He instantly shouted "foul play" to his teammates right after the ref cleared her decision. That's a captain who can deliver. Mad respect to all rugby captains out there. It's not easy to lead 15 (including self) in high intensity game
A good ref with the understanding that things can get heated in the thick of the action and a player with the humility to listen when he is wrong. I hope the game never loses this kind of interaction.
Atleast she was honest. The players will respect her for that. It does matter, and makes further interaction between that ref, and those players very easy.
The first time my nephew reffed a game I asked him how well did it go. He said he was not sure how many poor decisions he made because the players kept calling him "Sir" all the way to the end of the game!
All rugby players know that when you are spoken to by the ref it isn't a conversation. You zip it and you listen. Many sports could learn a thing or two.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude. Required a next day apology. She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
Both of them respected each other she went straight to the point and bongi responded well , she was actually complaining about other teammates not bongi listen carefully.
This is why rugby is loved globally, it is a game of chaos, played by gentlemen… she has the touch of Nigel Owens, and no matter how big these players are, they will respect the referee, because this is the culture of rugby!..👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
In the full video when she was explaining the foul play to both captains he walked away just after she started talking. That was the disrespect. Good job ref.
Im football crazy ⚽️ but they have it down to a tee with their approach to their game ref coach and all staff. "Football is a gentleman's sport played by hooligans and rugby is a hooligan sport played by gentlemen" - old saying
She sounds like me when I come across those clients that God has me helping weather they are needing medical services or mentally challenged l. Anyways, they are so full of pride and ego and literally believe they are better than others. Not my problem but I literally speak like this lady to get my boundaries across and if not respected, we have the right to refuse service and they can call another agency. I don’t put up with any disrespect for any one. God loves all people a d we are called to be better and do better and treat others with love! ❤️ I love how she stood up for herself
I love Bongi as I love all the Springboks but I do honestly observe some disrespect/ego in his demeanour at times🤧 She handled this so well, so calm and professional. I hope she goes very far in her career and maintains that professionalism and humanity even if she gets more assertive along the way.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude. Required a next day apology. She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
That monster of a guy shows more respect than all footballers put together. I love this in Rugby. Gentlemen all round.
He was actually disrespectful by Rugby standards.
The referees don't speak like that in football so don't get that treatment
yeah i bet they really care on 300k week 😂😂😂😂
@@Ross-f6gno they dont but the abuse they get is crazy
Rugby is a game of discipline. That's why they are gentlemen. 😊
So impressed with them both but her approach was brilliant.
❤❤❤❤ I agree with you. She was so calm and polite
Yep respect both ways ❤
Two amazing people ! Good communication is key. Mutual respect is vital in any situation.
She was kind than being a ref,give her raise.
Wow - she has some real character. Probably going to make a really good ref.
He instantly shouted "foul play" to his teammates right after the ref cleared her decision. That's a captain who can deliver. Mad respect to all rugby captains out there. It's not easy to lead 15 (including self) in high intensity game
A great example of listening and understanding..🙏🙏
That is the most polite way I've ever heard a referee tell a captain that they were sick of their shit.....lol
Fair play Ref.
Totally out of context
Damn some people are unbelievable.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I feel for some
You are very lost
Emotional beings, I will leave it at that.
A good ref with the understanding that things can get heated in the thick of the action and a player with the humility to listen when he is wrong.
I hope the game never loses this kind of interaction.
Well said friend 👍
Don't let the french play against the english😅
BLACK PPL HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR RESPECT FOR HOW LONG NOW……??
BLACK PPL HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR RESPECT FOR HOW LONG NOW……??
she handled that well
She shouldn't be refereeing a male rugby game
She didn't handle the match well
Kudos to this awesome lady. Love you mom.❤❤❤🙏
She’s a big unit
This is beautiful communication.
Fair enough lady. Can't argue with that.
Not afraid to admit they have played more than she's been a ref.. But she's still the ref and in charge.. 💪
Atleast she was honest. The players will respect her for that. It does matter, and makes further interaction between that ref, and those players very easy.
The first time my nephew reffed a game I asked him how well did it go. He said he was not sure how many poor decisions he made because the players kept calling him "Sir" all the way to the end of the game!
Rugby is just different from a respect level all round than most contact sports.
Rugby ref's are the only respected ref's in any code 👍🏽
Any sport
Any game.
That’s what I was thinking
Cricket empires too and their match referees
She is gonna go far,very polite and calm and direct❤❤❤❤
Handled better than veteran refs. 👏 👏 👏
Discipline from both parties ❤
Mate. Referee is a person that shows and needs respect. No matter the genre.
Gender?
@@kalaharikreef7371not these days mate, don’t risk it 😂
It wasn't about the genre here... it was about the cap difference between the ref and players 👌
@@bobolinkr😂😂😂😂😂
All rugby players know that when you are spoken to by the ref it isn't a conversation. You zip it and you listen. Many sports could learn a thing or two.
Great reffing
Well done both.
Fantastic refereeing
Wow! What a mutual respect from a Bongie and Ref.❤❤❤❤
She is a nice woman give her respect as all women deserve they will give it back
That's rugby for you the guys always respect the ref despite their massive size even when the ref is a bit hash it's always good
This is why I love rugby 😊❤
Magnificent interaction.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude.
Required a next day apology.
She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
Both of them respected each other she went straight to the point and bongi responded well , she was actually complaining about other teammates not bongi listen carefully.
little moment like this is example of humanity at its best- this 60sec can stop a war!
Ok with that statement alone she got my respect!!
This is beautiful❤ he put the brakes on that big fella😂 he had no choice but to listen. I love it.
They look good together
This is why South Africa is the best
Well done to both ref and player. ' Rugby Culture'
She was amazing and she defuse the situation and both gain mutual respect
Lol 😂Bongy always in trouble but at the same time always shows great respect
Where is he in trouble? He is the captain and the captain soly are allowed to speak to the Reff. That's whythe re only talks to him..
There’s an old saying that I love “football’s a gentleman’s game played by Hooligans and rugby is a hooligans game played by gentlemen”
Aussies are wholesome people
These are South Africans
These are south africans
😂😂 That's a funny generalization (even if these were Aussies). I know a bunch of Aussies who would laugh and say They are far from that
When she put her hands on her chest and said "that will be very appreciated". Wow so amazing ❤
This is amazing. What a humble ref❤❤❤❤
Her humility was great actually, but with all honesty, she DOESN'T belong there.
Same
RESPECT, LOVE IT!!!
Not just the players but the fans too.. this amount of respect would never happen in a footy match
Rugby ref is such a hard job and the players know that. Without refs the game is chaos
They deserve the respect
Beautiful, just beautiful, love it.
She was very respectful and professional
I love the way how she ask for respect and how he received her request and walks off taping the area and shouts “foul play” without argument
I totally agree respect her 👌🏾
Respect all round there.
That’s why we love rugby
The only way to successfully discipline a player as a referee.
This is amazing to watch
Very polite 😊
Trained ref, dedicated to her profession.
dats why I luv rugby!
Great reffing there
Well done ref
This here is a great example of handling a complicated situation as the Authority
This is why rugby is loved globally, it is a game of chaos, played by gentlemen… she has the touch of Nigel Owens, and no matter how big these players are, they will respect the referee, because this is the culture of rugby!..👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
He wasn't saying anything disrespectful, he was just speaking in Afrikaans.
He threw shade at her 🤫🤡
The female ref also speaks afrikaans she's from cape town
@@TomasGerhardusSmith I think you're missing the joke.
@darthmong7196 nothing was funny were is the joke
In the full video when she was explaining the foul play to both captains he walked away just after she started talking. That was the disrespect. Good job ref.
Im football crazy ⚽️ but they have it down to a tee with their approach to their game ref coach and all staff.
"Football is a gentleman's sport played by hooligans and rugby is a hooligan sport played by gentlemen" - old saying
Best one on one with the Ref 🔥
That dry swallow 😅😅 it took a lot for her to stand up to him.💪
The Referee 💯percent👌🏿 The Team Captain 💯percent🤝🏿
Love rugby ❤❤
I love her.
She’s classic and classy
Thats our next Springbok Rugby captain - bets
She sounds like me when I come across those clients that God has me helping weather they are needing medical services or mentally challenged l. Anyways, they are so full of pride and ego and literally believe they are better than others. Not my problem but I literally speak like this lady to get my boundaries across and if not respected, we have the right to refuse service and they can call another agency. I don’t put up with any disrespect for any one. God loves all people a d we are called to be better and do better and treat others with love! ❤️ I love how she stood up for herself
Thanks for being adults and not highschool students ❤💪🏿💯
You must be confused with football, this is rugby and all communications with the ref is like this.
@@zohan4394
Nope didn't know that. Thanks for the tip.
She handled it 🎉
Awesome ref! Pragmatic!!!
This is what no ego looks like 🔥
Fair play she’s made for this job
Maybe the NRL players should have a watch of this and see how they handle their female referees.
Excellent. Respect shown, and given back 😀Nicely done 😀
I like the way he has nothing to do with her experience or lack thereof and is only concerned with the rule of play.
Yes actually,he didn't take her up on that🤔
What a ref!
Respect ref
The thinking man's game❤
That's the way you demand respect you drive your point across by giving respect
well handled by the ref, but unfortunately she had a shocker of a performance that day too...
I love Bongi as I love all the Springboks but I do honestly observe some disrespect/ego in his demeanour at times🤧 She handled this so well, so calm and professional. I hope she goes very far in her career and maintains that professionalism and humanity even if she gets more assertive along the way.
I respect her
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude.
Required a next day apology.
She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
She reminds me of Joe West.
Fantastic!!
Well played !
Great scene
Massive respect to the ref...she has bigger balls than all these guys in the field 😅
Why because she does her job? She’s not in any danger and Rugby is a respectable sport. You simps are hilarious.
@@RevealedFilmsYup
Respect Ref!
Job well done by both.👌
Respect is earned for both male and female referees my friend.
that's not how rugby is. Ive played with refs I haven't met before and always, every player pays due respect . it's the rugby code
Respect ❤
Well said love AWESOME ❤
The referee is the judge, jury and executioner in rugby full stop.
Gentlemen 100%❤
OUSTANDING 🎉
Well handled Mam!
Why can’t we have this in football