Commented the same thing but instead of rose-colored glasses I think it's more color-blindedness. The red flags actually become green/positive (more men should go to prison).
Don't let it get to you. If your parent(s) are cool with it, it REALLY can be the financially smart thing to do for periods of time. Especially with purchasing homes/rent being what it is. And if you're coming from a low income background, you can't afford to not make smart decisions based on "optics". Pay rent. Don't become accustomed to the illusion that it's free. Better them than a stranger/landlord. Just accept it can be a turn off so don't date if your self esteem can't take the knocking and understand that even if your reasons are good, nobody really cares. Just work hard, be smart, and you'll have your freedom eventually. And make sure to say thanks to your folks when you move.
@@AnthonyTett1997 true. I wrote it because I''ve suffered from stupid choices I made from being afraid of/bothered by outside judgment my whole life. I wanted to appear better off then I was. And that's what I regret. Obviously the line is the setup. The video is a comedy video. But I always speak up on self-esteem because kinda hope I can help other dudes avoid my mistake. Get established with a skill set or a degree. Because an employer who knows you need your job will happily run you through the ringer with no fear of recourse. And you'll be out in the world, exhausted, with bills and few ways out. It's brutal out there.
If my best friend had listened to me about red flags she wouldn’t have a child with an unemployed drug addict right now. I swear people are fucking blind when they’re in love
@@adrianpolinski9600 that’s true. We need to stop equating these illusions that we willingly make about people and making stupid decisions with love. If it’s not rooted in self love, it’s not love
Listen. Kurt Cobain (R.I.P.) was probably at times an unemployed drug addict. He's definitely the second coming. All jokes aside proverbs 14:1 "the wise woman builds her house with her own hands. The foolish on tears hers down (with her own hands)." This is not a new phenomenon, it is however, new that we have a toxic culture bent on corroding values and producing unwise people.
I have seen soooooo many men do this too. Ignore red flags, want to see the best. High on the infatuation. Moving in too soon, being a simp, getting ghosted, lying to oneself. It happens to everyone.
Reminds me of talks I would have with my friends about several of my ex-girlfriends. "Oh, this'll be the last major argument." "Oh, she's just having a tough week." "Oh, she was reminded of her parents." "Oh, she didn't hit me that hard." Oof. Hard to see it until you're out.
A person can love you while also treating you with less consideration and respect than they should. Nobody is born knowing this and learning can be brutal. Glad you're out and grew as a consequence; that's a big deal.
HAH! I thought that’s what that was 🤣 don’t worry though at first I thought that her crying was a red flag but it’s actually just a sign of how happy she really is!
@@nicholaswoods4055 I’ve literally witnessed a man (close friend tolerate straight up emotional abuse from the hottest girl he dated). Luckily he attended therapy and worked on his issues.
Real talk though, there's a stigma against dudes who live with their parent(s). But on the flip side, for women who live with their mom and or dad, no one bats an eye at the thought. I live in NYC, where most of my friends (both male and female) still live at home. Someone living with their folks isn't necessarily a red flag, it can be, when other relevant variables are applicable, but it doesn't inherently indicate any trouble. However, everything they mentioned in the video after that, were pretty huge, blood soaked red flags.
I think that's what made the skit pretty good. The first two "red flags" weren't real red flags. Living in your parent's house isn't a big deal (especially in this economy), nor is being friends with your ex. It is financially responsible and it does show maturity if you broke up on good terms. Then...holy shit. It really went from there.
Id almost agree with this comment. Someone you’re dating being friends with their ex isn’t a red flag. Someone you’re dating being BFF’s who do everything together is a red flag for sure. Best of luck
Women are supposed to live at home if they are unmarried because it’s dangerous to live by yourself or without a man no matter how safe the neighborhood is. Some girls go to college and get used to dorming and want to live on their own and be “independent” but that’s not the safest way to be and pretty financially irresponsible. Men it is different because it’s safe for them to live with room mates or by themselves but if he needs to stack up living at home is fine just don’t date cuz it looks like you have no money to spend on a girl
@@ThingsILikke why would you need "money to spend on a girl" you're not buying a hooker you're dating. It definitely should be as acceptable as it is for a girl. I say for either person though it becomes a red flag after a certain age. Like if you're in your 30s(man or woman)and still live with your parents that tells me your job is not enough to sustain you and that's a problem. You're also very likely spoiled because you haven't really experienced how it is to live on your own
Men living at home witj oarents emasculates them. In your parenta eyes you never get beyond about 16, as you are always their child even when an adult with your own children. Better to live in a shared house than with your parents in your 20s, as a man, as otherwise you are emasculated. It is natures way.
My absolute favorite example: Good friend, very smart woman, told me a story about how she came home after a weekend away to find her boyfriend had sold all her furniture to buy drugs. My God, the horror! But the best part is what she said next…”and he did it AGAIN a few month later!” You can’t make this stuff up :-) Keep up the good work :-)
I truly do hate myself... I'm so irresponsible with myself. I don't trust myself... because sometimes I be manipulating myself into giving people benefit of a doubt or into making excuses for other people's actions. Twist and Turn other people's narrative in to reasoning with myself why I should not ignore and give chances whatever... I just don't even want to get to meet new people anymore because I'll be the worst person to myself while trying to be the best human, push over and "what would understanding Jesus do" to them... I'm really trying to unfuck myself.
It's men too bro. I ignored the signs of abusive, fucked up relationships. I was blinded by the sex. Now I have a child with her and ended up homeless, foreclosed my home, broke, court battles, and for two years I was unable to see my daughter.
Tell me why this is actually kind of how us women can think. We only want to see the best in others. Some of us even lower our standards to accommodate to our partner that we love unconditionally. Word of advice: don’t love someone unconditionally,until you’re married and there’s a ring on your finger. (Aka a very hard to get out of commitment known as marriage)And never lower your standards for anyone!!!
@@D00MSLAYER yes. Of course you can love someone. But unconditionally? No matter what they do? Don’t express that kind of love until you’re married. Because marriage is a huge commitment. I expressed that with my ex boyfriend and I stood by him through things women would leave him for. And when I’d express emotional distress or insecurities (which were results of his past actions) he didn’t want to work on the relationship the way I did. It was very one sided. But if you’re married to someone,you both know divorce is messy,and expensive and would do more harm than good. So you’re forced to work on the relationship,you can’t just drop someone. And you both have to learn what unconditional love is. One of two things will happen: either you’ll both hate each others guts and just act single and eventually deal with a messy divorce, or you’ll genuinely work on things and re-learn how to love each other.
First one: Oh yeah he lives with his dad. Me: Yeah that's okay, not everyone is in a position to have their own place Second one: He hangs out with his ex-girlfriend Me: he does what??
@@greenyxd7298 not a drama fest, but you shouldn't hang out with your ex constantly. My most recent ex and I don't hate eachother. But we aren't best friends and if you are, should you maybe question whether you should've broke up with them in the first place.
@@johndavis8746 You can also break up when your life goals don't align. Then you could still be best friends with your ex. It's just that the relationship wouldn't lead anywhere for both parties if they stayed together.
I think it honestly depends on the situation. If the reason why the broke up seems like a good, mature reason (life goals didn’t match up, were best friends before and realized they aren’t good for each other in a relationship) , then it’s probably fine. But if the break up reasons were sketch and ESPECIALLY if they’re spending more time with each other than their current partner then I call 🚩 on that one.
At first I was worried because I started dating this girl who told me she wasn't into Nikki Howard videos but then I realized it was actually a huge red flag and got out of there real quick, so no worries anymore
0:22 I just don't understand the cultural norm of the west and how they look at this matter. I'm 29 y.o. and live in my parents' house. Is it because I'm a failure? No, it's because I'm responsible. I'm responsible for my parents. They grew old and need someone to take care of them and keep their company. They still can carry themselves around normally. But for me it's the most irresponsible move to do that my parents made great sacrifices to raise me. And after all of that you're expecting me just to leave them when they're old and not return part of the favour? And no I'm not daddy's spoiled son. I have a very decent job and support my parents financially in addition to taking care of their daily needs
@Steven The problem is people act with violence in situations that doesn´t need to be violent. You should always protect yourself and people you love but it isnt always solved with fists or guns.
@Steven the specific situation mentioned in the video is someone cutting him off at Starbucks. No one is saying you should ignore it or accept disrespect. But if the only way someone knows how to resolve an issue as basic as cutting him off is with violence, then that person has nothing to be proud of.
I honestly know a lady who left a guy that loves her more than his life simply because she felt he isn't man enough. In her words, she said, He is too soft. He doesn't get angry like men do. They were already married and would have had a baby if not for a miscarriage.
Lol, those first two red flags (living with parents, friends with ex) applied to me and my spouse respectively. When we met, I was living at home with my folks since I'd just moved back to our city, and she was living with her ex, with whom she's still great friends. He even ended up being the one to officiate our wedding. Yet, we're still perfectly happy together. Glad those red flags were totally not an issue for either of us. Hmmmmm, but now I'm thinking about getting a face tattoo while serving a 10 year prison sentence for stabbing someone while ghosting my wife. So maybe there was something to those red flags after all. lol :D Great video!
Well today's day and age, if two people meet, and they both have their own place, unless one of them is renting, or both are renting, it is very difficult for one of them to give up their life and move in with another.
Few weeks ago I listened to Wicked Games and a line really stood out. "I want to fall in love with you". We so just want to fall in love, and that little nugget supercedes everything. Interesting psychology
How is living at home to save money so you can afford to buy a place a red flag? I did this from when I graduated uni till when I was 26 and saved 300k and then bought a condo. Most people I know are still renting and don't have any savings right now.
Free advice: Don't worry about his red flags. Those are clearly visible to you and you'll find ways to deal with them as he works on them. Instead worry about your own red flags. Because people are usually blind to them and it's THOSE that will ruin every relationship you're in. Relationships are not about what you can get from the other person. They are about what you can offer them. And fixing your own red flags is much more important in terms of your own relationship happiness than screening dates for theirs.
My ex dated abusive men for over twenty years: ex-cons, rogues, thugs. She had kids by one of them and has spent years hiding from him because he raped and tried to kill her. She has been abused and threatened by multiple lovers. She broke up with me for attempting to hold her accountable for those poor decisions. Butterflies are real.
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See, this proves that all those women, in my past, had no right to be suspiciously angry; when I told them “it’s all in your head, you’re just being cr…!”
I imagine this is the internal monologue of women when a really attractive guy is interested in them. The flags are all waving to get their attention but the women suddenly become color blind and think they are all green.
Can’t tell if that first one started off as a potential red flag but was the only real non-red flag to get the ball rolling of “understanding” the other real red flags or if they really meant it to be a real red flag
Omg it's like, my ex bf used to ghost me, for WEEKS and then i would be like "okay time to break up with him" then he comes and says "sorry bae i was just real busy" and i'd be like *AWWHEE NVM* 🤦♀️🤦♀️
LOL - he's living at his Da's house..... bc the cost of the divorce and the subsequent payments (which he actually pays) is breaking him financially - which may make you a 'red flag'...
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"more guys should go to prison" she said it with such confidence and chill I almost missed it lol
Best line of the video.
Well it’s not that untrue
@@tjenglish7036 It’s really not that untrue though lol
we are livin in the prison 9 to 5 most of the time
@@tjenglish7036 I really hope you're joking lol
"When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags"
Bojaaaaaack
My girlfriend in my 20s was an entire red flag factory but my rose colored glasses just saw lots of funny wavy things.
Commented the same thing but instead of rose-colored glasses I think it's more color-blindedness. The red flags actually become green/positive (more men should go to prison).
ok the creativity in this comment is just amazing
@@tjslam26 Your color blind analogy is better. My 30+ year old internally developed enchroma glasses would have seen the red flags and ran for cover.
We really do be this stupid.
@Steven it really do
@@OneRichMofo really. It do
It do. Really.
Don't worry, we know.
Who tought you how to spoke?? LoL
"Right now, he's living at his dad's house."
Is this a personal attack?
Don't let it get to you. If your parent(s) are cool with it, it REALLY can be the financially smart thing to do for periods of time. Especially with purchasing homes/rent being what it is. And if you're coming from a low income background, you can't afford to not make smart decisions based on "optics".
Pay rent. Don't become accustomed to the illusion that it's free. Better them than a stranger/landlord.
Just accept it can be a turn off so don't date if your self esteem can't take the knocking and understand that even if your reasons are good, nobody really cares.
Just work hard, be smart, and you'll have your freedom eventually. And make sure to say thanks to your folks when you move.
@@connorhall478 this. All of this.
@@connorhall478 Absolutely. You have your own reasons that work for you. There’s a fine line between ‘spotting red-flags’ & just being judgmental.
@@AnthonyTett1997 true. I wrote it because I''ve suffered from stupid choices I made from being afraid of/bothered by outside judgment my whole life. I wanted to appear better off then I was. And that's what I regret. Obviously the line is the setup. The video is a comedy video. But I always speak up on self-esteem because kinda hope I can help other dudes avoid my mistake. Get established with a skill set or a degree. Because an employer who knows you need your job will happily run you through the ringer with no fear of recourse. And you'll be out in the world, exhausted, with bills and few ways out. It's brutal out there.
@@connorhall478 I hope things are going your way now.
If my best friend had listened to me about red flags she wouldn’t have a child with an unemployed drug addict right now. I swear people are fucking blind when they’re in love
It might not even be love, just infatuation mixed with emotional immaturity/irresponsibility
@@adrianpolinski9600 that’s true. We need to stop equating these illusions that we willingly make about people and making stupid decisions with love. If it’s not rooted in self love, it’s not love
It was lust not love
Or maybe your friend is just stupid
Listen. Kurt Cobain (R.I.P.) was probably at times an unemployed drug addict. He's definitely the second coming. All jokes aside proverbs 14:1 "the wise woman builds her house with her own hands. The foolish on tears hers down (with her own hands)." This is not a new phenomenon, it is however, new that we have a toxic culture bent on corroding values and producing unwise people.
That feeling of elation you get when you fall in love with someone is really common sense leaving your body.
Perfectly Stated.
@@jdc1957 😂 Why thank you!
Similar to a sign at the gym, "pain is just weakness leaving your body"
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah but once you get burned a couple times, you learn to never let that elation cloud your judgement ever again…
The most optimistic people I've ever seen.
Or the most delusional 😂
*mislead
Three fingers is just the right number
Optimism is a red flag
I was feeling so bad about my breakup but this totally cheered me up. Gonna go take a walk and buy a chocolate croissant now!
And ice-cream waffles
Hope ur doing ok
Mmm waffles
Go do that sis ❤️
Just meet a new guy at the store while you’re there.
“Going to prison is not a red flag. That is taking responsibility for your actions” lmfao
- Trump voters
It’s not unemployment, it’s free-spiritedness
It’s not irresponsibility, it’s just independent thinking
It’s not delivery, it’s Digiorno
She'll only realise how toxic he is when he buys her flowers, tells her the truth, and remembers her birthday.
What do you mean by that?
Lol...oh my. How sad right...
Ugh. So toxic. 🙄 men being romantic and kind? Pshh please.. if he isn’t mooching, ghosting and gaslighting, clearly he’s not the right one.
@@monikap8777 sarcasm
@@monikap8777 I think what he meant is if a guy is emotionally available she views it as abnormal behavior and therefore "run* lol!😅😅😅😅
" MORE GUYS SHOULD GO TO PRISON " !!!!😂😂😂😂
so naive girls can take over the world thats right
More girls should too, for gender equality's sake.
@@patrickm.4754 Well, most women don't commit crimes...
@@nouageerrant6452 can I get that in writing
@@warthief3401 You can check the records of every country in the world...
I have seen soooooo many men do this too. Ignore red flags, want to see the best. High on the infatuation. Moving in too soon, being a simp, getting ghosted, lying to oneself. It happens to everyone.
Reminds me of talks I would have with my friends about several of my ex-girlfriends. "Oh, this'll be the last major argument." "Oh, she's just having a tough week." "Oh, she was reminded of her parents." "Oh, she didn't hit me that hard." Oof.
Hard to see it until you're out.
A person can love you while also treating you with less consideration and respect than they should. Nobody is born knowing this and learning can be brutal. Glad you're out and grew as a consequence; that's a big deal.
Yeah I fell you dude, I just got out of a relationship like that. Always making excuses for her until everyone around me was like wtf you doing.
Nikki carrying this skit with her intense crazy eye stare! Very expressive. Love it.
This is way deeper than most people can take 😂 Genius.
This is mi blowing!...i am privileged to be among wise women....👀🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
“its so gross” is the most underrated and hysterical line in this bit 😂😂😂 and the delivery is flawless
The last second where Nikki goes to wipe a tear forming in her eye
HAH! I thought that’s what that was 🤣 don’t worry though at first I thought that her crying was a red flag but it’s actually just a sign of how happy she really is!
@@Daniela-fn8or You're right tears of joy
That part of NIkki wiping a tear at the very end was the cherry on top of the milkshake.
Dude, women will tolerate absolutely anything if you’re attractive
Yup
So will guys.
@@nicholaswoods4055 I’ve literally witnessed a man (close friend tolerate straight up emotional abuse from the hottest girl he dated). Luckily he attended therapy and worked on his issues.
@@maddyG7414 It's called trauma bonding... It's real.
Im a woman and I don't get it. It's just pathetic.
Ouch that "like Im so haaapyyy" and Nikki trying to shrug her tear off at the end does it for me lol
Hahaha i can't imagine how much joy, laughter, and fun you two had making this.
I love how these two always have each other's backs even when they KNOW their actions are gonna go to shit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The facial expressions alone are gold
This could have been so cringe but the way this slowly escalated was absolutely perfect 😂
Real talk though, there's a stigma against dudes who live with their parent(s). But on the flip side, for women who live with their mom and or dad, no one bats an eye at the thought. I live in NYC, where most of my friends (both male and female) still live at home. Someone living with their folks isn't necessarily a red flag, it can be, when other relevant variables are applicable, but it doesn't inherently indicate any trouble. However, everything they mentioned in the video after that, were pretty huge, blood soaked red flags.
I think that's what made the skit pretty good. The first two "red flags" weren't real red flags. Living in your parent's house isn't a big deal (especially in this economy), nor is being friends with your ex. It is financially responsible and it does show maturity if you broke up on good terms. Then...holy shit. It really went from there.
Id almost agree with this comment. Someone you’re dating being friends with their ex isn’t a red flag. Someone you’re dating being BFF’s who do everything together is a red flag for sure.
Best of luck
Women are supposed to live at home if they are unmarried because it’s dangerous to live by yourself or without a man no matter how safe the neighborhood is. Some girls go to college and get used to dorming and want to live on their own and be “independent” but that’s not the safest way to be and pretty financially irresponsible. Men it is different because it’s safe for them to live with room mates or by themselves but if he needs to stack up living at home is fine just don’t date cuz it looks like you have no money to spend on a girl
@@ThingsILikke why would you need "money to spend on a girl" you're not buying a hooker you're dating. It definitely should be as acceptable as it is for a girl. I say for either person though it becomes a red flag after a certain age. Like if you're in your 30s(man or woman)and still live with your parents that tells me your job is not enough to sustain you and that's a problem. You're also very likely spoiled because you haven't really experienced how it is to live on your own
Men living at home witj oarents emasculates them. In your parenta eyes you never get beyond about 16, as you are always their child even when an adult with your own children. Better to live in a shared house than with your parents in your 20s, as a man, as otherwise you are emasculated. It is natures way.
My absolute favorite example: Good friend, very smart woman, told me a story about how she came home after a weekend away to find her boyfriend had sold all her furniture to buy drugs. My God, the horror! But the best part is what she said next…”and he did it AGAIN a few month later!” You can’t make this stuff up :-) Keep up the good work :-)
Its so great that you're challenging yourself by trying new content and moving away from comedy and into documentaries!
I feel that this is like most women, much more than they’re willing to admit it.
I have been in an abusive relationship before and sadly there is a lot of trying to make things look less shitty than they seem in your head...
I truly do hate myself... I'm so irresponsible with myself. I don't trust myself... because sometimes I be manipulating myself into giving people benefit of a doubt or into making excuses for other people's actions. Twist and Turn other people's narrative in to reasoning with myself why I should not ignore and give chances whatever... I just don't even want to get to meet new people anymore because I'll be the worst person to myself while trying to be the best human, push over and "what would understanding Jesus do" to them... I'm really trying to unfuck myself.
It's men too bro. I ignored the signs of abusive, fucked up relationships. I was blinded by the sex. Now I have a child with her and ended up homeless, foreclosed my home, broke, court battles, and for two years I was unable to see my daughter.
Be careful tho. It could be you, too.
Eeerrrrmmmm guys are just as bad...if not worst...well I am anyway 🙄
I was just waiting for the "I'm pregnant" "me too" and then talk about how mature it is and shht haha
I’ve watched a bunch of your vids and the level of awkwardness you dive balls deep into is great. Don’t stop.
I lost it when you said “FUCK WOMEN”😂😂
Nikki is one of the funniest youtubers ever! I've watched like two dozen videos just now! How do you not have 20m followers?
Nikki, you gotta chill with these accurate ass videos 😂
This sadly accurate. Women say there are no good guys left and then we act like this.
“More men should go to prison” 😭
so naive girls can take over the world thats right
@@theplacebeyondthelies2429 yikes
@@theplacebeyondthelies2429 😬
Nikki’s acting skills are so good it’s unbelievable
I hate how accurate this is. When I talk to my friends it happens for real
Brilliant ! So true, women can convince themselves of anything if it suits them, irregardless of the truth.
"irregardless" is a red flag
Nikki's face at 1:07 gets me every time. You can just feel the anguish.
Thanks I laughed out loud. Good work ladies
They are a perfect match, both do act so great, it' awe-inspiring! They fit each other real greatly.
It's commendable you could keep a straight face through this script. Hilarious ! Thanks.
“The more I thought about it”
Tell me why this is actually kind of how us women can think. We only want to see the best in others. Some of us even lower our standards to accommodate to our partner that we love unconditionally. Word of advice: don’t love someone unconditionally,until you’re married and there’s a ring on your finger. (Aka a very hard to get out of commitment known as marriage)And never lower your standards for anyone!!!
@@D00MSLAYER yes. Of course you can love someone. But unconditionally? No matter what they do? Don’t express that kind of love until you’re married. Because marriage is a huge commitment. I expressed that with my ex boyfriend and I stood by him through things women would leave him for. And when I’d express emotional distress or insecurities (which were results of his past actions) he didn’t want to work on the relationship the way I did. It was very one sided. But if you’re married to someone,you both know divorce is messy,and expensive and would do more harm than good. So you’re forced to work on the relationship,you can’t just drop someone. And you both have to learn what unconditional love is. One of two things will happen: either you’ll both hate each others guts and just act single and eventually deal with a messy divorce, or you’ll genuinely work on things and re-learn how to love each other.
yes bikini woman here totaly is trustworthy and knows her stuff lol
Totally agree 💯
“Are you having a good day?” 😂😭💀💀💀
*How do you have a different facial expression for literally every syllable?*
she's too much, she'd freak me out halfway through the date
That just means the neck is 🔥🔥🔥
@@pozloadescobar haha funny, he's got his hands right there
First one: Oh yeah he lives with his dad.
Me: Yeah that's okay, not everyone is in a position to have their own place
Second one: He hangs out with his ex-girlfriend
Me: he does what??
A breakup doesn't have to be an dramafest
@@greenyxd7298 not a drama fest, but you shouldn't hang out with your ex constantly. My most recent ex and I don't hate eachother. But we aren't best friends and if you are, should you maybe question whether you should've broke up with them in the first place.
@@johndavis8746 You can also break up when your life goals don't align. Then you could still be best friends with your ex. It's just that the relationship wouldn't lead anywhere for both parties if they stayed together.
I think it honestly depends on the situation. If the reason why the broke up seems like a good, mature reason (life goals didn’t match up, were best friends before and realized they aren’t good for each other in a relationship) , then it’s probably fine.
But if the break up reasons were sketch and ESPECIALLY if they’re spending more time with each other than their current partner then I call 🚩 on that one.
I think you are being perfectly reasonable.
At first I was worried because I started dating this girl who told me she wasn't into Nikki Howard videos but then I realized it was actually a huge red flag and got out of there real quick, so no worries anymore
How was it a red flag bro?
0:22
I just don't understand the cultural norm of the west and how they look at this matter.
I'm 29 y.o. and live in my parents' house. Is it because I'm a failure? No, it's because I'm responsible. I'm responsible for my parents. They grew old and need someone to take care of them and keep their company.
They still can carry themselves around normally. But for me it's the most irresponsible move to do that my parents made great sacrifices to raise me. And after all of that you're expecting me just to leave them when they're old and not return part of the favour?
And no I'm not daddy's spoiled son. I have a very decent job and support my parents financially in addition to taking care of their daily needs
this shit deserves way more views wtf. This whole channel is a gem!
This is so relatable that it hurts. Why are we all. So. Naive..
So Nikki & Stevie dropping fresh content now, this winter storm isn’t so bad after all.
I could watch this stuff for hours. My favorite is still the choose where to eat video with Brent!
This is how people who support certain politicians justify actions / change stances that they / their party were previously against
Is this a red flag? 🚩
No that’s a pencil my guy
Ehm no that's just a red triangle attached to a stick
That's an emoji, bruh
Patrick Bateman: Yes it is!
Colorblind so possibly
Hah! No red flags here!
Haha too true. It is honestly terrifying to me that there are still people out there who see acts of violence as "being a man."
@Steven The problem is people act with violence in situations that doesn´t need to be violent.
You should always protect yourself and people you love but it isnt always solved with fists or guns.
@Steven the specific situation mentioned in the video is someone cutting him off at Starbucks. No one is saying you should ignore it or accept disrespect. But if the only way someone knows how to resolve an issue as basic as cutting him off is with violence, then that person has nothing to be proud of.
I honestly know a lady who left a guy that loves her more than his life simply because she felt he isn't man enough.
In her words, she said, He is too soft. He doesn't get angry like men do.
They were already married and would have had a baby if not for a miscarriage.
@@achenyouchenyo4862 I'm glad for him.
I collect playing cards and seeing y’all using a not standard deck of cards made me happy there’s so many beautiful designs of playing cards
They’re right about Starbucks..it’s a fucking free for all in there.
Scarily spot-on. Wish I had seen this 25 years ago.
Lol, those first two red flags (living with parents, friends with ex) applied to me and my spouse respectively. When we met, I was living at home with my folks since I'd just moved back to our city, and she was living with her ex, with whom she's still great friends. He even ended up being the one to officiate our wedding. Yet, we're still perfectly happy together. Glad those red flags were totally not an issue for either of us. Hmmmmm, but now I'm thinking about getting a face tattoo while serving a 10 year prison sentence for stabbing someone while ghosting my wife. So maybe there was something to those red flags after all. lol :D Great video!
Dont do it man there’s another way out!
@@nicnac9949 If only I'd seen this one hour sooner. I just did all the stuff from the comment, right just now!!! lol :D
Well today's day and age, if two people meet, and they both have their own place, unless one of them is renting, or both are renting, it is very difficult for one of them to give up their life and move in with another.
Few weeks ago I listened to Wicked Games and a line really stood out. "I want to fall in love with you".
We so just want to fall in love, and that little nugget supercedes everything. Interesting psychology
How is living at home to save money so you can afford to buy a place a red flag? I did this from when I graduated uni till when I was 26 and saved 300k and then bought a condo. Most people I know are still renting and don't have any savings right now.
I love how they comfort each other and non of them see's any red flags 🤣💀
I cannot get enough of these videos.😂😂
Free advice: Don't worry about his red flags. Those are clearly visible to you and you'll find ways to deal with them as he works on them.
Instead worry about your own red flags. Because people are usually blind to them and it's THOSE that will ruin every relationship you're in. Relationships are not about what you can get from the other person. They are about what you can offer them. And fixing your own red flags is much more important in terms of your own relationship happiness than screening dates for theirs.
She is accurate about the Starbucks self entitlement though
Unrelated, but I like that they actually listen to each other and are invested in the convo even tho they're craving to discuss their boyfriends.
My ex dated abusive men for over twenty years: ex-cons, rogues, thugs. She had kids by one of them and has spent years hiding from him because he raped and tried to kill her. She has been abused and threatened by multiple lovers. She broke up with me for attempting to hold her accountable for those poor decisions. Butterflies are real.
The escalation in this dialogue raised my blood pressure unlike any other video
Nikki's facial expressions kill me lol. I could watch with no volume and still lmao
This is absolute Gold. Usually women are poor comedians , but my God this brilliant.
Truth:
There are a lot of modern-day women that may watch this and not realize it's fake.
Thank you, that was a good laugh, and good dating tips too.
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This is amazing. Recommend
Beautiful
This taught me so much about the dating world
She is the most underrated comedic youtuber
Those out takes are pure gold
her crazy eyes and the way they talk are the biggest red flags here
Nikki is such a good actress. 🤣
This is frighteningly accurate and applies to both sexes
See, this proves that all those women, in my past, had no right to be suspiciously angry; when I told them “it’s all in your head, you’re just being cr…!”
I imagine this is the internal monologue of women when a really attractive guy is interested in them. The flags are all waving to get their attention but the women suddenly become color blind and think they are all green.
Can’t tell if that first one started off as a potential red flag but was the only real non-red flag to get the ball rolling of “understanding” the other real red flags or if they really meant it to be a real red flag
1:29 LOL
"More guys should go to prison" got me cracked up!
Omg it's like, my ex bf used to ghost me, for WEEKS and then i would be like "okay time to break up with him" then he comes and says "sorry bae i was just real busy" and i'd be like *AWWHEE NVM* 🤦♀️🤦♀️
OMG same! 🤦♀️🤦♀️ I was so naive!
Help I'm in this situation I can't get it together
@@cm-yu6gu omg break up with him now, the only reason he's still with u is bc he finds a use for u, don't let him use u
1:44 That's not a red flag, that's just a reminder to have sex with women. "I kinda got it from Ron Funches, you should check him out.
That's such a julie nolke video lmaooo
I am so attracted to them, not just because they're hot, but a woman that forgiving is the most fictional part of this skit.
Then I found out he thinks Covid 19 is a government conspiracy, but he’s just intellectual.. definitely not a red flag
nah bro, china released that shit
@@MonsterMeatMarcus fax, ppl will wake up soon enough.
Oh so you’re a sheep who votes in partisan no matter what? Orange man bad right?
@@giodexialamine7914 I’m actually a conservative
@@MonsterMeatMarcus RED FLAG, RED FLAG! Ladies run as far away as possible before he grabs you by the ..
Pure gold, thanks for the laughs 🤣
The only good female YT comedian. Much love from Saturn!
literally the most relatable youtuber, and for pretty much every audience
I don't understand the rules to that card game either even after rewatching the video
that one thing were you ask the person for the answer you want them to say not what they actually think is best for you
Starbucks line : you cut you get cut
Been RUclips'n for a while, so I'm not sure why I just recently discovered your channel, buuuttt I'm glad I did.
I always see the red flags and just keep going
Yeah right. You’re East Asian. Your requirements are white male with a heart rate.
Don’t kid yourself
LOL - he's living at his Da's house..... bc the cost of the divorce and the subsequent payments (which he actually pays) is breaking him financially - which may make you a 'red flag'...