The Guys' Take | What It Takes For A Man To Stay In A Bad Marriage Ft The Aleph Cafe
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- You heard from us the ladies....now its the guys' turn.
Today they're laying it all down for us: from co-parenting to side chicks to the dreaded "We need to talk", the guys are here to talk about it all.
PS: Tonight is a good night to warm up at The Aleph Cafe with a coffee. Or a beer!
Thanks Gaetano and Marcus for joining us today!
Subscribe to their channel here @TheLastRoundUg
#AskTheGuys
You heard from us the ladies....now its the guys' turn.
Today they're laying it all down for us: from co-parenting to side chicks to the dreaded "We need to talk", the guys are here to talk about it all.
PS: Tonight is a good night to warm up at The Aleph Cafe with a coffee. Or a beer!
Thanks Gaetano and Marcus for joining us today!
Subscribe to their channel here @Last Round Uganda
#AskTheGuys
Most people think marriage is all about kuwooma, anfukira amazzi etc… There’re more pressing issues in marriage!!! I think everyone that wants to be in a long lasting relationship/marriage should have professional pre-marital counselling, credit check, take some time to know the person before committing, talk about things you can tolerate and not, but most importantly setting realistic expectations. Great episode ❤ Canada
New subscriber watching from Jamaica! 🇯🇲 Keep up the great job! 👍🏽💯⭐😁
Hello Bump love and Lovers, i feel like you forgot to talk about finances, women kuguma because they have no where to start and they fight for their marriage because they have put in alot into that marriage to get what they have but a man goes and gets another girl and takes all what this woman has worked for or has been patiently been waiting for and he gives the best to the other girl. That is a blow to the head.
This is the number one reason for 'kuguma' honestly, men think they are tired but the woman is thrice as tired. They just have no where to start after investing their all in the marriage.
This point is underrated but makes so much sense.
This is true. We'll keep this conversation for another episode. Thanks for the reminder. P
I think this ladies have understand that financial life can starts any think and any where that I agree
True. Not just financial but physical as well. Women are considered more attractive the younger they are. Even more so if they haven’t had any children. So a woman who has put 10+ years into a marriage and had a couple of babies…her options on the single market are significantly lower if she leaves. So not only is it hard for her to start over financially, but it’s also a lonely path to take trying to find a companion. Women are incredibly disadvantaged in a divorce.
That part where BRIAN MULONDO came in was the winner 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It was the winner for me too! P
Hatty banange thank you for introducing me to bump love these ladies have really bright light back in my life iam just watching episode ku episode darkness in me is going slowly by slowly,I will be fine .
I like how random yet collected this episode is.
Talking about expectations in relationships is very important indeed.👏👏👏
That is so nice, that you're good friends with your ex wife...i was married in a relationship for 24 years...have 2 children...and we got divorced ,and i remarried and both my present husband and my ex husband get along great!! My ex husband celebrated his 60th birthday party a few months ago...and my husband and i went...its good to get along for our children and grandchildren...because our children are grown...and we have 3 grandchildren.
The truth the male version of kuguma,is getting a side chick panadol
I believe I’ll be a good mother in future because of this channel 😘💪 big up ladies
So, the BIG discovery is that men do not kuguma 😳😲 because they know the mother will take care of the children 🙆♂️
Gweeeeeeeeeeeeee it hit us too! P
They're lying. They also kuguma
For some men, they don’t need to be unhappy at home to get side chics. It’s a few of them that get side chic as last resort
True dear some just get them just for no good reason
Good to see Gaetano of Big Brother Africa 2003 from Uganda👏. I am from Namibia🇳🇦 and enjoying every show of Bumb Love🤣
Uwalapo...
Welcome welcome
Yes to Namibiaaaaaaaaaa. Karibu! P
I like the way Racheal always brings back the conversation to the centre of gravity with her questions. Also kudos to Marcus for contextualizing the topic with your personal story.. please write that book
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She is out North star for sure. P
This episode was really fun with very realistic and candid conversations. Marcus' experience brought the point on co-parenting home! I really love Angie's mature submissions!
Bump love ,this is so good, also invite Salvado and Mathew Nabwiso to hear from them too on any dad edition, or else their wives
Good idea! P
This was one of my favorite episodes ....it's good to know guys talk deeply too! Those co-parenting stories were a shocker. Great show ladies fun & informative ! I love Manuela's dress!
The expectation conversation....very important 👌👌👌👌thank you Marcus for pointing it out. I wish every couple could embrace it instead of relying on assumptions.
From experience, most people have it but it’s forgotten and often no written evidence AND dating is often like an interview, people ‘pretend’ or are flexible to agree because they want the job .
Those are Kenyan Women, and I'm a Kenyan Woman heavily pregnant carrying a Ugandan Child....lol
Most men, even when you discuss things & agree on a way forward . And then later it happens again - they will STILL throw in “the don’t bring it up again” line. They don’t seem to appreciate that the ONLY reason you bring up something again is because it’s happening AGAIN!! May be Not the same exact incident but the same principle is still at play. Eg of not communicating, or not sticking to the agreed plan…or something ..… and then Nolemwa…🙆🏾♀️😩.
That gender. 😂😂😂😂Some use it as an escape and to silence a woman. Any effort to discuss or have a difficult conversation is labelled nagging 😳
Then they call us nagging! Banange. Olemwa! P
She is right sex after 40 is the boom; am in my early 40s and boy o boy am I having the sex of my life ❤❤❤❤ only if you know!!! and I pray we all live to experience it🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
When Rachael's brain had a glitch at 34:43 while processing that scenario 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Mwanawe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
These topics are everything for the young generation. We are dealing with things older than us, and this, is a guide! Thank you'll
True
It's been 2yrs since I landed on this channel. It gets better everytime. My baby will b two soon n I my parenting is top notch 🥰 I feel it. Tho my friends tell me too
Am with you on this
Cheers to Top notch parenting 👌🏾. P
You have made my evening! Thank you guys! Talking from experience!
Please do a part 2. What a beautiful episode! I have laughed so hard and so silly...thanks guys! You are just getting better everyday ❤️❤️❤️
Marcus, how will serious conversations be had when people are just sexing, sexting, and texting 😂🤣🤣People underestimate the way sex can blind you. The focus is on sexual compatibility sijui butterflies. Ask couples if they went for Genetic tests. Very few. You could both be sickle cell carriers. Some don't even go for HIV tests. Finances, personal career goals,...The focus is on the mikolo and kusamba gown( festivities). Mbu love conquers all🤭🤭🤭
I dated a ugandan(muganda) it didn't work... dating from another country isn't easy 🇰🇪
This was so lit. Marcus and Gae just fired up the conversation . Well done Bump love thus episode was amazing
I like this conversation. I have an ask, what is kuguma?
By the way i'm from South Africa.
Loosely translated “be strong” “harden up”….
Being patient in the marriage
this conversation, ur talking about marriage and really last week we talked about divorce and were in plans of it. plz pray for.
What i took home from this amazing, yet hilarious episode was:
Be honest from the get go.
Talk about what are your expectations as a couple and of each other.
Level up on your maturity. 🇰🇪
Best show ive watched in a while. Kudos to you guys. Ive learned so much.
A broke man wil stay because of good life the woman is providing, so you would think of where you going to stay yet your team " bakuwasa" so you wil definitely stay.
I do not know why I dint know abt bump love😮 it's my second month now following u guys, & am getting addicted that I have gone thru all yo shows in the past, good job ladies
Am one of the men who doesn't go to the bar!!!Pumla... knows we do exist...as well...
But the only problem I see here is that your all generalizing everyone. Me I think people are all different and a woman should understand their man. Some men go to the bar others don't, some enjoy angry sex others don't soo it's a matter of individuality.
The guys came of a little shallow on this issue, Reasonable men don't just run off the way you put it. As a matter of fact most women would leave before the man even thinks of it!
Wow my ladies have come let me prepare ma self
Thank y’all for having this conversation. It’s going to sit with me for a while…believe me you have fueled me for a lifetime. Merci 🍻
I think I should watch again, thanks so much men. Come back another day
this is totally not on topic. can something better be done about the sound quality and recording quality. its not bad, perfectionist speaking
Wait Angie what? I feel like if it was a mistake having a child with a married man, then one should stop at that, heal, and then find someone else and consider proper background check
The way Brian walks in 🤣🤣🤣
He was dying
Finally yay I kept checking this channel since I woke up at 8:00 😍😍.
Me too
Am Ugandan working in Rwanda Kigali, who always thought am far away from home, I have just watched just two episodes, I feel just close to home, thanks Pumla, your my favorite, mbagalanyo mwe❤
It's always good to have the guys' perspective on these issues!
I felt the another round element in there with the" ( angry sex)"convoy.This episode was totally different in a sense that it brought out a different side of the girls.iam rolling on the floor.
They are not talking as moms today but as lovers ❤ 😂
When my husband goes on for another woman I first check myself before talking to him then after I talk to him at night
My man friend just said he will kuguma because it’s hard to find girls to wife 😅
Next episode should be on how Men prefer being in "safe place" bar even when everything is fine back home. Like coming home late being their lifestyle. Otherwise m enjoying the episode
Nope! No exes in the matrimonial home. There is absolutely no need to fraternize with any exes. They should only talk together about their under-18 children. Let's not give room to the devil. God bless. 🙏🏽
I just love you Nabachwa❤❤❤
Please one day host the Presenter of Marital bliss of UBC
I am like Pumla. I have never understood angry sex. Sex is so spiritual for me that if my heart is not in the right place my body won't respond very well either.
Riiiiiiiiigggggghhhhhhhhhttttttttt!!!!! P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 in all episodes I myself a lot in you and you in me. Virtual sisters❤️
I wish I can meet Marcus in person!! his love and divorce story is more like mine
PUMLA is so beautiful
Thank you honey 😘. P
Pumla is my best friend in my head.love her
Loved this episode big time big time laughter and lessons....kudos 🎉😂😂
Best case sido haha. But men have Sidoz even when there is nothing.
But sidos in most cases are the ones that cause marriage problems. Why has it come at the bottom.
Marc😮us please stop lying ex can don that .
Bump love ladies are my Ssengaz 😂😂😂😂this show makes my day
Money and influential family ties are usually the only reasons why men stay in bad marriages. It is hard for a man to leave a lady from a wealthy and influential family. Otherwise men don't KUGUMA
I didnt want this show to end.......Damn Marcus...we need a movie and a book
Me either
Ahhhh this is now oba one of my best episode of bump love, Marcus is a rare version....
Ladies this was sp insightful and beautiful
Marcus noo😢 life is real
How u b out with your ex
Thank you beautiful ladies for such an amazing show. I have loved this topic. Well thank you Marcus for being yourself and above all being good friends with your ex wife and co-parenting and big thanks to your wife for doing an amazing job, because most step moms in Uganda are not easy at all.
thank you so much we appreciate
Pumla and Angie I like the maturity 👌
Truth is if you're truly done with with someone you're done. People who fight after devorce are not over each other. Also Marcus needs to make sure his current wife is truly in love with him. Because when women don't care it means they don't even give a fuck who you talk to or go out with. Just opinion
Wen i saw Gaetano......... Bbbasi... Twende
Divorce united club 🤣🤣🤣Pumla. I enjoyed this episode.
I need some lessons from Marcus's wife
Angie always looks good…I hope I can get to look even just have as good when I’m older
This was a beautiful episode…. Thx for bringing those gentlemen. My take home is, being ready to have the uncomfortable conversations n also managing expectations in marriage or relationships.
Nkutumidde
i loved this episode so very much, hearing from the guy persperctive helped me fix my behaivours toward my partner,thanks guys very much
Am always checking wheather you have uploaded a new episode 🤩
Marcus's wife should be a Target or someone like her next on the talk about cooperating this is so different to hear I saw y'all wow I did too....like how how how does she do that????
So much to learn here@ Bump love
This is profound and a great revelation that men do talk to their guys and in depth
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How I have enjoyed this episode I kept reversing back and forth 😊 this is wonderful...but Marcus ur the limit 🙌
IT Feels so natural i like this show
Buh Pumla, 😂so outspoken.gwe manuela ne mulondo
Bump Love yo inspirational keep it up ladies I Love you all❤️
This all show made me cry, sad and informative I wish my ex husband could watch this
Where do Muslim men go ??😅
You guys made me laugh...🤣🤣start to finish! The gents were amazing 👏 keep bringing these interesting collaboz!!!
I’m not even married yet but the bar is not a safe place ! Period
Please get Marcus a dwink whenever he returns on the expectation point 👌👌👌
Marcus raises a very vital aspect that’s usually ignored & down played by most couples before marriage; THE EXPECTATIONS CONVERSATION.📌👏🏽👍🏽
Anti the butterflies and wedding preparations take precedence. Honey have you eaten, honey can we meet up for some iig jig.....banange my gown....then it's all about sexual compatibility. What about ALL the other compatibilities that are needed in a long term relationship 😂😂😂
@@anonnona6433 okitegera 😂
And yet it's really the most important aspect. We do need to have more of these conversations. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 couldn’t agree more.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Malaria after can we talk phrase..🤣🤣🤣
This was a beautiful episode. Absolutely beautiful! Never have I seen the Mars Vs Venus notion come so true. Thank you Marcus for sharing your life with us. Very inspiring. It is possible to co-parent.
Keep the guys coming they make the show better
Oh ladies! People raise their children well! Thank you for sharing this eye opener to mature difficult lessons!💕
some earrings bestie Angie😇
Beautiful episode 🥰.. thank you guys
I really enjoyed and learned, more episodes please,
Kindly host ko lucky mbabazi kanyomozi especially on the topic concerning relationship and sex
Bump love I am a huggeee fan...Racheal...I love you you are my sister in my head..
Have laughed till de end wow
I hear the hottest guys in Kampala, alright let them represent others.....