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You asked "Are you looking for something quick and easy, or are you looking for a relationship?" I dont think those are mutually exclusive. How about a video on turning a hook up into a relationship
@@alexanderc9058yeah but warning, if you catch feelings for some gorgeous lady on a quiet Saturday afternoon when now one else is around to hear her moan, it'll become a slow drawn out heart ache/ heart break that can last weeks and months. Been there done that, and what I have to say for your own health and sanity you need to define what the intentions of your meetings are. You don't want to have a couple of beautiful photos left on your phone of her pretty face that leave you crushed everytime you see them. Theirs hardly much more bitter sweet.
One night I met a woman at a bar, she was a good bit older than me and she even got me to go back to church. She used the example "how many people would you share your toothbrush with? Why would you want to share someone with more people than you'd share your toothbrush with?" She also told me "if a girl disrespects you even once, leave." Both pieces of advice I've taken to heart.
Some women seem to like a mystery. Then when there is no more mystery they lose interest. But there are many different types. Personally I don't think you meet a good wife at a pick up joint. If you're a church person, then you do need to get someone with a similar mindset or will be "unequally yoked" as it were to quote a bible verse. Though I found everyone in a congregation has differing beliefs with differing extremes scales. We all have a lot of issues about guilt that will mess up sex lives even within marriages. Deal with those issues ASAP in a marriage otherwise its all down hill with more LEARNED resentment and other rejection issues. You NEED to be able to LOOK GOD in the eye when you having sex without guilt or shame, but with thanksgiving and gratitude. It's his/their invention. Otherwise you never gona get satisfaction. But that's another story of mind programming chain reactions and finding true freedom with the true spirit of unconditional love. Greater things will you do, if and when you believe.... And a lot can be said for how and where you use your electric toothbrush when sharing with another. The brushes are swappable for different people's different uses. And a condom on your toothbrush, now there's a thought! God has a sense of humour... truly there are many inside jokes that are between you and him... and those females shapes, amazing effects!
i wouldnt want to share my toothbrush with anyone, so i should just go for virgins? That analogy sucks, women dont get "dirty" from having affairs with others
Once women have had their so called "FILL" and start to cool down, most will want to settle down because they eventually need some sense of security. Trouble is I don't want left overs.
Don't be a woman's retirement plan. Are you willing to bet half of everything you own, and possibly a good amount of your future earnings that she will never leave you for any or no reason?
And when they cool down they suddenly want to become passive celibate. Meaning if your courting her there's a very high chance you will not get any bedroom fun or she will be so desensitized there will be no mutual intimate connection.
hell yeah. i spent so far 20 years of my adult life alone, unwanted, feeling terrible, like trash. thats a me thing i know. but they could have been a good influence rather than contributing. but i digress. they were out having fun, and i was misserable. and then at the end all is forgiven and take them in. especially after i know chad had a real great time with her. nothing will be new for her ,or special coz tyrone already did his depravity. what do i look like? a super simp? kick me in the balls yesterday and today all is dandy? f that! you made your bed. now lay in it. i got my emotional baggage , this is one of then. same way i have to deal with and be hopefully a positive influence on her. (say she was abandoned alot. it ok for me to spare a few world of reasurance for her) same way she can accomodate mine. if that is too much to ask then fine. but im not jesus to simply offer another cheek after the previous one had been battered for years and years and years. cal me bitter coz i am. but i also learned to value myself enough to say, what kind of pittyfull door at do you have to be to be that ultra simp to take in the emotionally damaged , bukkaked lefts overs from chad and tyrone and kevin. especilly if she has spent years Turning down nice guys. sometime shit happens, yes. people change, yes.( but if you knowingly enganged ad i wan the back up from day one. no) the actual bdy count matters far less to me, than the reason why. the why s what makes that person redeemable. and the effort they pt into being redeemed. but there is no free lunch with me. ive been burned so much sooooo much. i physically feel an adrenaline boost of anger when i hear what a good person i am. i am. and its good i am. bzt ive heard it so often as a rejection.. (rant) but there still is that small bit in m that hopes there is a way past this to a fulfilled coupled future of mutual respect trust and understanding. but it seems like a fools dream. yes.. therapy has it work cut out
@@Pssst.ByTheWay My suggestion.. Change your environment. Seems to me you have put yourself in this bubble and hoping for the best out of it. Brother to brother I would advise you to look elsewhere..(Asia/Middle East/Eastern Europe) I guarantee you will find someone who will help you forget these westernized women. Try it.. it's much better than therapy. Heck in Japan as we speak 50% of age 30 to 40 yr old women are unmarried and they are depressed looking for people to marry them.
@@dallasdandy6276 which bubble do you mean?. going abroad.... my pride has preveted me from considering it. not to be defeated. not to be the one that cant handle local girls so he flees. but to be very honest. there are places were you are charished and appreciated. why put yourself though truely uneccesary hardship. why struugle now when you could be happy now. this isnt an excersize in delayed gratification. and there is no prize for growing old and alone and misserable.
It's been my experience that women chase the man that give them emotional tingles, not the men that take care of them, are honest and real. I've also noticed the higher the body count the harder it is for them to bond with a one single man. Once a cheater always a cheater is 99.9999%True.
Very true. Women love drama (soap opera audience is typically all women). When they say they don’t want drama what they mean is they want drama that resolves in their favor.
This is going to sound crazy, but after I ended my marriage I thought I was going to be all promiscuous, but realized I couldn't do it. I went on Tinder and was grossed out and closed my account a few days later. I just can't do it, I'm a sentimental softy inside. It's hard to find a quality woman willing to be monogamous now a days.
Honestly, it's reached the point where if a STEREOTYPICAL woman ('ESFJ', ESFP/ISFP, ESTP) complained about sexual assault - so what?! Most women have a 4 to 30+ body-count anyway!!! The one and only significant difference is 'PERMISSION' to "fornicate on used goods". The alcohol only helps to NUMB their instinct that tried to discourage them from going through with it!!! Since their body is not a sacred temple, can you not see how their internal environment (mind, spirit and emotion) is a cesspool of a mess! The influence of 'ESFP'/ISFP (moral depravity-a core trait for them), and 'ESFJ' cover-narcissism, especially in the school environment is the cause for all of this! Careless INFP add to this as well (despite being a wonderful type). INFP overly accommodating psychology is easily exploited, corrupted by covert-narcissits (ESFP, ISFP, ESFJ, and Cluster-B) and the INFP turns into an enabler of "sexual depravity". It happens a lot. Take a look at most sexual movements. This is why intelligence and the foresight to "look at the bigger picture" when making important decisions - like an intelligent person should be able to do... Is extremely important! Most movements do not account for corrupt members, i.e. member that secretly harbor an ulterior, degenerate motive! Case in point, today's feminism, charities, etc. And yet we wonder how it came cancerous and only facilitates "prasites" (who secretly experience a [metaphorically] cannibalising psychology/state of mind). I hope that intelligent and spiritually clean humans will take the time to dissect and understand this comment.
............................. "Evil" is the anthesis to the virtue 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism. .............................
As men we attach our value to our ability to attract a mate. Our promiscuity is tied to our self esteem. Tinder serves that purpose almost as badly as ladies of the night.
It is odd how readily we all seem to have accepted the idea that sex with near or total strangers is fabulous. I think the truth for most people is that anonymous sex is far less desireable than sex with a lover with whom you are in a relationship. I'd blame Hollywood, and the TV shows and movies it makes, for trumpeting the idea that anonymous sex is fabulous and to be sought after by both men and women, and that waiting a bit is for dweebs, only.
AMS is spot on. As a man formerly in the dating scene, I can attest the CC is a well-oiled machine ridden by all ages. A perpetuum mobil of hedonism. Thanks for the vid!
This is all trauma damage seeking trauma damage. For most of us well adjusted types, from good families, it is easy, natural, affection building companionship. Serial monogamy is as game as it gets. 🥸
So if a woman sleeps with thirty guys between 18 and 25 and then turns 26 and decides not to sleep around then the thirty guys don't count. Lol. They count. And guys do not want a chick who has done that.
Good point. I would like to see the data that Wingman suggests that if the women in your example have a CC break for 10 years would they then be able to pair bond. I suspect not.
In the video, I suggest that it depends on how many she slept with and how long it's been since the last one. The higher the number and the more recent that is, the less likely she's changed her ways or repaired the emotional damage that's done. Thanks for allowing me to clarify! :)
@@YourWingmam Thanks for the response. It's the data supporting the "less likely" that would be interesting to see. My gut feeling is if she has slept with 30 guys between the ages of 18 and 25 per example above then has an extended break, she would still need to be avoided by men from a marriage/having children point of view.
Plagiarizing RICHARD COOPER are you!!! “She’s never yours, it’s just your turn.” Don’t rip other people’s sayings off and attempt to take the credit, 🙄
@@kristobonanni7678 it work with coworkers woman who use coworkers male like stud service one time use only;; sexual intercouse can be like a very ❤ powerful love drug , it wasl ike they were possess with pretty woman coworkers ;;
You are smoothe at getting your throat, legs bolling but let. Kkkkmgam so it's more beg for something special from me. What is cheating, not taking a test making
Try 2 relationships and the loss of 25yrs. Not gonna bother looking anymore because I don’t want to get burned again. I can’t let that happen!! I believe when you sign a contract (with god and state as your witness) there should be consequences for breaking that contract but sadly there isn’t. This is my advice to anybody that might listen. No matter how good of a person you might think they are never believe they are above cheating. Real talk
You know what I think? I think they were always like that. They just couldn't speak up because religion and patriarchy. They had to act nice and all lady-like.
I was with a great woman making 6 figures just like me, once I found out her bodycount was 60 everything went down hill from there. " We no longer together " Let's put it that way... Fellas STAY TRUE TO YOUR VALUES ‼️
I’d rather live alone for the rest of my life than spend another second under the same roof with a miserable woman-hot or not. If there ever is another, she’ll be worthwhile or she’ll be gone...quickly. Life is too short to live unhappily either way.
It's rarely accurate to speak in absolutes like ALL women, but I'd wager it would be significantly more difficult to find a sexually conservative woman today than it would be to find a promiscuous one.
It all comes down to where you're searching - and what exactly are you searching for. On one far side of the spectrum, big cities in most of western countries will tend to have the most sexually progressive (aggressive?) females - while on the other side of the spectrum - small towns and rural communities (and even cities) in non-western countries will have the most sexually conservative women. And there is PLENTY of everything in-between those two extremes. Again, it all depends on where you are searching - you're not gonna go seeking for gold in the depths of the ocean, just like you're not gonna be searching for sea pearls high in the mountains. I live on the outskirts of a small town and there's plenty of conservative or "moderately" conservative women where I am. There's "easy" women in the clubs, and there's "conservative" women in the church's youth gatherings as well.
Agree with this - for any younger men watching this, don't, despite your hormones screaming at you, ditch a girl you like because she said no the first time and once again, despite that heavy make-out session you've just had, just take your aching balls home and reflect positively. If she has said no to you the first time, then chances are she's done the same with other men too and you may well have come across somemone with a low body-count. Be grateful and pursue her positively and respectfully.
Years ago I discovered that my GF cheated on me we argued and then we broke up. As I walked out she said “You’re impossible!” I looked back at her and said “And you’re easy!” Guys I think I made my point, women today only care about body count and nothing else. Don’t even try stay single, happy and free! 🇺🇸🦅 “I have been given nothing. God made men what they are.” William Wallace. 🇺🇸🦅
Damaged goods forever. People don’t change from an extreme “exploratory” phase. It’s a matter of time and opportunity. That person will cheat, because they can’t not have that “high” in their life.
Unless... an act of God shook them up (death, disease, disaster) and/or they've finally worked on their early trauma that caused them to become that way in the first place. They are rare but do exist.
It’s possible I’m slightly biased too here, I married my college girlfriend even though she had admitted to cheating on me. I thought I was being a good person by sticking with her and giving her credit to admitting to it to me. I thought that in time it would fade from my memory and that I could “be a man” about it. Truth was though that it didn’t just go away, and then other things that happened I started to see that she didn’t really care about me at all. She used all the negative “female” tactics in the book at some point or another. All this stuff made me realize that those things are not ok, and you can’t just try to “man up” and take it. Resentments get built up over time...that time you don’t get back.
@@YourWingmam But are those women worth it even after all that? To risk it, from a man's perspective? How could he know after sifting through all the others, that this one is actually worth it? Again, from a man's perspective, why buy the cow when the milk is apparently free, depending on who you are? Not trying to bash you, just presenting the logical conclusion many people have towards ending dating prospects. It's truthfully the most difficult argument to beat, which is why the dating market is what is it is now. It's just not an acceptable system to most self-respecting men, which, let's be honest, do any women want men who don't respect themselves? It was a system doomed to fail, and we are the witnesses to it's demise. It's nobody's fault per se, but we will all be affected by it none-the-less
@@YourWingmam By then it's way too late. Fact is, her personal issues, or the reasons she had to thot it up are irrelevant. The choices were made and the bill must be paid. It's not my problem that she has issues or traumas. In fact, the last thing I need in my life is someone with deep seated issues. The costs is way too high across the bored. Best I can do for such a woman is Netflix, some D and a first class ticket back to the streets.
I'd say most sleep around. Especially given the right circumstances: alcohol, great looking guys, girlfriends who are encouraging the promiscuous behavior. I had a 3way on the 2nd floor of a bar with the bride to be and her married matron of honor. The wedding was the next day.
@@YourWingmam But if the good ones are hiding in their room with their cats and their cocktails, how are we supposed to meet them? That does us no good!
I gave up with the long term stuff. Now I'm accused of being misogynist because I'm tired of being cheated on, used as a placeholder, expected to be a stepfather, or to be a punching bag when she lashes out on me for what those dozens of other guys did. That's been my only experience. Now I'm awful when I tell them I dont want the fake relationship.
I've been taught that 'no' means "NO'. So if any girl tells me no, I'm not going to keep pushing and pushing and trying to "get to know" if that girl is "high value" because a) that's harassment, b) that's needy, and c) she's always going to say 'no' to me. Now I'm no pickup artist, but when I hear no I hear no. I still agree with AMS, even if they're not doing it with me.
For real, I learned early. I asked *once,* took anything other than a clearly stated "Yes" as "No," and never asked twice. Guys and gals would tell me I should have been more " persistent." I always took this to mean, waste time and allow myself to be strung along. No, thank you.
I have had 6 serious relationships before I was married from 6 months to 5-ish years, and every single one of them either cheated on me or their 'other' boyfriend. In one case I was one of four guys in rotation, with another GF I would sometimes unwittingly drive her to where her BF lived. Another GF cheated whilst on a vacation that I paid for in our actual hotel room while I was downstairs. One GF had a BF back in Malaysia. With my second GF she flirted with me (after we broke up) and asked me to come over, even when she had another live in BF. Gave up on Western women and I am now married (20 years) to an East Asian woman who has a good heart and character. Been through A LOT together but she has been loyal and faithful throughout. I worry about my two teenage sons.
Society says men are cheating pigs. The average woman has way more options to cheat. Only the very top men get the opportunity to cheat on an equal level.
@@johngalt6838 "Society" takes the word of women on "men are cheating pigs", which is why it's wrong. Most women only "see" the top 20% of men. When 80% of women are going for the top 20% of men (the numbers are even worse than this since online dating, but bear with me here), each man has 4 women to choose from. So of course women thing "all men cheat" - all of the top 20% they're fighting over! The other 80% who would be happy with one woman can't even find one, as the women consider they deserve better. So the chaos continues.
Interesting read mate, and sorry to hear of the bad experiences you had with these women, and they say us men are bad, but i agree that eastern women are alot more faithfull and have a better moral compass.
I'd rather skip having my turn instead of wasting my time. Time is too precious too worry about who enters and leaves thru that door. If u wanna play games, don't even bother stepping in.
"Just accept things for the way they are," is absolutely fantastic advice. The trick is in practicing it, in the first place, and being ABLE to discern things as they are, in the second.
Feels like a miserable smartass that Mencken. It's the other way around ... one women doesn't differs from another, cuz i love them all. What then? I'm the hoe? Love and lust are the same thing for that dude?
Why don't women today value their bodies? I don't get it. Is women who have self esteem rare today? I only slept with 3 guys when I was younger, I'm in my 50's now and married, and they were relationships. Oh well times have changed I guess but I don't think for the better. Just my opinion.
Totally agree! Honestly, feminism, social media and social acceptability have messed things up for male/female relationships. Thank you for watching and commenting!
That sounds so ancient! That valuing your body is in the number of partners. Did you meet no one before you were married, and did you know from the first date you would marry your husband?! Angela, sit off your high horse. Plus! Valuing the body comes in taking responsible and not have unsafe sex. Ok, boomer your ancient moral is only tied in old men and their view on women. Zzzzz It shouldn’t bother you what other people do in consent! Worry about those who do things to others without their consent. What you talk about is just some body moral policing aimed at w o m en, you’re stuck on old values.
I played in a band for a very long time around an unusually high number of people and I know what I saw going on around me from a huge observation point most never experience. Even the fiance of a MULTI MILLIONAIRE I know cheated on him. Speechless! There`s a reason doctors are telling men to avoid anything "oral" nowadays unless they want to get dozens of cancer causing viruses and God knows what else in their throats. Is the situation nearly 100% hopeless? I guess that`s a matter of perspective and depends on how well you can deceive yourself.
If my first wife hadn't been so good looking some one would have hit her over the head with a shovel. My second wife thought monogamy was a game by Milton Bradley so I fired her. My third wife whose RUclips account this was was an excellent person who I was married to for 27 years until her death from lupus at 53. I had eleven live in girl friends who were all dirt bags my third wife was the only quality woman I ever met. I do admit I dated solely on good looks and no other criteria. I'm 68 now and will never meet another woman like my third wife and would rather be alone then live with a cheat and liar again.
You sir are lucky to survive & find your THIRD WIFE😲 Holy 💩 man . I hope other young men read your comment & Learn from your situation. My experience was not good but reading your story I feel better. Thanks for sharing.
I'm 28. I've slept with two men, my high school/college boyfriend and my late husband. If I don't answer my text between six and midnight, I'm likely working (I am a customer service manager for an airline). Women are still people, we have a variety of preferences and experiences. Not all women are 'sloppy seconds' or cheaters. I think women can change, I have a close friend who became deeply religious at about 25, started practicing celibacy and when she married her husband at 31, he was the first man she'd been with in six years.
Congratulations mam you are one among the 5 percent of unicorns in this wild dark forest (considerring the fact that you are being honest). Stay happy and have an amzing life glad that you still walk the earth among us. Peace ❤
I would argue all women are sloppy seconds, maybe not my grandma. Also women suddenly becoming virgin mary after being ran through is a common phenomenon. It's a desperate measure to lock down a man with morals.
There is such thing as man talk, whereas guys get together and chat about stuff they think would not be suitable for women to hear. Well, try eavesdropping on a women`s conversation and you`ll be shocked. Way, way more hardcore than conversations among males. Given the right environment, circumstances and opportunities, most women will drop all the inhibitions.
haha, you heard nothing yet, ever heard young girls ( 14/16yo) in weekends talking about their male co- students/ neighbourboy ? yep, straight headchopping, dehumanising, humiliations, bodyshaming, aso .... are they practising for the future ? boy's and girls can be cruel in their comments/opinions to each other, but I was really shocked by the intensivity they spoke, never experienced this among boy's
"Given the right environment, circumstances and opportunities, most women will drop all the inhibitions".......That is why they love to wear very revealing clothing.
@@justintime1307 If a guy meets a drunk woman and they have s*x, under the law the guy is automatically a rapist even if the woman consents, because it is deemed that an intoxicated woman in not in full control of her senses and therefore unable to consent. So if in the morning the woman cries rape, except a long prison sentence ahead. Beware you guys of jailbait.
Yep, especially among Filipinas speaking about the size of an American man's package. This is a major subject in The Philippines. Filipinos typically have small packages!
@Almighty Trouble will find you whether you like it or not. Adapting is part of living and learning. You can’t live in a Petri dish in Antarctica for very long. If you’re avoiding, you’re afraid. And your fear comes from past experiences which can’t be changed. Or you’re afraid of being judged for making an error in front of someone else. Trying to be perfect and never have any ego challenges is definitely a flawed perspective. People don’t all agree on every attitude. If we did, we may as well be sheep doing exactly the same thing day in -day out in stagnation. Every day brings thousands of personal decisions based on past experience. We can’t be obsessive compulsive and control others. It’s a waste to try and control external things in the world. No amount of money, no other human wilm fill that kind of chasm. Not saying any of ir applies to you. There are tools and techniques to negotiate trouble. Simply being and doing, instead of micro-comparing and judging the all, everything, and everybody in life will reap positive benefits. Everything doesn’t equal trouble or a mess. Expecting others to adhere to one’s own perspective is also a recipe for disappointment. To each their own. All the best to you, family and friends!
I have never lived in a big city, which is where I imagine most of the promiscuous women live, if nothing else just because of the greater odds of successful hookups. Therefore I haven't had many encounters with them other than twice in college and it was the female that made all the moves. Otherwise I was raised to believe intimacy was intended for your spouse only and that may be old fashioned but it's how I've lived my life. Unfortunately my now X-wife didn't feel the same way, which I guess qualifies her as a garden tool?
Another thing, it always takes two. You can't have a bad woman without a bad man. If men weren't hogs women couldn't be sows (unless they cheat with other women then they'd be sows too). That is to say it takes two to tango, but of course her/his character is determined all by themselves. Oh and even if your views are considered old-fashioned, because they are, well old, they might be younger than polygamous relationships, because that's been going on for a much longer time. Also it's still the right way to do things, so don't apologize for stating the truth. If someone feels offended, it's because the truth is condemning their wickedness.
Please do not even attempt to get married from the way you are talking you sound like a blue pilled big fish whom the right woman will take advantage of. I like Anna but most of her advice pretty much is asking you to enter into a woman's frame which is no bueno. Study the Rational Male to get even deeper and when you get red pilled and realize how the courts system is designed to screw men over you'll get that romantic notion out of your head.
@Paul Joe Please read my comment again, you will find out that I included this there. I don't think that the individual's faithfulness is dependent on their spouse, absolutely not. That's up to everyone themselves. But you can't commit adultery by yourself, is all I am stating. Edit: Also I have little consideration for anyone who does it outside of wedlock and with anyone but their spouse.
I moved to a small town and became a member of an internet dating site. When I searched for a match, two girls kept being listed. One I had dated already and the other was her friend! Also when I had a friend (female) from a big city stay one weekend we compared the number of people we had slept with. I estimated about 20 (we were 40 yr olds) and she said 1 to 2 HUNDRED!
Men, my advice is that a women who has gone through an "exploratory phase" is not suitable as a wife. Men, you are the prize. Don't be caught by a woman who has had an "exploratory phase". Commit yourself to a good woman. That is a woman who is wise enough not to have an "exploratory phase". Women, a wise woman knows that a good man is not a man with assets. A good man is a man who is investing in his career. A good man is married by the age of 24 years old. Regards, Geoff. Reeks
Career?... Don't you mean "Character"? Not every good man is focused on building a career. You are much more likely to find a good woman you're a missionary rather than a career person.
If they didnt go trough the exploratory phase before getting commited, chances are they will feel like they missed out and go on that exploration later if the opportunity arises, destroying the relationship. Saw that happen multiple times with people i know. Man are the same. A man married at 24 with little previous experience is way more likely to get tempted to cheat then a 30 years old who has had his share and decided to settle now, because there is less FOMO/temptation of the unknown.
You are so brilliant and honest. My experience is that what you have said here is spot on. I have been terrible at marriage. Being loyal has cost me several fortune's. Thanks for sharing, and being so reliably truthful.
If you think PUA's struggle to commit to a "Keeper" that's fair enough - but it is exponentially worse for women who have a 304 stage - all the studies indicate that women's pair bonding ability gets wrecked by their 304'ing.
I just recently discovered your videos, and because of your honest approach, have watched several of them. Thank you for taking the time to address these subjects from a woman's perspective. I don't normally comment on videos, but I do read posts to see what others think and feel. I have noticed that most of your poster's are real and are addressing the subjects in the videos and in their lives. However, there are several subjects I have not seen addressed, note that I have over half a lifetime of experience and certainly might be out of touch with some of today's realities. Having said that; there are two facets of basic human nature that are not talked about at all. First, the fact that s*x is a basic human drive hard wired into each person, not a good or bad thing, simply a fact of life. And second, women are people just like men. They are not flowers in a garden just waiting to be plucked and put into a vase. They have feelings, desires, dreams and fantasies, just like men do. What I see in all this, (and of course I could be dead wrong), but young men are no longer taught to make a choice for their lives and to accept that choice for a lifetime. If you are looking for a chaste, committed woman and a life of dedication, marriage and family, know that you are going to miss out on a lot of the free, uncommitted fun. But, if that is truly what you have chosen, live for that, structure your life around that and let it be known; then that is what you will attract. On the other hand, if you wish to enjoy the alpha playboy life; structure toward and around that, but know that you will forego the commitments and the family home lifestyle, no one can have it both ways. There is nothing wrong with either way of living, and there are plenty of women on both sides, but remember, both lifestyles have there ups and downs, there own joys and there own problems, which ever one you commit to, accept that this will be your life. And in the end both have only memories to take with them when they cross the river Styx. Make the best memories you can, condemn no one, hurt no one, and keep in mind that no one can hurt you unless you let them. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness through the choices they make. You are either happy and will share that with someone else when you have the opportunity, or you are unhappy and will bring that down upon someone else when you have the opportunity. Live well, make the best memories you can. Always give what you receive, and if one needs to part ways, wish them well, clinging and jealousy only destroys the good memories.
Not only do I enjoy listening to you (an oasis of sanity in an insane (dating) world) I also love reading the comments and takes of various people. A very engaging channel.
Literally yesterday - been talking with a friend , just as a friend. For like 9 months. Used to know her in high school. But when I told her I was hooking up with 2 different women , one of whom was in her twenties , within a day she wanted banged. It is just all about whether they perceive value of some sort.
It's absolutely true that when a woman sees/knows other women are interested in a man, his value goes up for her. This is social proof. There's a reason for it but too long to explain here. :)
@@YourWingmam Correct ^^^^ I always found that I received more interest from women, when I was seen to be dating a woman, rather than when I was single. Ironically, when a man is single, he's largely invisible to most women. I don't think that reflects terribly well on women either- they see something which somebody else covets, so they perceive a 'value'- and they want to take it away for themselves.
@@YourWingmam While true for the most part it's also very dangerous to only use this for selection purposes. Narcissistic people tend to have social proof, they usually are sociopaths, and look normal on the outside, and meet all the criteria of having social proof. This is why so many women FALL for these types of men so easily and then get hurt or abused and disillusioned. Also, hypergamy is part of this social proof concept that is killing women's chances of finding the man they really NEED. I find that people who are NOT as social, who are far more discerning about whom they interact with online or in-person and have healthy boundaries, are far MORE trustworthy, and are a better choice than those that look or act like they have value when they do not. If I see allot of women in a group, usually, there is a certain amount of dysfunction in the group, they usually are looking for attention and require all men to qualify themselves to the entire group. In today's world, Instagram and other social networks have made millions of women addicted to social proof and attention, it's killing relationships and most women don't even see it and rarely if ever, will acknowledge it exists. Therefore, I avoid social proof tests and look for the woman that is a little more distant, who isn't caught up in all the attention-getting, who is more level-headed, who is not drunk or dysfunctional. For example, the woman at the museum, or at the park or walking along the beach or reading a book at the library or sitting in the park reading a book. I want an attractive woman that is a traditional lady, who is kind, caring, giving, submissive, compliant, loving, and in touch with herself emotionally and spiritually and not all wrapped up in social proof concepts.
I think many young women today have fallen prey to marketing, Hollywood and a false sense of reality. And by the time they grow up enough to figure it out they often have too much baggage or have past their prime. I think it's safe to say the fault for much of that lies with the parents.
Why do I have a slight smile whenever I watch your videos! I get the same feeling when I visit Joyanima's channel. This British girl looks stunning just like you.
I happen to believe that now in my early 40’s I have learned a few things. 1. Your videos are indeed educational. 2. Many women have been trained to go after the top 10% or the “exciting is the bad boy.” Societally, the moral bar has been lowered significantly. 3. Troves of women above are often mistreated in ways and come to devalue themselves and see themselves as flawed in one or more ways. 4. If you find a Woman like this and after some weeks or months with her she says “no man has ever treated me this way before” or some variation. Maybe “you do things for me that no man has.” This is most likely an HONEST statement and she is faced with unknown territory. It has to be confusing. 5. We all have damage in our Lives. If she has a good heart and truly can find the value in herself. She can then find that man that continually treats her as a full and valued woman.
I disagree... but it's still safe to assume! 😆 I remember when girls were the ones with "walls" built up; that you had to get past in order to get to know them... now it seems like guys are the ones with trust issues! Lol
Great insight Anna Maria. Fully agreed. And I've heard others say that if you really want a long term relationship, the number of men a woman has slept with is very low. And I found a facebook group that focus' on saying NO, and the focus is on LTRs. And I found that meeting a woman at church, you find a small cross section of society. Not all share the same goals and values.
Great vid darl, thanks for the insights! Now, on your last point - why would anyone wed a devalued product ? She wants to sell herself as a brand new car, but she's been out of the car dealership, and worked up a mileage, she cannot hide. By the time she decides to quit the CC marathon, she is physically, mentally and emotionally damaged, beyond repair, not to mention the STDs she would throw in the final product mix. Also, as you mention, the habit of sleeping around, why risk finding out that she may fall back into it, once the safety providing schmuck has wedded her? The only advantage such a woman brings to the table is sexual experience. All fine and dandy, so she qualifies for a friend with benefits, nothing more.
That's what I think, especially when you give someone lots of time, it feels like the end of taking it for granted and say why do I want to be with this person if I can see them all the time and give it some years- they'll cheat eventually
Ideally a relationship, but someone who demonstrates they can be good in a relationship. I'm not going to commit myself to someone who doesn't seem that keen or doesn't reciprocate effort
In today's culture and society people are mostly getting together for the wrong reasons. Dealing with low quality people makes you pessimistic and nihilistic about a healthy relationship. It's almost like men are expected to be subservient to women in today's society. They don't outright say it but if you play close attention to couples it is easy to spot
@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh totally right buddy. my last gf blurted out in a frustrating moment some research suggesting women are 6x smarter than men. I wanted sex so I kept my mouth shut, yuck
Potentially good, not all take accountability for their own actions and rejections later on because of those actions. But yes, if they do, that's part of how it happens!
I know a woman who is 67, and married for 44 years never cheated and only sleep with one man. What is so impressive about her is that was her first and only relationship.
Funny thing, I reread your comment and was shocked, thinking maybe you had actually spoken to my mom, lol. They married in 1978, and have been married 46 years, and she's 66, so it's so close to your example. Both were virgins on wedding night and still only known each other intimately. ✝️
@@TechWeLove The woman I know is my wife, met her when I was 22 and she was eighteen. We got married 1977 have three kids. Our secret: be authentic, respectful and honest.
Many years ago I was looking for relationships but I kept getting friend zoned. Nowadays I'm not looking for anything. If I get friend zoned, so what. If I can get boyfriend zoned, cool. No expectations - no disappointments.
Sometimes its better that you are dude. Never lose you heart to a female you've just met. Her bodycount is decisive. You can always be friends with a 304, so basically she is telling you what you are to her. Nothing but a f*ck and that she belongs to the street. What kind of man in his right mind would want a female for a wife that has bodycount so high that you could fill a classroom with. That female will never be, NEVER EVER BE abel to be a good wife or mom.
I can't have a serious relationship with someone that I can't trust. If my Spidey sense goes off, then that is it. I don't ask, I just walk. Their fault, my fault, nobody's fault, it's time to move on.
At approximately 10:28 what you ascribe to men who are good at "pickup" applies even more so to women with high body counts. My point is that even a woman who decides that she is not going to be promiscuous anymore will be tested as soon as there is a disagreement in the relationship or people from her past creep up and want her to have fun doing the old things (i.e.being promiscuous). The more men a woman has had, the easier it is to have the next one. Therefore the more difficult for her to stay in a relationship with one person, even if she knows that one person is the best person for her. Tell me if you disagree. Thank you for this video. Keep up the good work.
"Don't be a fixer, don't be a savior." I want to tell your audience to LISTEN TO YOU on that one, especially. It's true. Changing who we are comes from within. You cannot save someone from themselves. The consequences of attempting that are high, often incalculable and unimaginable in their scope and in how they will come back to bite you and even innocent others. Choices have consequences. I grew up believing in an internal motto that went something like: "A princess saved is a princess earned." That might be true, but Pygmalion is a fantasy, it is mythology. Women grow into a Galatea on their own, whether they are raised and nurtured that way from childhood or else they put in the hard work to make themselves someone of virtue and value. Nobody else can do that for someone else. The best we can hope to do is inspire. The individual still has to do the work.
I'm 57 years old and I've always looked for the one. I was married for 23 years and have had 6 long term relationships. Along with quite a few casual ones. It has taken me along time to see that although the women in my life had serious issues they were only mirroring my own short comings. In short I've been seeking validation from others . I have found self love and set healthy boundaries for myself. I'm trusting this will attract a woman who is a keeper, and I will be able to recognize the ones who are not. If turns out not to be the case that will be ok, because I am ok with being single.
He’s really talking about hypergamy. It’s the never ending search that a woman goes through to find a high value male regardless as to her marital/relationship status. if the sexual marketplace value of a man slips, thereby making the woman respect him less, she will jump DIRECTLY to someone new who is, many times, already been groomed and waiting in the wings. For Singles, only the top 10% of men are having sex. but, 80% of the women are having sex. 80% of all divorces are initiated by the women. The vast majority of those female initiated divorces are due to self reporting feelings of “(sigh)… just not being in love anymore.” these are observable measurable numbers.
The whole pick up artist thing is basically a reaction to reality. And it’s an unhealthy reaction and rather childish. It is a symptom of fear when a man becomes read pilled. It is not the intention of red pill truth though.
they want divorce because they get bored of the guy that they are married to. They miss that highly sexual lifestyle in which they can have good sex with multiple men that they are sexually attracted to with no commitment involved.
What is interesting is the complaint that men are emotionally unavailable..I wonder why when it is likely the available emotions could get crushed by their nature. In fairness a study was done where before a woman's period she preferred bull masculine men. After she preferred more fatherly. We are all creatures of our genetics but I think women suffer the consequences of their hormones more than men. I feel for them, it makes their life more challenging in yet another way.
As men we say here is a problem let's fix it. As women it is only identified as a problem when they feel it. I can't tell you how many women I could tell was beginning her period before she had any idea. But as I got older I have embraced femininity with all the quirks. Because women with their flaws balanced men with their inherent flaws. Don't fight the difference embrace it. You will be much happier.
So here’s a question for you. I’m 45 years old and though I’ve always wanted to get married and start a family I do not have that. I’ve been dating since I was 17-18 and I’ve dated a number of females of different backgrounds and still they are all the same…liars, cheaters, personality disordered, the list goes on. I’m a Christian man and I’ve tried dating both Christian and non-Christian women and still their behavior is abysmal. I’ve always dating in my age range. So, the question is…you say not all women are like that but where are the ones that are not? How do you find a good one, if they exist? It’s not just the younger ones doing it. It’s the ones at my age too.
U and I in the same boat bro haha! I am 48 never been married, however my only son now 18! I’ve dated hundreds of women married too. And now I don’t want to get married or have more kids. I’ll continue living my debt free live, zero health problems,buying 2nd home, 3 new cars, and all kinds of women still wanting to hook up. The age range is from 20s to 40s that still want me. Facts bro !
this will soonish be me. (39 now) there is always the hidden suspicious feeling i might just be a hugely negative echo chamber. i am one of those true blue kind people and have had to deal witb the boot heels of soiety for it. i know im this way deu to childroom damage. but i also know regardless the reason im a asset to humanity. and yet ive been cast aside soooo often. its truely not for the lack of trying. i truely fear 96% of them all are utterly abysmal, and the only reason they seem better now is to save face. rather than genuine growth. forgiving the many years of rejection for be a nice guy, yes, a push over yes, but i didnt like cheat or steal. i helped where i could and did the best i could. and the thanks ws allways more kicks in the teeth. i dont how i can forgive that. it feel like a utter betrayal of myself if i did. (there is no prize for being misserable i know. but im principledas a general) the work done to lock me down, is not going to be trivial. and to get back to year point. i kinda dont see that happening. coz as yu said they dont change. and they probaqbly truely believe they did nothing wrong in the first place.
Alex Grace did a video about specifically this. And it makes sense, a non blue pill. Rational look at the situation. A healthy counter stance to the more extreme “all, absolute all” views. I hope Alex is right. To be honest guys tend to take anything , sure we decern before we approach but after she reciprocates a hi all standards diaaapearS we need to vet the ladies like crazy and weed out even tiny potential red flags. I’m sure they are out there… just well hidden and usually taken, the good deals are usually quickly locked down Vet them like crazy
I find the higher the body count of a girl, the higher the chance she is going to come with massive issues. The last girlfriend I had had slept with 20 guys in rapid succession (she had been sexually assaulted, opened up sexually after that) and while she was sweet and wanted to be a good girlfriend/wife, she had massive issues that ultimately ended out relationship. I would say for sure they can become good girlfriend material even with a higher body count but just be aware they may come with more issues than a girl who's more selective and controlled
Reminds me of a girl I knew ages ago. She got graped by a dude from college. Then became a 304. She got drunk with me and told me everything. Over 300 with multiple threes and fours. No way I was going to touch that.
@@map3384 like I would give them a chance if she is loving enough. But yeah, that one WILL come with issues. For mine it came in the form of detachment and avoiding me for days on end. She could not handle stress from school, she would vomit before tests and not sleep for 4-5 days in a row. She turned into a completely different person.
When I was a kid my mom told me that all women were dirty. I asked her if that included her. Never got an answer to that. On the flip side, my dad was non-stop cheating on her
Well I was married to a woman and caught her a few times lying about where she was and who she was with...guys. So I kind of lean towards most women being sloppy seconds, not all but most.
I can't put my finger on it but you are noticeably better now than when I first saw you some years ago. You are easier to watch and you are more fun, too. Your topics seem to be essentially the same so it must be in the way you are presenting your material AND...you are also noticeably way hotter than you once were. Lost weight? More glamorous appearance? Funnier? I do not know but you are definitely going in the right direction. So keep up the good work. I hope you are making gobs of money giving out great advice. Good luck to you.
There are lots of decent women out there - but most of them are taken. Edited to add: Whenever I watch any of your films, you talk a lot of sense and give me heart that I'll be lucky enough to find someone decent once again before my days are through. Keep up the good work
Very true some women have an idea especially the very high net worth gals offer a guy their friendship as a coax on or a try out...... Test the water on him...... when the guy dissapears into thin air and refuses to accept the friendship zone She gets the biggest surprise in her life ....... which leaves her back to her trying out newer ride on lawn mowers
1:11 no, no you can’t trust them. The odds are never in your favor..NEVER. I forget who it was that said this, but I find it to be mostly true: “They say men can’t understand women, but women understand one another women perfectly- and they hate each other.” 🤨
I have a question/quandary that might be material for another video…multiple women I’ve met want the ‘happy ever after’ dream that Disney sells. At the same time I’ve witnessed them dump previous Prince Charmings that have offered them everything they wanted. Where was the happy ever after for those poor guys? Also being a realistic and pragmatic person I can’t promise a forever with any woman as I know from experience and statistics that this is a very rare thing. But no woman wants to hear that things might not be forever….but then they can wake up one day themselves and walk out the door….what’s the deal here? Double standards? As a guy it’s hard to pick up the pieces when things just fall apart in your life
On a second listen to this very good video I would suggest to all the young men here who prefer the type of women who are family oriented to consider East Europe - Russia, Poland, the Baltic States, Hungary, Romania, Bulgaria etc because of their culture which is conservative and pro-family. Plus Eastern Orthodox Christianity. Promiscuity and 'western culture' hasn't really permeated these countries too much and they are working hard to keep it out. Head East young man! Kind regards from London - United Kingdom.
That's what I did - married an educated cultural conservative (Orthodox Christian) from Russia who is now a university professor here in the US. Our 15th anniversary is this week. There may still be some good ones out there in the Western world, but it seems you are more likely to get rich buying lottery tickets than finding and establishing a lasting connection with a Western woman.
Have to say, looking lovely in that floral print Anna! As for modern women, I blame a steady diet of Disney movies and Barbie dolls from a young age for their ruination. When was the last time you saw a little girl with a baby doll? It's all fashion nonsense w/ the Barbies & "I'm a princess" w/ the Dizzy movies [indoctrinating conspicuous consumption & unrealistic ambition, anyone?] If you want a wife, you're going to have to go overseas to countries where the kids have never even *heard* of a toy store, let alone seen one. Just a theory, but it seems to hold up to scrutiny so far...
I've lived in some of those countries, there is no free lunch. I have yet to go to even the poorest of countries and not see everyone including kids with a cell phone. There are fabulous women in these places but being from any one place geographically ensures absolutely nothing. If one decides to do so because they find they are attracted to women from a certain ountry, fine, they had better do their homework to see if they are even compatible with the culture, most western men have no clue what they are getting themselves into. Even worse is western men that believe women are submissive in some places where women in said places are more demanding than western women in some ways related to culture. You can bet your ass that certain things are expected of you related to their culture and beliefs. You do not marry a woman in many places and then the two of you are autonomous unless the family is not poor, the family comes with it, the family is the bank. Also, if you marry the eldest daughter, you may have married the breadwinner and now you are the breadwinner with families that do not know where their next meal comes from. There is nothing worse than a westerner with Yellow Fever who have weird notions of east asian women and end up looking like ignorant assholes with a savior complex. Some really poor women are with these men who are pieces of crap because they feel they must to be above desperate circumstances. If women in your own culture think you are a piece of crap, women in other places will catch on plenty fast enough.
Alright here's another point: not all women are like that (NAWALT - it's a term already!!) means that most women actually are like that. Be that the product of new cultural norms and values or female nature. There surely are good women out there, but they're in the minority. The numbers don't match the demand. The only good thing about it is that armed with this knowledge men can adjust their expectations and avoid major disappointments.
"If you're going to accept his philosophy [that all women are sluts] then you're not going to be hurt by what she does." YES. EXACTLY. The corollary is this: Cynics always become the things they hate. To accept that "all women are sluts" is to abandon a higher standard.
I’m curious. Do you mean ‘true love’ in the sense where both partners are equally devoted to the relationship & both regard the well-being of the other ahead of their own well-being? That would be my definition of true love.
@@TheDeadlyKnight your right ,that's if you find such a person,but it's hard. e.g if you have nothing left or a very bad state of health. That's when you really know who truly loves you ..some people even go to the extent of faking their death. Just to see who truly loves them, the kind of love you find this days are hypocrisy love...in the game of love some people male of female can act more than your best actors in Hollywood...if there was anything like true people will not come out to say in a relationship or marriage that the love they once shared is finished. Meaning they never loved you deeply.true love never dies..but THE REAL TRUE LOVE DIED YEAR'S IF NOT CENTURIES AGO. I REST MY CASE
This is what God thinks about the present condition of humanity: 2 Timothy 3: But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
@@YourWingmam very true....I feel totally at peace...I know God forgives and heals...He loves everyone....we are make mistakes ...trust God ask for forgiveness and love others...
All of my serious relationships have ended due to them cheating. I have PTSD and after discussions with my psychologist about this, I was seeking narcissistic women because I was raised in a family of narcissists and sociopathic parents. Hence. I looked for the same in relationships. Now I know about it I will avoid them. But I wonder if AMS? was making the same mistake (for lack of a better word) as well?
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Both men and women do this, sadly, because this is what they experienced/how they were treated in the past it is either familiar to some extent or they come to expect to be treated like this as if they were not worthy of being treated well, kindly - which of course is in no way true.
AMS is spot on. You sound nice, smart and empathetic. You’re also a tad naive. I’ve been with many women. After a while, your women will step out on you more and more. All of them have, did and will do it. Todays modern women. And your video was hilarious.
They all have that 304 tendencies inside them(including you Anna), even the so called married christian ones. I tested and proven it myself. Either you love them or understand their nature.
My old boss was a 40 year old attractive married woman who said she could never be with another man. At a Christmas party she grabbed my ass and shoved her tongue down my throat. What does that tell you.
@@map3384 exactly what I'm talking about. Only, most try to suppress it to keep the "good" woman/girl image going. After a few glasses of wine and the right atmosphere they'll spill their deepest darkest fantasies. Try it for yourself.
Lots of men think: “She says no, she’s not avalable all the time, she’s careful as to who will enter her life ... might be a high quality woman ... but I bet she wasn't like that with ✨Chad✨!”
There’s some truth to that with certain women, not so much with others. I only say this because of a woman at my work. Her and I immediately hit it off and started making out at work and sleeping together. Then a year down the road she let me know she had to stop because she started talking to a potential boyfriend. After a couple months I asked how it was going and if they slept together yet. She said no because she doesn’t want to rush it with this new guy because the relationship was getting serious and she didn’t want to put out too soon. That absolutely blew my mind:
One small problem, a leopard dress not change their sports. This is why a person's, any person, their past predicts their future. This is why their past, anyone's past, is so so so important.
If I buy a car, given my income, I can't buy a new one, but a young used one with not too many km. I don't buy a young used car that has been used so intensively and has a lot of km on the clock. The risk is too great for all kinds of engine problems. If I want a permanent relationship, I do not go for a woman with a lot of guys on her poesie meter. Too much chance of all kinds of problems, worn upholstery, brake and engine problems ;)
@Almighty In the Netherlands there are many more bicycles than inhabitants. Almost in the same proportion as there are more guns than people in America. There are quite a few videos on youtube on this subject, "Just not bikes" is one of them.
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You asked "Are you looking for something quick and easy, or are you looking for a relationship?"
I dont think those are mutually exclusive. How about a video on turning a hook up into a relationship
@@alexanderc9058yeah but warning, if you catch feelings for some gorgeous lady on a quiet Saturday afternoon when now one else is around to hear her moan, it'll become a slow drawn out heart ache/ heart break that can last weeks and months. Been there done that, and what I have to say for your own health and sanity you need to define what the intentions of your meetings are.
You don't want to have a couple of beautiful photos left on your phone of her pretty face that leave you crushed everytime you see them. Theirs hardly much more bitter sweet.
@@alexanderc9058 never buy a cat in a bag eh?
One night I met a woman at a bar, she was a good bit older than me and she even got me to go back to church. She used the example "how many people would you share your toothbrush with? Why would you want to share someone with more people than you'd share your toothbrush with?" She also told me "if a girl disrespects you even once, leave." Both pieces of advice I've taken to heart.
Some women seem to like a mystery. Then when there is no more mystery they lose interest. But there are many different types. Personally I don't think you meet a good wife at a pick up joint. If you're a church person, then you do need to get someone with a similar mindset or will be "unequally yoked" as it were to quote a bible verse. Though I found everyone in a congregation has differing beliefs with differing extremes scales. We all have a lot of issues about guilt that will mess up sex lives even within marriages. Deal with those issues ASAP in a marriage otherwise its all down hill with more LEARNED resentment and other rejection issues. You NEED to be able to LOOK GOD in the eye when you having sex without guilt or shame, but with thanksgiving and gratitude. It's his/their invention. Otherwise you never gona get satisfaction. But that's another story of mind programming chain reactions and finding true freedom with the true spirit of unconditional love. Greater things will you do, if and when you believe....
And a lot can be said for how and where you use your electric toothbrush when sharing with another. The brushes are swappable for different people's different uses. And a condom on your toothbrush, now there's a thought! God has a sense of humour... truly there are many inside jokes that are between you and him... and those females shapes, amazing effects!
A good test is to see if she's good/fun to be with when you are not having sex( most of the time nobody's perfect.
That rules out all attractive women.
Shouldn't share your toothbrush with any person.
i wouldnt want to share my toothbrush with anyone, so i should just go for virgins? That analogy sucks, women dont get "dirty" from having affairs with others
Once women have had their so called "FILL" and start to cool down, most will want to settle down because they eventually need some sense of security. Trouble is I don't want left overs.
Don't be a woman's retirement plan. Are you willing to bet half of everything you own, and possibly a good amount of your future earnings that she will never leave you for any or no reason?
And when they cool down they suddenly want to become passive celibate. Meaning if your courting her there's a very high chance you will not get any bedroom fun or she will be so desensitized there will be no mutual intimate connection.
hell yeah. i spent so far 20 years of my adult life alone, unwanted, feeling terrible, like trash. thats a me thing i know. but they could have been a good influence rather than contributing. but i digress. they were out having fun, and i was misserable. and then at the end all is forgiven and take them in. especially after i know chad had a real great time with her. nothing will be new for her ,or special coz tyrone already did his depravity.
what do i look like? a super simp? kick me in the balls yesterday and today all is dandy?
f that! you made your bed. now lay in it.
i got my emotional baggage , this is one of then. same way i have to deal with and be hopefully a positive influence on her. (say she was abandoned alot. it ok for me to spare a few world of reasurance for her) same way she can accomodate mine.
if that is too much to ask then fine. but im not jesus to simply offer another cheek after the previous one had been battered for years and years and years.
cal me bitter coz i am. but i also learned to value myself enough to say, what kind of pittyfull door at do you have to be to be that ultra simp to take in the emotionally damaged , bukkaked lefts overs from chad and tyrone and kevin.
especilly if she has spent years Turning down nice guys.
sometime shit happens, yes. people change, yes.( but if you knowingly enganged ad i wan the back up from day one. no)
the actual bdy count matters far less to me, than the reason why. the why s what makes that person redeemable. and the effort they pt into being redeemed.
but there is no free lunch with me. ive been burned so much sooooo much.
i physically feel an adrenaline boost of anger when i hear what a good person i am.
i am. and its good i am. bzt ive heard it so often as a rejection..
(rant)
but there still is that small bit in m that hopes there is a way past this to a fulfilled coupled future of mutual respect trust and understanding.
but it seems like a fools dream.
yes.. therapy has it work cut out
@@Pssst.ByTheWay My suggestion.. Change your environment. Seems to me you have put yourself in this bubble and hoping for the best out of it. Brother to brother I would advise you to look elsewhere..(Asia/Middle East/Eastern Europe) I guarantee you will find someone who will help you forget these westernized women. Try it.. it's much better than therapy. Heck in Japan as we speak 50% of age 30 to 40 yr old women are unmarried and they are depressed looking for people to marry them.
@@dallasdandy6276 which bubble do you mean?.
going abroad.... my pride has preveted me from considering it. not to be defeated. not to be the one that cant handle local girls so he flees.
but to be very honest. there are places were you are charished and appreciated. why put yourself though truely uneccesary hardship.
why struugle now when you could be happy now.
this isnt an excersize in delayed gratification. and there is no prize for growing old and alone and misserable.
It's been my experience that women chase the man that give them emotional tingles, not the men that take care of them, are honest and real. I've also noticed the higher the body count the harder it is for them to bond with a one single man. Once a cheater always a cheater is 99.9999%True.
Absolutely true. No one, man or woman, with a high body count can bond.
Very true. Women love drama (soap opera audience is typically all women). When they say they don’t want drama what they mean is they want drama that resolves in their favor.
100%@@TrollMeister_
This is true, find them young, be the man that gives them the tingles, keep them forever.
This is going to sound crazy, but after I ended my marriage I thought I was going to be all promiscuous, but realized I couldn't do it. I went on Tinder and was grossed out and closed my account a few days later. I just can't do it, I'm a sentimental softy inside. It's hard to find a quality woman willing to be monogamous now a days.
Honestly, it's reached the point where if a STEREOTYPICAL woman ('ESFJ', ESFP/ISFP, ESTP) complained about sexual assault - so what?! Most women have a 4 to 30+ body-count anyway!!! The one and only significant difference is 'PERMISSION' to "fornicate on used goods".
The alcohol only helps to NUMB their instinct that tried to discourage them from going through with it!!!
Since their body is not a sacred temple, can you not see how their internal environment (mind, spirit and emotion) is a cesspool of a mess! The influence of 'ESFP'/ISFP (moral depravity-a core trait for them), and 'ESFJ' cover-narcissism, especially in the school environment is the cause for all of this! Careless INFP add to this as well (despite being a wonderful type). INFP overly accommodating psychology is easily exploited, corrupted by covert-narcissits (ESFP, ISFP, ESFJ, and Cluster-B) and the INFP turns into an enabler of "sexual depravity". It happens a lot. Take a look at most sexual movements. This is why intelligence and the foresight to "look at the bigger picture" when making important decisions - like an intelligent person should be able to do... Is extremely important!
Most movements do not account for corrupt members, i.e. member that secretly harbor an ulterior, degenerate motive! Case in point, today's feminism, charities, etc. And yet we wonder how it came cancerous and only facilitates "prasites" (who secretly experience a [metaphorically] cannibalising psychology/state of mind).
I hope that intelligent and spiritually clean humans will take the time to dissect and understand this comment.
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"Evil" is the anthesis to the virtue 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism.
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They all sloppy left overs. ALL of them.
As men we attach our value to our ability to attract a mate. Our promiscuity is tied to our self esteem. Tinder serves that purpose almost as badly as ladies of the night.
It is odd how readily we all seem to have accepted the idea that sex with near or total strangers is fabulous. I think the truth for most people is that anonymous sex is far less desireable than sex with a lover with whom you are in a relationship. I'd blame Hollywood, and the TV shows and movies it makes, for trumpeting the idea that anonymous sex is fabulous and to be sought after by both men and women, and that waiting a bit is for dweebs, only.
AMS is spot on. As a man formerly in the dating scene, I can attest the CC is a well-oiled machine ridden by all ages. A perpetuum mobil of hedonism. Thanks for the vid!
This is all trauma damage seeking trauma damage. For most of us well adjusted types, from good families, it is easy, natural, affection building companionship. Serial monogamy is as game as it gets. 🥸
So if a woman sleeps with thirty guys between 18 and 25 and then turns 26 and decides not to sleep around then the thirty guys don't count. Lol. They count. And guys do not want a chick who has done that.
Good point. I would like to see the data that Wingman suggests that if the women in your example have a CC break for 10 years would they then be able to pair bond. I suspect not.
In the video, I suggest that it depends on how many she slept with and how long it's been since the last one. The higher the number and the more recent that is, the less likely she's changed her ways or repaired the emotional damage that's done. Thanks for allowing me to clarify! :)
@@YourWingmam Thanks for the response. It's the data supporting the "less likely" that would be interesting to see.
My gut feeling is if she has slept with 30 guys between the ages of 18 and 25 per example above then has an extended break, she would still need to be avoided by men from a marriage/having children point of view.
@@stevearcher6100 true. It is a cope. Its a shitty excuse for a lack of self respect.
They're all there.....imprinted.....alpha widowed.
Problem is they want us to wife them up. Then they decide at age 45 "now I am in my exploratory phase" and wrecks a family
Sounds like your fault for marrying the wrong women.
After ten years of passive‐aggressive, constructive dismissal.
@@Jeronimo.67 yes
@@Jeronimo.67 Take some personal responsibility.
Why not? The law lets them cash out with a bonus. Never marry.
She's never yours, it's just your turn. Hypergamy is alive and well in almost every woman.
Some woman do not have time to cheat;;
Plagiarizing RICHARD COOPER are you!!! “She’s never yours, it’s just your turn.” Don’t rip other people’s sayings off and attempt to take the credit, 🙄
@@kristobonanni7678 it work with coworkers woman who use coworkers male like stud service one time use only;; sexual intercouse can be like a very ❤ powerful love drug , it wasl ike they were possess with pretty woman coworkers ;;
Your turn to smash and dash!!!!!
You are smoothe at getting your throat, legs bolling but let. Kkkkmgam so it's more beg for something special from me. What is cheating, not taking a test making
I've been burned twice, in long term relationships 5+ years. Promiscuity has become a real bad problem with women these days.
Try 2 relationships and the loss of 25yrs. Not gonna bother looking anymore because I don’t want to get burned again. I can’t let that happen!! I believe when you sign a contract (with god and state as your witness) there should be consequences for breaking that contract but sadly there isn’t. This is my advice to anybody that might listen. No matter how good of a person you might think they are never believe they are above cheating. Real talk
@@royalchaser8090 Amen Bruddah.
That's because of social media! They have 300+ guys in their DMs!
You know what I think? I think they were always like that. They just couldn't speak up because religion and patriarchy. They had to act nice and all lady-like.
I was with a great woman making 6 figures just like me, once I found out her bodycount was 60 everything went down hill from there. " We no longer together " Let's put it that way... Fellas STAY TRUE TO YOUR VALUES ‼️
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Most likely 600.
I’d rather live alone for the rest of my life than spend another second under the same roof with a miserable woman-hot or not. If there ever is another, she’ll be worthwhile or she’ll be gone...quickly. Life is too short to live unhappily either way.
100% agree!
I agree
What Tim³ said.
Living alone is living ... FREE !!!
See people when you want to see them !
Give me a cat or two and my home life is quite happy
“Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.”
― Hunter S. Thompson
It's rarely accurate to speak in absolutes like ALL women, but I'd wager it would be significantly more difficult to find a sexually conservative woman today than it would be to find a promiscuous one.
Wise words! Hope to see you again in a few hours! :)
It all comes down to where you're searching - and what exactly are you searching for.
On one far side of the spectrum, big cities in most of western countries will tend to have the most sexually progressive (aggressive?) females - while on the other side of the spectrum - small towns and rural communities (and even cities) in non-western countries will have the most sexually conservative women. And there is PLENTY of everything in-between those two extremes.
Again, it all depends on where you are searching - you're not gonna go seeking for gold in the depths of the ocean, just like you're not gonna be searching for sea pearls high in the mountains.
I live on the outskirts of a small town and there's plenty of conservative or "moderately" conservative women where I am. There's "easy" women in the clubs, and there's "conservative" women in the church's youth gatherings as well.
Woman have more pressure to cheat;; than men ; sexual intercouse with ;gorgeous looking woman are a heaven on earth sexual beside eating; & sleeping;;
@@YourWingmam Pretty sure you don't have any psychology training.
same with men
Agree with this - for any younger men watching this, don't, despite your hormones screaming at you, ditch a girl you like because she said no the first time and once again, despite that heavy make-out session you've just had, just take your aching balls home and reflect positively. If she has said no to you the first time, then chances are she's done the same with other men too and you may well have come across somemone with a low body-count. Be grateful and pursue her positively and respectfully.
If she is giving you that heavy make out session than the no means not now. Rather than instead of no never.
Yup that may be true if she’s under 25, but if she’s a bit older she might have 50 bodies, she’s just targeted you to wife her up.
Years ago I discovered that my GF cheated on me we argued and then we broke up. As I walked out she said “You’re impossible!” I looked back at her and said “And you’re easy!”
Guys I think I made my point, women today only care about body count and nothing else. Don’t even try stay single, happy and free! 🇺🇸🦅
“I have been given nothing. God made men what they are.” William Wallace. 🇺🇸🦅
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
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Rodney Dangerfield joke.
The good book is 100% accurate "A good woman is hard to find"😉
And for the hoes a hard man is good to find! ;) (sorry, couldn't resist!)
@@YourWingmam 😀😀😀
@@YourWingmam those of us with ED don't have any luck with either kind of woman. I'd love either at this point.
A gorgeous looking woman who a good woman are hard to find
@@YourWingmam😂😂😂
Damaged goods forever. People don’t change from an extreme “exploratory” phase. It’s a matter of time and opportunity. That person will cheat, because they can’t not have that “high” in their life.
@Paul Joe A lot of women are also disgusted when they hear a guy is a virgin, even if by choice.
Unless... an act of God shook them up (death, disease, disaster) and/or they've finally worked on their early trauma that caused them to become that way in the first place. They are rare but do exist.
It’s possible I’m slightly biased too here, I married my college girlfriend even though she had admitted to cheating on me. I thought I was being a good person by sticking with her and giving her credit to admitting to it to me. I thought that in time it would fade from my memory and that I could “be a man” about it. Truth was though that it didn’t just go away, and then other things that happened I started to see that she didn’t really care about me at all. She used all the negative “female” tactics in the book at some point or another. All this stuff made me realize that those things are not ok, and you can’t just try to “man up” and take it. Resentments get built up over time...that time you don’t get back.
@@YourWingmam But are those women worth it even after all that? To risk it, from a man's perspective? How could he know after sifting through all the others, that this one is actually worth it? Again, from a man's perspective, why buy the cow when the milk is apparently free, depending on who you are? Not trying to bash you, just presenting the logical conclusion many people have towards ending dating prospects. It's truthfully the most difficult argument to beat, which is why the dating market is what is it is now. It's just not an acceptable system to most self-respecting men, which, let's be honest, do any women want men who don't respect themselves?
It was a system doomed to fail, and we are the witnesses to it's demise. It's nobody's fault per se, but we will all be affected by it none-the-less
@@YourWingmam By then it's way too late. Fact is, her personal issues, or the reasons she had to thot it up are irrelevant. The choices were made and the bill must be paid. It's not my problem that she has issues or traumas. In fact, the last thing I need in my life is someone with deep seated issues. The costs is way too high across the bored. Best I can do for such a woman is Netflix, some D and a first class ticket back to the streets.
I'd say most sleep around.
Especially given the right circumstances: alcohol, great looking guys, girlfriends who are encouraging the promiscuous behavior.
I had a 3way on the 2nd floor of a bar with the bride to be and her married matron of honor. The wedding was the next day.
Classy
The ones who don't probably aren't at the bar. That's why it seems like most are. Thanks for sharing your experience!
@@YourWingmam But if the good ones are hiding in their room with their cats and their cocktails, how are we supposed to meet them? That does us no good!
@@inconnu4961 People at the bar don't deserve them. We the good men don't go to bars and other ungodly places either.
Here comes the bride 😎
I gave up with the long term stuff. Now I'm accused of being misogynist because I'm tired of being cheated on, used as a placeholder, expected to be a stepfather, or to be a punching bag when she lashes out on me for what those dozens of other guys did. That's been my only experience. Now I'm awful when I tell them I dont want the fake relationship.
I've been taught that 'no' means "NO'. So if any girl tells me no, I'm not going to keep pushing and pushing and trying to "get to know" if that girl is "high value" because a) that's harassment, b) that's needy, and c) she's always going to say 'no' to me.
Now I'm no pickup artist, but when I hear no I hear no.
I still agree with AMS, even if they're not doing it with me.
For real, I learned early. I asked *once,* took anything other than a clearly stated "Yes" as "No," and never asked twice. Guys and gals would tell me I should have been more " persistent." I always took this to mean, waste time and allow myself to be strung along. No, thank you.
I have had 6 serious relationships before I was married from 6 months to 5-ish years, and every single one of them either cheated on me or their 'other' boyfriend. In one case I was one of four guys in rotation, with another GF I would sometimes unwittingly drive her to where her BF lived. Another GF cheated whilst on a vacation that I paid for in our actual hotel room while I was downstairs. One GF had a BF back in Malaysia. With my second GF she flirted with me (after we broke up) and asked me to come over, even when she had another live in BF. Gave up on Western women and I am now married (20 years) to an East Asian woman who has a good heart and character. Been through A LOT together but she has been loyal and faithful throughout. I worry about my two teenage sons.
Society says men are cheating pigs. The average woman has way more options to cheat. Only the very top men get the opportunity to cheat on an equal level.
@@johngalt6838 "Society" takes the word of women on "men are cheating pigs", which is why it's wrong. Most women only "see" the top 20% of men. When 80% of women are going for the top 20% of men (the numbers are even worse than this since online dating, but bear with me here), each man has 4 women to choose from. So of course women thing "all men cheat" - all of the top 20% they're fighting over! The other 80% who would be happy with one woman can't even find one, as the women consider they deserve better. So the chaos continues.
I'm sure if I had met any of these women who cheated on you I could've predicted it. I'm pretty good at it
Interesting read mate, and sorry to hear of the bad experiences you had with these women, and they say us men are bad, but i agree that eastern women are alot more faithfull and have a better moral compass.
What are you doing here? Mr Clearly something ain't right or you would not even be curious...
It is possible to change, but it's rare. I've found that people don't like change, unless they are forced to.
I don't know if people really totally change. I feel they become a better version of themselves.
Just remember that when you are in a relationship with a woman that she doesn't belong to you. It is just your turn.
I'd rather skip having my turn instead of wasting my time. Time is too precious too worry about who enters and leaves thru that door. If u wanna play games, don't even bother stepping in.
but what if it is your turn and she loves you and wont leave - no one belongs to anyone and everyone has a choice
You are in the wrong part of the world then..
@@WhatTimeIsIt369 you wrong.
If some ppl succed at having a good wife. You can have one too.
Learn their secrets
@@deepquotes3319 Their secret is like asking a lottery winner what their secret is. Haha! They have no idea but they did get lucky.
"Just accept things for the way they are," is absolutely fantastic advice. The trick is in practicing it, in the first place, and being ABLE to discern things as they are, in the second.
"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another." -H. L. Mencken
Feels like a miserable smartass that Mencken.
It's the other way around ... one women doesn't differs from another, cuz i love them all. What then? I'm the hoe?
Love and lust are the same thing for that dude?
"A man thinks more about the fish that got away than the one he threw back in the water." - T.S. McNamara
@@timothysmcnamara5925 “Never trust a man who defends feminism. His mind & body are weak, and his agenda is getting pussy...” - Me
Why don't women today value their bodies? I don't get it. Is women who have self esteem rare today? I only slept with 3 guys when I was younger, I'm in my 50's now and married, and they were relationships. Oh well times have changed I guess but I don't think for the better. Just my opinion.
Men showed it doesn't matter, so women decided to get even. I don't blame them, men are pigs and women are sows.
Totally agree! Honestly, feminism, social media and social acceptability have messed things up for male/female relationships. Thank you for watching and commenting!
@@YourWingmam Well, hopefully your videos will enlighten some. :)
you’re what we call a unicorn
That sounds so ancient! That valuing your body is in the number of partners. Did you meet no one before you were married, and did you know from the first date you would marry your husband?! Angela, sit off your high horse. Plus! Valuing the body comes in taking responsible and not have unsafe sex. Ok, boomer your ancient moral is only tied in old men and their view on women. Zzzzz
It shouldn’t bother you what other people do in consent! Worry about those who do things to others without their consent. What you talk about is just some body moral policing aimed at w o m en, you’re stuck on old values.
I played in a band for a very long time around an unusually high number of people and I know what I saw going on around me from a huge observation point most never experience. Even the fiance of a MULTI MILLIONAIRE I know cheated on him. Speechless! There`s a reason doctors are telling men to avoid anything "oral" nowadays unless they want to get dozens of cancer causing viruses and God knows what else in their throats. Is the situation nearly 100% hopeless? I guess that`s a matter of perspective and depends on how well you can deceive yourself.
And where you're shopping for a GF and how well you're vetting them :)
Cancer causing viruset? WTF 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The jezebel spirit is alive and kicking with feminists 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If my first wife hadn't been so good looking some one would have hit her over the head with a shovel. My second wife thought monogamy was a game by Milton Bradley so I fired her. My third wife whose RUclips account this was was an excellent person who I was married to for 27 years until her death from lupus at 53. I had eleven live in girl friends who were all dirt bags my third wife was the only quality woman I ever met. I do admit I dated solely on good looks and no other criteria. I'm 68 now and will never meet another woman like my third wife and would rather be alone then live with a cheat and liar again.
Glad the third time was a charm for you.
Dang you been married 3 times
I’m sorry for your loss
You sir are lucky to survive & find your THIRD WIFE😲 Holy 💩 man . I hope other young men read your comment & Learn from your situation. My experience was not good but reading your story I feel better. Thanks for sharing.
I'm 28. I've slept with two men, my high school/college boyfriend and my late husband.
If I don't answer my text between six and midnight, I'm likely working (I am a customer service manager for an airline). Women are still people, we have a variety of preferences and experiences. Not all women are 'sloppy seconds' or cheaters.
I think women can change, I have a close friend who became deeply religious at about 25, started practicing celibacy and when she married her husband at 31, he was the first man she'd been with in six years.
Congratulations mam you are one among the 5 percent of unicorns in this wild dark forest (considerring the fact that you are being honest). Stay happy and have an amzing life glad that you still walk the earth among us. Peace ❤
I would argue all women are sloppy seconds, maybe not my grandma.
Also women suddenly becoming virgin mary after being ran through is a common phenomenon. It's a desperate measure to lock down a man with morals.
You are a worthy catch. Good luck.
There is such thing as man talk, whereas guys get together and chat about stuff they think would not be suitable for women to hear.
Well, try eavesdropping on a women`s conversation and you`ll be shocked. Way, way more hardcore than conversations among males.
Given the right environment, circumstances and opportunities, most women will drop all the inhibitions.
haha, you heard nothing yet, ever heard young girls ( 14/16yo) in weekends talking about their male co- students/ neighbourboy ? yep, straight headchopping, dehumanising, humiliations, bodyshaming, aso .... are they practising for the future ? boy's and girls can be cruel in their comments/opinions to each other, but I was really shocked by the intensivity they spoke, never experienced this among boy's
"Given the right environment, circumstances and opportunities, most women will drop all the inhibitions".......That is why they love to wear very revealing clothing.
@@robertdevoy3119 it sounds like that's another sign of the type of woman to avoid. The way she dresses. Women at the library don't dress like that.
@@justintime1307 If a guy meets a drunk woman and they have s*x, under the law the guy is automatically a rapist even if the woman consents, because it is deemed that an intoxicated woman in not in full control of her senses and therefore unable to consent.
So if in the morning the woman cries rape, except a long prison sentence ahead.
Beware you guys of jailbait.
Yep, especially among Filipinas speaking about the size of an American man's package. This is a major subject in The Philippines. Filipinos typically have small packages!
I see alotta signs of Avoidant Personality disorder these days. Fear of being hurt because of past experiences. Easier to skim along.
Absolutely. And it actually applies to both genders (not sure about any rainbow genders, not my area of expertise)! ;)
@@YourWingmam Exactly. Learn your mistake(s) and move on. The past has passed and cannot be altered.
@Almighty Trouble will find you whether you like it or not. Adapting is part of living and learning. You can’t live in a Petri dish in Antarctica for very long. If you’re avoiding, you’re afraid. And your fear comes from past experiences which can’t be changed. Or you’re afraid of being judged for making an error in front of someone else. Trying to be perfect and never have any ego challenges is definitely a flawed perspective. People don’t all agree on every attitude. If we did, we may as well be sheep doing exactly the same thing day in -day out in stagnation. Every day brings thousands of personal decisions based on past experience. We can’t be obsessive compulsive and control others. It’s a waste to try and control external things in the world. No amount of money, no other human wilm fill that kind of chasm. Not saying any of ir applies to you. There are tools and techniques to negotiate trouble. Simply being and doing, instead of micro-comparing and judging the all, everything, and everybody in life will reap positive benefits. Everything doesn’t equal trouble or a mess. Expecting others to adhere to one’s own perspective is also a recipe for disappointment. To each their own. All the best to you, family and friends!
I see a lot of that, too, even though these avoidant personality people are claiming to want a serious relationship. BS
@Almighty good to hear that you're at least honest, unlike the avoidant women I have dated
I have never lived in a big city, which is where I imagine most of the promiscuous women live, if nothing else just because of the greater odds of successful hookups. Therefore I haven't had many encounters with them other than twice in college and it was the female that made all the moves. Otherwise I was raised to believe intimacy was intended for your spouse only and that may be old fashioned but it's how I've lived my life. Unfortunately my now X-wife didn't feel the same way, which I guess qualifies her as a garden tool?
Hoes are *everywhere* lol though you ain't missing much!
Another thing, it always takes two. You can't have a bad woman without a bad man. If men weren't hogs women couldn't be sows (unless they cheat with other women then they'd be sows too).
That is to say it takes two to tango, but of course her/his character is determined all by themselves.
Oh and even if your views are considered old-fashioned, because they are, well old, they might be younger than polygamous relationships, because that's been going on for a much longer time. Also it's still the right way to do things, so don't apologize for stating the truth. If someone feels offended, it's because the truth is condemning their wickedness.
Please do not even attempt to get married from the way you are talking you sound like a blue pilled big fish whom the right woman will take advantage of.
I like Anna but most of her advice pretty much is asking you to enter into a woman's frame which is no bueno. Study the Rational Male to get even deeper and when you get red pilled and realize how the courts system is designed to screw men over you'll get that romantic notion out of your head.
@Paul Joe Please read my comment again, you will find out that I included this there. I don't think that the individual's faithfulness is dependent on their spouse, absolutely not. That's up to everyone themselves. But you can't commit adultery by yourself, is all I am stating.
Edit: Also I have little consideration for anyone who does it outside of wedlock and with anyone but their spouse.
I moved to a small town and became a member of an internet dating site. When I searched for a match, two girls kept being listed. One I had dated already and the other was her friend! Also when I had a friend (female) from a big city stay one weekend we compared the number of people we had slept with. I estimated about 20 (we were 40 yr olds) and she said 1 to 2 HUNDRED!
Men, my advice is that a women who has gone through an "exploratory phase" is not suitable as a wife. Men, you are the prize. Don't be caught by a woman who has had an "exploratory phase". Commit yourself to a good woman. That is a woman who is wise enough not to have an "exploratory phase". Women, a wise woman knows that a good man is not a man with assets. A good man is a man who is investing in his career. A good man is married by the age of 24 years old.
Regards,
Geoff. Reeks
Career?... Don't you mean "Character"? Not every good man is focused on building a career. You are much more likely to find a good woman you're a missionary rather than a career person.
If they didnt go trough the exploratory phase before getting commited, chances are they will feel like they missed out and go on that exploration later if the opportunity arises, destroying the relationship. Saw that happen multiple times with people i know. Man are the same. A man married at 24 with little previous experience is way more likely to get tempted to cheat then a 30 years old who has had his share and decided to settle now, because there is less FOMO/temptation of the unknown.
any tips for a virgin guy in early 20s that don't know how to filter the bad ones?
Love your frankness, no pulling punches nothing made up breath of fresh air comes to mind
You are so brilliant and honest. My experience is that what you have said here is spot on. I have been terrible at marriage. Being loyal has cost me several fortune's. Thanks for sharing, and being so reliably truthful.
Thank you for appreciating the info and hopefully some of my intel will save you from future heart (and wallet) ache!
Brilliant?
She’s just reporting on the red pill channels that we all secretly watch.
Ok? I’m brilliant too by that definition.!
@@Pimp-Master I'm sure you are.
If you think PUA's struggle to commit to a "Keeper" that's fair enough - but it is exponentially worse for women who have a 304 stage - all the studies indicate that women's pair bonding ability gets wrecked by their 304'ing.
From my experience it’s true.
I love this kind of taking 😂😂 "304'ing" got me rolling
I just recently discovered your videos, and because of your honest approach, have watched several of them. Thank you for taking the time to address these subjects from a woman's perspective. I don't normally comment on videos, but I do read posts to see what others think and feel. I have noticed that most of your poster's are real and are addressing the subjects in the videos and in their lives. However, there are several subjects I have not seen addressed, note that I have over half a lifetime of experience and certainly might be out of touch with some of today's realities. Having said that; there are two facets of basic human nature that are not talked about at all. First, the fact that s*x is a basic human drive hard wired into each person, not a good or bad thing, simply a fact of life. And second, women are people just like men. They are not flowers in a garden just waiting to be plucked and put into a vase. They have feelings, desires, dreams and fantasies, just like men do.
What I see in all this, (and of course I could be dead wrong), but young men are no longer taught to make a choice for their lives and to accept that choice for a lifetime. If you are looking for a chaste, committed woman and a life of dedication, marriage and family, know that you are going to miss out on a lot of the free, uncommitted fun. But, if that is truly what you have chosen, live for that, structure your life around that and let it be known; then that is what you will attract. On the other hand, if you wish to enjoy the alpha playboy life; structure toward and around that, but know that you will forego the commitments and the family home lifestyle, no one can have it both ways. There is nothing wrong with either way of living, and there are plenty of women on both sides, but remember, both lifestyles have there ups and downs, there own joys and there own problems, which ever one you commit to, accept that this will be your life. And in the end both have only memories to take with them when they cross the river Styx. Make the best memories you can, condemn no one, hurt no one, and keep in mind that no one can hurt you unless you let them. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness through the choices they make. You are either happy and will share that with someone else when you have the opportunity, or you are unhappy and will bring that down upon someone else when you have the opportunity. Live well, make the best memories you can. Always give what you receive, and if one needs to part ways, wish them well, clinging and jealousy only destroys the good memories.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Wow. Thank you so much for this.
I never thought I'd see an AMS video review from you, 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Two of my favorite worlds colliding.
Not only do I enjoy listening to you (an oasis of sanity in an insane (dating) world) I also love reading the comments and takes of various people. A very engaging channel.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
“Assume she’s from the streets until she proves otherwise.” F&F
Literally yesterday - been talking with a friend , just as a friend. For like 9 months. Used to know her in high school. But when I told her I was hooking up with 2 different women , one of whom was in her twenties , within a day she wanted banged.
It is just all about whether they perceive value of some sort.
It's absolutely true that when a woman sees/knows other women are interested in a man, his value goes up for her. This is social proof. There's a reason for it but too long to explain here. :)
@@YourWingmam Correct ^^^^ I always found that I received more interest from women, when I was seen to be dating a woman, rather than when I was single. Ironically, when a man is single, he's largely invisible to most women. I don't think that reflects terribly well on women either- they see something which somebody else covets, so they perceive a 'value'- and they want to take it away for themselves.
@@liverpoolscottish6430 It's because they all are jealous backstabbers!
@@YourWingmam While true for the most part it's also very dangerous to only use this for selection purposes. Narcissistic people tend to have social proof, they usually are sociopaths, and look normal on the outside, and meet all the criteria of having social proof. This is why so many women FALL for these types of men so easily and then get hurt or abused and disillusioned. Also, hypergamy is part of this social proof concept that is killing women's chances of finding the man they really NEED.
I find that people who are NOT as social, who are far more discerning about whom they interact with online or in-person and have healthy boundaries, are far MORE trustworthy, and are a better choice than those that look or act like they have value when they do not.
If I see allot of women in a group, usually, there is a certain amount of dysfunction in the group, they usually are looking for attention and require all men to qualify themselves to the entire group. In today's world, Instagram and other social networks have made millions of women addicted to social proof and attention, it's killing relationships and most women don't even see it and rarely if ever, will acknowledge it exists.
Therefore, I avoid social proof tests and look for the woman that is a little more distant, who isn't caught up in all the attention-getting, who is more level-headed, who is not drunk or dysfunctional. For example, the woman at the museum, or at the park or walking along the beach or reading a book at the library or sitting in the park reading a book. I want an attractive woman that is a traditional lady, who is kind, caring, giving, submissive, compliant, loving, and in touch with herself emotionally and spiritually and not all wrapped up in social proof concepts.
@@MichaelBuck you sure dont want much, do you!?
I think many young women today have fallen prey to marketing, Hollywood and a false sense of reality. And by the time they grow up enough to figure it out they often have too much baggage or have past their prime. I think it's safe to say the fault for much of that lies with the parents.
Why do I have a slight smile whenever I watch your videos!
I get the same feeling when I visit Joyanima's channel. This British girl looks stunning just like you.
Never swim where others have drowned.
I happen to believe that now in my early 40’s I have learned a few things.
1. Your videos are indeed educational.
2. Many women have been trained to go after the top 10% or the “exciting is the bad boy.” Societally, the moral bar has been lowered significantly.
3. Troves of women above are often mistreated in ways and come to devalue themselves and see themselves as flawed in one or more ways.
4. If you find a Woman like this and after some weeks or months with her she says “no man has ever treated me this way before” or some variation. Maybe “you do things for me that no man has.” This is most likely an HONEST statement and she is faced with unknown territory. It has to be confusing.
5. We all have damage in our Lives. If she has a good heart and truly can find the value in herself. She can then find that man that continually treats her as a full and valued woman.
I disagree... but it's still safe to assume! 😆
I remember when girls were the ones with "walls" built up; that you had to get past in order to get to know them... now it seems like guys are the ones with trust issues! Lol
And for good reason! ;)
it was the same back then, but it was just better hidden
Yep I have trust issues because people have loyalty issues
As Rudyard Kipling once said "It is hard for one that has known many to only know one"!
This applies to men and women!
Not really men and women are different when it comes to pair bonding
No. it doesn't. Men are hard wired to be able to love more than one woman. Women lose more of their ability to pair bond with each additional partner.
Great insight Anna Maria. Fully agreed. And I've heard others say that if you really want a long term relationship, the number of men a woman has slept with is very low. And I found a facebook group that focus' on saying NO, and the focus is on LTRs. And I found that meeting a woman at church, you find a small cross section of society. Not all share the same goals and values.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Great vid darl, thanks for the insights! Now, on your last point - why would anyone wed a devalued product ? She wants to sell herself as a brand new car, but she's been out of the car dealership, and worked up a mileage, she cannot hide. By the time she decides to quit the CC marathon, she is physically, mentally and emotionally damaged, beyond repair, not to mention the STDs she would throw in the final product mix. Also, as you mention, the habit of sleeping around, why risk finding out that she may fall back into it, once the safety providing schmuck has wedded her? The only advantage such a woman brings to the table is sexual experience. All fine and dandy, so she qualifies for a friend with benefits, nothing more.
I think all women have that inner wild side just comes out at certain times with certain people
Most women have that, not all. The only all with women is all women are complicated lol but otherwise, I agree!!
Amen. Even if you have sex you do not always get the wild one to come out. Sometimes planets align and you see the center of the universe.
Hopefully.
That's what I think, especially when you give someone lots of time, it feels like the end of taking it for granted and say why do I want to be with this person if I can see them all the time and give it some years- they'll cheat eventually
It comes out ALOT more times and with ALOT more people than you'd think.
Ideally a relationship, but someone who demonstrates they can be good in a relationship. I'm not going to commit myself to someone who doesn't seem that keen or doesn't reciprocate effort
Excellent standards and expectations! :))
In today's culture and society people are mostly getting together for the wrong reasons. Dealing with low quality people makes you pessimistic and nihilistic about a healthy relationship. It's almost like men are expected to be subservient to women in today's society. They don't outright say it but if you play close attention to couples it is easy to spot
@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh totally right buddy. my last gf blurted out in a frustrating moment some research suggesting women are 6x smarter than men. I wanted sex so I kept my mouth shut, yuck
Preach!
Of course they become “good” material, but this only happens later after a lot to regret and feel ashamed
Potentially good, not all take accountability for their own actions and rejections later on because of those actions. But yes, if they do, that's part of how it happens!
This post wall dating coach is an example of what your saying.
I know a woman who is 67, and married for 44 years never cheated and only sleep with one man. What is so impressive about her is that was her first and only relationship.
Funny thing, I reread your comment and was shocked, thinking maybe you had actually spoken to my mom, lol. They married in 1978, and have been married 46 years, and she's 66, so it's so close to your example. Both were virgins on wedding night and still only known each other intimately. ✝️
@@TechWeLove The woman I know is my wife, met her when I was 22 and she was eighteen. We got married 1977 have three kids. Our secret: be authentic, respectful and honest.
Unicorn
Many years ago I was looking for relationships but I kept getting friend zoned. Nowadays I'm not looking for anything. If I get friend zoned, so what. If I can get boyfriend zoned, cool. No expectations - no disappointments.
Sometimes its better that you are dude. Never lose you heart to a female you've just met. Her bodycount is decisive. You can always be friends with a 304, so basically she is telling you what you are to her. Nothing but a f*ck and that she belongs to the street. What kind of man in his right mind would want a female for a wife that has bodycount so high that you could fill a classroom with. That female will never be, NEVER EVER BE abel to be a good wife or mom.
I can't have a serious relationship with someone that I can't trust. If my Spidey sense goes off, then that is it. I don't ask, I just walk. Their fault, my fault, nobody's fault, it's time to move on.
At approximately 10:28 what you ascribe to men who are good at "pickup" applies even more so to women with high body counts. My point is that even a woman who decides that she is not going to be promiscuous anymore will be tested as soon as there is a disagreement in the relationship or people from her past creep up and want her to have fun doing the old things (i.e.being promiscuous). The more men a woman has had, the easier it is to have the next one. Therefore the more difficult for her to stay in a relationship with one person, even if she knows that one person is the best person for her. Tell me if you disagree.
Thank you for this video.
Keep up the good work.
"Don't be a fixer, don't be a savior." I want to tell your audience to LISTEN TO YOU on that one, especially. It's true. Changing who we are comes from within. You cannot save someone from themselves. The consequences of attempting that are high, often incalculable and unimaginable in their scope and in how they will come back to bite you and even innocent others. Choices have consequences. I grew up believing in an internal motto that went something like: "A princess saved is a princess earned." That might be true, but Pygmalion is a fantasy, it is mythology. Women grow into a Galatea on their own, whether they are raised and nurtured that way from childhood or else they put in the hard work to make themselves someone of virtue and value. Nobody else can do that for someone else. The best we can hope to do is inspire. The individual still has to do the work.
I'm 57 years old and I've always looked for the one. I was married for 23 years and have had 6 long term relationships. Along with quite a few casual ones. It has taken me along time to see that although the women in my life had serious issues they were only mirroring my own short comings. In short I've been seeking validation from others . I have found self love and set healthy boundaries for myself. I'm trusting this will attract a woman who is a keeper, and I will be able to recognize the ones who are not. If turns out not to be the case that will be ok, because I am ok with being single.
Your videos are great! Really appreciate the honesty and no BS approach. Thank you!
I appreciate that!
He’s really talking about hypergamy. It’s the never ending search that a woman goes through to find a high value male regardless as to her marital/relationship status. if the sexual marketplace value of a man slips, thereby making the woman respect him less, she will jump DIRECTLY to someone new who is, many times, already been groomed and waiting in the wings. For Singles, only the top 10% of men are having sex. but, 80% of the women are having sex. 80% of all divorces are initiated by the women. The vast majority of those female initiated divorces are due to self reporting feelings of “(sigh)… just not being in love anymore.” these are observable measurable numbers.
The whole pick up artist thing is basically a reaction to reality. And it’s an unhealthy reaction and rather childish. It is a symptom of fear when a man becomes read pilled. It is not the intention of red pill truth though.
they want divorce because they get bored of the guy that they are married to. They miss that highly sexual lifestyle in which they can have good sex with multiple men that they are sexually attracted to with no commitment involved.
I call b.s. on your 10% , 80% stats. Way skewed
What is interesting is the complaint that men are emotionally unavailable..I wonder why when it is likely the available emotions could get crushed by their nature. In fairness a study was done where before a woman's period she preferred bull masculine men. After she preferred more fatherly. We are all creatures of our genetics but I think women suffer the consequences of their hormones more than men. I feel for them, it makes their life more challenging in yet another way.
omg so true, timing is everything
As men we say here is a problem let's fix it. As women it is only identified as a problem when they feel it. I can't tell you how many women I could tell was beginning her period before she had any idea. But as I got older I have embraced femininity with all the quirks. Because women with their flaws balanced men with their inherent flaws. Don't fight the difference embrace it. You will be much happier.
So here’s a question for you.
I’m 45 years old and though I’ve always wanted to get married and start a family I do not have that. I’ve been dating since I was 17-18 and I’ve dated a number of females of different backgrounds and still they are all the same…liars, cheaters, personality disordered, the list goes on. I’m a Christian man and I’ve tried dating both Christian and non-Christian women and still their behavior is abysmal. I’ve always dating in my age range.
So, the question is…you say not all women are like that but where are the ones that are not? How do you find a good one, if they exist?
It’s not just the younger ones doing it. It’s the ones at my age too.
U and I in the same boat bro haha! I am 48 never been married, however my only son now 18! I’ve dated hundreds of women married too. And now I don’t want to get married or have more kids. I’ll continue living my debt free live, zero health problems,buying 2nd home, 3 new cars, and all kinds of women still wanting to hook up. The age range is from 20s to 40s that still want me. Facts bro !
this will soonish be me. (39 now) there is always the hidden suspicious feeling i might just be a hugely negative echo chamber.
i am one of those true blue kind people and have had to deal witb the boot heels of soiety for it. i know im this way deu to childroom damage. but i also know regardless the reason im a asset to humanity. and yet ive been cast aside soooo often. its truely not for the lack of trying.
i truely fear 96% of them all are utterly abysmal, and the only reason they seem better now is to save face. rather than genuine growth.
forgiving the many years of rejection for be a nice guy, yes, a push over yes, but i didnt like cheat or steal. i helped where i could and did the best i could. and the thanks ws allways more kicks in the teeth.
i dont how i can forgive that. it feel like a utter betrayal of myself if i did.
(there is no prize for being misserable i know. but im principledas a general)
the work done to lock me down, is not going to be trivial.
and to get back to year point. i kinda dont see that happening. coz as yu said they dont change. and they probaqbly truely believe they did nothing wrong in the first place.
why would you date
anyone too old for children?
You're ONE OF THEM, just like them, if you also have been 'dating'. Dating = haux.
Alex Grace did a video about specifically this. And it makes sense, a non blue pill. Rational look at the situation. A healthy counter stance to the more extreme “all, absolute all” views.
I hope Alex is right.
To be honest guys tend to take anything , sure we decern before we approach but after she reciprocates a hi all standards diaaapearS we need to vet the ladies like crazy and weed out even tiny potential red flags.
I’m sure they are out there… just well hidden and usually taken, the good deals are usually quickly locked down
Vet them like crazy
Hi there !
I love your background music. It really coincides with what you are preaching. Thumbs up ! I appreciate that. Cheers!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I find the higher the body count of a girl, the higher the chance she is going to come with massive issues. The last girlfriend I had had slept with 20 guys in rapid succession (she had been sexually assaulted, opened up sexually after that) and while she was sweet and wanted to be a good girlfriend/wife, she had massive issues that ultimately ended out relationship. I would say for sure they can become good girlfriend material even with a higher body count but just be aware they may come with more issues than a girl who's more selective and controlled
Reminds me of a girl I knew ages ago. She got graped by a dude from college. Then became a 304. She got drunk with me and told me everything. Over 300 with multiple threes and fours. No way I was going to touch that.
Cause there are shiet men out there
Not possible
@@map3384 like I would give them a chance if she is loving enough. But yeah, that one WILL come with issues. For mine it came in the form of detachment and avoiding me for days on end. She could not handle stress from school, she would vomit before tests and not sleep for 4-5 days in a row. She turned into a completely different person.
Not your job to fix her
When I was a kid my mom told me that all women were dirty. I asked her if that included her. Never got an answer to that. On the flip side, my dad was non-stop cheating on her
😂
@David Bladin no answer is an answer.
As always, great info - and you are so animated and playful in this one. Thanks for another great video!
Thank you so much for watching! I had a lot of fun doing this one! :)
Well I was married to a woman and caught her a few times lying about where she was and who she was with...guys. So I kind of lean towards most women being sloppy seconds, not all but most.
I can't put my finger on it but you are noticeably better now than when I first saw you some years ago. You are easier to watch and you are more fun, too. Your topics seem to be essentially the same so it must be in the way you are presenting your material AND...you are also noticeably way hotter than you once were. Lost weight? More glamorous appearance? Funnier? I do not know but you are definitely going in the right direction. So keep up the good work. I hope you are making gobs of money giving out great advice. Good luck to you.
This channel is an invaluable resource for men IMHO. A treasure trove of knowledge & insight from a bonified high value hottie.
Thank you very much and don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
There are lots of decent women out there - but most of them are taken. Edited to add: Whenever I watch any of your films, you talk a lot of sense and give me heart that I'll be lucky enough to find someone decent once again before my days are through. Keep up the good work
Thank you! Don't give up! :)
Basic courtesy: She says “no”, you walk away. Smart men walk away from her so far that there’s no chance of friend zoning.
I need to remember this
I need it carved in my brain like an immortal inscription
Very true some women have an idea especially the very high net worth gals offer a guy their friendship as a coax on or a try out...... Test the water on him...... when the guy dissapears into thin air and refuses to accept the friendship zone She gets the biggest surprise in her life ....... which leaves her back to her trying out newer ride on lawn mowers
Sad to say, a lot of sloppy seconds, have been abused in some way. They use sex like a drug, to make them feel better.
Better than booze.
At least you have exercise.
I can’t describe how thankful I am for this video! Your words really helped me. Thank you so much for this video
My pleasure ❤️
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy
Clicked here faster than a simp replying back to a girls text
Ahhh lol thank you for the chuckle! You're awesome! :))
1:11 no, no you can’t trust them. The odds are never in your favor..NEVER. I forget who it was that said this, but I find it to be mostly true: “They say men can’t understand women, but women understand one another women perfectly- and they hate each other.” 🤨
I have a question/quandary that might be material for another video…multiple women I’ve met want the ‘happy ever after’ dream that Disney sells. At the same time I’ve witnessed them dump previous Prince Charmings that have offered them everything they wanted. Where was the happy ever after for those poor guys? Also being a realistic and pragmatic person I can’t promise a forever with any woman as I know from experience and statistics that this is a very rare thing. But no woman wants to hear that things might not be forever….but then they can wake up one day themselves and walk out the door….what’s the deal here? Double standards? As a guy it’s hard to pick up the pieces when things just fall apart in your life
I agree with you 100% I have learned a fair amount from watching your videos, Thanks Timothy
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Finding a good Woman is like winning the powerball
On a second listen to this very good video I would suggest to all the young men here who prefer the type of women who are family oriented to consider East Europe - Russia, Poland, the Baltic States, Hungary, Romania, Bulgaria etc because of their culture which is conservative and pro-family. Plus Eastern Orthodox Christianity. Promiscuity and 'western culture' hasn't really permeated these countries too much and they are working hard to keep it out. Head East young man! Kind regards from London - United Kingdom.
Go to countries where the courts hold women accountable for poor behavior. Western courts are largely misandrist.
Asian.. or east european... western women are finished.
That's what I did - married an educated cultural conservative (Orthodox Christian) from Russia who is now a university professor here in the US. Our 15th anniversary is this week. There may still be some good ones out there in the Western world, but it seems you are more likely to get rich buying lottery tickets than finding and establishing a lasting connection with a Western woman.
@@SBGould Hmm and so why are YOU even watching this if yur happily married 15yrs?
You right
Have to say, looking lovely in that floral print Anna! As for modern women, I blame a steady diet of Disney movies and Barbie dolls from a young age for their ruination. When was the last time you saw a little girl with a baby doll? It's all fashion nonsense w/ the Barbies & "I'm a princess" w/ the Dizzy movies [indoctrinating conspicuous consumption & unrealistic ambition, anyone?] If you want a wife, you're going to have to go overseas to countries where the kids have never even *heard* of a toy store, let alone seen one. Just a theory, but it seems to hold up to scrutiny so far...
And social media! (thank you!) :)
Simp alert 🚨
I've lived in some of those countries, there is no free lunch. I have yet to go to even the poorest of countries and not see everyone including kids with a cell phone. There are fabulous women in these places but being from any one place geographically ensures absolutely nothing. If one decides to do so because they find they are attracted to women from a certain ountry, fine, they had better do their homework to see if they are even compatible with the culture, most western men have no clue what they are getting themselves into. Even worse is western men that believe women are submissive in some places where women in said places are more demanding than western women in some ways related to culture. You can bet your ass that certain things are expected of you related to their culture and beliefs. You do not marry a woman in many places and then the two of you are autonomous unless the family is not poor, the family comes with it, the family is the bank. Also, if you marry the eldest daughter, you may have married the breadwinner and now you are the breadwinner with families that do not know where their next meal comes from. There is nothing worse than a westerner with Yellow Fever who have weird notions of east asian women and end up looking like ignorant assholes with a savior complex. Some really poor women are with these men who are pieces of crap because they feel they must to be above desperate circumstances. If women in your own culture think you are a piece of crap, women in other places will catch on plenty fast enough.
Alright here's another point: not all women are like that (NAWALT - it's a term already!!) means that most women actually are like that. Be that the product of new cultural norms and values or female nature. There surely are good women out there, but they're in the minority. The numbers don't match the demand. The only good thing about it is that armed with this knowledge men can adjust their expectations and avoid major disappointments.
Smart girl this one .. After being in a dull relationship for ever, it would be nice to just get a few easy/spicy ones !!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Your welcome girl ...
"If you're going to accept his philosophy [that all women are sluts] then you're not going to be hurt by what she does." YES. EXACTLY. The corollary is this: Cynics always become the things they hate. To accept that "all women are sluts" is to abandon a higher standard.
True love does not exist. When you know this,you save yourself some heartbreak or whatsoever .a word is enough for the wise 👌 🧠
Your life must be really 😔 sad
I’m curious. Do you mean ‘true love’ in the sense where both partners are equally devoted to the relationship & both regard the well-being of the other ahead of their own well-being? That would be my definition of true love.
@@jonpool9030 don't sound stupid.ok...I dropped an opinion. Your jerk
@@TheDeadlyKnight your right ,that's if you find such a person,but it's hard. e.g if you have nothing left or a very bad state of health. That's when you really know who truly loves you ..some people even go to the extent of faking their death. Just to see who truly loves them, the kind of love you find this days are hypocrisy love...in the game of love some people male of female can act more than your best actors in Hollywood...if there was anything like true people will not come out to say in a relationship or marriage that the love they once shared is finished. Meaning they never loved you deeply.true love never dies..but THE REAL TRUE LOVE DIED YEAR'S IF NOT CENTURIES AGO. I REST MY CASE
@@williamsrobert335 that certainly not the case
This is what God thinks about the present condition of humanity: 2 Timothy 3:
But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
Amen. And HE will burn this world.
Anyone who truly connects with God gains a level of peace even in today's world but if someone isn't interested or ready only God can change that :)
@@YourWingmam very true....I feel totally at peace...I know God forgives and heals...He loves everyone....we are make mistakes
...trust God ask for forgiveness and love others...
All of my serious relationships have ended due to them cheating. I have PTSD and after discussions with my psychologist about this, I was seeking narcissistic women because I was raised in a family of narcissists and sociopathic parents. Hence. I looked for the same in relationships. Now I know about it I will avoid them. But I wonder if AMS? was making the same mistake (for lack of a better word) as well?
Sorry about that brother! They are plentiful!
Very astute! People tend to go for what's familiar even if it's not healthy. You may appreciate some of the videos in my Red Flags, Narcissistic Women playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
Happened to me too. The key to attract better women is to heal. It changes your radar.
Both men and women do this, sadly, because this is what they experienced/how they were treated in the past it is either familiar to some extent or they come to expect to be treated like this as if they were not worthy of being treated well, kindly - which of course is in no way true.
@@YourWingmam I think Rich Cooper has this one right Alpha F___s and Beta bucks. They breaks rules for Alphas and make the rules for Betas
AMS is spot on. You sound nice, smart and empathetic. You’re also a tad naive. I’ve been with many women. After a while, your women will step out on you more and more. All of them have, did and will do it. Todays modern women. And your video was hilarious.
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I do really appreciate AMS. I’m a listener to you and him
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
You can get the girl out of a bar but you can’t get the bar out of the girl.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
They all have that 304 tendencies inside them(including you Anna), even the so called married christian ones. I tested and proven it myself. Either you love them or understand their nature.
And this from a Chad! ;)
My old boss was a 40 year old attractive married woman who said she could never be with another man. At a Christmas party she grabbed my ass and shoved her tongue down my throat. What does that tell you.
@@map3384 That she was damn sure you wouldn’t contact HR and file a complaint.
@@map3384 exactly what I'm talking about. Only, most try to suppress it to keep the "good" woman/girl image going. After a few glasses of wine and the right atmosphere they'll spill their deepest darkest fantasies. Try it for yourself.
Lots of men think:
“She says no, she’s not avalable all the time, she’s careful as to who will enter her life ... might be a high quality woman ... but I bet she wasn't like that with ✨Chad✨!”
a high quality woman would not sleep with a bloke that puts it around like chad not likely
There’s some truth to that with certain women, not so much with others. I only say this because of a woman at my work. Her and I immediately hit it off and started making out at work and sleeping together. Then a year down the road she let me know she had to stop because she started talking to a potential boyfriend. After a couple months I asked how it was going and if they slept together yet. She said no because she doesn’t want to rush it with this new guy because the relationship was getting serious and she didn’t want to put out too soon. That absolutely blew my mind:
@@LastNineBreaker Ah well, you ran through her pipes, so you got what you needed.
Really good video gurl. You should prolly do more vids like this....well done.
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One small problem, a leopard dress not change their sports. This is why a person's, any person, their past predicts their future. This is why their past, anyone's past, is so so so important.
If I buy a car, given my income, I can't buy a new one, but a young used one with not too many km. I don't buy a young used car that has been used so intensively and has a lot of km on the clock. The risk is too great for all kinds of engine problems. If I want a permanent relationship, I do not go for a woman with a lot of guys on her poesie meter. Too much chance of all kinds of problems, worn upholstery, brake and engine problems ;)
@Almighty In the Netherlands there are many more bicycles than inhabitants. Almost in the same proportion as there are more guns than people in America. There are quite a few videos on youtube on this subject, "Just not bikes" is one of them.
I dont need girlfriend,
Dont need relationships
Dont want commitment
Dont want drama
Dont want to have kids of my own
I ONLLY WANT TO GET LAID.....PERIOD...NO MORE NO LESS!
Note: be aware of std and aids.
just eat the cake without the bling on top
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You're getting really good at this, Anna. I am wondering when the TV producers are going to pick up on your telegenic charisma.
Wingmam.. It was interesting and jaded at the same time. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your Thanksgiving with family and Love one's!