Audrey, I follow you since you were celebrating 5K subscribers and I can tell you that you are the only channel I am never tired of! Keep going girl! We love you.
Hello Audrey. New subscriber here! I wanted to take a moment to thank you. I’ve been binge-watching your videos, and noticed that they’re very inclusive. As a POC, it feels great to see people who look like me represented in your videos. What’s funny is that I wasn’t aware of the lack of such representation on similar channels until I started watching your videos. I guess it’s something that I’ve grown accustomed to. Anyway, just wanted to say thank so much for your lovely videos.
These are great tips, Audrey. As a teacher and in my previous career as an advertising executive, it is important to avoid saying "like" and "um" a lot when speaking. Self-awareness is so key! Your cat is adorable!
" You never get a second chance to make a first impression . " This was my mantra for my students & myself for decades while showing horses ; upon entering the show ring , the entrant will have approx. 30 sec. of individual time to make that first positive ( winning ) impression on the judge ! Think of it as an experience like running for office or trying to clinch that job interview , but on a thousand lb. horse ! 😂
Wow. This was so eye opening! You actually look like a different person in the before examples. Thanks for this video. Schools should show this to teen agers going into the work force.
To these great, practical tips I'd like to add another: these tips are pretty specific to the US. It's worth doing more homework if you're meeting people outside the US or the person you're meeting isn't American. For example, there are cultures where smiling when being introduced to someone is seen as a sign of intellectual disability or smarmy salesmanship. Body language and etiquette about what questions are impolite, and who extends a hand first, are also culture specific. Audrey's physical communication in these clips is perfect for the US.
I totally agree that these are tips that are actually more North American. There are many cultures where even eye contact especially between self identified male and female are not “appropriate”. Hence no those seeking employment in North America and will be interviewed really need to understand and obtain coaching tips such as the ones Audrey presented.🇨🇦
I also think body language is so important. Watching you, your arms are open, even behind your back sometimes and this is so welcoming. So many people stand or sit with crossed arms. You also don't "talk" with your hands too much, and you are not constantly touching your face or hair or the shirt you are wearing. Good, basic tips with very helpful visual examples. Thank you.
Brilliant tips and I loved the side-by-side contrast on the first 3 - although you looked like you were struggling not to smile in the 'non smiling' one 😄I found the eye contact one particularly striking - it's something I'm quite bad at, but noticing how shifty you looked when you weren't making eye contact has made me detemined to try harder.
I've notice that so many young people do not make eye contact whether it's a brief encounter w/ a sales person or even while I try to engage in a friendly conversation w/ a friend's teenager / young adult . Being a baby boomer , I'm thinking this is a generational thing , perhaps too much screen time , not enough social interaction , and / or lack of parental training in manners . 🥰
@@cynthiajohnston424 I'm starting to notice this a lot as well.... It's far and between when I'm able to hold a positive or not awkward interaction with someone who's in a younger generation in my line of work. It seems as if generational differences are only part of the issue though, because I've come across customers in my generation or even older who couldn't care less about my presence, or perhaps they're just too involved with some other conversation. I digress, however.... 5+ years of retail has kind of jaded me when it comes to customer interactions.
@@AudreyCoyne it's so hard as soon as you know you can't! It reminds me of the guy who used to do our school photos - we'd all be too shy to smile at the camera, so he'd tell us that it was really, really important we looked serious for our photo - and of course, we couldn't stop grinning then!
@@cynthiajohnston424 not always screen time - we didn't even have a television when I was growing up! But we were also raised not to 'put ourselves forward' or be 'pushy', and I think that backfired in some cases, as we ended up staring at the floor so as not to appear too cocky!
@AudreyCoyne This video is a great reminder for me since I am currently on job hunt. Though I think some tips dont match every culture. E.g. eye contact is considered impolite in some cultures. My experience in German culture is that smilng without an obvious reason can be considered as if someone is trying too hard to be liked, especially in a formal situation like a job interview. Neverthless I will try to smile more in the next job interview. Maybe it will have a positive impact. You never know when you dont try. 🤞
Really enjoyed this! so helpful to see the visuals of the slumped posture and no eye contact next to the straight posture and eye contact :) another tip I'm trying to implement is to follow up on a question about them with a deeper dive into it (what did you get at that restaurant? what did you like about that book?) instead of bringing up your own experience first (it can come later!)
Great video! I have read many resumes and cover letters in my career and one overly used line is "attention to detail". When I have interviewed someone that had made that statement, I will notice if they have paid attention to their manicure (unclean, chewed or jagged nails and/or chipped polish), if shoes are scuffed or unclean, or if the outfit is clean and /or pressed. Last but not least, if they were on time or early for the interview. I have had quite the laugh when I have seen Tik Tok posts where people have vented about a potential employer not providing accommodations or "pass" to be on time. LOL
I am a happy person, when you met or see me I am always happy and able. Most people don't like me because of it, little do they know the journey i had to feel happy. But its ok i rather be that happer person than that snobby person. ❤
Hello Audrey, thank you for your time and tips. Unfortunately, I have a hard time looking people in the eyes and I suspect I may be on the spectrum, so usually look between people's eyebrows. I don't know if people have noticed it, if so no one has ever commented on it. I really enjoy listening to your voice and wanted to know if you have any tips to make your speech more elegant.
As always, I love your videos. I'm so glad you mentioned eye contact. I have been noticing a lot of people are slacking in that department, especially the younger crowd. People do not feel fully present without eye contact.
Hey I always appreciate your videos and the sound advice you give. Saw you at a lake upstate last weekend but didn’t want to bother or make you feel uncomfortable 😅. Hope you had a good hike!
I remember my first job interview at 17 - a tiny office at a pizza place, the interviewer and I were practically bumping knees! I was staring aggressively into the soul of the poor guy, who was obviously very unsettled by that. LOL Needless to say, somebody else got the job 😁
In my country almost nobody smalling that`s why only this makes strong first impression (and not always positive because it is something strange in a lot of cases ).
You are such a darling ❤ Maybe I would add to pay attention to your voice and to the speed of speaking. Slowing down on a job interview is better that talking too much because you are nervous. Even lowering your voice instead of going up - you’ll be taken more seriously.
Another tip. (You’re not doing this Audrey, btw). Don’t giggle or snigger or make a wobbling laughing sound when you are speaking, or after every sentence. Unless you are talking about something extremely funny in which case you probably can’t help it.
Hair length and style. Good video but your hair as beautiful as it is distracts from your presentation. I have long hair too but I don’t wear it down all the time and not in some professional settings. Just something to consider ❤
Thank you so much for watching! ❤️❤️
Audrey, I follow you since you were celebrating 5K subscribers and I can tell you that you are the only channel I am never tired of! Keep going girl! We love you.
Your cat matches your outfit. Now THAT’S personal presentation!
Hello Audrey. New subscriber here! I wanted to take a moment to thank you. I’ve been binge-watching your videos, and noticed that they’re very inclusive. As a POC, it feels great to see people who look like me represented in your videos. What’s funny is that I wasn’t aware of the lack of such representation on similar channels until I started watching your videos. I guess it’s something that I’ve grown accustomed to. Anyway, just wanted to say thank so much for your lovely videos.
These are great tips, Audrey. As a teacher and in my previous career as an advertising executive, it is important to avoid saying "like" and "um" a lot when speaking. Self-awareness is so key! Your cat is adorable!
That’s like such good advice.
" You never get a second chance to make a first impression . " This was my mantra for my students & myself for decades while showing horses ; upon entering the show ring , the entrant will have approx. 30 sec. of individual time to make that first positive ( winning ) impression on the judge ! Think of it as an experience like running for office or trying to clinch that job interview , but on a thousand lb. horse ! 😂
Wow. This was so eye opening! You actually look like a different person in the before examples. Thanks for this video. Schools should show this to teen agers going into the work force.
I'm an introvert, so I'm not good in social settings, these are great tips. Thank you!
Love the cat
To these great, practical tips I'd like to add another: these tips are pretty specific to the US. It's worth doing more homework if you're meeting people outside the US or the person you're meeting isn't American. For example, there are cultures where smiling when being introduced to someone is seen as a sign of intellectual disability or smarmy salesmanship. Body language and etiquette about what questions are impolite, and who extends a hand first, are also culture specific. Audrey's physical communication in these clips is perfect for the US.
they're valid for the majority of European countries as well, so it's not just the US, but the western culture in general
I totally agree that these are tips that are actually more North American. There are many cultures where even eye contact especially between self identified male and female are not “appropriate”. Hence no those seeking employment in North America and will be interviewed really need to understand and obtain coaching tips such as the ones Audrey presented.🇨🇦
I also think body language is so important. Watching you, your arms are open, even behind your back sometimes and this is so welcoming. So many people stand or sit with crossed arms. You also don't "talk" with your hands too much, and you are not constantly touching your face or hair or the shirt you are wearing. Good, basic tips with very helpful visual examples. Thank you.
Brilliant tips and I loved the side-by-side contrast on the first 3 - although you looked like you were struggling not to smile in the 'non smiling' one 😄I found the eye contact one particularly striking - it's something I'm quite bad at, but noticing how shifty you looked when you weren't making eye contact has made me detemined to try harder.
Lol I was struggling so hard not to laugh hahaha
I've notice that so many young people do not make eye contact whether it's a brief encounter w/ a sales person or even while I try to engage in a friendly conversation w/ a friend's teenager / young adult . Being a baby boomer , I'm thinking this is a generational thing , perhaps too much screen time , not enough social interaction , and / or lack of parental training in manners . 🥰
@@cynthiajohnston424 I'm starting to notice this a lot as well.... It's far and between when I'm able to hold a positive or not awkward interaction with someone who's in a younger generation in my line of work. It seems as if generational differences are only part of the issue though, because I've come across customers in my generation or even older who couldn't care less about my presence, or perhaps they're just too involved with some other conversation. I digress, however.... 5+ years of retail has kind of jaded me when it comes to customer interactions.
@@AudreyCoyne it's so hard as soon as you know you can't! It reminds me of the guy who used to do our school photos - we'd all be too shy to smile at the camera, so he'd tell us that it was really, really important we looked serious for our photo - and of course, we couldn't stop grinning then!
@@cynthiajohnston424 not always screen time - we didn't even have a television when I was growing up! But we were also raised not to 'put ourselves forward' or be 'pushy', and I think that backfired in some cases, as we ended up staring at the floor so as not to appear too cocky!
@AudreyCoyne This video is a great reminder for me since I am currently on job hunt. Though I think some tips dont match every culture. E.g. eye contact is considered impolite in some cultures. My experience in German culture is that smilng without an obvious reason can be considered as if someone is trying too hard to be liked, especially in a formal situation like a job interview. Neverthless I will try to smile more in the next job interview. Maybe it will have a positive impact. You never know when you dont try. 🤞
What perfect timing! I have an important job interview tomorrow that I’ve been super worried about. Thank you so much💗
You are right. Body language is so important. Your smile is amazing. 🥰
Really enjoyed this! so helpful to see the visuals of the slumped posture and no eye contact next to the straight posture and eye contact :) another tip I'm trying to implement is to follow up on a question about them with a deeper dive into it (what did you get at that restaurant? what did you like about that book?) instead of bringing up your own experience first (it can come later!)
Audrey, thank you for a great presentation. Your use of photo imagery was perfect. Your kitty cat is a star! Thank you. Pete
I love how your kitty came to give their approval of the outfit. ❤
Great video! I have read many resumes and cover letters in my career and one overly used line is "attention to detail". When I have interviewed someone that had made that statement, I will notice if they have paid attention to their manicure (unclean, chewed or jagged nails and/or chipped polish), if shoes are scuffed or unclean, or if the outfit is clean and /or pressed. Last but not least, if they were on time or early for the interview. I have had quite the laugh when I have seen Tik Tok posts where people have vented about a potential employer not providing accommodations or "pass" to be on time. LOL
I am a happy person, when you met or see me I am always happy and able. Most people don't like me because of it, little do they know the journey i had to feel happy. But its ok i rather be that happer person than that snobby person. ❤
Can't thank you enough for these tips! 😃
My personal tip and contribution would be to try outfit in avance and to go for darker colours if formal.🤓
Hello Audrey, thank you for your time and tips. Unfortunately, I have a hard time looking people in the eyes and I suspect I may be on the spectrum, so usually look between people's eyebrows. I don't know if people have noticed it, if so no one has ever commented on it. I really enjoy listening to your voice and wanted to know if you have any tips to make your speech more elegant.
Thank you so much for sharing😊❤🙏
I really agree with you on these tips. I would also add to be polite example, always say "please and thank you".
Your voice is like magic! Thank you for sharing life skills with us.
Love your shirt Audrey.
As always, I love your videos. I'm so glad you mentioned eye contact. I have been noticing a lot of people are slacking in that department, especially the younger crowd. People do not feel fully present without eye contact.
I really love this video! Thank you
Great tips, thank you Audrey. You look lovely in that shirt...
I love your soothing voice and warm eyes!
Very good vidéo ! There should be more like this! Thank you Audrey @
Great video !! Can you please link the black dress you are wearing in the video ?
OMG❤ your black cat is so cute ❤❤❤
Hey I always appreciate your videos and the sound advice you give. Saw you at a lake upstate last weekend but didn’t want to bother or make you feel uncomfortable 😅. Hope you had a good hike!
Very good advice and descriptions.
Thank you for this gorgeous and very helpful tips.And,you look always very chic and i love your pleasant and nice voice.😍
I love your cat!
I remember my first job interview at 17 - a tiny office at a pizza place, the interviewer and I were practically bumping knees! I was staring aggressively into the soul of the poor guy, who was obviously very unsettled by that. LOL Needless to say, somebody else got the job 😁
Regarding initial conversation, do not talk about sexuality, money or politics. My father, the banker, taught me this before I enter my teens.
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Hiiii. How can I find my foundation shade???
I recommend going into Sephora and asking for a shade match but get a sample before you buy the full size and try it in natural daylight ❤️
Where is your shirt from?? :)
It’s from Zara! I bought it in store last week www.zara.com/us/en/poplin-shirt-p04387036.html?v1=283099956&v2=2290933
In my country almost nobody smalling that`s why only this makes strong first impression (and not always positive because it is something strange in a lot of cases ).
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Nice I Love you❤💖🌹👍💐
Where is your stripped shirt from? 😍
But what do i do with my hands?
@AudreyCoyne Why are your shirt’s cuffs so huge? Is this a new trend?
You are such a darling ❤
Maybe I would add to pay attention to your voice and to the speed of speaking. Slowing down on a job interview is better that talking too much because you are nervous. Even lowering your voice instead of going up - you’ll be taken more seriously.
This is so huge for me. I have always been told Speak Up and Slow Down. I'm almost 60 now, someday I'll get it down.
I have terrible posture
Another tip. (You’re not doing this Audrey, btw). Don’t giggle or snigger or make a wobbling laughing sound when you are speaking, or after every sentence. Unless you are talking about something extremely funny in which case you probably can’t help it.
Did you just move?
Hair length and style. Good video but your hair as beautiful as it is distracts from your presentation. I have long hair too but I don’t wear it down all the time and not in some professional settings. Just something to consider ❤