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  • Dr Charles has a strong hunch on a patient who claims his leg injury was an accident, but he suspects it was attempted suicide.
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  • @malinasworld
    @malinasworld 5 лет назад +11468

    The actor playing the lawyer is brilliant though.

    • @cryptidian3530
      @cryptidian3530 5 лет назад +386

      Yeah, he convinced me that it's a real person, not a character in a show. He nailed it.

    • @cassiwmcreynolds1531
      @cassiwmcreynolds1531 5 лет назад +10

      Elise Duarte ik 😂😂😂

    • @misslen575
      @misslen575 5 лет назад +82

      And damn he's cute

    • @LThomp
      @LThomp 5 лет назад +26

      He’s in orange is the new black as well

    • @ragadawad6158
      @ragadawad6158 4 года назад +3

      Geo Snaped its almost real like hospitals do likke this

  • @aven_snow
    @aven_snow 5 лет назад +11085

    "I have no excuse to be sad"
    "You don't need an excuse your a human being"
    WHO CUT THE ONIONS!!

  • @caitlintk1653
    @caitlintk1653 4 года назад +5306

    “You can’t do this!”
    “I... uh... I can actually”

    • @mangoooo55
      @mangoooo55 4 года назад +56

      Nowhere_ Boys_xx the best line ever

    • @user-sm1wq4mn8n
      @user-sm1wq4mn8n 4 года назад +7

      anyone know this episode

    • @lewisdelicata5334
      @lewisdelicata5334 4 года назад +13

      Thing is, that he actually can't

    • @xstrangew0rld
      @xstrangew0rld 4 года назад +75

      @@lewisdelicata5334 yes he can. It's a 72 hour hold. It is legal and it happens.

    • @anja6983
      @anja6983 4 года назад +6

      @@xstrangew0rld seriously ? I mean the police can do that, but a doctor ?
      In my country you can only hold him IF a judge gives the permission

  • @Mistjeager
    @Mistjeager 5 лет назад +7162

    I've never seen this show and I love the psychiatrist character. He's like supportive uncle or semi father figure

    • @theawillis1353
      @theawillis1353 5 лет назад +431

      Mr Jaeger bc u don't watch the show, he is basically the dumbledore of this hospital and the entire universe loves him.

    • @karenbennethloverio1206
      @karenbennethloverio1206 5 лет назад +54

      Yeah and he experienced depression thats why he can relate

    • @Mahin-vf5yn
      @Mahin-vf5yn 4 года назад +37

      @@jw771 his daughter actually appears in one of the episodes and she's a doctor aswell

    • @sugoistalin7809
      @sugoistalin7809 4 года назад +22

      He's literally the best character on the show. Hell he's up there in the other ones as well, and those are mostly just cameos and one off episodes.

    • @romaniagoh8146
      @romaniagoh8146 4 года назад +24

      In this episode, he reduced his dosage for the anti depressants. Hence his sloppy appearance and his lack of motivation to coax the lawyer to admit he was depressed. But it was because he was describing how was feeling and his own need to keep up appearances that the lawyer eventually gave in as he was going through something similar

  • @cerysheaps6258
    @cerysheaps6258 5 лет назад +13262

    When he said “I have absolutely no excuse to be sad” I felt that in my core because that’s how I feel everyday when I just wanna cry in a ball and die.

    • @mayaanimay
      @mayaanimay 5 лет назад +214

      It feels like that a lot....me too... I have felt it a lot and in past people told me I had not right to be sad because life looked good but... It happens and its okay. But i agree with Dr. Charles. We are human and we feel sad.

    • @lani4069
      @lani4069 5 лет назад +54

      @@mayaanimay Exact same thing with my family, I've kind of just given up but I'm getting help...

    • @jayrg4
      @jayrg4 5 лет назад +47

      Cerys Heaps. Dude its really okay. I have gone through that, knowing i have good food, a big house, comfortable bed, but feeling... Dead. Dont worry, just carry on and everything will be okay. Maybe talk to someone, a therapist, a friend or family. Don’t worry.

    • @buecherdrache1
      @buecherdrache1 5 лет назад +59

      You don't need an excuse to be sad. That's like needing an excuse for having the flu. If you feel empty or sad, you simply feel empty or sad, and nobody should question those feelings, even if they are irrational. And I just want you to know, that even if there are days it seems hopeless, there will always be days that make up for that. Even if you might need some help from family, friends, psychiatrist or even medication to find those days, just keep going. And don't let anyone tell you how you should feel. As someone with social ancient, who got depression because of it, I know how often you question your irrational feelings. But simply accepting them as existent instead of seeing them as something wrong with you or trying to push them aside, actually helps dealing with them.

    • @lalayatem3758
      @lalayatem3758 5 лет назад +8

      God Bless truly

  • @lm9327
    @lm9327 4 года назад +4550

    What incredibly powerful lines:
    -i don't have any excuse to be sad.
    -you don't need an excuse, you're a human being.
    Should be taught in med school.

    • @acc373r4t0r
      @acc373r4t0r 4 года назад +94

      In my opinion, the most powerful lines were:
      -You're one hell of a performer
      and
      -Isn't that exhausting ?

    • @corkie679
      @corkie679 3 года назад +22

      Y med? Y not literally everywhere

    • @xd_joe
      @xd_joe 3 года назад +2

      Bruh in the 999th like

    • @YouTubeallowedmynametobestolen
      @YouTubeallowedmynametobestolen 2 года назад +11

      @SaintShower "There are no room for errors in medicine where the subject is life and death."
      And yet no one -- not any person, not any doctor -- is perfect. And no doctor has perfect information on which to base assessments.
      It sounds like you expect perfection where perfection is impossible.

    • @LJONeill1997
      @LJONeill1997 2 года назад

      @@acc373r4t0r yeah🥺

  • @jamanam2655
    @jamanam2655 5 лет назад +7618

    But why would they leave a suicidal man in a room alone wearing a tie?

    • @rjtp2552
      @rjtp2552 5 лет назад +764

      They're in a hospital...
      People walking outside of his room...
      Doctors/Nurses *EVERYWHERE* ...

    • @Kerbythekraby
      @Kerbythekraby 5 лет назад +401

      RJ TP that’s true but it doesn’t take long they could look away for a few minutes... and then yea

    • @rjtp2552
      @rjtp2552 5 лет назад +359

      @@Kerbythekraby You can become brain dead at around 20 minutes or more so that sounds unrealistic for doctors/nurses/passersbys/visitors/security to do in a hospital. Tv lies to you, *everyone* is walking around 24/7 (mostly the doctors/nurses/security). 👌

    • @lilyheckenberg5517
      @lilyheckenberg5517 5 лет назад +20

      Jamanam true though

    • @MissShiniia
      @MissShiniia 5 лет назад +219

      Because they know that he doesn´t actually wishes to die. He just want someone that can keep him from doing that. But he will never admit it. Not in this stage at least.

  • @bluebell8557
    @bluebell8557 5 лет назад +9943

    the guy is a really good actor. You can see the pain and the conflict in his face and at the end when he started crying? holy shit I felt that. Amazing, amazing acting.

    • @lillyunicorns4681
      @lillyunicorns4681 5 лет назад +6

      Didn’t mean to dislike

    • @11101nagw
      @11101nagw 4 года назад +28

      @H P PLOT TWIST

    • @thedevil1667
      @thedevil1667 4 года назад +28

      @H P a lot of poeple have depression so he might have depression too...

    • @marLamaDeo
      @marLamaDeo 4 года назад +4

      H P Chill

    • @Bambim8
      @Bambim8 4 года назад +3

      I think I felt empathy for a second, but now it's gone.

  • @8bennaboo
    @8bennaboo 5 лет назад +4514

    He's right, legally he can.

    • @8bennaboo
      @8bennaboo 5 лет назад +160

      @Avery Murphy legaly he can put him on psych hold.

    • @shadowlegend5819
      @shadowlegend5819 5 лет назад +5

      8bennaboo b

    • @Brynwyn123
      @Brynwyn123 5 лет назад +61

      @Kry Kry you can't in most countries, mate. America isn't the only place that can hold people in hospital if they're deemed a risk to themselves

    • @YellawayHD
      @YellawayHD 5 лет назад +51

      Kry Kry because that would be akin to refusing treatment to someone who is just been shot. Or someone who was gravely ill. It’s very difficult to make rational and sensible choices while depressed, so sometimes they have to be made for you.

    • @IssaMeZane
      @IssaMeZane 5 лет назад +41

      @Kry Kry He tried to kill himself using a car to get him killed... That's putting others are risk.. And yes the Doctors have the right to put him in for 36 hours. And let's say he tried to run away or try and escape the hospital he can be arrested and put back at the hospital.

  • @laurenbruges8784
    @laurenbruges8784 6 лет назад +7955

    So much respect for this doctors’ character.

    • @shifa4280
      @shifa4280 6 лет назад +10

      Alexa Cannon Agreed

    • @yun0494
      @yun0494 5 лет назад +20

      We need more people like him

    • @akselk12
      @akselk12 5 лет назад +3

      Why specificly?

    • @andyt2k
      @andyt2k 5 лет назад +62

      @Speaking Truth Not a hunch, based on the knowledge, research and expertise of a highly qualified therapist

    • @andyt2k
      @andyt2k 5 лет назад +44

      @Speaking Truth 1) There was evidence 2) Head of Psychiatry 3) You don't know how knowledge works

  • @markarca6360
    @markarca6360 5 лет назад +2502

    This is a case of dysthymia, or high-functioning depression, where the individual is still functional (can still do his/her daily routine). Hiding the fact that he's depressed is one sign of this condition.

    • @n5225aj
      @n5225aj 4 года назад +49

      That sounds familiar

    • @armybomb6303
      @armybomb6303 4 года назад +38

      Yes in other words this is smiling depression

    • @SkullCrusher-xk5wp
      @SkullCrusher-xk5wp 3 года назад +73

      That's incorrect. Dysthymia is a chronic persistent form of depression. It's more 'mild', but anyone with dysthymia or going through a major depressive episode (clinical depression) can portray themselves as happy when they are not. I have, it's not that hard and most people don't look out for it.

    • @phoebekitzdeguzman6463
      @phoebekitzdeguzman6463 3 года назад +1

      Sounds so familiar

    • @jwwr8408
      @jwwr8408 3 года назад +2

      Ok mr psychiatrist

  • @Ns-L
    @Ns-L 5 лет назад +3083

    "Isn't it exhausting"... Crushed my heart. My soul felt that every word.......

    • @bushrawajahat8514
      @bushrawajahat8514 5 лет назад +3

      ARMYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

    • @msmn6519
      @msmn6519 4 года назад +2

      Neha L A-

    • @acc373r4t0r
      @acc373r4t0r 4 года назад +8

      felt way too real...

    • @samaeldeul572
      @samaeldeul572 3 года назад +2

      Same😔

    • @9lirika
      @9lirika 2 года назад

      ADHD n depression are exhausting...autism,ADHD and depression comes all in once...if you are a people pleaser visit a psychiatrist...

  • @ariaaarose
    @ariaaarose 5 лет назад +2796

    2:38
    “You can’t do this !”
    “I-I I can actually”
    I’m sorry idk why I’m laughing 😂

  • @fivehundredlux
    @fivehundredlux 5 лет назад +1186

    ‘You can’t do this’
    ‘I I can actually’
    **turns around**
    ‘Back to work!?

  • @bigguy5667
    @bigguy5667 4 года назад +272

    “He tried to commit _suicide,_ *Sharon* ” I love Dr Charles hahaha

  • @izzyfouda320
    @izzyfouda320 5 лет назад +921

    “The single greatest challenge that I face is trying to convince people that depression isn’t a sign of weakness.”
    Thank you.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @9lirika
      @9lirika 2 года назад

      It's hormonal most of the times....women feel real low two days before periods especially fat women who has increased levels of estrogen...i faced this problem when I put up weight....every problem comes up n magnifies n causes sudden depression for those days...i used to tell myself it's not me,it's my brain...I'll be alright in a week....strong emotional support is needed at the times...i wonder how it is if it's for continuous..prolonged time...i sincerely suggest diet n lifestyle changes ...few shampoos,deos,body washes...all these chemicals triggers hormones...

    • @charlenepang
      @charlenepang Год назад +1

      An excellent line. Then again, having *any* kind of mental illness _isn't_ a sign of weakness.

  • @kabrieyljoseph1947
    @kabrieyljoseph1947 6 лет назад +4356

    This made me really think about myself because I pretend that I'm at peace with myself when I'm really not

    • @prurose8939
      @prurose8939 6 лет назад +14

      Ka'Brieyl Joseph reach out...❤

    • @Itthew
      @Itthew 5 лет назад +47

      Everyone pretends and it is only a disorder when it burdens you so much that you cannot carry out daily functions. Go talk to a therapist and take it as a preventative measure rather than diagnosis. Chances are you do not meet the clinical requirement of any disorder but my therapist helped me with issues like procrastination and even understand myself better so that I can make a better career choice. Good luck !

    • @too_lonely4768
      @too_lonely4768 5 лет назад +17

      I know what you mean... hiding is easier, if no one else knows then maybe you can be okay. but if someone sees behind the mask. your fears are that you will be treated differently, looked at differently, everything you feel wraps up into a bottle that just keeps getting bigger and bigger. don't make that mistake, don't let that bottle explode. unscrew the bottle and talk to someone, even if it's a stranger in a chat group. because once that bottle explodes no one will know until it's too late. I know from experience, my heart stopped. don't let yours.

    • @scrawnymaniac7126
      @scrawnymaniac7126 5 лет назад +9

      thats basically everyone these days...including me. my smile can fade in a blink of an eye.

    • @kaaviyaprabhakaran6766
      @kaaviyaprabhakaran6766 5 лет назад +4

      Realise that what really belongs to u is it soul. Life is all about being happy and making others.when u feel sad make a purpose for Ur life.and that purpose must be making others happy and helping needy.when u do that u get happiness back

  • @tinaliu6537
    @tinaliu6537 5 лет назад +1001

    That lawyer was such a good actor, i feel like he actually cried at then because of the script. You can see the shame and pain in his face at the end.

    • @weeme5190
      @weeme5190 4 года назад +21

      He was in an episode of Angel whos character tried to stop time because his girlfriend wanted to break up with him. He was really good in that too.

  • @kushkins6940
    @kushkins6940 3 года назад +309

    The psychiatrist is one of the reasons I tune in to this show. An empathetic, compassionate & understanding voice and ear for people who suffer from mental illness and depression goes a long way. Oliver Platt was made for this role. I have learnt so much from this show.

    • @AP-ex6qz
      @AP-ex6qz 2 года назад

      He reminds me a lot of my own Psychiatrist

  • @gomezandthemelons
    @gomezandthemelons 5 лет назад +758

    To all my fellow depression sufferers out there - don't give up. you can do this.

    • @peaveyst7
      @peaveyst7 5 лет назад +6

      no we dont. we dont have to. all we have to do is stand up, spitt the blood out and get ready for the next punch... thats how you win this.

    • @geral096
      @geral096 4 года назад +3

      thankyou i needed that

    • @shabinapatel9488
      @shabinapatel9488 4 года назад +2

      I am so depressed

    • @shabinapatel9488
      @shabinapatel9488 4 года назад

      I am depressed because I know that I am not cute or beautiful or skinny

    • @JulieWhooly091
      @JulieWhooly091 4 года назад +1

      I don't know how

  • @KennyBye
    @KennyBye 5 лет назад +384

    this guy who played the lawyer is BRILLIANT. absolutely brilliant. you can see in every stage of this episode how conflicted he is and his over-exaggerated emotions to compensate for his sadness. and his crying at the end, it’s the exact type of crying one in that situation would feel, the kind where your eyes hurt and your face is red. it’s absolutely incredible.

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 2 года назад +19

      I like when Dr Charles leaves him for the first time and he hurls an insult about the doctor's malpractice premiums. But as soon as the door shuts he sort of drops the mask and looks lost

  • @RouxHarbour
    @RouxHarbour 5 лет назад +513

    The pretending one does while depressed is what harms and drains the most. Depicted perfectly. Spot on.

  • @asbaran
    @asbaran 3 года назад +143

    The way the lawyer seemed so fragile after he dropped the facade makes me want to hug him really bad 😭

  • @TheBestPencil
    @TheBestPencil 5 лет назад +668

    “Back to work...” *walks away*
    Lmao 😂

    • @Bear-yi2el
      @Bear-yi2el 5 лет назад +2

      iLoveUnicorns Poop I literally read that as he said it

    • @meg_3079
      @meg_3079 5 лет назад +2

      Bear Theis same

  • @kiratheusagiisworkshop5266
    @kiratheusagiisworkshop5266 5 лет назад +2314

    This hit me right in the feels, especially the end.
    I battled with depression and did it for years without knowing it BUT I always hide the pain and sadness behind a wall. I never let anyone see it. It slipped out at some times, but when talking to professionals about what hurt, about the main cause, didn't help I shut the world out. I gave up and kept hiding behind my smiling mask. Bottling it all up.
    But my walls crumbled eventually. One person who saw the signs broke through the wall with force, much like this doctor did, and made me admit to myself that I'm not alright. And that's alright. You don't always have to be alright. It's okay to not be okay. And that helped so much and now I finally feel better than I have in many years!

    • @CS-bo4yv
      @CS-bo4yv 5 лет назад +7

      KiraTheUsagii's Workshop this is exactly how I feel. What’s your insta man let’s talk about our shit

    • @zakiry8634
      @zakiry8634 5 лет назад +9

      Same but I hid my autism anxiety and depression, it came out in bursts of anger when I couldn’t hide it, but I still hate including people in what I feel because it’s not fun for, me and no one deserves to feel how I feel, I don’t like to make know how I’m feeling because no one shoudl

    • @elizabethbarrett2887
      @elizabethbarrett2887 5 лет назад +11

      Zak New i have asperges a type of autism and I'm really smart. All my friends parents say I'm only clever because of my autism and it really hurts. I dont suffer from depression but I have bad anxiety and I'm extremely anti-social because of all those people talking about an 11 yr-old that way.

    • @88caleger
      @88caleger 5 лет назад

      Yeah I almost started crying, fuck those words he said....I had to leave the lunch room.

    • @MultipleSoaps234
      @MultipleSoaps234 5 лет назад +1

      @@CS-bo4yv whats your insta??

  • @alieshakirwan6049
    @alieshakirwan6049 3 года назад +236

    That's literally how I broke down in my therapy session. Everything's fine until they start validating your internal feelings in that calm understanding tone........ The tears start silently

    • @Qwertzuioyxcv
      @Qwertzuioyxcv Год назад +2

      Thats why I dont go...
      It just makes me sad even when I feel good

  • @cybernautadventurer
    @cybernautadventurer 4 года назад +130

    This is disturbingly accurate. People with depression hide their illness so well that one day they seem all bright and cheery, the next minute they've killed themselves and you have no idea what went wrong.

  • @wanderingkernel5002
    @wanderingkernel5002 4 года назад +58

    Depression: The Single Least Expressive yet Most Expressive emotion there is.

  • @teh7634
    @teh7634 5 лет назад +693

    2:52 I love the “back to work”

  • @Sasuga_Skky
    @Sasuga_Skky 6 лет назад +814

    If you are sad it doesn't matter whether or not you think you have a 'valid' reason to be sad.
    What matters is that you feel sad. You should never think that your feelings are your fault, or that you don't have a 'good' reason to be sad. There is no good reason to be sad. If you're sad, you're sad, and you deserve help.

    • @nandi171
      @nandi171 6 лет назад +5

      Elise Johnston
      :))

    • @lucy-.-5453
      @lucy-.-5453 5 лет назад +6

      this actually made my day thank you

    • @nandi171
      @nandi171 5 лет назад +3

      Lucy Crum
      My comment?

    • @lucy-.-5453
      @lucy-.-5453 5 лет назад +3

      @@nandi171 the original comment but i loved your reply too

    • @nandi171
      @nandi171 5 лет назад +1

      Lucy Crum
      😂♥️

  • @izabellaspeed9055
    @izabellaspeed9055 4 года назад +215

    dr Charles is my favourite doctor he doesn't get the recognition he deserves. he always helps people in the best way he can and is willing too anything to help plus he is a great actor

  • @ArcticFalcon
    @ArcticFalcon 5 лет назад +136

    "You don't need an excuse, man. You're human being"

  • @belad0nna
    @belad0nna 3 года назад +34

    "He's successful"
    So were tons of many people who ended up committing suicide.

  • @zcxcq7137
    @zcxcq7137 6 лет назад +984

    I believe that with my age I can't get depression because I'm still in school and I have refused to admit it to anyone because I feel like it's a fault

    • @BOMERdeath123
      @BOMERdeath123 6 лет назад +42

      II SQUAD II Its ok man, it isn't a fault. It can happen to anyone and you can get the help you need

    • @jennpenn10
      @jennpenn10 6 лет назад +22

      Never feel like its your fault ok. :) I know many people with depression and it is a mental condition and it is not your fault. Depression does not always have a cause but the fact that you can admit it means that you can get the help you need and that people will be happy to give you. It happens to anyone.
      And hey, I've got quite a few problems myself constantly misreading social cues and more often than not hurting someone else which put me in a pretty bad place in the past. But i opened up to people and you will be surprised at how much love and support is shown by people when they understand. Anyone, any age can get depression or any other mental health problem, so don't let the fact that you have it define you because it never will. You are a human being and it is who you are, not what you have, that make you special and amazing. Everyone is different, and that's a good thing. :)

    • @Bekka_boo13
      @Bekka_boo13 6 лет назад +7

      it's to do with the circits in your brain...It's never anyone's fault...

    • @kirsty9084
      @kirsty9084 6 лет назад +4

      Most kids in school have depression. 2 of my friends do.

    • @kiratheusagiisworkshop5266
      @kiratheusagiisworkshop5266 5 лет назад +2

      It's no ones fault, depression don't discriminate. It's a hormon unbalance that messes with the persons head.

  • @mateocruzat6903
    @mateocruzat6903 3 года назад +28

    I like to see Dr. Charles as a friendly, caring, panda

  • @eo7097
    @eo7097 4 года назад +74

    "I have absolutely no excuse to be sad."
    That line hit me really hard because I said something very similar when I was in the throes of intense sadness back in 2018. I had been deeply upset for about over a month and I started breaking down over an old memory one particular day. My friends told me that I should see a therapist and I yelled out loud, "Why should I go? I wasn't abused! I don't have a toxic home environment! I was loved!" And yet I utterly despised myself for being such a stupid person (something I struggled with since my college days and something that got triggered very late in 2017).
    I'm not really good at controlling, much less suppressing, my emotions so when I started breaking down in tears, I would beat myself about the head because everybody else has worse problems, so why should I be like this with regards to my own? Why can't I be like everyone else?

    • @joanneng6166
      @joanneng6166 Год назад

      God loves you.
      God says "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5)
      Jesus is a Friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24) What a friend we have in Jesus! 🙂🥰❤
      Jesus says 'I am The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' (John 14:6)
      'For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him, will not perish but have everlasting life.' (John 3:16) (Eternal life with Jesus in heaven / paradise versus eternal hell and damnation for all who reject Him.
      'God saved us not because of righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy...' (Titus 3:5)
      'Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In His great mercy, He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.' (1 Peter 1:3)
      Jesus Christ left all the glory of heaven and came down to earth through the vehicle of the womb of Virgin Mary. When the Holy Spirit came upon her, she conceived, even though she was never with a man. Jesus Christ was Fully God, Fully Man.
      Jesus Christ lived 33 years on earth. He healed the sick, caused the blind to see, the deaf to hear, the lame to walk, cast out demons, even raised the dead!
      Jesus Christ chose to suffer and lay down His life for you and I on the humble wooden Cross, for our sins (moral wrongdoings eg lies, stealing, selfishness, unforgiveness, hate, jealousy, greed, lust, adultery, murder etc etc). He laid down His life for all although He was perfect and sinless. He knew no sin, did no sin, in Him was no sin. He was the God-man who reconciled sinful man back to God (who is Holy, Perfect). He was the Representative of Man, as the Perfect Sacrifice, for God's holiness cannot co-exist with sin, and necessitates a Perfect Sacrifice as sin offering. This is so that Man can now come freely to God to HisThrone of Grace to receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
      God loves man (whom He created) and this necessitates the Son of God, Jesus Christ, to be the sacrifice to reconcile man back to God. It pained God the Father immeasurably, but it was the Only Way.
      'For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.' (Romans 3:23).
      'For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.' (Romans 6:23) HALLELUJAH!
      Jesus Christ was brutally tortured, given stripe after stripe on His bare body using the Roman whip with ferocious hooks attached to the whip, that clawed out His flesh until He could see His own bones, and no sliver of flesh was left. He became so disfigured His face knew no form. He was spat upon, mocked at. When the time came for Him to depart earth, He said 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.' ( Luke 23:34). He had no bitterness. He was at peace.
      Jesus Christ became obedient unto death, even death on the Cross! The worst form of punishment of that time.
      But God the Father raised Jesus from the dead after 3 days! PRAISE GOD! He is now seated at the right hand of God the Father in heaven. HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE!
      I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE OF JESUS! 3 YEARS AGO, ONE MORNING WHEN I JUST WOKE UP AND MY MIND WAS STILL BLANK, I LITERALLY HEARD A VERY KIND VOICE SAYING TO ME 'HELLO, CHILD OF GOD!' IT WAS INSTANTLY THE RECOGNIZABLE VOICE OF JESUS! THERE WAS NO ONE AROUND ME OR IN THE HOUSE! I WILL NEVER FORGET SUCH A ONCE IN A LIFETIME PRECIOUS ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS HIMSELF! 🥰❤❤❤🙏 I PROMISE IT'S MY MOST UNFORGETTABLE, PRIZED, SPECIAL AND PRECIOUS EXPERIENCE! HALLELUJAH! HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE! JUST AS THE WORD OF GOD SAID. EVERY WORD OF GOD IS FLAWLESS! I FEEL A DUTY TO SHARE! KEEP YOUR HOPE IN HIM ALIVE! 🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👍👍👍
      JESUS WAS OBEDIENT UNTO DEATH ON THE CROSS. AS SUCH, GOD THE FATHER GAVE HIM THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE ALL NAMES! THAT AT THE NAME OF JESUS, EVERY KNEE SHOULD BOW, IN HEAVEN, ON EARTH, AND UNDER THE EARTH, AND EVERY TONGUE ACKNOWLEDGE THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. (Philippians 2:10-11)
      JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON A SECOND TIME. ON THAT DAY ALL WILL SEE HIM, THEN ACKNOWLEDGE TOO LATE THAT HE ALONE IS LORD OF ALL. DON'T WAIT TILL THEN TO RECEIVE HIM. IT WILL BE TOO LATE! IT'S TRUE, TOMORROW IS NOT GUARANTEED. RECEIVE JESUS NOW. PRAY TO JESUS SAYING "LORD JESUS, I REPENT OF MY SINS. COME INTO MY HEART, I WILL MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOUR."
      IF YOU DECLARE WITH YOUR MOUTH "JESUS IS LORD," AND BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART GOD RAISED HIM FROM THE DEAD, YOU WILL BE SAVED. (ROMANS 10:9)
      IF YOU DID, ALL HEAVEN REJOICES!!! 😇🥰🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤HALLELUJAH!!! GO TO A BIBLE-BASED CHURCH, AND KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE, NO MATTER WHAT!
      GOD HAS AN AMAZING PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE! MAY YOU REACH THE FULLNESS OF YOUR DESTINY AND HIGH CALLING IN HIM! ABOVE ALL, MAY YOU INCREASE IN THE KNOWLEDGE AND REVELATION OF GOD HIMSELF. GOD BE WITH YOU 🙂🙏

  • @niamhpace3167
    @niamhpace3167 4 года назад +199

    “I wiLL sUe YoU aNd tHiS eNtiRe HoSpItal”
    OMG that guy is a good actor 😂

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 Год назад

      He is actually a lawyer. He is just depressed but hiding abt it

  • @snwjjsshwihdv9341
    @snwjjsshwihdv9341 4 года назад +152

    I have depression. And my mom keeps telling me I’m selfish for it. That “I have absolutely no excuse to be sad” and I’m abusing the family. My dad says the same thing. So they force me to hide it.

    • @silverkitsune1003
      @silverkitsune1003 4 года назад +7

      Damn... That's rough. Are you going to be okay?

    • @sm27893
      @sm27893 4 года назад +5

      @@silverkitsune1003 same here, my husband is like that to me. So I just keep it all in with a fake smile

    • @acc373r4t0r
      @acc373r4t0r 4 года назад +14

      Yeah, feel ya there.
      I used to have really bad depression and when I decided to tell my family my brother and father just told me to "stop being a pussy" and that I was "ruining the mood", and that I was a little shit for bringing that up.
      I still hate them, even 4 years after.

    • @justaguynamednoah2234
      @justaguynamednoah2234 4 года назад +4

      Are you alright?

    • @dreamhobbiz
      @dreamhobbiz 4 года назад +6

      @@acc373r4t0r thats tough. I wonder why people need to accuse others of being a pussy just because of depression. No wonder people like Robin Williams can commit suicide. So sad.

  • @thenerdmaster9381
    @thenerdmaster9381 4 года назад +131

    Depression Guy: "You can't do this!"
    Dr. Charles: "I can, actually"
    I absolutely LOVE what a passive-aggressive savage Charles is

  • @hermionerivers4302
    @hermionerivers4302 4 года назад +120

    ive battled depression since i was 14 and i could never understand why, i was happy, i had a great family, nice home, i did competitive gymnastics and had amazing friends yet i was depressed, it felt like i was being eaten alive, completely trapped and then at 16 my best friend died and for i moment i felt relieved because for the first time i had a reason to be sad, but this made me feel like i’m not alone, that i am always valid no matter what happens, and i think everyone needs to know that. You are valid and worthy of love and support

    • @kyl0875
      @kyl0875 2 года назад

      my friends mum had really bad depression and they figured out it got passed onto her. it may have been the same with you. it may be genetics or you were predisposed to it and something happened. absolutely loads of reasons. i know i got it from mental abuse. its very hard to explain to people too. my dad doesn't understand how how i got treated and the mental games can still affect me. i was diagnosed by a doctor though. like sadly. everyone can get it for many many reasons and every reason is so valid.

    • @joanneng6166
      @joanneng6166 Год назад

      God loves you.
      God says "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5)
      Jesus is a Friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24) What a friend we have in Jesus! 🙂🥰❤
      Jesus says 'I am The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' (John 14:6)
      'For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him, will not perish but have everlasting life.' (John 3:16) (Eternal life with Jesus in heaven / paradise versus eternal hell and damnation for all who reject Him.
      'God saved us not because of righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy...' (Titus 3:5)
      'Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In His great mercy, He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.' (1 Peter 1:3)
      Jesus Christ left all the glory of heaven and came down to earth through the vehicle of the womb of Virgin Mary. When the Holy Spirit came upon her, she conceived, even though she was never with a man. Jesus Christ was Fully God, Fully Man.
      Jesus Christ lived 33 years on earth. He healed the sick, caused the blind to see, the deaf to hear, the lame to walk, cast out demons, even raised the dead!
      Jesus Christ chose to suffer and lay down His life for you and I on the humble wooden Cross, for our sins (moral wrongdoings eg lies, stealing, selfishness, unforgiveness, hate, jealousy, greed, lust, adultery, murder etc etc). He laid down His life for all although He was perfect and sinless. He knew no sin, did no sin, in Him was no sin. He was the God-man who reconciled sinful man back to God (who is Holy, Perfect). He was the Representative of Man, as the Perfect Sacrifice, for God's holiness cannot co-exist with sin, and necessitates a Perfect Sacrifice as sin offering. This is so that Man can now come freely to God to HisThrone of Grace to receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
      God loves man (whom He created) and this necessitates the Son of God, Jesus Christ, to be the sacrifice to reconcile man back to God. It pained God the Father immeasurably, but it was the Only Way.
      'For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.' (Romans 3:23).
      'For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.' (Romans 6:23) HALLELUJAH!
      Jesus Christ was brutally tortured, given stripe after stripe on His bare body using the Roman whip with ferocious hooks attached to the whip, that clawed out His flesh until He could see His own bones, and no sliver of flesh was left. He became so disfigured His face knew no form. He was spat upon, mocked at. When the time came for Him to depart earth, He said 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.' ( Luke 23:34). He had no bitterness. He was at peace.
      Jesus Christ became obedient unto death, even death on the Cross! The worst form of punishment of that time.
      But God the Father raised Jesus from the dead after 3 days! PRAISE GOD! He is now seated at the right hand of God the Father in heaven. HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE!
      I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE OF JESUS! 3 YEARS AGO, ONE MORNING WHEN I JUST WOKE UP AND MY MIND WAS STILL BLANK, I LITERALLY HEARD A VERY KIND VOICE SAYING TO ME 'HELLO, CHILD OF GOD!' IT WAS INSTANTLY THE RECOGNIZABLE VOICE OF JESUS! THERE WAS NO ONE AROUND ME OR IN THE HOUSE! I WILL NEVER FORGET SUCH A ONCE IN A LIFETIME PRECIOUS ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS HIMSELF! 🥰❤❤❤🙏 I PROMISE IT'S MY MOST UNFORGETTABLE, PRIZED, SPECIAL AND PRECIOUS EXPERIENCE! HALLELUJAH! HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE! JUST AS THE WORD OF GOD SAID. EVERY WORD OF GOD IS FLAWLESS! I FEEL A DUTY TO SHARE! KEEP YOUR HOPE IN HIM ALIVE! 🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👍👍👍
      JESUS WAS OBEDIENT UNTO DEATH ON THE CROSS. AS SUCH, GOD THE FATHER GAVE HIM THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE ALL NAMES! THAT AT THE NAME OF JESUS, EVERY KNEE SHOULD BOW, IN HEAVEN, ON EARTH, AND UNDER THE EARTH, AND EVERY TONGUE ACKNOWLEDGE THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. (Philippians 2:10-11)
      JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON A SECOND TIME. ON THAT DAY ALL WILL SEE HIM, THEN ACKNOWLEDGE TOO LATE THAT HE ALONE IS LORD OF ALL. DON'T WAIT TILL THEN TO RECEIVE HIM. IT WILL BE TOO LATE! IT'S TRUE, TOMORROW IS NOT GUARANTEED. RECEIVE JESUS NOW. PRAY TO JESUS SAYING "LORD JESUS, I REPENT OF MY SINS. COME INTO MY HEART, I WILL MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOUR."
      IF YOU DECLARE WITH YOUR MOUTH "JESUS IS LORD," AND BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART GOD RAISED HIM FROM THE DEAD, YOU WILL BE SAVED. (ROMANS 10:9)
      IF YOU DID, ALL HEAVEN REJOICES!!! 😇🥰🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤HALLELUJAH!!! GO TO A BIBLE-BASED CHURCH, AND KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE, NO MATTER WHAT!
      GOD HAS AN AMAZING PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE! MAY YOU REACH THE FULLNESS OF YOUR DESTINY AND HIGH CALLING IN HIM! ABOVE ALL, MAY YOU INCREASE IN THE KNOWLEDGE AND REVELATION OF GOD HIMSELF. GOD BE WITH YOU 🙂🙏

  • @RaviofromsALinkBetweenWorlds
    @RaviofromsALinkBetweenWorlds 5 лет назад +58

    "Just find a way to do it without further complicating my life"
    i like her

  • @JCR29
    @JCR29 6 лет назад +249

    i cry so much in the end.

  • @acidic_soda
    @acidic_soda 5 лет назад +238

    This poor guy. What really struck a chord for me was how quickly Dr Charles saw through him, even the nurse said "you've never made a diagnosis so quickly" and I feel like people who try so hard to hide their depression can get so wrapped up in the lies and then further guilt of said lies that they sometimes forget that they're human, and that other people can help you and it NOT a sign of weakness.... I feel so shitty watching this purely because I feel like this is someone's personal life, SUCH good actors this show is amazing!

  • @emma-uv6fz
    @emma-uv6fz 4 года назад +74

    "you can't do this!!"
    "i can actually"

  • @winniethepooh2941
    @winniethepooh2941 3 года назад +23

    Doctor Charles is like the dad we didn’t ask for but we all need

  • @vasudhakota972
    @vasudhakota972 5 лет назад +48

    Last two minutes from 7:21, the Doctor's dialogue and the Lawyer's acting is just amazing!!

  • @lovejesus5784
    @lovejesus5784 3 года назад +25

    The scene where Dr Charles walked to check on him for the first time is so powerful for me. You can see that the guy doesn’t say all of that bad stuff to doctor - he’s saying it to himself.

  • @gia-abcd
    @gia-abcd 5 лет назад +96

    I love this episode so much. “You don’t need an excuse to me sad, you’re a human being” is something that so many people need to understand. I suffer from depression and I wish more people could understand that just because things may appear great dosent mean they are

    • @ceycey8644
      @ceycey8644 Месяц назад

      Which episode is this

  • @noble6738
    @noble6738 6 лет назад +367

    I can actually.

  • @cm_0011
    @cm_0011 4 года назад +35

    As someone who suffers with depression, this hits right in the soul.

    • @joanneng6166
      @joanneng6166 Год назад

      God loves you.
      God says "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5)
      Jesus is a Friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24) What a friend we have in Jesus! 🙂🥰❤
      Jesus says 'I am The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' (John 14:6)
      'For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him, will not perish but have everlasting life.' (John 3:16) (Eternal life with Jesus in heaven / paradise versus eternal hell and damnation for all who reject Him.
      'God saved us not because of righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy...' (Titus 3:5)
      'Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In His great mercy, He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.' (1 Peter 1:3)
      Jesus Christ left all the glory of heaven and came down to earth through the vehicle of the womb of Virgin Mary. When the Holy Spirit came upon her, she conceived, even though she was never with a man. Jesus Christ was Fully God, Fully Man.
      Jesus Christ lived 33 years on earth. He healed the sick, caused the blind to see, the deaf to hear, the lame to walk, cast out demons, even raised the dead!
      Jesus Christ chose to suffer and lay down His life for you and I on the humble wooden Cross, for our sins (moral wrongdoings eg lies, stealing, selfishness, unforgiveness, hate, jealousy, greed, lust, adultery, murder etc etc). He laid down His life for all although He was perfect and sinless. He knew no sin, did no sin, in Him was no sin. He was the God-man who reconciled sinful man back to God (who is Holy, Perfect). He was the Representative of Man, as the Perfect Sacrifice, for God's holiness cannot co-exist with sin, and necessitates a Perfect Sacrifice as sin offering. This is so that Man can now come freely to God to HisThrone of Grace to receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
      God loves man (whom He created) and this necessitates the Son of God, Jesus Christ, to be the sacrifice to reconcile man back to God. It pained God the Father immeasurably, but it was the Only Way.
      'For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.' (Romans 3:23).
      'For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.' (Romans 6:23) HALLELUJAH!
      Jesus Christ was brutally tortured, given stripe after stripe on His bare body using the Roman whip with ferocious hooks attached to the whip, that clawed out His flesh until He could see His own bones, and no sliver of flesh was left. He became so disfigured His face knew no form. He was spat upon, mocked at. When the time came for Him to depart earth, He said 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.' ( Luke 23:34). He had no bitterness. He was at peace.
      Jesus Christ became obedient unto death, even death on the Cross! The worst form of punishment of that time.
      But God the Father raised Jesus from the dead after 3 days! PRAISE GOD! He is now seated at the right hand of God the Father in heaven. HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE!
      I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE OF JESUS! 3 YEARS AGO, ONE MORNING WHEN I JUST WOKE UP AND MY MIND WAS STILL BLANK, I LITERALLY HEARD A VERY KIND VOICE SAYING TO ME 'HELLO, CHILD OF GOD!' IT WAS INSTANTLY THE RECOGNIZABLE VOICE OF JESUS! THERE WAS NO ONE AROUND ME OR IN THE HOUSE! I WILL NEVER FORGET SUCH A ONCE IN A LIFETIME PRECIOUS ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS HIMSELF! 🥰❤❤❤🙏 I PROMISE IT'S MY MOST UNFORGETTABLE, PRIZED, SPECIAL AND PRECIOUS EXPERIENCE! HALLELUJAH! HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE! JUST AS THE WORD OF GOD SAID. EVERY WORD OF GOD IS FLAWLESS! I FEEL A DUTY TO SHARE! KEEP YOUR HOPE IN HIM ALIVE! 🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👍👍👍
      JESUS WAS OBEDIENT UNTO DEATH ON THE CROSS. AS SUCH, GOD THE FATHER GAVE HIM THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE ALL NAMES! THAT AT THE NAME OF JESUS, EVERY KNEE SHOULD BOW, IN HEAVEN, ON EARTH, AND UNDER THE EARTH, AND EVERY TONGUE ACKNOWLEDGE THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. (Philippians 2:10-11)
      JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON A SECOND TIME. ON THAT DAY ALL WILL SEE HIM, THEN ACKNOWLEDGE TOO LATE THAT HE ALONE IS LORD OF ALL. DON'T WAIT TILL THEN TO RECEIVE HIM. IT WILL BE TOO LATE! IT'S TRUE, TOMORROW IS NOT GUARANTEED. RECEIVE JESUS NOW. PRAY TO JESUS SAYING "LORD JESUS, I REPENT OF MY SINS. COME INTO MY HEART, I WILL MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOUR."
      IF YOU DECLARE WITH YOUR MOUTH "JESUS IS LORD," AND BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART GOD RAISED HIM FROM THE DEAD, YOU WILL BE SAVED. (ROMANS 10:9)
      IF YOU DID, ALL HEAVEN REJOICES!!! 😇🥰🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤HALLELUJAH!!! GO TO A BIBLE-BASED CHURCH, AND KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE, NO MATTER WHAT!
      GOD HAS AN AMAZING PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE! MAY YOU REACH THE FULLNESS OF YOUR DESTINY AND HIGH CALLING IN HIM! ABOVE ALL, MAY YOU INCREASE IN THE KNOWLEDGE AND REVELATION OF GOD HIMSELF. GOD BE WITH YOU 🙂🙏

  • @breadlikesred7856
    @breadlikesred7856 5 лет назад +20

    bruh when he said “I have no reason to be sad” I felt that

  • @ulamedani5938
    @ulamedani5938 4 года назад +15

    the over description of the accident should’ve been a giveaway for his depression, cause no one normally gives a recount in that much detail

  • @Beelzebubby91
    @Beelzebubby91 6 лет назад +225

    It’s pretty awesome they put this in an episode. I’ve had this since I was 12. Medication turned it around so I feel much better.

    • @spacedustandplanets7901
      @spacedustandplanets7901 5 лет назад +2

      GERARD LEONARD I’m glad you feel better 😊

    • @Chipchase_Here
      @Chipchase_Here 5 лет назад

      The medicine isn't working to me. I'm stuckwith scars on my arma

    • @laurenrosie9792
      @laurenrosie9792 4 года назад

      Still on my meds, sadly feel the same about life

  • @ivastojko4843
    @ivastojko4843 5 лет назад +152

    I need someone to realise this like dr. Charles did with this guy...

    • @tealwashablemarker8886
      @tealwashablemarker8886 3 года назад +1

      you good fam?

    • @ivastojko4843
      @ivastojko4843 3 года назад +4

      @@tealwashablemarker8886 Well I’m in therapy now. I asked for help cause waiting for a saviour wasn’t going to bring me anything and it could’ve been too late. Thanks for asking!😊

    • @psvillanelle9398
      @psvillanelle9398 3 года назад +1

      @@ivastojko4843 I’m so proud of you, hope you’re doing well ❤️

  • @sunshine5342
    @sunshine5342 2 года назад +6

    'I have absolutely no excuse to be sad'
    ' you don't need an excuse man, you're a human being'
    I don't know why but those lines sound like on of those lofi songs that have small audioclips from shows or movies.

  • @lovelyykat_
    @lovelyykat_ 4 года назад +83

    "you cant do this"
    "i..uh..i can actually"
    BOSS MOVE

  • @victordaas
    @victordaas 6 лет назад +175

    I would have hugged him and said we are in this together my bro. You're not alone.

    • @spacedustandplanets7901
      @spacedustandplanets7901 5 лет назад +14

      victordaas they can’t do that they have to be professional

    • @bludgerabled
      @bludgerabled 5 лет назад +6

      @@leiaxy5794 Not if you're trying hard to act normal. If I was in his situation a hug wouldn't comfort me, it would make me feel weak.

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 5 лет назад +10

      you can't hug patients. You can't get emotionally involved with your patients or you'll burn out. And he's there to provide empathy not sympathy.

  • @satyamsharma2219
    @satyamsharma2219 3 года назад +62

    If only their was a person in everyone's life who would go to the lengths that Dr. Charles went through for this patient, the number of depressive suicides would be almost zero.

    • @Hayata_dair_hersey95
      @Hayata_dair_hersey95 3 года назад

      If that doctor would see me I am sure he would done to me same. Sad thing my mom cares more others than me and she can't see I really wanna die but scared to do anything about it.
      3 years I am wanting death find me but my mom can't see won't see what I am feeling.

    • @blackiewolfie1240
      @blackiewolfie1240 Год назад

      @@Hayata_dair_hersey95 I am sorry. I hope it better now. Moms cqn be preety bad at their job. I now something about it

    • @svetasveta3315
      @svetasveta3315 Год назад

      😭

    • @mikaelarutyunov9578
      @mikaelarutyunov9578 Год назад

      @@Hayata_dair_hersey95 I hope you are okay.

  • @ec-pm9jo
    @ec-pm9jo 5 лет назад +24

    I don’t even watch this series but this case got me deep. It doesn’t matter if you’re rich, successful, in love, anyone can be depressed. Depression is almost inevitable, meaning that its inescapable. I understand how difficult it is to express it, but people who are suffering from depression should confess or else they’ll be carrying this burden, this heavyweight.

  • @cielthefangirl2876
    @cielthefangirl2876 5 лет назад +326

    Wouldn’t it be amazing if real people actually cared? This is definitely a tv show

    • @crimsontwitch6240
      @crimsontwitch6240 5 лет назад +8

      Ik. . .its really sad, people need to be nice

    • @Milfuelle100
      @Milfuelle100 4 года назад +4

      Ciel TheFangirl yep definitely. I’m not mentally ill but I’ve known people who are and they need to shell out thousands of dollars for psychiatrists because the public healthcare can’t help them.

    • @eviyunachang3985
      @eviyunachang3985 4 года назад +3

      Theres is but rare

    • @hammerbro1947
      @hammerbro1947 4 года назад

      If only everyone had cared... Unfortunately we can't believe everything on TV. Too bad there are a few that don't.

  • @prettychaos9705
    @prettychaos9705 4 года назад +49

    doctor charles: i won’t keep you for more than a minute
    also doctor charles: *places him under 72 hour psychiatric hold*

  • @emmasmith1502
    @emmasmith1502 4 года назад +26

    ‘You can’t do this!’
    ‘Actually I can...’
    DAMN DR CHARLES
    I love him, he’s an icon who only wants to help people

  • @amylil9705
    @amylil9705 4 года назад +43

    What passed me off is that she said that he had no past about depression people can hide it really well like I am with my parents u don’t need to have a past or have an exuse like I wake up on school days and I struggle getting out even though nothing has upset me

    • @hammerbro1947
      @hammerbro1947 4 года назад +1

      Even with no confirmed history of diagnosed depression, every one of us could be at risk if we are not careful.

  • @rooowtwx
    @rooowtwx Год назад +6

    The vulnerability and fear of being found out and being on the brink of losing the facade he has been putting up... such complex emotions played across his face and.. just wow. This is real acting.

  • @MissMiyakosKitty
    @MissMiyakosKitty 4 года назад +16

    This hits hard, man.. It feels like you've tried everything to feel the way you're "supposed" to feel and nothing helps..

  • @laurenoneill5673
    @laurenoneill5673 5 лет назад +228

    One thing annoying me is Dr.Charles shirt.🤣😂 If only we saw the previous coffee spill

  • @nicktroisi6347
    @nicktroisi6347 Год назад +6

    It’s really sad that all those things he said at 4:52 to Dr. Charles were really about him

  • @ameliemarias2405
    @ameliemarias2405 5 лет назад +81

    person: you can’t do this
    doctor: a-actually I can
    lmaoooo 😆 😂

  • @emilynofficial
    @emilynofficial 5 лет назад +16

    this entire video just made me question myself because this is exactly how i feel?? especially when he said "i have no excuse to be sad" it just freaking hit me. i don't know what to do though? like how do i even begin? what do i even have to do??

  • @Bergen98
    @Bergen98 2 года назад +14

    Maybe one of the most truly educational episodes of this show for me, as a med student. Of course, you learn about suicide attempts, but you usually recognize them quite clearly. It takes such a master of medicine like Dr. Charles to uncover that this whole story was a very subtle, almost unconscious form of a suicide attempt.

  • @michcookies
    @michcookies 3 года назад +14

    This hit home. At the end of 2019 I had a break down, and I’d felt that way for a long time, but like he said, I felt like I didn’t have a reason to justify the way I felt, but you don’t need a reason, depression doesn’t discriminate.

  • @humancentipede33
    @humancentipede33 5 лет назад +12

    Dr.Charles is such an underrated character

  • @annetteneubauer3052
    @annetteneubauer3052 Год назад +4

    when the doctor emphasized: "ALL THE TIME!" , my eyes teared up it was so relatable.

  • @catherinelalrinnungi8787
    @catherinelalrinnungi8787 5 лет назад +6

    This doctor is awesome. So intelligent and compassionate.

  • @our.little.adventures
    @our.little.adventures 4 года назад +2

    “You can’t do this!!” “..... watch me”

  • @silverspector9718
    @silverspector9718 2 года назад +3

    This scene is so warm, like, Dr Charles was such an awesome written character. And Dr. Resses too, i connect with her a lot!

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 5 лет назад +117

    It’s so sad that people have to put on a mask and pretend to be happy when they’re suffering inside :(

  • @dksdmusic
    @dksdmusic 2 года назад +3

    Dr. Charles: “You’re not alone Mr.”
    *proceed to leave him alone*

  • @sarahmarkus695
    @sarahmarkus695 Год назад +2

    I just wanted to give that guy a hug,

  • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
    @notwerkinginthishouse8634 4 года назад +5

    I love how this doctor is really smart and sympathetic

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 2 года назад +5

    I am diagnosed with depression. The worst part, is that beyond all this self doubt and guilt, people will often make it worse by reinforcing those messages of "you have no reason to be sad", "it's your fault, you are pessimistic", "you have everything, be grateful!". It took me long, painful years to get help because of that. Don't even know how I survived.

    • @joanneng6166
      @joanneng6166 Год назад

      God loves you.
      God says "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5)
      Jesus is a Friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24) What a friend we have in Jesus! 🙂🥰❤
      Jesus says 'I am The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' (John 14:6)
      'For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him, will not perish but have everlasting life.' (John 3:16) (Eternal life with Jesus in heaven / paradise versus eternal hell and damnation for all who reject Him.
      'God saved us not because of righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy...' (Titus 3:5)
      'Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In His great mercy, He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.' (1 Peter 1:3)
      Jesus Christ left all the glory of heaven and came down to earth through the vehicle of the womb of Virgin Mary. When the Holy Spirit came upon her, she conceived, even though she was never with a man. Jesus Christ was Fully God, Fully Man.
      Jesus Christ lived 33 years on earth. He healed the sick, caused the blind to see, the deaf to hear, the lame to walk, cast out demons, even raised the dead!
      Jesus Christ chose to suffer and lay down His life for you and I on the humble wooden Cross, for our sins (moral wrongdoings eg lies, stealing, selfishness, unforgiveness, hate, jealousy, greed, lust, adultery, murder etc etc). He laid down His life for all although He was perfect and sinless. He knew no sin, did no sin, in Him was no sin. He was the God-man who reconciled sinful man back to God (who is Holy, Perfect). He was the Representative of Man, as the Perfect Sacrifice, for God's holiness cannot co-exist with sin, and necessitates a Perfect Sacrifice as sin offering. This is so that Man can now come freely to God to HisThrone of Grace to receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
      God loves man (whom He created) and this necessitates the Son of God, Jesus Christ, to be the sacrifice to reconcile man back to God. It pained God the Father immeasurably, but it was the Only Way.
      'For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.' (Romans 3:23).
      'For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.' (Romans 6:23) HALLELUJAH!
      Jesus Christ was brutally tortured, given stripe after stripe on His bare body using the Roman whip with ferocious hooks attached to the whip, that clawed out His flesh until He could see His own bones, and no sliver of flesh was left. He became so disfigured His face knew no form. He was spat upon, mocked at. When the time came for Him to depart earth, He said 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing.' ( Luke 23:34). He had no bitterness. He was at peace.
      Jesus Christ became obedient unto death, even death on the Cross! The worst form of punishment of that time.
      But God the Father raised Jesus from the dead after 3 days! PRAISE GOD! He is now seated at the right hand of God the Father in heaven. HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE!
      I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE OF JESUS! 3 YEARS AGO, ONE MORNING WHEN I JUST WOKE UP AND MY MIND WAS STILL BLANK, I LITERALLY HEARD A VERY KIND VOICE SAYING TO ME 'HELLO, CHILD OF GOD!' IT WAS INSTANTLY THE RECOGNIZABLE VOICE OF JESUS! THERE WAS NO ONE AROUND ME OR IN THE HOUSE! I WILL NEVER FORGET SUCH A ONCE IN A LIFETIME PRECIOUS ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS HIMSELF! 🥰❤❤❤🙏 I PROMISE IT'S MY MOST UNFORGETTABLE, PRIZED, SPECIAL AND PRECIOUS EXPERIENCE! HALLELUJAH! HE IS RISEN! HE IS ALIVE! JUST AS THE WORD OF GOD SAID. EVERY WORD OF GOD IS FLAWLESS! I FEEL A DUTY TO SHARE! KEEP YOUR HOPE IN HIM ALIVE! 🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👍👍👍
      JESUS WAS OBEDIENT UNTO DEATH ON THE CROSS. AS SUCH, GOD THE FATHER GAVE HIM THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE ALL NAMES! THAT AT THE NAME OF JESUS, EVERY KNEE SHOULD BOW, IN HEAVEN, ON EARTH, AND UNDER THE EARTH, AND EVERY TONGUE ACKNOWLEDGE THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. (Philippians 2:10-11)
      JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON A SECOND TIME. ON THAT DAY ALL WILL SEE HIM, THEN ACKNOWLEDGE TOO LATE THAT HE ALONE IS LORD OF ALL. DON'T WAIT TILL THEN TO RECEIVE HIM. IT WILL BE TOO LATE! IT'S TRUE, TOMORROW IS NOT GUARANTEED. RECEIVE JESUS NOW. PRAY TO JESUS SAYING "LORD JESUS, I REPENT OF MY SINS. COME INTO MY HEART, I WILL MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOUR."
      IF YOU DECLARE WITH YOUR MOUTH "JESUS IS LORD," AND BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART GOD RAISED HIM FROM THE DEAD, YOU WILL BE SAVED. (ROMANS 10:9)
      IF YOU DID, ALL HEAVEN REJOICES!!! 😇🥰🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤HALLELUJAH!!! GO TO A BIBLE-BASED CHURCH, AND KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE, NO MATTER WHAT!
      GOD HAS AN AMAZING PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE! MAY YOU REACH THE FULLNESS OF YOUR DESTINY AND HIGH CALLING IN HIM! ABOVE ALL, MAY YOU INCREASE IN THE KNOWLEDGE AND REVELATION OF GOD HIMSELF. GOD BE WITH YOU 🙂🙏

  • @nurlindafsihotang49
    @nurlindafsihotang49 5 лет назад +73

    Reminds me of ex client of mine. Incredibly successful, beautiful family, take his own life with slow dosage of cyanide. Our demons dont care how successful we are. They are still there and everyone could suffers.

  • @ZainabAli-ik8rf
    @ZainabAli-ik8rf 2 года назад +3

    "You can't do this!"
    *"I- i can actually.."*

  • @urdadsfaveratbag9483
    @urdadsfaveratbag9483 5 лет назад +8

    Woah. This actually hit real close to home... When the psychiatrist started talking about how in the outside he put on a show I paused and really thought about myself... For the longest time I kept pushing myself to toughen up because sadness is weakness... But when he was explaining things I myself started crying...

  • @chloeandsparrow5895
    @chloeandsparrow5895 5 лет назад +4

    When he said he has no excuse that hit home like I know how you feel x

  • @petresko1041
    @petresko1041 2 года назад +2

    I've been hiding my depression and existential crisis from most family and friends for 8 years, except my parents.
    Acting like everything is fine for years has made me unable to vent properly and I can't cry over anything I've bottled up.
    My grandfather died from ulcer in 2016 and I cried about his passing 5-6 months later.
    Depression eats at your psyche. So get help before you end up like me with the concrete solid idea that you're beyond saving.
    No matter how well I do I always relapse and I've come to despise psychiatrists and psychologists.

    • @misspoppyseed3909
      @misspoppyseed3909 2 года назад

      You shouldn’t despise anyone. While it isn’t your fault that your brain chemistry is out of order it also isn’t their fault that you relapse despite their efforts.
      If you honestly trust the people around you then you’d trust them to help you. And if you think that after 8 years of depression that you can’t tell anyone, maybe you should try asking somebody to do it for you.

  • @mariasisu2882
    @mariasisu2882 4 года назад +1

    i looove love love Dr. Charles. He is so kind and dedicated. He cares about everyone and he is a great doctor because he sees the signs even if they are almost inexistent.

  • @mazelpaiva1556
    @mazelpaiva1556 2 года назад +3

    I just wanna say, for anyone who has been depressed for so long, motivational videos as background noise, stopping alcohol, sugar and doing prolonged fasting has helped me a whole lot. In case anyone else needed someplace to start.

  • @cybernautadventurer
    @cybernautadventurer 2 года назад +3

    The worst part about depression is that, if you're unlucky to be around family who are toxic, they will be angry at you for being depressed. They will say stuff like ''why can't you just wake up and smell the roses?'' and ''it's not like you have cancer and have a year to live'' and worst of all ''your misery is affecting everyone around you'' -> that last one cuts deepest and is what can make the depressed person kill themselves.
    I was unfortunate enough to have a mother with undiagnosed bipolar who would say all of the above to me whenever I got depressed. So I learned to try and either keep my feelings to myself and not share them (NOT THE RIGHT THING TO DO) or cut off people around me so my depression wouldn't affect them.
    Even since getting treatment, my mother refused to empathise with me or try to understand that depression is a real illness that you can't just ''will away''. Sadly, as a result, I've had to cut her out of my life, permanently.

    • @Shadragz69
      @Shadragz69 2 года назад

      Don’t worry am secretly depressed but I’m really good at hiding it and I don’t really tell adults cause they don’t understand

    • @JabamiLain
      @JabamiLain 2 года назад

      @@Shadragz69 then find someone you see as an equal and that you can trust, not an hierarchly superior like an adult.

    • @Shadragz69
      @Shadragz69 2 года назад

      @@JabamiLain yh I have but it doesn’t help

    • @JabamiLain
      @JabamiLain 2 года назад

      @@Shadragz69 because you feel you shouldn't drag them to your problems, or they remind you too much of adults ?

    • @dars5229
      @dars5229 2 года назад

      People with chronic depression tend to be VERY good at hiding it, especially from their families. That's why, when you hear stories of someone famous killing themselves, the people closest to them tend to say things like "I had no idea, they seemed alright to me. Everything just seemed normal with them." Of course it did, that's what they were aiming for.

  • @agni2003
    @agni2003 Год назад +2

    Wow, that man is a great actor!

  • @personhuman582
    @personhuman582 5 лет назад

    I just love this episode. There are so many powerful words that speak right to your heart.

  • @ciararosalee7564
    @ciararosalee7564 4 года назад +44

    the entire hospital after dr.charles forced the lawyer to stay: 👁👄👁

  • @andreahmmian1303
    @andreahmmian1303 5 лет назад +4

    When I fell into a depression that’s exactly what I thought too that I had no reason to be sad. I was so ashamed and never felt so lost in my mind. I didn’t feel me at all. I didn’t feel anything.. just emptiness. I got irritable because I just wanted to fix myself but I didn’t know how. Depression is real and it requires professional help. Never be ashamed that you need help💙

  • @olliejobson6371
    @olliejobson6371 5 лет назад +2

    This was such a wonderful portrayal of what it generally feels like to have depression

  • @camhopsmith8012
    @camhopsmith8012 5 лет назад +1

    I was so close to tears watching this that doctor is an incredible actor so is the depressed man

  • @irawilliams343
    @irawilliams343 5 лет назад +11

    I can very much relate to this lawyer. I didn't know I was depressed and I tried to be strong even though I know I wasn't. There's nothing wrong with asking for help.

  • @prurose8939
    @prurose8939 6 лет назад +42

    That's an all too real reality!

  • @harmoni__musicc
    @harmoni__musicc 3 года назад +5

    Dr Charles is so good even spotting a tiny dilemma he knows how to talk to people and they trust him

  • @MixieChan94
    @MixieChan94 3 года назад +2

    you don't need an excuse be sad,
    sadness is a valid emotion.
    so many people need to hear that...

  • @BiggerDreamer
    @BiggerDreamer Год назад +4

    I will say this is exactly why I hate shrinks they have the power to hold you against your will for 2 days and if they don't find anything they will MA break you then when you cry they say they were right I was in a similar situation fortunately for me I did not break and they had no choice but to release me