1

      Yes!

    • @brandonlaceybruff503
      @brandonlaceybruff503 2 года назад +33

      My mom lives in Cordova extremely close and I live in North MS. Guess when we need any tire work we are going to go see Rusty. I would much rather give my money to honest and kind people.

    • @nicolevanmeter9890
      @nicolevanmeter9890 2 года назад +3

      @@brandonlaceybruff503 it's worth the drive!

  • @kathleenp7641
    @kathleenp7641 2 года назад +1114

    Love how Kara's Dad has asked if she wanted to cry at least 3 times in this video. He is truly so precious

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +156

      Hahahaha I think I have a problem 😭

    • @kathleenp7641
      @kathleenp7641 2 года назад +9

      @@KaraandNate love the singing tho 10/10 when’s the Christmas album dropping 👀

    • @SriRaamajayam
      @SriRaamajayam 2 года назад +23

      @@KaraandNate no you don't...it shows you are a loving caring emotional person...that is great:) shows you are human:)

    • @ashleyjohnson220
      @ashleyjohnson220 2 года назад +18

      @@KaraandNate I think you have such a tender heart and your dad gets you!!

    • @DoroHiro
      @DoroHiro 2 года назад +4

      Yes! I love love love the dad!

  • @vjjhbyhy
    @vjjhbyhy 2 года назад +89

    Kara crying about kindness was so wholesome and so funny. Your Pisces is showing Kara!

  • @ellenbrootcoorens3476
    @ellenbrootcoorens3476 2 года назад +114

    The world needs more Rusty's and Peggy's! The love you feel when you and your father are talking to each-other is so big. You can hear his love for you when you are crying. Baby Hank is adorable ♡ Congratualations to your sister and her husband and your family.

  • @Clarksavannah
    @Clarksavannah 2 года назад +670

    I’ve never related to anything more than Kara’s dad being like “okay here’s what we gotta do. Don’t cry.” Literally ME.

    • @kytrvlnurse
      @kytrvlnurse 2 года назад +6

      This is me with my dad and I’ve not lived at home for 15 + years. 🥰

    • @lb3659
      @lb3659 2 года назад +9

      Me too! I’ve been fixing my own car, changing my brakes and tires and oil for years but I still call him. I have to tell him I can pay for it myself I just need dad cheerleading. I still cry when things happen to my car because it had been such a source of financial issues in my youth. My dad always makes me feel better.

    • @itsamyyy91
      @itsamyyy91 2 года назад +7

      Gotta appreciate he give her a pre-warning 🥰😂

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +67

      Hahahaha he knows me well…he told me not to cry because he thought we were going to have to wait until 9 to go back to the shop and get it figured out. I had been anxiously waiting for 4 days and the thought of delaying the trip any longer he knew would send me off 😭 but then he remembered the pump in his car 🙌🏻

    • @Roperx1010
      @Roperx1010 2 года назад +4

      Me too. I miss my daddy!

  • @shreyagupta648
    @shreyagupta648 2 года назад +295

    Kara's conversation with her dad while she was crying is hands down the MOST heartwarming thing I've seen in so long. You're so so precious, Kara!

  • @charlimarieTV
    @charlimarieTV 2 года назад +483

    “I’m not against it, but right now I’m not FOR it” perfectly sums up how I feel about having kids too! We have the option, and can live fulfilling fantastic lives without them 🙌

    • @patrickmckinley9937
      @patrickmckinley9937 2 года назад +2

      Hi 👋 friend, can I talk to you for a moment?

    • @Matty06001
      @Matty06001 Год назад

      Oh, goodness, yes. I’m a Mom and grandmother….and, oh, yeees you can.

  • @alexisjohnson4810
    @alexisjohnson4810 2 года назад +395

    “Kara, here’s what we gotta do, now don’t cry”
    -Daddy
    It’s been so fun seeing you and Nate out exploring alone. ❤️ proud of you friends!

  • @BeckiandChris
    @BeckiandChris 2 года назад +2166

    Just cried my way through this whole video. Kara, you and your dad are so sweet, and then the tire people?! AND PEGGY 😭😭😭 hope you had an amazing time with your fam!

    • @ericalomio3349
      @ericalomio3349 2 года назад +1

      Hi Hi guys have ppy great birthday

    • @anabeladelgado4109
      @anabeladelgado4109 2 года назад +2

      Me too!!

    • @miriamyahushua
      @miriamyahushua 2 года назад +4

      The way of no planning and let God plan for you, always the best result

    • @shallyine986
      @shallyine986 2 года назад +2

      ❤️

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +86

      Hahaha it was an emotional rollercoaster wasn’t it!! Rusty and a Peggy are gold 😭💛 it was totally worth the journey to spend so much time with that sweet babe!!!! Thank y’all for watching 🥰❤️

  • @laurenlynn6214
    @laurenlynn6214 2 года назад +262

    Aww Kara started crying when the guy fixing her tire didn’t let her pay! That’s more then generous! Love you guys

    • @Diana-kk6qz
      @Diana-kk6qz 2 года назад +2

      Might be real but most RUclipsrs are fake about the whole crying gratitude thing.. they have tons of money and don’t care about anything (not Kara and Nate but other RUclipsrs )

    • @Meganmaggiemay
      @Meganmaggiemay 2 года назад +2

      Our son works here, and they are the most amazing group of people. Our whole town is pretty awesome and I love it here, because of our neighbors.

  • @A38540
    @A38540 2 года назад +7

    The first thing she was singing was “I wish nothing but the best for youuuuuuuu tooooo” (someone like you- Adele)

  • @LizzyGiggles
    @LizzyGiggles Год назад +21

    I am so proud of you for speaking truthfully about not being sure you want to have kids. Every time a woman is brave enough to say that out loud, especially a woman with a big platform, it's one more step away from people seeing women as baby making machines and being horrified if we decide having children isn't the right thing for us or the potential child. Not every woman wants to be a mother, not every woman can be a mother, not every woman should be a mother, and it's about time people stopped judging us for having freedom of choice just because we are women.

  • @elaineeggert7054
    @elaineeggert7054 2 года назад +60

    When your dad said, “Here’s what we gotta do, don’t cry” I felt that

  • @LizS817
    @LizS817 2 года назад +266

    I love that even in our 30s our Daddys have always got our backs when we need help on the side of the road haha. ❤❤

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +22

      PTL🙌🏻

    • @todd4335
      @todd4335 2 года назад +10

      We're dads thats our job.

    • @lzcrazyzl6443
      @lzcrazyzl6443 2 года назад +3

      @@todd4335 two thumbs up for the dads like you, thanks!!

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro 2 года назад

      Yesssss 😭🤦🏼‍♀️ or when you just need to call & complain, my dads the best though hands down. Sorry ladies 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 my dads handicap & has been handicap since a accident & what makes my dad different than yours is he’s only got one 🦵 leg… enough said 🤪💁🏼‍♀️

    • @todd4335
      @todd4335 2 года назад

      @@HughMadBro my dad is missing his left leg and has been wheel chair bound since they did his hip replacement a few years ago.

  • @lollymac2259
    @lollymac2259 Год назад +16

    Your interactions with you dad brought tears to my eyes. I’m a 50yr old daddy’s “girl”. My dad has been gone for 12 years & I still miss him every single day of life. Love your videos & as much as I enjoy the adventures, the interactions between friends and family keep me watching. 💕

  • @petra3498
    @petra3498 Год назад +24

    girl, i know i'm a year behind 🤣🤣🤣 but watching you doing your solo tour entertainment vlog was absolutely refreshing. and you did a fantastic job and met so many nice and kind people... because you deserve it with your positive attitude. keep on rockin' ✌️🫶

  • @chantelhistand6153
    @chantelhistand6153 2 года назад +49

    Kara's dad🥺
    The tire shop guy🥺
    Peggy🥺
    And Hank🥺
    Loved seeing so many beautiful and kind people in this world! 🌎And the video overall was just wholesome🥰

  • @carolehirsch7315
    @carolehirsch7315 2 года назад +146

    Kara “the plan is . . . I don’t really have a plan!” I love everything Kara says and this is hilarious and spontaneous and honest. Love that she explains it for over a minute after!

    • @georgiafremon6293
      @georgiafremon6293 2 года назад

      Make this Kara’s motto and “how hard can it be” Nate’s forever 🤣

  • @kayleybaker5971
    @kayleybaker5971 2 года назад +47

    I LOVE the way you and Nate gain your southern accent right back when you go home its so special to hear just like the old videos

  • @tamtam681
    @tamtam681 4 месяца назад +1

    i love that Kara’s accent comes out when she talks to people, it’s adorbs. and the way she cried when Rusty wouldn’t let her pay, she’s such an beautifully kind soul

  • @xkristixx
    @xkristixx 2 года назад +160

    Kara crying about them not letting her pay exceeds my "wholesome content" meter today. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @colonelquakers
    @colonelquakers 2 года назад +307

    who knew a 30 minute vlog of someone road tripping alone could be so entertaining!! I loved this. Great job Kara!! You are so full of life and it's inspiring! ALSO congratulations to your sister and family!!!!

  • @kingingit
    @kingingit 2 года назад +174

    Aww Kara!! Such a beautiful vlog, we were smiling so hard at the end of it. You make us laugh 😂Hank is a BEAUTY! And well done for spending the night alone, i know how scary it can be when you've done every other night with Nate! Trooper ❤️🙌🏻

  • @piplup10203854
    @piplup10203854 2 года назад +14

    Peggy is a sweetheart!! She called just to check in on you! Look at that kind of kindness, I love it!! See that is the kind of people that make a difference in the world.

  • @yellowteapot
    @yellowteapot 2 года назад +112

    Awww, I already cried when your Dad came to pump up your front tyre. I love how ready he is just to be there for you! So, so sweet!

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +21

      He’s always first in line to help ❤️

    • @lzcrazyzl6443
      @lzcrazyzl6443 2 года назад +2

      @@KaraandNate i wish. My dad is a narssist. No fun and ALWAYS a total drag nightmare to be around. I now try to avoid him at all costs
      Really is sad. Appreciate every moment, you are so blessed.

  • @brittcarroll9317
    @brittcarroll9317 2 года назад +209

    Awwww Kara he’s adorable!! And as a child free 35 year old woman I admire your decision to possibly not have children it makes those of us who are having the same conversations feel so validated!!

    • @TheWestlandgirl
      @TheWestlandgirl 2 года назад +23

      Do what your instincts say and not societal norms say.

    • @anni9666
      @anni9666 2 года назад +2

      @@TheWestlandgirl 💯💯💯

    • @julijulessworld21
      @julijulessworld21 2 года назад +2

      Same here Britt, God Bless.

    • @oddmad8613
      @oddmad8613 2 года назад +8

      Same, I'm 30 and really not sure if I want to have kids

    • @kaylaf
      @kaylaf 2 года назад +1

      🙌🙌🙌

  • @sabrinaadbrecords
    @sabrinaadbrecords 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE how your dad was like pls don’t cry 😂😂😂😂

  • @dancinqueen5000
    @dancinqueen5000 2 года назад +1

    When your dad said .. "ok don't cry, but" ... I FELT THAT. Anything to do with the car, good or bad, makes me cry too! I get it!

  • @ninamarie177
    @ninamarie177 2 года назад +75

    Peggy seems like the fairy godmother every solo traveler needs ❤️

  • @checkth3vibe
    @checkth3vibe 2 года назад +181

    It's a VERY mature realization to recognize having children isn't everyone's destiny. That's awesome that Kara and Nate are weighing that option very seriously.

  • @candacejackson5044
    @candacejackson5044 2 года назад +11

    The modeling of the clothes, acting in place of Nate was hilarious. Congrats on your cute nephew. You guys would be awesome parents but love you no matter what your decision is.

  • @jdmason7426
    @jdmason7426 2 года назад +8

    How much do we love Kara's dad?! I can't recall if Kara has brother(s) but LOVE how he handles (potential) tears in reaction to anything. Good man, but we knew that...

  • @eloisebacon5556
    @eloisebacon5556 2 года назад +159

    It’s so cool to hear Kara’s southern accent come through a little stronger after spending some time at home. ❤️

  • @demcduff
    @demcduff 2 года назад +367

    Doing something on your own is so empowering. Way to go, Kara!

  • @sherriclearlake1611
    @sherriclearlake1611 2 года назад +1

    Aunties who don't have their own children are the best in my book! I grew up with a couple and so did my children. Throughout all phases of life they have just been the best support and friends!

  • @Avacodogurl
    @Avacodogurl Год назад +1

    When Kara had Hank in her arms it looked so sweet and lovely

  • @kregerk11
    @kregerk11 2 года назад +131

    I love Kara and Nate together but I also love being able to see their personalities outside of their relationship. I can't watch this until after work so my Mom and I can watch together but I'm soo excited for this one!

  • @rachell4912
    @rachell4912 2 года назад +44

    Kara, my husband and I were in the same boat as you. There was not a question that we were having kids when we first met. As time went on, with going back to school, long term travel and career changes, having kids became less of a priority. In the end we have decided we will not be having kids. People are always shocked when I tell them this as I love kids and I am good with kids (I have been told). I have many nieces and nephews that fill up my heart up and that is good enough for me!

    • @pchaynes
      @pchaynes 2 года назад +6

      There's absolutely nothing wrong with loving children yet choosing not to have your own. I am childless by choice and I have never regretted it. It's a decision only Kara and Nate can make. Together.

  • @cynthiakitchenhomeandlife1497
    @cynthiakitchenhomeandlife1497 2 года назад +1

    Peggy made me cry...sweetest women ever

  • @linnea9017
    @linnea9017 2 года назад +32

    This was THE vlog of them all. All of them! Kara you are so heartwarming, thankful and cheerful. You made me smile and laugh at the same time. It was also so awesome seeing you on your own doing you and all the planning and doing finally after so many years. Please more of these. I am going to smile the rest of the day for sure. Congratulations also of course.

  • @WhenAdventureKnox
    @WhenAdventureKnox 2 года назад +26

    28:05 "If I accidentally got pregnant tomorrow... well, Nate's in Greece so that would be weird" 🤣🤣🤣 Dying over here!!!

  • @Rsturtz94
    @Rsturtz94 2 года назад +166

    Just wanted to say, that I had 2 separate flights today to visit family. Because of you guys, I brought a box of chocolates to both flights, and the flight attendants were ecstatic. Thank you guys for giving the advice and letting me make someone's day! Don't ever change, I watch your videos religiously and hope to travel one day to even half the places that you guys have been!

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +14

      YES 💯💛💝🍫 doesn’t it feel so good?! I love seeing their reaction 🥰 a thanks for sharing!!

    • @Rsturtz94
      @Rsturtz94 2 года назад +3

      @@TheShauNanigans I found a box of Russell Stovers assortment chocolates, and I figured the crew could just share them

  • @richermorin
    @richermorin 2 года назад +5

    Kara, its beautiful to see you being by yourself, strong and having a great time... like Nate!

  • @jessicalane9557
    @jessicalane9557 2 года назад +19

    I was having a really bad day until this video, and it’s so nice to see others spreading positivity and light! I love your uploads more than anything but this one was truly special!! Rusty and Peggy’s kindness really put a smile on my face❤️❤️

  • @biancabrateanu2983
    @biancabrateanu2983 2 года назад +195

    I've never realised this as you're always together in your vlogs, but Kara is definitely the funny one 😂 I have laughed more than usual at this episode

    • @rebeccawambua3759
      @rebeccawambua3759 2 года назад +5

      😂😂😂 same here, lol. 🥰🥰 She made my Wednesday. ,🥰.

  • @lindsaystudebaker1727
    @lindsaystudebaker1727 2 года назад +98

    Just had my first baby at 36 after YEARS of not knowing if I wanted a baby. The only thing I can say is that I have absolutely no regrets about taking my time and traveling the world first. Also, I’m glad I was a solid yes before deciding to become a parent because this is the most challenging phase of life I’ve ever gone through. That being true I have zero regrets. Long story short take your time and wait until it’s a solid yes for you and Nate. If you never get there that’s cool too! Not everyone needs to parent. Nieces and nephews are magic. Congrats to you and your sister 🥰

    • @billstephens396
      @billstephens396 2 года назад +4

      Wait until teenagehood... I was thinking, "Why you little entitled &%$#@... I could drop kick you for complaining about the internet not being fast enough when I had to go to the library to read actual books for school!"
      Then I call up my parents and apologize for complaining that they wouldn't drive me to the library when I had a perfectly good bike...

    • @bekahsbigtinylife
      @bekahsbigtinylife 2 года назад

      This comment is everything!!

  • @joannemcmillan9201
    @joannemcmillan9201 2 года назад

    When I was young I ended every new accomplishment with, “I DID IT!” I really enjoy watching you guys experience life’s journey.

  • @markloko
    @markloko 2 года назад +2

    16:15 THE GREAT RAP OF KARA AND NATE! OMG IT STUCK IN MY HEAD!!!!!

  • @theMennoniteMom
    @theMennoniteMom 2 года назад +50

    I love how Kara just naturally slips into her southern accent when talking to locals 😀

  • @courtneysstafford
    @courtneysstafford 2 года назад +134

    Kara, I can just imagine you saying "they're not going to want to watch me drive across the country after you just climbed a whole mountain in Africa" but literally YOU MAKE THE VIDEOS. Nate does too, and you have your magic together, but YOU are so wonderful and entertaining and such a good storyteller that I think we'd all watch you do anything!

  • @lorddairo
    @lorddairo 2 года назад +1

    Kara why do you make me cryyyy? I love you ❤️ and it’s so amazing seeing good people in the world, plus as a new driver myself, I totally admire you completing that trip.

  • @amandalamothe8631
    @amandalamothe8631 2 года назад +1

    You are just the sweetest person Kara ❤️ That’s why you attract amazing people! How sweet was the tire guy and Peggy? You did so good on this road trip by yourself. Love your singing by the way!

  • @lydiarae9398
    @lydiarae9398 2 года назад +55

    I went to check out Arlington automotive and the amount of love and 5 star reviews that are there from this video is amazing and truly heart warming!

  • @lisapengilly3877
    @lisapengilly3877 2 года назад +100

    Man I have never laughed so hard until I watched Kara try to dress and act like Nate for the J.crew portion. I think she nailed it. LOL and then I cried so hard that that sweet man would not take Karas money for her tire. Then there was Peggy who just had to check up on Kara. There are so many nice people out there. Sending all the best wishes to your sister and her precious family.

  • @Karissa100
    @Karissa100 2 года назад +8

    Kara girl your energy in this video made my energy change so much & now I'm just happy & in a great freaking mood before I have to go to work! This really proves over people's vibes can touch others & make them feel better 😌 loved seeing you do a solo trip & bless that sweet man who didn't let you pay🧡🧡🧡

  • @KimberleyAbeln
    @KimberleyAbeln 2 года назад +4

    What an amazing vlog Kara! It’s so cool seeing you on this solo trip with all your doubts but accomplishing everything necessary to make it a success! You are such an inspiration! 🙏❤️

  • @sarahstead7922
    @sarahstead7922 2 года назад +22

    Kara, I validate your thoughts and feelings for whether to have a baby or not. I was certain that we would change our minds when we turned 30 and then again at 35 but… the older I got, the more I saw my friends struggle with their kids, money, relationships… and I had be strong in my decision that not having a baby was the right choice despite pressure from society. Hold strong and listen to your gut! I have had a life of freedom, independence, travel, love and not regretting not having a baby at all. I’m now 45. You will know what’s right for you!

  • @nethujasrirankan7030
    @nethujasrirankan7030 2 года назад

    You can tell how much love radiates off Kate and Nate through their relationship from a simple phone talk. Love ur videos and I love this vlog! Continue to film like this!

  • @MartinAndersenDane
    @MartinAndersenDane 2 года назад

    Kara being so positive and warm hearted towards everybody, is a perferct example of good karma ❤️

  • @777malmo
    @777malmo 2 года назад +70

    This alone time with Kara feels like big sister talks, I really love it

  • @FireCracker3240
    @FireCracker3240 2 года назад +32

    Kara.... I want you to know how much I appreciate you saying that you are not sure you want children. Sooo many people just assume everyone does or should, and that's wrong. It's OK to not want kids. The hardest part, to me, is the stigma that people put on those of us who don't want to be parents. It's not selfish to not have children. It's responsible if that's the best option for you. I applaud you and Nate considering all the things. It's ok to love other people's children, but send them home when you've had your fill. lol

  • @guiaceleste
    @guiaceleste 2 года назад +1

    Oh Kara this is the most emotional video, the angels are watching you during this trip. Those amazing people you met just made me cry and seeing you alone made me more emotional but you did amazing..

  • @ErrinAllison
    @ErrinAllison 2 года назад +4

    Aw your dad is amazing, "don't cry," he knows you and it is so apparent he loves his baby girl! Great video! Sending love from Denton TX!
    Ahhh! I had to edit this comment; what a blessing you found in that shop that fixed your wheel! I love seeing the good in the world through your eyes! I'd cry too. Wow!

  • @TheEarthwinders
    @TheEarthwinders 2 года назад +101

    The childfree life has been perfect for us. So much more freedom for travel, experiences, sports cars, early retirement, early paid off house, the list goes on. Definitely enjoying just being the cool aunt and uncle.

    • @morriganmoonglow2712
      @morriganmoonglow2712 2 года назад +6

      Agree. 😊😉

    • @seedsoflove7684
      @seedsoflove7684 2 года назад +8

      I traveled for 5 years, i loved it. But having kids over traveling is the best choice i ever made...for me. But a sacrifice. And not for everyone.

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 2 года назад +5

      I traveled the most after I had my kids. They mostly came with.

    • @victoriaesten644
      @victoriaesten644 2 года назад

      Same.

    • @thewhimsicaladventure
      @thewhimsicaladventure 2 года назад +3

      Yes! So happy not to have kids lol. No offense to anyone that has children of course.

  • @victoriaesten644
    @victoriaesten644 2 года назад +85

    YES! Nothing wrong with choosing to be child free. When I was younger, I thought, sure, yes, I will do the whole kid thing. As I got older (late teens, early 20's, and so on-I'll be 37 in 2 months) I realized while I enjoy other people's kids (I LOVE my nieces and nephew not to mention my non-bio ones), I enjoy my life too much to add my own kid into the mix. There's nothing wrong with choosing to have kids versus choosing not to have kids. It's a personal choice and NO ONE should have to defend said choice.
    And while I do not feel the need to defend myself, I do offer that I am rewarded enough hearing that my nieces/nephew/friends' kids love spending time with me/us. We're fun. We let kids do what they want (within reason). We talk to them as if they are adults (this is something my husband remembers from his childhood so he's made it a point to never let kids feel like we treat them as just kids).
    Despite what some people say (I have heard it countless times), your life can be completely fulfilling without having kids. Just do you. If you and Nate are happy with your life as-is, know that that is okay. If you both decide it's time to have kids, that's fine too. Don't let anyone ever make you feel bad about what you decide!

  • @Xhadp
    @Xhadp 2 года назад

    Haven't watched a vlog in a while but tuned into this one since it had the kids talk in it.
    I loved your thought process on your stance with kids and especially love how the thought process isn't influenced by others, the main focus of the discussion was just a discussion and you aren't shying away from having that discussion in the first place just letting time take you as you please.

  • @moonmountain_2841
    @moonmountain_2841 Год назад +1

    I was just looking for something uplifting to watch when I found this. I started following y'all awhile back and can't believe I missed this, but then again there are no accidents, just delays. Today I had to make the decision to have my 97 year old mother move to a 'memory care' place. It's kind of the slap upside the head about her mortality, heck my own (okay I'm an oldie at 64) mortality. I just needed this tonight... On another note...don't have kids unless you really really want them, I've been living with my partner for over 40 years now, we never wanted to get married and we never wanted to have kids...a screwed up match made in heaven. Don't have kids because your pressured to do it, see my whole life my mother told me she had only wanted 1 kid,, yup I'm the 2nd one and every birthday she'd remind me I shouldn't be here...I agreed, and begged her to give me away...oh well thanks for the free therapy session, I'm gonna watch some mindless TV...I love your channel and your adventures make me dream about faraway places I'll never get to BIG HUG TO Y'ALL🌄

  • @oklibrarian
    @oklibrarian 2 года назад +160

    Great video! And as someone who just celebrated her 20th anniversary in a childfree marriage, we can verify that it's a wonderful, loving life choice of its own, and my husband and I don't "miss" a thing. Based on what I've seen of you as a regular viewer over the last 4 years or so, I'm confident you two will know what's right when it's right.

    • @suziclark4244
      @suziclark4244 2 года назад +8

      This is the most supportive answer, bravo

    • @heathermccready1981
      @heathermccready1981 2 года назад +9

      I completely agree with you, Sarah. My husband and I also decided not to have children. There are lots of children in our lives (a nephew, children of friends) and we don’t feel like we’re missing anything. I’m glad that, more and more, we are living in a time when people’s personal choices are respected.
      Kara: whatever choice you and Nate will be the right for you and we’ll support it.

    • @Hawther
      @Hawther 2 года назад +5

      Yep, 14 years no kids and it works for us. We are basically obsessed with our niece and nephew but it just didn't ever feel like something we wanted enough and kids deserve to be wanted.

  • @medwards1391
    @medwards1391 2 года назад +63

    Also, as someone your same age trying to figure out if I should have kids it's really refreshing to hear someone not be sure, bc I'm not sure. So thank you for being open about that!

    • @spooniesarah
      @spooniesarah 2 года назад +5

      I'm the same age and I got my tubes tied. Child free/awesome aunt is DEFINITELY a valid option!

    • @julijulessworld21
      @julijulessworld21 2 года назад +1

      Same here Mary 🙌🏼

  • @wilhelminadeboer4162
    @wilhelminadeboer4162 2 года назад

    Kara, I hope to have your positivity and optimism someday. Your channel reminds me so often about all the wonderful things in the US and the world to explore.

  • @blossemgaming3028
    @blossemgaming3028 2 года назад +1

    i think you guys would be the best parents ever. your kid/s would be so loved and would learn so much from you both

  • @tammyrivers9136
    @tammyrivers9136 2 года назад +49

    This video made me miss my dad so much! I love your relationship with your dad Kara treasure him while you have him!

    • @KaraandNate
      @KaraandNate  2 года назад +10

      I’ll keep that in mind when he is being weird and annoying 🥰 Seriously though he’s pretty great!

    • @elleemann
      @elleemann 2 года назад

      Lost mine recently, so I totally agree 👍

  • @karencheney2347
    @karencheney2347 2 года назад +51

    My husband just peeked over my shoulder as I was watching this and said 'she's drinking and driving and talking" with a twinkle in his eye and a smile on his face. Oh Kara, I am crying right along with you!!! God is watching over you! Actually having a baby is a personal decision and honestly no one's business but yours and Nate's. I loved going on this trip with you!!

  • @colleent610
    @colleent610 2 года назад +1

    OMG, you were just so tired, and emotional, and I started crying too. Oh Rusty, so sweet 💓

  • @celiasennon1494
    @celiasennon1494 Год назад +3

    Kara you really know how to entertain yourself and have fun.

  • @ahota84
    @ahota84 2 года назад +24

    Kara's accent getting stronger when she's home is the sweetest. She embodies the essence of Southern charm.

  • @7RadioactivePotatoes
    @7RadioactivePotatoes 2 года назад +51

    I love seeing Kara just being herself. I can relate being emotional when it comes to emotional things lol. I can hardly talk about anything sad, or happy without crying, and her dad is super adorable too! Both when he went there to take care of her tire "Now don't cry Kara" and when she called about the guy not having her pay for her fixed tire "Did you cry?" they were all in comments filled with love. He knows his daughter is just extra in tune with her emotions and supports her for it

  • @beautybyhaleyx
    @beautybyhaleyx 2 года назад +1

    i've always been a firm believer in "everything you put out into the universe comes back to you" and you always are so sweet and caring and kind to everyone you meet, and it came back to you in the form of arlington & peggy

  • @mo_daisy_daze5222
    @mo_daisy_daze5222 2 года назад +3

    So beyond proud of you!!!!! It's so amazing knowing there is still amazing people out there looking out for others!!

  • @rachelferguson1796
    @rachelferguson1796 2 года назад +16

    I lost my daddy four years ago. I'd call him for everything....when you said 'hey daddy' it just made me lose it. I'm so glad your tire was fixed by honest people.
    Cherish the folks you love! 💕

  • @meghanarmstrong4288
    @meghanarmstrong4288 2 года назад +71

    Moments of kindness like you experienced mean so much more these days when everyone seems to be so cold and keep to themselves. Loved seeing you take this trip on with such a positive attitude. Keep it up, Kara!!

  • @christinacross7342
    @christinacross7342 2 года назад +1

    I love how your daddy jumped right in the car to come help! What a sweet dad you have!

  • @seantelfranklin2543
    @seantelfranklin2543 2 года назад +2

    Your daddy is the absolute best.. From picking the van up,helping 5mins into your trip,always answering the phone,to just being encouraging no matter the circumstances ❤❤ Mr.Rusty thank you for being a great person and taking care of Kara❤ Ans sheesh Mrs.Peggy wow she called to check on you,you can tell she's a mom and grandma she's got your best interest at heart❤

  • @holrobinson
    @holrobinson 2 года назад +56

    kara ur relationship with ur dad makes me so emotional. he honestly sounds like the most loving man any daughter could ask for. i never got that personally, but seeing other people relationships fills my heart. sending love

  • @victort.4798
    @victort.4798 2 года назад +51

    I feel like we get to know the two of you more personally and hear more of what's inside your head when you're alone, since now we're the other person with you. It's an interesting change and I like it! Keep the videos coming!

  • @jessicaegloff4352
    @jessicaegloff4352 2 года назад +4

    Dear Kara, I have been watching you two since a few years. This is one of your best videos. So personal and real, just crying and laughing through most of the wonderful catch up. Kara you rock, wishing you all the best on your journey and would love to see you achieve more personal wishes, maybe Nate should sit in the driver’s seat on your next adventure 👍🏻🤘🏻🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @theseanandrew
    @theseanandrew 2 года назад +2

    I'm writing this as I watch, but your reaction to your nephew's birth and being able to hold him for the first time is so, so, so cute and is EXACTLY how I reacted to my nephew! Congrats to all!! Also- we all need a dad like yours, who'll come and give you a hand when something goes wrong (thankfully I have one, shout out to mine lol). As someone who struggles to do things like travel alone and do things like eat and film in public alone, seeing you do it somehow makes me feel more comfortable and open to doing it! There are so many kind, helpful people out there too!

  • @cherrysweet247
    @cherrysweet247 2 года назад +79

    I’m really glad to see Kara being independent and experiencing some solo trips. I always get a lil anxious doing trips alone. But afterwards, makes me feel so strong.

  • @theone1796
    @theone1796 2 года назад +50

    The fact that that random man wouldn't let you pay, shows you being a genuinely good person "pays off" only reason I quote that is because if you are, you don't have to try! Beautiful moment ❤

  • @davidmorton6184
    @davidmorton6184 2 года назад

    Hi Kara, We live in Arlington and have been using Arlington Automotive for years. Great bunch of guys!! Glad you stopped in Arlington and comeback anytime. Love your videos. Thank you & Nate for taking us along with your journeys. Stay safe.

  • @christopheryoung6047
    @christopheryoung6047 2 года назад

    So happy for your family! He is adorable! Safe travels!

  • @Ed___1234
    @Ed___1234 2 года назад +18

    I’m not normally an emotional guy but just seeing Kara cry because of the goodness of one random persons kindness really hit me hard. 😭

  • @supremelyeducated3273
    @supremelyeducated3273 2 года назад +207

    Can we all appreciate the fact that Kara never disappointed us with her content 🤗 🥰 🤚

  • @juliegeese9330
    @juliegeese9330 2 года назад

    Ya know I was a little late in watching this than I normally am, but I’m glad I finally watched it! So many nice people. It really restores a bit of my faith in humanity. ❤️

  • @florence75349
    @florence75349 7 месяцев назад

    This video with your Pop brought me to tears. What a wonderful video full of core memories, smiles and laughter. Your videos always center on three things: Family, Storytelling, and Adventure. This video inspired me to spend more time with my aging parents. Thank you for making the best video yet. Definitely my favorite of all your videos so far. Thank you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nicoleschellekens3698
    @nicoleschellekens3698 2 года назад +32

    Thank you Kara for being so sensitieve and showing us that crying is okay, even if it's about little things in life. Representation is so important. So from the bottom of sobbing heart, thank you ❤