I don’t think Kara and Nate realize that…. a great majority of their viewers aren’t watching for what they’re doing. I’d literally watch them paint walls or talk about what they had for lunch. I watch because I love …them
True Nate and Kara followers will follow any journey they have. I’d honestly love to see a new stage, settling into a home, making a home place, then traveling occasionally, possibly having kids.
50/50 chance I cry tears of joy (again) reliving this convo 🙋🏻♀️🥹💜 We love y’all so so so much, and could not be more grateful for our special friendship. Thank you for having us fam.
Love you guys. As a single mom y'all are so inspiring in your love for each other. My daughter and I started watching you guys years ago and it gave me courage to take her on some grand solo adventures.
So glad Nate asked how to navigate the next phase. We have 30 (plus) years on you and advise you NOT to overthink it. What's right for you isn't nessesarily right for everyone else. You got this!
Nate seems like such a great support system. He sees what Kara needs before she’s even realized herself, and he respects her needs and wants so much, no questions asked. The way he speaks about kara is so genuine and full of love. It’s heartwarming to see someone truly love and care for their partner. I think i see a lot of his grandpa’s wise side in nate as well ☺️
Kara & Nate: You could post once a year and we would all still be JUST as impacted and invested in your love. Take a week, take two, take a month- we will all still be here! Just like Eamon and Bec: we missed this soo much when they were gone, but never lost passion for them. It’s the beauty of the community you both have built, we aren’t here for the weekly videos, we are here for YOU! ❤❤❤ It’s not RUclips without YOU. ♥️
I am shook by the negative comments about Nate and Kara! Especially about Kara being 'weak' or saying 'how can they think travelling is too exhausting'. First up, being an emotional person who feels things deeply, does not equal being weak. And I absolutely believe they are exhausted by their lifestyle. They don't just go somewhere for 10 days every now and again like the average person, they are consistently in different time zones in extreme environments doing extreme activities! Cut them some slack people. And with the kids things, I admire their long consideration on the idea and ensuring they are in a season of life thats appropriate to have kids- that defines maturity and wanting to make the right choice for them and potential future children.
Whenever Nate talks about Kara’s seizure, it is the most real and raw emotion I ever see from him. And it just shows how much he cares for her. There is love, fear and pain there when talks about it.
I can't speak for everyone, but I can say Eamon is absolutely right that what we love the most is YOU! No matter what you are doing, I have grown "attached" to Kara and Nate and Bec and Eamon (and Raya, Luis, Craig and Amy, etc.) I truly care that you are all okay.
Me too! I started off following Kara and Nate years ago and then quickly, through them, was introduced to Eamon and Bec, Craig and Aimee, Raya and Louis. I’m truly grateful for all of them and what they do and what they share with us. I’m 54 and led a pretty outgoing life in my 20s 30s even in my 40s, but I’ve slowed down considerably and find myself being rather content with the slower life, but watching you guys every week fills that little void of not being as adventurous as I used to be. And yes, with every single one of your individual struggles or obstacles with health etc…I find myself truly caring about each and everyone of you and wanting nothing but the best for each and everyone of you. You guys are not even my kids, which I don’t have any out of choice, You’re not my relatives… But I’m genuinely proud of each and everyone of you. ❤
I remember when i found out that my 2 fav RUclipsrs are friends-so similar but different! You all brighten the world and we are forever fans! This podcast is 🔥!!
Honestly the way Kara and Nate post now is better because they put their all in their current videos and it shows how much they enjoy it by taking more time off and focusing their energy on 1 video at a time! I love it ❤❤ mental health always comes first❤
We’re hitting our 25th anniversary this upcoming year and over 30 years together. We were not able to have kids. We tired, didn’t happen. If you don’t feel having kids, good for you for recognizing that and living your life the way you want. You can be happy you can live your best life without kids.
Early in this episode, I realized Kara & Nate will be one of (if not) the first RUclipsrs to be offered a free trip to outer space. That is literally the limit of where things could go after visiting the South Pole!
Nate, thanks for your comment on not denigrating people who work at jobs. Everything produced in this world that sustain us all are the result of people going to work every day.
I actually love Kara and Nate stepping back and posting less often, you can tell they feel so much better and you can tell with the content/emotions shows in the videos. It gets you excited for the next video! ❤ They are one of my favorite RUclipsrs 🌸
Eamon doesn't think he knows much about business? He literally built a self sustaining coffee shop / dog shelter in Mexico. Good businessman and good human. Love you guys!
Eamon’s remark about loving the non travelling parts of a video is so true. I’ve been thinking for a long time that although I respect the space Kara and Nate have claimed back for themselves, it definitely feels at the cost of the “real” moments. The newer RUclips videos feel more like a “show” and less like the Kara and Nate a lot of people originally fell in love with.
Kara’s comment about reducing work by 1/4 makes her feel like it was reduced by 3/4 really speaks to me as a currently burnt out person in a job I love. I’ve refused to take on more until I move things off my plate but I think I’ll actually just continue to not take on more. Because it’s almost like a traffic jam in the brain. Reduce the cars by 1/4 and it doesn’t even feel like there is traffic.
Anyone else notice both and Nate and Kara's sigh after the hopefully 2026 baby? To me it looked like a sigh of relief to put that out there. They would make such good parents. I'm already imagining Nate taking a baby on a 100 mile run and Kara giving "baby approved" bathroom tours.
OMGOSH!!!! My husband and I spent 12 years saying we were not having kids, because we were content being us. We had gotten pregnant and lost the baby. We knew then we wanted to have a kid. We now have an 11 year old boy and he's the best of both of us. You two will love being parents.
Love that you all went on vacation together without filming! Prioritizing friendship is so important. Nate’s real reactions to being uncomfortable talking about feelings and doing it anyways is so amazing. LOVE Kara and Becs friendship 💕
I love that Nate talks about expanding your comfort zone by doing things that are gradually a little harder. For him it might be 100 mile run, but that inspired my seven year old to face her fears and go in a basalt cave ❤️ you never know who you will inspire!
Please please don’t go into business together. It won’t go well. I love the relationship you guys have as friends, couples and individuals. And love watching you guys
K&N reminds me so much of my husband and I, only younger. I thought I'd be a mother since forever. I always loved children, I studied to be a montessori teacher etc. I wanted kids so much that in my late 20s while single I was set on adopting and be a single parent. Then met mymy husband who also wanted kids. Then we went travelling while dating. Came back 6 months later and realised regular life wasn't for us, i.e. stay where we lived (my husband homecountry, I had immigrated to it years before we met so it was my 'home' too), work,buy a house raise a family etc. We still wanted kids but perhaps elsewhere. After marriage we relocated in our early 30s. Being away from family and friends solidified us even more as well as shielded us from pressure about having children. Then we went travelling more for 15 months. Relocated again. And in that 10 years since we married had passed and we both realised 1) we were in love with the idea of having kids more than being ready to embrace the responsibilities which to me go way beyond providing food and shelter 2) we completed one another as it is. Hence we changed our minds about the topic and I'm happy that we didn't have a public life to have to deal with bullying pressure from strangers in addition to family or friends. And yes I am using the word bullying because just because it comes from a place of happiness it doesn't mean you aren't forcing/projecting your views & wants. Boundaries don't apply only when something is negative, they apply for everything. I'm a major sharer, and I've had to learn that for ex. When I eat something that I love and brings me so much joy I used to insist that my husband try it too even if he didn't want to and I'd insist until he gave up and tasted it to make me happy. Even if it was for something positive coming from a place of love that I wanted him to experience what I was feeling, my doing was bullying. And I learnt to respect his boundaries, now I still ask but if he says no I drop it. Similarly, if your friends are chosing a lifestyle different to yours like not having kids, stop insisting or bringing up the conversation, respect their boundaries. They are adults, if THEY decide to have them you'll find out anyway.
Just want to say not having kids is no one’s business and is a good choice too. I always thought I would have kids and then couldn’t. My life plan changed and it’s totally fine and should not be judged! Whatever decision is made is the right one for you!
I totally get the kid thing. I am also a school teacher. I was a nanny forever! Truly, I was also the neighborhood babysitter. I was expected to have kids because Ive always been like the “pied pipers”…I get kida.! My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we love our lives….without kids. My advice, don’t let society’s expectations make the decision for you. When other people around you have kids, it seems to be the expected “next logical step”. Don’t do it because everyone else is. If you really want kids you’ll know it! Trust your gut and whatever decision YOU and NATE decide is entirely up to you and NO ONE ELSE. Kids or no kids, only do what you know feels right for the two of you. ❤
Kara described burn out really well. It’s an inability to access yourself because it feels like stress and exhaustion have made you by necessity push your true self into your subconscious. It’s like you are watching yourself as a third person. It’s extremely difficult to turn it around.
I've had a hard time with the Kara&Nate brand. I got burned out watching them go to wild and crazy places and do wild and crazy things over and over and over. Maybe because I an old enough be their mother, I kept waiting to see more depth or introspection as to what these experiences meant to them in their videos. I became exhausted watching so I can only imagine how exhausted they had to be feeling. I know travel videos are primarily for entertainment but after a while all the places became a blur. Really enjoying this conversation (as I do EVERY Reroot conversation)!!❤❤❤
I’m not sure if you’re a regular watcher now, but they have a lot of introspection in many of their physical feat videos, so much so that several have brought me to tears. Worth a watch if you haven’t for a while 💜
@@elliemaybrain I unsubscribed, needing a rest but I will give them another look. I think Kara's diagnosis of epilepsy may have moved them into a different perspective. Thanks for your comment.🙏
I like to see how Nate keeps talking about seasons in their life, not chapters, but seasons. Like a tv show or the weather seasons. And it just reminds me that everything is changing all the time, depending on the season. And there will always be a new chapter coming up. Also we all live in different perspectives of time. Some of us plan ahead days and months, but some people already know where they will be in 10 years. Amazing episode guys! Spreading love for you all! ❤
When Nate said that he needed advice on slowing down and becoming content I couldn’t help but have this vision of a him as a dad just being the MOST present dad ever. And finding the coolest adventures for his family to do. I think that’s where you find your contentness Nate. As a kick ass dad who does the most fun wild things with your kid(s) and family. As someone who has followed your channel for years, I’m so excited to see that chapter of y’all’s life.
I have to give it to Kara for her willingness to be open about her struggles. As someone who also tends to be very happy and satisfied with whatever I’m doing and knowing Kara is genuinely thrilled with a walk in the park and a good meal, sometimes people take it for granted that you might still be struggling because it doesn’t look like you are.
Been with my hubby 51 years got married 4 hours after we met, but we made up our minds fast we didn't need to have kids to make us hole as we have each other.
Yall need to know that if you travel just for fun that would be okay. It doesn’t always have to be some insane journey.. go to Italy and eat your favorite pasta, take a gondola, chill out..
Can I just say, I love to see the small affection that Kara and Nate show to each other during this interview. A lot of the questions are so insightful and thoughtful, they really evoked emotion with them. Such a good episode.
I can’t remember when I started watching Kara and Nate but that’s how I found you two and then I found Max and it just keeps going…gives a senior something to do..thanks for doing what you do..😊❤️🇨🇦
i’ve never watched this podcast, i clicked because i LOVE kara and nate! i had no clue about any of this. but i LOVE how bec can let kara and nate soak in their emotions but change the topic so its not awkward! i’ll definitely be back. what a great episode .
I know, right!? It's like some sort of weird cult when people start having kids like they keep pressuring people to have kids and be part of our club and what are you gonna do? Why aren't you having kids blah blah blah just stop already
Sorry Guys, I didn’t hear that at all. Just friendly questions on their thought processes! Don’t forget these 4 are great friends - I doubt there was much in this video they hadn’t already discussed (except maybe Kara’s pee accident!🤣🤣). If she wasn’t totally comfortable with them she would NOT have shared that! Great interview!
Kara and Nate would make great parents Kara is a natural...but agree don't push them it's up to them if they do or don't...no one should feel pressured on anything
This is the first complete podcast I have watched on Reroot and I have to let you know that I have a new level of respect for you all especially Nate. When I have watched all of Kara & Nate's videos in the past both Nate and Kara have come across as very active fun loving, excited individuals but on this podcast I have seen a serious thoughful side to Nate (all of you). The podcasts are a credit to who you are, as individuals, Eamon and Bec. I love the friendship between you all... Well done!!
Can I just say that you four, with the addition of Max (of course) and Craig and Aimee, are the absolute best of RUclips, or anything on television. When any of you even whisper the thought of giving it up my heart drops to the floor. Please don't go. At least not completely. My heart couldn't take it. And yeah I get that is a bit selfish but it had to be said. Love you all.
1:28:50 Nate, Bec is absolutely right! You do have a big beautiful heart & you do convey so much emotion in your videos. Joy, sadness, excitement & love (your love for Kara & passion for sharing life with her comes across so deeply in your videos) and Kara, same goes for your love for Nate.
I think the reason why this episode was the most requested is because the love each couple has for each other is so unique and seeing that all together is so special. The way love is represented in your relationships is by far the number one reason I follow both of you and have for a long time. I think I am one of the few followers that actually found Eamon and Bec first and then followed Kara and Nate after your videos together. Seeing how similar you both value your partner and relationship really comes across in what you share. Thank you for sharing as always. I love all four of you!
I find their lifestyle incredibly stressful and was picking up on that atmosphere. I just couldn’t relate to them anymore. Something was off and I stopped watching their videos as regularly. Then the epilepsy reveal made so much sense. Personally, I think they could slow down even more and still continue to be the huge beloved successes that they are.
I love Kara and Nate. It’s amazing to see such beautiful souls find each other so early on in life and who are genuinely so honest and respectful of each other.
Happy they are taking their time and not letting anyone pressure their decision on kids. It’s definitely not for everyone and it should be considered as deeply as Kara has.
When I watch either of your channels, I always feel like I am watching friends talk. Good people attract good people. Thank you for sharing your energy, experiences, and friendships with us!
I began watching Kara and Nate during 2020 and that’s how I found Eamon and Bec. Seeing how you all connect, and are true friends is beautiful. And the news Kara dropped 😮 exciting, but whatever happens, we love you all! Love how you all stay true to yourselves.
We love you Kara & Nate, regardless of what you are doing or where you are going. If you want YT to continue to be a part of your future life (and I hope you do!), people will stick with you in whatever you are doing.
Nate, instead of FOMO, it's called JOMO (the joy of missing out). Learning to enjoy the moment and learning that saying no sometimes, feels GOOD. It really does. And yes, like Eamon explained, doing the things you enjoy.
I totally agree, so much pressure to have kids. I made up my mind young not to have children. 😊 There’s enough people on this planet now. Can’t imagine how many more people that this planet can support.
I recently saw a video on tik tok from a man who was trying to group everyone who chooses not to have kids as a trauma response to something… and I wrote a comment stating that it is a personal choice and you cannot group everyone’s reasoning into one box. The hatred I got!!! It’s wild!
One week off has been so good for the QUALITY of the videos you do post tho. You guys leveled up so much this year. You’re killing it. Don’t worry about the time off.
I LOVED this episode! I’ve been an avid Kara & Nate watcher for years. They are my happy place. I have rewatched the whole channel probably 3 times and then diff seasons more than that. That being said, I’ve really missed them just talking to the camera, showing us the random in between moments. They do more story stuff now where it feels like they are kinda taken out of it. However, now I realize though that type of content is what makes them happy and drives them, which makes me happy.
I think it would be super cool for y'all to say what tea everyone is drinking before started the pod, that would be a fun tid bit! Also love y'all and kara and nate! Great episode!
I read an article today about folks who live behind the camera. The brain outsources the memory when it knows that there is another way to remember it. When there is no picture or video you must put it in your own brain. They have also discovered this about long term partners. They rely on each other to remember things. So when your brain knows that your partner will remember, you dont put a priority on it at all.
I kinda like the challenges. I find it fun to admire someone do something I don’t think I could ever do. It inspires me to try harder at the things I’m trying to achieve in my own life.
I agree because it inspires travel for the “everyday person.” I used to think I want to go there and do just that. But with the newer videos, I’ll never do those things. While entertaining, not as relatable. Still love them though!!❤
I think truly being content is finding deep joy in the slower days. That's sometimes a skill you have to learn and you don't learn it until you stop. You don't have to move to grow. You can do it whilst completely still.
When I found out their last names, that sealed the deal for me that they were destined to be friends. (Fitzgerald and Buchanan- hello, the great Gatsby! The connection blows my mind) ❤
I feel like Nate’s grandfather has been a huge inspiration throughout his life, and possibly influenced Nate’s zest and appreciation for life, his positive attitude, and his urge to conquer hard challenges.
I never comment on videos but honestly, these two couples get me to my core. As a fellow Tennessean … I love these deep conservations. Thank you for being so open! I need these deep convos and friendships in my life! By far my favorite episode ever!
Yes, I was struck by this too. Perhaps he went into shock? What country were they in? A place where medical care is not as accessible? Very strange to me.
I’d really enjoy seeing Kara as a mom. I’m not the crazy lady caring about seeing his/her face on camera but like a fly on the wall seeing they was she communicates with her own child. ❤️
Just put in my notice at work due to burnout. It wasn’t just mental emotional, it became physical. While I still have a couple weeks, I’m still feeling so much more hopeful. It’s scary to be taking a break with possibly no income but no amount of money is worth sacrificing my health and happiness.
My son and his wife are riding their bikes around the world. They have been met with the utmost kindness and hospitality by those who have the least. In the developed world & like Kara & Nate have never been robbed.
Love ‘Kara & Nate’ (and Eamon & Bec also!!) One of my favorite things with Kara & Nate is the way Nate brings Kara a cup of coffee in the morning. It’s just the sweetest, kindness thing. I know it’s such a simple thing but that effort of the little things they do for each other makes the big things such a team effort and so enjoyable to watch. Look forward to ALL the videos from both couples.
Loving all the episodes, but as longtime K&N fans, we were THRILLED with this! As always, we love the questions you all ask & the deep dive into these topics. As 2 DINKS at 33 & 34, we LOVE our childfree Aunt & Uncle life! There are so many beautiful ways to build a life - whether than involves your own kids or not. Happy for you all to be on your own journey of parsing that out for yourselves & excited to follow for as long as you all plan to share it :)
I truly loved this episode and I've never listened to the podcast before but just am a Kara and Nate fan. I'm currently job searching and had a really scary panic attack a couple months ago I've learned and grown and changed from that and hearing your perspective on how you sometimes need those wake up call moments to remind you just how nice the little things are means so much to me. I love this positivity and I hope I can continue to carry it with me as I move through life
@KaraandNate I felt so honored to have witnessed the incredible Leadville 100 experience from start to finish. It’s amazing to see a glimpse of the behind the scenes and I feel so fortunate that my boyfriend and I were able to meet you two at the end of the race after cheering on Nate at the aid stations over the course of 24 hours! I love the dynamic between the 4 of you and it’s so awesome to see the special connection that you all share. I admire each one of you!
Seriously don’t think I have enjoyed a podcast more in my life. That was so good. Also weird to see K&N be so stationary and I loved it. I definitely would listen to their podcast.
@KaraandNate Thank you! I know it’s weird that a ton of strangers are so curious about your life and adventures. But we end up feeling like you’re our family. We care what happens to you. We hurt when you hurt. We are the ones blessed that you share your amazing life with us. Thank you both for this wonderful opportunity to share in your journeys. P.S. This world will NEEDS mini me’s of Kara and Nate ❤
Sitting here listening to you I realize what you are describing is the peril of all creative people. Rock stars, actors, fashion. Here today, gone tomorrow anxiety. It just means you are living the dream.
I love Kara and Nate. I love that they keep it real. But why would you tell her “there won’t be a second one” when they were talking about the epilepsy? That minimizes her experience and feelings about it. You may think that your health issues can be healed with positive thinking-but not everyone is there or believes that same way. Maybe meet people where they are and not bring where you are.
Truth. Everyone has their own path to walk. Live your life According to your own to Your own values . someone sees you as an example? Great. No need to tell them. And maybe their Path is different anyways.
You are right, but you also have to consider that medical trauma is intense, and for many sharing and being empathetic in the way they needed it when they were (or are) in a similar situation. It’s well intentioned and sent with love. Give her some grace and see she’s just sharing empathy and certainly not invalidating to Kara. They are very good friends. They understand each others intentions and I’m certain if Kara felt a certain way she would share that with Bec.
I understand what you’re saying. It’s a disease where seizures repeatedly happen typically. Something I don’t think is really able to be understood very well until it happens in your life. It’s just how powerful words are, though. Literally the things that you say are very related to your beliefs and what you put into practice and the way that you live your life. Manifestation is a real thing. I know it’s just like a cool buzz word for mainstream but if you really speak what you want to happen in life, it’s amazing how much you can actually change your life with your words. Bec was just wanting to speak life into Kara and her future.
I watch both channel's videos and think this is soooo cool seeing all 4 of you together! What a great episode!!!!! Much love to Eamon, Bec, Kara and Nate!!!!
We love Kara and Nate because it never feels like they are doing any of their adventures for the videos. It always feels like they would be doing this even if they were not recording and they are just bringing us along for the adventure.
I don’t think Kara and Nate realize that…. a great majority of their viewers aren’t watching for what they’re doing. I’d literally watch them paint walls or talk about what they had for lunch. I watch because I love …them
Same
That exactly what Eamon stated.
Honestly I couldn’t have said this better. Some of my favourite videos they’ve done are the airport travelling videos
Exactly!
Excellent view point
Right they can be doing anything and we would all watch !
True Nate and Kara followers will follow any journey they have. I’d honestly love to see a new stage, settling into a home, making a home place, then traveling occasionally, possibly having kids.
Me too ❤️
Kara's poor health combined with her age combined with Nate's child negativity are ruling out children for them
50/50 chance I cry tears of joy (again) reliving this convo 🙋🏻♀️🥹💜 We love y’all so so so much, and could not be more grateful for our special friendship. Thank you for having us fam.
Love you guys. As a single mom y'all are so inspiring in your love for each other. My daughter and I started watching you guys years ago and it gave me courage to take her on some grand solo adventures.
So glad Nate asked how to navigate the next phase. We have 30 (plus) years on you and advise you NOT to overthink it. What's right for you isn't nessesarily right for everyone else. You got this!
You both are beautiful humans inside and out. Thankyou for sharing a portion of your lives with us ❤️
You realise how precious your personalities are???? Kara âne Nate bec and eamon
I didn't want it to end! I love watching all of you love on each other. Makes me feel so good and cozy on the inside 😊
Totally a viewer of Kara and Nate because it’s them. They could do a series of finding a home. Settling down and I’d be fully invested
@@lisaschaaf same.
same!!!
The way Bec can pick up the conversation when it turns sad or ackward is so beautiful! So talented.
Nate seems like such a great support system. He sees what Kara needs before she’s even realized herself, and he respects her needs and wants so much, no questions asked. The way he speaks about kara is so genuine and full of love. It’s heartwarming to see someone truly love and care for their partner.
I think i see a lot of his grandpa’s wise side in nate as well ☺️
Kara & Nate:
You could post once a year and we would all still be JUST as impacted and invested in your love.
Take a week, take two, take a month- we will all still be here!
Just like Eamon and Bec: we missed this soo much when they were gone, but never lost passion for them.
It’s the beauty of the community you both have built, we aren’t here for the weekly videos, we are here for YOU!
❤❤❤
It’s not RUclips without YOU. ♥️
Exactly! Parenting will be demanding in completely different ways. If every other month uploads are necessary, we'll support them all the way!
I am shook by the negative comments about Nate and Kara! Especially about Kara being 'weak' or saying 'how can they think travelling is too exhausting'. First up, being an emotional person who feels things deeply, does not equal being weak. And I absolutely believe they are exhausted by their lifestyle. They don't just go somewhere for 10 days every now and again like the average person, they are consistently in different time zones in extreme environments doing extreme activities! Cut them some slack people. And with the kids things, I admire their long consideration on the idea and ensuring they are in a season of life thats appropriate to have kids- that defines maturity and wanting to make the right choice for them and potential future children.
Whenever Nate talks about Kara’s seizure, it is the most real and raw emotion I ever see from him. And it just shows how much he cares for her. There is love, fear and pain there when talks about it.
Nate. I don’t know if someone ever told you this …… you won’t be a failure if your life slows down. I think so many people can relate to you.
I can't speak for everyone, but I can say Eamon is absolutely right that what we love the most is YOU! No matter what you are doing, I have grown "attached" to Kara and Nate and Bec and Eamon (and Raya, Luis, Craig and Amy, etc.) I truly care that you are all okay.
Me too! I started off following Kara and Nate years ago and then quickly, through them, was introduced to Eamon and Bec, Craig and Aimee, Raya and Louis. I’m truly grateful for all of them and what they do and what they share with us. I’m 54 and led a pretty outgoing life in my 20s 30s even in my 40s, but I’ve slowed down considerably and find myself being rather content with the slower life, but watching you guys every week fills that little void of not being as adventurous as I used to be. And yes, with every single one of your individual struggles or obstacles with health etc…I find myself truly caring about each and everyone of you and wanting nothing but the best for each and everyone of you. You guys are not even my kids, which I don’t have any out of choice, You’re not my relatives… But I’m genuinely proud of each and everyone of you. ❤
“At the end of the day, people love Kara and people love Nate.” -Eamon
Couldn’t have put it better myself ❤
I remember when i found out that my 2 fav RUclipsrs are friends-so similar but different! You all brighten the world and we are forever fans! This podcast is 🔥!!
Kara + Bec together in a pod is always magic bc they're so heart-led
exactly. heart-led is the term to describe both of them!
Honestly the way Kara and Nate post now is better because they put their all in their current videos and it shows how much they enjoy it by taking more time off and focusing their energy on 1 video at a time! I love it ❤❤ mental health always comes first❤
We’re hitting our 25th anniversary this upcoming year and over 30 years together. We were not able to have kids. We tired, didn’t happen. If you don’t feel having kids, good for you for recognizing that and living your life the way you want. You can be happy you can live your best life without kids.
Early in this episode, I realized Kara & Nate will be one of (if not) the first RUclipsrs to be offered a free trip to outer space. That is literally the limit of where things could go after visiting the South Pole!
i realized that too! literally saw it in my head!! Mark our words folks. Kara and Nate will be invited to Outer space. the moon. mars. somewhere.
Why do you think this?
Nate, thanks for your comment on not denigrating people who work at jobs. Everything produced in this world that sustain us all are the result of people going to work every day.
I actually love Kara and Nate stepping back and posting less often, you can tell they feel so much better and you can tell with the content/emotions shows in the videos. It gets you excited for the next video! ❤
They are one of my favorite RUclipsrs 🌸
Eamon doesn't think he knows much about business? He literally built a self sustaining coffee shop / dog shelter in Mexico. Good businessman and good human. Love you guys!
Eamon’s remark about loving the non travelling parts of a video is so true. I’ve been thinking for a long time that although I respect the space Kara and Nate have claimed back for themselves, it definitely feels at the cost of the “real” moments. The newer RUclips videos feel more like a “show” and less like the Kara and Nate a lot of people originally fell in love with.
Kara’s comment about reducing work by 1/4 makes her feel like it was reduced by 3/4 really speaks to me as a currently burnt out person in a job I love. I’ve refused to take on more until I move things off my plate but I think I’ll actually just continue to not take on more. Because it’s almost like a traffic jam in the brain. Reduce the cars by 1/4 and it doesn’t even feel like there is traffic.
Anyone else notice both and Nate and Kara's sigh after the hopefully 2026 baby? To me it looked like a sigh of relief to put that out there. They would make such good parents. I'm already imagining Nate taking a baby on a 100 mile run and Kara giving "baby approved" bathroom tours.
OMGOSH!!!! My husband and I spent 12 years saying we were not having kids, because we were content being us. We had gotten pregnant and lost the baby. We knew then we wanted to have a kid. We now have an 11 year old boy and he's the best of both of us. You two will love being parents.
You can tell Nate is out of his comfort zone talking about his emotions lol I never seen him like this
Very true 🤣🤣🤣🤣I noticed it as well
Love that you all went on vacation together without filming! Prioritizing friendship is so important.
Nate’s real reactions to being uncomfortable talking about feelings and doing it anyways is so amazing.
LOVE Kara and Becs friendship 💕
I love that Nate talks about expanding your comfort zone by doing things that are gradually a little harder. For him it might be 100 mile run, but that inspired my seven year old to face her fears and go in a basalt cave ❤️ you never know who you will inspire!
They will be my comfort channel no matter what stage of life they are in!!
Please please don’t go into business together. It won’t go well. I love the relationship you guys have as friends, couples and individuals. And love watching you guys
K&N reminds me so much of my husband and I, only younger. I thought I'd be a mother since forever. I always loved children, I studied to be a montessori teacher etc. I wanted kids so much that in my late 20s while single I was set on adopting and be a single parent. Then met mymy husband who also wanted kids. Then we went travelling while dating. Came back 6 months later and realised regular life wasn't for us, i.e. stay where we lived (my husband homecountry, I had immigrated to it years before we met so it was my 'home' too), work,buy a house raise a family etc. We still wanted kids but perhaps elsewhere. After marriage we relocated in our early 30s. Being away from family and friends solidified us even more as well as shielded us from pressure about having children. Then we went travelling more for 15 months. Relocated again. And in that 10 years since we married had passed and we both realised 1) we were in love with the idea of having kids more than being ready to embrace the responsibilities which to me go way beyond providing food and shelter 2) we completed one another as it is. Hence we changed our minds about the topic and I'm happy that we didn't have a public life to have to deal with bullying pressure from strangers in addition to family or friends. And yes I am using the word bullying because just because it comes from a place of happiness it doesn't mean you aren't forcing/projecting your views & wants. Boundaries don't apply only when something is negative, they apply for everything. I'm a major sharer, and I've had to learn that for ex. When I eat something that I love and brings me so much joy I used to insist that my husband try it too even if he didn't want to and I'd insist until he gave up and tasted it to make me happy. Even if it was for something positive coming from a place of love that I wanted him to experience what I was feeling, my doing was bullying. And I learnt to respect his boundaries, now I still ask but if he says no I drop it. Similarly, if your friends are chosing a lifestyle different to yours like not having kids, stop insisting or bringing up the conversation, respect their boundaries. They are adults, if THEY decide to have them you'll find out anyway.
Watching these couples express their love for each other brings tears to my eyes.
Just want to say not having kids is no one’s business and is a good choice too. I always thought I would have kids and then couldn’t. My life plan changed and it’s totally fine and should not be judged! Whatever decision is made is the right one for you!
I totally get the kid thing. I am also a school teacher. I was a nanny forever! Truly, I was also the neighborhood babysitter. I was expected to have kids because Ive always been like the “pied pipers”…I get kida.! My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we love our lives….without kids. My advice, don’t let society’s expectations make the decision for you. When other people around you have kids, it seems to be the expected “next logical step”. Don’t do it because everyone else is. If you really want kids you’ll know it! Trust your gut and whatever decision YOU and NATE decide is entirely up to you and NO ONE ELSE.
Kids or no kids, only do what you know feels right for the two of you. ❤
Kara described burn out really well. It’s an inability to access yourself because it feels like stress and exhaustion have made you by necessity push your true self into your subconscious. It’s like you are watching yourself as a third person. It’s extremely difficult to turn it around.
I've had a hard time with the Kara&Nate brand. I got burned out watching them go to wild and crazy places and do wild and crazy things over and over and over. Maybe because I an old enough be their mother, I kept waiting to see more depth or introspection as to what these experiences meant to them in their videos. I became exhausted watching so I can only imagine how exhausted they had to be feeling. I know travel videos are primarily for entertainment but after a while all the places became a blur.
Really enjoying this conversation (as I do EVERY Reroot conversation)!!❤❤❤
I’m not sure if you’re a regular watcher now, but they have a lot of introspection in many of their physical feat videos, so much so that several have brought me to tears. Worth a watch if you haven’t for a while 💜
Me too. I tried watching them for a bit but didn't continue as I found it all a bit forced.
@@elliemaybrain I unsubscribed, needing a rest but I will give them another look. I think Kara's diagnosis of epilepsy may have moved them into a different perspective.
Thanks for your comment.🙏
I like to see how Nate keeps talking about seasons in their life, not chapters, but seasons. Like a tv show or the weather seasons. And it just reminds me that everything is changing all the time, depending on the season. And there will always be a new chapter coming up. Also we all live in different perspectives of time. Some of us plan ahead days and months, but some people already know where they will be in 10 years.
Amazing episode guys! Spreading love for you all! ❤
When Nate said that he needed advice on slowing down and becoming content I couldn’t help but have this vision of a him as a dad just being the MOST present dad ever. And finding the coolest adventures for his family to do. I think that’s where you find your contentness Nate. As a kick ass dad who does the most fun wild things with your kid(s) and family. As someone who has followed your channel for years, I’m so excited to see that chapter of y’all’s life.
As a huge E+B and K+N fan
I really need to see yall and Rick, Bec and their girls on a podcast
Two of the most positive couples on the internet! You guys make me want to go out and live my best life! Thank you ❤
I have to give it to Kara for her willingness to be open about her struggles. As someone who also tends to be very happy and satisfied with whatever I’m doing and knowing Kara is genuinely thrilled with a walk in the park and a good meal, sometimes people take it for granted that you might still be struggling because it doesn’t look like you are.
Been with my hubby 51 years got married 4 hours after we met, but we made up our minds fast we didn't need to have kids to make us hole as we have each other.
Yall need to know that if you travel just for fun that would be okay. It doesn’t always have to be some insane journey.. go to Italy and eat your favorite pasta, take a gondola, chill out..
I think Kara and Nate have the right approach, and I don't even notice that they post less. It's more important to take breaks
Can I just say, I love to see the small affection that Kara and Nate show to each other during this interview. A lot of the questions are so insightful and thoughtful, they really evoked emotion with them. Such a good episode.
I can’t remember when I started watching Kara and Nate but that’s how I found you two and then I found Max and it just keeps going…gives a senior something to do..thanks for doing what you do..😊❤️🇨🇦
Max and Lee😊
i’ve never watched this podcast, i clicked because i LOVE kara and nate! i had no clue about any of this. but i LOVE how bec can let kara and nate soak in their emotions but change the topic so its not awkward! i’ll definitely be back. what a great episode .
Stop pushing Nate & Kara to have kids! Stop asking them about kids, it is their lives and no one should HAVE to have kids. They are living their life.
I know, right!? It's like some sort of weird cult when people start having kids like they keep pressuring people to have kids and be part of our club and what are you gonna do? Why aren't you having kids blah blah blah just stop already
Sorry Guys, I didn’t hear that at all. Just friendly questions on their thought processes! Don’t forget these 4 are great friends - I doubt there was much in this video they hadn’t already discussed (except maybe Kara’s pee accident!🤣🤣). If she wasn’t totally comfortable with them she would NOT have shared that! Great interview!
Kara and Nate please have Kids!!!!!
Kara and Nate would make great parents Kara is a natural...but agree don't push them it's up to them if they do or don't...no one should feel pressured on anything
If they do have kids I hope they keep them off social media! Love them though.
Nate is so grounded. I think he was a monk in a past life.
This is the first complete podcast I have watched on Reroot and I have to let you know that I have a new level of respect for you all especially Nate. When I have watched all of Kara & Nate's videos in the past both Nate and Kara have come across as very active fun loving, excited individuals but on this podcast I have seen a serious thoughful side to Nate (all of you). The podcasts are a credit to who you are, as individuals, Eamon and Bec. I love the friendship between you all... Well done!!
Why did the moment she began to say they’re entertaining the idea of having a child I immediately got tears in my eyes!?!
Can I just say that you four, with the addition of Max (of course) and Craig and Aimee, are the absolute best of RUclips, or anything on television. When any of you even whisper the thought of giving it up my heart drops to the floor. Please don't go. At least not completely. My heart couldn't take it. And yeah I get that is a bit selfish but it had to be said. Love you all.
1:28:50 Nate, Bec is absolutely right! You do have a big beautiful heart & you do convey so much emotion in your videos. Joy, sadness, excitement & love (your love for Kara & passion for sharing life with her comes across so deeply in your videos) and Kara, same goes for your love for Nate.
How beautiful is it to look at two men love and care so deeply about their women - feels rare.
I appreciate the authenticity and depth of sharing
I think the reason why this episode was the most requested is because the love each couple has for each other is so unique and seeing that all together is so special. The way love is represented in your relationships is by far the number one reason I follow both of you and have for a long time. I think I am one of the few followers that actually found Eamon and Bec first and then followed Kara and Nate after your videos together. Seeing how similar you both value your partner and relationship really comes across in what you share. Thank you for sharing as always. I love all four of you!
Nate sitting in the back kinda quite is so relatable to how I am in convos most of the time
Huge Kara and Nate fan and I know we all just want to see Kara healthy regardless of how much content we get.
I find their lifestyle incredibly stressful and was picking up on that atmosphere. I just couldn’t relate to them anymore. Something was off and I stopped watching their videos as regularly. Then the epilepsy reveal made so much sense. Personally, I think they could slow down even more and still continue to be the huge beloved successes that they are.
I love Kara and Nate. It’s amazing to see such beautiful souls find each other so early on in life and who are genuinely so honest and respectful of each other.
Happy they are taking their time and not letting anyone pressure their decision on kids. It’s definitely not for everyone and it should be considered as deeply as Kara has.
1:03:55 Lol. Asking Kara if she wants coffee is the perfect assessment for alert and oriented for Kara.
I've never seen Nate so quiet and guarded, hu must've been reaaly nervous you guys were gonna be rooting around in his psyche! 😂
Nate, you're new goal is to be on Dancing with the Stars! Face your fear in the most extreme way! 😂
When I watch either of your channels, I always feel like I am watching friends talk. Good people attract good people. Thank you for sharing your energy, experiences, and friendships with us!
I began watching Kara and Nate during 2020 and that’s how I found Eamon and Bec. Seeing how you all connect, and are true friends is beautiful. And the news Kara dropped 😮 exciting, but whatever happens, we love you all! Love how you all stay true to yourselves.
We love you Kara & Nate, regardless of what you are doing or where you are going. If you want YT to continue to be a part of your future life (and I hope you do!), people will stick with you in whatever you are doing.
Kara and Nate!!! You guys could post once or twice a month and I would still love and support you guys just as much!!!! Ya’ll are the best!
Nate, instead of FOMO, it's called JOMO (the joy of missing out). Learning to enjoy the moment and learning that saying no sometimes, feels GOOD. It really does. And yes, like Eamon explained, doing the things you enjoy.
We need to normalise women's choice of not having children. And to remove the pressure that as a woman it's your duty to have a kid.
I totally agree, so much pressure to have kids. I made up my mind young not to have children. 😊 There’s enough people on this planet now. Can’t imagine how many more people that this planet can support.
Uhh..that's one of the things we've been fighting for with woman's rights!!
I recently saw a video on tik tok from a man who was trying to group everyone who chooses not to have kids as a trauma response to something… and I wrote a comment stating that it is a personal choice and you cannot group everyone’s reasoning into one box. The hatred I got!!! It’s wild!
BINGO!!!!!👏👍👍👏
Why get upset about this because women aren't expected to have kids
I love the way Bec showed up for them emotionally in this episode. Amazing as always. Love Kara + Nate.
One week off has been so good for the QUALITY of the videos you do post tho. You guys leveled up so much this year. You’re killing it. Don’t worry about the time off.
I LOVED this episode! I’ve been an avid Kara & Nate watcher for years. They are my happy place. I have rewatched the whole channel probably 3 times and then diff seasons more than that. That being said, I’ve really missed them just talking to the camera, showing us the random in between moments. They do more story stuff now where it feels like they are kinda taken out of it. However, now I realize though that type of content is what makes them happy and drives them, which makes me happy.
This podcast is therapeutic. Thank you guys.
The joy I felt hearing Kara and Nate talk in general is magic to the soul
I think it would be super cool for y'all to say what tea everyone is drinking before started the pod, that would be a fun tid bit!
Also love y'all and kara and nate! Great episode!
I read an article today about folks who live behind the camera. The brain outsources the memory when it knows that there is another way to remember it. When there is no picture or video you must put it in your own brain. They have also discovered this about long term partners. They rely on each other to remember things. So when your brain knows that your partner will remember, you dont put a priority on it at all.
Kara and Nate, why don't you just travel slowly? I miss the videos that were just exploring local sights, culture, and cuisine.
I agree. I am tired of the challenges and Nate proving himself awesome.
I kinda like the challenges. I find it fun to admire someone do something I don’t think I could ever do. It inspires me to try harder at the things I’m trying to achieve in my own life.
I agree because it inspires travel for the “everyday person.” I used to think I want to go there and do just that. But with the newer videos, I’ll never do those things. While entertaining, not as relatable. Still love them though!!❤
Agree. Please go back to the older travel vlogs.
Yeah literally, the Ledville 100 video has inspired me to go for walks. Not big in comparison, but feels good anyway. @@TB-ky7de
I think truly being content is finding deep joy in the slower days. That's sometimes a skill you have to learn and you don't learn it until you stop. You don't have to move to grow. You can do it whilst completely still.
When I found out their last names, that sealed the deal for me that they were destined to be friends. (Fitzgerald and Buchanan- hello, the great Gatsby! The connection blows my mind) ❤
Wow, never thought about this! So cool
I feel like Nate’s grandfather has been a huge inspiration throughout his life, and possibly influenced Nate’s zest and appreciation for life, his positive attitude, and his urge to conquer hard challenges.
I loved this episode and the fact that it was 2 hours long! These 4 are def my comfort zone and I am always watching their episodes on repeat 💙
I never comment on videos but honestly, these two couples get me to my core. As a fellow Tennessean … I love these deep conservations. Thank you for being so open! I need these deep convos and friendships in my life! By far my favorite episode ever!
I cannot believe that Nate didn’t call 911. That’s just blows my mind.
Yes, I was struck by this too. Perhaps he went into shock? What country were they in? A place where medical care is not as accessible? Very strange to me.
You never know what you’ll do/wont do, until you’re in the situation.
I don't think they were in the US... They were abroad
They were in Colorado. I think he must've been in shock.
I’d really enjoy seeing Kara as a mom. I’m not the crazy lady caring about seeing his/her face on camera but like a fly on the wall seeing they was she communicates with her own child. ❤️
Just put in my notice at work due to burnout. It wasn’t just mental emotional, it became physical. While I still have a couple weeks, I’m still feeling so much more hopeful. It’s scary to be taking a break with possibly no income but no amount of money is worth sacrificing my health and happiness.
My son and his wife are riding their bikes around the world. They have been met with the utmost kindness and hospitality by those who have the least. In the developed world & like Kara & Nate have never been robbed.
Love ‘Kara & Nate’ (and Eamon & Bec also!!) One of my favorite things with Kara & Nate is the way Nate brings Kara a cup of coffee in the morning. It’s just the sweetest, kindness thing. I know it’s such a simple thing but that effort of the little things they do for each other makes the big things such a team effort and so enjoyable to watch. Look forward to ALL the videos from both couples.
Loving all the episodes, but as longtime K&N fans, we were THRILLED with this! As always, we love the questions you all ask & the deep dive into these topics. As 2 DINKS at 33 & 34, we LOVE our childfree Aunt & Uncle life! There are so many beautiful ways to build a life - whether than involves your own kids or not. Happy for you all to be on your own journey of parsing that out for yourselves & excited to follow for as long as you all plan to share it :)
Totally agree, being an aunt means all the fun with no responsibilities!
I truly loved this episode and I've never listened to the podcast before but just am a Kara and Nate fan. I'm currently job searching and had a really scary panic attack a couple months ago I've learned and grown and changed from that and hearing your perspective on how you sometimes need those wake up call moments to remind you just how nice the little things are means so much to me. I love this positivity and I hope I can continue to carry it with me as I move through life
I would love a Kara and Nate podcast 👏🏼 😍can’t wait to see their family grow!
@KaraandNate I felt so honored to have witnessed the incredible Leadville 100 experience from start to finish. It’s amazing to see a glimpse of the behind the scenes and I feel so fortunate that my boyfriend and I were able to meet you two at the end of the race after cheering on Nate at the aid stations over the course of 24 hours! I love the dynamic between the 4 of you and it’s so awesome to see the special connection that you all share. I admire each one of you!
All my favourite RUclipsrs in one room . Thank you all so much for your openness.
Seriously don’t think I have enjoyed a podcast more in my life. That was so good. Also weird to see K&N be so stationary and I loved it. I definitely would listen to their podcast.
@KaraandNate Thank you! I know it’s weird that a ton of strangers are so curious about your life and adventures. But we end up feeling like you’re our family. We care what happens to you. We hurt when you hurt. We are the ones blessed that you share your amazing life with us. Thank you both for this wonderful opportunity to share in your journeys.
P.S. This world will NEEDS mini me’s of Kara and Nate ❤
Sitting here listening to you I realize what you are describing is the peril of all creative people. Rock stars, actors, fashion. Here today, gone tomorrow anxiety. It just means you are living the dream.
I love Kara and Nate. I love that they keep it real. But why would you tell her “there won’t be a second one” when they were talking about the epilepsy? That minimizes her experience and feelings about it. You may think that your health issues can be healed with positive thinking-but not everyone is there or believes that same way. Maybe meet people where they are and not bring where you are.
Truth. Everyone has their own path to walk. Live your life According to your own to Your own values . someone sees you as an example? Great. No need to tell them. And maybe their Path is different anyways.
I think Bec was just trying to be hopeful that there won’t be a second one.
You are right, but you also have to consider that medical trauma is intense, and for many sharing and being empathetic in the way they needed it when they were (or are) in a similar situation. It’s well intentioned and sent with love. Give her some grace and see she’s just sharing empathy and certainly not invalidating to Kara. They are very good friends. They understand each others intentions and I’m certain if Kara felt a certain way she would share that with Bec.
She’s in her toxic positivity (denial) era
I understand what you’re saying. It’s a disease where seizures repeatedly happen typically. Something I don’t think is really able to be understood very well until it happens in your life. It’s just how powerful words are, though. Literally the things that you say are very related to your beliefs and what you put into practice and the way that you live your life. Manifestation is a real thing. I know it’s just like a cool buzz word for mainstream but if you really speak what you want to happen in life, it’s amazing how much you can actually change your life with your words. Bec was just wanting to speak life into Kara and her future.
I watch both channel's videos and think this is soooo cool seeing all 4 of you together! What a great episode!!!!! Much love to Eamon, Bec, Kara and Nate!!!!
Deciding whether or not to have children is a personal decision. They have my complete support whatever they do.
We love Kara and Nate because it never feels like they are doing any of their adventures for the videos. It always feels like they would be doing this even if they were not recording and they are just bringing us along for the adventure.