@@zoeymosher3073 That's what we think, 100% confirmed. I left a girl on read, for umm 2 weeks, and now she is so mad she won't talk. She probably hates me.
"Don't show her that you're too excited nor that you are uninterested in talking to her" Hmph Hii would be too enthusiastic Hi would be too lazy Hey must be perfect, sweats
Untrue. Guys love a challenge and to chase. Best way to get a guy uninterested is to answer right away. He needs to know you are busy and in high demand.
Yep. Its exactly why i prefer talking to people in person, and even over the phone i just ring people. Too much can be misinterpreted over text. You end up missing the little yet important things that are part of just talking to people normally. Tone of voice, body language, other mannerisms, etc. We don't really understand ourselves enough to try to replicate it through a screen, and even then i don't really enjoy it, because it isn't natural. There's just no intimate human connection you can have through words on a screen
True story: I texted a girl and she texted back immediately. I was looking forward to a hike next morning and didn't plan on talking to her that night. . But since she had responded immediately, I decided to text her a while since it would be rude not to. . That started a chain of events that night- we texted a while, then we wanted to talk on the phone so did that for an hour. Then we wanted to video chat so did that for two hours. . All said and done, we had interacted for over 4 hours. It was super late for both of us and we didn't want to stop though. All thought of my hike next day was forgotten. . Eventually she became my wife. . . . So girls- it pays to be nice and text back as soon as possible. No point in waiting if you wish to talk to him.
@@jesuschristiskingandsavior461 what kinda games are you talking about? The girl in this story is my wife and she didn't play any game. She texted back immediately.
Ladies if you want to talk to a guy,don’t wait an hour or a day,just text him whenever you want to,cause there’s no need to try to play some reverse psychology games,just talk lol Edit:also most guys Ik barely get any DMs back so talking to him first will make him happy
I can never understand this silly games. If I text you then am interested. It is pointless to make me wait. I won't want you more. If you always make me wait, all it says to me is that maybe you aren't as interested. Nothing more.
If I’m expecting a reply to my reply, I’ll do it as soon as I’m available to have a conversation and it’s not a distraction to whatever other task I might be in the middle of
@ethanfreeman1528 And your not a man if you use the word "energy". Grow up and use the word communication and do not adapt to this stupid new age word play.
I dont care about the delay. She might be busy. But she needs to give me the vibe that shes into me and is ready to move on it. Nothing kills attraction faster than feeling a lack of interest.
people above 25 who treat texting like a game, delay responses or fake being busy to come off interesting come off immature and are huge red flags. This applies to both men and women.
@egg Being honest is the key. If you know you are in a complicated situation just tell the other you are in it so the other will understand. Communication is key.
@@matteomarku7177 It's not just about how you "come off", it's about you determining a standard in your later relationship. If you delay responses, your partner will eventually mirror your behaviour. And then at a certain point you are just 2 people taking ages to respond to each other, which you may believe makes you look interesting, but will ultimatively become a total annoyance later on in your relationship. Just be natural for the most part. If you actually convince your love interest to be with you, you'll have to drop this facade anyway unless you want to set yourself up for a really shitty time.
this is why guys need to send hey, talk to, and hook up with at least 20 different girls and never commit to any of them. always keep your roster full and keep the girls coming and going. every day when I see a girl that I think is hot I talk to her and try to get her number and she's just another one added to the roster. if you hangout that's great if you hook up that's great too. if she ghosts you that's also great because you never commit to any of them. keep a rotation and continue to keep it growing by the day
unless it's someone I've never talked to before, I never say "how are you?" or "how's it going?" like just no I just feel like it's a dumb and awkward question especially among people you're friends with lol
I never text "hey" . I am stupidly straightforward. If I want to ask for a date then I'll straight ask for a date. I hate all the back and forth bull. It seems so immature to me. I know many people don't like direct people like me like that but it is what it is.
Women always have their phones on them 24/7. If she likes you, she will respond instantly. If she doesn't, she will respond after a day or 2 and say "sorry I was busy."
Never read too much into how long it takes someone to text you back. Some women just like playing games. Some people are just actually busy or have a lot going on. It also depends on how much rapport/comfort you built from the girl before getting the number. Dating is complicated
im not always glued to my phone, i only use it a few times a day. if several times, maybe only a few mins each time. im a women. i have social media but im pretty much dead on all the platforms i use. yes we exist so when we dont reply it's not because we're playing hard to get or playing the "game".
Not true, Im missing someone and I would like to text him, call him and see him right now but I'm doing the opposite and been days... Too complicated my situation. So sometimes things are actually the opposite of what u see.
I've been waiting 89 days and counting, I can only assume she's convened the United Nations to assist her in crafting a diplomatic and tactful response.
If she texts back right away it makes her more attractive, I usually text back pretty quick unless I'm actually busy (this applies to anyone). Shows me the person actually cares enough to text me back and makes them more attractive.
Yeah it doesnt even have to be instantly, bit at least in a couple hrs (people are busy sometimes) But honestly I've got to the point where if I do bother messaging a girl and she doesnt reply In the same day I deleted her contact I've got to mich shit to do to waste my time for some little girl that isnt serious and just wants to play games for attention
I’m a psychologist. Overthinking little things can cause a lot of unnecessary stress and it could be important. Studies show that if you reply straight away they have a more emotional bond with them because they can rely on you. They will know you care about them and come to you with more personal stuff and you will develop a strong trust.
But you didn't have to cut me off Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing And I don't even need your love But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough.
@@n.e.o.n3983you could say that....and then delete the contact It's not hard to say "sorry I'm not interested" and block them most guys arent actually malicious and will appreciate you not wasting their time
@@JuxJacy I love that you keep going to different comment sections getting told men don't fucking like that shit and then telling them they are lying or some bullshit. You're fucking nuts, adopt some cats if you can't actually accept men don't like to be toyed with and really really don't like women who argue
this is why guys need to send hey, talk to, and hook up with at least 20 different girls and never commit to any of them. always keep your roster full and keep the girls coming and going. every day when I see a girl that I think is hot I talk to her and try to get her number and she's just another one added to the roster. if you hangout that's great if you hook up that's great too. if she ghosts you that's also great because you never commit to any of them. keep a rotation and continue to keep it growing by the day
If somebody texted me that, I would be very tempted to say “My house is on fire and my car broke down.” I like to say ”what’s up.” If they want to talk, they’ll say “not much” or whatever people usually say. If they want to ask a question, they just get straight to the question.
Here's something to help you. Start asking questions about him then. Start getting to know him, his interests. His family. What kind of food he likes. It's not difficult. If you already know this then think of something you can do together. Go out and have some fun. Like Jesus, it's not difficult.
That's why i try to talk to girls in real life, it's too uncomfortable not to see what the person is feeling like when talking to you. in real life it doesn't happen, and plus, you're certain that you are the only one she's talking to
I was chatting to an American girl who had recently moved to England and one day I texted her "ello ello hows it going love" and she didn't text back for nearly two days then when I saw her she said she was so shocked by that greeting that she couldn't think of what to say back 😂
This waiting thing is so stupid, people nowadays just complicating things even more, and then everything is fake. Playing hard to get... lol. Mate, be cool, be honest, straight forward and confident. If she don't get it, she's not for you.
No no no don't wait that long trust me. Maybe don't text in the same minute, but believe it or not replying in that same five minutes isn't lame at all. I used to think that the waiting and over-analyzing thing was good and normal... but then I talked to my best friend who is a guy and he told me not to do that cause most guys are just as hopeful and nervous as girls can be, and they don't realize the whole "psychology" behind the waiting and message structure that girls do
I just assume she doesn't like me or actively has issues with me if she takes all day or especially if it's the next day and I start distancing lmao Oh well
well, you're half right. this girl has issues, just not with anyone but herself. if she can't say "hey, how are you?" back then how is she going to think about other basic things in life? girl's a powder keg. not worth the trouble.
Part 2: Guy: *sends wall of text about a story with a question to continue the conversation* Girl: lol. *Gives a one worded response to the question and no follow-up* Guy: *stops texting back* Girl to friend: "why are guys so bad at holding conversations?! 😫"
Waiting to respond is a great way to lose the good ones. Only guys that will respond in similar fashion are the ones that don’t actually care about you as a person.
This is for both sides of the table aka for both men and women, DO NOT leave people on read or never respond if they are interested in talking to you, waiting a whole ass day can make someone feel like oh they are busy or oh they don’t want to talk to me, its honestly a jerk ass move. If they text you just respond, Say hello or hi it doesn’t matter, NEVER leave them hanging for a day or weeks, that’s stupid. If a guy texts you that means they are interested in talking to you, getting to know you, etc, but dont leave them hanging just dont, same goes for women if a lady texts you she just wants to talk. Morel of the story: DONT leave someone on read otherwise things could end very badly in your friendship or relationship, whatever your case is in. (If its a hacker or any of that sort then leave them on read.)
Never leave a guy on read don’t wait if you respond some what soonish we are rather happy with that honestly we don’t care wether you say hi hey what’s up just type something back. 😅👍
Literally, the best thing is to actually talk, if you like him. Text when you can and put some effort in, ask questions and keep things going. Most guys break their backs carrying conversations when they have no idea what they're doing and they're panicking the whole time
Nah, I don’t give enough damn to act like that. I respond whenever I have time and feel like talking. I’m too lazy to think too deeply about it or play games.
"Hello seems to formal" My mind : "hello there darling I was thinking you could come over for some tea and biscuits if our calendars aligne together and maybe go later for some horse riding with the finest sadals for your majesty"
lmao sooo true, i once got a dare to text my crush and before i had the chance to delete my message he replied and me and my besti were having a whole debate on whether i should reply hi or hey or hello or sup or yo or whatever, and when we finally decided on replying with hey, we again started discussing if i should put hey with one or two or three y's and if i should put and emoji XD
Ok well thats kinda hard when you dont know what to say i told the guy i have liked since 1st grade i liked him and he had mixed feelings because he was dating someone nobody new about and i gave him my number so we could be friends but all are conversations are awkward. :( and they broke up a week later
@@-Nattie-. Guy advice from a guy 1. Figure out relationship status 2. Never give a dude your number after saying you like him 3. Guys are simple a few words is all you need to say something.
Honesty died in dating apps. All this silly games just are barriers to express oneself sincerely in fear of being felt as a person with needs. All people have emotional and sexual needs! That's why they are looking for dating! People, stop this nonsense and be real and honest. If you cant, then you must go on a therapy journey before trying to engage in a relationship.
me: girl i think im just gonna take awhile to respond bc he always takes awhile to respond to me *he texts me* me: hiiii *then me in my head: AW SHIT I FORGOT TO GHOST*
@@Slevencolevra I'm just saying, guys read into these response times like they mean something and although this vid shows that some girls do curate these response times, there are some people who simply don't feel like texting at the moment. like I'm busy, leave me alone rn, doesn't mean I don't like you tho
@@infpedits Your silence actually means you've low interest to a man, u doesn't have respect for him and he's not goin anywhere for u, you just don't take him seriously so we don't have the time for that. Time is precious we all are mortals! If u love someone and you're scared to lose him you'll respond fast! Ghost men and that's the end so you can take me seriously respect me and want me how I deserve.
Ladies, please just respond in an adequate time frame, waiting too long or being left feeling like the only one committed to a conversation is an easy ticket to us losing interest.
If a dude texting you he's most likely into you and at that point you can say anything a regular human would say. Most likely he won't be texting you because he's interested in being your study buddy 🗿
Usually a "hey" text is to see it you're free to text back or talk. If you text back then the answer is yes, otherwise it either means you're busy or you don't give a damm
It's amazing how women overthink little things like this, but don't overthink becoming sigle moms or going into debt for a worthless college degree... MIKE DROP
In this comment thread: Men/boys screaming at the top of their lungs to stop doing this shit Really young girls surprised boys actually just want to hear from them Women in their twenties and thirties who are still single informing young girls they should be withholding attention, that's how you get men
The man... I know she knows. She cannot go w/o her phone to the point she would break into a strangers house to charge her phone if that was the only option. If she takes more than 5 mins., she went from potential relationship status to never taken seriously again and we just gonna see what we can get out of this until another potential relationship comes along.
Actually the opposite happens to me. I’m the fastest responder on this planet! No one is as fast as I am! So I usually wait for people to text me back….hours or even days. But I don’t do that because I thinks it’s stupid, irresponsible, disrespectful and annoying. I usually ignore those who make me wait too long
Meanwhile the boy: "She probably hates me..."
oh no 😭 that would actually be so sad!
@@zoeymosher3073 That's what we think, 100% confirmed. I left a girl on read, for umm 2 weeks, and now she is so mad she won't talk. She probably hates me.
@@notacasual5593 awe🥺well I don't hate you🤗
yeah I am way to casual and barley check m phone and then I see a 3 days old message and then kill the convo xD
So fkin true
In the guy's head: "I'll say hey, cause it's what people say to each other to start a conversation"
Facts
I know right. Like no psychology shit, we just talking.
"Don't show her that you're too excited nor that you are uninterested in talking to her"
Hmph
Hii would be too enthusiastic
Hi would be too lazy
Hey must be perfect, sweats
But there are still different 'hey's. Like 'heyyy' or 'Hey' or even 'hej'. They all mean different things.
"Hey" is like a word you say to let your presence be known. The REAL start to a conversation is what what you say after
“I’ll text him back tomorrow”.. that’s a sure fire way to make most guys think you aren’t interested at all.
Exactly
Men love to chase though. The guys I wasn't interested in and usually never responded for days, were the once that was hard to get rid off
@@linal3489 As a man, no they don't
@@linal3489 Have you ever thought perhaps if you showed some interests in those guys, they would be even harder to get rid of
Untrue. Guys love a challenge and to chase. Best way to get a guy uninterested is to answer right away. He needs to know you are busy and in high demand.
The entire texting phenomenon is a fascinating lesson in how to over complicate the living crap out of basic human communication.
Lies again? Hey Not Gay
@@NazriB some random sh*t 😂 amazing
Aka just fuckin call her. If she has a problem with it she ain’t the one
Yep. Its exactly why i prefer talking to people in person, and even over the phone i just ring people. Too much can be misinterpreted over text. You end up missing the little yet important things that are part of just talking to people normally. Tone of voice, body language, other mannerisms, etc. We don't really understand ourselves enough to try to replicate it through a screen, and even then i don't really enjoy it, because it isn't natural. There's just no intimate human connection you can have through words on a screen
True story:
I texted a girl and she texted back immediately. I was looking forward to a hike next morning and didn't plan on talking to her that night.
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But since she had responded immediately, I decided to text her a while since it would be rude not to.
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That started a chain of events that night- we texted a while, then we wanted to talk on the phone so did that for an hour. Then we wanted to video chat so did that for two hours.
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All said and done, we had interacted for over 4 hours. It was super late for both of us and we didn't want to stop though.
All thought of my hike next day was forgotten.
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Eventually she became my wife.
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So girls- it pays to be nice and text back as soon as possible. No point in waiting if you wish to talk to him.
Whoa. This escalated quickly 😅
Glad it all ended up great for the both of you
@Serendipity well when I was born, my parents saw that I had a big package so gave me a long name to match that. ;-)
@@carleen_the_riot wut
Only women play games like that
@@jesuschristiskingandsavior461 what kinda games are you talking about?
The girl in this story is my wife and she didn't play any game. She texted back immediately.
Good thing they’re not overthinking it.
What now?
New generation girls are so simple
@@sroy7982 ikr
@@sroy7982 most girls are now lesbian so uh..
Lol😅yeah
Ladies if you want to talk to a guy,don’t wait an hour or a day,just text him whenever you want to,cause there’s no need to try to play some reverse psychology games,just talk lol
Edit:also most guys Ik barely get any DMs back so talking to him first will make him happy
Nailed it...
I can never understand this silly games. If I text you then am interested. It is pointless to make me wait. I won't want you more. If you always make me wait, all it says to me is that maybe you aren't as interested. Nothing more.
If I’m expecting a reply to my reply, I’ll do it as soon as I’m available to have a conversation and it’s not a distraction to whatever other task I might be in the middle of
YES
Nahhh
"The longer she leaves me on read, the cuter her friend gets"
you nailed it dude
this should get 1k likes...
edit: wow he got 3k, i was the first like :)
edit2: 7k omg!!!
LMFAO
LMAOOOOO
@@AKMGuitar it should
My attraction for a girl multiplies whenever she texts back quickly and gives off the same energy I do
Same, I hate being left on read or delivered or when they don't respond for a while, it makes me feel like they hate me 😭
What if they're at the hospital visiting their dying grandma
@@DirigiblePlumthen it's not the right time for them and you move on simple
@ethanfreeman1528
And your not a man if you use the word "energy".
Grow up and use the word communication and do not adapt to this stupid new age word play.
I dont care about the delay. She might be busy. But she needs to give me the vibe that shes into me and is ready to move on it. Nothing kills attraction faster than feeling a lack of interest.
people above 25 who treat texting like a game, delay responses or fake being busy to come off interesting come off immature and are huge red flags. This applies to both men and women.
@egg Being honest is the key. If you know you are in a complicated situation just tell the other you are in it so the other will understand. Communication is key.
the thing is if u insta reply u might come off as desperate or that u do nothing in ur life, thats the reason most ppl dont insta reply.
@@matteomarku7177 It's not just about how you "come off", it's about you determining a standard in your later relationship.
If you delay responses, your partner will eventually mirror your behaviour. And then at a certain point you are just 2 people taking ages to respond to each other, which you may believe makes you look interesting, but will ultimatively become a total annoyance later on in your relationship.
Just be natural for the most part. If you actually convince your love interest to be with you, you'll have to drop this facade anyway unless you want to set yourself up for a really shitty time.
its like people need to grow up am i rite?
@@yavantii3615 later in the relationship it wont be like that anymore, but if u insta reply at first u are creepy.
Meanwhile the boy: “Oh I think I screwed up”
istggggggggggggggggg
this is why guys need to send hey, talk to, and hook up with at least 20 different girls and never commit to any of them. always keep your roster full and keep the girls coming and going. every day when I see a girl that I think is hot I talk to her and try to get her number and she's just another one added to the roster. if you hangout that's great if you hook up that's great too. if she ghosts you that's also great because you never commit to any of them. keep a rotation and continue to keep it growing by the day
@@Bennysol Bro is taking the easy way to hell
@@-_deploy_- what now
@@-_deploy_- lmao
This is not what I do, I'm just like
"Hi! How's it going?" And if he asks me how I'm going back then I feel super appreciated
Exactly!
Woa noice I would prob say yo
unless it's someone I've never talked to before, I never say "how are you?" or "how's it going?" like just no I just feel like it's a dumb and awkward question especially among people you're friends with lol
I never text "hey" . I am stupidly straightforward. If I want to ask for a date then I'll straight ask for a date. I hate all the back and forth bull. It seems so immature to me. I know many people don't like direct people like me like that but it is what it is.
@@SIPEROTH why would you ask for a date through text? Do it in person if you know them.
Women always have their phones on them 24/7. If she likes you, she will respond instantly. If she doesn't, she will respond after a day or 2 and say "sorry I was busy."
meanwhile she got reamed about 2 different Ds and texted a dozen other guys she's baiting
Never read too much into how long it takes someone to text you back. Some women just like playing games. Some people are just actually busy or have a lot going on. It also depends on how much rapport/comfort you built from the girl before getting the number. Dating is complicated
Ah yes the woman...
im not always glued to my phone, i only use it a few times a day. if several times, maybe only a few mins each time. im a women. i have social media but im pretty much dead on all the platforms i use. yes we exist so when we dont reply it's not because we're playing hard to get or playing the "game".
Not true, Im missing someone and I would like to text him, call him and see him right now but I'm doing the opposite and been days... Too complicated my situation. So sometimes things are actually the opposite of what u see.
“Leaving a guy on read isn’t attractive” -Gigachad
cringe
Meanwhile the boy: "I guess she has no interest in talking to me, she probably doesn't like me. Nevermind, let's keep moving".
Only guys in Abundance!
Why can’t we just text without any hidden messages like dude I already gots the ✨anxiety ✨
Just do it, you'd be surprised how receptive most dudes are to it.
They got anxiety about texting too soon which is why they decided to wait to text lol
True:D
@@W1ldSm1le and women trust me.
It’s bad when u do this overthinking, send the message, and regret it right after sending it
I agree with u. Overthinking will keep you stuck on the same spot unless you choose not to
😂
I'm trying, I promise I'm trying 😭😭😭
Yep. Both sides tend to overthink anyway, just reply when you can / want already.
@@samvangelder4201 Maybe the important thing is to keep the initiative. Take control. Keep them on edge.
I've been waiting 89 days and counting, I can only assume she's convened the United Nations to assist her in crafting a diplomatic and tactful response.
Bro then she's not worth it..
It's been a year and a half for me almost. I haven't been waiting around all this time, though. I just moved on.
@@nunziogabrielimperatore1240woosh 😊
Are you sure you got the right number tho?
If she texts back right away it makes her more attractive, I usually text back pretty quick unless I'm actually busy (this applies to anyone). Shows me the person actually cares enough to text me back and makes them more attractive.
Yeah it doesnt even have to be instantly, bit at least in a couple hrs (people are busy sometimes)
But honestly I've got to the point where if I do bother messaging a girl and she doesnt reply In the same day I deleted her contact I've got to mich shit to do to waste my time for some little girl that isnt serious and just wants to play games for attention
I’m a psychologist. Overthinking little things can cause a lot of unnecessary stress and it could be important. Studies show that if you reply straight away they have a more emotional bond with them because they can rely on you. They will know you care about them and come to you with more personal stuff and you will develop a strong trust.
If a guy texts a girl straight away every time, she will likely lose interest in him over time.
@@hachiroku8677 You didn’t even properly match the roles
@@hachiroku8677 pick better girls then pretty simple 🤷
@@hachiroku8677 Yeah you need to pick better people to be around. Don't worry, you may get better at it once you're older.
And then we're like "Damn she takes a whole day to text me...she probably hates me"
Sometimes she does really hates u , (experience 💔)
@@hlsfx48 I don't even remember making this comment
@@ryle2814 well idc i just said my opinion
@@hlsfx48 I'm just saying, no need to be rude about it
@@ryle2814 He isn't rude, LMAO!!!
This is what I do but like not with my friends, I just think myself
Lol same 🤡🔫
hey
sameeee tho
But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough.
@@hanson2649 what happened?
Spoilers: just text them right back when you first see their text, the longer you wait the more they think you're not interested
What if I'm actually not interested?
@@n.e.o.n3983 k.. then don't respond?
@@n.e.o.n3983you could say that....and then delete the contact
It's not hard to say "sorry I'm not interested" and block them most guys arent actually malicious and will appreciate you not wasting their time
it's easy.
him: hey
you: hey, how are you?
that way you can actually start a conversation.
If a girl responds to me after a day I just don't open her message anymore. Brothers have some self-respect.
Facts she didn't text back for an entire day, best to assume another dude has her attention and move on with business.
I blocked the girl I loved so much just because I could see her online and not opening my texts
@@thepunisher296 Oof, we've all been there bro
@FALAK SHER "sorry I've been really busy"
@@thepunisher296yup purposefully ignoring you. Either cause she's not that interested or can't be bothered
The boy: damn this girl hates me
Meanwhile the girl:
Guys don't care lol If he thinks a woman hates him that will just make her more appealing to him.
@@JuxJacy not true
@@JuxJacy not true. It turns men off. You sound like some srupid narcissist. Bet you are ugly. That's why you feel so sure
@@JuxJacy because im right?
@@JuxJacy I love that you keep going to different comment sections getting told men don't fucking like that shit and then telling them they are lying or some bullshit. You're fucking nuts, adopt some cats if you can't actually accept men don't like to be toyed with and really really don't like women who argue
Bruh I just go "If she finds me so boring that she'll only want to talk after an entire day then she doesn't like me"
As a boy we don't care how you reply we just care that you actually replied to us
17 years later and he's still left on read 💀
Boys watching this video: so thats why she isn't texting back *sighs*
this is why guys need to send hey, talk to, and hook up with at least 20 different girls and never commit to any of them. always keep your roster full and keep the girls coming and going. every day when I see a girl that I think is hot I talk to her and try to get her number and she's just another one added to the roster. if you hangout that's great if you hook up that's great too. if she ghosts you that's also great because you never commit to any of them. keep a rotation and continue to keep it growing by the day
It puts people off right away when I reply "Hello. What seems to be the matter?"
we dont care what you text hello hey hi doesnt matter but we lose interest the more time u take to text us back
If somebody texted me that, I would be very tempted to say “My house is on fire and my car broke down.”
I like to say ”what’s up.” If they want to talk, they’ll say “not much” or whatever people usually say. If they want to ask a question, they just get straight to the question.
him: hey
me: haii ^^
-us being awfully awkward after waiting for someone to start a topic-
Here's something to help you. Start asking questions about him then. Start getting to know him, his interests. His family. What kind of food he likes. It's not difficult. If you already know this then think of something you can do together. Go out and have some fun. Like Jesus, it's not difficult.
@@starrk7158 okay? thank u?
Even the girl I gave relationship advice to that's 2 years older than me didn't have this type of problem with her crush.
@Susemake facts
that’s tough couldn’t be me
This is why we can't have nice things... 🙈😭😂
That's why i try to talk to girls in real life, it's too uncomfortable not to see what the person is feeling like when talking to you. in real life it doesn't happen, and plus, you're certain that you are the only one she's talking to
I was chatting to an American girl who had recently moved to England and one day I texted her "ello ello hows it going love" and she didn't text back for nearly two days then when I saw her she said she was so shocked by that greeting that she couldn't think of what to say back 😂
that's awful
Yeah she doesnt care enough to reply. If she did she would feel bad she didnt say anything to you.
She's lying my guy.
This waiting thing is so stupid, people nowadays just complicating things even more, and then everything is fake. Playing hard to get... lol. Mate, be cool, be honest, straight forward and confident. If she don't get it, she's not for you.
Him: "hey"
Me: "Hello."
*Sits in uncomfortable silence because that's just how I text. I'm not mad*
Bro sameeeeee
Thats why you are single
@@mihagames2757 I'm single because I'm aro/ace :
@@willyouPLEASEshutup I'm single because Im ugly 😭😭😭.
I'm straight.
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@@willyouPLEASEshutup tf is that
Meanwhile me who doesn’t overthink and just texts back “hi” as I always do:
Mindgames be like:
Him: does she hate me, left me on read?!
1 day later
Her: hi!
Him: 😵💫
whats the emoji for?
@@giggitygiggitygiggity to show his confusion
@@Rylee1827 🤔
if she takes more than an hr to text back leave her on read. she's just playing with you at that point. don't give her the satisfaction
"Hey"
"Hi, wassup?" That's what I do
POV: You are a normal human being.
I respond instantly bc whats the point of waiting if you want to talk to them
the problem is they take forever to respond back
am i the only one who is so bad at texting so i just text back immediately. like i didn’t know you were supposed to wait
No no no don't wait that long trust me. Maybe don't text in the same minute, but believe it or not replying in that same five minutes isn't lame at all. I used to think that the waiting and over-analyzing thing was good and normal... but then I talked to my best friend who is a guy and he told me not to do that cause most guys are just as hopeful and nervous as girls can be, and they don't realize the whole "psychology" behind the waiting and message structure that girls do
text back as soon as you see the message. why would you wait if you saw it and are interested?
It went from “It’s not worth waiting” to “I’ll just text him tomorrow”
I'm so glad I lived out my youth in a world without text
The boy - "Yeah her phone prolly just died, iTs AlL gOoD."
“Reasons why people leave you on read”
Because they are discussing how to respond
Hello person I don't knowknow! Hope your day is going great!
I really like your name
I just assume she doesn't like me or actively has issues with me if she takes all day or especially if it's the next day and I start distancing lmao
Oh well
well, you're half right. this girl has issues, just not with anyone but herself. if she can't say "hey, how are you?" back then how is she going to think about other basic things in life? girl's a powder keg. not worth the trouble.
Part 2:
Guy: *sends wall of text about a story with a question to continue the conversation*
Girl: lol. *Gives a one worded response to the question and no follow-up*
Guy: *stops texting back*
Girl to friend: "why are guys so bad at holding conversations?! 😫"
Waiting to respond is a great way to lose the good ones. Only guys that will respond in similar fashion are the ones that don’t actually care about you as a person.
This is for both sides of the table aka for both men and women, DO NOT leave people on read or never respond if they are interested in talking to you, waiting a whole ass day can make someone feel like oh they are busy or oh they don’t want to talk to me, its honestly a jerk ass move. If they text you just respond, Say hello or hi it doesn’t matter, NEVER leave them hanging for a day or weeks, that’s stupid. If a guy texts you that means they are interested in talking to you, getting to know you, etc, but dont leave them hanging just dont, same goes for women if a lady texts you she just wants to talk.
Morel of the story: DONT leave someone on read otherwise things could end very badly in your friendship or relationship, whatever your case is in.
(If its a hacker or any of that sort then leave them on read.)
Yeah I texted a boy and he replied after a day 🥲honestly I almost cried. Especially he saw my story on instagram but chose not to reply me first.
If you can't answer immediately, send a text saying you can't respond right now
Never leave a guy on read don’t wait if you respond some what soonish we are rather happy with that honestly we don’t care wether you say hi hey what’s up just type something back. 😅👍
It only gets worse when they say "I don't remember you"
@@rwyo83 ikr
As a girl i can confirm we never do this (atleast for me its not relatable AT ALL)
True im a girl and I've never done this
Truw i am a girl and normal i would be like - hi? Who is this or hey simpel bruh
I would say yo
Same here
@@malaikahoemaira2884 same
O god this is why I prefer calls but that weirds women out today cause they can’t discuss their answer for 10 minutes 🤦🏻♂️
Literally, the best thing is to actually talk, if you like him. Text when you can and put some effort in, ask questions and keep things going. Most guys break their backs carrying conversations when they have no idea what they're doing and they're panicking the whole time
Nah, I don’t give enough damn to act like that. I respond whenever I have time and feel like talking. I’m too lazy to think too deeply about it or play games.
him: she’s probably out with some boy
her:
"Hello seems to formal"
My mind : "hello there darling I was thinking you could come over for some tea and biscuits if our calendars aligne together and maybe go later for some horse riding with the finest sadals for your majesty"
😂
lmao sooo true, i once got a dare to text my crush and before i had the chance to delete my message he replied and me and my besti were having a whole debate on whether i should reply hi or hey or hello or sup or yo or whatever, and when we finally decided on replying with hey, we again started discussing if i should put hey with one or two or three y's and if i should put and emoji XD
horrayy !!!!!
Representing the guys here, just text back. Don't worry too much but don't be weird. Just say what's up or hey.
“Hey”
“Stfu”
I honestly don’t see a problem with that
Stay loner
I know. It's so aggravating dealing with that
Don't overthink it !
Any guy would be happy to get a text !
Ok well thats kinda hard when you dont know what to say i told the guy i have liked since 1st grade i liked him and he had mixed feelings because he was dating someone nobody new about and i gave him my number so we could be friends but all are conversations are awkward. :( and they broke up a week later
@@-Nattie-. Guy advice from a guy
1. Figure out relationship status
2. Never give a dude your number after saying you like him
3. Guys are simple a few words is all you need to say something.
@@-Nattie-. then hes not the one if he actually cares he will put his effort in for making the convo interesting if its awkward u should just leave
dude i would lowkey respond with a "Howdy"
If a girl waited 1 day and then texted back , I would never text her again,
Oh nvm, that's why I am single 😂😂
Follow for more relationship advice lol
Me and my Friends Asses: Alright if she is texting "hi" then that either means she ain't interested or in a bad mood.
hate when they do this thing text again in 2 hours😂😂
It happens to me everyday that's why I don't chat with nobody no more. I ain't giving myself false hope lol
It's simple. The proper etiquette for responding to boys that text you is to immediately text back your nudes. You're welcome.
I like your thinking 😉😆
Honesty died in dating apps. All this silly games just are barriers to express oneself sincerely in fear of being felt as a person with needs. All people have emotional and sexual needs! That's why they are looking for dating! People, stop this nonsense and be real and honest. If you cant, then you must go on a therapy journey before trying to engage in a relationship.
me: girl i think im just gonna take awhile to respond bc he always takes awhile to respond to me
*he texts me*
me: hiiii
*then me in my head: AW SHIT I FORGOT TO GHOST*
relatable for me if u switch the gender
Same
Your eyeliner just eye-catching
Yeah and my pole is fish catching
SIMP
Yeah and my lawnmower is grass cutting
Me: Gday mate
Every women should just text back "Hello there" if you would do that us guys would love you forever
General kenobi
trust me, most men do not care what you respond they just want a response lol.
Wait do girls actually text back? 😅🤣
Probabily when it's a Chad/chadlite texting them, lmfao🤣
@@martinho5474 or someone who is not a Incel.
YUHHH
This is true😂
A day, yeah he moved on. Though if he stayed you have a "friend" forever
tbh that's kinda sad how ppl feel like others owe them a response right away otherwise they'll move on
@@infpedits Nah, Just some people like to be up front, not have time wasted.
@@Slevencolevra I'm just saying, guys read into these response times like they mean something and although this vid shows that some girls do curate these response times, there are some people who simply don't feel like texting at the moment. like I'm busy, leave me alone rn, doesn't mean I don't like you tho
@@infpedits and that is fine. However, for that guy you DO like. He was probably moved on.
@@infpedits Your silence actually means you've low interest to a man, u doesn't have respect for him and he's not goin anywhere for u, you just don't take him seriously so we don't have the time for that. Time is precious we all are mortals! If u love someone and you're scared to lose him you'll respond fast! Ghost men and that's the end so you can take me seriously respect me and want me how I deserve.
Ladies, please just respond in an adequate time frame, waiting too long or being left feeling like the only one committed to a conversation is an easy ticket to us losing interest.
I would've just texted him "hi" right away
Also me: texts right away and waits ages for a reply cus their always doing stuff
Would u rather them reply instantly and simp for you?
@@Automotib I mean they could play hard to get but still reply fast...
@@lynx_dia damn I've hardly seen boys not responding on time. Like mostly we do respond in an hour or two.
Me watching this and steel waiting for girl's reply...👀
Haha
If a dude texting you he's most likely into you and at that point you can say anything a regular human would say. Most likely he won't be texting you because he's interested in being your study buddy 🗿
that's not how cross-sex friendships work
And after that time he lost all the interest, forgot about it and was like: 'who tf is texting me right now'
Usually a "hey" text is to see it you're free to text back or talk. If you text back then the answer is yes, otherwise it either means you're busy or you don't give a damm
It's amazing how women overthink little things like this, but don't overthink becoming sigle moms or going into debt for a worthless college degree... MIKE DROP
MIC
Who’s Mike and why is he getting dropped
D A M N
Haha I usually wait for like 15 mins or so and apart from texting tomorrow evrything else is relatable 😂😂😂
Why wait 15 minutes? Why not just reply?
@@starrk7158 Exactly
You gonna loose him trust me! And don't laugh🙂
my boyfriend every day after school asks me how my day was ❤️😭😭😭
Protect him at all costs 🔥
i ask my girl that too and asks her if she ate coz shes so lazy in eating i didnt think this was a big deal tho
Man, good thing they were NOT overthinking this
Men and boys who read this. If she takes a day to text you back. Just ignore her. She doesn't value your time so neither should you put in the effort
Meanwhile the Guys thoughts until the next Day: „She hates me. She hates me! SHE HATES ME! I‘M SO GONNA DIE ALONE!“ 🥲
Boy:"i wonder what's taking her so long to respond"🤔
When she said “Hey~”, that gave me Miles Morales vibes😂
In this comment thread:
Men/boys screaming at the top of their lungs to stop doing this shit
Really young girls surprised boys actually just want to hear from them
Women in their twenties and thirties who are still single informing young girls they should be withholding attention, that's how you get men
As a guy, if we like you then we want a response back at least within a couple of minutes
He texted me hii and i texted back hey after 5 hours .
Next day he replied by texting hiiiii again .
The man... I know she knows. She cannot go w/o her phone to the point she would break into a strangers house to charge her phone if that was the only option. If she takes more than 5 mins., she went from potential relationship status to never taken seriously again and we just gonna see what we can get out of this until another potential relationship comes along.
Wait didn't a girl actually do this? 😭
The guy she replied in under 6 working days, it’s a miracle
Actually the opposite happens to me. I’m the fastest responder on this planet! No one is as fast as I am! So I usually wait for people to text me back….hours or even days. But I don’t do that because I thinks it’s stupid, irresponsible, disrespectful and annoying. I usually ignore those who make me wait too long
See boys, this is why girls take too long to respond😂
The perfect loop doesn't exi-