How I lost my Marriage!

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Комментарии • 648

  • @ShalomKamya
    @ShalomKamya 5 месяцев назад +75

    Whoever has ever passed through a depression understands where she is coming from.
    I’m going to take it upon myself to pray for you sister, the lord will use that testimony to overcome the powers of Darkness.

  • @Pauline12365
    @Pauline12365 5 месяцев назад +17

    As she speaks I can empathize with her. I recall how I thought of Yeshua what he went through and how he still loves us. The challenge as a believer is to strive to be like Him but the journey is rough! What I love about the bible is that it tells us how the ones who lead us in this blessed journey struggled. We are all redeemable. The challenge is to strive to be like him, it is not perfection but earnestly seeking God. Thank you for sharing. I feel encouraged.

  • @444333222shot
    @444333222shot 5 месяцев назад +16

    Depression is a very dangerous mental health issue and it attacks and destroys souls in utter silence. Bahati thanks for the programme and I am grateful that Carol shared her story. She is obviously in a better place.

  • @nagawajustine787
    @nagawajustine787 5 месяцев назад +22

    You can see how she is trying to hold that pain inside it was really hard for her I can feel her. Thanks for bringing her

  • @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh
    @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh 5 месяцев назад +9

    Sorry to hear what you have gone through. I used to enjoy GXP when I still had time for TV. God bless you Carol.

  • @ojosephsnsereko6321
    @ojosephsnsereko6321 5 месяцев назад +5

    My OG, I have been there before and I can understand what you went through. The devil is a liar and uses people to damage us but God is faithful and remains faithful through it all. He eventually vindicates your name.

  • @marymaina9626
    @marymaina9626 3 месяца назад +3

    Please put subtitles where you speak kiganda, it's my first time I came a cross the channel and love it, I'm from kenya, thanks

  • @janetilaguha1851
    @janetilaguha1851 5 месяцев назад +7

    Carol Flower i wish i would hug you and tell you all will be well. God is a restorer , God will continue fighting for you, God can never be mocked.

  • @najjembabarbra23
    @najjembabarbra23 5 месяцев назад +84

    I think Bahat can sit down Daniella koz we need to hear her story like this..

  • @kabaterinealoysius6821
    @kabaterinealoysius6821 5 месяцев назад +11

    Women are never given benefit of doubt.But surely it's your life and live it to your potential.

  • @James-ek5mh
    @James-ek5mh 5 месяцев назад +7

    This is encouraging show. Sorry for judging you wrong. However, everything in life happens for good.
    Thank you for coming out to share your story.

  • @tukwasikanyeliz3422
    @tukwasikanyeliz3422 5 месяцев назад +19

    Just got here and Carol says,in all my dark times I NEVER STOPPED SERVING GOD❤❤❤this is it...

  • @pamelanayiga4704
    @pamelanayiga4704 5 месяцев назад +11

    You're so brave Flower, thanks Hilda, for sharing your story....

  • @agnesmusuyaokello8030
    @agnesmusuyaokello8030 5 месяцев назад +5

    Wow beautiful,I have enjoyed every bit.
    My prayer for you Carol is to reunite.with Cooper.
    There's always hope for a tree that has been cut

  • @lornab
    @lornab 5 месяцев назад +15

    Sending much love and hugs your way Carol! May you always keep your head above waters & one foot in front of the other. The scars will heal and you will raise above all this ❤

  • @lukomaedith8914
    @lukomaedith8914 5 месяцев назад +11

    Don't leave God, leave the people of God. Wow....amazing

  • @busingyevangilister5594
    @busingyevangilister5594 5 месяцев назад +5

    Beautiful story here, thanks Coach Bahati for hosting her 🎉

  • @meekness3385
    @meekness3385 4 месяца назад +3

    Okay God I see what you’ve done here! You just spoke to me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾I needed this!

  • @sanyusarah-mv5jj
    @sanyusarah-mv5jj 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for sharing with us your testimony! people are so Judgemental, full of envy may God protect and bless you abundantly

  • @bekaogoro7071
    @bekaogoro7071 5 месяцев назад +11

    ❤❤, thank you Carol for sharing your testimony

  • @peteropata8892
    @peteropata8892 4 месяца назад +3

    Copper needed to believe in you a little more with regard to this character assassination. You are a strong woman, you will overcome.

  • @rachaelkim843
    @rachaelkim843 5 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks for the show.......Great story.........am Kenyan and cannot understand the vernacular language being slotted in.........wish you would maintain English........so that all peoples of all walks of life can hear it all..........Thanks...just an observation...........

  • @Bekahtsa
    @Bekahtsa 5 месяцев назад +8

    What a testimony... thank you Carol.. God bless you

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty1630 5 месяцев назад +10

    Thanks so much my mentor woman of substance 🙏🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘😘

  • @hillsmat9036
    @hillsmat9036 5 месяцев назад +14

    *MAY GOD RESTORE YOUR MARRIAGE SWEAT HEART*
    We are all on second chances.
    Be strong girl! Jesus has got you.

  • @manenowinfred3117
    @manenowinfred3117 3 месяца назад +1

    The church has so much to learn more especially in the spear of judgement.
    Experience teaches us to be kind.Thanks for sharing

  • @mabelnabateregga9279
    @mabelnabateregga9279 5 месяцев назад +2

    It must have taken extraordinary strength and bravery to share such a painful but hopeful story… thank you Flower Carol for displaying such grace, most women are not able to exude such kindness in traumatic situations. Thank you Bahati Hilda for creating such a safe space for such complex topics. We have been blessed!

  • @ainebryta7126
    @ainebryta7126 5 месяцев назад +3

    I pray for restoration upon your marriage dia

  • @mubirujackiewonder6033
    @mubirujackiewonder6033 5 месяцев назад +1

    One place I know that has broken so many hearts is church.It’s hard to mend and heal fellow broken Christians but they are easily buried and condemned for just rumors but we thank GOD for personally loving us regardless of what we have been through.Thanks for sharing this Carol.

  • @angelanabirye8948
    @angelanabirye8948 5 месяцев назад +3

    We still love and appreciate you Mama Carol ❤
    Thanks Mrs.Bahati Hilda I love you too since 2016. ❤

  • @petermukisaa
    @petermukisaa 5 месяцев назад +3

    Powerful Testimony by Carol Flower. Thumps up to Hilda

  • @tumwiinemoses5394
    @tumwiinemoses5394 5 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Carol for being vulnerable. This show was really inspirational... Christians should not be judgmental but pray for others...

  • @GlowFashionHouseouseLTD
    @GlowFashionHouseouseLTD 5 месяцев назад +4

    Now that i watched this interview..
    I love her more.

  • @maridiovigil
    @maridiovigil 5 месяцев назад +24

    I was going through a rejection in my relationship...but when I came across your video... trust me I quit the relationship last Friday it's actually the first time I'm staying days without thinking a single thing about this love...im healing,im having hope each single day ❤ thanks bahati

  • @doreenpedun3302
    @doreenpedun3302 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you Carol for sharing your story.Hilda you are a blessing

  • @codmn1824
    @codmn1824 5 месяцев назад +3

    I listened to everything naye nze i was just admiring the beauty of Carol😂

  • @josephine-uv5ov
    @josephine-uv5ov 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much Hilda.

  • @leahnakabugo3226
    @leahnakabugo3226 5 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you Bahati & Carol
    In marriage we go through different challenges but it's only hope that keeps us going.

  • @atugonzajulljoy1662
    @atugonzajulljoy1662 5 месяцев назад +12

    Thanks Carol for sharing am inspired

  • @dinahmirembe7675
    @dinahmirembe7675 5 месяцев назад +3

    This is healing. thank you for sharing. May the Lord use me to deliver others too. God bless you

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty1630 5 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for hosting her Bambi I love her ways 😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @peggyhlungwani-fu4wh
    @peggyhlungwani-fu4wh 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks a lot for this show
    Watching from South Africa, I have learnt a lot, depression is real, 2023 something happened to me and i tried to explain to people so that they can understand but it's get worse, I have lost self esteem even loose focus on my job
    ..Thanks a lot for today, I have to be strong and follow my dreams again

  • @esthernakibira3451
    @esthernakibira3451 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Carol for allowing us into your world.I have just learnt not to judge people

  • @daphnekkarusoke1381
    @daphnekkarusoke1381 5 месяцев назад +6

    So sorry for what you have been through Carol. You are an amazing person ❤❤

  • @kabasinguzisusan9811
    @kabasinguzisusan9811 5 месяцев назад +2

    people around us the women I have gone through that wow God bless you

  • @sharonangel-pe3dk
    @sharonangel-pe3dk 5 месяцев назад +6

    This story is so inspiring. Thank u carol

  • @nakayijjagladys9884
    @nakayijjagladys9884 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks dear Carol for sharing, blessings 🎉

  • @kyampeirebernadette5345
    @kyampeirebernadette5345 22 дня назад

    Thanks for the inspirational shows . Been inspired most times it's the wearer who knows where the shoe punches. Thanks for speaking to my situation. Often we are judged but none can even wear our shoes

  • @FlorenceRukundo16
    @FlorenceRukundo16 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oooh Dear! Am left wondering how God's Grace carries us through. Sending Love to you Both Beloved❤

  • @dorlynhenry4849
    @dorlynhenry4849 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks Carol , u have encouraged me a lot. Am going through a lot may be not similar with ur situation but thanks ... Indeed in dark moments we should not run away from God....

  • @flavianakiruuta4486
    @flavianakiruuta4486 8 дней назад

    Wow! My story is so similar to Carol's. Depression is real, hating church is real, feeling betrayed by Christians is real too, going to church and sitting at the extreme back is real, remaining in ministry & serving God is real, people around you making the situation worse is real, withdrawal is so real. Kwegamba Carol nkutegeera bulungi. Healing comes a step at a time. May God continue healing us.

  • @sharonfruitful5894
    @sharonfruitful5894 5 месяцев назад +9

    Wow! So much insights and lessons to learn. Thanks and Hilda for hosting her and to Carol for being so vulnerable while sharing your story. May God heal you, restore and uplift you. May your testimony draw many to Christ and inspire us to be compassionate to those struggling.
    Actually because of your experience, I'll reach out to a relative who is struggling with addiction.
    Thanks, and many blessings to you both.

  • @nabatanzijovia5328
    @nabatanzijovia5328 2 месяца назад

    At first I was not following you Hilda but because of these inspiring stories I have even subscribed.
    In lyf there is a moment when everything is messing and even whatever comes also drowns you the more. However God has never left us. Let me cling on this too 🙏

  • @phionakatz
    @phionakatz 5 месяцев назад +1

    I remember Carol. I was wondering where she had gone. Life is very unpredictable but if we keep pushing, it gets better. The twists and turns are what make it beautiful. Glad to see she’s doing fine.

  • @justinekyanjokivumbi
    @justinekyanjokivumbi 4 месяца назад

    Oh thank you Hilda for bringing Carol. This got me emotional. She is a strong and beautiful woman. Relates with what I’ve been going through(not divorce) False accusations...
    God is the defender!
    Thanks again.

  • @NakiryaBlessings
    @NakiryaBlessings 5 месяцев назад

    This what i am going through church instead of correcting me they are putting me down even i cried 😭😭while watching this but i am blessed i will never stop serving God no matter what thanks sister more blessings 🙏

  • @nicholasmulindwa
    @nicholasmulindwa 5 месяцев назад +4

    Amazing Interview. You touched on topics that I totally relate to.

  • @WinnieCollections
    @WinnieCollections 5 месяцев назад +2

    In life we all need a support system

  • @Twine256-nx1pl
    @Twine256-nx1pl 4 месяца назад

    There’s that saying of there’s no hate like the love of Christians. That rings so true every time. Happy to see you Carol and at the point where you can share your story. Wishing you healing. ❤

  • @belindamercya
    @belindamercya 5 месяцев назад +1

    I reasonated with this so much, having gone through a similar season. It is well

  • @miriambridget4464
    @miriambridget4464 5 месяцев назад +1

    His still on the throne, God got you

  • @acayojulian961
    @acayojulian961 3 месяца назад +5

    Bhati needs to learn interview etiquette, she interrupts and adds on unnecessarily

    • @mkagzie
      @mkagzie Месяц назад

      I disagree, she did really well. Asked poignant questions at the right time, and helped the lady share her story confidently.

  • @sookastephen6649
    @sookastephen6649 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your life story. As God restored you, May He use your story to restore many others going through similar situations. ❤

  • @benardsenyonga6860
    @benardsenyonga6860 5 месяцев назад +3

    My Prayer is one that those two lovely people ( Carol and Cooper) can re-unite in their Marriage at least I have ever met Cooper at church and he is such a wonderful person and for Carol, we are in the same neighborhood and at least I have watched her programs, she is also a wonderful woman, I pray that God can re-unite them in marriage in Jesus' Name.

  • @vickynaggayi544
    @vickynaggayi544 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for hosting her, am encouraged I realised am not alone!

  • @janetbahizi9996
    @janetbahizi9996 5 месяцев назад +1

    It's about the Lord receiving you the way you were. I'm sure pastor Kayanja wouldn't judge you. He has a heart of compassion and he knows his God. You will never impress God enough by not drinking, more than that believe. Remain in the faith

  • @atuhaireronnet721
    @atuhaireronnet721 5 месяцев назад +1

    God is soon restoring ur marriage gal❤

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 5 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you for sharing

  • @Carynne6969
    @Carynne6969 5 месяцев назад +3

    I've always loved you Flower..May God see you through dearie 💙

  • @fifimwesigwa8140
    @fifimwesigwa8140 4 месяца назад +1

    Carol you are such a strong beautiful soul, thank you for sharing and inspiring us all. I know God will one day use this painful but beautiful experience for His glory, infact He already is! Much love ❤❤❤

  • @roselynnanfuka8236
    @roselynnanfuka8236 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing carol, the devil has totally failed coz you managed to get back up in spiritual life,we give our good God all the glory.Be blessed always

  • @EmmaGanaiture
    @EmmaGanaiture 5 месяцев назад

    I just love the strength of this lady, everyone serves God with a weakness, thanks for the persistence, in serving God in all what you went through

  • @flaviacharles1348
    @flaviacharles1348 5 месяцев назад

    What a testimony! Thanks a lot for sharing this testimony Carol! Thanks Bahati for bringing her on show! ADVICE: Try to reduce or do some interpretations when using local language as some of us are not Ugandans/watching from outside Uganda but we love your show. God bless you all.

  • @mangadarenawanyana7754
    @mangadarenawanyana7754 5 месяцев назад +1

    Carol Jesus has your back. Tests are for our testimonies.
    I am confident that all this will be hx some day❤.
    Your marriage reconciliation testimony is soon🎉🎉🎉.

  • @CathyMugabi
    @CathyMugabi 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's the people around us that add salt to our problems...

  • @BrianSendaula256
    @BrianSendaula256 4 месяца назад

    This is very enlightening Carol... you have said so much here that we all need to hear as a church. Thank you so much for this courage. You are blessed

  • @birungikasfah4458
    @birungikasfah4458 5 месяцев назад +1

    We are growing, we are learning

  • @brendahnabakka7644
    @brendahnabakka7644 5 месяцев назад +1

    Have loved Cooper's music since childhood . Its painful you separated .

  • @janatnankinga143
    @janatnankinga143 5 месяцев назад +1

    Carol, do not worry about what people are saying about you. God knows it all. He knew your end from the beginning. I love you Carol

  • @carolkim9819
    @carolkim9819 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Hida and Carol.

  • @shielahbirungi9067
    @shielahbirungi9067 5 месяцев назад +5

    Such a beautiful story especially for people who have backslidden.... there's hope for receiving salvation again

  • @lomomedia2149
    @lomomedia2149 3 месяца назад

    I am very much inspired in you people

  • @ainesunflower3607
    @ainesunflower3607 5 месяцев назад +3

    thx Hilda for da show..

  • @rachealkirabo8369
    @rachealkirabo8369 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this powerful testimony

  • @juliuscaeser4755
    @juliuscaeser4755 3 месяца назад

    wooooooooo....this story is!!!! Good that carol is back to her feet. this is the typical saying of all that glitters is not gold

  • @brendanakirya1379
    @brendanakirya1379 5 месяцев назад +2

    God's grace is sufficient.

  • @rachealmukomeza4742
    @rachealmukomeza4742 4 месяца назад

    Carol you got this.. thanks for sharing your testimony with us

  • @catherineabc1443
    @catherineabc1443 5 месяцев назад +3

    Been there ! Sending hugs

  • @asiimwejoystacy754
    @asiimwejoystacy754 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much sis Caro, greetings from aunt joy love u Dia ❤there is hop in Jesus

  • @elizabethkukunda5765
    @elizabethkukunda5765 3 месяца назад

    This is inspiring Carol❤. Thank you for speaking out

  • @phinahB
    @phinahB 5 месяцев назад

    Dear Carol, you are beautiful and sweet in eyes of the one that created you. You remembered God even at your lowest, you are special. Love you and thank you for sharing. You've earned a follower on the Ntv show. God bless.

  • @mariahnamutebi
    @mariahnamutebi 5 месяцев назад

    Sorry for what you experienced Carol. I pray that God helps us as Christians to support one another during times of crises than apportioning blame.

  • @paskaziatumwesigye1534
    @paskaziatumwesigye1534 22 дня назад

    Oh sweet Carol. Hugs from me

  • @ashanamulawa2001
    @ashanamulawa2001 5 месяцев назад +1

    I thank God for his restoration for you Carol

  • @nabbanjaritah8718
    @nabbanjaritah8718 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you, mummy Hildah

  • @BusingyeMartha36
    @BusingyeMartha36 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is so touching 😢

  • @christinnakimera
    @christinnakimera 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Carol for sharing ❤

  • @SolomeBasuuta
    @SolomeBasuuta 5 месяцев назад +2

    Carol your courage to share is very inspiring!! May your story heal many other people...we love you!❤🧡

  • @adongosheila9215
    @adongosheila9215 5 месяцев назад +3

    I suffered from depression too in my marriage..it was healing listening to your side of story.I am praying that God reconciles you back to your husband Carol.Sheila

  • @TheRwenzoriGirl
    @TheRwenzoriGirl 5 месяцев назад +3

    We've always loved your shows Carol. We love you ❤