3 differences between secure love and anxious attachment

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

Комментарии • 48

  • @BM-xi4kd
    @BM-xi4kd 2 года назад +166

    The moment you realise you're anxious attachment in every point😭XD

  • @cesarriveraii550
    @cesarriveraii550 Год назад +72

    I’ve found the best cure to an anxious attachment is to fill your free time doing things you genuinely love

    • @pragyankakati3092
      @pragyankakati3092 Год назад +7

      Sameee but i end up procrastinating during my work so i end up having no free time 😭😂

  • @SuperAlphaKirby
    @SuperAlphaKirby Год назад +60

    When you release that every romance novel in existence revolves around anxious attachment.

    • @leshaun_dinglenuts
      @leshaun_dinglenuts Год назад +5

      Frrr, they’re all extremely jealous, or can’t spend more than a week without each other 🥲

  • @igurospit
    @igurospit Год назад +17

    I knew it, what I have for her is secure attachment, and what she have for me is anxious attachment…

  • @zelik654
    @zelik654 Год назад +6

    Experienced both of this and it’s sooo true

  • @mysticalyy
    @mysticalyy 2 года назад +11

    Keep posting.... ❤❤

  • @redribbon2
    @redribbon2 Год назад +3

    I used to have secure love but now it's anxious attachment.

  • @m.g5796
    @m.g5796 Год назад

    So so true 🎉😮, this lady is real

  • @izumikun8976
    @izumikun8976 Год назад

    your voice is so satisfying 🥰

  • @tiktik7608
    @tiktik7608 Год назад +1

    Agreed! Been there done that

  • @riiael
    @riiael Год назад

    I wish that I saw this video last year

  • @jungkookieheart598
    @jungkookieheart598 2 года назад +10

    I'm anxious attachment to someone,he make me feel sooo..uhh..like you siad before in the other video, it's like riding in a rollercoaster..can you help me

  • @blueberries6961
    @blueberries6961 2 года назад

    Ahh secure love !

  • @godboy_666
    @godboy_666 Год назад +1

    :( anxious (attachment) + gynophobia
    It has been 1.5 years since i had a crush on her . I don't think it's just crush but a love has been grown

  • @user-A.v.r.e.y
    @user-A.v.r.e.y Год назад

    I just realized my love for my bf is a anxious attachment👀

  • @Beebeebombie
    @Beebeebombie Год назад

    Can you experience it all at the same time?

  • @deliadelyla2900
    @deliadelyla2900 Год назад

    can u do makeup tutorial? i appreciate ur make up in these videos👍

  • @jackalope2302
    @jackalope2302 Год назад +4

    Can a relationship go from secure to anxious? My last situation while she was here, I felt very much secure. But after she moved away and we started a long distance flirty friendship I became quite anxious. It doesn't hurt that my love language is physical touch, which makes long distance relationships very difficult.

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Год назад +2

      You were anxious before but you realised it after she left.
      You need to focus on you and your life, just injoy it, don't make her the center of your universe. You are the center of your universe. 🙂
      You must always be ok. with every outcome, because if you two break up, you will find another girl, who will be even better for you.
      You just have to believe that. That's the key to a happy life.

    • @jackalope2302
      @jackalope2302 Год назад +1

      @@mirelarajic579 I only really enjoy life when I'm in love.

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Год назад +1

      @@jackalope2302 we all do. Love is everywhere and if you love yourself life will be beautiful no matter what is happening in your life.

    • @jackalope2302
      @jackalope2302 Год назад

      @@mirelarajic579 I can't. I need some one to show me what about me can be loved. When I look in a mirror my flaws outnumber my merits

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Год назад +1

      @@jackalope2302 we all have them. You are perfect, right now as you are, when you start to really believe that, that's when the magic happens! 💫😊
      Then you will start to become that what you believe you are, you WILL change. 🙂
      It's law, the way this universe works.
      Just trust that everything is always working out for you, even when you don't think so, but it does. In some time you will see it's true. 🙂

  • @divinefeminine9474
    @divinefeminine9474 Год назад

    What is cure to anxious attachment?

  • @user-lj6gk4lv9s
    @user-lj6gk4lv9s Год назад

    Should be taught to kids before they leave school

  • @kritibhansali5944
    @kritibhansali5944 Год назад

    How to get out of this anxious statement

  • @puppylover1981
    @puppylover1981 Год назад

    So, your telling me that I've never had secure love........

  • @e_llxma
    @e_llxma Год назад +1

    Okay but can anxious attachment turn to secure love tho... genuinely curious 🤔

  • @Minimint_
    @Minimint_ Год назад

    What if I have both? It feels like it’s not fully either. I’m trying to grow it to be just secure attachment though. But for now it’s kind of half of both.

  • @fruity3766
    @fruity3766 Год назад

    I guess i have anxious attachment😅

  • @tahiaoishe5198
    @tahiaoishe5198 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Mimi-yk7sm
    @Mimi-yk7sm Год назад

    Hello ! Please help me clear a confusion.
    The thing is...I feel the exact same feelings of 'secure love' with my best friend. So is it just friendly love or something more ?

  • @lawrencechukwuemeka93
    @lawrencechukwuemeka93 Год назад

    I feel the anxious attachment how can i get rid of this pls someone help 😢

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Год назад +1

      Just say to yourself, if we break up I will find even better girl for me.
      Just believe that and injoy your life, don't make her the center of your universe. See her as a cherry on top of the cake. Make a great cake for yourself, one that is delicious even without the cherry. 🙂

  • @STORM5
    @STORM5 Год назад

    Omg so all this time every love I've ever had has just been anxious attachment? Heh.... makes sense I guess......