MEN’S PERSPECTIVE ON LOVE & HEARTBREAK | Adult Relationships with Rinaldi Jamugisa & Moses Karugaba

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  • Опубликовано: 6 мар 2024
  • This is our gift to the women this Women’s Day: the male perspective on heartbreak and navigating adult relationships.
    Thank you Rinaldi and Moses for joining us today.
    HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY LADIES.
    What’s your takeaway from this episode?
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  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  3 месяца назад +27

    This is our gift to the women this Women’s Day: the male perspective on heartbreak and navigating adult relationships.
    Thank you Rinaldi and Moses for joining us today.
    HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY LADIES.
    What’s your takeaway from this episode?
    Video credits:
    Production: Garage Group
    Set: Golden Tulip Kampala
    Outfits: Fashion Episode
    Shoes: Shoe Puzzle
    Hair: Zuri Luxury
    If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one.
    Follow us on:
    Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug
    Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove
    Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O...
    #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

    • @tumuhairweevas5258
      @tumuhairweevas5258 3 месяца назад +1

      I actually patted my back when Rinald said we should😢😢😢almost teared up ......thank you

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 3 месяца назад +47

    Big fact from Moses, "when women stop being emotional and crazy with you, you have been replaced", that's something I keep trying to tell people 🤩

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      😅😅😅

    • @twebazejoy6182
      @twebazejoy6182 3 месяца назад

      Eh, atte nga that's a tough one. So those of us who don't get emotional are at a disadvantage?! If he doesn't see me get crazy with him then he automatically assumes I'm not into him?????

    • @Deedor72
      @Deedor72 3 месяца назад

      😄

    • @clarekenyena5721
      @clarekenyena5721 3 месяца назад

      That's for a fact

  • @estherauma9353
    @estherauma9353 3 месяца назад +83

    I think we can agree that Rosette is really a good Host. Big ups Mrs. Ssegujja (hope I spelt it right😂)

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 3 месяца назад +53

    Racheal is being Racheal. She has completely refused to sanitize cheating. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Phi_semwezi
      @Phi_semwezi 3 месяца назад

      Right!! And I really love her for that. 😂she even asked for facts on the Joseph (father of Jesus) issue.

  • @mr.governor
    @mr.governor 3 месяца назад +11

    Rosette, i don't know whether you're reading my comment but thank you for being a very good moderator with your stellar kind of introduction and closing expression.

  • @stellapreciousmulungi9069
    @stellapreciousmulungi9069 3 месяца назад +45

    🥂
    To us who wake on Friday looking forward to Bumplove.

    • @mirriamatyang3419
      @mirriamatyang3419 3 месяца назад +1

      You can imagine I wrote a to do list and blocked out time for bumplove😂

    • @user-pz1it7tz6x
      @user-pz1it7tz6x 3 месяца назад

      Meeeee😊

  • @AllanKakinda1
    @AllanKakinda1 3 месяца назад +12

    There is need for a deeper conversation for people who do not want kids... I think people who do not want kids needs to be understood better... I am always bothered when people who want to have kids impose their thoughts and beliefs on others....

    • @kanisakisakyewanyama459
      @kanisakisakyewanyama459 3 месяца назад

      your so right personally am not a kids personally .infact am giving birth to help my dad settle and relax.

  • @MelyKab
    @MelyKab 3 месяца назад +14

    I can personally resonate with what Moses said, "When a woman stops being crazy and emotional with you, theres a problem" as someone who left my marriage, that was one of the first things that happened, you emotionally close off, and just start operating logically most of the time, 1+1=2. usually for some women, before a woman ever leaves physically, she had already left emotionally and in her mind. so this physical leaving is just a tip on iceberg. thank you bump love.

  • @aggya.a.k.8159
    @aggya.a.k.8159 3 месяца назад +4

    Moses could be Tyler Perry's brother - the resemblance is striking!

  • @fk5371
    @fk5371 3 месяца назад +8

    I liked the fact that these guests complemented each other. One seems to make decision based on religious values mostly and the other gave us the cultural perspective. Thanks for being candid when you shared. Moses is more of a realist although he was hushed when he brought up cheating. The hosts should allow the guests to share their experiences/views even when they disagree with them other than living in denial (some men will cheat eventually.........if not now, later in life no matter how religious regardless of whether they mention bible or lord lord😅)

  • @Tuongeemediahub
    @Tuongeemediahub 3 месяца назад +17

    Moses is such an intelligent man and he's speaking reality of what actually guys out here are doing.

  • @clairenakasi8042
    @clairenakasi8042 3 месяца назад +9

    Yeeeeeyyyy🎉🎉🎉 thanks for bringing Rinaldi back. His perspective on various matters is amazing!!

  • @blessingwandera2927
    @blessingwandera2927 3 месяца назад +10

    Rinaldi is the real one....
    Big ups to him

  • @fortunatetusiime5550
    @fortunatetusiime5550 3 месяца назад +6

    S-I-G-H!!!how i patiently waited for this boundlessly! Thank you so much ladies❤And to the gents, thank you for being so deliberate and international on bringing to the table a man's perspective. Now i am wiser!

  • @dianahkalibbala5121
    @dianahkalibbala5121 3 месяца назад +3

    My weekly dose of AWESOME! Love me some Bump Love and so proud of seeing the far that you've come. And love the show! 🎉

  • @ainembabazipenlope3139
    @ainembabazipenlope3139 3 месяца назад +2

    This is so beautiful to host men on the show. Hearing from their side gives us much more easier way to understand them

  • @KomanaKatangaTee
    @KomanaKatangaTee 3 месяца назад +4

    I’ve been waiting for an episode. Happy women’s day bump lovers ❤

  • @GodsPrincess256
    @GodsPrincess256 3 месяца назад +2

    wow❤I love the way Manuela's brother honors God 🎉

  • @KiraboSylivia-gp3wm
    @KiraboSylivia-gp3wm 3 месяца назад +6

    Thank you bumplovers for impacting my life

  • @esthernaluguza5897
    @esthernaluguza5897 3 месяца назад +4

    Banange the way men love children!!🤣🤣 I wish is the way they are all willing to take care of them

    • @athyjudy5682
      @athyjudy5682 3 месяца назад

      The way I was side eyeing seriously! If they could even treat their women with respect, there wouldn't be too many debates 😂

  • @user-go2vb5kf1w
    @user-go2vb5kf1w 3 месяца назад +1

    What a conversation on such a day!! Happy women's day ladies

  • @nabaziiwasharlotte5968
    @nabaziiwasharlotte5968 3 месяца назад +4

    Fridays are always bright because of bumpy love.thanks Ladies

  • @ssemudduabelambassadorhillview
    @ssemudduabelambassadorhillview 3 месяца назад +1

    This is a nice one on such a day... happy women's day ba sweet

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 3 месяца назад +3

    I strongly agree with Rinaldi,thanks for this powerful message

  • @claranorris1611
    @claranorris1611 3 месяца назад +4

    I will speak to the question of getting noticed by the men. I strongly believe that women need to get comfortable and good in what defines them. Because you can’t act to everyone’s definition just to draw them to you

  • @apio100
    @apio100 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks ladies for bringing in the men,they always spice up the show ❤❤

  • @gloriaclare8
    @gloriaclare8 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow
    Beautiful show ..thanks Bump Love

  • @isabellaagarura
    @isabellaagarura 3 месяца назад +4

    Love this show to the core❤

  • @InspiredbyBNatifu
    @InspiredbyBNatifu 3 месяца назад +6

    Happy Women's Day Ladies❤🎉 Rach, that hot pink looks good on you.

  • @mpagirosemary9603
    @mpagirosemary9603 3 месяца назад +29

    Rosette this look!❤

    • @gift2362
      @gift2362 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah❤

    • @lamwakanancy3217
      @lamwakanancy3217 3 месяца назад +1

      Kumbe u also noticed! Rosette is just looking mwaa❤

    • @gift2362
      @gift2362 3 месяца назад

      @@lamwakanancy3217 walai she is glowing

  • @marthaakora306
    @marthaakora306 3 месяца назад +13

    Nah it can't just be me who feels like this episode was too short🥹🥹 it's always amazing when men are hosted

  • @doreennamujju9718
    @doreennamujju9718 3 месяца назад +4

    Happy women's day

  • @ayebazibwebabra5368
    @ayebazibwebabra5368 3 месяца назад +1

    What a great choice of such authentic men....thank you for sharing your perspectives on the different topics...bump love oyee... Sandra and Rebecca... God bless you...

  • @mknasser6949
    @mknasser6949 3 месяца назад +4

    Counsel's heartbreak stories are mashing me up 😂

  • @zaneleshongwe6133
    @zaneleshongwe6133 3 месяца назад +3

    This was a very interesting episode, a big thanks to our brothers for empowering us, I have learned a lot from these discussions

  • @InspiredbyBNatifu
    @InspiredbyBNatifu 3 месяца назад +3

    I like the truth of Moses's submission. He is actually bringing in the cultural beliefs and practices of the Western Uganda...

  • @helenbwesigye6075
    @helenbwesigye6075 3 месяца назад +3

    Eeh, Rosette, your outfit is so cute. Rach, looking hot in pink. Thank you for bringing us the men's perspective, really insightful.

  • @brendadawa4165
    @brendadawa4165 3 месяца назад +3

    Banange Sandra and Rebecca have the best men any woman would wish to have. Rinaldi being present during labor and Moses spoiling her wife. These are rare virtues to find in men. Flowers flowers flowers to y’all. The emotional nature of women is obvious even for the boss babes who are assertive in other aspects get so soft and calm when they’re with their men (that is if the man is pampering her like Moses does😂)

  • @story-of-mine
    @story-of-mine 3 месяца назад

    🎉🎉🎉🎉The team at bumplove thanks for always thinking about us....

  • @edgarkyeyune7729
    @edgarkyeyune7729 3 месяца назад +1

    Fantastic moderation, Rosette. You nailed it! 😉
    Very enjoyable episode!
    ❤️ from Dubai, U.A.E 🐿️🍃

  • @mercylinebirungi4485
    @mercylinebirungi4485 3 месяца назад +2

    Ooh Rinaldi, very brilliant

  • @nshemeireaddah5313
    @nshemeireaddah5313 3 месяца назад +1

    Well done Rossette on the hosting

  • @nayigasylvia3139
    @nayigasylvia3139 3 месяца назад +1

    Ladies your flowers to me,keep it up

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 3 месяца назад +2

    You ladies look really amazing

  • @kihembotrust3583
    @kihembotrust3583 3 месяца назад +1

    Well well done my Ladies ❤❤❤❤❤...

  • @jackien404
    @jackien404 3 месяца назад

    I really appreciated the sincerity and honesty from the men.
    We need more discussions across the genders!

  • @user-rz7ds7yb2p
    @user-rz7ds7yb2p 3 месяца назад +1

    Was waiting ❤❤❤

  • @effect9180
    @effect9180 3 месяца назад +2

    Rachel came ready for today's show

  • @viviennemwebe2586
    @viviennemwebe2586 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you gentlemen
    I have really learnt a lot

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow,Moses really said it very well 👏 👌

  • @ugandankitchen.
    @ugandankitchen. 3 месяца назад +14

    I love it when men are hosted on the show to get their perspective. I cant wait though for the muslim perspective edition.

    • @kstephen88694
      @kstephen88694 3 месяца назад +2

      Letsfixit counseling would be the best guest she does alot of Muslim based challenges

    • @ugandankitchen.
      @ugandankitchen. 3 месяца назад

      @@kstephen88694
      She is good and i appreciate her but i think we have other muslim women who are in different fields that have alot to educate the world about women in islam.

    • @mabelkintu6901
      @mabelkintu6901 3 месяца назад +2

      My takeaway is not to propose to a man. I made the first move in my relationship even though my husband proposed to me but he would always tell me how I made the first move on him every time we would have an argument. 😢

  • @nabiryeasia9091
    @nabiryeasia9091 3 месяца назад +3

    Ahaaaaaa that journey to Kigali 😂😂😂😂😂it's yet another bump love Friday ❤❤❤

  • @MariamGisha
    @MariamGisha 3 месяца назад +1

    Weldone ladies.lots of ❤❤❤❤

  • @Asha_Ashemeza
    @Asha_Ashemeza 3 месяца назад +3

    Happy women's bump love and bump lovers

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 3 месяца назад +5

    Moses said he died in his story 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. That heart disappointment story was so funny.
    Great conversation.
    Thanks Bump love for always understanding the assignment.......👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @clarekenyena5721
      @clarekenyena5721 3 месяца назад

      Just know he is a funny guy,you will laugh your lungs out,more so doing it in his mother tongue...eeeehhhh

  • @rachelnaigaga6634
    @rachelnaigaga6634 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow i loved the show, and the guys shared candidly. I was glued its one of those shows that get so captivating! Thanks @bumploveug

  • @evejkay6749
    @evejkay6749 3 месяца назад +3

    Totally agree with Moses, when we ladies stop throwing those bu little tantrums, just know that we are done...we may be there physically but emotionally we left a long time ago 😅

  • @kirabo.mariam5891
    @kirabo.mariam5891 3 месяца назад +5

    It's a Friday. Happy women's day ladies ❤❤

  • @marykipingili
    @marykipingili 3 месяца назад +3

    Happy Women's day bump loverrsss

  • @stellahnamugerwa9433
    @stellahnamugerwa9433 3 месяца назад +2

    when we fight we are also hurting but sometimes we need it

  • @carolainembabazi6488
    @carolainembabazi6488 3 месяца назад +1

    After flowers...this killed me 😂😂...it was lovely as always❤❤❤🎉

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 3 месяца назад +4

    The discomfort @Rachael had when the lawyer was justifying cheating 😂😂😂

  • @clarekenyena5721
    @clarekenyena5721 3 месяца назад +1

    You forgot to day that Karugaba is a good and comical MC,I have laughed my lungs out at every function he has Mceed, never a dull moment around him.

  • @TheFranny31
    @TheFranny31 3 месяца назад +5

    Bump Love, dating over 40 or 50....what is out there for the middle aged Woman?

  • @talemwaharriet1108
    @talemwaharriet1108 3 месяца назад

    Bravo to these gents you presented to us ĺong live bump love l love the reality they expressed ❤❤❤❤

  • @julietkutegeka1513
    @julietkutegeka1513 3 месяца назад +2

    Hehe Rach is ready for you guys this time round cheii

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama 3 месяца назад +6

    We've been missing their perspectives banange

  • @hossie101
    @hossie101 3 месяца назад +3

    When intelligent bakiga men talk❤

  • @ahweraprimah3861
    @ahweraprimah3861 3 месяца назад

    Big ups rosette, you should be a tv host

  • @harmonyalicia
    @harmonyalicia 3 месяца назад +2

    Its nice hearing from the men as well...thank you bump love

  • @bagumajulietkengonzi1908
    @bagumajulietkengonzi1908 3 месяца назад +1

    Pumla and Rosette are looking 👌👌👌👌

  • @n.sophie2001
    @n.sophie2001 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm just speechless today😢

  • @kwagalaisaac3888
    @kwagalaisaac3888 3 месяца назад +1

    Who brought this gender to our show nga they were spot on.....I love the fact that they talk about values, culture ....name it...Mwebale Kujja

  • @malaikamalaika4062
    @malaikamalaika4062 3 месяца назад +3

    Hahahaha...I see my gango, Moses Karugaba...Hello Mo.

  • @arnoldasiimwe1819
    @arnoldasiimwe1819 3 месяца назад +1

    Some truth's from both m3n!!! 😊

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 3 месяца назад +3

    These two men are such gentlemen!! Great panel 🎉

  • @daphinekakooza
    @daphinekakooza 3 месяца назад +3

    Me now the Pumla gang. @love u gal.bump love is my hero

  • @mercylinebirungi4485
    @mercylinebirungi4485 3 месяца назад +2

    Yes Moses, Devaluing is the word😅

  • @DoreenNitusiima
    @DoreenNitusiima 3 месяца назад +1

    Rinaldi❤

  • @user-vj2di3rz1r
    @user-vj2di3rz1r 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi bro Moses...big ups

  • @zirosavage6653
    @zirosavage6653 3 месяца назад

    The show is well stated in my situation heartbreak and betrayal the other gender (females) thy disappoint i highly believe i have done the best for her

  • @julietnakitende2092
    @julietnakitende2092 3 месяца назад +1

    ahhh Moses is so hilarious 😂😂😂😂 the disappointment stories killed me 😂

  • @NCN358
    @NCN358 3 месяца назад

    Pumla my girl this outfit is mwah

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 3 месяца назад +9

    Not Pumla checking us before we start arguing with the men 😂 Kubanga some lines said eh... but you've got to trust we'd disagree respectfully, we are afterall Bumplovers 😄
    Tulina empiisa.
    Moses' submission on cheating has so much thats rooted in good old hypocrisy.
    Glad Racheal called it cap.

  • @kirabo.mariam5891
    @kirabo.mariam5891 3 месяца назад +5

    Rach i love your outfit ❤❤❤.
    Pumla you absolutely look very amazing ❤❤❤

  • @phatiezcooks
    @phatiezcooks 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow thanks Men 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I have also learnt something 😂😂😂I need to become more submissive walai 😊😊😊 thanks ba dia ,those things of proposing to men 😂😂😂 🤣 nkivuddemu bamikwano thanks for the show 😊😊we love you guys

  • @judithkuyah6282
    @judithkuyah6282 3 месяца назад +3

    Moses is hilarious 😅

  • @nakymercy8447
    @nakymercy8447 3 месяца назад +9

    On behalf of all Rwandan women, we are sorry 😂😂😂. Yet another great episode ❤

  • @zipporahtabuti3776
    @zipporahtabuti3776 3 месяца назад

    I’m the firsttttt🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @edwidgeankunda6863
    @edwidgeankunda6863 3 месяца назад +1

    Wawoo, this is massive

  • @stellahnamugerwa9433
    @stellahnamugerwa9433 3 месяца назад +1

    money isnt everything but everything needs money

  • @Vivilaks075
    @Vivilaks075 3 месяца назад +1

    Manuela’s family is full of cuties I guess. Much love

  • @sharonnamutosi657
    @sharonnamutosi657 3 месяца назад +5

    I vehemently disagree with Moses saying that God had no problem with cheating...
    Ideally God would have created Adam Eve and prolly a second wife....for him but that was not the case.
    See..
    Marriage is biblically the two becoming one...
    It's not a western concept it is the original context that marriage was designed...
    Unfortunately after the fall of man...We live in a now imperfect world where so many things that are happening do not ordinarily align with God's perfect will
    Needless to say God's mercies are never-ending.
    Also when you read the scriptures, It is true Jesus had brothers but there's nothing that says they weren't Mary's children and if you notice...
    In the scriptures when His siblings were looking for him at the temple, they came with His mother...I believe that implies that these were her children...
    Anyway...
    That's my humble opinion.
    Let's not use scripture to justify cheating

  • @nsiimentacathy3676
    @nsiimentacathy3676 3 месяца назад +1

    Rinaldi said that, they won’t stop at 2 kids, they will keep doing what they got to do, and let God do the rest………I got stuck there at keep doing what they got to do and not stopping 😂😂😂😂😂like I wish he knew how it sounded 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @InspiredbyBNatifu
    @InspiredbyBNatifu 3 месяца назад +2

    This conversation should have been longer than an hour....in my humble opinion (imho). Just when it was getting in the depth of cultural perspectives of cheating as raised by Moses...it ended...You needed to probe more on Moses's cultural perspectives and values. That whole subject of children looking a like, widow inheritance...etc...I have conducted some research in the villages of South Western Uganda among fishing communities living near Queen Elizabeth National Park. I was so shocked about their gender norms cultural values.....Long discussion....though.

  • @amazingmary8805
    @amazingmary8805 3 месяца назад +2

    "Kids looking after you as you age"😮 depends on where! In America tekiriiyo...😊

  • @Vivilaks075
    @Vivilaks075 3 месяца назад +1

    I agree with Rinaildi much as a woman is in love at least they should never tell the guy frankly. The man won’t ever value you. He will still go hunt for the one he loves.

  • @namutebiswabrah1371
    @namutebiswabrah1371 3 месяца назад +1

    I love all you ladies. Each of you with different personalities... you give view from all different aspects of life but how I wish you could at least invite a Muslim for that view too. ❤

  • @iraenhe286
    @iraenhe286 3 месяца назад +2

    Mrs. Mwine almost bit counsel's head off 😂😂

  • @carrolchidziwo6560
    @carrolchidziwo6560 3 месяца назад +1

    Happy International Women's day ladies. We celebrate you !!!