What Does The NO CONTACT RULE Do To Your EX (& YOU) Energetically?

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  Год назад

    Manifest Your Dream Life With The Magnetic Activation Process here: ➡ www.AaronDoughty.com/map

    • @sabrina8436
      @sabrina8436 Год назад

      Headphone girl here: only noice in my left ear

    • @andrearuhlman1233
      @andrearuhlman1233 Год назад

      Thank you! I am really going through it right now and your video helped me so much. I'm in a very painful dark place with someone who forced no contact on me and made me feel discarded. I want to grow and I want to heal and I want to be perfectly okay without my abuser. Because the way he went about the no contact is abuse. All your videos are so helpful to me and I appreciate you so much!

  • @ahealingplace7350
    @ahealingplace7350 Год назад +87

    It's been 10 months 🙌🏽🙌🏽 it was torture in the beginning.... I'm free now, happy and doing well!! I'm extremely proud of myself and now guard my heart fiercely, I love myself and have healthy expectations and boundaries... this was for me! Not for them. No part of me wants him back, my taste has definitely changed... I feel better and I want better. Tbh I still have some residual feelings of hurt but I'm safe on the other side...
    To whoever needs this, stay strong 💪🏽 know that you are deserving of the best!
    All the best ❤❤

    • @heavenlygrandma9992
      @heavenlygrandma9992 Год назад +3

      Congratulations.

    • @ahealingplace7350
      @ahealingplace7350 Год назад +2

      @@heavenlygrandma9992 thank you

    • @heavenlygrandma9992
      @heavenlygrandma9992 Год назад +1

      @@ahealingplace7350 👍

    • @ES-gm2no
      @ES-gm2no Год назад +1

      Congratulations girl..

    • @butterflygoddess2436
      @butterflygoddess2436 Год назад +1

      I’m so happy for you. It’s been 9 months for me. Can I ask you something? Did you block him? I went through a breakup with the most amazing man. He’s so different now and is hot and cold and I’m tired and deserve better. It’s so hard to maintain that boundary when he messages me, but he’s been so loving at times and treated me so poorly the other. In your opinion, what do you think I should do?

  • @scrfred
    @scrfred Год назад

    Once I letted go I finally realized how freaking easy it was one's own ego often is the problem my own frame drawn people asking what's different about you appreciate it

    • @roseedun914
      @roseedun914 Год назад

      How long did it take you to let go? I’m trying but it’s not easy. It was the most beautiful realization I’ve ever and had his love was so selfless. I’m hurting.

  • @Bullerpigen
    @Bullerpigen Год назад

    Thank You

  • @Iamreunited
    @Iamreunited Год назад

    What about when your ex stole your babies?

  • @DudetaketheBus
    @DudetaketheBus Год назад +3

    I was doing so well until about 2 months ago when I broke my arm. I haven’t spoken to that person since June, but yet, I still feel their emotions, and I get sad whenever my brain thinks about them. I don’t want that person (at least I tell myself that) but I do feel they think about me a lot because my brain often wanders with their thoughts.
    I distract myself, I stay busy on my purpose, and yet it doesn’t go away. I found someone else, but I fear mind is forever on that person.
    I think this extremely pathetic but can this mean something I don’t necessarily want? Please, I hate this.

    • @MorganMindfulness
      @MorganMindfulness Год назад +3

      What we resist persists-Carl Jung
      Take some time out of your day in the next few days to give at least 20 minutes of your attention to what it is like for you to still feel this connection. A good meditation for this practice can be found looking up Tara Brachs rain mediation here on RUclips.
      Rain stands for in this case, recognize, allow, identify, and nurture. It is likely that a good portion of why you haven't been able to disconnect from this person is because you have made it IMPORTANT that you do. The more you dread what this continued connection could actually mean, the more you feed the connection itself. To free yourself from this loop, you have to be willing to explore this energy with unconditional love, accepting that yes one outcome could be realizing you still have feelings while another outcome could be the freedom from this connection that you find yourself desiring.
      May this prove helpful to you or anyone else reading this.

    • @ahealingplace7350
      @ahealingplace7350 Год назад

      Two months and you have already moved on?? That was too quick...and it's not fair to the new person you are with, it's like you are using them as an emotional Shield, how would you like it if someone did that to you?
      You are clearly still healing and probably still inlove with your ex.... you need time, time alone

    • @DudetaketheBus
      @DudetaketheBus Год назад

      @@MorganMindfulness I hear you, it makes perfect sense. But what if I find out I still have feelings for this person?
      Should I reach out? I tried for so long before (about 2 months after I found out some things). It’s not like she cheated, we weren’t official, but I eventually gave up. But I also respect myself to not look so desperate. Ik according to Aaron, I still feed her desperate energy but I just want to detach myself, and I guess allow her to reach out. Not in a manipulative way but so she can reach out and I make that decision on my own.
      I also know if she did reach out, I’d do it with open arms so she’s not scared to come back. Of course I’ll be reluctant to give her the same energy I gave her before, but crap man… out of the many heartbreaks I’ve been in, this has probably been the one that’s lasted the longest and still pains me.

  • @alexanderrose2525
    @alexanderrose2525 Год назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS 🤍

    • @whatsapp1934
      @whatsapp1934 Год назад +1

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  • @askerovgroup
    @askerovgroup Год назад +1

    8billion

  • @thesocialfox_
    @thesocialfox_ Год назад +78

    To anyone reading this, I hope that your desires manifest very soon! Sending you high, positive vibes 🌈

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Год назад +12

    Constantly looking at things that remind you of your ex is not going to help you to get over them. You must discipline yourself not to do these things as this will help you to heal and move on from the hurt and pain.
    💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @glamaz0n
    @glamaz0n Год назад +23

    The best thing about no contact rule is that when I was so unhappy in a relationship that I wished I’d never met them, this was a way to go back to “before” when I was totally in my own energy.

    • @heavenlygrandma9992
      @heavenlygrandma9992 Год назад

      I wish I could forget my husband but retain the lessons learned.

    • @scentedgamer8676
      @scentedgamer8676 Год назад

      Wishing that u never met someone is brutal.

    • @heavenlygrandma9992
      @heavenlygrandma9992 Год назад

      @@scentedgamer8676
      Really? I"d say the abuse of the narcissist is brutal.

  • @madameluisa9266
    @madameluisa9266 Год назад +10

    Been no contacts 8 days. First days were torture now I’m feeling better getting my energy back…haven’t felt this free in years NEVER going back!!

  • @GooglePlusPages
    @GooglePlusPages Год назад +9

    Every time Aaron speaks about his childhood and hear the pain in his voice, I just want to reach out and send psychic hugs to this young man.
    This from a father of three whose ex-wife took the kids, the dog, the cat, most of the good stuff, half the money, and my wounded heart hasn't healed.

  • @Light-Shift
    @Light-Shift Год назад +8

    So true. The original idea is we are both aligned and stable within ourselves and come together to enjoy life similar goals and share together. Coming together for other reasons causes dissonance and often separation from self because you believe your happiness is dependent on the other person. I hope you realize how beautiful you are. How powerful in your love light and wisdom. Talents and genius. And that ascension is simply stepping into who you already are. Its releasing blocks and false beliefs that keep you from allowing these divine energies that you already are. Love you so much.🍃

    • @beamtweez1210
      @beamtweez1210 Год назад

      So why does the ex say 2-3 weeks later we had a ‘good life together’ female saying to male.😅life is FULL OF MYSTERY’S

  • @Truckhergirl
    @Truckhergirl Год назад +26

    Mutually “Agreeing” to go “no contact” takes a certain level of maturity that not a lot of people possess. I love myself. That’s all that matters. A lot of people don’t deserve to hear my voice.

    • @kingdingaling2854
      @kingdingaling2854 Год назад

      Disagree, i believe its immaturity that needs space whereas maturity allows two adults to speak to one another and work things out instead of running

    • @Truckhergirl
      @Truckhergirl Год назад +1

      @@kingdingaling2854 it’s immature for someone to just go no contact and ghost without telling the other person-that is what I’m referring to! For example: I have three exes since 2010 and they are still contacting me after I told them I don’t go backwards and I’m not dealing with them anymore. Three strikes and they are out. Im not dealing with people who are codependent, toxic, liars, dogs, egotistical, or selfish!

  • @davidkelvin1448
    @davidkelvin1448 Год назад +3

    When you let go you know your worth, don’t depend on other people to make you complete. No contact rule will test who you truly are !

  • @ElliottPiano
    @ElliottPiano Год назад +6

    Bless you Aaron
    the (no manipulation ) no contact rule has been such a game changer

  • @patienceacheampong9542
    @patienceacheampong9542 Год назад +5

    Hi Aaron, we need more of these no contact rule videos.

  • @alisonlmt4029
    @alisonlmt4029 Год назад +7

    This can take a lot of time…. And tears 😢💔❤️‍🩹

  • @engygamal7440
    @engygamal7440 Год назад +2

    When god allow to person to leave you that because you deserve anthor person better than him .make it your rule if its good it will never leave we don't judge people but the good person for you will stay so firstly you should become that person for yourself because everything is reflection ♥️🦋🌠💎

  • @DivineGrace02
    @DivineGrace02 Год назад +2

    This is really helpful. I just broke up from
    Painful relationship😊. God’s call..God is working in my life. You’re my angel Aaron.

  • @nancyrivera3417
    @nancyrivera3417 Год назад +4

    How can you have the no contact rule when you live in the same condo? Seriously someone explain how? 😢

    • @ahealingplace7350
      @ahealingplace7350 Год назад +1

      Limit unnecessary interactions, keep reminding yourself its over, still be respectful and cordial but be firm and keep your boundaries sky high especially while you're still healing

    • @cynthiaarthur2967
      @cynthiaarthur2967 Год назад +1

      I'd like an answer to this also... You are not alone !! My X lives across the street for last 4 years and it's been a ride from HELL ‼️

    • @nancyrivera3417
      @nancyrivera3417 Год назад

      @@ahealingplace7350 thank you 😔

  • @dennudsen
    @dennudsen 4 месяца назад

    I’m greatful for you. You helped me a lot few years ago. Much love

  • @sharonsuddaby3473
    @sharonsuddaby3473 Год назад +2

    Ummm I love my own energy ❤️ ⚡💫☄️🪐🌔🌕🌖

  • @ThePhoenixstar88
    @ThePhoenixstar88 Год назад +2

    I was just asking about this and this popped up lol. What are the real rules here? Is it just no contact in the 3D or can I still do energetic meditations for healing and such?

  • @starlouise397
    @starlouise397 Год назад +1

    A bit hypercritical.... No contact to get them back but now it's manipulative. Well if it's meant to be it will ✨

  • @charnegraaff6249
    @charnegraaff6249 Год назад +1

    I am so lost. My girl asked for us to just take a break. Give space. I have lost myself for the past few months, and we discussed that we are going to do this, take time for ourselves, and then see what happens, because we still love and support one another, but we need seperate growth time. This isnt manipulation tho..

  • @jahanbenz4302
    @jahanbenz4302 Год назад +1

    I don’t want any ex any more what Aron said is totally right just move on there are plenty of fish out my life became a hell because of this things and the simple solution is to quit

  • @Mara_143
    @Mara_143 Год назад +2

    This is the exact video explanation that I needed and wanted. Aaron is the truth🔥💡💖💎

  • @heavenlygrandma9992
    @heavenlygrandma9992 Год назад +1

    When I go no contact, it will be for permanence. Because I am done.

  • @MissSassy79
    @MissSassy79 Год назад +2

    That was everything I needed to hear at exactly this time! That was amazing! Thanks!!!

  • @iclutchdubz6726
    @iclutchdubz6726 Год назад +2

    Love ya Aaron

  • @cynthiaarthur2967
    @cynthiaarthur2967 Год назад +1

    Aaron, "Thank you for the U-Tube videos that you create. They are informative & quite helpful to get a different perspective. 💖

  • @natalapenok3130
    @natalapenok3130 Год назад +2

    Love you Aaron
    Let the story go!
    🌸❤

  • @autumnpendergast9151
    @autumnpendergast9151 Год назад +1

    Mutually agreeing to stay in contact raise your kids if you have them with honour and kindness takes far more discipline and love than shutting down and blocking. Yeah unsubscribing from this larp.

  • @alexanderrose2525
    @alexanderrose2525 Год назад +1

    I needed this so bad cause I’m currently going through this rn and it’s truly so so hard trying to get through this process

  • @mattcanflyhigh
    @mattcanflyhigh Год назад +2

    You have changed my life man

  • @PilarAYah
    @PilarAYah Год назад +1

    Wow. I needed to hear this! Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @vonniethavixxxen9102
    @vonniethavixxxen9102 Год назад

    well this video was triggering

  • @alexe3449
    @alexe3449 Год назад +1

    Is this video a reupload?

  • @selinatolson8894
    @selinatolson8894 Год назад +1

    Am going to check that out .

  • @arielleebhoff8198
    @arielleebhoff8198 Год назад +1

    You have no idea how much you are helping me thank you❤

  • @michaels4868
    @michaels4868 Год назад

    We broke up in August last month. She wanted too and said it but I sort of wanted to also because our relationship sorta of went cold the last 3 months of our 10 month relationship. In other words we both saw it coming. Anyways I did no contact for 10 days and then gave her a text. We had a bond and I missed her more than I thought after we broke up. She responded with in a hour and agreed to meet up and go out to lunch. I went into lunch with a mere chance of reversing the breakup but thats no what I necessarily wanted, I wanted to keep in touch with her and be friends for now and mutually be on good terms. Not ever talk to again in my life would suck because I still valued her. If I kept the no contact for longer it would eat at me because she was on my mind constantly. I wanted closure and to end on good terms because we ended in an argument. I think God was telling us both to take a break and breathe a little bit. The longer we go without each other in a serious relationship and we gravitate towards each other again then we are meant to be, and if not we know that our relationship ended healthy and we both moved on and not broken.

  • @veix655
    @veix655 Год назад

    i love what you talk :) but... never talking about what if you get energy back and if they come back how to proceed NEXT if they around you :D if this happend

  • @videodrome5
    @videodrome5 Год назад

    What’s missing is that when you are so close with someone they carry your energy and you carry theirs. Energies are very sticky. Even after the no contact takes place. That’s why people dwell on each other way after the separation begins. It’s like the twin flame thing where the other reflects your negative aspects and it’s an opportunity to make changes for improving self & ascension. Then you can return their energy. Otherwise you will attract the same in a different person. There’s a lot missing in these “no contact” videos

  • @anonymous-df3bx
    @anonymous-df3bx Год назад

    Sir.. Should I wish my x bf on birthday... Please guide me.. I m really confuse ryt now

  • @loveself6396
    @loveself6396 Год назад

    What happens energy wise when you block them ? Lol

  • @PilarAYah
    @PilarAYah Год назад

    I broke up with my abusive partner and I truly did love him and I was doing so good without contacting him. But then Sunday he was in my head all day and soo bad it made me want to throw up. It made me wonder if he was saying negative things about me

  • @smack7589
    @smack7589 Год назад +2

    I’m doing no contact from a place of love ❤ my ex had lots of anxiety about our relationship because of the miscommunication, so I want this to heal that in him. So even though my intention is to rebuild a friendship after the romance, I know as a true friend I wish him well whatever the outcome is in the future 🙏🏽

  • @inline4s4lyfe53
    @inline4s4lyfe53 Год назад

    im literally dealing with this right now, were not broken up but were hardly talking. But when were together everything feels like were together and perfect. I messed up i let my depression get to me on top of starting a new career as an engineer. I spend a couple nights working late to try and learn more and pick up my new job I bailed on her for a car meet she wanted to go to. On top of her having childhood trauma of her mother letting her down and abandoning her for new bfs multiple times. She said it made her feel like she did when her mother abandon her as a kid. when she told me that i felt my heart break.i feel like such a pos that i made her feel that way. I never wanted to make her feel that way. let alone we dont have the best communication, but ive been working on it to be better for the future. i want to be the best ME possible. It doesn't help that she just turned 23 (im 32) and she is finally being independent and out making friends after never really having friends growing up and never experiencing public schools. Shes different then any other girl I've ever dated and she feels like were too different but that's one thing that attracts me even more. She has such a different life style and way of looking at life and is interested in so many things i've never tried or even thought of. I love that she's introduced so many different things to me. I'm afraid I'm losing my bestfriend soulmate.

  • @radfordhealsworth607
    @radfordhealsworth607 Год назад

    I'm getting much closer to my ex since we took some time from each other, after 8 years we broke up and she was like I need some space and time from you and I took it super personally but I get it now

  • @naomixo91
    @naomixo91 Год назад

    I’ve been watching your videos for quite some time now & I figured out my own inner child issues, it also had to do with my step mom, I was just wondering how you got through that?

  • @knowledgeseeker2776
    @knowledgeseeker2776 Год назад

    This is the best advise I received 2 years ago. Cut out all contact. I was married for 18 years. I am in a much better place now. I hope anyone reading this will be encouraged that it does get better and healing is possible.

  • @jahanbenz4302
    @jahanbenz4302 Год назад

    True true and real just don’t back to that person this things happens with me

  • @bellagosai8611
    @bellagosai8611 Год назад

    Can it also work for best friends?

  • @Idksomething883
    @Idksomething883 Год назад

    I legit hope my ex rots in hell! It would be well deserved!

  • @janebraun4482
    @janebraun4482 Год назад

    I am struggling in big way. I am up and down esp the evenings. We had a misunderstanding. The only way he could come back is via his SM page and ironically, this was the issue that brought us together in the first place, then divided us. He'd have to break his own rule to 'come back'. So no manipulation at all just sorrow and wishing for clearing the misunderstanding.

    • @janebraun4482
      @janebraun4482 Год назад

      I don't know about whatsapp but I think I found his email. He does not respond. Some people get angry and bitter in no time. So I guess I am doomed.

  • @DamaysiVazquez
    @DamaysiVazquez Год назад

    This was good.

  • @mandykim1314
    @mandykim1314 Год назад

    Yes❤

  • @divine.healing
    @divine.healing Год назад

    ❤felt this one a lot

  • @mohamedfahad1376
    @mohamedfahad1376 Год назад

    Keep doing bro

  • @hilaklein4087
    @hilaklein4087 Год назад

    How you understand what the attachment is ?

    • @misspriss8885
      @misspriss8885 Год назад +1

      The attachment isn’t to the person. It’s attachment to either an emotion or the story. When u see it that way it’s a lot easier to let go of the emotion/story. It’s not the person.

  • @RichardBronosky
    @RichardBronosky Год назад

    Your audio is left heavy. Try switching to mono. ☮️❤️🌈

  • @scentedgamer8676
    @scentedgamer8676 Год назад +1

    I want her back

    • @ahealingplace7350
      @ahealingplace7350 Год назад +1

      Once she feels that energy she won't want you...
      Women don't like men with an aura of desperation.... not nice, but true 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @scentedgamer8676
      @scentedgamer8676 Год назад +1

      @@ahealingplace7350 😢😢😢

    • @jennyhaytch
      @jennyhaytch Год назад

      Then move forward. Don't look back towards a relationship that didn't work out. That one ended for a reason. Change yourself into the person you wish you'd been in the relationship. Move yourself forward, and she and you might be together as you move forward into something better together... if we're both wanting the same thing. But what's ended ended for a reason. You don't need to go back to that. Go forward to something else. Something better. Possibly together. Check out Susan Winter on RUclips. She has great advice about this.

    • @scentedgamer8676
      @scentedgamer8676 Год назад

      @@jennyhaytch Thx Jen…i just want to see her one last time before i let her go…just sit there with my mouth shut and look at her beutiful eyes while she talks and me just enjoing every last sec i get with her.

    • @BallaNinja500
      @BallaNinja500 Год назад +3

      Dude your being too full on about this..we’ve all been there that’s why we’re all in the comment section..I feel your pain but do yourself a favour and reel yourself back in..be a man about this that’s what will really bring her back ..get yourself together lift some heavy shit,go for a run,get busy with your own life and be patient with your mindset it will hurt for a while but it gets better..what’s ment for you won’t pass you! Don’t let her see or hear you like this..keep your dignity ..stay strong 💪🏻 time heals trust

  • @Abc19853
    @Abc19853 Год назад +2

    make Content under 5-7 mins

  • @shawdeejay5408
    @shawdeejay5408 Год назад

    I try everything to detach and then I get a text from him on a burner phone after blocking him from everything. I want him out of my energy , what do I need to doooo😢

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 Год назад +1

      Why do they do that!!! Argh 😣

    • @A5xxxxx
      @A5xxxxx Год назад +2

      Changing your number is a possibility? I had to change my number and delete my social media. Hope you're okay

    • @susanbarrera2073
      @susanbarrera2073 Год назад

      Cord cutting to disconnect from his energy and if he was toxic, even if it hurts, don't let him back in no matter what.

  • @FitnessPhenatic
    @FitnessPhenatic Год назад

    needed this today 🫶🏼

    • @whatsapp1934
      @whatsapp1934 Год назад

      Thanks for watching
      For more content
      Mentorship and information
      Hit me direct 👆🏿👆🏿.