i've always been worried about this. it's gotten to the point where i don't want to transition because i am afraid i will never be "appealing" to a potential partner, nor can i imagine having sex with my current genitals anyway. honestly i'd be happy to live a sex-free life, but at the same time i do experience sexual attraction, i just cannot do anything about it because what i feel vs what i have are so different. anyway this was a very insightful video and thanks for talking about this. it takes some real guts to talk about genitals from a trans* perspective/experience, especially so publicly. so thank you!
Thank you... It makes me sad hearing about how strong your fear is, but I can relate. Especially pre HRT, I've had many worries about my attractiveness from hairline, height & genitals issues-- now I'm working through it all & seeing that nothing has been as bad as I've feared. I often say, my only regret has been waiting too long to start. It's not easy to live as we do, but it's possible, and we are excellent lovers. There are successful trans/cis couples growing in number and your future soul mates are out there looking for you right now!!!
I'm a really fortunate trans man. I love all parts of my genitals, and use all of it. I happen to be with a woman that is completely accepting of all of me, and is attracted to all of me, so it works out really well. I feel like it would be different were I with someone else though. I certainly couldn't do it with a man, cis or trans. Thank you for sharing the details of your perception of genitals and sex, Forrest. You're an insightful fellow.
Thanks so much for the sweet comment, I know my response is late, but it made my day for sure! I'm so happy when amazing people stumble upon these educational videos. Thanks for watching!
This video its amazing, clear and very informative. Im a cisgender woman and I m dating a transguy. I talk to him about sexual experience but im afraid of doing something that discomfort him.
Belisa Crepusculario In all caring relationships we are thinking about other people's comfort. It really depends on where he's at with his own self acceptance, but you as a lover can play a strong healing role. Read through the comments in this video to check out some of the other people's thoughts on this. Also, don't forget to think about you and your needs, don't fall into a trap where you feel like you have to worry about your boyfriend's feelings, ego or self worth everytime you're intimate! I've seen that kind of overcompensation happen, but you know what it comes down to: two people exploring feelings, bodies, sensations-- just by sharing the intimate times and being open and honest, building trust, that is the foundation for doing it right! Sometimes by you worrying less about offending your partner, giving that: I don't care! I just want to have fun type "vibe" it can relax all fears and create spontaneity & confidence. Thanks for sharing your comment. Your boyfriend is a lucky man!
Just communicate with him be clear he loves you and you love him in a relationship that's all that really matters my name is Franklin. And I'm a Tranman
Thank you for being as open and honest as you are about all of this. I've just entered into a relationship with a transgender man and am trying to find all the info I can. I am aware everyone is different but I'm feeling your vibe in explaining things. So once again, thank you for being so open about everything 😀
Right on! 2 people are drawn to each other for various reasons. If you never expected that you would date someone who happens to be trans, I think you will discover it's not too different. I've been delighted in my life how great it's been in the dating world. I haven't felt any disappointments in the bedroom, that's probably the easiest, funniest and most natural parts of a relationship. It's those deeper layers we all carry, that's where the real work begins. Love is the opportunity for personal growth & expansion, enjoy yourself!
Great video. I'm also a trans supporter and the more I learn about gender the more I think it's all irrelevant. I'm happily married but if I were single I would date a trans guy if he was a nice person. My nephew is trans and he is just adorable, I am so happy the world is changing and becoming more accepting of all our differences.
Careful not to over simplify, I think your sweet point is that gender is irrelevant in your sexual attraction, but to say gender is irrelevant, to someone like me or any transgender person who has spent years of struggle and pain trying to correct a huge gender mix up-- that can come off as invalidating. Gender does matter, it's a real thing that exists, but what is special and awesome about you, is that for you, you are able to see, feel & potentially partner beyond gender. That's cool!
ClosetTransgender Yes I get that. I didn't means to oversimplify the issue. I've seen first hand the struggle my nephew has gone through (and continues to go through). He's still waiting to get his top surgery. I know you understand what I was trying to say :)
Beautifully said ( while in your beautiful surroundings)' Forest! I am a trans-supporter and your videos help me to start conversations. As Maria Maldaur used to sing, " It ain't the meat it's the motion that makes your momma want to rock". Keep spreading the Love.
Kel O'Reilly Thank you for watching and being a good ally! I always enjoy your comments. Part of the take home is: I got the meat, my penis is a part of me and I use it for sex.
wonderful video as always! You somewhat explained my situation,I am a gay transman, been with my husband for almost 10 years( married for 7 but came out as trans to him 2 months into dating, told him I was unsure if I would ever transition) 8 years and 2 kids later I decided to transition. He and I are somewhat still together, hes hetrosexual but says he loves me so much that he does not think he can let me go. I guess only time will tell.
Jesse T Wow! You gave him an advanced warning and for many years you made it work! I also wonder what will happen next! Thanks for sharing this and keep me updated! What is your hope for what will happen as you progress?
Jesse T Good luck to you, man. I was married too, no kids, but my ex was so straight he couldn't bear being seen as gay. In the end it was for the better because if we'd stayed together I don't think I could've found my true self, but I guess with kids it would be different. All the best to you!
ClosetTransgender I hope we stay together, but I know theres a chance he wont be able to be with me. Even if that happens he and I are best friends and will always have a close relationship, not just because of our boys.
Thanks for sharing that! Those supportive messages help me to be brave, to share & educate. It's a new frontier for many people, words are part of the exploration!
Definitely enjoyed this video. I know you were slightly unnerved, its hard to make videos that can be debatable or triggering topics without offending your audiences, you pulled it off very well. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for the feedback. The next upload is a discussion I filmed prior which I think includes more potentially debatable triggerring material, so this is kind of a warm up into that. Curious what you will think of the next one!
Wow, great video man, I have tons of respect for what you took the time to film and really explain well to people like me who were having a difficult time understanding. I really haven't watch such an amazing video with great explanation about this topic
Thank you so much my friend! It's the best when one finds information that is articulated in that just right way where you totally understand or relate. The more of it, the better, that's for sure.
Just wanted to say that I disagree that penises are active and vaginas are passive, I think that's our conception based in culture and society with their gender roles.
Love your videos! It's interesting to hear your perspective on gender identity. I'm a straight woman and I like/am attracted to the idea of being with a man. Their spirit, not necessarily their genitals. Does that make sense? Haha. Keep doing you! Very inspiring, real, and honest. I also happen to think you're quite attractive. New subscriber here. :)
@piggsvinner To be passive & to receive are not meant to be the same. I think you bring up a good point in that vaginas are not passive because there are great changes and feelings happening inside a vagina, plus there is power of all kinds, but when describing a vagina & it's shape it's a chalice and a penis is a phalus. I think penis & vagina have nothing to do with gender roles or stereo types, plus one of my points is also thinking of penises & vaginas all over, example: the mouth is a vagina, the tongue a penis, the clit could be a penis, a butt can be a vagina, a hand can be a vagina and fingers can be a penis, I don't think anything about vaginas are passive. Making love is to active people coming together, not an active penis & a passive vagina.
You are awesome man! This is such a great video. Thanks for making this! People don't have a problem putting battery operated pleasure toys on their genitals of all shapes and sizes. Yet, attach a person to that pleasure and said person doesn't have a penis or vagina that fits your idea of normal. I guess the battery operated stuff don't have feelings and we do lol
This video was great, Forest! I'm a new suscriber, and I swear these days I've been thinking about this topic all day. Tell me the truth, you can read minds right? lol. aI want to tell you, I'm pre-everything. After a lot of thought and realising that smth was off abt how I felt with my body, I finally realised, I'm a man. A trans man of course. There is a lot I'd like to share and ask to you as I see you as a role model, but I'll go slow. I just wanted to tell you that your videos, your wise words and your overall persona has helped me a lot through this still short journey. Lastly, I'd rlly like and appreciate a LOT if you adressed the gay transman topic. I'm very young, 17 years, so I don't have romantic nor sexual experience at all lol. It'd be great if you share experiences of gay transman you know. Sorry for writing so much! I just had to say everything haha.
Thank you so much for the intro! I am very thankful you are watching. I have one video where I interview a gay transman-- which you may have already seen, but it's in my video collection. There needs to be many more made of course! Something that touches my heart about that video is all the cis gay men who wrote something in the comments, there was a lot of love and acceptance. I know some trans vloggers who are gay ftm, who you will soon discover if not already! I will always make more videos which will include all the topics surrounding trans and I am so happy knowing you are out there. That is what motivates me to keep doing what I do and putting out the good stuff. See if you can send me a private youtube message if you have private questions or a desire for a convo, sometimes youtube is confusing trying to figure out how to send a message, if it doesn't work let me know--- cuz I got answers for you buddy!
The person that made the comment that a man has to have a penis to be attracted to them. I think that is a skewed view, if this woman was married to a man to who lost his genitals to an accident would she suddenly stop loving him? I do identify as a straight woman but my love is not contingent on what is under someones clothing. I do enjoy the act of joining two bodies, that pleases me but there are a lot of ways to join two bodies :)
I was hoping that viewer would be interested in a conversation so I could understand her view point better, but she pulled the comment by her own choice shortly after posting it, I imagine she realized it sounded like a random insult on her own-- but whatever the case--- I think you are spot on with your comment there.
Could be perhaps she is just young and hasn't been through what a lot of us have. I've been through a few abusive relationships. The fact that the abusive men I was with were born with a penis didn't make everything ok and didn't make me want to stay with them despite the abuse. Genuinely kind caring men who will love their woman and not abuse her are few and far between I think, I've sure never found one. One day when one does come along whatever is under his clothing is not a factor, what is in his heart is. Hopefully more people begin to realize that :) ClosetTransgender
Very well explained. A very difficult situation for most people to understand with a real understanding rather than just cartoonish drawing thought that leads to penis=man, vagina=woman. I suppose if one thought of the sex experience as 2 separate individual sexual satisfaction experiences being shared and not the need for the key going in the slot penis/vagina scenario then it might allow one to understand the concept of a male vagina and a female penis feeling that is more likely experienced in the vice versa female vagina/male penis connection. Of course it would tend to be weird vibration wise if a straight guy or a straight woman connected with a transgender person because you have the combination sex organ wise(without surgery) that appears to be the cisgender connection but the associated feeling towards each other's sex organ could involve a feeling of dislike and not a turn on. The mechanics of the parts does cause a bit of difficulty in a public setting in which the exposure does not come with an explanation unless one is given. That is, in a jail house situation if a vagina shows up in the cell block, it is not going to be intellectually observed to be any different to some men that have rape as a prior. Or if a transgender person whips out a noticeable penis to be somehow seen in a woman's bathroom/changing room/showering room - perception for each individual will be what it will be in seeing that penis without a proper setting to explain. Lots of work to be done for the world to be on the same page when we can only judge each other by the cover with no prior contact.
I'm genderfluid, to me I am all of my genders at all times, just I experience them at different levels. For that reason all parts of me are all parts all my gender's types of parts at all times (this sentence may read kind of confusing). Even the parts that many people don't think "match," etc.
Right on, you are just using what you got and more, that's wonderful! It's a blessing and a pleasure and creates endless boundaries! Thank you for sharing your experience because these different ways of being need to be more heard & understood. Thank you for your comment.
You are the most open person on RUclips, it's nice. No fluff, just the facts, man. I've never dated anyone Trans, but if it were to happen my biggest fear would be offending the person. I guess I wouldn't know if I should just do what I do and hope he likes it, of play 20 questions and ask about everything. "Can I do this?" "Can I touch that?" You want sex to be natural and spontaneous, but who knows what actions might trigger some discomfort. He might not even know. I suppose you both just figure it out together. Oh, and just so you know, so there's no surprises, if I ever meet you I'm gonna run at you and throw myself into your arms, you're cuter than cute :-)
*grinning* Sex is improv most of the time. There are many things that let a partner know that things are headed in the right direction-- sometimes the communication is subtle and other times things are talked about out loud. If two people are confident & into each other spontaneity is automatic and fears of triggers & mistakes are subdued. If one person is in a strange, uncomfortable or unfamiliar place-- that is when spontaneity is not as smooth, but you often tell where a person is at through body language and communication. I think the familiar moves you know would work on a transguy, and that additionally you would have an amazing experience. A win win.
So do you find that straight women are ok with your genitals overall? It would be interesting to hear a personal experience you have had. I prefer straight women as well but am really nervous about not being able to be fully open with a straight woman sexually. I started T about 3 months ago and had top surgery last month so kinda new to this.
Mr.Pickles This is an overall intro and in the next upload there will be more personal accounts as I discuss with another trans* guy. Bottom line is: the reactions of straight women will vary, but their reaction is coming from their own experiences, willingness and approach to sex. What you provide as a man is absolutely as enjoyable as any what any other man can provide, so in that sense you do not have to have worry, it's just the potential rejection or scared reaction that a girl may or may not have-- that part is something we won't know until we take the risk. The best thing you can do is learn to take risks and not let bad experiences go to your core. Stay tuned for this next video.
Mr.Pickles I am FTM and my cis girlfriend for over a year is 100% straight and she sees me fully as a man and we have sex as man and woman. She is very respectful and has told me that I am the best man she has ever been with sexually. I am not saying this to pat my own back I am telling you this because I know it can be hard but it is out there. And when you find it love and respect with all your heart and body.
Korben Ch-Pe Yeah man! That's what I am talking about share the good stuff and spread the facts. Your story is empowering and it is the story of many good transmen! I hope you love blossoms beautifully! Keep on keeping on!
Hey sorry I just saw this, no leave your video just the way it is. I really enjoy watching what you have to say there are moments you talk in a round about way but when you hit the point often you stealth words right out of my mouth. I truly am thankful for many of your video. I sure my girl is also. (That may be as I have said before you are a little bit her youtube crush) Any way great video keep doing you.
+Nicole Robinson And this... 41.media.tumblr.com/bc6a92ca0586c1734c21a6cd97139d86/tumblr_n5evjsWnv71seln54o1_500.jpg I could go on but I shan't go mad haha, sorry Forest! :D
I wasn't going to comment on any of your vids until I got through all of them, but I couldn't let the Eddie Vedder-ness slide! Pearl Jam fan right here *points at self*:D
So -no offense but just to make something super clear because it's late and for some reason I can't find what I want on Google - Do Trans man penis work? And do trans woman vaginas work? Best regards
Answer: we all have orgasms, so that's awesome! We work! Transwoman who have vaginas, often referred to as "neo vaginas" feel to a dick like a vagina, transman have dicks of varying sizes that do not typically get hard as rock during erection, however transman can easily acquire big dick to enter a woman's vagina and the transman can cum this way, it will feel the same as a penis inside a woman. Both transman & transwoman are unable to impregnate/get pregnant this way.
+ClosetTransgender first of all thank you for your almost immediate answer you really cleared up my questions! Secondly I've been told that a trans man's penis is able to change size on the spot (erect size obviously) and never go down is this a thing or just a myth? P. S. I think I might have rubbed you the wrong way with using the word "work" if that's the case I apologize I just didn't know how to phrase it. Cheers.
"Rbbed me wrong" good one! A transmans penis will become erect on the spot. It can be used for exciting shallow penetration, playing with a transman's dick feels really good, can be extended & equally awesome & result in orgasm for all. A man on the outside is often a man in the pants, just requires being open\communicating.
i've always been worried about this. it's gotten to the point where i don't want to transition because i am afraid i will never be "appealing" to a potential partner, nor can i imagine having sex with my current genitals anyway. honestly i'd be happy to live a sex-free life, but at the same time i do experience sexual attraction, i just cannot do anything about it because what i feel vs what i have are so different.
anyway this was a very insightful video and thanks for talking about this. it takes some real guts to talk about genitals from a trans* perspective/experience, especially so publicly. so thank you!
Thank you... It makes me sad hearing about how strong your fear is, but I can relate. Especially pre HRT, I've had many worries about my attractiveness from hairline, height & genitals issues-- now I'm working through it all & seeing that nothing has been as bad as I've feared. I often say, my only regret has been waiting too long to start. It's not easy to live as we do, but it's possible, and we are excellent lovers. There are successful trans/cis couples growing in number and your future soul mates are out there looking for you right now!!!
I'm a really fortunate trans man. I love all parts of my genitals, and use all of it. I happen to be with a woman that is completely accepting of all of me, and is attracted to all of me, so it works out really well. I feel like it would be different were I with someone else though. I certainly couldn't do it with a man, cis or trans. Thank you for sharing the details of your perception of genitals and sex, Forrest. You're an insightful fellow.
Oh my god. I love you already 😂 the way you say things and describe it is way too funny and yet so serious at the same time. 20/10
Thanks so much for the sweet comment, I know my response is late, but it made my day for sure! I'm so happy when amazing people stumble upon these educational videos. Thanks for watching!
Youre welcome ❤
This video its amazing, clear and very informative. Im a cisgender woman and I m dating a transguy. I talk to him about sexual experience but im afraid of doing something that discomfort him.
Belisa Crepusculario In all caring relationships we are thinking about other people's comfort. It really depends on where he's at with his own self acceptance, but you as a lover can play a strong healing role. Read through the comments in this video to check out some of the other people's thoughts on this. Also, don't forget to think about you and your needs, don't fall into a trap where you feel like you have to worry about your boyfriend's feelings, ego or self worth everytime you're intimate! I've seen that kind of overcompensation happen, but you know what it comes down to: two people exploring feelings, bodies, sensations-- just by sharing the intimate times and being open and honest, building trust, that is the foundation for doing it right! Sometimes by you worrying less about offending your partner, giving that: I don't care! I just want to have fun type "vibe" it can relax all fears and create spontaneity & confidence. Thanks for sharing your comment. Your boyfriend is a lucky man!
Just communicate with him be clear he loves you and you love him in a relationship that's all that really matters my name is Franklin. And I'm a Tranman
Thank you for being as open and honest as you are about all of this. I've just entered into a relationship with a transgender man and am trying to find all the info I can. I am aware everyone is different but I'm feeling your vibe in explaining things. So once again, thank you for being so open about everything 😀
Right on! 2 people are drawn to each other for various reasons. If you never expected that you would date someone who happens to be trans, I think you will discover it's not too different. I've been delighted in my life how great it's been in the dating world. I haven't felt any disappointments in the bedroom, that's probably the easiest, funniest and most natural parts of a relationship. It's those deeper layers we all carry, that's where the real work begins. Love is the opportunity for personal growth & expansion, enjoy yourself!
Great video. I'm also a trans supporter and the more I learn about gender the more I think it's all irrelevant. I'm happily married but if I were single I would date a trans guy if he was a nice person. My nephew is trans and he is just adorable, I am so happy the world is changing and becoming more accepting of all our differences.
Careful not to over simplify, I think your sweet point is that gender is irrelevant in your sexual attraction, but to say gender is irrelevant, to someone like me or any transgender person who has spent years of struggle and pain trying to correct a huge gender mix up-- that can come off as invalidating. Gender does matter, it's a real thing that exists, but what is special and awesome about you, is that for you, you are able to see, feel & potentially partner beyond gender. That's cool!
ClosetTransgender Yes I get that. I didn't means to oversimplify the issue. I've seen first hand the struggle my nephew has gone through (and continues to go through). He's still waiting to get his top surgery. I know you understand what I was trying to say :)
Beautifully said ( while in your beautiful surroundings)' Forest! I am a trans-supporter and your videos help me to start conversations. As Maria Maldaur used to sing, " It ain't the meat it's the motion that makes your momma want to rock". Keep spreading the Love.
Kel O'Reilly Thank you for watching and being a good ally! I always enjoy your comments. Part of the take home is: I got the meat, my penis is a part of me and I use it for sex.
wonderful video as always! You somewhat explained my situation,I am a gay transman, been with my husband for almost 10 years( married for 7 but came out as trans to him 2 months into dating, told him I was unsure if I would ever transition) 8 years and 2 kids later I decided to transition. He and I are somewhat still together, hes hetrosexual but says he loves me so much that he does not think he can let me go. I guess only time will tell.
Jesse T Wow! You gave him an advanced warning and for many years you made it work! I also wonder what will happen next! Thanks for sharing this and keep me updated! What is your hope for what will happen as you progress?
Jesse T Good luck to you, man. I was married too, no kids, but my ex was so straight he couldn't bear being seen as gay. In the end it was for the better because if we'd stayed together I don't think I could've found my true self, but I guess with kids it would be different. All the best to you!
ClosetTransgender
I hope we stay together, but I know theres a chance he wont be able to be with me. Even if that happens he and I are best friends and will always have a close relationship, not just because of our boys.
Love your words and perspective. It's often hard to put such topics in to words. Thank you for sharing, you rock man!!!
Thanks for sharing that! Those supportive messages help me to be brave, to share & educate. It's a new frontier for many people, words are part of the exploration!
Bet your hard as one too ? 😉
Definitely enjoyed this video. I know you were slightly unnerved, its hard to make videos that can be debatable or triggering topics without offending your audiences, you pulled it off very well. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for the feedback. The next upload is a discussion I filmed prior which I think includes more potentially debatable triggerring material, so this is kind of a warm up into that. Curious what you will think of the next one!
Wow, great video man, I have tons of respect for what you took the time to film and really explain well to people like me who were having a difficult time understanding. I really haven't watch such an amazing video with great explanation about this topic
Thank you so much my friend! It's the best when one finds information that is articulated in that just right way where you totally understand or relate. The more of it, the better, that's for sure.
Just wanted to say that I disagree that penises are active and vaginas are passive, I think that's our conception based in culture and society with their gender roles.
You're such a wonderful dude, Forest :) and articulate things in such a skillful way too chahooo!
Awww shucks!
Love your videos! It's interesting to hear your perspective on gender identity. I'm a straight woman and I like/am attracted to the idea of being with a man. Their spirit, not necessarily their genitals. Does that make sense? Haha. Keep doing you! Very inspiring, real, and honest. I also happen to think you're quite attractive. New subscriber here. :)
Thank you so much! Sorry for the delayed response! But I am certainly happy that you stumbled upon my videos. You inspire me to make more good ones!
This is a very interesting subject . I look forward to your next video and thanks guys for the feedback.
Yea ight 😂
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2) I've always thought you look like Kevin Spacey and have always found you really cute
Lori shut up and go snort some more coke
The music dude hahahahahha I love it
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@piggsvinner To be passive & to receive are not meant to be the same. I think you bring up a good point in that vaginas are not passive because there are great changes and feelings happening inside a vagina, plus there is power of all kinds, but when describing a vagina & it's shape it's a chalice and a penis is a phalus. I think penis & vagina have nothing to do with gender roles or stereo types, plus one of my points is also thinking of penises & vaginas all over, example: the mouth is a vagina, the tongue a penis, the clit could be a penis, a butt can be a vagina, a hand can be a vagina and fingers can be a penis, I don't think anything about vaginas are passive. Making love is to active people coming together, not an active penis & a passive vagina.
I love your openness.
First time i meet you here. Omg you are not only so good looking, very hansome man, but smart,♡& i love how you talk.
Thank you for sharing!!
Thank you for watching! You are too kind!
You are awesome man! This is such a great video. Thanks for making this! People don't have a problem putting battery operated pleasure toys on their genitals of all shapes and sizes. Yet, attach a person to that pleasure and said person doesn't have a penis or vagina that fits your idea of normal. I guess the battery operated stuff don't have feelings and we do lol
This video was great, Forest! I'm a new suscriber, and I swear these days I've been thinking about this topic all day. Tell me the truth, you can read minds right? lol. aI want to tell you, I'm pre-everything. After a lot of thought and realising that smth was off abt how I felt with my body, I finally realised, I'm a man. A trans man of course. There is a lot I'd like to share and ask to you as I see you as a role model, but I'll go slow. I just wanted to tell you that your videos, your wise words and your overall persona has helped me a lot through this still short journey. Lastly, I'd rlly like and appreciate a LOT if you adressed the gay transman topic. I'm very young, 17 years, so I don't have romantic nor sexual experience at all lol. It'd be great if you share experiences of gay transman you know. Sorry for writing so much! I just had to say everything haha.
Thank you so much for the intro! I am very thankful you are watching. I have one video where I interview a gay transman-- which you may have already seen, but it's in my video collection. There needs to be many more made of course! Something that touches my heart about that video is all the cis gay men who wrote something in the comments, there was a lot of love and acceptance. I know some trans vloggers who are gay ftm, who you will soon discover if not already! I will always make more videos which will include all the topics surrounding trans and I am so happy knowing you are out there. That is what motivates me to keep doing what I do and putting out the good stuff. See if you can send me a private youtube message if you have private questions or a desire for a convo, sometimes youtube is confusing trying to figure out how to send a message, if it doesn't work let me know--- cuz I got answers for you buddy!
thanks for sharing man!
good for you bro !
Aww, thanks for all the love!
The person that made the comment that a man has to have a penis to be attracted to them. I think that is a skewed view, if this woman was married to a man to who lost his genitals to an accident would she suddenly stop loving him? I do identify as a straight woman but my love is not contingent on what is under someones clothing. I do enjoy the act of joining two bodies, that pleases me but there are a lot of ways to join two bodies :)
I was hoping that viewer would be interested in a conversation so I could understand her view point better, but she pulled the comment by her own choice shortly after posting it, I imagine she realized it sounded like a random insult on her own-- but whatever the case--- I think you are spot on with your comment there.
Could be perhaps she is just young and hasn't been through what a lot of us have. I've been through a few abusive relationships. The fact that the abusive men I was with were born with a penis didn't make everything ok and didn't make me want to stay with them despite the abuse. Genuinely kind caring men who will love their woman and not abuse her are few and far between I think, I've sure never found one. One day when one does come along whatever is under his clothing is not a factor, what is in his heart is. Hopefully more people begin to realize that :)
ClosetTransgender
lookapurplemonkey beautifully said
Very well explained. A very difficult situation for most people to understand with a real understanding rather than just cartoonish drawing thought that leads to penis=man, vagina=woman. I suppose if one thought of the sex experience as 2 separate individual sexual satisfaction experiences being shared and not the need for the key going in the slot penis/vagina scenario then it might allow one to understand the concept of a male vagina and a female penis feeling that is more likely experienced in the vice versa female vagina/male penis connection. Of course it would tend to be weird vibration wise if a straight guy or a straight woman connected with a transgender person because you have the combination sex organ wise(without surgery) that appears to be the cisgender connection but the associated feeling towards each other's sex organ could involve a feeling of dislike and not a turn on. The mechanics of the parts does cause a bit of difficulty in a public setting in which the exposure does not come with an explanation unless one is given. That is, in a jail house situation if a vagina shows up in the cell block, it is not going to be intellectually observed to be any different to some men that have rape as a prior. Or if a transgender person whips out a noticeable penis to be somehow seen in a woman's bathroom/changing room/showering room - perception for each individual will be what it will be in seeing that penis without a proper setting to explain. Lots of work to be done for the world to be on the same page when we can only judge each other by the cover with no prior contact.
I'm genderfluid, to me I am all of my genders at all times, just I experience them at different levels. For that reason all parts of me are all parts all my gender's types of parts at all times (this sentence may read kind of confusing). Even the parts that many people don't think "match," etc.
Right on, you are just using what you got and more, that's wonderful! It's a blessing and a pleasure and creates endless boundaries! Thank you for sharing your experience because these different ways of being need to be more heard & understood. Thank you for your comment.
Because you look and sound like a man, emotionally I can see you as a man.
This is just the best ❤❤
Thanks for watching! I am always happy when someone discovers one of my older videos that I like!
You are the most open person on RUclips, it's nice. No fluff, just the facts, man. I've never dated anyone Trans, but if it were to happen my biggest fear would be offending the person. I guess I wouldn't know if I should just do what I do and hope he likes it, of play 20 questions and ask about everything. "Can I do this?" "Can I touch that?" You want sex to be natural and spontaneous, but who knows what actions might trigger some discomfort. He might not even know. I suppose you both just figure it out together. Oh, and just so you know, so there's no surprises, if I ever meet you I'm gonna run at you and throw myself into your arms, you're cuter than cute :-)
*grinning* Sex is improv most of the time. There are many things that let a partner know that things are headed in the right direction-- sometimes the communication is subtle and other times things are talked about out loud. If two people are confident & into each other spontaneity is automatic and fears of triggers & mistakes are subdued. If one person is in a strange, uncomfortable or unfamiliar place-- that is when spontaneity is not as smooth, but you often tell where a person is at through body language and communication. I think the familiar moves you know would work on a transguy, and that additionally you would have an amazing experience. A win win.
So do you find that straight women are ok with your genitals overall? It would be interesting to hear a personal experience you have had. I prefer straight women as well but am really nervous about not being able to be fully open with a straight woman sexually. I started T about 3 months ago and had top surgery last month so kinda new to this.
Mr.Pickles This is an overall intro and in the next upload there will be more personal accounts as I discuss with another trans* guy. Bottom line is: the reactions of straight women will vary, but their reaction is coming from their own experiences, willingness and approach to sex. What you provide as a man is absolutely as enjoyable as any what any other man can provide, so in that sense you do not have to have worry, it's just the potential rejection or scared reaction that a girl may or may not have-- that part is something we won't know until we take the risk. The best thing you can do is learn to take risks and not let bad experiences go to your core. Stay tuned for this next video.
Mr.Pickles I am FTM and my cis girlfriend for over a year is 100% straight and she sees me fully as a man and we have sex as man and woman. She is very respectful and has told me that I am the best man she has ever been with sexually. I am not saying this to pat my own back I am telling you this because I know it can be hard but it is out there. And when you find it love and respect with all your heart and body.
Korben Ch-Pe Yeah man! That's what I am talking about share the good stuff and spread the facts. Your story is empowering and it is the story of many good transmen! I hope you love blossoms beautifully! Keep on keeping on!
Hey sorry I just saw this, no leave your video just the way it is. I really enjoy watching what you have to say there are moments you talk in a round about way but when you hit the point often you stealth words right out of my mouth. I truly am thankful for many of your video. I sure my girl is also. (That may be as I have said before you are a little bit her youtube crush) Any way great video keep doing you.
Mr.Pickles congratulations!
this is great
Thanks buddy!!!
I was going to comment ,,,,, but moved my comment to the next uploaded video !!!
Big hugs Forest.
He looks and sounds like a young Eddie Vedder.
+Nicole Robinson Hell yes, and Eddie is hot stuff! :)
+Nicole Robinson This one... s2.photobucket.com/user/jadedviolet/media/grunge/evharbak.jpg.html yes!
+Nicole Robinson And this... 41.media.tumblr.com/bc6a92ca0586c1734c21a6cd97139d86/tumblr_n5evjsWnv71seln54o1_500.jpg
I could go on but I shan't go mad haha, sorry Forest! :D
+KrisstheKrunt I don't mind! Yeah, the likeness is definitely there! It's amazing to see many shared features in those shots!
I wasn't going to comment on any of your vids until I got through all of them, but I couldn't let the Eddie Vedder-ness slide! Pearl Jam fan right here *points at self*:D
Where are you now, Forest?
goodvideo
Congrats with the hat!
So -no offense but just to make something super clear because it's late and for some reason I can't find what I want on Google -
Do Trans man penis work?
And do trans woman vaginas work?
Best regards
Answer: we all have orgasms, so that's awesome! We work! Transwoman who have vaginas, often referred to as "neo vaginas" feel to a dick like a vagina, transman have dicks of varying sizes that do not typically get hard as rock during erection, however transman can easily acquire big dick to enter a woman's vagina and the transman can cum this way, it will feel the same as a penis inside a woman. Both transman & transwoman are unable to impregnate/get pregnant this way.
+ClosetTransgender first of all thank you for your almost immediate answer you really cleared up my questions!
Secondly I've been told that a trans man's penis is able to change size on the spot (erect size obviously) and never go down is this a thing or just a myth?
P. S. I think I might have rubbed you the wrong way with using the word "work" if that's the case I apologize I just didn't know how to phrase it.
Cheers.
"Rbbed me wrong" good one! A transmans penis will become erect on the spot. It can be used for exciting shallow penetration, playing with a transman's dick feels really good, can be extended & equally awesome & result in orgasm for all. A man on the outside is often a man in the pants, just requires being open\communicating.
+ClosetTransgender uh okay... Nice one bro
Hey you ok ?
The mane playing transgender problems was boring. boring getting nowhere