INTIMACY AFTER BABY | What It's *Really* Like....ft Golden Tulip

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @nombulelonhongo8307
    @nombulelonhongo8307 Год назад +11

    You girls, honestly, I like your truthfulness and openness. That's why I like watching your shows.. One sentence: God bless you abundantly!

  • @arthuratukunda5305
    @arthuratukunda5305 Год назад +21

    Absolutely brilliant listening to this. I am a man not yet a father but i have enjoyed it. I have helped mothers deliver babies before and my respect for women increased tremendously after these experiences. As men, we need more education by listening to you so that we can understand these issues also from your perspective.

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 Год назад +16

    @Angie, I landed on your Pink Conconut Decor You Tube. I was inspired and really impressed with your creative side. You blew me away. You are phenomenal❤❤

  • @fraulamprecht9364
    @fraulamprecht9364 Год назад +23

    Thank you ladies for selflessly sharing your experiences. I'm definitely going to rewatch this with my husband. You have no idea how many marriages this is going to save. You're all amazing

  • @namboozenabiirah708
    @namboozenabiirah708 Год назад +9

    Thank you ladies for this❤. Manuela...thank you for opening up on this. I feel like your honesty set pace for the conversation. Love you all!!

  • @joycenjoroge2434
    @joycenjoroge2434 Год назад +3

    I dunno how I came across this channel but I'm LOVING IT!I love your conversations, the honesty and authenticity. Thanks ladies

  • @atuhairejackline5623
    @atuhairejackline5623 Год назад +6

    This takes us back to the little little things, An understanding and a supportive partner during pregnancy and after child birth, helps a lot emotionally and mentally because we go through alot. Ladies u have just taken me back 😥

  • @harrietnamyalo4996
    @harrietnamyalo4996 Год назад +4

    😂😂😂...
    Let's me lough ko cz what Mrs Mulondo explained is what am going through right now and this is baby no 2....i swear ladies thanks soooo much for this channel may God bless all of you abundantly

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ Год назад +33

    Manuella, thanks for sharing that breast milk story for those of us who are not yet mothers.

    • @swabrahM
      @swabrahM Год назад

      U need a bra when the time comes

  • @jameskatumba9281
    @jameskatumba9281 Год назад +4

    Great Nuggets. Amazing facts shared through experience and research! Thank you so much. This is extremely helpful to couples expecting their 1st baby or planning to have a baby. It comes in handy especially, the guys. most of time you are not sure what to expect...
    I kept "marking" myself where i did well and where i struggled during that season, thank God, we are out of that fragile season. Appreciations, for your time and effort into this.

  • @atuhairejeanne2240
    @atuhairejeanne2240 Год назад +21

    Naye Pumla. You have killed me with your experience. And thank you for always respecting the other woman❤

  • @leahnakabugo3226
    @leahnakabugo3226 Год назад +5

    Thanks so much ladies.
    Am a mother of six, I had my 1st baby at 24yrs. My body has always healed well.... Thank God.
    I love Pumla' s hair.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +2

      Oh Maama Nakabugo! My Mother is Nkiima nanti. Very Well Done! P

  • @VeryBerry481
    @VeryBerry481 Год назад +5

    Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦
    I absolutely love this girl (women) talk 😍
    I have learnt so much, I'm 3yrs into blissful marriage and we have now started out preparations to grow the family.

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Год назад +4

    Who loves the particular setting in this video recording..it looks beautiful and so do the ladies

  • @muwanguzieve1350
    @muwanguzieve1350 Год назад +14

    I know I'm going to love the conversation when I see Manuel's face 😅😅😅😅 alright ladies please bring men on to speak on their experience

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 Год назад +15

    Thanks for sharing ladies. It's still a struggle for some of us new moms, so it was nice to hear from your experiences. It's especially worse when your partner is not helpful and thinks he's doing so much. You just don't feel like ever being touched again 😢

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +4

      Unhelpful partners make the situation worse. It's conversations like this that allow us to be better. P

    • @katek4724
      @katek4724 Год назад +1

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 You don't say! Thank you for the work you guys do. It's enlightening and empowering many of us.

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Год назад +1

      No wonder you get cheated on

    • @katek4724
      @katek4724 Год назад

      @@ichooseviolence2532 shame.

  • @vahnyzcloset581
    @vahnyzcloset581 Год назад +44

    Is it just me or these ladies are glowing extra much today❤❤❤❤

  • @angellanamanda2446
    @angellanamanda2446 Год назад +5

    Glad all of you were here for this conversation. Very insightful. Thank you

  • @FrancescaAmuge
    @FrancescaAmuge 6 месяцев назад +1

    I think every woman should be listening to you guys, very insightful. thank you.

  • @biyinzikaesther5918
    @biyinzikaesther5918 Год назад +2

    Thanks you ladies it's nice following you may God continue blessing you

  • @kirundazuena9219
    @kirundazuena9219 Год назад +6

    Oh wow thank you so much ladies. Am not yet a mother but what I have really gotten is a psychologist is key. I am the one that's always worried about the body change after, never thought about the changes in the intimacy. Thank for you for this piece😊

  • @Watsy1508
    @Watsy1508 Год назад +4

    Our part of the world is one that doesn't really or has not yet appreciated research, seeing one that is this invested is eye opening. I appreciate that Pumla has made this part of her, see how she solved so much even when she was younger. Girl you inspire me and have shaped my curiosity. Keep being you girl.#Inspired

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +1

      Aaaaawww thank you Joanne. Research is Knowledge. Knowledge is Power.
      Love that you're here. P

    • @Watsy1508
      @Watsy1508 Год назад

      Thanks Pumla please teach us more how to navigate and embrace this world

  • @atimnelly3593
    @atimnelly3593 Год назад +10

    😂😂😂😂😂 Manuela killed me ...... thanks to you all dear Ladies for always being there for us...this was a wonderful session.

    • @BRENDAH-25
      @BRENDAH-25 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂❤❤Manuella

  • @Rhodakagoda-gu6oi
    @Rhodakagoda-gu6oi Год назад +4

    Ladies thanks for being real,uve helped so many mothers.i request that some day u talk about uterine prolapse after birth.God bless

  • @bukirwastellah5319
    @bukirwastellah5319 Год назад +21

    Rossete’s laughter is contagious 😂😂😂

  • @gladyswanzala8896
    @gladyswanzala8896 Год назад +12

    As a new mum, I loved this... Thank you ladies❤

  • @NthembeBanda
    @NthembeBanda Год назад +1

    I'm a newbie here and i love all the episodes i have seen so far. I love conversations and this makes me feel at home. All the way from Zambia. Keep up the good work ladies

  • @kaki_karei
    @kaki_karei Год назад +1

    Wow! This is my first show of this podcast! Wonderful topics, beautiful panel, openness, lovely set everything! I have subbed and will watch everything from you guys. New fan from Kenya!

  • @kanshabediana3791
    @kanshabediana3791 Год назад +2

    Pumula is speaking like a medic....iv liked yo show thanx for the talk, very helpful to new mums....

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +1

      Hahahaa! I studied only Economics. My brain was not made for complex Medicine. LOL. I borrowed notes from a medic. P

  • @lucyfnakiyegawamala7892
    @lucyfnakiyegawamala7892 Год назад +3

    Rosette, I fully agree with you about exercise. I'm a slim lady, but exercise has worked better on my flexibility.
    Rachael- thx for sharing about the quantity goal.
    Manuela, the bit of working from low libido to good momentum is a good one.
    Pumla- thx for that summary from "over 25yrs" I relate to one of the challenges (the trauma). I agree, there's always help.
    Angie- you make me look forward to 40yrs

  • @allyndasandie9641
    @allyndasandie9641 Год назад

    Thank you for helping a wife and mother here ❤ This is so timely More Grace great Ladies😊

  • @nawattijosephine132
    @nawattijosephine132 Год назад +4

    Woow,very empowering when am pregnant i get that pre eclampsia thing and based on wat pumla said about it,i think i was a victim of extremely low libido and i thank God am getting better day by day,and thank you ladies coz honestly my Friday's are better with a new episode of bump love always looking foward to it to see how to improve myself as a mother and a woman in general.. Thankyou

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад

      Oh Josephine... have you had a medical diagnosis? Please do. Thankful that you could share with us. P

  • @aberorochi-oo7bk
    @aberorochi-oo7bk Год назад +4

    The very long awaited discussion..... Thanks for sharing really n it's good that all of you were present so that tulaba ba outliers 😃 , n I do agree that it's better to share than to die in silence

  • @ruthneumbe3024
    @ruthneumbe3024 Год назад +1

    Hallelujahhh very timely show just know just fresh from the 3 months and weeks leave and this was a big elephant in the room. I have really enjoyed everything thank you ladies for being relevant to this generation God continue to use you and bless you and yours in Jesus Name Amen.

  • @imeidamoraa3966
    @imeidamoraa3966 Год назад +1

    I gave birth 5 months ago my doc keeps talking to me about family planning but I have refused....lol

  • @zionruby
    @zionruby Год назад +4

    If you squint you'll understand how people have baby mamas with a small age gap just because of issues around this topic. Greatest show this year so far 😍

    • @rachaelmwine
      @rachaelmwine Год назад +1

      Hehe, this sobering observation 🤣

  • @alicealice4426
    @alicealice4426 Год назад +6

    You all need to go and listen to that conversation Pumla mention very educative. Over twenty five is the name of the show. Ladies as always a pleasure🇰🇪

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 Год назад +8

    Ladies, your honesty serves us so much! Thank you lots. Yall come with both fun and good vibes plus real knowledge and wisdom.

  • @bb2tt233
    @bb2tt233 Год назад +2

    Thank u ladies for the show......so interesting n funny....i almost choked ma food wen Emmanuel was narrating😆😆😆😆

  • @nanozianitah8027
    @nanozianitah8027 Год назад +1

    Wow Ladies you always bring out the real life experiences, mwebale nyo ba dear 👌👏👏

  • @kabasiitapriscilla5504
    @kabasiitapriscilla5504 Год назад +4

    Woow this was so fun , educative and I just didn't want it to end ...its such an amazing show. GOD BLESS YOU LADIES

  • @barbaranalweyiso5225
    @barbaranalweyiso5225 Год назад +1

    I feel better because I have been feeling so guilty for making my husband wait for so long.Thankyou for sharing

  • @TrishBlessed
    @TrishBlessed Год назад +8

    Thanks to the sisters club for talking about stuff that most of us are shy to address.You are the best❤

  • @elizabethahabwe4746
    @elizabethahabwe4746 Год назад +3

    Manuela you are a whole vibe. You make my days😂😂❤

  • @rebeccamuema6144
    @rebeccamuema6144 Год назад +1

    Funny that I'm a mom and a friend (male) has shared this for me to watch☺️I'm lovin' it here🥰....

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 Год назад +2

    Naye bakazi mwe...am here to always enjoy the conversations.
    So authentic!
    I thought I was bold but heiii.. mumaze!

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад

      Hahaha! We have to be bold to give you what you need to hear. Thanks Biseko. P

  • @doreenbagabo708
    @doreenbagabo708 Год назад +1

    Banange this is a good lesson to every family.thanks ladies

  • @winfrednyaguthii6557
    @winfrednyaguthii6557 Год назад +2

    This is the channel I needed

  • @flowerpotmadrine88
    @flowerpotmadrine88 Год назад +3

    thank you for the show. ... it has really so much to learn, so much to put into practice...

  • @careytabs9635
    @careytabs9635 Год назад +4

    I began with this group in 2020 and have consumed a lot of knowledge from them.I needed someone to talk to but I felt they understood me and talked to me back .Banage thank you ladies watching from Kenya as always

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад

      Oh Carey! You've even used Banange. Love that you've journeyed with us all these years. Webale!

  • @neemagrace1004
    @neemagrace1004 Год назад +3

    Today I bumped into this channel and fell in love with you guys ,then I hear Pumla talk about the over 25episode with Dr.Sule and I was like I've found a new home in Ug ,thank you guys for sharing your experiences love from Kenya 🤗😘

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +1

      Aaaaawwww very nice. Happy to have you here. Karibuni Grace ❤. P

  • @khaitsanancy3926
    @khaitsanancy3926 Год назад +1

    Love Manuela’s honesty…may God bless you . And then pumla’s experience that was so me😁😁😁🤭🤭🤭….Love you my two honest ladies 😘😘😘

  • @suzannakyejwe4265
    @suzannakyejwe4265 Год назад +4

    Manuela🤣🤣🤣 this channel always makes me look forward to Fridays

  • @namaraaisha3671
    @namaraaisha3671 Год назад +4

    Thanks ladies
    This was so powerful 🥰❤️
    Have picked branches
    I am 4months post partum

  • @stellawangui209
    @stellawangui209 Год назад +1

    Am happy am learning this before it happens.God bless you ladies😊

  • @vallarynowamaani3260
    @vallarynowamaani3260 Год назад +2

    Wowwwwwww 🥰🥰🥰 Pumla's medical knowledge for me💃💃💃💃as a doctor am impressed 🥳

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад

      Haha! I have zero medical knowledge. I pick up easily from others. I got the info from a Medic. Hehe! P

  • @jkcookii5214
    @jkcookii5214 Год назад +1

    You ladies are amazing. You really touch on everything needed in womans' mother and wife hood experience. God bless you, ladies. Much love from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️ I was born and raised in Uganda, and that is why I love your show. I always like to hear you guys say things such as( naye, nga naye....). I am a munya Rwanda who loves you a lot. Cheers to you all.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +1

      Much love to you our Munya Rwanda Ugandan person. Thanks for the love

  • @natukundaphionah8786
    @natukundaphionah8786 Год назад +1

    Ooh wow. This was such a great episode to watch. Thank you pumla for that lecture. Alot of those things are actually not talked about ❤

  • @judykiptim9412
    @judykiptim9412 Год назад +1

    This is an awesome conversation....so so magical what women's body can do.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mirriamngombe9586
    @mirriamngombe9586 Год назад +5

    Rosetta,Pumla and Angie hairstyles are wow,all the same you are all on point

  • @joycherotich8159
    @joycherotich8159 Год назад +1

    Great to have watched this now. ….. just the right time

  • @ephrancenalunga8830
    @ephrancenalunga8830 Год назад +8

    @manuela has nailed it. Just loved her story.

  • @kushemererwakevin2299
    @kushemererwakevin2299 Год назад +1

    Wow this has been helpful to me , especially the quantity and quality.... I was struggling there. Thank you beautiful ladies

  • @rashidahbarbie1547
    @rashidahbarbie1547 Год назад +2

    Yeah it's been so profound thanks dear ladies for sharing this compelling information.

  • @I_am_Lusia_Kandjengo
    @I_am_Lusia_Kandjengo Год назад +16

    I swear Manuela is savage😂😂

  • @agathanankwanga3748
    @agathanankwanga3748 Год назад +1

    Agie I love the color of the lipstick. To all the ladies on the show thx for this information

  • @kelenaduweduwe813
    @kelenaduweduwe813 Год назад +4

    Oh wow! Pumla is a powerhouse... Love from Malawi 🇲🇼 !!!

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +2

      Malawiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Woot! Love right back Lozi. P

    • @kelenaduweduwe813
      @kelenaduweduwe813 Год назад

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 i seriously hope you know what a force you are. I would love to meet you one day. Pumla and Kansiime are on my bucket list should I come to UG. I love me some Pumla Nabachwa😍.

  • @amaniamani4282
    @amaniamani4282 Год назад +6

    Loved this episode. Pumla. Start watching TMI ke alongside over 25. You will love it

  • @asphapearl4942
    @asphapearl4942 Год назад +1

    Oh darlings this has been so helpful, am a new mum and i have really been educated, thanks darlings ❤️ ❤️, much luv

  • @namusaazijuliet8831
    @namusaazijuliet8831 Год назад +2

    Naye Mrs Mulondo. One day you will kill me with laughter. Kubanga you have kb

  • @BellaK71
    @BellaK71 Год назад +2

    How did you manage to go about the stretch marks, any recommendations 😢?

  • @evelynetugume9609
    @evelynetugume9609 Год назад +3

    This was great & informative. Thank you ladies❤

  • @renembongn.5877
    @renembongn.5877 Год назад +1

    Ladies, you handled such a sensitive topic so well. Pumla, I just love the way you articulate your points & great job gracing us with more info from the Doc. from the other show. I’ve also heard friends & family seek out sex therapists and sexologists who fall under the realm of counseling and helping people with issues pertaining to sex. Thanks for the convo🙏🏿👏🏿

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад

      Oh thank you Rene. Would be lovely to have more info on these sexologists. P

  • @fatumaqasim6341
    @fatumaqasim6341 Год назад +2

    You guys Angieeee😂😂😂❤ your experience has killed me😂 But honestly thank you guys for being honest in sharing the experiences❤

  • @janeflavia9706
    @janeflavia9706 Год назад +3

    Pumla, 100% correct community is our greatest gift in Africa, which God gave us. I witness that.

  • @Esther22720
    @Esther22720 Год назад +1

    Thank you ladies ur are doing a great job

  • @Nakimerasharon
    @Nakimerasharon Год назад +2

    Eeeeeiiii ❤❤ the ka make up of Angie oh my mwaaa

  • @nalubugaketra
    @nalubugaketra Год назад +2

    This is soo educative ❤❤❤❤❤ Bless you Ladies 😊

  • @luzskin254
    @luzskin254 Год назад +2

    This setting is so good,,,we can view you in all the best angles 🎉

  • @naturindablessing5330
    @naturindablessing5330 Год назад +1

    Oooh my God
    This is best for us who are not yet mother. Thanks ladies I appreciate

  • @PamKibz
    @PamKibz Год назад +1

    Naye Manuella Mulondo... 🤣🤣🤣🤣Am actually done with you... But seriously thank you for your honesty... Its liberating..

  • @rankzkate
    @rankzkate Год назад +2

    let me laugh at myself first. After my first child, I went back after 6 months but after the second one, I have never went back 21 months later hahaha. I hate sex after birth and I think am done for life .

  • @prettybrenda8270
    @prettybrenda8270 Год назад +1

    This is indeed a must share to my other sisters and bestie.Wow how have acquired and enlightened in this show.Thank you so much ladies

  • @janekabagenyi1969
    @janekabagenyi1969 Год назад +3

    Manuela's stories...here for them all 😂

  • @turyatungamartha1010
    @turyatungamartha1010 Год назад +1

    Wow, thanx for the honesty in such a sensitive topic 👐🏾

  • @fionaatimango
    @fionaatimango Год назад +2

    You ladies are always just great!....woow I am learning new things everyday. Thank you.

  • @sandran1291
    @sandran1291 Год назад +2

    This has been helpful indeed. Thank you dear ones 🎉

  • @nakubarobinah90
    @nakubarobinah90 Год назад +1

    It was very educative to me thanks ladles

  • @susanbakunda3739
    @susanbakunda3739 Год назад +4

    ok can we change ko the ka start introduction video😂😂😂.its run its course

  • @ugandankitchen.
    @ugandankitchen. Год назад +2

    Such a nice topic. Thanks for uploading

  • @pervinbrians9317
    @pervinbrians9317 Год назад +1

    My husband & I always wait after 4 months. But the way he's always on the countdown, olemwa😂😂

  • @Shan-zd8wd
    @Shan-zd8wd Год назад

    I loved these women, they listen to eachother wow, good show bigup ladies

  • @doreenbayoa3829
    @doreenbayoa3829 Год назад +1

    Respect to you ladies thanks for the education some of us are learn ❤❤❤❤

  • @pmugarura
    @pmugarura Год назад +3

    Look at these powerful women!!!! Love it!

  • @amutuhairepenny
    @amutuhairepenny Год назад +2

    I love you ladies , thanks for sharing with us especially Angie😍😍😍

  • @kwesigasharon6927
    @kwesigasharon6927 Год назад +1

    Hey ladies,just watched this But I hope you get to read my feedback. What are some of the best rubricators to use? I really struggle with virginal dryness after birth

  • @joycemwangi8017
    @joycemwangi8017 Год назад +2

    Aaaw much love from Kenya.. also a big fan of @over25

  • @aminahnamuli2548
    @aminahnamuli2548 Год назад +2

    Thanks for sharing ❤ loved the show

  • @mndanu_ke
    @mndanu_ke Год назад +13

    I'm a very proud Kenyan, to hear Pumla, talk about over 25❤❤

  • @mahorojulian6746
    @mahorojulian6746 Год назад +1

    Uncomfortable conversations but only truth 💯💯💪💪💪thank you my besties