My engagement ended in the worst heartbreak!
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Bahati Hilda Sabiti is a trendsetter for her generation. She is the Founder and Lead influencer at Hold My Hand.
Hold My Hand is a vibrant growth space that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds! Bridging the gap between where they are and where they really want to be.
She holds a Bachelor of Counseling Guidance from Kyambogo University, A masters in Positive Applied Psychology from Capella University and a Doctorate in Human Relationships from Wilfrid Laurier University.
She is married to Tim Sabiti, and they are the proud parents of three children, Ariella Sabiti, Ariel Sabiti, and Asahel Sabiti.
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My baby daddy cancelled our kukyala a week before.. zero notice, zero cheating ,. Only for me to see his kukyala on social media sooner. I was a broken broke single mum.. in despair. God came through in biiiiiiggg ways ... Im currently a regional manager in one of the biggest banks in the world. Who am I! My baby gets everything he wants. Surely..Glory to God . I'm healed
So sad but beautiful ending
So sad, we thank God who enabled to come through this. Me my husband and I were going through fertility treatment, on our 5th anniversary he posted a picture of another woman, when we talked about it he said it’s because I can’t get pregnant, on the day we had to do the ivf he walked out, a month later he calls me to say that the girlfriend is pregnant, they both called me to laugh at me, went on social media explaining to everyone that he left me because of my infertility, how embarrassing!!!! I’m healed from that now, I have now a very amazing partner, waiting for the day the Lord will bless my womb amen 🙏
@@doras6772so sorry to read this. But you are healed, that's what is important my angel. Hubby is not worth crying for....
Look at God my angel. Congratulations on your career success. Love stories like this, of restoration.
Dora, your bundles of joy are coming! Joining my faith to yours
Naye mwe heart break hurts especially when your life was rotating around that person, 😢😢prayers to everyone who is healing.
Mwanagwe you may feel like your heart is going out
Its not easy to heal
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile.
Your words hold great meaning, and I sincerely hope my sentiments are in harmony with yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot picture my life without her; my love for her is profound. I long to have her back, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice to achieve reconciliation. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our journey to mend our relationship.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You definitely should.
FROM SELLING SWEETS AND WASHING CLOTHS AROUND HOSTELS AS A STUDENT IN KYU. I AM NOW FINALIZING MY MASTERS LEVEL IN PUBLIC HEALTH. FROM ZERO VISION AS A TENNAGER ABOUT LIFE, NOW I HAVE A GREAT VISION OF ADVOCATING FOR GOOD HEALTH, 6 FIGURE SALARY FROM A JOB ACHIEVED THROUGH FAITH AND HAPPY THAT CHRIST WILL MAKE OTHER THINGS WORK OUT...... CELEBRATED 29 LAST WEEK IN THANKS GIVING.
Wowwwwwww a true champion
Shine your Shine🎉 ✴️🌟✨
God is in control for sure
Go Girllllllll, super proud of you and all your achievements....
Shaming thanks for accepting Christ, He gonna make new wonderful things that your ears have ever heard or your eyes have ever seen 1cor. 2:9
Watching this while abandoned with pregnancy he left saying that i became vulnerable just because of the 1st trimester laziness 😢the Lord shall walk me thru this, thank you ladies for positive stories am encouraged
May God see you through
You are a conqueror . The one in you is greater
That's only a step in life dear God will c u through.
It shall pass.
One day you'll be the one telling your story. Keep your child whatever the situation. God will see you through. Pray, confess, fast (not food because you are pregnant but other things like social media). An opening will surely come
You actually dodged a bullet… that man had a lot of issues
Truuue
Landing on this story reminds of what I went through, the guy cancelled the kukyala two days to the day... Ahhh that day is still a nightmare but this God... And actually the only place I had to cry to was when I would be leading worship... But God had a good plan for me
So sorry dear, same here...he cancelled a week to the wedding. How did you heal dear 😢
@@KyeeyoTalk it was by the grace of God, through prayers and having a dear friend holding me in prayers healed me but when I look back now I praise Jesus that I never got married to him, I was young I don't think we would still be together but now am happily married glory to God
Woow you should be hosted otuwe details banange 😢
WoG, I would never have guessed that you have been through this. Indeed God washed that off your lineage.
Am in such a situation of single mum am couraged God will really heal and provide for me and my son I have faith one day testify
That part of 'Maama,omutima gunuma.'...The pain must have been beyond resilience
It was really painful but God is faithful all the time and forever 🙏
That word I once mentioned it. Indeed omutima guluma. It happened to me
I found myself with real tears rolling. Is it something unhealed in me? But anyway that part is a real emotional part.
True. Thank God her mother was empathetic AND prayerful
I cried after hearing mum omutima gunuma
I remember on 23rd Jan 2024 I called my pastor and I told him the same statement while broken I told him pastor omutima gunuma…I added on and told him pastor salvation is hard 😢😢😢because I felt I need to get my self drunk till I black out but fear of salvation and God hindered me from doing so 😢😢
Julian this is powerful
I am admiring this beautiful lady in a red dress, watching from South Africa as a South African Zulu girl... I am left speechless such beauty rare beauty❤❤❤... Umuhle dadewethu🙏🏾🙏🏾
God never ends the story until he brings the glory
I actually noted it too so beautiful
Narcissists r the worst people to be intimate with😢
Worst is an understatement
This guy was a narcissist
is it a preserve of males? cuz i never see any man say he married a narcissist.. oh i forgot. wimin ar always right
That mum hug moment made me so teary
Honestly it got me emotional 😢
Too emotional
I loved that moment
Let me leave this here for me to come and reply to my comment with a testimony before end of 2024
May God bless mothers who stand with their daughters no matter what! You never know what would have happened to her...
Removing u from ur job bx of alleged men's attention was number one red flag
God is faithful❤
Am still fighting with the man he truly wants me to leave my job
Ladies can waste parents tuition
I sure needed this, been going through a horrible heartbreak, thought of suicide in so many ways, this man throwing away what we built physically and emotionally like it never existed hurt me to the core. a week after i had left he had replaced me already. thank you Hilda for these amazing people you host and we learn from their experiences.
You dont need to throw away yourself. your relationship with God is more important
Her story is somehow same with me.....fearing to start over when the person u had hopes in has betrayed u....i remember the sleepless nights and tears .... literally i was also dying but i thank God i never received suicidal thoughts becoz of my baby....so God used her to give me a reason for living😢....thank u Jesus.....am still healing...i know one day God will bring in someone in His will.Amen
Sweet heart... Starting again is the biggest fear😢😢😢
“God never ends the story until he brings the glory to it”wooow wow my God🙏
wow. hope he does my mockery
Just got on this page ...to look for something to lift my soul because all things around me feel like won't come to pass!
I'm in the same situation. I lost everything in the name of love. Everything. Struggling with suicidal thoughts but I am keeping my faith in God to restore and rebuild me. To everyone going through tough times, I'm praying with you 🙏🏽
Am man who behaves like that doesn't truly love you but rather obsessed and a narcissist
Are you actually happy to be that way????
May the merciful Lord transform you 🙏 cause its not good, the pain you cause to those people might come back to and in abundance 😢
Bambi mama ye mama that part when she held you close nga omutima gukuluma just made me shade a tear as a mother bambi thanks for sharing your testimony ❤ 😢
Same here... It was the most touching part.... She's an angel
Hilda's book saved me "deliberately selfish"i was dating an abuser then & didn't know myself at all.
Where can I get Hildas book and how much
@@maitracy917 please contact her or try uganda book shop.
The stories we all have to tell,the heart break while 2weeks pregnant,the times I prayed for death to take me and the baby in me and all the times I woke up alive and got angry at God that with all His mighty power He couldn't take me in the night ...this life,i pray I ever get the courage to tell my story. Maybe it will be the start of total healing ...3yrs now and everything is still fresh,the pain is still real and new but I will get there. Amen
I pray that you one day heal
@@basketballdiaries2846 Amen,thank you so much 🙏
Hugs
Guma mukwano
I was missing alot listening to these stories alot is happening in my life but now I can handle every situation! Thankyou lord ❤
As for mother's, l didn't grow up with her and l was hoping to reconnect by force this time round naye mukama had other plans for her. She's no more and am heart is bleeding. R.I.P my beloved mom Akiiki wange maawu.
Rip
Sorry for your loss dear, Ruhanga Akugumye
Self discovery is the beginning of success in every area of our lives. God is Great! As ladies we are susceptible to narcissists because of ignorance that is why it is important to empower the Girl child.
Thank you Hilda for bringing in guests whose stories are impactful! Thank you Stella too for sharing your story, I believe many young girls will learn from it. Stay blessed
God never ends the story until He brings the Glory......deep one right there
He was insecure it would have ended in tears better a broken engagement than a marriage. I hope God helped him also find confidence in God
❤Awesome God
Amen and Amen
Amen
Wow, what an amazing testimony, indeed God has a way of coming in when the devil thinks he's won, We give God all the glory.
I’m glad I heard this 😢my soul needed it.
I love your show Hilda. For those who do not understand Luganda, please put English sub-titles. Though your show is mostly in English, once in a while you throw in vernacular. A fan from Kenya.
True, cater for your wider audience
Please also from Kenya
Same concern. Your fan from Kenya
me too, from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, but l love ❤️ the show
Thank you Birungi for sharing your story.
I’ve been going through a healing process of shame.
As the Lord lives God is in control.
Me i ran away after 2 weeks when the man told me to sit home
I think I cd do the same. Those things of sitting home🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅
i can totally relate its like shes talking my life too guys what God cant do is not there what you ask him he will provide or eeven multiply
You know when pple are telling us their stories there is a lot they don't tell us .but that message u sent to a married man "thank you my love " evenif i was the one ! U can't convince me that nothing was going on
Very true "thank you for the night " those two statements....
But we thank God because she came out stronger
i agree and im a woman. she expected the man to just let it roll over but it doesnt work that way
Rewatching this because of,"maama, omutima gunuuma"
Go to pr Tom in mutundwe, you will learn alot n find solace
Please translate what that means....thank you 🙏🏾
Mom mai HRT is so hurting 😭😭@@joannemuturi_purposecultivator
@@joannemuturi_purposecultivator Mum,""My heart is aching"
U know,mine was so soooooooo hurting that ihd nobody t tell,I decided t end mai lyfe ,on dat fateful day, ireturned home n it was over mi,long storie short,called mai friend told am going t kill myself,left her at my haux,went gotten drugs,told her t take my child,
So on seeing dat i was serious taking drugs,she came wi fought coz she wanted t take dem away bt in d process ihad taken a lot,where I got d energy t fight her idont know,
In d process of fighting wi poured water on d floor so I told her pliz help mi n mop dat water coz idont want ppl t come n find my bedroom dirty,she moped bt she was sure she hd taken a lot frm kumbe ihd taken more than a lot,
I went lyd on bed,mai words were pliiiiz help n take my child with you😭 ,coz idont want her t wake up n climb d dead body' bt ihd told her how I called my brother n he was t reach in d morning coz it was already late around 10:00pm so someone frm kla t where iwas it wld bi late,
Wat happened later idont bt God gave mi a 2rd chance t leave n i woke up frm 'COMA ' after three days 🤔
So her story there's away it drove mi back
My prayers to all who ever HD gone/going thru hrt,God strengthen dem 👏🙏🙏🙏
Wow! What a story! Very touching. I feel so happy that Stella is out of that heart break. May God bless her new relationship. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This has really touched me because i am just getting out of it 😢😢😢 heartbreak really hits deep 😢😢😢😢
Let's be strong am also getting out of it
Especially when the lies were alot then come to know the truth
@@shanieTemima and still pretend like he still needs you but in actual sense he knows that he is just wasting your time.
@@NAHAMedia Very true.
Ohhh dear 🫂 . It is well dear
Powerful, powerful testimony. Indeed God never ends the story until He gets the Glory! Amen!
what a touching story Birungi, it was really a sad moment you went through. this reminds me of our friends Sister , a neighbor they where so much in love but the boy friend just left for the US with out telling her of any plans of his travel and when she discovered from the boys family, she got so depressed and eventually died of depression after a period of some months, it was really sad
For sure these episodes are helping me positively.thanks alot
Her story has bits of mine ..like that dark pit..and the non existent relationship with her mother..this story resonates with me deeply..am in the waiting period..but I know I will testify
Amen. May the Almighty see u thru
"God never ends the story until he gets the glory". Wow. I will meditate on that indeed. Thanks for the testimony. I've learnt something, especially as someone waiting on God for marriage, waiting on God to work on me as I wait.
Hallelujah,this is my coming testimony in Jesus's Name Amen❤
@@akisiimireisabella4132 amen!
One thing I know is that God will not take you to a place he doesn't want you to be. We humans view disappointments as the end of the world, but years later, you realise God took you out of disaster. Praise God for his goodness towards us. Lol from Ghana 🇬🇭
I randomly clicked on this video but Stella you spoke directly to my soul... Am grateful to you for sharing your experience with all honesty. Ironically this msg was mine🙏
Wonderful!
I came across this platform today and it has really changed my life. Thank you Hilda.God bless you 🙏 .
She's a happy soul i have loved her
Am praying 🙏 that everyone knows they worth n purpose
N never gets suicidal thoughts
These just carry so much unknown rejection on our lives 😢
I like it when Hilda says - God never ends the story until he brings the glory.
What a testimony, am so encouraged and thankful to God for His timing is the best. One day i testify also.
I believe God brought me here for the reason coz its what have been going through 😢but now am strong and believe that God is with me thru this pain 😢
A man who stops you from working coz of insecurity 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
RIGHT?!
Run Baby R.U.N!
That man is a WITCH👌👌👌👌👌
@@julietbbaale879 😅😅😅. True. Evil
And he runs at night without clothes at night a real witch 😂😂😂@@julietbbaale879
Will soon stop you from breathing😝
This is so beautiful. Found it on tiktok and had to follow through. Amazing journey for sister Birungi. What a journey
These ladies are a catch,. Hilda is such an intelligent woman. Thank you ladies. Stella Congratulation to your future blessing. Thank you for your story its very encouraging.
I can listen to her story over and over. the most touching beat, when you told your mom,"omutiima gunuuma" I severely felt that
I know 😊
She is so beautiful
Awwwww this is really incredible. God is great! Thank u Stella & Hilda for sharing.
You are so welcome
When the love of your life breaks your heart in the least expected ways, there is a pain in your heart as if it is a HEART ATTACK. We feel actual pain in our chest and body. Others think we are being dramatic but the truth is that there is actual physical pain that we experience. This pain is felt because our brain picks up on intense emotional pain and responds as if it is physical. Though the pain may not be visible the body is so much hurting
Someone should tagg madam Stella birungi for me please 🙏. Thank you so much ❤
A mother's prayer
That statement got me crying.
I miss that prayer and hug.
Am lost without mums' prayer
you can pray for them too. God listens to all. i find that when i pray for mine God does hear the prayers real quick|!
Thank you so much for this testimony. God is a good God.
I love it when Bahati said don't rush us,like we need it all❤
A man to stop me from working Coz of his insecurities, hell no.... But still amidst all, we glorify God for the testimonies
Mum Hildah i thank u for your shows....u helped me even when u didn't know.....i was about to die coz depression due to betrayal but i remember tuning on NTV mwasuze mutya every morning watching Faridah and for the times she hosted u .....u spoke to me and i found a way ....hope one time i will meet you and testify and also to say thank you and how u helped me😢😢😢😢
The lady is a good narrator, Hilda is also good listener inspiring story I hope to also overcome my storm with God being the center of it all ,much 💝
You will overcome
Every heavy heart out their,just know that the Lord is always near to the broken hearted, and He will you succed and most to learn and lean on Him❣️🙏🙏
I’m weeping 😢😢😢 this is very touching especially when she found herself
You have given me hope that all things work for good with God
Because indeed the Blessing of God makes one rich and adds no sorrow unto it. Bless you Stella. Thanks Bahati for this.
I know what she is talking about.
God is good.
Mukama mulungi banange
We serve a mighty God.
Much love from Kenya. So inspiring. Just that I couldn't get some words but the whole story is so encouraging
Insecurity is different from true love and care....never be with an insecure person about u...they emotionally break u ...cause your life to rotate around them,make u to loose frnds even families..... that's where Hildah u got me from.....one time i will testify
you are beautiful inside and out let me tell you I think God wanted to save you from the danger , it takes maturity to walk away from a toxic person and the fact that he did what he paved a way for you to be the version of yourself, look at you such a calm person but very young in. a such a way that you had decided to settle with money not a good man hey thank God for the transition
At the thought of sounding uncaring I am in danger of saying that this lady was lucky in one aspect ie the man terminating the relationship when he did because such men who police their women to such degrees tend to be very brutal physically but thank god this one wasn't
Hello madam bahati thank you so much for hosting madam Stella. Am looking for her I don't know how to get to her . Kindly help me out . God bless you 🙏🥰
Me I have given on life am at zero on everything and am a single mum with so much emotional baggage but this is lessons this is faith this is a blessing I believe God is mighty
Thanks Stella for sharing your experience
You have encouraged me to move on.Thanks bahati as well God bless you all.
I recieve my healing. Thank you Stella for sharing your story.
Hilda, your channel is so eye opening . You're empowering
Thank you!
I think right now am in the same place Stella was in in 2017😢😢😢 l really don't know what to do Hilda 😢. I finished my final year papers yesterday.
I love Stella's energy, i thank God who was able to take you through that experience and you came out victorious. Congratulations girl, i see the ring 😂. May God bless you always 😊
I am really blessed with ur story Stella n I see myself in u
I learnt a lot. Thks for sharing. I am in that dark point in my life n trusting God to take the lead n settle me in Jesus name amen
This story is all i need to restore my hope in GOD
I am crying while watching this!
Naye men!!!!’
These words have really hit me hard... I really needed to hear this.
So blessed and glad to hear this.thanks stella for teaching us
He is A God of all seasons
Am speechless and inspired with love for u our strong fellow ladies thanks much for the blessings please stay blessed too abundance
Wow! Cant blv you went through that beautiful one. God is powerful, you are healed and happy now.
Yes! Thank you!
Beautiful story. Beautiful people. I enjoy these episodes Hilda.
Thank you for sharing your story Stella. You have no idea how many people's lives you impact. Blessings
I'm so glad!
Oh I wish you could translate. God bless
Thank you so much stella for sharing, your story encorages , restores hope and heals many souls out there. There is always a beautiful story after misery, God will bless the new journey you are on. We love you.
So true!
Thank you for testifying God's goodness and mercy. He is always there for us even during the hard times
You dodged a bullet.
Men can fetch you from your comfort zones and throw you in desert where there's no water and die of hunger 😏those years 2018_2019 seems we were going through the same situation just me was in my S6 vacation where the man who wanted to marry me came into my life. It was 2012_2019 through out my teenage stage i lived in darkness 💔💔
But it was one statement madam Hilda said on TV that rescued me
I didn't know even how to pray,i didn't have anyone to talk to 😢😢 instead I was judged 🤭🤦
Lots of love my dear!
Wow Stella this is such a an amazing journey of Resilience. God is real and present ❤
#Faith over Fear
I resonate with the guest lady, had a terrible depression after compass and a lack of direction. I pulled my self through and am living the best time of life. Never loose hope
34:43 what a testimony ❤God is great indeed, He always makes a way...