100. How to Rescue Your Child From the Gender Cult: Gabrielle Clark on Desistance Coaching
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- Gabrielle helped her daughter escape the cult. Now, as a Desistance Coach, she helps other parents find ways to reach their ideologically captured children too. Meanwhile, my career has taken a similar direction, as I’ve devoted a significant portion of my energy toward helping parents of youth with Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD) as a communication skills consultant.
Today, we discuss the challenges parents face in today's school system, where Critical Race Theory has a divisive impact on diverse families such as Gabrielle’s; so-called “Social Emotional Learning” is antithetical to its name; and victim/oppressor narratives incentivize children to go to war with their own sexed bodies. What can parents do when their rights to protect their children are under attack?
Join us as we uncover the importance of trust in instincts and the power of nature in shaping a child's perspective. How can a change in environment and engaging in hands-on challenges help children build confidence and resilience? We discuss the regional differences in cultural norms, from the West Coast's liberal acceptance to New England's view of rebellion. And what about the rise of gender ideology in Christian homeschooling families in red states? Tune in to discover the impact of societal influences on our children's identities and the role of parents in guiding them through these turbulent times.
Gabrielle Clark fights indoctrination in the K-12 educational setting. Both her school aged children were affected by indoctrination in different ways. One harmed by CRT. One harmed by SEL. She fought back starting with CRT indoctrination. Her son was discriminated against at school. They filed the first federal lawsuit against indoctrination in America.
While she was raising awareness about CRT, her daughter was socially transitioned through the SEL program. She organized a plan to facilitate a safe environment for her daughter to desist. The Affirming Reality methodology helps people parent their children into desistance.
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00:00 Start
[00:03:25] Fighting indoctrination in schools.
[00:06:12] Identity and mixed-race families.
[00:12:23] Social Transition Consequences
[00:14:47] Children's mental health struggles.
[00:19:47] Personality changes in youth.
[00:25:07] Benefits of Wonderment in Nature.
[00:28:06] Connecting with nature to heal.
[00:33:50] Identity and privilege realization.
[00:36:47] Building confidence through challenges.
[00:41:17] Challenges of being the opposite sex.
[00:42:46] Gender expectations and appearance.
[00:47:38] Regional cultural differences.
[00:52:31] Gender ideology in red states.
[00:55:04] Boundaries in parenting.
[01:00:18] Teaching priorities and character building.
[01:03:43] Unplugging for nature detox.
[01:09:30] Strategic Apologizing.
[01:11:32] Watchful waiting parenting advice.
[01:16:24] Pronouns as a gateway drug.
[01:19:48] Solution-focused approach for families.
[01:22:49] Self-care reminder.
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I find helpful the "strategic apologizing" concept. This could be helpful to me. Thank you.
Gabrielle Clark, a name that echoes with resilience, courage, and unwavering dedication to the vulnerable. Your tireless efforts to educate and advocate for those caught in the crosshairs of the gender ideology storm are nothing short of heroic.
In a world where the voices of the marginalized often go unheard, you stand as a beacon of hope and strength. Your advocacy for children, especially those at risk of the harms of gender-affirming care, is a testament to your unwavering commitment to their well-being.
Thank you to both of you for shining a light on the shadows where exploitation and manipulation lurk. Thank you for being a voice for those who are silenced by the loud and often oppressive forces of ideology.
Your work empowers us all to question, to think critically, and to protect the rights of children. It's a reminder that compassion, knowledge, and unwavering determination can create ripples of change that resonate far beyond the confines of our immediate circles.
May your efforts continue to inspire, educate, and ignite conversations that lead to real understanding and progress. You are a true advocate for human rights, a fierce protector of children, and a beacon of hope for a brighter, more just future. Thank you, Gabrielle Clark and Stephanie Winn, for all that you do.
Fantastic mother. She needs to be replicated throughout the USA & UK. Thank you both. 🇬🇧❤
Hi, totally agree. If you have children beware the sexuality badges in Roblox Adopt Me game. We need to instill truth not confusion into our kids 🇬🇧💪🏻✨️
Thanks for sharing Ms. Clark. Sorry to learn your case got jerked around in the court system. I was really looking forward to it playing out. It appears you are in a better place and I am grateful for that. Keep on keeping on. Keep fighting the good fight. Thanks for all your hard work. Bless you and good health vibes in your direction. 🐿
Gabrielle Clark you are a total inspiration! ⚡️⚡️⚡️💗 Bless you and your family
Few people acknowledge the suffering of parents in these gender distress situations.
Apparent focus can also be a coping mechanism for depressed artists. Just because a person appears to be creative, productive or "in the moment" doesn't mean they aren't depressed. Art can be a coping strategy.
If every mom was like this woman, we would not be in this ridiculous mess. Thank you for speaking up for REASON!!
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Interesting, and disheartening. I didn't realize that critical race theory wasn't basically just getting rid of Southern Pride, factually incorrect history books and that anything ridiculous that I heard was right-wing exaggeration of a rare overreach. That's what I thought too about trans-rights and schools. My husband told me that teens were getting double mastectomies and medical operations on their genitals, and I laughed at him for being so credulous-- no US doctor would do unnecessary major surgery on a teen, I knew adult women who couldn't get a doctor to tie their tubes bc they might change their minds, so no way! This is all so horrible.
We kept telling doctors that our ROGD daughter was not "really trans" and that there were definite psychological issues at play (low self esteem, high functioning autism, anorexia, not wanting to grow up, feeling inferior to her sisters, feeling ugly), not some inner maleness or wrong body, and the psychiatrist literally said "let's not overdiagnose or psychologize this, 'he' has been persistent and consistent and insistent for a year, this isn't going away". Well, yeah, not if everyone keeps telling her that she can become a boy and grow into a man and opt out of dealing with becoming a woman! Her anorexia wouldn’t have gone away either if everyone had affirmed her belief that she was too fat and eating too much!
12:20 “refuse to be a victim” is a nonsense phrase because victimhood isn’t chosen… by definition it is something that others do to you. I would suggest looking for another phrase that does not stigmatize victims of violence and SA by suggesting it was their choice