Grab a drink and let's dig in Bump Lovers! Have you been heartbroken before? How are you preparing your children for relationships and heartbreak? One thing we've learned is that the best a mother can do is to be present for her children no matter what trying moments they face in life. Let us know your thoughts about this in the comments below. Come and bond with your family, friends or loved ones at the Golden Tulip this Sunday at the SUNDAY BRUNCH - UGX 90,000 for adults and UGX 60,000 for children. If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who will relate and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
I am not sure that there is any form of preparation for a heartbreak...that stuff hits different. My babies...they will be well and I will be by their side if they let me.
My heartbreak came through my first love. He was a good man. Our love just had so many obstacles and loops to jump through. So, we gave up on it. He later married a nice woman and I'm married to a great man. Although my heart was broken for years, im grateful to have found love twice, to have loved and been loved by two amazing humans. Heatbreaks are especially painful when you know your ex is a good person but for some reason you just couldn't be. Thankfully our hearts are strong enough to break and be whole again. Thanks ladies, painful stories shared yet its such a sweet episode ❤
Hee me too, that church band boy did it to me, i always found myself apologising nga sirina nakye koze...But God is good, 25yrs down the road, he apologised to me. And it sounds like he aint happy gyaalj😊 We both married to different pple..
En am calling my first dota pumla...I really love you dearly..okisusa nyoo .. en fo Angie she inspires me a lot ... The cheers to everyone rosseette,reachel en emannuella..yoo a blessing to me
38:20 tears just came out of my eyes I was holding them back.. I swear I've never been heartbroken but your marriage partner losing interest in you hits different.. glad you found pink coco and then OJ came back 10000000000000000 times more.. Lord I want more than that.. what you've designed for me I know it's great.. thank you for the show women
Oh! He is right you know, we wouldn't be watching Bump love if you two hadn't put the idea together. I like how you two are real about different situations in your lives and marriage and the challenges you have been through together as a couple. You both inspire me. Love to all the Bump love girls, you guys give us a lot of laughter 😂
With how the world has treated me all around... I have learnt to face my failures with a brighter side... You weep one day two days... Next day you are gd to go
I wish i had seen this 10yrs back i would have made better choices. But i have had to learn the hard way and am making better choices, one day at a time. Pumla i love how you have reminded me about the power of choice, i choose you not the other way round. That's my best lesson
Hi Ladies I just bumped in your channel and it was such a good discussion about the central aspect of human life. Heart Break actually, the Bible says that the Lord is close to those who are heart broken. Your experiences were amazing to hear. Openness was key. I hope that all viewers learn from it. What it is that Heart break effects could stay with you throughout your life. The Lord binds the wounds of those who are heart broken. Thank you so so much.
Again for Angie's situation, your husband developed a condition called compassion fatigue. This is one were someone gets tired of loving you and your not loving back in the same weights. They feel like you should also find your own space sometimes and show them that you can be strong for yourself. So when you got pink coconut🥰, he felt that your nkw strong for yourself and ov coursed missed yuh❤
This is a bunch of good friends everyone should listen to... since its so real based on real life stories. Love these ladies, they are helping us out with different situations. THANK YOU.
Abengonge gyetuli banange naye heart break nazo gyezili somewhere. I have heard all of you speak naye Angie made me get goose bumps and I am thinking for sure deep lovers hurt deeply. On a lighter note nga Pumla ne Najjemba have said we become better.
Oh my goodness I hope am not too late to start the conversation with my teenage children! TONIGHT after re watching the show with them to break the ice😅
Oh my dear Ladies, this was amazing! Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing with us your experiences! And thank you for advocating for openess with children about relationships/heartbreaks!
Angie i love how you put all your heart ,mind and emotions in your speech. Have you considered acting?.... Also we know true love doesn't exist,Please write a book to give us hope. Don't you have single men in your clan(both clans-your dad and husbands) looks like true love is only there.🤣
Girls of Bumplove, you've made us recall some painful/embarrassing parts of our lives at an earlier younger age. Thank you. I agree with you that you open your eyes and learn the lessons of your life. This experience strengthens you to face life as it comes. Can you imagine the fact that when they (especially a spouse) are not easily accepted back, this can be a source of depression on their part? Communication/candid talk could be one outlet. Thank you for opening up on this. I take OJ's partner seriously: A girl should be born with a superiority complex. Thanks you very much, once more.
Seriously if any of my children ever gets through a heartbreak 💔 i would not wish to know...because i will still cry as though its me that has been heart broken moreso after knowing the pain, Hoooo omutima guluma, u feel like scratching waa that pain banange...omwana oyo Paul kyeyankola. 3 yrs now but that pain. It still feels like yesterday!!
The hardest thing is always acceptance but once you pose and know dat hey you are not the first or the last,then you find a way to accept ,move on and be much wiser than before.thank you ladies for the conversations on life you share weekly.
Rachael and Manuela... I love your stories. So relatable. Banange, church boys do not say... They act in a certain way. I cried for months. My body would even shake at the mention of the guys name. Eeh. Mweee... A heart break is terrible
Such a great inspirational and educative story. I love you ladies for being real free and open and that gives a deeper meaning to the audience. I love your makeups and you all look beautiful
Hello ladies i really love your shows.Thank God have never been heart broken but till today i recall all the hard times my ccta passed thru during her hrtbrk wlc really brought fear in her life to the extent she has never fallen in love or accept to be seeing any guy.I think it's a period of 4 years since then! But it was really the worst night mares and hard times of her life😢😢.But i love you my ccta so much.I always tell her to forgive the guy from her heart bottom it's only when she will open her love world again but it is really hard for her.She says.But i think this show will help her lot thank you ladies for the awesome work
Guys thanks alot for the show.But for me l have been very unfortunate in my early life.I have really experienced alot of stuff that my heart aches for any other gal child out there.And of course anyone cz this can happen to both genders.For the past 6yrs l have been subjected to emotional and mental abuse.This is something that we never told abt or learn anywhere as we grow up not evn in school and l feel its a topic of great importance to give a touch. Right now l feel scared for my son cz its worse for boy child to maneuvor thru as it is along time grief.There are people out there who have come from invalidating early childhood env'ts, faced with trauma, deliberately refused to heal and start to prey on others. I have been so unfortunate that l have been a magnet of such people but right now l know better and am the wisest .The kind of pain that u experience is so soul & spirit crushing to the core.This is not a heartbreak. I was 19 wen l fell in love with a grandiose narcissist and l didnt know wat it was at that particular time. he was all full of himself, ur so lucky to be mine kind of thing.In the beginning l was love bombed and it was like being over the moon the guy was so romantic. Late night txts & calls and l was hooked.Going back to school from holz he was giving me silent treatments and yea the chase started.Ghosting me, rejecting my calls and getting back together.Thats how the rshp was.On and off and in my mind l knew it was probably a game or he was testing me.it wemt on for 2yrs till l called it off after promising myself how l nedded to do better.l concluded that we were not on the same page and later in life l ran into videos talking abt this pattern of behavior.He had tolde earlier on that he had some people looking for him, haunting him and he had been on drugs but in public he was the legit speaker of the nursing campus. he tried coming back and l told him how l was officially breaking it off since he had ghosted me again.l let it slide and moved on from that whole experience. Made a business in Dec 2020 and met another guy who had been in my inbox for 3yrs.He was in the same district l was in and we met physically. He wasnt the attractive type.He Was so humble and agreeable & he came in totally dffnt version.I ddnt know he was wearing a mask.He was so responsible at the moment l needed to settle and he literally gave a hand Financially in every situation l was in. He ddnt allow the rshp to go on its own.He bombarded me wth gifts something l had never experienced.He suggested l should meet his aunt in 2months but l told him he was rushing . Meanwhile l had moved in.He started pestering me for achild after 2months and going an extra mile to do stuff for me .I questioned my self why babes would not see such a caring man who had made my life comfortable .Such a street wise person.Kumbe he was a Covert/vulnerable narcissit. This did not come to my mind cz he was too humble &quiet.The abuse started wen l got pregnant.It started as subtle and intensified wen l became 5months. Someone who was once aggreable switched to being antagonistic, Swollen, morby, brutting.He had deep seated anger,resentment but quiet that only an observant person who has educated themselves about that personality disorder could see.He walks around with a victim mentality at the same time abusing his household. I was 6months pregnant wen l posted annonymously in a women group called sisterhood abt my stuggles some comments read he was anarcissist. Took myself back in time wen we met and l was in denial to think that way yet it was true.Went to utube watched videos and landed on Dr Ramani Durvasula.I died. l only knew narcissists who were full of themselves.But here was l with an intoverted one who was destroying my life and l believe he had destroyed many lives bcz his life is like aplay book. l felt and wished l could abort this child to save hin from his superficial invalidating father.i wished it was 2-3months for me to get rid of it but l wasnt a murderer still.I had prepared for my pregnancy my entire lifetime ,waited for the right time but l got the shock of my life and l will never be able to heal from this trauma of getting a kid with a person who is obsessed abt looks/superficiality. He wants me to feed my kid to obesity l think cz he is 14months now and 11kgs but he is in a competition with his aunty's son baby. He buys him alot of stuff this is unhealthy since he sees him as an extension of him. He's small family wants me to be an enabler, to play along with this fake image and life of his.To be the one cz they had warmly welcomed me and given me all naye am an authentic person,an empath who cannot stay in such darkness. There is a deep void in him that can never be filled by anyone. I am moving on , looking for God and waiting for my perfect timing. its a very long story to read but a very big lesson for the ones who think they are getting too old to settle and desperately cannot wait . I need to teach my son about this kind of stuff through tje story of a "Giving tree." I dont evn know whether life will allow me to stay with him or stay with his father that he will live life pleasing his narcissistic father and become prone to choosing a narcissistic partner that he will spend the rest of his life pleasing. I am just praying to God
Oh Linda. Is this still going on? Emotional abuse btw breaks you even more than physical abuse. Please seek help and find a way to get yourself out of that mess for you and your son's sake.
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Yes dia. That is my long story.Thanks alot. l have healed myself dia through watching and joining survivors channels and using their videos as a means to educate myself .Am very good now but wanted to share my story out there
Just recently started following,,,❤ and it's so beautiful how you lovely mothers are preparing generations for many,,, thank you for your vulnerability and I hope to meet one of you some day🎉🎉
I downloaded this episode to watch at home .....but I have been forced to go back to RUclips and just scroll through comments.........before even going far😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😔 Pumla....... Bambi, no wonder you're the strongest in the team. You've been beaten deep but came out strongest........
It is comforting to know that these emotions are universal, heart break is the same for all of us and even more comforting is that it all passes and we emerge out bolder and stronger.
How did you know I’m going through a heart break 😢😢 after 5years of breaking up without closure! I’m only now heartbroken 💔 when he’s finally gotten married, Manuel this girl (my replacement) is soooooooo cute! I have no right to even feel what I’m feeling💔
Wow today the episode has dropped early enough that's owesome. Friday is dedicated to bump love. Thanks so much for sharing ladies your all looking great. There is always something impactful to learn from your stories 👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
My mom always told me a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage... So, that was that in terms of her preparation , generally saying it's okay to break up earlier. Didn't make the heartbreak any less painful but it helped me survive it.
Ooooh wow I have been waiting for this particular episode ever since I wachted the ka clip on Instagram I really love and waiting for pumla and Manuela stories can't wait
Angie...I feel u! I feel u!😢 .from so much love to just feeling pain constantly n gaining weight and beating my kids just becz I was breaking (not doing that anymore), depression...but holy spirit...He is holding me and embracing me daily. Truth is I would run away but I will find my way back to my true self that is beautiful ..becz God wants me here.
Ohhh my pumla nga that wasn't gud kasita yo now a big girl en am sure wherever he is his regretting eeeehhh inze my guy fell for my friend I remember calling him saying am coming to yo place he as like me den the me I jumped on a boda mamaa nga some gal is like who is that nawunga en ran back home nakaba wooowèe en my grandma was like u not deserve him so me dats how I got out of it but beautiful ladies thanks for always putting a smile on our faces
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Grab a drink and let's dig in Bump Lovers!
Have you been heartbroken before? How are you preparing your children for relationships and heartbreak?
One thing we've learned is that the best a mother can do is to be present for her children no matter what trying moments they face in life.
Let us know your thoughts about this in the comments below.
Come and bond with your family, friends or loved ones at the Golden Tulip this Sunday at the SUNDAY BRUNCH - UGX 90,000 for adults and UGX 60,000 for children.
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My name is Joan and I love u so much Angie
I am not sure that there is any form of preparation for a heartbreak...that stuff hits different. My babies...they will be well and I will be by their side if they let me.
You ladies are something else
Coming back to this episode because my heart has been wrecked. This video has been a great contribution to my healing process❤️...no one prepared me😂
Angie's story, as she narrated it, had my heart in my throat all thru.....she is an amazing story teller. Uweeee!
Angie's voice is so calm,but strong and relaxing. I would listen to you night and day😊
Oba how did these friends choose themselves!!!? They are all so sweet😊
Pumla she is the best in this group, just love her character she is such a free soul
Much love right back at you ❤
I love Rachael’s makeup. It matches with her hair. And I loved the conversation😊
Thank you😊
Ba church boys ...dear Lord! Mine too was a church boy...I thank him because the heart break seriously taught me how to pray...no lie!!🙇🙇🙏
Guys!
My heartbreak came through my first love. He was a good man. Our love just had so many obstacles and loops to jump through. So, we gave up on it. He later married a nice woman and I'm married to a great man.
Although my heart was broken for years, im grateful to have found love twice, to have loved and been loved by two amazing humans.
Heatbreaks are especially painful when you know your ex is a good person but for some reason you just couldn't be. Thankfully our hearts are strong enough to break and be whole again.
Thanks ladies, painful stories shared yet its such a sweet episode ❤
Heartbreaks are more painful when you know the man is a good human being.
Pumla: at your poor house?
Manuela: yes, at our poor house. I'm in stitches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DEAD 😅
Bwahahahahahahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Angie cut a lot of onions. It’s her bounce back for me ❤
No one breaks hearts like those church boys😢 the most hurtful heart break I have experienced was with a church boy. Still healing.
I tell you.😢
Hee me too, that church band boy did it to me, i always found myself apologising nga sirina nakye koze...But God is good, 25yrs down the road, he apologised to me. And it sounds like he aint happy gyaalj😊 We both married to different pple..
En am calling my first dota pumla...I really love you dearly..okisusa nyoo .. en fo Angie she inspires me a lot ... The cheers to everyone rosseette,reachel en emannuella..yoo a blessing to me
Heart breaks build us thick skins and also allow us appreciate the right persons who come in our lives later. Thanks ladies for the show❤
Totally agree - Thick skin 👌
U are right
Whilst I am growing to love the new panel, I can’t help but miss the OGs. I find myself rewatching past videos from time to time and loving it!
Alone, cold & miserable with NO VIRGINITY🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣This line sent me straight to the floor 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣But Pumla🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Haahahahaaa! Now imagine me who was going through it 😂
Bwoleka with No Virginity
@@pumlanabachwa8668🤣🤣🤣🤣
One day, I would like to meet Pumla and laugh. Please Pumla.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pumla banange
love how Mrs Omeka expresses herself. she is so sensitive and i love it for her💜
True, her description of circumstances hits different. Slowly she is has topped my chat among the ladies( I love them all though)
I can already imagine hearing about the guys talk about heartbreak for the Men, Bring the guys back😊
Angie with her angelic talk😊😘.this is among my favorite episodes so glad I learn something new every time I watch.......kudos guys👏
Oh sweet Angie,you made me cry. You have a beautiful heart. True love for your man👏👏
38:20 tears just came out of my eyes I was holding them back.. I swear I've never been heartbroken but your marriage partner losing interest in you hits different.. glad you found pink coco and then OJ came back 10000000000000000 times more..
Lord I want more than that.. what you've designed for me I know it's great.. thank you for the show women
I love Angie😭😭 phumla is my reality check😂 Rach is gentle gives big sister vibes... manuela is vibessss😂
Hehehe! Always here to keep us in check 😅
Truee
Angie and Rosette matched outfits🥰🥰🥰.Thanks for being part of my Friday schedule.
Commenting again, Manuella that Pastor's son not marrying you was a big gain for MR MULONDO, you two were destined for each other 😊
Bwahahahahahahahaha, Brian says this alot 😅
Oh! He is right you know, we wouldn't be watching Bump love if you two hadn't put the idea together. I like how you two are real about different situations in your lives and marriage and the challenges you have been through together as a couple. You both inspire me. Love to all the Bump love girls, you guys give us a lot of laughter 😂
@@May-kn3dsq1q
Pumla, Manuela and Racheal your guys have spoken out your hearts and this is so you mwebale, we are learning a lot from you.
Thank you ❤
Do u know that I I haven't recognize there names axccept Manuela Mulondo
My Pumla ❤ i love you so much 🥰 mukazi ❤️
Oh Nanyonga. Much Love right back at you ❤
Hi bump ladies thanks for sharing with us your personal secrets .......hi bump lovers... proud of you ladies
I have had one heart which nearly took my life 😢😢but swore to God ,,no one will ever break 💔 me
NOONE!
Viola welcome to Pumla's world🤣🤣🤣 Emitima jakaluba🙌 hope my Luganda is correct😂
This show is everything.
3 yrs still getting over this rship n this is my first heartbreak at 33😅.
But this show is helping
I love how you guys are so real, diffrent personalities and no pretence.
I felt like crying with this lady😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭oh my god
But parents should take part in this.......heartbreaks can even finish u for real
With how the world has treated me all around... I have learnt to face my failures with a brighter side... You weep one day two days...
Next day you are gd to go
Next day you are good to go 👍🏾
I wish i had seen this 10yrs back i would have made better choices. But i have had to learn the hard way and am making better choices, one day at a time. Pumla i love how you have reminded me about the power of choice, i choose you not the other way round. That's my best lesson
Power truly does lie in Choices. Let us choose...not the other way around.
Hi Ladies I just bumped in your channel and it was such a good discussion about the central aspect of human life. Heart Break actually, the Bible says that the Lord is close to those who are heart broken. Your experiences were amazing to hear. Openness was key. I hope that all viewers learn from it. What it is that Heart break effects could stay with you throughout your life. The Lord binds the wounds of those who are heart broken. Thank you so so much.
I just love how u guys give each other time to talk
Again for Angie's situation, your husband developed a condition called compassion fatigue. This is one were someone gets tired of loving you and your not loving back in the same weights. They feel like you should also find your own space sometimes and show them that you can be strong for yourself.
So when you got pink coconut🥰, he felt that your nkw strong for yourself and ov coursed missed yuh❤
Ladies thank u for sharing yo heart break stories with us,yo stories help me to understand women.thank u so much.
This is a bunch of good friends everyone should listen to... since its so real based on real life stories. Love these ladies, they are helping us out with different situations. THANK YOU.
Abengonge gyetuli banange naye heart break nazo gyezili somewhere. I have heard all of you speak naye Angie made me get goose bumps and I am thinking for sure deep lovers hurt deeply. On a lighter note nga Pumla ne Najjemba have said we become better.
Leave heart break alone, from 62kg to 45kgs. Mukwano let's leave that pain to Heavenly Father God
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Thanks so much me here learning how to deal with the world.
Wowww Angie! What a story and a comeback! I now know no one needs that much love/sugar
Oh my goodness I hope am not too late to start the conversation with my teenage children! TONIGHT after re watching the show with them to break the ice😅
Racheal, nothing hurts like seeing your child having your behavior that you don't like.
This has made my dae...mbu dt real love dt only happens in movies and story books😅😅😅😂
Friday is for bump love ✨🥳...
It should even be a public holiday. #BumpLoveDay
Forever🌻
Am listening to this as am going through a heart break, truth is it hurts from a place you cant scratch.
Oh my dear Ladies, this was amazing! Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing with us your experiences! And thank you for advocating for openess with children about relationships/heartbreaks!
We do need to be able to speak to our kids about it
Angie ur really a good mother surely just know trying to plead for ur son am super excited i wish u were my mum😍
Angie i love how you put all your heart ,mind and emotions in your speech. Have you considered acting?.... Also we know true love doesn't exist,Please write a book to give us hope. Don't you have single men in your clan(both clans-your dad and husbands) looks like true love is only there.🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂True love exists banange 😂😂😂😂
For sure,in Uganda I thought true love isn't available 😢
hahahaha, Really .anyway Good idea .
Era she shd consider acting ehhhh apana
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pumpla am breaking too ( ebibi bisekelwa) 😂😂😂 that poem was uncalled for.
Girls of Bumplove, you've made us recall some painful/embarrassing parts of our lives at an earlier younger age.
Thank you.
I agree with you that you open your eyes and learn the lessons of your life.
This experience strengthens you to face life as it comes.
Can you imagine the fact that when they (especially a spouse) are not easily accepted back, this can be a source of depression on their part?
Communication/candid talk could be one outlet.
Thank you for opening up on this. I take OJ's partner seriously: A girl should be born with a superiority complex.
Thanks you very much, once more.
Ooo God...!
You guys have had heart breaks!!!!..
Since it's all about heart break we need to hear from boy child side, please bring Kasuku and Kyamagero
Love the topic today...the guy that breaks my heart when i was a teenager is now my husband after 30 years.
This is sweet
Eh! Gwe you real dialed back. Well done! Wish I could hear this story
Oh 😮😮😮wawooo
Awwwwwwwwww
Wow🎉🎉🎉
Seriously if any of my children ever gets through a heartbreak 💔 i would not wish to know...because i will still cry as though its me that has been heart broken moreso after knowing the pain, Hoooo omutima guluma, u feel like scratching waa that pain banange...omwana oyo Paul kyeyankola. 3 yrs now but that pain. It still feels like yesterday!!
The hardest thing is always acceptance but once you pose and know dat hey you are not the first or the last,then you find a way to accept ,move on and be much wiser than before.thank you ladies for the conversations on life you share weekly.
Rachael and Manuela... I love your stories. So relatable. Banange, church boys do not say... They act in a certain way.
I cried for months. My body would even shake at the mention of the guys name. Eeh.
Mweee... A heart break is terrible
Such a great inspirational and educative story. I love you ladies for being real free and open and that gives a deeper meaning to the audience.
I love your makeups and you all look beautiful
You really add value to our life.Thank you.
Hello ladies i really love your shows.Thank God have never been heart broken but till today i recall all the hard times my ccta passed thru during her hrtbrk wlc really brought fear in her life to the extent she has never fallen in love or accept to be seeing any guy.I think it's a period of 4 years since then! But it was really the worst night mares and hard times of her life😢😢.But i love you my ccta so much.I always tell her to forgive the guy from her heart bottom it's only when she will open her love world again but it is really hard for her.She says.But i think this show will help her lot thank you ladies for the awesome work
Please share this episode with her. We must heal and move on
Thumbs up ladies but good enough you collected up your hearts and heart breaks real pains
Guys thanks alot for the show.But for me l have been very unfortunate in my early life.I have really experienced alot of stuff that my heart aches for any other gal child out there.And of course anyone cz this can happen to both genders.For the past 6yrs l have been subjected to emotional and mental abuse.This is something that we never told abt or learn anywhere as we grow up not evn in school and l feel its a topic of great importance to give a touch. Right now l feel scared for my son cz its worse for boy child to maneuvor thru as it is along time grief.There are people out there who have come from invalidating early childhood env'ts, faced with trauma, deliberately refused to heal and start to prey on others. I have been so unfortunate that l have been a magnet of such people but right now l know better and am the wisest .The kind of pain that u experience is so soul & spirit crushing to the core.This is not a heartbreak. I was 19 wen l fell in love with a grandiose narcissist and l didnt know wat it was at that particular time. he was all full of himself, ur so lucky to be mine kind of thing.In the beginning l was love bombed and it was like being over the moon the guy was so romantic. Late night txts & calls and l was hooked.Going back to school from holz he was giving me silent treatments and yea the chase started.Ghosting me, rejecting my calls and getting back together.Thats how the rshp was.On and off and in my mind l knew it was probably a game or he was testing me.it wemt on for 2yrs till l called it off after promising myself how l nedded to do better.l concluded that we were not on the same page and later in life l ran into videos talking abt this pattern of behavior.He had tolde earlier on that he had some people looking for him, haunting him and he had been on drugs but in public he was the legit speaker of the nursing campus. he tried coming back and l told him how l was officially breaking it off since he had ghosted me again.l let it slide and moved on from that whole experience.
Made a business in Dec 2020 and met another guy who had been in my inbox for 3yrs.He was in the same district l was in and we met physically. He wasnt the attractive type.He Was so humble and agreeable & he came in totally dffnt version.I ddnt know he was wearing a mask.He was so responsible at the moment l needed to settle and he literally gave a hand Financially in every situation l was in. He ddnt allow the rshp to go on its own.He bombarded me wth gifts something l had never experienced.He suggested l should meet his aunt in 2months but l told him he was rushing . Meanwhile l had moved in.He started pestering me for achild after 2months and going an extra mile to do stuff for me .I questioned my self why babes would not see such a caring man who had made my life comfortable .Such a street wise person.Kumbe he was a Covert/vulnerable narcissit. This did not come to my mind cz he was too humble &quiet.The abuse started wen l got pregnant.It started as subtle and intensified wen l became 5months. Someone who was once aggreable switched to being antagonistic, Swollen, morby, brutting.He had deep seated anger,resentment but quiet that only an observant person who has educated themselves about that personality disorder could see.He walks around with a victim mentality at the same time abusing his household.
I was 6months pregnant wen l posted annonymously in a women group called sisterhood abt my stuggles some comments read he was anarcissist. Took myself back in time wen we met and l was in denial to think that way yet it was true.Went to utube watched videos and landed on Dr Ramani Durvasula.I died. l only knew narcissists who were full of themselves.But here was l with an intoverted one who was destroying my life and l believe he had destroyed many lives bcz his life is like aplay book. l felt and wished l could abort this child to save hin from his superficial invalidating father.i wished it was 2-3months for me to get rid of it but l wasnt a murderer still.I had prepared for my pregnancy my entire lifetime ,waited for the right time but l got the shock of my life and l will never be able to heal from this trauma of getting a kid with a person who is obsessed abt looks/superficiality. He wants me to feed my kid to obesity l think cz he is 14months now and 11kgs but he is in a competition with his aunty's son baby. He buys him alot of stuff this is unhealthy since he sees him as an extension of him.
He's small family wants me to be an enabler, to play along with this fake image and life of his.To be the one cz they had warmly welcomed me and given me all naye am an authentic person,an empath who cannot stay in such darkness. There is a deep void in him that can never be filled by anyone.
I am moving on , looking for God and waiting for my perfect timing. its a very long story to read but a very big lesson for the ones who think they are getting too old to settle and desperately cannot wait . I need to teach my son about this kind of stuff through tje story of a "Giving tree." I dont evn know whether life will allow me to stay with him or stay with his father that he will live life pleasing his narcissistic father and become prone to choosing a narcissistic partner that he will spend the rest of his life pleasing. I am just praying to God
Oh Linda. Is this still going on? Emotional abuse btw breaks you even more than physical abuse. Please seek help and find a way to get yourself out of that mess for you and your son's sake.
You can break this cycle....for your current and future son(s) and your daughter(s)...... its a cycle YOU WILL BREAK
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Yes dia. That is my long story.Thanks alot. l have healed myself dia through watching and joining survivors channels and using their videos as a means to educate myself .Am very good now but wanted to share my story out there
@@lindahesther1829wish I could meet you 😢😢😢.
@@tendowinny1102 why dia? Have u ever been in the same place?
Pumla banange...i felt that heartbreak 😢...omg..he was so harsh ..also your so descriptive..❤u
Jeez,ladies....i was literally replaying my heartbreak as you shared😂 Banange heartbreak can kill ehh. We bless God for the come backs❤
Just recently started following,,,❤ and it's so beautiful how you lovely mothers are preparing generations for many,,, thank you for your vulnerability and I hope to meet one of you some day🎉🎉
Naye mwe young mothers hmmm I think my wife should follow some of your footsteps 😉😉😉 big up to u selves. U are inspiring young women🥰👍
Thank you Moses ❤
Eeehh Angie Woww Angie the I tagged along with the emotions my heart was swinging 😢😢. I love you soo much ladies
A moment of silence for Angie's husband.......Ok then around of applause for him ....Hats off....Happy for Angie
You ladies are all pretty, lovely, brilliant, and i love each and every one of your episodes.
Didn’t want to the stories to end 😫beautiful episode !
I found you all randomly but I have grown to love you all. I’m a racheal at heart. We look tough outside but so soft on the inside.
I downloaded this episode to watch at home .....but I have been forced to go back to RUclips and just scroll through comments.........before even going far😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😔 Pumla....... Bambi, no wonder you're the strongest in the team. You've been beaten deep but came out strongest........
Hahaha! We must learn from our past
Manuela u win the come back....u hv really cracked me up
You ladies are fantastic!!! Thanks for sharing and empowering us.
We have so much in common pumla...I just love you 😍
Beautiful episode. Ladies looking so beautiful. I love rachels make up and manuellaz glow currently plus the current hair. I truly relate with pumla
I thought ghosting is just starting with us😂 Oh Racheal thanks for sharing .
It is comforting to know that these emotions are universal, heart break is the same for all of us and even more comforting is that it all passes and we emerge out bolder and stronger.
It passes. That's for sure.
We know life happens but this team was fire.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. We miss you.
Surely, they should host one OG like Pumla from time to time
I didn't want this episode to end😢. It was so good 😂😂
How did you know I’m going through a heart break 😢😢 after 5years of breaking up without closure! I’m only now heartbroken 💔 when he’s finally gotten married, Manuel this girl (my replacement) is soooooooo cute! I have no right to even feel what I’m feeling💔
Wow today the episode has dropped early enough that's owesome. Friday is dedicated to bump love. Thanks so much for sharing ladies your all looking great. There is always something impactful to learn from your stories 👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Wow thanks for sharing your stories love you ladies watching from the UK. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Love right back to you Linda
@@pumlanabachwa8668 thank you ❤
This is absolutely beautiful. All the stories are great but Angie nailed it
I know right🥰and how she expressed her words was massive👌
Rosette is a silent burner. Quiet when need be but hilarious when her turn comes. Much love guys....naye Brian had to show up....hahhah
So glad. Today I have checked once and found the episode. Keep it up!
Love this for you
Ohh dear ladies thank you for making our lives better in all ways
I'll never put my self in a situation which would terribly crash my heart. I had it once & that was it
Gorgeous UG ladies represent!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
Naye Angie banange... as if she doesn’t live in our world.😅😅
😆😆😆😆
Shez from Mars...even the way she talks like she's not speaking English 😂😂😂😂
Alimba😂
Planet Mercury is wea Angie belongs 😂😂😂😂
Mpulila ayiziza 😂😂😂😂
My mom always told me a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage... So, that was that in terms of her preparation , generally saying it's okay to break up earlier. Didn't make the heartbreak any less painful but it helped me survive it.
Ooooh wow I have been waiting for this particular episode ever since I wachted the ka clip on Instagram I really love and waiting for pumla and Manuela stories can't wait
Banange why? 😅😅😅😅😅
Thanks so much Racheal .. personally I think I always come off needy and was always wondering how I can shake it off now I have my answer
But Angie I love you so much. And believe you 100%❤
Wow wow tx ladies for the show
Angie...I feel u! I feel u!😢 .from so much love to just feeling pain constantly n gaining weight and beating my kids just becz I was breaking (not doing that anymore), depression...but holy spirit...He is holding me and embracing me daily. Truth is I would run away but I will find my way back to my true self that is beautiful ..becz God wants me here.
Oh Giana. Hugs to you. I do hope you are doing better now and loving on those kids even more
Ohhh my pumla nga that wasn't gud kasita yo now a big girl en am sure wherever he is his regretting eeeehhh inze my guy fell for my friend I remember calling him saying am coming to yo place he as like me den the me I jumped on a boda mamaa nga some gal is like who is that nawunga en ran back home nakaba wooowèe en my grandma was like u not deserve him so me dats how I got out of it but beautiful ladies thanks for always putting a smile on our faces
We live. We learn munange
Angie's story best describes it all...we can all now relate what girls go through
Wow❤I’m so in love with this episode🥹✨♥️Thankyou ladies💃🏽