Wow I had posted the comment below before taking your quiz. I'll be out of time for you're special offer deal you by the time I'm paid, but I so want to do it!!
Nothing to add here, simply epic 🔥🔥 I applied this in my life and it actually works!😎…. Just focus on urself, period. If someone wants to be around you, it will gladly stay with u.
@@eilidhkwood if it’s meant to be, is meant to be 🙂. I always view it in this way. We have to leave the door open for other people coming in our life who are vibrational matching to us, and not strictly being fixed to one specific person.
I'm trying very hard to change my energy. It's only been a week since we went full-on no contact. I want my life back when I was happy and content without him. It's a process, not perfection. I will get "there". I get a little better as every day passes. Repeatedly listening to your videos help tremendously.
I lost a 12 year relationship at the beginning of this month after losing my job a week prior to it. My energy was all over the place . I felt her gone and now she’s been back and fourth confused about her decisions. I was being way to needy . Thank you for these videos . I’m going to focus my energy on myself now . No more contact . I hope it brings us peace to find our way back .. if not then I just have to continue on for myself . Wish me luck 😢
I wish you the best of luck. I understand how it feels, just relax and focus on the new version of them. A loving and loyal version and keep that image.
@@TREzyGetPuzze she’s still back and fourth , I’ve limited my communication with her . But she’s still undeceive . She’ll stop texting me but will hit me with late night texts talking about the issues in the relationship and how she’s scared this is the end . Ultimately she doesn’t trust me . I didn’t value my relationship like I should have I made her feel that the entire relationship was forced .. I just wish she gave me the opportunity to prove that’s not what it was
@@eddieo315 I’d say let her know that you are no longer going to tolerate her indecisiveness and that you want opportunity to show her how much you value the relationship by putting in the effort through mutual effort and whatever else you feel. Keep it brief and respect your boundaries
I'm grateful for you man...🤙🏾💯 Stumbled upon your videos and meditations last year, as I really needed guidance in spirituality. What attracted me the most was how down th earth, honest and transparent you are in your videos! I didn't feel like I was watching someone hiding behind spiritual teachings just for money... as your stuff are pretty affordable at the same time. Long story short, I've been putting the work with what you're sharing and man...I see results DAILY! THANK YOU Aaron! See, your "repetitive videos" helped A LOT! Because you take the time to explain again & again, to make it easier to understand. So so grateful for you man 👊🏾💯 BLESSINGS!
you have helped me see I'm not alone in my path. There are so many more who live like myself. You've helped me put things together, if that makes sense... I cannot smoke marijuana because my awareness is way to overwhelming, and it was that way even as a teen. Thank you for making me 'see', and not wonder why I seem so different from many others.
Beautiful channel this is ! Letting go and taking cares and energy back for oneself, it is a conscious decision and conscious work, hard to initiate when feeling heartbroken, betrayed... it requires a real effort and this one is not for free, it's in the flesh. You manage anyway and "comme par hasard" the ghoster comes back. What a cliché ! But in the meantime work was done, you've done it, so things have changed. The disappointment consumes itself as self-respect comes back in the balance. When you really energetically let go of someone that didn't respect you, the interest for the person just fades and dies naturally. And so it was not "love", because true love has no end. It survives breakups and change forms. So it's not pleasant for my ego to realise I was so infatuated with so-called love that was not love but neediness in despair.... Distance creates great insights ! Maybe that's what is scary in really letting go : realising there was nothing consistent to being involved in the first place, except our own insecurities. A bit of a slap in the face lol. One Love
I watched bunch of your videos. I thought i was self aware and all. But i found so much about myself, how it actually in fact accurately connected somehow back to my childhood. I was not even aware but it makes so much sense to me. I am so much relieved just getting that closure. I am working on frame TECNIQUE too. It is so freeing. I was suicidal even for past few weeks. But getting back in my head and trying to make sense of it all to finally let go, it has actually saved my life. I'm so grateful! Thank you. Bless YOU!
Years ago when I started my career I had to travel past an exes house to get to work. I sometimes left 5-10 minutes earlier to go around lol. I wanted to give him space but instead I just realized that I was trying my best to avoid him which meant that I was still attached. It took me a month to get comfortable driving past his house on my way to work and on my way home. I saved so much time and energy and resources becoming comfortable that way. We never got back together (my choice) but I just wanted to make it a little more clear; avoidance is still attachment.
If you often have a hard time saying “no” to people who you care about or you find yourself saying “yes” to people just to make them happy, it won’t help you to know where to draw the line so that you won’t get walked all over by others. 💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
I messed up on the run in part recently. I was invited to an event I knew a girl I stopped talking to would be at and I went, but I did not have any interaction with her. I saw her there but I did focus on me having a good time and acted like I didn't know her. I felt great afterwards.
needed this today. girl i been seeing casually finally distancing from me. i didn't promis monogamous relationship and we have hot chemistry. possibly better she focus on her self also. i have other people who want to be in my life. but ireally liked/loved this women
@@hellocarmela582 Stop projecting your own feelings on the situation. You don't know how close they were lol you're just assuming stuff cuz that's how you would've felt.
I'm an empath and my energy shifts and boy when I am triggered or talk to ex...my daughter calls it right away like omg mom did someone piss you off??! I really need to love myself and practice frame tech. I stopped social media after break up they and the ppl they are dating love your energy and messing with ya. so unhealthy. ty A aron
Strange thing. Tried no contact during a 4 week break. I broke it. One week later she announced she wouldn’t be continuing with the relationship (through text message) We work together. I gave the break up without a fight and went into a true no contact. 2.5 weeks later she replied to a work email directly to me stating she thought my response in the “reply all” work email was funny….. no contact working you think????
Hey Aaron Doughty, what if there was a reason that person pulled away. Or at least I think may be the reason. For instance, this guy got upset with me because he got sick after hanging out with me twice (sick as in a minor cold, my daughter had a cold which apparently got to him) and now I'm convinced he's upset about it and doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. Would this still apply?
What if we work together???! Its hard to not "run in" i took some time off but i will have to come back soon. Im focusing on getting my energy back. ALL OF IT!
same here haha, just try to not get bitter there and focus on your work. Talk with people. Be present. You don't deserve to get bitter, remember that. Focus on yourself, what is coming is always better than what's gone brother. Keep up the work.
So at what point do I know whether to reach out again (provided I have healed and focused on myself)? At some point there has to be some kind of contact again if "it is meant to be"... And Im not referring to attachment to outcome.
The big question is how do you have no contact wen you have to coparent and work at the same job but different shift ? We both stay professional she does her thing I do mine and we keep it civil with each other . We both don’t have nothing to talk about , other than our child that’s it .
I really need to do this as I feel like chasing. We didn’t have a relationship but I really would love to have one… but feeling like chasing doesn’t feel good, as I want to be chased! 😊 thank you I will do this!
I’m commenting if it’s relevant for you if not I hope it’ll help someone else who reads it. It’s hard to check on her stories all the time and really there is no benefit for checking on them, none. Only the hope to have a boost for our ego but usually that’s not it. More over you can’t really move on if mentally you are still attached to them. Let her keep posting while you healing, later down the road after you’ll detached feel free, but there is also a possibility you won’t care anymore. You go post whatever you want but stay true to yourself and not exaggerate because they’ll feel it. In conclusion if you’ll reach out or check up on her later after you’ve done some work, come from a place of ABUNDANCE! Not from neediness
Hey Aaron, I messed up in my relationship. I didnt cheat, but I destroyed that meant something to her. After her breaking up, I did the begging and chasing and really regret it. Not to be manipulative, but is there a chance to get her back? Shes been super cold, mean, heartless. Its crushing man. Any advice?
Here's how you do it. Occasionally bring her a little gift. Nothing extravagant and no jewelry or anything too personal. Perhaps a favorite food or an inexpensive book. DON'T attach a card, just a note that says, "I thought you might like this". Don't write anything else. You can sign your name but don't write "love". If you give it to her in person say, "here, I got you this" and say nothing else. Just walk away. No more than one gift a week. The rest of the time, no contact whatsoever. Get busy with your own life. If you run into her, say hi or wave and keep walking. Show no emotion. Is this manipulation? It's actually a mating dance, like a peacock spreading his feathers. She won't even know why she suddenly misses you so much. Trust me. I am an elderly woman who knows women.
@@Zsuluap yes, there is a chance that it won't work. Life doesn't give us any guarantees. But there is no harm in trying and in the meanwhile, he's hopefully meeting new women and getting on with his life. There is also a good chance that it will work. Sometimes feelings aren't "gone". They're simply buried under the debris of our missteps.
Aaron… what if the ex simply doesn’t care that you’re not staying in touch? She literally told me that she’d like us to be friends but if I don’t want to be in touch then she’s okay with that. Besides, she’s moving to a different country… so I see zero chances of ever seeing her again…
Then you won't make a fool out of yourself by trying to get her back through texts or calls. No contact is the best solution. Even if you never talk to her again, you will be glad that you left it this way.
TBH, when your partner doesn't want to be with you anymore, the best way is no contact forever, there is no time for people who go and come next six months 😅
Don't fall for New Age deception, as I myself once was; Jesus Christ is the only way. "And no wonder! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." - 2 Corinthians 11:14
Idk but when it comes to girls they move on while being in the relationship and then boom. Break up. They even wait till they find a new one and then proceed with the break up. Whatever it is, moving on must be the ultimate goal. Specially for guys, go no contact coz you want to move on not coz they might come back once you stop talking because in reality even if they come back it will be just the guilt and not love. Coz had love been there they would have never left in the first place. More power to everyone who’s struggling with moving on just like me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
In which place other than home and my relatives houses could I at achieve the goal of making my crazy brother living in an insane asylum? Knowing having no money and not ability to move into a big house
Do you think Yeshua exists and could really come back? Spiritual people tends to exclude the Most High God out the equation which I think might backfire
Idk but when it comes to girls they move on while being in the relationship and then boom. Break up. They even wait till they find a new one and then proceed with the break up. Whatever it is, moving on must be the ultimate goal. Specially for guys, go no contact coz you want to move on not coz they might come back once you stop talking because in reality even if they come back it will be just the guilt and not love. Coz had love been there they would have never left in the first place. More power to everyone who’s struggling with moving on just like me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Wow I had posted the comment below before taking your quiz. I'll be out of time for you're special offer deal you by the time I'm paid, but I so want to do it!!
The quiz is exactly how I am...
Nothing to add here, simply epic 🔥🔥 I applied this in my life and it actually works!😎…. Just focus on urself, period. If someone wants to be around you, it will gladly stay with u.
What I don't get is if the other person does that tooo... then no one comes together.
@@eilidhkwood if it’s meant to be, is meant to be 🙂. I always view it in this way. We have to leave the door open for other people coming in our life who are vibrational matching to us, and not strictly being fixed to one specific person.
I'm trying very hard to change my energy. It's only been a week since we went full-on no contact. I want my life back when I was happy and content without him. It's a process, not perfection. I will get "there". I get a little better as every day passes. Repeatedly listening to your videos help tremendously.
I lost a 12 year relationship at the beginning of this month after losing my job a week prior to it. My energy was all over the place . I felt her gone and now she’s been back and fourth confused about her decisions. I was being way to needy . Thank you for these videos . I’m going to focus my energy on myself now . No more contact . I hope it brings us peace to find our way back .. if not then I just have to continue on for myself . Wish me luck 😢
I wish you the best of luck. I understand how it feels, just relax and focus on the new version of them. A loving and loyal version and keep that image.
Any update?
@@TREzyGetPuzze she’s still back and fourth , I’ve limited my communication with her . But she’s still undeceive . She’ll stop texting me but will hit me with late night texts talking about the issues in the relationship and how she’s scared this is the end . Ultimately she doesn’t trust me . I didn’t value my relationship like I should have I made her feel that the entire relationship was forced .. I just wish she gave me the opportunity to prove that’s not what it was
@@eddieo315 I’d say let her know that you are no longer going to tolerate her indecisiveness and that you want opportunity to show her how much you value the relationship by putting in the effort through mutual effort and whatever else you feel. Keep it brief and respect your boundaries
I lost a 6 year love too, how is yours going?
I'm grateful for you man...🤙🏾💯 Stumbled upon your videos and meditations last year, as I really needed guidance in spirituality. What attracted me the most was how down th earth, honest and transparent you are in your videos! I didn't feel like I was watching someone hiding behind spiritual teachings just for money... as your stuff are pretty affordable at the same time. Long story short, I've been putting the work with what you're sharing and man...I see results DAILY! THANK YOU Aaron! See, your "repetitive videos" helped A LOT! Because you take the time to explain again & again, to make it easier to understand. So so grateful for you man 👊🏾💯 BLESSINGS!
I love it how you have the RUclips award behind you on the wall 😁
you have helped me see I'm not alone in my path. There are so many more who live like myself. You've helped me put things together, if that makes sense... I cannot smoke marijuana because my awareness is way to overwhelming, and it was that way even as a teen. Thank you for making me 'see', and not wonder why I seem so different from many others.
Beautiful channel this is !
Letting go and taking cares and energy back for oneself, it is a conscious decision and conscious work, hard to initiate when feeling heartbroken, betrayed... it requires a real effort and this one is not for free, it's in the flesh.
You manage anyway and "comme par hasard" the ghoster comes back. What a cliché !
But in the meantime work was done, you've done it, so things have changed.
The disappointment consumes itself as self-respect comes back in the balance.
When you really energetically let go of someone that didn't respect you, the interest for the person just fades and dies naturally. And so it was not "love", because true love has no end. It survives breakups and change forms.
So it's not pleasant for my ego to realise I was so infatuated with so-called love that was not love but neediness in despair.... Distance creates great insights !
Maybe that's what is scary in really letting go : realising there was nothing consistent to being involved in the first place, except our own insecurities. A bit of a slap in the face lol.
One Love
You honestly crack me up! Everything you say is so true. FOY!
I watched bunch of your videos. I thought i was self aware and all. But i found so much about myself, how it actually in fact accurately connected somehow back to my childhood. I was not even aware but it makes so much sense to me. I am so much relieved just getting that closure. I am working on frame TECNIQUE too. It is so freeing. I was suicidal even for past few weeks. But getting back in my head and trying to make sense of it all to finally let go, it has actually saved my life. I'm so grateful! Thank you. Bless YOU!
This was really great I love the honesty and turning it back to yourself, because thats what its is all about
Years ago when I started my career I had to travel past an exes house to get to work. I sometimes left 5-10 minutes earlier to go around lol. I wanted to give him space but instead I just realized that I was trying my best to avoid him which meant that I was still attached. It took me a month to get comfortable driving past his house on my way to work and on my way home. I saved so much time and energy and resources becoming comfortable that way. We never got back together (my choice) but I just wanted to make it a little more clear; avoidance is still attachment.
And hate is still love.,
If you often have a hard time saying “no” to people who you care about or you find yourself saying “yes” to people just to make them happy, it won’t help you to know where to draw the line so that you won’t get walked all over by others.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Are you an empath?
Hopefully this helps, thank you for this!!!
I’m not much into the metaphysical, but this makes so much sense!!
I messed up on the run in part recently. I was invited to an event I knew a girl I stopped talking to would be at and I went, but I did not have any interaction with her. I saw her there but I did focus on me having a good time and acted like I didn't know her. I felt great afterwards.
I love your videos Aaron. Bringin my energy back into my own life is the best thing I have ever heard.
I love your channel, Aaron! There is a lot of psychological literature that supports what you're saying.
Manifesto, let's practise more of this, thank you, Aaron
Very well explained. I needed to hear this today, just came at the right time. Thank you Aaron🙏🏻
Stay strong 💪
Yellow looks good on you 👍🏻
Brilliant video Aaron. Thank you for sharing 🙏 Love this 4 step process! ❤️
Love it, keep that energy right where it belongs, in you
needed this today. girl i been seeing casually finally distancing from me. i didn't promis monogamous relationship and we have hot chemistry. possibly better she focus on her self also. i have other people who want to be in my life. but ireally liked/loved this women
She feels that negative vibes plus your feelings for her. She don’t like that. It’s either take her seriously and say or leave her alone.
@@hellocarmela582 Stop projecting your own feelings on the situation. You don't know how close they were lol you're just assuming stuff cuz that's how you would've felt.
@@TheDivineShiver exactly. How close doesn’t matter? It’s how much he does for her and compromise. She probably seeing she likes lol
This is epic and spot on! Thank you Aaron
I like to visualize and feel my energy as either outwards as a seed, or inwards as a seed. Something about visualizing the magnetic field.
what if both people focus their energy on themselves? who is attracting who then if both are following the same rules??
Aaron, can you do a video about the point of life? I used to think life was meaningless unless we were loved. Now I don't know.
Dang, dude! Lookin swoll 💪
Thank you for your vedio 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Aaron.
I'm an empath and my energy shifts and boy when I am triggered or talk to ex...my daughter calls it right away like omg mom did someone piss you off??! I really need to love myself and practice frame tech. I stopped social media after break up they and the ppl they are dating love your energy and messing with ya. so unhealthy. ty A aron
Thank u so much for your vids
Thank you so much, Aaron, I really needed to hear this😿😺
Strange thing. Tried no contact during a 4 week break. I broke it. One week later she announced she wouldn’t be continuing with the relationship (through text message) We work together. I gave the break up without a fight and went into a true no contact. 2.5 weeks later she replied to a work email directly to me stating she thought my response in the “reply all” work email was funny….. no contact working you think????
Can anyone help me I have a question: are cutting the chords between u and someone spiritually possible ?
I love this channel
Hey Aaron! Can you do a video on the energy of feeling stuck? Thanks much love to you! 💜
My man... still bleeding from a heartache
You are absolutely right. Thank you so much for helping me live a better/spiritual life.
Hey Aaron Doughty, what if there was a reason that person pulled away. Or at least I think may be the reason. For instance, this guy got upset with me because he got sick after hanging out with me twice (sick as in a minor cold, my daughter had a cold which apparently got to him) and now I'm convinced he's upset about it and doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. Would this still apply?
Looking swole brother!
is so hard to pull energy back though
What if we work together???! Its hard to not "run in" i took some time off but i will have to come back soon. Im focusing on getting my energy back. ALL OF IT!
same here haha, just try to not get bitter there and focus on your work. Talk with people. Be present.
You don't deserve to get bitter, remember that. Focus on yourself, what is coming is always better than what's gone brother.
Keep up the work.
So at what point do I know whether to reach out again (provided I have healed and focused on myself)? At some point there has to be some kind of contact again if "it is meant to be"... And Im not referring to attachment to outcome.
❤️🔥 thank you for more Golden content . 💜I love you , you've helped me so much
The big question is how do you have no contact wen you have to coparent and work at the same job but different shift ? We both stay professional she does her thing I do mine and we keep it civil with each other . We both don’t have nothing to talk about , other than our child that’s it .
I didn't see a video of yours about what to do if we make a mistake and break no contact.. Do I start over or what
You Sir are a savior 🙏
Bro, simply thanks for everything.
I love how blunt Aaron is lmao
What if you have a child with the person?
Can you do the no contact method if you work in the same place?
Of course you can. Focus on yourself and your work. As if they aren’t there.
Aaron am so happy to see your content more what resonates with me. Thanks dude!
YOU HAVE THE GIRL WHO HAD FREE WILL
Thank you ❤
How do you do this when you share kids together and need to go back and forth about it ?
Ok thank you
nice
I really need to do this as I feel like chasing. We didn’t have a relationship but I really would love to have one… but feeling like chasing doesn’t feel good, as I want to be chased! 😊 thank you I will do this!
Should i check the story of girlfriend who asked for space? Or should i just post stories and let her see it?
I’m commenting if it’s relevant for you if not I hope it’ll help someone else who reads it. It’s hard to check on her stories all the time and really there is no benefit for checking on them, none. Only the hope to have a boost for our ego but usually that’s not it. More over you can’t really move on if mentally you are still attached to them. Let her keep posting while you healing, later down the road after you’ll detached feel free, but there is also a possibility you won’t care anymore. You go post whatever you want but stay true to yourself and not exaggerate because they’ll feel it. In conclusion if you’ll reach out or check up on her later after you’ve done some work, come from a place of ABUNDANCE! Not from neediness
Hey Aaron, I messed up in my relationship. I didnt cheat, but I destroyed that meant something to her. After her breaking up, I did the begging and chasing and really regret it. Not to be manipulative, but is there a chance to get her back? Shes been super cold, mean, heartless. Its crushing man. Any advice?
All this guy teaches is manipulation
Here's how you do it. Occasionally bring her a little gift. Nothing extravagant and no jewelry or anything too personal. Perhaps a favorite food or an inexpensive book. DON'T attach a card, just a note that says, "I thought you might like this". Don't write anything else. You can sign your name but don't write "love". If you give it to her in person say, "here, I got you this" and say nothing else. Just walk away. No more than one gift a week. The rest of the time, no contact whatsoever. Get busy with your own life. If you run into her, say hi or wave and keep walking. Show no emotion. Is this manipulation? It's actually a mating dance, like a peacock spreading his feathers. She won't even know why she suddenly misses you so much. Trust me. I am an elderly woman who knows women.
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@@lisalamphier1410 Lol that does not work at all. women love to say this but this never works. Only works if you have feelings left. Sucks tbh.
@@Zsuluap yes, there is a chance that it won't work. Life doesn't give us any guarantees. But there is no harm in trying and in the meanwhile, he's hopefully meeting new women and getting on with his life. There is also a good chance that it will work. Sometimes feelings aren't "gone". They're simply buried under the debris of our missteps.
Aaron… what if the ex simply doesn’t care that you’re not staying in touch? She literally told me that she’d like us to be friends but if I don’t want to be in touch then she’s okay with that. Besides, she’s moving to a different country… so I see zero chances of ever seeing her again…
Then you won't make a fool out of yourself by trying to get her back through texts or calls. No contact is the best solution. Even if you never talk to her again, you will be glad that you left it this way.
Yeah ggs bro I’m sorry
awesome👍
Your amazing brotha blessed it be
You re English mother tongue I guess..
You ‘ re is the correct way 😅
TBH, when your partner doesn't want to be with you anymore, the best way is no contact forever, there is no time for people who go and come next six months 😅
So conversely I need to keep thinking about someone and sending them energy as much as I can if I don't ever really want to see them again correct?
It´s easy when you look like a blonde Jake Gyllenhaal hahahahha just playin bro...your videos are helping me more than you can imagine...
Don't fall for New Age deception, as I myself once was; Jesus Christ is the only way. "And no wonder! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." - 2 Corinthians 11:14
Idk but when it comes to girls they move on while being in the relationship and then boom. Break up. They even wait till they find a new one and then proceed with the break up. Whatever it is, moving on must be the ultimate goal. Specially for guys, go no contact coz you want to move on not coz they might come back once you stop talking because in reality even if they come back it will be just the guilt and not love.
Coz had love been there they would have never left in the first place.
More power to everyone who’s struggling with moving on just like me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
In which place other than home and my relatives houses could I at achieve the goal of making my crazy brother living in an insane asylum? Knowing having no money and not ability to move into a big house
Thank You Aaron 🙏🏼
F.O.Y. FOCUS ON YOURSELF write it on the mirror
I want to let go, and don't want them to come back 😂
What if you have a kid together?
Hey friend I got my relationship fixed back with the help of a man who brought my partner back in 48 hours after many years of seperation.♥️♥️******
**wha tsa pp him👆,...****
Great video Aaron thank you 💯👊🏻
Do you think Yeshua exists and could really come back? Spiritual people tends to exclude the Most High God out the equation which I think might backfire
This is coming from someone who have been in other dimensions and felt a power that cannot be described, all I could do was call it God
I would definitely call what you are talking about God/imagination, everything is here. And everything else is there 😂 you are one funky homosapien 🤯
I like to hear more of your story.
She doesn’t want to die in child birth lol it’s really true 😂😂😂😂
!!!!!!!!!
hi, i dotn need to raise my vibration, i LOST my virbration to a soulmate, how do i get it back ?
You can't lose your vibration to a "soulmate" lmao way to put all of your responsibility on someone else.
why did you do this to me
do you love me?
What's wrong with all those comments? Get some help you sound mentally not OK.
Dont fall in love with my ego ;)
I
hate
love
can you stop truning me into a man
thank you
Idk but when it comes to girls they move on while being in the relationship and then boom. Break up. They even wait till they find a new one and then proceed with the break up. Whatever it is, moving on must be the ultimate goal. Specially for guys, go no contact coz you want to move on not coz they might come back once you stop talking because in reality even if they come back it will be just the guilt and not love.
Coz had love been there they would have never left in the first place.
More power to everyone who’s struggling with moving on just like me 🙏🏼🙏🏼