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Комментарии • 336

  • @masikaritah9001
    @masikaritah9001 3 месяца назад +260

    Who else is from Tiktok

  • @kemi0495
    @kemi0495 3 месяца назад +78

    Who came here after watching this on TikTok

  • @elvahatugonza8705
    @elvahatugonza8705 3 месяца назад +61

    This is me😢I can't count how many times I have cried in my bed, having one child en the father rejects the baby is the most painful thing on earth, I got so annoyed that I stopped going to church but after seeing many stories I realized mine is even far better, I have a very nice job, my son is on medical insurance meaning we can access the best hospitals in Uganda , I decided to forgive the father of my son for the past, present and future and give my time to my boy, have gone back to God coz am live and still have a purpose, I have faith that I will be a great woman in future and will give the best to my child, May all single mothers and fathers God see you through and you bring up the most responsible children

    • @RaymondProsper
      @RaymondProsper 3 месяца назад

      That's me but less be strong in Jesus christ

    • @ngonzigloria6511
      @ngonzigloria6511 3 месяца назад

      May God bless you dear

    • @nantongoclaire6017
      @nantongoclaire6017 3 месяца назад

      Me too dia u not alone

    • @Mirembe_Nicole
      @Mirembe_Nicole 3 месяца назад +1

      That is a great attitude,keep going ,I was once a single mom too father left but held on to God, He blessed me with a good Husband, God fearing who has loved me and my Child ,Its 5years later God is Faithful

    • @lisaclarasamson1528
      @lisaclarasamson1528 Месяц назад

      This is me😢

  • @niwagabaabraham4511
    @niwagabaabraham4511 3 месяца назад +14

    Yes, this is my classmate, i can confirm that sylivia was always outstanding and I believe she's still outstanding, Great thanks to fortunate for standing with you.

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 3 месяца назад +38

    From TikTok to here😢

  • @ssubibrenda4601
    @ssubibrenda4601 3 месяца назад +13

    For every woman going through this, we are sorry that we judged you, only God can help you and strengthen you

  • @kabasinguzisusan9811
    @kabasinguzisusan9811 3 месяца назад +12

    I have cried all through this because God has been there for me and every time you mentioned God being there for you I related with God being there for me .God is love and pure lets keep trusting God

    • @saraibabra131
      @saraibabra131 3 месяца назад

      True me too was like that and God was there for me

  • @Shellinahkanyesigye
    @Shellinahkanyesigye 2 месяца назад +3

    From tiktok and I wish l can share my story to becoz what the man did to me is unbelievable 😪.

  • @candidtalkwithadelle
    @candidtalkwithadelle 3 месяца назад +7

    I have come to learn that God will make you go through struggles that will prepare you for your purpose. To be a great Councillor, you needed this experience to help you understand your clients better. Thank you for the brevity to share your story!

  • @sarahadhiambo7858
    @sarahadhiambo7858 Месяц назад +2

    I'm from tiktok n I can tell you this sounds like my story 😢 😢 😭 people should never judge

  • @robertmambo9711
    @robertmambo9711 3 месяца назад +5

    Wanted whole story. From TikTok

  • @nagasharacheal4
    @nagasharacheal4 2 месяца назад +3

    One thing I've realised is that If only we as christians tried to be like God in how we relate with eachother..if we extended even half of the grace we receive from God, church wouldn't lose so many to the den of feeling judged...its so sad.. we've got to do better.we need to extend more grace,more empathy😢let people fall and rise before their maker,He himself has promised to see to it that none falls and remains fallen.It's not our job to scrutinise their journey.Thank you for sharing darling ❤Blessings

  • @nahweraangella5706
    @nahweraangella5706 3 месяца назад +20

    I suggest you always put the visistors on the cover page😂😂😂😂.I have suffered scrolling looking for this story coz the cover had u not her.

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 месяца назад +6

      Thank you, just sorted it! You’re awesome

    • @miriammonicah
      @miriammonicah 3 месяца назад

      Me too I was failing to get it, but i just typed in the title

    • @kyomugishamoureen3260
      @kyomugishamoureen3260 3 месяца назад

      Same to me been looking for this story on her page ehhh mukama out of the blue it came on my newsfeeds

    • @namarajoy8884
      @namarajoy8884 3 месяца назад

      ​@@BahatiHildayou are an awesome and amazing woman
      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx
      @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx 3 месяца назад

      I thought I was alone 😂, what an amazing story it is!

  • @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg
    @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg 3 месяца назад +4

    Am from TikTok....i wanted the whole story ❤

  • @oldlaqaaye9931
    @oldlaqaaye9931 Месяц назад +1

    " If you get a job syia seated at home please connect her." That words they're touched me.😢

  • @randaranow
    @randaranow 3 месяца назад +28

    Something I have learnt in my experience as well is that some men can never love, respect you the moment you can't earn something.
    It's very good for us women to embark on working.

    • @AshaNats-h9q
      @AshaNats-h9q 3 месяца назад +2

      True

    • @kizitonen5576
      @kizitonen5576 2 месяца назад +2

      Full support , it better to first embark on achieving what u expect from a man your self , this reduces on dependence and too much expectations.

    • @randaranow
      @randaranow 2 месяца назад

      @@kizitonen5576 Gotcha

    • @michezo256
      @michezo256 Месяц назад

      never low your standards for anyone not even love

  • @norbertpiwang5765
    @norbertpiwang5765 8 дней назад

    From TikTok this touched and and learnt some lesions guess it's not late for me my dear God

  • @Pamelakittyy
    @Pamelakittyy 3 месяца назад +12

    Not me living campus without a boyfriend 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @NafunaAllen
      @NafunaAllen 3 месяца назад +1

      It's a win win❤🎉🎉🎉 congratulations

  • @aineviq5333
    @aineviq5333 3 месяца назад +4

    I remember this girl at stacon. She was a humble and prayerful girl.

    • @nuwabasaflavia8524
      @nuwabasaflavia8524 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah sure, very down to earth and indeed outstanding. Sylivia we really believe that you’re indeed destined for the best

  • @nabukenyaeron5205
    @nabukenyaeron5205 3 месяца назад +3

    True meaning of "bwoba tonafa tewevuma nsi".God is always great ❤

  • @orishabaalbina4671
    @orishabaalbina4671 3 месяца назад +4

    Ooh my dear OG at Trinity, such a strong woman, may the good Lord give you all the blessings and happiness, thanks for sharing.

  • @katungirichard
    @katungirichard Месяц назад +1

    Brilliant girl, full of courage.

  • @sharonnavuga5039
    @sharonnavuga5039 5 дней назад

    Such a sweet woman. You've been through a lot. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @ElizabethBalimunsi
    @ElizabethBalimunsi 3 месяца назад +12

    To all men out there, no matter the circumstances, do the best you can to be loving and supportive of a woman that is carrying your child and has had your child. Don't question it, just do it.

  • @bexameria9804
    @bexameria9804 3 месяца назад +2

    Wow. What a beautiful message from Arinda ive really learnt from your experience and am not remaining the same. Thanks Mrs Bahati for the show

  • @SanyuRabecca
    @SanyuRabecca 3 месяца назад +2

    Amen, thanks for the closing prayer.
    But believe me, men aren’t easy 😢. Most of us are survivors from mental illness and trauma

  • @dorisamooti1204
    @dorisamooti1204 3 месяца назад +3

    You are very honest with yourself.

  • @saraibabra131
    @saraibabra131 3 месяца назад +1

    One day i will come and give my testimony . Where i am is by the grace of God

  • @catherineabenaitwe7167
    @catherineabenaitwe7167 2 месяца назад +1

    I think i sat with this lady in a taxi from Mbra to Kla....
    God is a good God, He said that He will never leave us alone... Even when ur own pple leave, He remains.
    You were just being prepared for greater things. Just keep looking up to Him.

  • @simbig8975
    @simbig8975 3 месяца назад +4

    The devil is a big liar. You are a strong woman and God has the best for you.

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 2 месяца назад +1

    Eeeh really touching story, thanks for Sharing dear Sylvia.

  • @esthernimah7416
    @esthernimah7416 Месяц назад +2

    God is so amazing and faithful ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @natukundagrace4903
    @natukundagrace4903 2 месяца назад

    Thank you dear for being bold to share. It's never too late to return to God. He is such a loving and forgiving father

  • @joanKihembo
    @joanKihembo 3 месяца назад +2

    Another day of cutting onions while watching this story..you are astrong woman..woah

  • @peacedorothy9108
    @peacedorothy9108 2 месяца назад

    Cried all through watching this. Our God never forsakes us. He is a God of many chances

  • @hibumbemoses3440
    @hibumbemoses3440 Месяц назад

    Thanks Arinda for sharing this story, i have a friend who has a similar story.
    I am grateful to also have been part of KUAYM ministries at campus

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 Месяц назад

    so touching and encouraging thanks dearest and more some stories that will motivate and make us grow harder

  • @namarajoy8884
    @namarajoy8884 3 месяца назад +2

    God is above every situation, Glory to Him. Dear sons of Pharaoh stand warned, the Lord sees everything

  • @funwithnicole3868
    @funwithnicole3868 3 месяца назад +2

    What a story. So many lessons to learn.

  • @angel.----
    @angel.---- 2 месяца назад

    Im from TikTok Ijust landed now ❤❤

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 3 месяца назад +1

    Bambi she has a very touching story 😢but i'm happy that whatever she went through she never lose hope,she never gave up and here she's now she stood and now fond her purpose
    This's so amazing 😊😊

  • @clarenuwampa8917
    @clarenuwampa8917 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, dear Arinda. Sorry for what happened to you, but remember. God doesn't make mistakes. This happened to you because God wanted you to heal hearts that are broken.
    May the will of God be done.
    Amen

  • @primafancybirungi
    @primafancybirungi Месяц назад

    Ooohhh I know her, she was my sweet customer in my saloon back Uganda, she used not to miss st poul church every Sunday mawanda road with her two little girls

  • @iyengugladys2824
    @iyengugladys2824 3 месяца назад +2

    Wow this is so heart touching
    Thanks for sharing
    God will surely bring you someone worth it

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 Месяц назад +1

    i don't know why am crying

  • @WendyNgabire
    @WendyNgabire 2 месяца назад

    This was too emotional to watch. Thank you for sharing

  • @ayebareannah8975
    @ayebareannah8975 3 месяца назад

    From tiktok to full story 😭 God is great always 🙏

  • @natobolilian
    @natobolilian 3 месяца назад

    Am here from TikTok
    Am proud of you bahat hubby and wifey Hilda

  • @nansubugashaqiqah1058
    @nansubugashaqiqah1058 22 дня назад

    Oh my God
    my Sylvia noo😢i realy remember the days at campus with you girl..But God is always faithful
    If possible i would like to have your contact again ❤

  • @sandraug7042
    @sandraug7042 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story Arinda
    I pray God enables me share my story too one day. Who knows how many lives it could touch and change for the better. My son is turning 3 and starting school next year🥰🥰 I pray God uses me to put him in one of the best schools. My dream is seing him become a great man oneday

  • @ainembabazivickievanessa9382
    @ainembabazivickievanessa9382 2 месяца назад +2

    story of my life😢😢but am sure oneday i wil be okay God willing 🙏🙏

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 2 месяца назад

    Sad to hear what you went through and I am glad you overcame. Let's educate girls to guard their hearts and bodies. Love is a beautiful thing but baby steps... Godspeed to all facing this.

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow . This was mind blowing. God fortified her indeed. Sending love to both of you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kabaliisachall
    @kabaliisachall 3 месяца назад +2

    Hes a God of restoration. Just keep seeking his will

  • @ritaariho921
    @ritaariho921 3 месяца назад

    Cyber hugs for you dear Arinda, indeed you are destined for greatness, i have experienced postnatal depression, even while my husband was still around.. so i can really imagine what exactly you were going through during that time. People will judge you here , but only a few of us who have through the same can understand you. Am happy that you picked it up yourself again and here you are inspiring others. God surely bless you and one day one time, the first father of your child will regret. Keep shining baby girl.

  • @clairekatusiime7913
    @clairekatusiime7913 3 месяца назад

    Arinda thank you for sharing this is so helpful to us mothers. You're indeed a great woman. Thanks Bahati for the show.

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 3 месяца назад +1

    it was just too much🤦‍♀. We thank God for restoring you.

  • @NinsiimaProssy-d1x
    @NinsiimaProssy-d1x 3 месяца назад +1

    Arinda thanks for being a strong n hardworking lady,this so educative mostly to us young ladies ❤n thanks for sharing 🙏.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @LiniaLynda-rp1of
    @LiniaLynda-rp1of Месяц назад

    She experienced Puerperal psychosis, sorry about that dear we thank God He still kept you regardless of what you went through , today's preacher mentioned some important statement which says "man's disappointment is God's appointment" thank you Arinda for sharing your story ,helping and encouraging mothers going through same condition.

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 4 дня назад

      When ever I feel low and mentally not okay. I run to this channel

  • @Mwigar
    @Mwigar 2 месяца назад

    Strong woman🙏🏽 God is with you.

  • @HopeKomujinya
    @HopeKomujinya 3 месяца назад

    Me ff this..
    Came from tiktok❤..
    Wish her all the best ❤

  • @kamukamadiana-ko6cp
    @kamukamadiana-ko6cp 3 месяца назад +1

    I love you Hilda❤and thank you always for encouraging us 😭😭😭🙏🙏

  • @nabaggalaritah4467
    @nabaggalaritah4467 3 месяца назад

    she is going to become a great lady. So hardworking

  • @mwizasafaristourvlog8142
    @mwizasafaristourvlog8142 3 месяца назад +1

    Youre a strong woman Arinda, and we have a good good father Jesus Christ

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 2 месяца назад

    May God continue protecting us from such hurtful men and how i wish at one time such men go through more than the pain they make innocent souls go through in the name of love.

  • @mariankamau2493
    @mariankamau2493 2 месяца назад

    I saw this on tik tok am touched by her story 😢

  • @edwinkamusiimeadvocate
    @edwinkamusiimeadvocate 3 месяца назад +1

    Wao Arinda.
    Thanks Our heaven sent Bahati for the interview alot to learn here

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for being a strong woman. We serve a living God who never forsakes us. Greater things a wait you dear

  • @carolynmainga
    @carolynmainga 3 месяца назад +10

    Go home don't punish yourself..your family will always love you..God will never leave you.God I pray for the favor from people that this woman has from you.Amen

  • @michezo256
    @michezo256 Месяц назад

    Madam Hilda thanks for this show , do you what i have learnt..? i have learnt that never to lower my standards for anyone not even for love. thanks.

  • @nakittopeace
    @nakittopeace 3 месяца назад +3

    Wooow what a story, thanks for sharing Arinda indeed God uses different circumstances to bring the best out of us

  • @uwasebarbra1425
    @uwasebarbra1425 3 месяца назад +1

    God is so loving and faithful ❤️ he will always come through 🙏

  • @nantalewinnie
    @nantalewinnie 3 месяца назад +1

    Eye opening 🤦‍♀️thank you so much sharing with us❤

  • @munezaderick1033
    @munezaderick1033 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for being strong and sharing this to us ❤
    Thank you Hilda for edifying us with these powerful testimonies.

  • @raykye4711
    @raykye4711 3 месяца назад

    Bambi. Thank God who never gives up on us

  • @AmanyaAnnah
    @AmanyaAnnah 2 месяца назад

    May God continue protecting me 🙏🙏

  • @sylivianakajubi5870
    @sylivianakajubi5870 9 дней назад

    The devil wanted to kill your star of outstanding and shining in spirit.

  • @nyangomamogranie1795
    @nyangomamogranie1795 3 месяца назад

    We thank God for Arinda and for sharing, the message has taught me alot, to first understand my purpose, and not to give up on life no matter the circumstances

  • @evelynanyeko1635
    @evelynanyeko1635 2 месяца назад +2

    Mama I remember you at St Kakumba Chapel.

  • @atukunziredoreen7269
    @atukunziredoreen7269 2 месяца назад

    We thank God for life
    God is always having a plan for us
    Thank you for sharing dear

  • @akademaitesther2921
    @akademaitesther2921 2 месяца назад +1

    He is a faithful God 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @KebirungiRobinbah
    @KebirungiRobinbah 3 месяца назад +2

    Beeñ through something similar to this but God is faithful 😂 we go through somethings to learn and help people going through the same stuff we went through

  • @MargretKambili-ig7yc
    @MargretKambili-ig7yc 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for your encouragement ❤

  • @TracieVybz
    @TracieVybz 12 дней назад

    Am also from tiktok

  • @dorothykyomugisha26
    @dorothykyomugisha26 3 месяца назад

    Thank you coach Hilda and thank you for sharing your story Arinda and being vulnerable with us.

  • @akamumpajoselyn7057
    @akamumpajoselyn7057 3 месяца назад +4

    Why does the church leave people in hard moments

    • @raykye4711
      @raykye4711 3 месяца назад

      It's usually not deliberate bse even some people in such situations hate to see church members call or even look for them I think bse of guilt and shame and it becomes abit challenging to get them.
      The Church tries for sure but it's the devils trick to isolate people in such situations and later the devil whispers to you and convinces you that church members don't love and care about you.
      It is God still who chooses someone who will connect with you and help you.
      All in all everyone has a script of their life and above all God's grace is sufficient.
      So I don't think we should generally say church doesn't care.

    • @asiimweangella449
      @asiimweangella449 3 месяца назад

      What i can say. These are hired servants, you remember how Jesus said that these hired servants when wolves come the hired servant will flee and leave the sheep; but Jesus is the perfect shepherd. He will never leave nor forsake anyone one of his sheep.

  • @macosandra602
    @macosandra602 3 месяца назад

    From tick tok direct to here

  • @birungiricia6841
    @birungiricia6841 3 месяца назад

    What a lovely message.that what happened to me I wish I had viewed this message before

  • @zainakulabako2916
    @zainakulabako2916 3 месяца назад

    Oh God, always strengthen single moms

  • @AgnesDorothyAkello
    @AgnesDorothyAkello 2 месяца назад

    Will some of even get 😢
    This real life stories hurt n increase my phobia for marriage 😢
    Bless 🙏 women ooooh God

  • @rabeccanakasote2101
    @rabeccanakasote2101 3 месяца назад +2

    Am from tiktok

  • @doreenkatusiime5689
    @doreenkatusiime5689 2 месяца назад

    What is that mentorship program she is talking about?

  • @EstherNalunga-h6b
    @EstherNalunga-h6b 3 месяца назад +2

    How can I access Miss Arinda....I need to talk to her

  • @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw
    @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw 3 месяца назад

    Wow this is powerful..God is indeed great...

  • @NakazibaMercy-nm3je
    @NakazibaMercy-nm3je 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for empowering us Dr Bahati through sharing such uplifting stories. I always learn something new. May God continue using you to touch more lives and nations🙏

  • @anitahkansiime1530
    @anitahkansiime1530 3 месяца назад

    This is so touching,thanks for sharing.

  • @komugisharitah4088
    @komugisharitah4088 3 месяца назад +7

    How can I get to your foundation Arinda, I would like to make a small contribution.

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 3 месяца назад +2

    You are brave baby

  • @ninawaryaro9415
    @ninawaryaro9415 3 месяца назад

    Powerful testimony.How can one share their story with you

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 месяца назад

      Please send a message for 0757117117

  • @janetsematimba2672
    @janetsematimba2672 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for the inspiring stories❤