how I make ends meet after quitting my job at 55 (the brutal truth)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @reggisweat
    @reggisweat  День назад +8

    I’d love to know, what are YOU doing to manage bills and make ends meet outside of the corporate world? Are you exploring side hustles, creative ventures, or something else entirely? Share your comments!
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    Join my email for updates! stan.store/regedited Thank you!❤

    • @sexyellex
      @sexyellex День назад

      I haven't retired yet, but I am making a list of future hustles to add to the bottom line. Great video!

  • @lewisvogel466
    @lewisvogel466 19 часов назад +49

    I quit my job in the corporate world in 2004, moved out of my apartment, gave away my possessions, and moved into my truck. Today in Dec 2024, I still live in that same truck and couldn't be happier.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  18 часов назад +5

      Your story is incredible! It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve embraced minimalism and found happiness in your journey. Thank you for sharing! 💙

    • @ladyllf48
      @ladyllf48 18 часов назад +4

      How on earth have you lived in your truck for 20 years. 👏🏾

    • @lewisvogel466
      @lewisvogel466 18 часов назад +19

      @@ladyllf48 It's easy. I save a ton of money by not paying rent. So I always have money to do what I want. I bought a Coleman stove to cook meals with, and I use it for heating in the winter. I pay 25 dollars a month for membership at Planet Fitness which is where I take showers at night. During the winter, I camp out in Arizona where it's warm. During the summer, I camp out in Montana, Wyoming and Idaho where temps are cooler. During the 20 years I've lived in my truck, I've written seven books about my life on the road, and I've done booksignings in several states.

    • @tmo6517
      @tmo6517 9 часов назад +1

      @@lewisvogel466what in the world kind of truck?? I have 3 clunkers that never last!🤯🤯🤯

    • @lewisvogel466
      @lewisvogel466 9 часов назад +3

      @tmo6517 I drive a 1997 Toyota Tacoma that has 397,200 miles on it

  • @Here4TheHeckOfIt
    @Here4TheHeckOfIt 19 часов назад +30

    You seriously do not look 55!!!
    Congratulations on leaving. Hope you find whatever it is that makes your heart sing.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  18 часов назад +2

      Wow, thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words and support! 🩷🙏🏽

    • @dynomitenash8970
      @dynomitenash8970 10 часов назад +2

      She SERIOUSLY does not! My mouth dropped open when I found out.

  • @JaniceHylton
    @JaniceHylton 10 часов назад +8

    First time here.
    OMG, Forget about quitting your job and lets talk about how beautiful you are.
    Gorgeous, healthy skin and you look so young and fabulous for 55.
    And your hair is to LIVE for!!
    I'm planning to retire at 52, only 6 years to go for me.
    Congrats.

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 3 часа назад +1

      She looks so healthy because she's not killing herself in the corporate rat race. Stress ages you!!

  • @zingfrazier8136
    @zingfrazier8136 23 часа назад +17

    Hi Reggi! I’m in awe of you. I have been wanting to quit corporate America and do my own thing for 3 years now but was scared. My fear has always been how would I provide for my daughters. I have a plan now and will implement it over the next 4 years. The goal is to “retire” from corporate life at 55. Thank you!

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  20 часов назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so proud of you for creating a plan to make your dreams a reality. It’s never easy to step away, but having a strategy in place makes all the difference. Wishing you strength and success as you work toward retiring on your terms! 🩷

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 10 часов назад +1

      I was scared of retiring and I don't think anyone more than me was more prepared for retirement and could of retired at 55 and yet I keep falling to victim to the omy syndrome (one more year syndrome) until one day I just say screw and put in my two week notice......My hands were shaking before I hit the send key though because I knew being in tech for 20 yrs, there was no going back to a tech career....no more high salary unless I earned it through other means. But retiring at 58 was the best thing I could of done and only wish I had done it sooner. I let my fears rob me of a few additional years of happiness.

  • @pamgordon5051
    @pamgordon5051 День назад +12

    Hi Reggi! Great to hear your story and I'm glad you talk about preparing because that's extremely important. Years ago my husband told me if you're planning to leave a company and you don't want them to know right away, take personal things home a little at a time. Do it in a way that people don't notice anything different about your desk or office. Also never talk to 'anyone' about your plans to leave before you go (the wrong person may hear and your leave date may be sooner than you want). He said he had to do this when he accepted a position at another company. The same concept applies even if you're not planning to go work for someone else. The preparation I put in place helped things to transition smoothly and I never missed or regretting leaving.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  20 часов назад

      Great advice, Pam! Preparation is everything, and these are excellent tips for anyone considering leaving their job. Thank you for sharing this! 🩷

  • @rnmom65
    @rnmom65 8 часов назад +3

    Sis...you are absolutely gorgoues. Nos sure where "55" is...but you are wearing it well!!! I am at that point in my life...I am ready to quit working. Retirement funds are doing what they do. Growing-I keep running numbers. LOL. We are just building liquidity now. You can always find a job if you decide that is what you want/need to do. You are right. God has you! Continue to trust Him always!!!! Merry Christmas and Happy New year!

  • @charnellmarie
    @charnellmarie 10 часов назад +4

    I’m going to be honest I clicked on your video because you do not look 55 years old. You provided a lot of great information in this video.

  • @VistaComfy
    @VistaComfy 4 часа назад

    ✅ "It starts with a plan" - such an excellent point, thanks for sharing this!

  • @alvarobinson5238
    @alvarobinson5238 9 часов назад +2

    This was so refreshing. I am in a caregiving role also, I am working full-time and have a part-time job. I am thinking about leaving my full-time job next year. Itis avery scary thought. I really appreciate your transparency and being so relatable. Thank you for your encouragement.

  • @veraruffin3950
    @veraruffin3950 18 часов назад +10

    Hi Reggi, this is off topic. Your hair is so beautiful I wish I had that volume❤

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад +1

      Thank you so much 🤗 Trying to keep it after hormonal havoc. Lol 🩷

    • @veraruffin3950
      @veraruffin3950 4 часа назад

      @@reggisweat me as well.

  • @ymnatymnat
    @ymnatymnat 5 часов назад

    Merci 🙏🏾 i was singing Bob Marley “three Little birds” that’s the wat in feelings now your video comfort me ❤

  • @vs0063
    @vs0063 10 часов назад +3

    Caretaker here too! Work from home full time and on a weight loss journey, have lost 21 pounds, have 60 lbs to go. My goal is to consistently work out and strength train. I need to feel better physically and emotionally, it's weighing me down. Would love to do what you're doing but I rely on my job for my health insurance and income. I am thinking of having a side gig, but as you know, caretaking is a full time job, even on your days off. Staying prayerful, my trust in the Lord is keeping me grounded. I know He is with me. 🙏

    • @tmo6517
      @tmo6517 9 часов назад +1

      God bless you... in the same boat and its dufficult but worth it.❤

  • @gail235
    @gail235 3 часа назад

    You’re amazing!!!
    ❤thank you for sharing. I want to quit my 9-5. I’m working on my plan.
    Looks like it may take about 2 more years. I appreciate the quality content.

  • @faithwoods4143
    @faithwoods4143 15 часов назад +6

    Cool content! Yep, God always provides ❤ it’s been almost six years leaving corporate and I have no regrets!

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад

      Six years and no regrets? That’s incredible! Your story is so encouraging and thank you for sharing. God truly does provide! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @ceyahnaikuteh6016
    @ceyahnaikuteh6016 10 часов назад +2

    Thank you for being candid about your situation. I have this to share with all listeners: When it comes to living authentically, we cannot copycat or follow the blueprint of another life. It is okay to share experiences and utilize parts that fit us but ultimately, each person has the awesome task of finding their own path because hopes, desires, and needs differ. This requires deep introspection, honesty, and a willingness to do the work. Quieting the noises in our heads and around us, it is possible to embark on an amazing journey of self-discovery. Do the work, find your own path, and pray for the courage to begin your journey. May God bless your decision to self-actualize. Feel the fear and do it anyway; it is the only path to true, lasting happiness and joy.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад

      Wow, this is such a beautifully expressed message. I absolutely agree…finding our own path and embracing the unique journey is so important. Thank you for sharing these words of wisdom; they’re so uplifting! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @cynthiagainey2614
    @cynthiagainey2614 18 часов назад +3

    Hi Reggi, I found your channel a couple weeks ago. I’m now a subscriber! Love your content. This is so timely. There are so many of us that have worked in corporate, over extended ourselves because of the “taxes” we had to pay. In turn we got burned out/sick due to unreasonable work expectations, raising a family and becoming a caregiver to aging parents. I’m there. At 62 I was part of a reduction in work force. I saw it coming and made a plan. Yes the reduction in income is scary, but I know I’m a planner, resilient, and know how to live a decent meaningful life. For the 1st time, Im prioritizing myself while taking care of 2 sick parents. Thank you for creating a platform where we can learn together. 🙏🏾❤️

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  18 часов назад

      Hi Cynthia, welcome to the channel, and thank you for subscribing! Your story resonates so deeply as we have walked similar paths of burnout and caregiving. I have a theory about modern day burnout, maybe for another video. Although I admire your strength and resilience in making a plan and prioritizing yourself amidst it all. Together, we’ll keep learning and finding ways to create meaningful lives. Sending love and support your way! 🩷💪🏽

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 9 часов назад

      Omg you just describe my life.....trying being the only bw on teams of all wm....ugghhh. I worked in IT for twenty years in the most stressful industries like healthcare and financial services companies like Barclays, Deloitte Touché and other small brokerages.......the pay was astronomical but the stress was killing me. Once I was financially able to, I actually did a step down approach to retirement. I quit the very stressful high paying jobs and I took lower paying but lot less stressful jobs. Unfortunately those jobs keep me in corporate longer although they were less stressful.

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 9 часов назад

      I also had two sick parents at the same time in two different states. Both of my parents were in and out of the hospital. My brother was in one state taking care of my mom and I was in another state helping to take care of my father.....they actually both passed away in the same year. My father passed away at the beginning of the year and my mom passed away at the end of the year.....and I had the honor of being with both of them when they took their last breath. I was the last face both of my parents saw when they passed away and although bittersweet.......I got a chance to help them both transition. I held their hands to the end and was softly telling them it was okay to let go and that family and friends were waiting for them.

    • @cynthiagainey2614
      @cynthiagainey2614 8 часов назад

      @ what a blessing you and your brother were to both parents. You have the best gift of knowing you did everything you could for them. That means no great or wish you “should have.” Now that’s real love and peace. I will have that. Reggi you have that. And I’m sure others will or have that already.

  • @phaedreacampbell9964
    @phaedreacampbell9964 8 часов назад +1

    Stay encouraged! God is using you to empower others to step out on faith with work too. I have been committed to the FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) path for quite some time and still believe it’s the best path for me. I will be retiring in 18 months @ 48years old. The 9-5 work schedule for 40-50 years is outdated. Group economics work. That’s all the stock market is. We just have to integrate it at a micro level. That may require us to move in with a roommate, share memberships, travel in groups, shop with another family at Costco to reduce our expenses then shift that money into investments. It can be done we just have to start somewhere and think out of the box of our cultural norms

  • @TashaTaylorTV
    @TashaTaylorTV День назад +3

    New subscriber here! Happy to find someone in my age group, encouraging to me to start posting again.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  21 час назад

      You can do it! And thank you for subbing! 🩷

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance 6 часов назад

    Thank you for being so transparent- I"m feeling like I should make one similar to share with my viewers.

  • @SusieBarros
    @SusieBarros 5 часов назад +1

    May God bless you keep going

  • @monilark
    @monilark Час назад

    Wishing you tremendous success! 🎉

  • @outinarizona
    @outinarizona 9 часов назад +1

    6 months apart...that's rough. we've prepped savings and calculated what we needed each year for all critical items. I'm working out part-time and contract jobs to keep emergency $ up.

  • @notyet2345
    @notyet2345 10 часов назад +3

    Speaking of acting, when my mother retired, she started acting commercials for senior citizens products....she even got herself an agent. I think she was in her late 60's when she got her first paid acting gig. She would act in mainly in local commercials. It's a cool side gig for seniors😁

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад +1

      That is such an inspiring story about your mom! My mom was actually doing the same until the stroke happened. What a great example of exploring new opportunities. Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏽❤️

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 8 часов назад +1

      @@reggisweat my mom had a stroke too but she was declared brain dead. She never recovered from it and we decided as a family to take her off life support. But my mom was able to retire at 55 after being a HS teacher for 30 yrs. She got a chance to really enjoy retirement. She traveled. She joined a senior citizens dance troupe that danced all over her city and performed at special events, acted in commercials.....she got chance to enjoy life for twenty years before passing away. I still miss her even though it has been 15 yrs.

  • @angelariddle3181
    @angelariddle3181 8 часов назад

    Thanks for sharing your journey with us ❤

  • @laurieanderson9290
    @laurieanderson9290 19 часов назад +2

    Love your videos!

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  18 часов назад

      Awe…I am so glad you like them! I try 🥹☺️🩷

  • @EmpressWanderlust
    @EmpressWanderlust 20 часов назад +1

    This is a wonderful insightful and inspiring video. Everything is always working out.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  18 часов назад

      Thank you for the support! God-willing things do work out. 🙏🏽🩷

  • @anisafrombreuklen406
    @anisafrombreuklen406 15 часов назад +3

    I am educating myself on investing. I live below my means which really helps.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад +1

      That’s such a smart approach! Living below your means and investing is truly empowering. Keep it up! 💪🏽✨

  • @PowerfulMoneyHabits
    @PowerfulMoneyHabits 12 часов назад +4

    I'm 51- I will have enough moola for FIRE in 2029! I can't wait! All dividends, peer to peer lending, syndicated real estate, and dividends! All pay me monthly or quarterly! Congrats on retiring from the main gig!

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад

      Thats fantastic! Congrats on your smart pathway! I love it! 💙

  • @icedchai1
    @icedchai1 21 час назад +2

    Hi
    I’m a caregiver for my dad and I get paid through in-home (IHSS) supportive services out here in California. I’m sure there are programs similar to this in your state. I also work full time and still qualify to take care of him. All my best to you and all you do for your parents.
    Gracie

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  20 часов назад +1

      Hi Gracie, thank you for sharing your experience and for all the work you do to care for your dad. Unfortunately, my state doesn’t have the same services, but I continue to meet with a social worker to stay updated on any new resources or changes. Wishing you all the best as you balance caregiving and full-time work! 🩷

    • @tmo6517
      @tmo6517 9 часов назад

      @@reggisweatYes, sadly all states werent created equal but hopefully change will come.😔

  • @NChe-nl5ok
    @NChe-nl5ok 14 часов назад +1

    Love this. Can you please share hair & skincare products please. Your hair & skin look amazing 🤩. Thanks

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад +1

      Thank you so much! I’d love to share my hair and skincare routine-stay tuned for a video or live on that soon! ☺️

  • @jackiepeavy5505
    @jackiepeavy5505 13 часов назад +2

    Hi Reggie,
    It would be nice to know how you take care mentally... like what do you do to reenergize after a taxing time?

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад

      Great question, Jackie! I’ll definitely share how I recharge mentally after tough times in an upcoming video. Self-care is what the channel is about. Thank you for bringing this up! 🩷

  • @missymiss2357
    @missymiss2357 8 часов назад +12

    I saw the wedding band and immediately realized there was more to this and that this was not a single person struggling on their own.

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 7 часов назад +5

      Im a single, childfree woman with a cat and dog far from struggling. Being single doesn't mean someone is struggling financially

    • @Sparkle-ey7iw
      @Sparkle-ey7iw 5 часов назад +8

      @@notyet2345she’s saying that this woman does have help which makes it easier to quit your job

    • @ohanaohana8844
      @ohanaohana8844 Час назад +2

      And she has real estate.

  • @MsBennin
    @MsBennin 9 часов назад +1

    I am a full time Mammography Tech and I use to travel for work as a Travel Mammography and LOVED it. I was making great money weekly, the same I make bi weekly now. My current job have a pension, free medical once I retire, I'm 47 years young now. Should I stay at my full time job that I really do not like but tolerate(it's not bad nor good lol) or go back traveling? I can pay off my car and house with Travel Mammography within 6 years and I love the freedom that comes with traveling. I can also contribute to a 401(K) and Roth IRA while traveling. It would just be nice to have that pension but I'll have to work 16 years to retire! Any advice? Love your content by the way!

    • @alexusjames6768
      @alexusjames6768 5 часов назад +1

      Hi,
      I’m actually considering going back to school to do RT, MRI or CT because of the flexibility of travel. I recruit healthcare professionals and I’ve seen the money you guys get from travel. You can absolutely make in a week what some make biweekly. If you are able to save and put towards retirement regularly, you should be able to retire easily. You shouldn’t have to stay at this pension job with the current contract rates. Plus traveling gives you so much freedom and career flexibility. You can take time off as needed. Especially because you have a lot of years exp.

    • @MsBennin
      @MsBennin 5 часов назад

      @@alexusjames6768 I know I traveled for one year but I feel stuck. I feel like I will regret not having a pension but I love and miss traveling.

  • @shareeminor9125
    @shareeminor9125 22 часа назад +7

    My 4 year plan goes into overdrive 1.2025. First retirement in 2029: 56 years old

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  20 часов назад

      I love it Sharee! You deserve the best life has to offer! 🩷✨

    • @yvonnemccraney1501
      @yvonnemccraney1501 9 часов назад +1

      I would love to retire at 56. I'm 53 now but because I'm just learning about investing and Roth IRA and how to invest in real-estate, things I wish I had of been taught in my twenties and thirties. So I wouldn't have to work so hard in my 50s

    • @rubylimey7614
      @rubylimey7614 6 часов назад

      I understand, but you got this!🙏

  • @michellejackson2099
    @michellejackson2099 4 часа назад

    You are 55?! You look at least 10 years younger. Incredible!

  • @tmo6517
    @tmo6517 9 часов назад

    Im real sorry. I know how it is when your loved ones become ill. It’s sad that we live in a country that doesnt support caregivers especially when we choose to honor and take care of our parents/elders. It is not an easy task and the lack of support takes a toll on caregivers. God will see us through though. He is well pleased with your sacrifice.❤❤❤❤

  • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
    @mstwelvedeadlycyns День назад +4

    My Shero!🎉❤🤑👏👏👏👏🧠🧠🧠👍

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  День назад

      Aww…you make me blush! ☺️ thank you my friend! 🙏🏽🩷

  • @michelletravick175
    @michelletravick175 День назад +1

    Go live Reggi!

  • @YACKYSNACKY
    @YACKYSNACKY 22 часа назад +3

    God's many blessings to you. You're so pretty. Love your Afro.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  20 часов назад

      Aww…you make me blush. ☺️ thank you for the compliment! 🥰❤️

  • @turnovertheleaf5505
    @turnovertheleaf5505 3 часа назад

    *compensation. You can compensation from the va. Unless you are physically unable to work (disabled aka disability). Ppl calling it wrong makes you look like a system milker.

  • @anisafrombreuklen406
    @anisafrombreuklen406 15 часов назад +1

    Hey 👋🏻 Reggi, have you considered foung lives? There is no editing or virtually none.

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  8 часов назад +1

      Hey there! I’ve thought about going live and very soon. I’ve done a few in the past. It’s such a great way to connect. Thanks for the suggestion, my friend. ☺️🙏🏽

  • @jackiebennett3762
    @jackiebennett3762 День назад

    What is the name of your book?

    • @reggisweat
      @reggisweat  День назад +3

      Actually, I may adjust it but right now this is a Guide titled: THE FASTING LIFESTYLE WEIGHT LOSS GUIDE - THE MOTIVATED MATURE WOMAN. One of my first and I am a newbie at this. 🥹🙏🏽

    • @lewisvogel466
      @lewisvogel466 19 часов назад

      ​I've written and published seven books over the last five years. My most recent book "Horizons At Twilight - A Journey of Dreams Fulfilled," is about how I walked away from my job in the corporate world, and, later, lived out my dreams.​@@reggisweat

  • @yourfave31
    @yourfave31 5 минут назад

    No freaking way you’re 55. Pleaseeeee drop your skin care routine🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I’m 23 and I already look 60😭

  • @turnovertheleaf5505
    @turnovertheleaf5505 3 часа назад

    That hair makes you look younger than you are! Keep it forever! Its like a facelift.

  • @samlewis6615
    @samlewis6615 8 часов назад +1

    Ain't no way you're 55!!!! Whaattttt.....i would have guessed you're in your 30s

  • @phaedreacampbell9964
    @phaedreacampbell9964 8 часов назад +1

    Stay encouraged! God is using you to empower others to step out on faith with work too. I have been committed to the FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) path for quite some time and still believe it’s the best path for me. I will be retiring in 18 months @ 48years old. The 9-5 work schedule for 40-50 years is outdated. Group economics work. That’s all the stock market is. We just have to integrate it at a micro level. That may require us to move in with a roommate, share memberships, travel in groups, shop with another family at Costco to reduce our expenses then shift that money into investments. It can be done we just have to start somewhere and think out of the box of our cultural norms