I Hesitated Talking to Others & Making Friends, then THIS Happened!

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @Shweta-Arora
    @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +113

    How many of you can relate to it?
    Just wanna say that there might come a time in your life when you don’t know how to help yourself. The feeling can be described as being trapped, lost, helpless - as if it’s the end of the world. At the exact moment when you feel like there’s no way out, remember that there always is. Seek out help from a professional if needed, not all battles need to be fought alone. It’s okay if you’re not being understood, as long as you understand yourself, as long as you’re there for yourself, you’ll heal and bounce back better than ever 🌸✨

    • @prakharrai9768
      @prakharrai9768 2 года назад +5

      At a similar stage to what you were before joining IIM....Loved the K-drama reference. 😂If you have the time do watch
      My mister
      Guardian
      Weightlifting Fairy Kim bok jo
      Reply 1988
      Twenty five twenty one
      My Liberation Notes
      Our beloved summer

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +9

      It might sound so untrue but I've watched all of them and would love more suggestions 🙈 Have you watched Put Your Head on My Shoulder? It's chinese but the besttttt!!

    • @prakharrai9768
      @prakharrai9768 2 года назад +2

      @@Shweta-Arora Will definitely watch👏.....And these were the best out of all I have watched till now.......If anything great comes up in the future......Will comment here😎🙏

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +2

      @@prakharrai9768 yayy donee!! 🌸

    • @sunkarasai4160
      @sunkarasai4160 2 года назад

      Mam can I crack iim Ahmedabad with 76 percentage in 12 th? Please reply

  • @mihirsharma40
    @mihirsharma40 2 года назад +23

    That line "customer care se bhi baat nahi kar paati thi" cracked me up. This was so me but thankfully things have changed for the better.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      So happy to hear you've grown out of it :D

  • @kartikagrawal8622
    @kartikagrawal8622 2 года назад +115

    just one thing between us is that we do not have blood relations but apart from that the way you guide me and all of us, the way you express your true feelings is like that Wr are listening to our elder sister. You are just amazing di, I wish we may meet once in a lifetime. Love from Jaipur :)

  • @kanupriyasinha
    @kanupriyasinha 2 года назад +62

    I am an introvert, and shy too.
    There are two reasons I face a hard time socializing-
    1. The thing you mentioned in your video- the thought that people are going to judge me. I have lost few opportunities because of it. And even if I gather courage to talk, I end up mispronouncing simple words. I even forget to pause while talking because I'd be so nervous.
    2. This is a popular introvert meme, and so real. Whenever I'm sitting with a group (that isn't my friend circle) or family, I would say something loud enough to be heard but nobody notices. It's as if I'm invisible.
    These two affects my pride and confidence. I feel like "probably everything I say is stupid, and others are smart."
    I wish I could become one of those confident introverts. I am so much interested in digital marketing/social media marketing/content writing, but I'm unable to move forward because I'm hesitant to talk to people.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +9

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience, Kanupriya. I can understand - I used to worry about people judging me all the time. Whenever you speak in a group, try thinking if you're doing it without the fear of judgement or not. Don't expect a response from anyone. You're sharing it for yourself - as long as that's the case, it won't hurt you.

    • @arpitapapalkar4940
      @arpitapapalkar4940 2 года назад +11

      Hi Kanupriya, I never replied to any comment before but I couldn't stop myself from replying to you, you just described my whole life, i feel like people judge me whenever I say something, due to nervousness i mispronounce words and i am always invisible to everyone in a group, and i feel left out, I hate myself for being like this

    • @SumitKumar-it8io
      @SumitKumar-it8io 2 года назад +3

      @@arpitapapalkar4940 and adding to the above i also feel that my points are not as good as my peers and it makes me feel that i am not aa intelligent as my classmates which further reduces my confidence

    • @mariab9164
      @mariab9164 2 года назад +2

      I relate so much to you, I’ve always felt really alone with my struggles to socialise because everyone around me is pretty much extroverted and doesn’t get it so its nice to know people like me exist and im not alone.

    • @adityasaini8437
      @adityasaini8437 Год назад

      Very relatable with your second point, @Shweta Arora, Please help help how can we overcome this point

  • @vivekb42
    @vivekb42 2 года назад +39

    Relatable after a month spent at IIM-A. The introvert in me keeps lingering on.. Thanks for the video.. Need of the hour..

    • @deekshitabora8280
      @deekshitabora8280 2 года назад +11

      Wow you made it to IIM-A. Congratulations.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +11

      Hey Vivek, so so happy to read your comment. If I had the chance to go back and change things, I would have talked to people more often on campus. I miss the place. Just try being a part of events and gatherings, you'll have many happy memories to look back at.

    • @vivekb42
      @vivekb42 2 года назад +2

      @@Shweta-Arora Yes.. Just trying to do that! Thanks.. :)

    • @vivekb42
      @vivekb42 2 года назад +1

      @@AnushkaAS1234 GEM.. 99.73..

    • @atifimtiyaznazeer
      @atifimtiyaznazeer 2 года назад

      @@AnushkaAS1234 General engineer male, with low acads, you can get into top iims

  • @twocolours7517
    @twocolours7517 2 года назад +7

    The BGM of this video made you so adorable, that when you are talking, it feels like some angel is talking to me. And your content is awesome as usual and relatable too.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for the feedback :))

  • @twinkle6838
    @twinkle6838 2 года назад +14

    Thank you for the video, Ma'am. This accepting yourself is really needed in life.
    I left my job for the prep, but I had this identity crisis for a long time, had too much self-doubt, and took time to accept myself.
    Thanks a lot for letting people know about such things too other than just preparation.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +3

      Truly grateful for your feedback, so so happy.. Hope you're doing much better now. Btw, it might help you to know that some of my batchmates also left their jobs for CAT prep, it's perfectly acceptable.

    • @twinkle6838
      @twinkle6838 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora great to hear that!
      Atleast I'm not the only one who took the path less travelled 😅

  • @kolapallibhargavram9231
    @kolapallibhargavram9231 2 года назад +1

    Wow just aweosme. I will start implementing this right now , hope this will not make my MBA journey any boring now. Thank you

  • @FarheenKhan-xf1yk
    @FarheenKhan-xf1yk 2 года назад +7

    Thank you Shweta for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I have always been an introvert and feel hesitant meeting and conversing with new people. I love being an introvert because we hold certain qualities which most of the extrovert lack.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      I agree, just accepting oneself can help overcome this :) Thank you for sharing your experience..

  • @priyankasahoo4350
    @priyankasahoo4350 2 года назад +12

    Well i was an introvert at a point of my life and after the pandemic i became an extrovert which is ironic. And trust me, talking to people, learning from them, talking with the intention of listening and understanding rather than waiting to reply back and a lot other things has helped me to build some good connections as well as broadening my mindset. Every new person has a story and it's always interesting to know about them. Thanks for putting up this video. It will help a lot of people.

    • @isolated.wallflower
      @isolated.wallflower Год назад

      After reading your comment, I'm convinced that I too can improve. Thanks🙏

  • @saileshpugalia8806
    @saileshpugalia8806 2 года назад +3

    The quality of content you are delivering is phenomenal whenever i feel low i watch your videos and they make me feel full of energy again😌

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, it truly means a lot :))

  • @anukritisrivastava8529
    @anukritisrivastava8529 2 года назад +11

    I can relate to this video 1000% because I really am a person who finds excuses for not talking to people.. and don't know to initiate and continue a conversation but if someone mentions my interest like music and k-dramas I can't just stop talking about it🤭

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +2

      Yayy, same here for K-dramas. Thanks for sharing your experience, hope you grow out of it soon :))

  • @rupalagrawal
    @rupalagrawal 2 года назад +2

    Was listening to the video on the autoplay RUclips feature. Just here especially to like and comment on the video. Im not sure how you've learnt this quality, but you observe, connect dots and bring examples from your own life to make the most common topics, special ✨. 🎉🎉 👏🏼

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much, Rupal :) It means a lot to me.. So grateful for your comment :D

  • @ashmi1516
    @ashmi1516 2 года назад +4

    Seeing a person like you talking about it motivates me to accept myself as I am and as I also feel the same.
    Thank you so much di ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, hope you do it soon :)

  • @kanupriyasinha
    @kanupriyasinha 2 года назад +3

    You speak on various topics that are very relatable. There are other youtubers who share motivational videos for MBA aspirants but honestly I love to watch only your videos.
    Others talk in a way where I feel like, "it's very easy to say like that." What they say is nothing wrong or unimaginable but I can't connect with them. Your videos are more like a small meet-up around a round table where you talk about the problems you know we may be going through, and then you share your experiences and knowledge- like a storytelling method. Also, you speak in a friendly way. I absolutely love these things about you and your videos.
    Whenever I face any issue, I just recall what you said or rewatch your videos. ❤️

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, Kanupriya, this is so heart-warming :)) if there's any other topic you'd like addressed, do share, super grateful for the feedback :D

  • @theharshkashyap
    @theharshkashyap 2 года назад +1

    Hi Shweta, I am from Punjab. I have obc certificate issued in Punjab on 24 sep 2020 it has no expiry date. Is it valid for cat 2022 registration or I have to make new one?

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      If it has no expiry date, you can use it. To be doubly sure, check Q29 of FAQs on the CAT website and also contact the helpline.

  • @astha2422
    @astha2422 2 года назад +9

    0:23
    2:06
    I can't believe how relatable this is. At first it felt like you're talking about me. Thank you so much❤. I really needed this.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Truly glad to hear this, hope you overcome it soon :)))

  • @prathameshwadekar8670
    @prathameshwadekar8670 2 года назад +2

    Very relatable video
    I am also very introvert since my childhood, I also hesitate to talk but tell myself that at some extent it is ok and it's my nature and many a times I get compliments for this nature from my friends, classmates.
    Once again thank you for the video👍👍😊😊

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      So happy to hear this, thank you so much for sharing :D

  • @justCricketing
    @justCricketing 2 года назад +1

    I have followed you since this channel was 5k. Since then I have been listening to your sweet inspiring voice .

  • @vinaytupe7544
    @vinaytupe7544 11 месяцев назад

    I don't know why but while listening to this, my eyes were filled.....rest i am not able to find words to explain....
    Just want to tell you that you have been a constant motivation and inspiration throughout....
    More power to you !!

  • @samir1052
    @samir1052 2 года назад

    Could you please clarify one doubt????
    I have a state level OBC-NCL document.
    Will it be sufficient to upload for CAT form or I need to apply for central level OBC-NCL document????

  • @ihardik99
    @ihardik99 2 года назад +1

    IDK what aura you holds, you always make me feel motivated, and this video is must needed for introverts like me, but I noticed, we are open to few of our close ones, where we know we wont be judged there, but that judgement feeling make us feel introvert and hesitant all the time, yeah exactly totally agreed with you and your viewpoints, that we are humans, how can it be possible for us to know each and every thing. Thank you so much for this video and always motivating. God Bless you Girl✨

  • @akhileshnair1965
    @akhileshnair1965 2 года назад +1

    Didi.... Apka video hamesha right time pe aata he.... Aur vo actually me helpful hota he. Thank You

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, it truly means a lot :)

  • @immanuel3144
    @immanuel3144 2 года назад +5

    "Non-engineers" - felt weird being engineer when I first time seen your channel, then loved your content and started following you. Loved this video very much that It made me to comment first time and show you that you and your content helped an introvert person to express freely who never comment or post anywhere. Keep going....

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much :) it truly means a lot.. P.S. - had recieved the same feedback from many people about the channel name, hence decided to change it to make it more inclusive ☺️

  • @anshkumawat1548
    @anshkumawat1548 2 года назад

    Noone is clearing my confusion ..., 😞 , I have done bcom (60%) , mcom (60%) & after that i did B.ed in Commerce subject , now can i do MBA ..??..or i will be rejected .??

  • @yogita2483
    @yogita2483 2 года назад

    Hi shweta di i am dropping my query please help
    i am in 5th sem of 3 year graduation programme .i have results for 1,2,3 sem but not 4th. In CAT application form which option should i choose pass without marks or should i enter aggregate marks till 3rd sem?

  • @arshadalim6620
    @arshadalim6620 2 года назад +1

    You are just perfect..
    I had posted a question on it on your last video and you made your detailed view videos
    Much appreciated

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you, hope it helped Arshad :)

  • @subhmaypatra5562
    @subhmaypatra5562 2 года назад +3

    I am introvert in new situations but once I am comfortable I am a good person to talk. I am happy that I have this quality 😊

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      It's a wonderful quality to have, so happy to read this :)

  • @krishnarajeev4781
    @krishnarajeev4781 Год назад

    This is phenomenal!! My eyes got brimmed🥺

  • @mr.infinite5761
    @mr.infinite5761 2 года назад +1

    Hii didi i need yr help.
    Whose signature is sufficient for NC OBC certificate?
    I am from a rural area didi i can't visit district magistrates..
    Is TAHASILDAR signature is enough?
    Plz rply me didi..or other brother and sister .if anyone have the idea plz reply once.
    Im from ODISHA.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      The authorities competent to issue the certificate are: District Magistrate /Additional District Magistrate /Collector /Deputy Commissioner /Additional Deputy Commissioner / Deputy Collector / I Class Stipendiary Magistrate /City Magistrate /Taluka Magistrate /Executive Magistrate / Extra Assistant Commissioner /Chief Presidency Magistrate / Additional Chief Presidency Magistrate /President Magistrate /Revenue Officers not below the rank of Tahsildar /Sub Divisional Officer of the area where the person and his family normally resides /Development Officer .
      This is given on the official website of CAT - check FAQs Q29.

    • @mr.infinite5761
      @mr.infinite5761 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora yes mam i had checked that.
      But when i was visiting the official website and downloaded the NC OBC format ..there is point in NB at the lowest part of that format.
      Written that..certificate issued by Gazette officer and attested by district magistrate are not sufficient.
      (Plz check it once didi..the NB point of the format).
      May b i did not understand. 😒

    • @mr.infinite5761
      @mr.infinite5761 2 года назад

      But thank u didi...for yr all time response.
      🥰.
      Hope u will be always with us as a mentor.

  • @Srishti933
    @Srishti933 2 года назад +4

    Oh my god i was literally waiting for something like this to come up in your channel shweta diii !!! This was much needed .....🥺❤️

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you sooo much for the feedback :))

  • @MH-zq4br
    @MH-zq4br Год назад +1

    I am an introvert too and I can totally relate to all the points discussed. I always feel whether what I want to say will be relevant or not and most of the times end up not saying it. And even if I do, I am not heard most of the time. Trying my best to change myself.

  • @tanmaygoel345
    @tanmaygoel345 Год назад

    Was relating to every bit of this video, had teary eyes at the end!
    Thankyou so much

  • @akashsrivastava8291
    @akashsrivastava8291 2 года назад +2

    PLZZZ DIIII REPLY ME I AM too much depressed for the reason of not matching my level with anyone ..... YRRRRR DIIII.....MENAS HOW DO U KNOW ABOUT MY FEELINGS(only by thumbnail) ....That's the same I facing right now......i am in clg 1 year AN INTROVERT i have 1-2 frnds in my schl (not too close).....bt here in clg same is happening with me i am not going with anyone.....there r groups bt i am alone....it's the hesitation of mine, talking with someone's (especially with girl's) i am knowing the fact that's the demerit of mine bt i ami unable anything plzz guide me.....

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      First of all, accept who you are, Akash. Make peace within first. Next, try not forcing conversations. Talk to people whenever there's a natural setting that demands a conversation. Try being a good listener. Trust yourself, be a kind person. There's no reason why someone wouldn't want to talk to you.

  • @sancharisarkar942
    @sancharisarkar942 2 года назад +1

    This video is so soooo touching! Seems like so personal...as I'm doing a job, I also feel hesitant while socialising...but it's also very important to know who we are and how we accept ourselves... knowing everything is not possible for anybody but learning attitude is kinda 'must have' quality for everybody...Thanks for making a video on this issue! ❤️

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, I truly pray you come out of it too :D

  • @aadi2335
    @aadi2335 2 года назад +2

    Such a beautiful video it is! I'm also a big introvert and a good listener. Di , I just want you to make a video on relationships and your experiences . Your all videos are very helpful , it would be helpful if you'll share your pov on it.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much :)) your feedback has been taken :D

  • @shambhavisinha1307
    @shambhavisinha1307 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Di :-)
    This was much needed. I do feel the same sometimes but will start accepting myself just the way I am 🌝

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      My pleasure 😊 Just keep working towards it, you'll surely grow out of it.

  • @032manvendrasingh6
    @032manvendrasingh6 2 года назад +1

    Thanks! Needed this.

  • @hrishikeshborgohain2075
    @hrishikeshborgohain2075 2 года назад

    I too am an introvert, just trying to improve myself and set up some speaking habits. Thankyou your video inspired me a lot.

  • @utkarshmishra1216
    @utkarshmishra1216 2 года назад +2

    This is the same situation which I am facing ...but literally I must say that you are an amazing person and more than that you are a great mentor .I watched many of your vedios all are truly helpful ...thank you so much for all of this .wanted to meet you someday 🙌😄

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, Utkarsh, truly means a lot :)) would love to meet !! :D

  • @ashutosh3817
    @ashutosh3817 2 года назад +4

    I used to wait for others to ask for extra sheets during the exam time of school days . Now I am coming up and I think everyone will be !

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Sooo relatable!! Thanks for sharing :))

  • @gauravladdha9524
    @gauravladdha9524 2 года назад

    I am in my 4th semester and exams will held on 1 September, how can I appear for CAT without result of 4th sem, result will be provided in october as per college.
    Please guide me 🙏

  • @factwala387
    @factwala387 2 года назад +1

    I love your video so much because this video is my eye opener for me because i am also introvert and i am also hesitate talking anybody. So thank you 👍👍 and i am biggest fan of your because the way you deliver you solution it's act like panacea. Thanks 🙏🙏

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much, hope you grow out of this hesitation too :)

  • @funlovers3046
    @funlovers3046 2 года назад +2

    That smile and joy in the beginning of the video is a so positive vibe. Do you practice it or just that you love your job. I wish I could be like that.. Have a nice day

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you :) I really enjoy this work ^_^

  • @ruchikaagarwal4152
    @ruchikaagarwal4152 2 года назад

    Hi I am in my final year still not received the graduation marks certificate. While filling the form I selected promotion or pass without marks under bachelor's degree. What should I do ? Is it a mistake?

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Please check with the official CAT helpline about it. If you don't have the marks of any year, you're not supposed to add them.

  • @divyasree4215
    @divyasree4215 2 года назад +2

    Mam Rodha sir have not covered coordinate geometry .....Where can I study it from .really in need of it mam

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Try checking if Elites Grid, Mission CAT have uploaded it?

  • @pratxy9576
    @pratxy9576 2 года назад

    This video is life saver, Shweta.
    Somewhere these emotional pain points need discussion. Thank you for sharing your experience!

  • @happysoul171
    @happysoul171 2 года назад +2

    Blessed to have you as my mentor 💓🙏

  • @vaibhavdaiya4467
    @vaibhavdaiya4467 2 года назад

    Absolutely right
    You made my day
    Keep going video like this

  • @kavitabatra4537
    @kavitabatra4537 2 года назад +3

    Very relatable. The best way to still be an introvert but at a same time act like an extrovert is to be confident and true to yourself .

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing this, Kavita :) you can be an introvert and confident at the same time :D

    • @kavitabatra4537
      @kavitabatra4537 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora It was such a meaningful conversation .

  • @mahimasridhar8325
    @mahimasridhar8325 Год назад

    I really like your videos! Especially the quotes behind you in every video...they are so inspiring:) Thank you!!

  • @अंकितामौर्य
    @अंकितामौर्य 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much di 💕💕.. This is one of the authentic videos that I have ever watched .....I really appreciate you.... lots of love 😘😘.. keep progressing...

  • @manavbhrany631
    @manavbhrany631 2 года назад

    This was probably one of the best videos I've ever come across! Keep up the good work. Kudos 👏

  • @wavormp3
    @wavormp3 2 года назад

    I'm in my third year of BSc. Can I opt for MBA as I don't have any prior knowledge about the requirements one needs to have to opt for MBA? I do not have any work experience also🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @godchild7777
    @godchild7777 2 года назад +2

    Di,you are the best.
    Thank you for such videos.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you sooo much, it means a lot :)

  • @shreyajaiswal6845
    @shreyajaiswal6845 2 года назад +2

    Di i have a family business of retail clothing, i work there as a manager and get my salary in cash. What documents would i need to show apart from salary slips and letterheads? Will they ask anything about registration of the business?

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +2

      This much should be enough but do check with the official CAT helpline.

    • @krsuman6599
      @krsuman6599 2 года назад

      Experience letter,salary slip, appointment slip if you have any of these you can show that
      Or else talk to cat helpdesk they will clearify everything

  • @deepthip2299
    @deepthip2299 2 года назад

    Thank you for creating this video.

  • @deepikapatel9784
    @deepikapatel9784 2 года назад

    Hello dii I'm preparing for CAT23 nad I'm doing my BBA can you please guide that what specialization should I choose in 2nd year organizational behavior, Finance or Marketing

  • @abhayjain9990
    @abhayjain9990 2 года назад

    hey,shweta thank you so much for being honest in your videos and a really caring person .
    i am also an introvert up until now and this knowledge of yours gave me a direction to work on myself and will change my beliefs that needs change for my goal which is not to become hesitant while talking and accept yourself and work on building habits upon those beliefs.I want you to please make a video on when you meet interviewers for first time how to be confident in front of them

  • @ruthwikcm3973
    @ruthwikcm3973 2 года назад

    This is so much empathetic. Thanks Shweta for the video.

  • @mbamadeeasy
    @mbamadeeasy 2 года назад +2

    This video made my day because many so-called introverts like me (given tags by others) can relate :) Thank you so much for such an amazing video. Thanks a lot, my role model :)

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much :)) I bet! The tags are the worst :P

    • @mbamadeeasy
      @mbamadeeasy 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora Yes :D Can we have 1-1 session with you? Sent you a connection request on Linkedin as well. Will send it again today.

  • @poeticcorner0505
    @poeticcorner0505 2 года назад +1

    It is very much needed video thank you so much

  • @17gopaljivrajani93
    @17gopaljivrajani93 2 года назад

    Hii mam i’m B.A.M.S student and preparing for cat 2022
    I have doubt regarding cat form filling process that do i have to put marks of all the four year?
    Or final year alone?

  • @adiisingh1037
    @adiisingh1037 2 года назад

    You are such a decent person .whenever you made a video such motivational for me .

  • @funlovers3046
    @funlovers3046 2 года назад +1

    Blessed to have you as my guide..

  • @pritimanpusty8055
    @pritimanpusty8055 2 года назад

    Hey shweta,
    I want to clear a doubt regarding my work ex. See, after my completion graduation I joined a firm on 15th July, 2022. But according to CAT 22 they are accepting the work ex up to 31st July 22, so should I show work ex or move on as a fresher. Please reply to it.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Hey Pritiman, most B-schools give points for work-ex basis months of work-ex. Realistically, you have half a month of work-ex but there's no harm to showing it in the form. Please add it.

    • @pritimanpusty8055
      @pritimanpusty8055 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora thanks a lot 😄

  • @anweshapradhan1884
    @anweshapradhan1884 2 года назад

    Hi,
    My college hasn't conducted the 4th semester exam yet, but I am going to complete my 3 years graduation degree next year itself. So can I now apply for CAT, SNAP, NMAT and other MBA exams without my 4th semester marks?
    Please please reply 🙏

  • @subhmaypatra5562
    @subhmaypatra5562 2 года назад +5

    Ma'am I also have similar experiences. All of my friends listen to Punjabi songs and Hindi songs but I only listen Hindustani & Carnatic classics, songs from Sounds of Isha and sometimes English songs as well. But I never think negative about it that I am different, even though I feel left out during conversations. Everyone is a unique creation of the divine and I accept and respect myself wholeheartedly just the way I am. Learning is a lifelong process and if I find something interesting I definitely make sure to have an insight about that certain thing. I once listened a song by Alessia Cara called 'Scars to your beautiful' which had the refrain *"You're beautiful just the way you are, you don't have to change a thing the world could change its heart"* 🌸🌻

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      This is so so beautiful, Subhmay! Thank you so much for sharing your experience, you're absolutely right!! It is so important to respect our own individualities in life :))

  • @amitgarje4929
    @amitgarje4929 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for making this video 😃

  • @arpitapapalkar4940
    @arpitapapalkar4940 2 года назад

    Thank you for making such a video ma'am because there are very few people who are understanding towards introverts and this video make me feel like you know exactly how I feel. Due to my less talking I have heard many taunts on being egoistic and full of attitude which caused me to loose confidence. This video is now going to be my daily motivation :)

  • @nupurmoharkar4399
    @nupurmoharkar4399 2 года назад +1

    Oh I am thinking like mere jese same person b koi h .. from childhood to college life... I have been an introvert.. I have improved myself alot.. Now I take initiative to talk to other people but i feel like they're not interested to talk with me.. Then i loose my confident.. I feel like nobody wants to be my friend..Very few people make my friend.. I don't know why...

  • @shauryapathak1217
    @shauryapathak1217 2 года назад +1

    Ooo god you are such a genius was facing this issue recently and you posted a solution ❤️

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Happy to hear it could help :)

  • @Bhavesh_jattan
    @Bhavesh_jattan 2 года назад +1

    Di just wanna say we love you for everything you do for us .... genuinely want god to bless you with everything❤️

  • @gargimukherjee350
    @gargimukherjee350 2 года назад +4

    Love you diii ❤️❤️. Even I was also like uh but now slowly slowly it has changed alot 😅. People mocked at me becuz of my voice but i accepted myself too😂

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this, Gargi ❤️ So happy to hear you've come out of it 🌸🌸

  • @preritaagarwal756
    @preritaagarwal756 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for making such videos 🙏🏽 a genuine big thank you

  • @moki7180
    @moki7180 2 года назад +2

    Ma'am, I know this query is not related to your video but I have an option to take up a free course on Coursera. I want to take something that will help my profile. Do you have any suggestions for what course I should take up?

    • @krsuman6599
      @krsuman6599 2 года назад

      Look online courses don't get much values nowadays because they also know students get enroll to these courses and earn a certificate by copying answers and all
      I mean there is very less transparency
      So I don't think it will help you much but still if you want you can do it

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Courses help in gaining knowledge of a particular stream, so take up a course in a field that interests you or you'd like to know more about. E.g. when I was doing B Com (H), I got fascinated by marketing, so I did a course called the Pricing Psychology. It helped me understand how goods are priced. I even talked about it in one of my interviews.

  • @tanvikundal5040
    @tanvikundal5040 2 года назад +1

    I felt like you are taking about my experiences, everything is so difficult 😮‍💨😶

  • @shivamkhas3109
    @shivamkhas3109 2 года назад

    Di, as you told earlier that we have to cover LOD-1 for quantitative aptitude to cover the basics, what we have to do in case of VARC and LRDI for basics?

  • @Gautamfitts
    @Gautamfitts 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for pointing out the fact which lot of people tend to ignore😇.

  • @devkisharma7936
    @devkisharma7936 11 месяцев назад

    U literally simplify my insecurities
    Thank u di🙇‍♀️💗

  • @sundardgvjay1188
    @sundardgvjay1188 Год назад +1

    Mere friends bhi bahut zyada carootns, english movies songs, WWE dekhte the aur mere family ke pass itna zyada paisa nahi tha ki ye sab afford kar paye...toh mujhe bhi bahut dukh hota tha , left out feel karta tha...main toh uss jagah se chupke se uth chale jata tha taki koi mujhe ye na puch de ki tune ye dekha ye suna aur phir mere majak udane lage...

  • @zayn.222
    @zayn.222 2 года назад

    Hey mame taking gap year fory preparations ...can I do any diploma after my b.com ? So that I can add it to my knowledge which can later help me and make my resume strong ? Is it advisable to do any diploma from ur side ..if yes then which diplomas?

  • @rsham9322
    @rsham9322 2 года назад +3

    Hello di,
    I'm in bba sem 1 currently....
    I'm planning to go for some professional degree??
    What should i go for ca or cs??
    I'm inclined towards both accounts as well as law and theory??
    So I'm planning this professional courses to add co curricular in my qualification..
    What would u suggest??
    Pls pls pls reply...

    • @Sivakumarreddy00
      @Sivakumarreddy00 2 года назад

      What is there to suggest. U can go for both of them.
      CS is a bit voluminous and tougher than CA. U can do CA easily if u prepare for CS. That's it

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Hey, please make sure to take up a professional certification only if you wish to make a career into these fields, not just for co-curricular, they are indeed tough to crack. As far as I know, CAs earn more than CSs but CAs also take longer to become CAs, so that's a tradeoff. If you wish to get into finance later, then CFA is a better option.

    • @rsham9322
      @rsham9322 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora thanku mam...

  • @haris634
    @haris634 2 года назад +2

    Mam I can u provide a study pattern and basic things as I am not even aware of anything I would like to prepare for 2023 Nov ....My cgpa in 10th was 9.6 and 12th was 10 and My degree course at mathematics is going on...

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      You have great academic scores. There's a video on CAT 2023 on the channel that you can refer to.

    • @haris634
      @haris634 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora ok mam Thx for noticing my comment and giving me a reply

  • @manvisaroya3961
    @manvisaroya3961 Год назад +1

    Hi didi thanks for making such video
    This year I am going to join a b school for pgdm.
    As I am also very shy, introverted but also average student and I have never participated in my school and college life so please help me out and in a new college a new life how I should start this journey as I am very hesitant person and I think that if I join any activity I have to speak and represent myself it makes me anxious
    Please help me out so that I can change myself a little and also work upon my english and studies too as weak student

  • @shrutivarshney1111
    @shrutivarshney1111 2 года назад

    I can relate to this totally mene bhi Harry Potter kafi tym bd dekhi thi dn ppl around me like oh toh tumne ki hi kya ha, yeh nahi dekha toh kuc nhi dekha ha. Tmri video dekh k bhut confidence milta hai
    I really want to meet you one day
    Thnks for guiding us 💚

  • @partharadhye1895
    @partharadhye1895 2 года назад +1

    Very relatable, Thanks for addressing it😇

  • @lakshayagarwal1007
    @lakshayagarwal1007 2 года назад +2

    i was able to relate so much when you said you used to see the ground while walking in the campus. I used to have the same feeling for a long time. but ya worked hard on it to be a normal person. i agree to all the points shweta. Quick thing i think the BGM was a bit extra thode decibels kam kar sakte the(personal opinion) waise toh i'm used to seeing your videos without bgm, but i know you tried to experiment a bit:)

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for the feedback, Lakshay, will try toning it down, I have no idea how to use BGM :P and glad to know you could relate :))

  • @shaikhsouravali3646
    @shaikhsouravali3646 2 года назад +1

    The way you are guiding us di is remarkable ❤️❤️

  • @gour788
    @gour788 2 года назад +2

    Hi shweta!!!
    Your story is very relatable to mine
    I felt as if someone is talking about me
    I used to be like this but then gradually i started accepting my self and still being an introvert i dont feel any hesitation while talking to a new person
    Instead i approach them by myself :)
    Thankyousomuchh for making a video on this topic
    Love your content ♡♡

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Thank you soooo much for sharing your experience, so so happy to read that you've grown out of the hesitation :))

    • @gour788
      @gour788 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora ♡yup!

  • @saivenkataabhinay5725
    @saivenkataabhinay5725 2 года назад +1

    Wow, wow, wow amazing content perfectly relates to me.

  • @parulsingh8512
    @parulsingh8512 2 года назад +1

    Hi Sweta, I can relate to you. While watching this video, I was like this is me. How does this person know about me?
    I am learning so much from you.
    Keep doing it :))

  • @kshamta243
    @kshamta243 2 года назад +2

    Hello Shweta didi... In your last to last video, I was having one doubt. I had 7 subjects in my 10th class (cbse). Do i need to mention all of them while filing for the cat form?

    • @krsuman6599
      @krsuman6599 2 года назад +2

      Yes all
      Bcz there it is clearly mentions total marks(inclusive of all subjects)
      So please fill all the main as well as the additional subjects details

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      All the subjects for which you were given marks/grades - there are some subjects in 10th in some boards where we are not given marks, it just says pass/fail.

    • @kshamta243
      @kshamta243 2 года назад +1

      @@Shweta-Arora My all additional subjects have marks. So it means I need to calculate marks and percentage with all 7 subjects?

    • @kshamta243
      @kshamta243 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora And also what about subjects like work experience, health and physical education etc. for which only grades are given. What to do about them?

  • @kunalmadan351
    @kunalmadan351 2 года назад

    Hii shweta dii, I wanted to ask that I am a non engineer and also am a repeater and I am mediocre in quants, In June I have solved many of the arithmetic ques from arun sharma but when I shift to algebra or geo I forgot arithmetic and vice versa and now I am not able to know how can I retain quants, please help

  • @saibabaalapati7944
    @saibabaalapati7944 2 года назад

    your personality is lovable

  • @sankhasubhrasain4873
    @sankhasubhrasain4873 2 года назад +2

    The video was so touching and enriching. I was also an introvert during my school days and still I am. I love peace and solitude a lot like you. I couldn’t talk with anyone because I feared a lot of being laughed at for not knowing anything. The two steps as stated by you really proved a lot beneficial for me during the last few months that now I can talk freely with friends, professors and professionals. Without fear I could now initiate or join conversations. It is also motivating to know that someone great like you faced the same problem of how to initiate/join conversations. Your videos actually solve most of the critical problems faced by us. Thanks, Shweta Di, for existing and making such awesome and heart-warming videos. Love of you Didi.❤
    Sankha, Undergraduate student at Jadavpur University.

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Thank you so so much!! This truly means a lot :') I am so happy to hear you've grown out of it. Keep up :D

  • @atifimtiyaznazeer
    @atifimtiyaznazeer 2 года назад

    Ma'am, I have not made that good networks during my MBA, will that backfire in my career ahead? I am in 2nd year MBA

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      It is good to network - it helps you post graduating. You can still do that if possible, it's never too late. I had such meaningful conversations with some of my batchmates after graduating.

  • @christine3514
    @christine3514 2 года назад

    Didi, so my academic schedule is running late due to COVID etc, so i might not be in my final year when i apply for cat but by November we might be in our final year. So will my application be considered?

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад +1

      Hey, that's okay, you just need to be in final year in November, also try contacting the official CAT helpline to be sure of this

  • @mehekkothari4243
    @mehekkothari4243 2 года назад +1

    Hey Shweta, dropping down my query which I had mentioned in the last video. Kindly revert.
    Thank you for your response. Well, I am a 2019 BBA graduate, with a PG Diploma from Symbiosis (2019-2021, Distance Learning). And later, I have been working as a Content & Copywriting Specialist. (June 2021-Present). So is my profile strong or will I have problems during profile base selection or Interviews?

    • @Shweta-Arora
      @Shweta-Arora  2 года назад

      Hi Mehek, you have a good profile in terms of work-ex and acads diversity, how are the academic marks?

    • @mehekkothari4243
      @mehekkothari4243 2 года назад

      @@Shweta-Arora
      Firstly thank you for acknowledging the message, really means a lot to me. Following is my Academic Record:
      10th : 9.4 Cgpa, 12th: 80%, Grad: First Class, PG: 82%. Kindly revert

  • @i_am_subhamkumar
    @i_am_subhamkumar 2 года назад +1

    Hi Sweta ,tnqu for this video..u are an amazing person 😍
    Love wt u do