A lot of this is me, but my bitterness didn't turn me into a person who tries to bring others down. It turned me into an heartless person, who only worries about themselves.
Its good that you didnt turn to to others that is what allot of people do. They try to bring others down. Its good thing to put yourself first. I think you have integrity and seem a good soul . Maybe just protecting your heart. its not a bad thing. Take care .
I was a sweet open hearted girl but i was hurt over and over by bitter people. Now i am becoming angry and bitter. I can see whats happened and i hope to stop it .. thank you for this .
Maggie wood , I went through the same thing . I realized that the end result would be, that they treated me with the same, love and respect. it would be good if it were that way ,but it isn't. now I stand strong ,living my own life. if my family wants to be part of me ,that's good, if not see ya. I am not changing my life or standards for anyone. being true to myself and not fitting into a mold that somebody else created.
"Do you know anyone that may be bitter?" Me . Every single word you spoke resounded in my heart and mind. Thank you so much for bringing this insight in your kind gentle way. You are indeed moved by The Spirit to deliver this message
Read Nietzsche if you are smart enough to do that, christianity was created from bitterness and resentiment, getting rid of them implies getting rid of christianity too.
I'm bitter. But don't have many of these characteristics. I'm bitter towards people who I thought were close to me but turned out to be shit talking back stabbers. Maybe I'm a grudge holder not bitter. But aren't they almost same thing ?
Yes, it's truly sad that they project their insecurities on other people. No matter how nice you are to these people, they will always be bitter toward those who seem happy.
Sounds like you’re describing narcissistic psychopaths. I recently realized that this is what I had been dealing with all of my life with my siblings and parents. I distance myself from them now. Things are much better.
Can anyone help me? I've been learning that most emotions serve a purpose. What purpose does bitterness serve? All I can find is info on "How to get rid of bitterness". But why is it there in the first place?
I don’t believe there is a definitive reason for the existence of bitterness. Bitterness is a destructive emotion that doesn’t serve any healthy purpose. Identifying the root cause of your bitterness is the first step to dealing with this emotion.
Godamn all bitter people are week minded who can't accept that bad things happens in life, every single one of us has the potential to become bitter but we got to be strong and resist the urge,always try to be the best person you can be.
Some of us suffer way more than our fair share of hurt and betrayal, as if wev'e been cursed and nothing in our lives can go right. People like us have every right to be bitter.
1)Get stronger physically and psychologically. 2)Adopt some form of Master Morality (The neopaganism of your ethnicity, individualism, aristocratic radicalism, some forms of traditional satanism, Marinetti's futurism, etc.) 3) Reject slave morality (Christianity, judaism, buddhism, islam, socialism, communism, postmodernism, egalitarianism etc.)
What does the church do with someone who is bitter and hurting. Absolutely nothing. They are more concerned with the person who has done the wrong & the hurting person is left alone.
Read Nietzsche if you are smart enough to do that, christianity was created from bitterness and resentiment, if it is fixed christianity destroys itself. Pretty much all the monotheistic religions that eliminated european and asian native pagan cults like christianity, judaism, islam, buddhism etc. are a product of the resentment of the weak against the strong and powerful. The same is true of some political and philosophical positions, like socialism, communism, egalitarianism, postmodernism etc.
I once knew a bunch of 7th day adventist. They were the most judgmental people that I ever met. One woman spread rumour about me, saying that I was a drug addict (not true), and she turned her mentally handicapped son out onto the streets so she could move her boyfriend into her home. Hypocrite!
My husband do that all the time! I trying to help him but he doesn’t want any help, always changing his subjects and do not want to talk about it and putting me down always! He doesn’t accept any help ☹️😢😟😢😕😭.
What would the next step be when you meet people who are never satisfied or content? They are not a homeless person. Still, they are not thankful. They choose or they chose to spread false gossip, ruin relationships, steal from you, & etc. Do we just allow them to act as a criminal? Do we just allow them to get away with thier criminal ways? The reason for their wrong doing is bitterness. Bitterness they didn't control? Bitterness & anger they couldn't keep to themselves or release in a healthy non-harmful way? No. Forgiveness has nothing to do with following through on right & wrong. Ex: A person who was intentionally hurt & was innocent can heal fully, report criminals, have those criminals locked up, & not "need" an apology from a person or group of people who caused direct harm to thier life. Maturity makes a difference. -alz♡◇☆#Galatians 5:22-23#
My husband sent this video to me, implying that I was bitter. What is it I'm bitter about exactly?! Then what does it make u when u talk to ur wife like she was ur child, and call her names, body shame her then aspect her to show affection. Then turn around and say u don't show affection or love them. How can they when u have said they were worthless to u. What do u call that characteristics in a spouse? I'm not bitter, I'm wounded, & my guard is way up. 🙄
Kandace Paige Keem he’s abusive and majorly gaslighting you to try to deflect the blame away from himself. I hope if nothing has changed you have ended the relationship:(
standing on the outside like your looking at people in a zoo . no-one can unlock someonesbitterness but them and God . so instead of judging like you have never been in this place.
I grew up shy and introverted, bullies and manipulators took full advantage; this embittered me and at age 50 I'm still not fully over it
I know how you feel, had the same thing happened to me, growing up
A lot of this is me, but my bitterness didn't turn me into a person who tries to bring others down. It turned me into an heartless person, who only worries about themselves.
Its good that you didnt turn to to others that is what allot of people do. They try to bring others down. Its good thing to put yourself first. I think you have integrity and seem a good soul . Maybe just protecting your heart. its not a bad thing. Take care .
Help Me
The Anonymous Black Kid yup
You will never be happy this way.
It turned you into a person with awful grammar.
I was a sweet open hearted girl but i was hurt over and over by bitter people. Now i am becoming angry and bitter. I can see whats happened and i hope to stop it .. thank you for this .
Maggie wood , I went through the same thing . I realized that the end result would be, that they
treated me with the same, love and respect. it would be good if it were that way ,but it isn't. now
I stand strong ,living my own life. if my family wants to be part of me ,that's good, if not see ya.
I am not changing my life or standards for anyone. being true to myself and not fitting into a
mold that somebody else created.
@@susandaye8146 How did you overcome bitterness?
"Do you know anyone that may be bitter?"
Me .
Every single word you spoke resounded in my heart and mind. Thank you so much for bringing this insight in your kind gentle way. You are indeed moved by The Spirit to deliver this message
Some bitter ppl are comforted by the misfortunes and hurts of others.
May the Lord HEAL me from bitterness,i have all these ten characteristics in me but I desire to live a normal life like others do
Read Nietzsche if you are smart enough to do that, christianity was created from bitterness and resentiment, getting rid of them implies getting rid of christianity too.
This is a Great Message....Thank you Jim Velez !
Bitterness is closely related to pride.
I am this person.
MegaMissMarta .... Me too
Many are. Life can hurt people so bad that theres hardly anything but anger and bitterness left. I wish I knew the answer.
@@someonesomeone25 Only gets worse year on year.
I'm bitter. But don't have many of these characteristics. I'm bitter towards people who I thought were close to me but turned out to be shit talking back stabbers. Maybe I'm a grudge holder not bitter. But aren't they almost same thing ?
Pretty much resentment.
Good stuff.
Yes this topic applies to a few personal close friends in my life and it's sad that this is just how they act as if this video has it on point
Yes, it's truly sad that they project their insecurities on other people. No matter how nice you are to these people, they will always be bitter toward those who seem happy.
This describes me, locked up in the past.
And how can I not be, when they've destroyed every chance of my future?
By the fourth point you had me reeling in disgust but it was in disgust of myself
Sounds like you’re describing narcissistic psychopaths. I recently realized that this is what I had been dealing with all of my life with my siblings and parents. I distance myself from them now. Things are much better.
I get it!
This sounds like my wife....no matter how much I change to become a better husband she acts angry and bitter and it hurts so much.
How is your marriage
But why?
Great video
Can anyone help me?
I've been learning that most emotions serve a purpose. What purpose does bitterness serve?
All I can find is info on "How to get rid of bitterness". But why is it there in the first place?
I don’t believe there is a definitive reason for the existence of bitterness. Bitterness is a destructive emotion that doesn’t serve any healthy purpose.
Identifying the root cause of your bitterness is the first step to dealing with this emotion.
Why does this guy act as if people are rushing to help bitter people?
Godamn all bitter people are week minded who can't accept that bad things happens in life,
every single one of us has the potential to become bitter but we got to be strong and resist the urge,always try to be the best person you can be.
Some of us suffer way more than our fair share of hurt and betrayal, as if wev'e been cursed and nothing in our lives can go right. People like us have every right to be bitter.
wheres the solution? How do u get free?
theroadtoforgiveness.com it was at the end of the video
1)Get stronger physically and psychologically.
2)Adopt some form of Master Morality (The neopaganism of your ethnicity, individualism, aristocratic radicalism, some forms of traditional satanism, Marinetti's futurism, etc.)
3) Reject slave morality (Christianity, judaism, buddhism, islam, socialism, communism, postmodernism, egalitarianism etc.)
I am a bitter person 😔😔
I am fed up with myself
Nothing helps
Everyday is suffering
Just don't want to live
But afraid to hurt myself
Why do you feel that way?
Thanks
Pray for my family in hopes they all heal 🙏🙏
What does the church do with someone who is bitter and hurting. Absolutely nothing. They are more concerned with the person who has done the wrong & the hurting person is left alone.
This is literally it. I went to church for years. They left me homeless.
Read Nietzsche if you are smart enough to do that, christianity was created from bitterness and resentiment, if it is fixed christianity destroys itself. Pretty much all the monotheistic religions that eliminated european and asian native pagan cults like christianity, judaism, islam, buddhism etc. are a product of the resentment of the weak against the strong and powerful. The same is true of some political and philosophical positions, like socialism, communism, egalitarianism, postmodernism etc.
I once knew a bunch of 7th day adventist. They were the most judgmental people that I ever met. One woman spread rumour about me, saying that I was a drug addict (not true), and she turned her mentally handicapped son out onto the streets so she could move her boyfriend into her home. Hypocrite!
sounds so familiar.....so sad.
It's a tragedy.
Yup. Me. Every characteristic is me. I was a happy girl.
I guess I should be grateful and thankful to God. I can't think of anything else.
My husband do that all the time! I trying to help him but he doesn’t want any help, always changing his subjects and do not want to talk about it and putting me down always! He doesn’t accept any help ☹️😢😟😢😕😭.
Stop trying to help!
YUP. WEAK. MAD. NEEDY. AND WANT TO BRING OTHER PPL DOWN. INSTEAD OF BUILDING YOURSELF UP. U TEAR OTHER PPL DOWN.
What would the next step be when you meet people who are never satisfied or content? They are not a homeless person. Still, they are not thankful. They choose or they chose to spread false gossip, ruin relationships, steal from you, & etc. Do we just allow them to act as a criminal? Do we just allow them to get away with thier criminal ways? The reason for their wrong doing is bitterness. Bitterness they didn't control? Bitterness & anger they couldn't keep to themselves or release in a healthy non-harmful way? No. Forgiveness has nothing to do with following through on right & wrong. Ex: A person who was intentionally hurt & was innocent can heal fully, report criminals, have those criminals locked up, & not "need" an apology from a person or group of people who caused direct harm to thier life. Maturity makes a difference. -alz♡◇☆#Galatians 5:22-23#
Been bitter for the last 2 days i will accept.
how about scapgoating victumes,do they have a chase in your mind??it,s in the holy bible,isnt it?
My husband sent this video to me, implying that I was bitter. What is it I'm bitter about exactly?! Then what does it make u when u talk to ur wife like she was ur child, and call her names, body shame her then aspect her to show affection. Then turn around and say u don't show affection or love them. How can they when u have said they were worthless to u. What do u call that characteristics in a spouse? I'm not bitter, I'm wounded, & my guard is way up. 🙄
Kandace Paige Keem he’s abusive and majorly gaslighting you to try to deflect the blame away from himself. I hope if nothing has changed you have ended the relationship:(
Sounds like your husband has narcissistic aspects to his personality, or perhaps he has borderline personality disorder.
That's pretty passive aggressive. If he was mature, he'd discuss it in a loving, direct manner.
Sounds like you need a good divorce lawyer so you can take him for everything he's got. Serve him right!
Me right now. Hell bent
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standing on the outside like your looking at people in a zoo . no-one can unlock someonesbitterness but them and God . so instead of judging like you have never been in this place.
He's very matter of fact, but maybe we should not make excuses.
This used to be me.
How did you overcome Bitterness?
@@TaxingIsThievingBy forgiving.
@@TaxingIsThievingand being forgiven
Helppppppppppppppppppp! plz.......
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Why so many people dragging 'God' into comments and topics.. So Lame.. God Has Nothing to do With Any Human Shit or Anything.. AntiReligious....
He has everything to do with this.
Wtf i thought this was some bullshit until he hits me with the first characteristic of a bitter person and im like bruh....
LZ
I don't bear witness to all this. Seems to turn the victim into the bad guy. ODD
What a supid display of helping a bitter person. He is not helping but trying to embarrass a bitter person. Good will judge this guy.
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Great video